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Khalil Gibran: On Sorrow and Joy

posted by Beyond Blue | 9:45am Monday July 21, 2008

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Then a woman said,

“Speak to us of Joy and Sorrow.”

And he answered:

Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.

 

And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears.

And how else can it be?

The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.

Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?

And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?

When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.

Some of you say, “Joy is greater than sorrow,” and others say, “Nay, sorrow is the greater.”

But I say unto you, they are inseparable.

Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.

Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy.

Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced.

When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.

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Annapurna Moffatt

posted July 21, 2008 at 9:56 am


Beautiful–just beautiful. I really must read The Prophet….. (note to self)



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Ovidia

posted July 21, 2008 at 12:55 pm


from another of my favorite Mystic poets …
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of it’s furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.
–Rumi
and this, along the same lines, from Hafiz:
My Eyes So Soft
Don’t surrender your loneliness so quickly
let it cut more deep.
Let it ferment and season you
as few human or even divine ingredients can
Something missing in my heart tonight
has made my eyes so soft
my voice so tender
my need of god
absolutely clear.
–Hafiz
but one of my absolute favorites is from Omar Khayyam:
Oh, Thou who Man of baser Earth didst make,
And ev’n with Paradise devise the Snake:
For all the Sin wherewith the Face of Man
Is blacken’d–Man’s forgiveness give–and take!



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Solman

posted July 27, 2008 at 7:54 pm


Liked that quote from “The Prophet”. Been a fan of Gibran since 1971. Another of his works that you might enjoy is “Have Mercy on Me My Soul.” It’s in the “Tears and Laughter” book.



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Charles Blanchard

posted August 3, 2008 at 4:10 am


I am 52 and can’t believe that Khalil Gibran is still being referenced. I attended a private school in 1970-71 and was required to read and comment on each section. I was the only one, it seems, that countered his commentary.
He was accepted by those that really don’t look beneath the surface of his words then and I don’t see that that has changed.
It just makes me feel sorry for those that think that he was a ‘great thinker’. I’d suggest reading through Psalms and Proverbs a few times … it will supply more help and won’t just be a quick patch of the emotions.



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tiptoed

posted August 19, 2008 at 6:52 am


It seems that you are lulled into more emotions and thus more confused with your dilemma whether what is more important: the joy or sorrow. These are just emotions and are passing, like moisture that quickly dries up under the heat of the sun.
My purpose in reading is to seek enlightenment and guidance, not to be anesthetized with poetic verses. Sadly, i find Gibran’s words to be soothing to the mind but not to the spirit.



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Velvet

posted December 16, 2008 at 11:25 am


Annapurna, read the book, u won’t regret! however i would advise you to read each line carefully, read one page and meditate on what you have read for 2-3 days before reading the next page…



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Arabella

posted March 18, 2009 at 7:13 pm


@ Charles
whatever, buddy. It was a great work of art that neither you nor I could have written. Learn to appreciate works, instead of telling us to read psalms and such. We have our own religious beliefs, stick to the topic.



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sigh

posted January 26, 2011 at 2:38 am


@ Charles, I wonder if you even believe in God at all. Because if you do, you’d know God give his children talents. Gibran was talented. Guess where that came from?



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Gary

posted February 26, 2011 at 2:14 am


Gibran’s writings are multidimensional. But most of all, they are not really describing something in a beautiful or poetic way or providing information. They are footprints of a soul that has traveled through deep valleys and climbed glorious mountains. They are guideposts for those who are on the same path and it is solitary by necessity.
You may also enjoy reading these parables that have a similar flavor to Gibran’s work:
http://www.forbiddenheights.com/main/catforbiddenheights



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