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S-I-L-E-N-C-E: I'm Unplugging for 19 Days

Tuesday August 11, 2009

Categories: Mental Health

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Last August I unplugged for 19 days and I emerged a more resilient, more grounded person.

 

So I'm going to do it again this August. Yep close to three weeks my laptop will be hidden in my closet--back behind the hiking boots I never wear--so that I won't be tempted to "just check the weather" and in the process follow another 400 people on Twitter and check out what folks are talking about on Facebook.

I'm doing it because I'm grumpy. Agitated. Like I've had my period going on 40 days now.

I'm getting mad at the dogs because they take too long to do their business in the backyard, at the kids for blasting that annoying Club Penguin tune, at Eric for talking to me when I'm wearing ear phones, at the baristas at the coffee shop for making too much noise when they make their espressos. In essence, I'm turning into a short-tempered bitch. And so I know it's time to take a vacation from all this stimulation than can have me behaving like a non-neutered, non-potty-trained puppy of about 8 weeks old.

Going cold turkey on the Internet for 19 days also provides me with the data I need to rest assured that I'm not addicted to email, Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, and the other 25 social-networking sites I visit. It's the equivalent to the Lenten observation that I made for years ... to give up drinking. That meant I wasn't an alcoholic.

I also learn things about myself when I shut out the noise for awhile. Like a silent retreat (with very loud kids), I hear the secrets hidden in my soul that I can't catch until I'm perfectly still. Well, not perfectly still. Still enough ... To know that getting perturbed with my mutts for not pooping in less than two minutes means we have a problem on our hands.

However, because I'm still very OCD, I have written all of my posts for these 19 days and have them set up on the timer to keep you company while I am gone.

I hope you can get some rest this August, too. Because down time is critical to recovery.

Not desirable.

Critical.

And because I'm so bad at squeezing some in on a consistent basis, I have to hide out for a few weeks to seek some quiet.

Wish me luck.

And I will wish you the same!

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Comments
jenn
August 13, 2009 11:05 AM

good luck, you are a true inspiration.

Meredith
August 13, 2009 12:45 PM

If you haven't read Gift of the Sea, by Ann Morrow Lindbergh, it's a great read, especially when you're "unplugged"!

Leeann
August 13, 2009 4:18 PM

Good for you Therese you deserve it and you are an inspiration to all of us as well as an Angel that God has sent to us who suffer with mental illness. Even Angels need to take a break and regroup I am sure. When things get that out of control everyone should consider regrouping and getting away from the Tech world in which we live in and spend time with ourselves and pamper also spend time in prayer and with our creator. You will come back refreshed I am sure. Enjoy and forget the Tech world it will be there when you return and then you will enjoy it more. Best of luck and I keep you in my prayers. In fact I am planning on getting away for a few days by myself to regroup and make some tough decsions i have been putting off and the laptop is not coming.

Leeann

Richard
August 15, 2009 1:02 AM

Good luck, T. Relax, if possible. Attempt to relax if not possible.

Kristen
August 27, 2009 3:03 PM

How on earth will you hear quiet with a husband, kids, and pets (furry kids)? Thats why I have earphones on all the time. Good luck and let me know how you do it. I need to do this too, but dont want to kill my family since I can hear them.

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