One of the many reasons I very much respect my doctor, Milena Hruby Smith, is that she is extremely modest and humble. And while some patients are reassured by a doctor who delivers his assessment in an unequivocal, confident style that says "there is no other way," I am refreshed by a psychiatrist is absolutely honest with me and says, "I can't say for sure, but I THINK that this is what might be going on. Let's at least give this treatment a try."
Now mind you, I've had the magician before, who swore with a few medication adjustments he could practically cure me from my bipolar disorder. When I asked him how he could be so certain that I was bipolar, and why he insisted on treating me with atypical antipsychotics even though I had difficulty tolerating them in my past, he became quite snippy with me and said, much like Sr. Carol in the third grade with her ruler, "Ms. Borchard. You ARE bipolar. End of story."
The other week when I went to Dr. Smith after a turbulent month, she told me about the growing amount of research suggesting that antidepressants aren't helpful for persons with bipolar disorder who are bothered by depression more than mania (which is just about everyone with bipolar disorder.
"Huh?" I asked. "I don't understand. So then why have you been treating me with antidepressants?"
She smiled (and believe it or not THAT reassures me much more than any fake sermon about how a doctor is going to cure me) and explained her reasoning: given the older research suggesting that antidepressants are helpful, and the clinical experience of herself and those who trained her that antidepressants seem to be helpful in some patients, it is still very reasonable to use them, especially for someone like myself whose manias have been much less dangerous than the depressions. In other words, for a person with an illness like mine, the risks of worsening the illness by use of antidepressants are outweighed by the risks of not treating depression aggressively. Furthermore, Dr. Smith suspects that physicians may eventually have more specific classifications of the bipolar spectrum that will allow for more targeted treatments.
The next time that Dr. Smith and I talked she apologized for telling me too much about psychiatry.
"I hope I didn't confuse you too much, or leave you feeling insecure about your treatment," she said.
"No, please don't apologize," I responded. "I appreciate your honesty and humility more than you know. Believe me, I had a cocky doctor who almost killed me. I value your sharing the uncertainty of science with me."
She then mentioned the book, "How Doctors Think," the New York Times bestseller by Jerome Groopman, M.D., and how people are more likely to be aware of the shortfalls of psychiatric diagnosis and treatment, but assume that other fields, such as pediatric cardiology, stand on firmer ground.
I recommend this book to everyone who sees a doctor, which is pretty much everyone (save the Scientologists).
Not only does Dr. Groopman come across as a wise and empathetic physician, but a compassionate, humble, and giving person--probably husband and father and brother, aside from his role in the medical community.
Writes Groopman in his introduction:
No one can expect a physician to be infallible. Medicine is, at its core, an uncertain science. Every doctor makes mistakes in diagnosis and treatment. But the frequency of those mistakes, and their severity, can be reduced by understanding how a doctor thinks and how he or she can think better.... Because doctors desperately need patients and their families and friends to help them think. Without their help, physicians are denied key clues to what is really wrong. I learned this not as a doctor but when I was sick , when I was the patient.
We've all wondered why a doctor asked certain questions, or detoured into an unexpected areas when gathering information about us. We have all asked ourselves exactly what brought him to propose a certain diagnosis and a particular treatment and to reject the alternatives. Although we may listen intently to what a doctor says and try to read his facial expressions, often we are left perplexed about what is really going on in his head. That ignorance inhibits us from successfully communicating with the doctor, from telling him all that he needs to hear to come to the correct diagnosis and advice on the best therapy.
So I advise you: If you haven't already, invest in a THINKING doctor, one that isn't absolutely positive about the one right way to treat you and admits to the uncertainty of psychiatry as a field of study.
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I find most Dr.s in spite of their arrogance to be as clueless as the rest of us! God bless the ones who realize their falibility!
I was discharged from the hospital today. This is not related to my being a depressive. I have had pneumonia since Feb. along with many other significant ailments, and have been in the hospital 3 times by 2 different doctors. We had been on a cruise late Jan. to Feb.8th. I became ill the second day and spent many hours in the Doctors Quarters for 11 days. I kept saying that all these diffent symptoms started on the cruise. I even had an Infectious Disease Dr. treating a huse red, thick something covering my very swollen legs and feet. I NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WITH LEGS OR FEET.
My sister, a retired nurse remembered a strange ailment long ago that she heard about. She said it was called Valley Fever aka Coccidioides; airborne fungal spores. My friend printed everything about it on the www. He brought it to the hospital and the Physicians Asst. said, "Yes, Dr. B-----r thinks it may be something like that. Dr. B is a Lung Specialist AND NEVER MENTIONED THIS TO ME. And Dr. B did not show up yesterday or today for any discussion. Tomorrow will begin a search for real diagnosis at 1 of the 2 Teaching Hospitals in St. Louis.
Oh, how I want to feel better; pray with me that I am able to find THE DOCTOR THAT CAN HELP ME.
How funny that you wrote about Dr. Groopman, who I plan to quote in my book. You should flip to the index in the back of his book and look up mental illness (I think that was it) - he writes some very interesting things about how doctors look at mental illness vs. other illnesses.
I am going to see if I can get this book. I read another book called " Be A Smart Patient" - I can't tell you the author, but you can probably look it up. It tells you how to prepare your questions and information for doctor visits (writing things down in advance) and things a patient can do that they don't know about. One example, asking for a heated blanket in the pre-op area when you are having surgery so you won't be as cold in the operating room. When I had my catarac surgery, I did this and not only did they give it to me, they said "We have a professional patient here."
One thing I have learned is to go to specialists for different problems because they really do know more than your primary care physician about specific problems. In the twentieth century, there are many more health prevention procedures and tests which insurance does pay for that specialists can do. Our cardiologist does Nuclear Stress Tests, Circulation Tests, and a battery of other tests to check for blockages in the heart to prevent heart attack or stroke. The pulmonary doctor checks breathing and blood gas and walking O2 levels. The other doctors do routine blood work and urine tests to check for various things that should be caught at early stages. As my husband and I are now senior citizens, we are much more aware of health concerns.
Psychiatric conditions such as bipolar disorder I believe require consistent monitoring of medication and moods. My husband and I have both been diagnosed with this, and we go to therapy once a week and see the prescribing doctor every three months or in between if necessary.
My therapist is also a psychiatric nurse with awards of "Who's who in nursing." Not only does she listen to me and help me manage my bipolar disorder, she is able to help me make other health care decisions and guide me as to what questions to ask. I feel blessed, because I get much quality treatment and guidance from her. I believe when choosing a doctor, Teresa, I agree with you, someone who is humble and doesn't think they have all the answers right away. Our primary care physician doesn't hesitate to recommend opinions from specialists. I also encourage internet research to help you ask the right questions.
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i complain some signs of stomach ache. It feels like there are some bacteria every time I done eating and feel like i am full and it starts to hurt. My stomach is so bloated and getting fat. I suspect I have some kind of colon defer and I gained some weights so fast since the last time I had my stomach flat and weighted 120 lbs and now i weight 145 with the fat stomach it s getting so misery for me to go through. I might need some check out and clean out or flush out something wrong with my stomach or colons. I need help to find the right doctor to go to see about it.
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