The most challenging part of my sprint triathlon last weekend had nothing to do with physical endurance, although I did feel like I was going to fall off my heavy mountain bike loaded with Gatorade several times as I headed...
Therese, thanks for making me smile and brightening my day. God bless you.
Anonymous
June 21, 2007 3:53 PM
great story...wonderful that you can laugh at it and take it for wht it is worth...and congrats on completing the race!!
Jen
June 21, 2007 4:46 PM
Therese - Not to insult your issues (everybody has some) but, I often wonder with as many different diagnoses, compulsions, and mentalities as you categorize yourself with, if what you truly have is "psychology student syndrome." Thanks for keeping everyone informed with the varieties!
SuzanneWA
June 21, 2007 4:59 PM
Therese, your story made me wonder if you and MONK went to the same "school" (pardon the pun), when it comes to obsessing about situations that most people wouldn't give a darn about! Although I have not been given the diagnosis of OCD, as a bipolar, I have experienced panic attacks for no discernable reason, over little things that normally wouldn't phase me.
I'd use familiar terms like "focus" and "concentrate" instead of compulsion when dealing with those nagging worries that happen to the best of us. Although there is no "cure" for OCD or bipolar, we CAN "maintain" through a situation and complete the task ahead of us.
I think you ARE a "big mermaid" for finishing the race, and giving us all a great laugh at your own expense! Thanx for the chuckle!
Mrs. ELois Poole-Clayton
June 21, 2007 5:04 PM
Congratulations! You have the patients of JOB, for if you didn't, you would have sanked like Peter, and I commend you for having it. GOD bless you continuously!
Rebecca Donovan
June 21, 2007 5:48 PM
I found this article to be one of the funniest things I've read in a long time. I don't have OCD, but work with people who do. It's nice to be able to laugh at some of this from a distance, because it's not fun to work with....
Nancy
June 21, 2007 7:06 PM
Therese,
I have to commend you for all the different experiences you get yourself through just by finding the laughter in the situation as you push on to complete the task at hand.
Like yourself, I have to talk myself through many things just to get the job done and can look back later at it and find the humor in it.
As for Jen's comments about having "psychology student snydrome" don't worry about. We all have many varieties of illnesses and many of them overlap...it is just a case of which one cares to manafest at any given time.
I've only been reading your blog the last few months but it does wonders for making me realize I am not alone with my depression, alcoholism, etc.
God Bless,
Nancy
Valerie
June 22, 2007 3:45 AM
Therese, I had never read your blog before, but as someone with OCD, I really enjoyed reading this. Your humor with your situation makes me have hope for my own OCD....it's so hard to cope with, but you give me hope. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us all. God bless you. :-)
Karen
June 22, 2007 6:28 AM
Great story, I really enjoyed it. I don't have OCD but do have periods of depression but humor even on my darkest days has gotten me through(along with some meds and other things). But I do believe the ability to put a twist on things especailly about the illness that we have is a really great survival skill
Hazel, Orlando
June 22, 2007 8:06 AM
Too funny!! Ditto on all of the comments that I've read so far about this article. Being able to laugh (and make others laugh) and share, about your problems (whether psychotic or otherwise) is, perhaps, the greatest therapy anyone can have. As a matter of fact, from reading your article, I think you're HEALED!! If you truly had OCD, no way could you get in the MUDDY pond and ride with the SMELLY fish. YOU'RE HEALED!!! Keep um keeping. I love to laugh!!
Jill
June 22, 2007 9:14 AM
Therese, As a person with mild OCD that shows up mainly when I'm really stressed, I can truly appreciate your story. For you to come through it and see the humor in all of it was wonderful to read about. Thank you for a truly inspiring, humorous story.
Cassandra
June 22, 2007 9:46 AM
Therese, I wonder if you know how truly generous of spirit you are.
Thank you for sharing...
Donna C. Matthews
June 22, 2007 10:12 AM
Therese,
Thanks for sharing! I don't mind getting dirty, or smelly at all, well, maybe a little; however, I am terrified of my friends and relatives having car accidents. I know everyone is a little anxious about their relatives when they are traveling on the highway, but every night when my son drives home from work, I suffer from anxiety attacks! And every time my Mother drives to the grocery store I am on edge and imagine terrible things happening until she has safely returned.
I also am terrified of heights, the house burning down, and similar things like that.
I've actually not told anyone this before!
Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone!
Anonymous
June 22, 2007 10:54 AM
Therese, I laugh out loud at most of your stories, but this one was a classic. I love the way you write! I ran for years but suffered an injury recently, so I'm slowly getting back into it. However, I don't think I could ever do a triathalon, so you go girl!
Victoria
June 22, 2007 3:08 PM
Therese,
I USED to be somewhat OCD, until a couple of step children cured me. I guess you could say that I had no choice as I realized how miserable I made them, hubby, and most of all myself! Now that I have become an official "laid back person" my karma has caught up with me...I am now on the RECEIVING END of this treatment (and I thought I'd just be a happily relaxed laid back girl!). I have to say...these people make me truly miserable! Especially my micro managing boss. The sad thing about her is that she really doesn't see me for who I am, my contributions I make, my happy clients. Nope. She's far more interested in chasing miniscule petty details that don't mean squat. I find that that is all OCD people will ever know about me. Not what I've done for the environment, my kids, my life. No, they just remember my bad hair days, static cling, and that piece of lint on my lapel. The movie "Because I Said So" covers this hysterically...a must see for OCD people and their victims.
lady of light
June 23, 2007 8:58 AM
Teresa - you are a true overcomer and I love your sense of humor. It is so good when we can learn to laugh at ourselves. Your commitment to "Focus" (keep swimming) is a great contribution for those of us who do get sidetracked by other issues in the journey of life. I truly enjoyed your story.
judy
June 23, 2007 12:14 PM
Your story was funny! Since I have OCD and I don't have a mild case, I deal with the things that I'm fearful of sometimes good and sometimes not so good. It's tough!! But I feel like I've accomplished alot. Thanks.
Robin Hummingbird Songs
June 24, 2007 11:12 AM
This story had me laughing so hard I sent it to several friends, laughing with you though, not at you.
Karen M. Harvey
June 26, 2007 9:34 PM
Therese,
I always enjoy your columns. They make me smile and help to put being human into perspective.
Anonymous
June 28, 2007 6:54 AM
What is OCD
Sonya
June 28, 2007 11:53 AM
I would just like to say that this story was great... Great Inspiration, and A Great Big Smile! Thank You so much for sharing. I believe I do have some undiagnosed issues and this gives me the Hope I need at times to make it through some of the things that often stand in my way, along my designated path. Thank You!! May God Bless You ALWAYS and in EVERYTHING!
lauri
June 28, 2007 1:31 PM
Hi there, Last night as my 11 yr old son is playing before bed he was going threw his back steps Imsure you know those,I told him ok sweetie letyourself know its ok to leave it be all is good, as im laying there trying to go to sleep thinking pls God give him peace, I awke and find the email with your story in it this morn :) I am going to save this for him for a later date,In thinkit's important for people toknow there are others (normal great people0 whogothrewthe ocd moments, andIm notpositive but I really believe that it happens to peoplewhoare very caring sensitive seems to hit them harder ya know ? well Blessings and thanks for the story :0
Bev. :)
June 28, 2007 2:14 PM
Therese,
Absolutely loved your commentary on the experience with your triatholon and "friend", OCD. I could definately relate to it...I was diagnosed with panic disorder about 7 years ago at age 40. Wow...I would have never guessed that something like that would occur in my life. I have also found that my greatest ally is a sense of humor and to be able to look at many of the challenges through the lens of comedy!
Because I traveled many years of my life without the difficulty, at the onset, I remember feeling, "Where did I go?" I was an athlete, quite a "dare-devil", a college coach, and an associate professor. Many probably considered me to be incredibly self-sufficient and courageous. Within a fairly short period of time...it took all the courage that I could "muster" to walk out of my apartment.
I now tend to see how it's all been a bit of a blessing. It's much easier to come from the perspective of compassion, patience, and kindness. It's also become a necessity to strengthen that muscle of good humor!!
I just feel so happy for you that you are also able to do the same. Sometimes the little things can make life just a bit easier! As you can see by the responses, people find your writing and humor to be so entertaining :). As for "psychology student syndrome"...well, as I'm sure you know...it can be very difficult for people to understand if they have not experienced such a thing. Ten years ago, I might have said the same thing...I kind of just thought that people needed to "buck up". So...panic disorder was exactly what I may have needed in order to bring me more into the human realm and off my pedestal!! ha!
Finally, I do sometimes wonder if the true disorder these days is to live without anxiety!! This world is spinning awfully fast...seems more natural and "normal" for a human to have some difficulties with it all!
Thanks so much for sharing...
Peace and Blessings,
Bev. :)
Katie
June 28, 2007 3:23 PM
That is a wonderful story, I am glad you are able to laugh at this and share your stories with others. Good Luck in future races.
RESTLESS IN FLORIDA
June 29, 2007 5:12 PM
I THOUGHT THAT YOUR STORY WAS VERY WONDERFUL.IT FEELS GREAT TO KNOW THAT I'M NOT ALONE WITH THIS TYPE OF ILLNESS. I WAS ALSO DIAGNOSED WITH OCD AND PANIC DISORDER AND I CAN'T BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH YOU SOUND LIKE ME.I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY KEEP ON WITH THE FIGHT AND LET GOD BE YOUR LIGHT.
Cathy
June 30, 2007 6:44 PM
I read this story and said "oh my goodness, that's me"
I was diagnosed with OCD/anxiety disorder. And that's pretty much what it can sound like in my head (on a good day).
The best thing I ever did was to get into therapy. Harder work than taking drugs, but it's doable-I don't have panic attacks. People now see me as laid back and calm, if they only knew how much work it took to get there.
Thanks for sharing.
Eric C. Hernandez
July 1, 2007 12:05 AM
Therese,
I thought your letter was funny and it had me kinda trippin' on the way you reacted to the fish in the pond. I used to have a case of OCD when I was in a recovery place. It was a compulsion to take cold showers like for an hour straight 3 times a day or even in one night!
Half of OCD is delusions. I thinki the idea of taking the cold showers were a mixture of stress and delusional thinking. I knew I was keeping myself clean moreso in the spiritual sense than the physical sense. It is like a comfort issue too. Once I was out of the cold shower I had either come to my senses in some way shape or form, plus it felt good to get in a warm bed and I could sleep better.
You had me going even though I never was diagnosed as OCD.
Judy
July 2, 2007 11:23 AM
My favorite line is "But I can’t ride 14.2 miles with a dead Nemo in my pants!"
Thank you so much for the humorous look at OCD!
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Therese, thanks for making me smile and brightening my day. God bless you.
great story...wonderful that you can laugh at it and take it for wht it is worth...and congrats on completing the race!!
Therese - Not to insult your issues (everybody has some) but, I often wonder with as many different diagnoses, compulsions, and mentalities as you categorize yourself with, if what you truly have is "psychology student syndrome." Thanks for keeping everyone informed with the varieties!
Therese, your story made me wonder if you and MONK went to the same "school" (pardon the pun), when it comes to obsessing about situations that most people wouldn't give a darn about! Although I have not been given the diagnosis of OCD, as a bipolar, I have experienced panic attacks for no discernable reason, over little things that normally wouldn't phase me.
I'd use familiar terms like "focus" and "concentrate" instead of compulsion when dealing with those nagging worries that happen to the best of us. Although there is no "cure" for OCD or bipolar, we CAN "maintain" through a situation and complete the task ahead of us.
I think you ARE a "big mermaid" for finishing the race, and giving us all a great laugh at your own expense! Thanx for the chuckle!
Congratulations! You have the patients of JOB, for if you didn't, you would have sanked like Peter, and I commend you for having it. GOD bless you continuously!
I found this article to be one of the funniest things I've read in a long time. I don't have OCD, but work with people who do. It's nice to be able to laugh at some of this from a distance, because it's not fun to work with....
Therese,
I have to commend you for all the different experiences you get yourself through just by finding the laughter in the situation as you push on to complete the task at hand.
Like yourself, I have to talk myself through many things just to get the job done and can look back later at it and find the humor in it.
As for Jen's comments about having "psychology student snydrome" don't worry about. We all have many varieties of illnesses and many of them overlap...it is just a case of which one cares to manafest at any given time.
I've only been reading your blog the last few months but it does wonders for making me realize I am not alone with my depression, alcoholism, etc.
God Bless,
Nancy
Therese, I had never read your blog before, but as someone with OCD, I really enjoyed reading this. Your humor with your situation makes me have hope for my own OCD....it's so hard to cope with, but you give me hope. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us all. God bless you. :-)
Great story, I really enjoyed it. I don't have OCD but do have periods of depression but humor even on my darkest days has gotten me through(along with some meds and other things). But I do believe the ability to put a twist on things especailly about the illness that we have is a really great survival skill
Too funny!! Ditto on all of the comments that I've read so far about this article. Being able to laugh (and make others laugh) and share, about your problems (whether psychotic or otherwise) is, perhaps, the greatest therapy anyone can have. As a matter of fact, from reading your article, I think you're HEALED!! If you truly had OCD, no way could you get in the MUDDY pond and ride with the SMELLY fish. YOU'RE HEALED!!! Keep um keeping. I love to laugh!!
Therese, As a person with mild OCD that shows up mainly when I'm really stressed, I can truly appreciate your story. For you to come through it and see the humor in all of it was wonderful to read about. Thank you for a truly inspiring, humorous story.
Therese, I wonder if you know how truly generous of spirit you are.
Thank you for sharing...
Therese,
Thanks for sharing! I don't mind getting dirty, or smelly at all, well, maybe a little; however, I am terrified of my friends and relatives having car accidents. I know everyone is a little anxious about their relatives when they are traveling on the highway, but every night when my son drives home from work, I suffer from anxiety attacks! And every time my Mother drives to the grocery store I am on edge and imagine terrible things happening until she has safely returned.
I also am terrified of heights, the house burning down, and similar things like that.
I've actually not told anyone this before!
Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone!
Therese, I laugh out loud at most of your stories, but this one was a classic. I love the way you write! I ran for years but suffered an injury recently, so I'm slowly getting back into it. However, I don't think I could ever do a triathalon, so you go girl!
Therese,
I USED to be somewhat OCD, until a couple of step children cured me. I guess you could say that I had no choice as I realized how miserable I made them, hubby, and most of all myself! Now that I have become an official "laid back person" my karma has caught up with me...I am now on the RECEIVING END of this treatment (and I thought I'd just be a happily relaxed laid back girl!). I have to say...these people make me truly miserable! Especially my micro managing boss. The sad thing about her is that she really doesn't see me for who I am, my contributions I make, my happy clients. Nope. She's far more interested in chasing miniscule petty details that don't mean squat. I find that that is all OCD people will ever know about me. Not what I've done for the environment, my kids, my life. No, they just remember my bad hair days, static cling, and that piece of lint on my lapel. The movie "Because I Said So" covers this hysterically...a must see for OCD people and their victims.
Teresa - you are a true overcomer and I love your sense of humor. It is so good when we can learn to laugh at ourselves. Your commitment to "Focus" (keep swimming) is a great contribution for those of us who do get sidetracked by other issues in the journey of life. I truly enjoyed your story.
Your story was funny! Since I have OCD and I don't have a mild case, I deal with the things that I'm fearful of sometimes good and sometimes not so good. It's tough!! But I feel like I've accomplished alot. Thanks.
This story had me laughing so hard I sent it to several friends, laughing with you though, not at you.
Therese,
I always enjoy your columns. They make me smile and help to put being human into perspective.
What is OCD
I would just like to say that this story was great... Great Inspiration, and A Great Big Smile! Thank You so much for sharing. I believe I do have some undiagnosed issues and this gives me the Hope I need at times to make it through some of the things that often stand in my way, along my designated path. Thank You!! May God Bless You ALWAYS and in EVERYTHING!
Hi there, Last night as my 11 yr old son is playing before bed he was going threw his back steps Imsure you know those,I told him ok sweetie letyourself know its ok to leave it be all is good, as im laying there trying to go to sleep thinking pls God give him peace, I awke and find the email with your story in it this morn :) I am going to save this for him for a later date,In thinkit's important for people toknow there are others (normal great people0 whogothrewthe ocd moments, andIm notpositive but I really believe that it happens to peoplewhoare very caring sensitive seems to hit them harder ya know ? well Blessings and thanks for the story :0
Therese,
Absolutely loved your commentary on the experience with your triatholon and "friend", OCD. I could definately relate to it...I was diagnosed with panic disorder about 7 years ago at age 40. Wow...I would have never guessed that something like that would occur in my life. I have also found that my greatest ally is a sense of humor and to be able to look at many of the challenges through the lens of comedy!
Because I traveled many years of my life without the difficulty, at the onset, I remember feeling, "Where did I go?" I was an athlete, quite a "dare-devil", a college coach, and an associate professor. Many probably considered me to be incredibly self-sufficient and courageous. Within a fairly short period of time...it took all the courage that I could "muster" to walk out of my apartment.
I now tend to see how it's all been a bit of a blessing. It's much easier to come from the perspective of compassion, patience, and kindness. It's also become a necessity to strengthen that muscle of good humor!!
I just feel so happy for you that you are also able to do the same. Sometimes the little things can make life just a bit easier! As you can see by the responses, people find your writing and humor to be so entertaining :). As for "psychology student syndrome"...well, as I'm sure you know...it can be very difficult for people to understand if they have not experienced such a thing. Ten years ago, I might have said the same thing...I kind of just thought that people needed to "buck up". So...panic disorder was exactly what I may have needed in order to bring me more into the human realm and off my pedestal!! ha!
Finally, I do sometimes wonder if the true disorder these days is to live without anxiety!! This world is spinning awfully fast...seems more natural and "normal" for a human to have some difficulties with it all!
Thanks so much for sharing...
Peace and Blessings,
Bev. :)
That is a wonderful story, I am glad you are able to laugh at this and share your stories with others. Good Luck in future races.
I THOUGHT THAT YOUR STORY WAS VERY WONDERFUL.IT FEELS GREAT TO KNOW THAT I'M NOT ALONE WITH THIS TYPE OF ILLNESS. I WAS ALSO DIAGNOSED WITH OCD AND PANIC DISORDER AND I CAN'T BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH YOU SOUND LIKE ME.I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY KEEP ON WITH THE FIGHT AND LET GOD BE YOUR LIGHT.
I read this story and said "oh my goodness, that's me"
I was diagnosed with OCD/anxiety disorder. And that's pretty much what it can sound like in my head (on a good day).
The best thing I ever did was to get into therapy. Harder work than taking drugs, but it's doable-I don't have panic attacks. People now see me as laid back and calm, if they only knew how much work it took to get there.
Thanks for sharing.
Therese,
I thought your letter was funny and it had me kinda trippin' on the way you reacted to the fish in the pond. I used to have a case of OCD when I was in a recovery place. It was a compulsion to take cold showers like for an hour straight 3 times a day or even in one night!
Half of OCD is delusions. I thinki the idea of taking the cold showers were a mixture of stress and delusional thinking. I knew I was keeping myself clean moreso in the spiritual sense than the physical sense. It is like a comfort issue too. Once I was out of the cold shower I had either come to my senses in some way shape or form, plus it felt good to get in a warm bed and I could sleep better.
You had me going even though I never was diagnosed as OCD.
My favorite line is "But I can’t ride 14.2 miles with a dead Nemo in my pants!"
Thank you so much for the humorous look at OCD!
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