In February "Time" Magazine published some fascinating articles on the "biology of belief": how faith can heal us. Folks who attend church services on Sunday have a lower risk of dying in any one year than the guys who...
I am definately not from Park Avenue. I am in a very small town in Mississippi and faith is all that keeps me going. While I would never throw my kids out of the car, I have come close to blowing a gasket. I have raised two boys and now I have started over with a severe ADHD six year old. All OVER again. That makes me question my sanity right?
I am having back surgery in one week. My doctors are hopeful and I will use my faith to keep me strong.
Maria C.
May 13, 2009 12:33 PM
I had my kids later in life, after going through a lot of losses. Because of this, the kids are kind of sacred to me. It isn't easy to be a mother, but I do love it and it is the most life changing (in a positive way) gift God has ever given me.
I don't really understand the good mother/bad mother argument. No one I know is keeping score. I'm just grateful everyday that I have my kids and I do love them. In spite of my own scary childhood, they have turned in to bright beautiful young adults and are happy and functional. Could I have ever seen this outcome? No. But it is all a gift.
Mike--Weeble75
May 13, 2009 1:25 PM
I guess you couldn't really say this as overtly as this in a blog post intended to appeal to people of different faiths (and I don't say this to put anybody down--more like it's a supplemental thought), but I see an additional element that's more important than all the others; a real connection to the real God. That effect is probably not measurable by "objective" human criteria, but I believe that's the most important part. Without that connection, the benefits of faith are limited to a human experience; they don't really have anything to do with God.
(If the effects could be measurable, I can see the headlines now; something like "Some Mental Health Benefits of Faith Unique to the 'Born-Again'; Jesus Christ Scientifically Demonstrated to be Unique Approach to God." BTW, I don't mean Christians of a certain denomination or movement, but those whose spiritual experience is describable as "born again", and there's a wide range of experience that falls in that category; see Josh McDowell's "Evidence That Demands a Verdict, Vol. I" or the newly updated version for his list of some 80 people of varying backgrounds and experiences but with common elements related to identifying by faith with the risen Christ, people who I believe have a real connection to the real God.)
For example, in my own search for mental wholeness, part of it is seeking God's interventive ("miraculous") healing of my brain. If the "God" I worship and am praying to for healing is not the real God, I am without hope of that prayer being answered.
That's my perspective, FWIW.
Merida O
May 14, 2009 1:09 PM
I been blessed many times, especially with my two children's, at this time my family is going through some health issues, but I keep reminding them to "Have Faith" & "Hope".
FAHR ALI
May 14, 2009 8:31 PM
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Since I was BLESSED with my son NOOR ALI; who happens to be a slow learner; GOD has graced me with lots of perception, tolerance and FAITH; which in turn has given me strength, courage and better health
in order to nurture and raise my NOOR of ALLAH. Though both of us, right now are facing a few health issues, which will surely be set in place by the ALMIGHTY. I take this opportunity to PRAY for all the sick and weak, around us; fervently. May GOD shower HIS blessings on all HUMANITY. Amen.
Your Name
May 14, 2009 10:04 PM
Faith in a resurection is what has kept me going, I lost two of my children in a matter of months, my oldest was 3 1\2 at the time I was 6mths pregnant went in to early labor and had a little girl who died 6wks later, because of the complications I can no longer have children. My daughter who was two at the time is my everything I cherish her and keep her close at all times. If it was not for my faith in God and all he has promised through his son Jesus I do not know where I would be today. I can relate to what all of you have to say, without my faith I would have lost it along time of go God is good to all that seek him and even those that don't.
Blessings
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I am definately not from Park Avenue. I am in a very small town in Mississippi and faith is all that keeps me going. While I would never throw my kids out of the car, I have come close to blowing a gasket. I have raised two boys and now I have started over with a severe ADHD six year old. All OVER again. That makes me question my sanity right?
I am having back surgery in one week. My doctors are hopeful and I will use my faith to keep me strong.
I had my kids later in life, after going through a lot of losses. Because of this, the kids are kind of sacred to me. It isn't easy to be a mother, but I do love it and it is the most life changing (in a positive way) gift God has ever given me.
I don't really understand the good mother/bad mother argument. No one I know is keeping score. I'm just grateful everyday that I have my kids and I do love them. In spite of my own scary childhood, they have turned in to bright beautiful young adults and are happy and functional. Could I have ever seen this outcome? No. But it is all a gift.
I guess you couldn't really say this as overtly as this in a blog post intended to appeal to people of different faiths (and I don't say this to put anybody down--more like it's a supplemental thought), but I see an additional element that's more important than all the others; a real connection to the real God. That effect is probably not measurable by "objective" human criteria, but I believe that's the most important part. Without that connection, the benefits of faith are limited to a human experience; they don't really have anything to do with God.
(If the effects could be measurable, I can see the headlines now; something like "Some Mental Health Benefits of Faith Unique to the 'Born-Again'; Jesus Christ Scientifically Demonstrated to be Unique Approach to God." BTW, I don't mean Christians of a certain denomination or movement, but those whose spiritual experience is describable as "born again", and there's a wide range of experience that falls in that category; see Josh McDowell's "Evidence That Demands a Verdict, Vol. I" or the newly updated version for his list of some 80 people of varying backgrounds and experiences but with common elements related to identifying by faith with the risen Christ, people who I believe have a real connection to the real God.)
For example, in my own search for mental wholeness, part of it is seeking God's interventive ("miraculous") healing of my brain. If the "God" I worship and am praying to for healing is not the real God, I am without hope of that prayer being answered.
That's my perspective, FWIW.
I been blessed many times, especially with my two children's, at this time my family is going through some health issues, but I keep reminding them to "Have Faith" & "Hope".
Since I was BLESSED with my son NOOR ALI; who happens to be a slow learner; GOD has graced me with lots of perception, tolerance and FAITH; which in turn has given me strength, courage and better health
in order to nurture and raise my NOOR of ALLAH. Though both of us, right now are facing a few health issues, which will surely be set in place by the ALMIGHTY. I take this opportunity to PRAY for all the sick and weak, around us; fervently. May GOD shower HIS blessings on all HUMANITY. Amen.
Faith in a resurection is what has kept me going, I lost two of my children in a matter of months, my oldest was 3 1\2 at the time I was 6mths pregnant went in to early labor and had a little girl who died 6wks later, because of the complications I can no longer have children. My daughter who was two at the time is my everything I cherish her and keep her close at all times. If it was not for my faith in God and all he has promised through his son Jesus I do not know where I would be today. I can relate to what all of you have to say, without my faith I would have lost it along time of go God is good to all that seek him and even those that don't.
Blessings
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