For Women: 50 Ways to Keep Your Lover

11. Continue to date, Kate

12. Don't call him lazy, Daisy

13. Be his biggest fan, Ann

14. Keep taking your pill, April

15. Be nice to his ma, Alicia

16. Let him win, Lynn

17. Stay away from tacky, Jackie

18. Give up the pot, Dot

19. Don't obsess about money, Bunny

20. Color your hair, Claire

21. Don't run, Autumn

22. Create something homemade, Jade

23. Say "I love you" daily, Bailey

24. There's more to him than you see, Lee

25. Treat him like a king, Ling

26. Don't yell, Danielle

27. Give it a second shot, Charlotte

28. Brush off his dander, Amber

29. Hold him like a baby, Sadie

30. Love him past the bliss, Chris

31. Pay his library fee, Dee

32. Eat lunch with him at the deli, Kelly

33. Don't steal, Camille

34. Your make-up is scary, Sherry

35. Stop meeting boys in the alley, Sally

36. Water him like a tree, Marie

37. Try to sit still, Jill

38. Wear something racy, Stacey

39. Nurture his inner boy, Joy

40. Show him you care, Blair

41. Don't lock him in a zoo, Sue

42. Remember that vow, "I do," Lu

43. Hold hands under the moon, June

44. Try hard not to be mean, Jean

45. Run your toes up his leg, Peg

46. Spread his jam, Pam

47. Try not to get crabby, Abby

48. Visit him in jail, Gail

49. Make every attempt to stay, Kay

50. Set aside your malice, Alice

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