Dear God: Joseph Is the Man!
Monday December 24, 2007
Categories: Inspiration and Prayer
Dear God, I’ve always felt bad for Joseph, that his amazing faith in You and dedication to the Holy Family have been somewhat overlooked in the whole nativity story. I’m trying to picture myself in his shoes as I...
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I'm not Christian, but I've always wondered about Joseph. At least out in popular culture, he certainly does get short shrift. Poor guy- what a lot he had to deal with!
Thank goodness for our behind-the-scenes partners. We couldn't do it without them, that's for sure.
St. Joseph is no slouch when you think about it. As the male head of a Jewish family, he must have been quite a devout man, that God would entrust the care and education of his Son to him.
If you think about it, St. Joseph is one of few married people to be declared saints. What is that all about, anyway?
Joseph is a man committed to god , for that everything that has to do with god came to him easy to obey . such an obediance heart what i pray for as a christian women who will not question god . he joseph was send into mary's lofe to protect her from the the culture and the tradtion of man. i understand that culture is harsh and unmercy , and unforgiven . may god bless all with a mercefull heart and one that loves and forgives
RE: "I guess because we mothers carry the baby inside of us and have the privilege of enduring labor—or are usually more involved in the adoption process—we sometimes overlook the pivotal role that the dads and husbands play."
If more men (and women) had mothers like Mary there would be no war, no families broken in pieces... no one would have to relinquish a child to adoption and no child would ever have to wonder if they will ever be loved.
on a more positive note...
re: In this year’s Christmas card, my guardian angel Ann wrote this to Eric:
Eric, you are the reason Therese is able to flourish. You have the sense of humor to know she is authentic, and the confidence to let her have center stage. You have so much ahead of you.
I’m a bit worried by that last statement (as is he!), but I think she’s absolutely right with regard to Eric’s role in my recovery from depression. As scary as it was for me in that Black Hole, I have no doubt it was even more terrifying for him—because he had absolutely no control over the situation. And it was Eric who steered me toward Johns Hopkins, to a team of adept doctors, when I had given up on traditional medicine after 21 different cocktails and six bad shrinks.
YOU are a wonderful wife, T... you've gone to hell and back, and you are not affraid to say, Thanks!, to your wonderful husband. It takes special people to stick with us during this wild ride. God Bless them all!
Yep ! That Joseph, was a Hell of a guy. Talk about being caught between a "Rock" and the hard place ! Marriages don't last because the couple is perfect, but because they have the intense ability to accept each other's faults in the name of God/Love, and make no mistake about it, that couple set the standard of faith in a marriage commitment for Yeshuah to follow for the rest of His Life ! (don't forget He never got married either ... at least that we know about !)
LUV 2 ALL
Wisdum
Thank you, Therese, for giving Joseph his "day in the (winter) sun. ! I've always looked to his fathering Jesus as the ultimate example of adoption, and what an example he set! In addition to more mothersl like Mary, the world could certainly use more God-fearing fathers like Joseph aas well! Not only did he listen to the vivid dream He had; he also heeded the warning given to the Magis in THEIR dream and got Jesus9temporarily )out of the hands of Herod. thus sparing hhis infant life so that he could fulfill God's mission. Now, THAT,IMHO, is faith!
Forgot one thing! I echo the blessings for your Eric, Therese. He is clearly one of the underlying reasons for B.B., since it took your escape from the black hole to bring it to us! Thank you, Eric, for the blessing that Theres is to each of us! She's not the ONLY one you helped rescue, you by proxy had a hand in our deliverances as well!
Thought i already posted this, but it's not showing, so i'm going to try again sine this poat script us important to me! therese, I echo the blessings of others for youerEric, Therese. If you think about it, eric is in no small way partly responsible for the miracle of B.B., since you hadto escape the black hole for it to reach its conception and fruition! Bless you, Eric; in a very real way you by proxy are responsible for helping all of us climb out as well! What a guy!
hey, Wisdum..."make no mistake about it, that couple set the standard of faith in a marriage commitment for Yeshuah to follow for the rest of His Life ! (don't forget He never got married"
huh... I'm cornfused %-]
Glad to know Eric has the right spirit about Bette Midler lyrics. (Although, it must be said, "Wind Beneath My Wings" is Shakespearean compared to "From a Distance.")
I get wistful reading a post like this, especially at Christmas. Because I truly have admiration for all the men, from Eric back to Joseph and back into the Old Testament, who are the strong and silent supporters behind their wives or children. That's really who I want to be in life.
Unfortunately, I have the example of a father and stepfather who were so far back in the distance as to be practically non-existent -- and of being a husband the fruit of whose labors for trying to support his wife (yes) from a distance was an ugly divorce for "not being strong enough," health- and otherwise.
On that typically Larry note, Merry Christmas, all!
Re -Cully | December 24, 2007 6:37 PM
hey, Wisdum..."make no mistake about it, that couple set the standard of faith in a marriage commitment for Yeshuah to follow for the rest of His Life ! (don't forget He never got married"
huh... I'm cornfused %-]
** You know by now (I'm sure ) that I set people up for this! There is little about Joseph after Yeshuah became about 12. Most assume that he died long before Yeshuah started His ministry, but that is only because those scriptures were left out of the Bible along with everything Yeshuah did between 12 and 30 (Why?, Because it did not fit the Roman Catholic Theological Agenda) It is assumed that Yeshuah pretty much knew what His future would be, and would not or could not make a commitment to a wife and family. The Life of a revelutionary is usually not suited to the kind of family Life that was exibited between Mary and Joseph. Also Yeshuah, was not about to take a back seat to a wife,or take orders, especially when it came to sacrificing His Life. (if you catch my drif), and so set up that whole male dominant theology... Merry Christmas !
LUV 2 U / LUV 2 ALL
As a stepfather, I have always looked at Joseph as the ultimate. He willingly and lovingly rose another's child as his own. Joseph raised Jesus to persue his life and to complete his mission. Joseph did all this with no fanfare, not an iota of recognition. He did this only for the sake of his stepson and his wife.
Joseph is the idol of step-parents everywhere.
I have often wondered what DID happen to Joseph? When and where did he die? What was his role in the raising of Jesus?
Armand - that was a beautiful concept in "step-parenting". My husband is one also and has been for many years. I am in awe of his love for "our" boys. No birth father could be more devoted. He loves them entirely. I truly believe he thinks he was in the delivery room when they were born, despite the fact that he entered their lives at the ages of 5 and 8. They are now 20 and 22. His thoughts and actions are that of an extremely loving parent.
Nancy L. from NJ
Re -Patty Schildberger | December 25, 2007 10:52 PM
I have often wondered what DID happen to Joseph? When and where did he die? What was his role in the raising of Jesus?
** There is a lot on the net, but most of them say the same thing, Joseph died before his "step-son's ministry" They also say that he was in his 90's when he got married to Mary. He was a bit upset about that when they chose him to take care of her "But I am old, everybody will make fun of me!" He also had children from a previous marriage.(Who is my mother and brothers? -Yeshuah) Of course the RC Church says you have to take all of this with a grain of salt, since there is no absolute proof (guess what there is no absolute proof of any of this...it's all a matter of faith ! ... Interesting how we are ALL to reading and willing to kill each other over our own personal faith perspective (and perspective is everything!)
LUV 2 U / LUV 2 ALL
Wisdum
Therese,
I do love the song "wind beneith my wings" but I am beginning to think Eric's version might be better.
Your so fortunate to have married a man with such a sense of humor for there is nothing better for someone who suffers mental illness then someone who can make us at least smile a tiny bit during our moments of severe depression.
God Bless,
Nancy a.k.a. sixlittlekitties
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