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Love Deeply ...
Valentine's Day is a good time to remember all the ways we can be loving, not just to the guy/gal sitting across from you at the kitchen table, but also your boss, your mother, your boss's mother, and her mother.
One of my very favorite reflections from Henri Nouwen is "Love Deeply," found in hi
posted 6:00:28am Feb. 13, 2012 |
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Therapy Thursday: Sweat
I have decided to dedicate a post on Thursday to therapy, and offer you the many tips I have learned on the couch. They will be a good reminder for me, as well, of something small I can concentrate on. Many of them are published in my book, "The Pocket Therapist: An Emotional Survival Kit."
Work
posted 6:01:57am Feb. 09, 2012 |
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Scrupulosity: What It Is and Why It's Dangerous
If you sprinkle a hefty dose of Catholic (or Jewish) guilt unto a fragile biochemistry headed toward a severe mood disorder, you usually arrive at some kind of a religious nut. Not that there’s anything wrong with that! For I am one.
I have said many places that growing up Catholic, for me, was
posted 6:17:35am Feb. 07, 2012 |
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The Treasures of Darkness
We often equate darkness with sorrow, misery, get-me-the-hell-out-of-here reaction. At least I do. That’s why I keep a mammoth Happy Lite on my smallish cubicle at work.
But darkness can also be a treasure.
Say what?
J. R. Miller writes this in “From Streams in the Desert” by L. B. C
posted 6:06:40am Feb. 06, 2012 |
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On Groundhog Day: 12 Winter Depression Busters
Last year on this day, I got fired. That was a real pleasant Groundhog Day. I was so confused by what had happened that I drove around the D.C. beltway twice. I missed my exit, and realized that halfway around the second time.
I just thought on this day, you could probably use some winter depres
posted 6:30:47am Feb. 02, 2012 |
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posted December 17, 2007 at 9:52 am
That so made my day! Thank you!
posted December 17, 2007 at 11:23 am
My mother-in-law lives near some famous fruitcake factory. One of her sons asks that she send him fruitcake for Christmas. The others ask that she NOT send them fruitcake for Christmas. It works well for all.
posted December 17, 2007 at 11:48 am
No comment other than, that’s a good one …
posted December 17, 2007 at 12:15 pm
I’ve struggled with that issue my entire life. I don’t think it’s funny at all. It makes fun of people who are hurting.
posted December 17, 2007 at 1:48 pm
Re; Jane, December 17,12:15 PM
Are you new to B.B? If so, you need to know that our beloved therese, who so painstakingly chooses our cobtent each day has a…shall we say, un “somewhat skewed sense of humor”. In spite of how it may seem, Therese would NEVER make fun of someone who is hurting; she’s BEEN there too! the bottom line, IMHO,is that (And we had this dialogue not long ago in terms of using words like “Crazy” those of us who have lived through the battles of mental illness have earned the right to poke fun at ourselves Trust me, Therese defines herself as “a holy whack job’ for a reason, and she knows only too well how it feels to suffer from the “Nobody likes me, everybody hates me, guess I’ll eat some worms.” mentality. Just so you know, she’s a twin who spent her teenage years feeling like the popular kids only befriended her to get through her to her “beautiful(Therese’s description) twin sister and thus felt like a social outcast. she continues at times to suffer from bouts of that even today.
posted December 17, 2007 at 2:18 pm
Re -Margaret Balyeat | December 17, 2007 1:48 PM
“beautiful(Therese’s description) twin sister and thus felt like a social outcast. she continues at times to suffer from bouts of that even today.
“Twin Sister” ? Is that the person you see in the mirror or the other one? Mirrors, are a funny thing, they are the opposite of what you really look like. That’s why your picture, never looks like you! If you look at in a mirror, it looks just like you ! (go figure!)
And “Fruit Cake” … how about “Nut Cake” (I like Jack Daniels Burbon/Whiskey Cake and Rum cake too!) My ex-boss used to give the whole company fruit cake for Christmas (the kind with almost no cake) Nobody ever ate it, some used it to level furniture! We often discussed getting it all together for ten years and give it all back to him in a big box with a red ribbon on it!
LUV 2 ALL
Wisdum
posted December 17, 2007 at 3:04 pm
OMG!! I love Fruitcake and the “Nobody likes me, Everybody hates me” song was my favorite when I was a kid (and I still like it)… hummm go figure.
love and hugz and noisy kisses LOL
Cully (my cold meds are kicking in!)
posted December 18, 2007 at 4:13 pm
nothing like a fruitcake joke to start the day out with some humor,helps make the rest of the day more tolerable!! Kinda like a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down……the medicine go down…..la la la la
posted December 19, 2007 at 9:06 pm
Seeing that cartoon…think I am going to send all my family and friends to see a shrink.
If all the other people were on medication I wouldn’t need it because then I would be sane.
Nancy
posted January 2, 2009 at 10:06 am
Think this is still funny. I’ve “re-gifted” fruitcake many times over the years, ha. I do feel empathy for Jane, and hopefully over the last year she’s found a sight more suited to her needs.
posted January 2, 2009 at 10:08 am
I keep forgetting to type in my name, duh. Happy New Year everyone.
posted February 22, 2010 at 1:05 am
hey o This is a wonderful opinion. The things mentioned are unanimous and needs to be appreciated by everyone.
caravans
posted February 22, 2010 at 1:06 am
hey o This is a wonderful opinion. The things mentioned are unanimous and needs to be appreciated by everyone.
caravans