
I spent my adolescence and teenage years obsessing about this question:
Am I depressed or just deep?
When I was nine, I figured that I was a young Christian mystic because I related much more to the saints who lived centuries ago than to other nine-year-old girls who had crushes on boys. I couldn't understand how my sisters could waste quarters on a stupid video game when there were starving kids in Cambodia. Hello? Give them to UNICEF!
Now I look back with tenderness to the hurting girl I was and wished somebody had been able to recognize that I was very depressed.
Not that I would have accepted the help. I believed, along with all the other adults in my life, that my melancholy and sensitivity were part of my "special" make-up, that they were gifts to celebrate, not neuroses to treat. And should I take meds that helped me laugh and play and design cool barrettes like the other girls, well, then I would lose my depth.
Sometimes, people confuse being depressed with being philosophical. If I had a dollar (well, maybe $2) for every time I hear "I am not depressed, I am just realistic", "Anyone who isn't depressed isn't paying attention", or "Life has no meaning and I am going to die, how can I be happy?" I could likely support a hardcore latte habit. Depression can have such an effect on your worldview.
There are a few basic existential realities we all confront: mortality, aloneness and meaninglessness. Most people are aware of these things. A friend dies suddenly, a coworker commits suicide or some planes fly into tall buildings-these events shake most of us up and remind of us of the basic realities. We deal, we grieve, we hold our kids tighter, remind ourselves that life is short and therefore to be enjoyed, and then we move on. Persistently not being able to put the existential realities aside to live and enjoy life, engage those around us or take care of ourselves just might be a sign of depression.
We all get sad sometimes, struggle to fall asleep, lose our appetite or have a hard time focusing. Does this mean we are depressed? Not necessarily. So how do you know the difference? The answer, as with most psychological diagnoses comes down to one word: functioning. How are you sleeping and eating? Are you isolating yourself from others? Have you stopped enjoying the things you used to enjoy? Difficulty focusing and concentrating? Irritable? Tired? Lack of motivation? Do you feel hopeless? Feel excessively guilty or worthless? Experiencing some of these things may be a sign of depression.

Okay, folks, we got three days until Armageddon for depressives: Daylight Savings Time. Time to pull out the HappyLites!
In case you think I'm making up all this stuff about less light leading to depression, especially in the winter months, I will quote a woman with much more medical knowledge and expertise than me: Karen Swartz, M.D., Director of Clinical Programs at the Johns Hopkins Mood Disorders Center, and one of the physicians who evaluated me when I was severely depressed in March of 2006.
Here's what she says in a special report as part of the Fall 2007 Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin called "Getting Relief From Light Therapy":
Some people experience episodes of depression only during the winter months, particularly January and February, when there is less sunlight--thus the name "winter depression," or seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Typically, symptoms of depression peak in the winter and recede in the spring.
As seasons change, so does the amount of daily sunlight, which in turn causes changes in the body's internal biological clock, known as circadian rhythm. This rhythm is a 24-hour cycle that affects our eating and sleeping patterns, brain wave activity, hormone production, and other biological activities. In some people, less daily sunlight and changes in circadian rhythm can bring about depression.
One theory is that the relative lack of sunlight during these times may alter brain levels of certain mood-related chemicals, for example, increasing levels of the hormone melatonin.
People with SAD often eat and sleep excessively, crave sugary or starchy foods, and have a full remission in the spring and summer when more daily sunlight is available.
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According to Karen Swartz, here's how to recognize seasonal affective disorder (SAD):
Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is characterized by recurring bouts of major depression that usually coincide with the shorter daylight hours of autumn and winter. Though a person with SAD may have depressive episodes at other times of the year, the number of seasonal episodes significantly outnumbers the non-seasonal ones.
For an episode of major depression to be classified as SAD, there should be at least three episodes of mood disturbance in three separate winter seasons, at least two of which are consecutive. There should be no association between disturbance and situation stresses, such as being unemployed each winter.
A major depression, seasonal or otherwise, is characterized by the following symptoms [my note here: also remember the "atypical" symptoms I listed last week that can occur especially in men]:
• Sad, depressed, or irritable mood
• Changes in appetite or weight
• Sleep problems
• Lack of energy
• Inability to make decisions
• Problems concentrating
• Low self-esteem (feelings of worthlessness or guilt)
• Lack of interest in or enjoyment of activities
• Diminished sex drive
• Bodily aches and pains
• Memory loss
• Suicidal thoughts
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Today I have the honor of interviewing Daniel Lukasik, a distinguished attorney and the creator of the very cool website
LawyersWithDepression.com. Daniel also writes the
Lawyers With Depression blog, which covers a range of different topics, from spirituality to how to make smart decisions as professionals.
Question: Why are so many lawyers depressed?
Daniel:
1. Lawyers are Pessimistic Thinkers.
According to Professor Martin Seligman, lawyers have a "pessimistic explanatory style." This is not the same thing as seeing the glass as "half empty." Rather, pessimistic lawyers tend to attribute the causes of negative events as stable and global factors (It's going to last forever, and it's going to undermine everything.) The pessimist views bad events as pervasive, permanent, and uncontrollable while the optimist sees them as local, temporary and changeable ("Oh well, I didn't win this one, but tomorrow's a new day and I will get a fresh start."). Pessimism is seen as a plus among lawyers, because seeing troubles as pervasive and permanent is a component of what the law profession deems prudence. They have to foresee every possible snare and catastrophe. While this might help them be better lawyers, this trait does not always make them happy human beings. In fact, pessimistic thinking is seen by cognitive behavioral therapy as a hallmark of depression.
2. Negative Behavior Patterns.
According to Professor Andrew Benjamin, lawyers take on too much work and have trouble maintaining healthy relationships. This, in turn, precipitates career dissatisfaction, loss of intrinsic motivation, and abandonment of personal values. These behavior patterns leave many lawyers suffering from high levels of depression and from chronically elevated levels of hostility, cynicism, and aggression.
3. High Levels of Stress.
The adversarial nature of the profession repeatedly triggers the physiological
fight-or-flight response in our bodies. When confronted with a threat -whether real or perceived - this response kicks in and floods our bodies with the powerful hormones cortisol and adrenaline, which propel us into action. Over time, this chronic anxiety causes the release of too many fight-or-flight hormones. Research has shown that prolonged release of cortisol damages areas of the brain that have been implicated in depression: the hippocampus (involved in learning and memory) and the amygdale (involved in how we perceive fear). Indeed, Richard O'Connor - an expert on depression - has concluded that depression "is stress that has gone on too long."
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In case you're confused, I accidentally published this last week. Sorry! Now it makes sense given today's mindful Monday meditation.Some of you have already seen this video about my reading through my junior-high journals and the process of coming to...
The other night I was looking for an article when I came across this response to my post "Dear God: Why E-Harmony Has Got It Wrong" where I explained that I thought it was unfair that eHarmony includes depression among...
My brilliant editor, Holly Rossi, compiled a beautiful gallery from the content of my post, "12 Ways to Keep Going." Click here to view the gallery. A woman who lives with chronic pain said to my mom the other...
Beliefnet's health editor (and my editor), Holly Rossi, did an exceptional job of compiling a variety of different posts and galleries on a bipolar resource page. It's like the Target of bipolar information. No need to go around to all...
Writer Jennifer Egan published an excellent, comprehensive article about bipolar disorder among kids in Sunday's New York Times Magazine. She profiles several different families as well talks to experts in the field, asking doctors how they go about diagnosing a...
On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through the...
On Fridays I will address a basic psychiatric question and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to do...
On Fridays I will address a basic psychiatric question and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to do...
When I was an assistant editor at U.S. Catholic magazine, I remember publishing a piece by Christine Gudorf called "Don't Cancel That Guilt Trip." She makes a strong case for why we should, as a society, hang on to a little guilt...
Last month, I dedicated a day to the topic of women's issues and depression: how our hormonal fluctuations contribute to depression and bipolar disorder. Some readers questioned whether or not the figures were accurate--that twice as many women than men...
I know my title sounds sexist. Like men are the only ones working. HELLO??!!! Job stress triggers depression in women, too! BUT research suggests that job stress is often the primary trigger for depression in men, whereas relationship stress (you...
One of my favorite male bloggers is John at Storied Mind because he writes about things most of my readers can relate to: work stress, sexual addictions, and the fine line between health and illness. I love his post called...
Also from MayoClinic.com, these health complications resulting from untreated depression, and the suicide statistics for males (note: this is written for the reader seeking help): Like other men, you may feel that your depression symptoms aren't severe. You may believe...
I guess because it's the start of a new school year I want to shake things up a little and add some new features. So we have "Mindful Monday" when we get to navel gaze and be all spiritual, Wednesday...
On Fridays I will address a basic psychiatric question and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to do...
I loved James Bishop's suggestions of ways to support someone struggling with depression. You can't go wrong if you follow his directions on what to say to a friend or relative about this topic no one wants to address. To...
Dr. Christine Whelon, author of "Why Smart Men Marry Smart Women" and columnist with BustedHalo.com wrote an important column recently to address a reader, Susan, who had been dating a man struggling with depression. Following are some excerpts from...
Beliefnet just featured an excerpt from O, The Oprah Magazine, about obsessive thoughts, which included several good pointers. You can get to the gallery by clicking here. It begins .... Ruminating regularly often leads to depression. So if you have...
According to NAMI (National Alliance for Mental Illness): Bipolar Disorder Awareness Day was created by the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), originally supported by a grant from Abbott Laboratories, to increase awareness of bipolar disorder, promote early detection...
During this hiatus from the online world, I realized that all the information I force feed myself during a normal workday is as unhealthy for me as fast food. Now that I'm back to my desk, I don't want to...
I just found a great article on clearing e-mail clutter on a blog called "Think Simple Now." She offers a few suggestions on how to tweak your preferences so to avoid the land of clutter anxiety. And don't fool yourself...
Thanks to Group Beyond Blue member Deep Within for starting the discussion thread on Group Beyond Blue called "YOU did that!" She's absolutely right in that we are quick to congratulate children on their small and big accomplishments throughout...
I realize that this post is a tad hypocritical since my paycheck depends on your clicks, but I need to tell you about my inner transformation during my 19-day hiatus from the computer because, as you might suspect, my mood...
The following excerpts are taken from "Modern Spiritual Masters: Writing on Contemplation and Compassion" edited by Robert Ellsberg: 1. To Hear God Talk And if we really want to pray we must first learn to listen, for in the silence of...
The following Beliefnet gallery was timely for me since I'm finally realizing the healing power of solitude and actually letting myself enjoy my own company, where I can be still and silent for a few minutes. To get to the...
I recently confessed to a friend who suffers from Seasonal Affective Disorder that I get anxious upon hearing the humming sound of the cicadas in late July because I know summer is about finished and it's almost time to get...
Just when I thought I had a lot of goals, I read Alisa Miller's article on "100 Healthy Habits You Should Start in College." Each area of your life (like sleep) has seven or eight goals. That's a lot of...
Awhile back I started a discussion thread on jealousy at Group Beyond Blue (you can get to by clicking here). Check some great suggestions on what fellow depressives do when they start feeling green! To read more Beyond Blue,...
I recently did some research for a women's magazine about depression in young women (ages 18 to 30). The editors wanted to know why so many more women than men struggle with depression. I got out my copy of "A...
We've discussed the topic of infertility and depression often on the discussion boards of Group Beyond Blue. The risk for depression is real among women having difficulty getting pregnant and this is why, according to Dr. Ruta Nonacs in "A...
Group Beyond Blue member SurvivorForce started a discussion thread called "Are we damned if we commit suicide?" at Group Beyond Blue on Beliefnet's Community. He wrote: I have heard that some believe suicide is unforgivable, and that God will...
Group Beyond Blue member Rose S. posted a beautiful reflection on Group Beyond Blue called "Letter to a suicidal person from a survivor": Dear friend, I am writing this to you both as the survivor of an attempted suicide...
According to The Johns Hopkins Winter 2008 Issue of Depression and Anxiety Bulletin: Low levels of the neurotransmitter gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA) have been associated with depression and particularly anxiety, and antidepressants have been shown to increase GABA levels. Now, preliminary...
I was reading "The No-Cry Discipline Solution" last night (because I'd like to discipline without the tears and tantrums!), as recommended by my psychiatrist, and found author Elizabeth Pantley's points for building a strong parental foundation to be ones...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! When I...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! Just before...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! I know...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! I am...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! My daughter's...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! Some people...
Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! Although I've...
Thanks to my editor, Holly, for finding this fascinating study about serotonin and spirituality. I've argued in many places that I swear we depressives are more religious. It turns out that high image brain scans are documenting a biological underpinning...
I was moved by the comment made by Beyond Blue reader Simi on the combox of my post "Video: My Self-Esteem File." I was happy to see this site. I am a therapist myself, and I also suffer from depression....
I have a learning disability called bipolar disorder. My thought process is severely distorted at times, making me believe that the plastic spider in front of me is real, and if I don't exert all my energy into swatting it,...
Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker for forwarding to me Dick Cavett's blog post on depression. It's marvelous. I've excerpted a few paragraphs below. To read the entire article, click here. I thought it was interesting that he mentions...
Macrina Wiederhehr explains how we can impart some of the wisdom of the monastic tradition into our workday in her book "Seven Sacred Pauses." Among my favorite passages are these: How can we learn to open our hearts to simple...
Ironically, right as I'm trying to incorporate some solitude into my life, Beyond Blue reader Frank sent me this meditation of his on solitude. As I read it, it occurred to me that the experience of motherhood is much like...
My blogging buddy John over at "Storied Mind" doesn't need a glamour shot to be reminded that he is beautiful to God. I loved his reflection on this very topic, which you can get to by clicking here. There is...
Dear God, In Matthew's gospel (14:13-21) we read about the miracle of the loaves and fish: When Jesus heard what had happened [to John the Baptist', he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Hearing of this, the...
Interestingly enough, just as I was contemplating how God really does take care of you when you take care of yourself, I received this note from Beyond Blue Barbara: I am very happy. I've just been told that I have...
Click here for an interview on WYPR Maryland Morning of Dr. J. Raymond DePaulo, Jr., Chairman of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Johns Hopkins Medicine on the topic of "Prozac and Placebo" by radio host Sheilah Kast....
A very helpful discussion thread was started at Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community by Group Beyond Blue member Desertsutra called "Anti-Depression Measures," where people have listed what helps them keep going. Desertsutra begins: I know there are lots...
In Steven Curtis's book "Understanding Your Child's Puzzling Behavior," he provides a table called "Steps to Understanding and Intervention" that I think can be applied to any problem we depressives encounter in our recovery. You can download the worksheets (described...
A friend recently asked me what, exactly, about counseling was so helpful to me. I thought for a minute and then said, "I go in there with a mess of problems. I'm entangled in them. I'm overwhelmed. I don't see...
I started a discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community where we can tackle one of our problems and come up with creative solutions. Here is my post: As you'll see in Thursday's post, I'm trying to...
I think I'm smarter today than I was two years ago. At that time had someone forwarded me Newsweek's interview with James Gordon, founder of the Center for Mind-Body Medicine and author of "Unstuck: Your Guide to the Seven-Stage Journey...
Another of his classic essays is the following, titled "Prozac Nation?" in which Kramer refutes the modern wave of thought that we are overmedicating our country, numbing America to every hiccup or discomfort, and doling out antidepressants where there...
I've been feeling badly that I spend so much of my day fantasizing ... about a place not covered in dirty laundry, and where sex is spontaneous (not scheduled), and backrubs and pillow talk come before and after. At this...
I loved this story by Beyond Blue reader Melzoom on the combox of my post, "Dear God: Come All Who are Weary": My second suicide attempt was not immediately severe enough to put me in the hospital. My husband came...
I just now got official word that Group Beyond Blue was the winner of Beliefnet's Top Support Group contest. Yah! I continue to be amazed and delighted at the level of support and friendship and encouragement that is present...
Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker for forwarding me the piece, "The Urge to End It All," published in last Sunday's New York Time magazine. It was quite timely for me because I spent the majority of my...
Group Beyond Blue member Larry Parker started a discussion thread about the New York Times piece on Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community. There he writes: It's a little disorienting at first reading ourselves discussed in the clinical (literally...
In my video I mentioned Dr. Abraham Low's organization, Recovery, Inc. For those of you not familiar with Recovery, Inc., it is a somewhat old-fashioned but very effective mental health program for persons suffering from depression and other mood disorders. Founded...
I wanted to thank all my dear Beyond Blue readers for your care and concern after I published the video about my darker days. I really was mixed on whether or not to publish that. But I remembered my golden...
Beliefnet has collected and discussed nominees for its Top Support Group contest. More than one member has told them that these groups sustain them, give them life, and get them through rough days. They also help people celebrate their...
There were so many amazing stories written on the thread "Your Story," so I'm just publishing some of the first ones written there. Likes these from Group Beyond Blue members Luthitarian, iLiberty, and Lapatosu. To read more Beyond Blue,...
I've never attempted suicide. I've never been hospitalized. I go to work nearly every day and support a large family. I've taken my meds regularly for the past 17 years without fail. I don't forget. I can't forget. The cost...
I've survived the normal issues in an American woman's life in the 80's and 90's. Raising 6 kids through the teenage years, father remarries, mother's medical crisis', death of stepmom, car wrecks, job changes, alcohol abuse on my part, with...
I have been thinking lately about what it means to be a leader (manager, moderator, fill in the blank), and, like I described in my post yesterday, I think it requires getting out of the way as often as...
When my parents divorced, I was nine years old. My mother and I moved from a very remote area to suburban Detroit where she had grown up. We lived with my grandparents for a year before moving into our own...
I'm one of those people who believe that you are born with bipolar disorder. When and how it manifests is based on experience, but the raw ingredients are in your DNA. When I look back on my childhood, I can...
Has your therapist recommended mindful meditation? If she hasn't already, she very well might try to integrate it into your cognitive behavioral therapy by the time you graduate from counseling. The New York Times ran an interesting piece about...
In "Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment" by Tal Ben-Shahar, Ph.D. (and thanks to my Guardian Angel Ann for sending me an autographed copy!): When we do not feel that we are worthy of happiness, we...
If you haven't noticed already, I'm dedicating a lot of posts to the topic of humor lately. For two reasons: as I've said in so many posts, humor is central to my recovery, and second, to respond to those readers...
For this week's segment of my series, "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" I thought I'd reprint the interview with the author Marya Hornbacher in the "Washington Post" by Post staff writer Rachel Beckman. You can get to the...
Here's an excerpt from "Madness: A Bipolar Life": by Marya Hornbacher Sometimes I just run as far and as hard as I can, until I can't breathe, until my heart is about to explode, or until, stumbling drunk, I...
Ann Omohundro needs little introduction, as I speak so often of her on Beyond Blue. If you want a refresher on who she is, check out my video, "Meet Guardian Angel, Ann!" I wanted to share more of her...
Beliefnet's health editor (and my editor) Holly Rossi has pulled together an impressive and comprehensive site called "Living with Depression." Today I'll feature a few things from that page, which you can get to by clicking here. The first...
In her piece "How to Pray When You're Depressed," Kathryn Hermes, F.S.P. offers several ways to pray when you are depressed. To view the gallery, click here. It begins: When you're depressed, you may discover that the shadows and tempests...
Another feature on "Living with Depression" is my gallery of celebs who are battling depression and the spiritual lessons they afford us. To get to that gallery, click here. It begins: When it comes to depression, I search everywhere...
The blog, "We Must Not Think Too Much," is becoming one of my trusted sources of cool stories about depression and mental illness. I have no idea how she is able to scour all the sources she does. But she's...
While we're on the topic of humor, go check out Ovidia's post today on "How She Spent Her Nervous Breakdown." You will get your much-needed daily chuckle. Click here to get there. To read more Beyond Blue, go to...
As I sit down to write my Mother's Day post, I am filled with both tears and goose bumps.Yesterday at the park I talked to a fellow preschool mom in length about her father, who left for a loaf of...
Join the interesting discussion thread, "How Do You Fill the Hole in the Soul?" that I started a few days ago at Group Beyond Blue, which you can get to by clicking here. Lots of interesting suggestions are thrown...
In her classic book, "The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity," Julia Cameron offers readers twelve ways to recover their sense of self or inner creativity. According to this artist, nurturing one's creative powers is a spiritual exercise--and...
Speaking of suffering and anger and confusion, I was incredibly moved by a post on a blog called "Old Lady's Law Office and Kitchen Table" (to get to there click here) about a coworker's death. Suicide. She asks the questions...
My absolute favorite essay on depression is a piece Kay Redfield Jamison wrote for NPR's "This I Believe" collection of testimonies. It's about learning to love our jagged edges. I believe that curiosity, wonder and passion are defining qualities...
While I don't appreciate the nasty tone of many comments on my post about J.K. Rowling's Suicidal Days, they have caused me to rethink my claim that divorce doesn't CAUSE depression—even if it can TRIGGER it. Big whoop, you say:...
As an example of the relationship between stress and depression, J. Raymond DePaulo, Jr., M.D. mentions the situation with CBS commentator Mike Wallace, when he was on trial for libel over a story he'd done. In "Understanding Depression," DePaulo writes:...
For this week's "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" segment, I have reprinted a fascinating article by James Potash, associate professor of psychiatry and co-director of the Mood Disorders Program (where I graduated with the help of Dr. Smith)...
I was taken aback by these statistics that I just read in Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Health Alert: that a quarter of all adults have symptoms of at least one mental disorder each year, and nearly half of all...
Thanks again to Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker (Doxieman122 in the Community) who has taken over moderating the Self-Esteem Forums ever since my doctor told me I needed to start delegating. The following is his invitation: Group Beyond Blue...
According to yesterday's comprehensive article in the "New York Times" by Sarah Kershaw, this month the House has passed a bill that would require insurance companies to provide mental health insurance parity. HALLELUIA! HALLELUIA! HALLELUIA! Writes Kershaw: It was...
I remember reading the following Washington Post article in December of 2005, when I was trying to figure out what in the heck was going on with me. It helped me to understand the nuances that exist within the...
Thanks once more to Lilit Marcus who finds most of my stories on celebrity depression. This one I find disturbing, though. Says Carrey: "I think there's a whole new way of healing depression that doesn't require drugs, but using...
I wanted to thank all of you for your supportive comments regarding http://blog.beliefnet.com/beyondblue/2008/03/video-on-boundaries.html ">my boundary struggle lately with work and family. It was helpful for me to see how many others are at the same place. Like Beyond Blue reader...
I knew there was little chance of getting a personal interview with Peter D. Kramer, clinical professor of psychiatry at Brown University, and author of “Listening to Prozac” and “Against Depression,” among other books. So for my interview series,...
If anyone deserves an Oscar for exceptional acting, it's a depressive. My guardian angel, Ann, told me the other day that she has spent more than half of her life pretending to be a happy person. "People have no...
Thanks to Beyond Blue readers Barbara (formerly known as "Babs") and NYJLM (who writes her own blog, "So Love Is Hard and Love Is Tough" for forwarding me the link to Judith Warner's opinion piece, "Overselling Overmedication" about the...
Here's an interesting story about shopping and depression. To read the Associated Press article, click here. It begins: BOSTON, Massachusetts (AP) -- If you're sad and shopping, watch your wallet: A new study shows people's spending judgment goes out...
If I caught your attention with my title, good. That was the point. Because it was absurd (my title, I mean). Let’s celebrate AIDS! Breast Cancer! Dementia! Yeah! They are all ways of embracing our darker sides! Let's create...
Last week's post on the Newsweek happiness article provoked many interesting comments. I especially liked this insightful one from Beyond Blue reader Mia: Such a great discussion here. And I really love the distinctions being made: "medicine" vs "drugs" and...
Last week I started a discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue (in Beliefnet's Community) about possibly starting a buddy system within Beyond Blue so we have even more support than is offered through discussion threads, blog comments, and participation...
I’m sorry to report that I don’t have an interview today. But I DO have some fodder for a great discussion. Beliefnet’s Lilit Marcus directed me to Newsweek’s psychology story “Happiness: Enough Already” about the “anti-happiness” movement, or shall...
I don't want to cry "poor me" or anything. Lord help me if I sound like I'm WHINING. BUT all this talk about happiness levels reminded me of a post I wrote awhile back on jealousy. Yep. I admit. I...
My blogging buddy, Douglas Cootey, over at The Splintered Mind wrote the following sympathetic and thoughtful blog post after he, too, was reamed out regarding a Heath Ledger commentary. Interestingly enough, Douglas gets it from the other side--from those...
I learned the following at healthyplace.com, a depression community, which was an interesting place you might want to check out. Regarding acupuncture: Two randomized, controlled, clinical trials suggest that electroacupuncture may reduce symptoms of depression as effectively as amitryptiline, a...
Of course, for some of us, feeling sick is a chronic condition. I was overwhelmed by all the comments to my post "Chronic Pain and Depression: The Gift of Gab and God." So many people are in so much pain....
Awhile back, Beliefnet's Dena Ross wrote a short piece on how Christian Music superstar Amy Grant deals with holiday depression. Now Dena offers a comprehensive interview with Amy regarding faith, family, and depression. To see the part of her...
I loved this comment by Beyond Blue reader Leslie because she views "holistic health" as a system using any and all tools that can facilitate growth, recovery, and health of the body, mind, and spirit. Compassionate people like Leslie also...
I want to thank all my Beyond Blue readers for responding with so much compassion and support to my post "My Holistic Approach to Depression." As you can see, the reader pushed a pretty sensitive button by claiming that I...
I started a discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet's Community asking the question: what were you like when you were young? Because I'm curious as to how many others felt very depressed, even suicidal, as a kid....
I don't do this often enough, so let me try to make up for it now. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for caring about each other in the way that you do--offering each other your compassion, empathy, and...
At Group Beyond Blue on Beliefnet's Community site, Beyond Blue member Kylinda launched a discussion on being a newbie to the site. Here is what she said: I don't feel like there's anyone I can talk to without being...
Speaking of Kay, I don't know if I am the only one who caught this comment of hers of the message board of my post "Video: O Holy Night": Merry christmas to you, Therese, and all BB readers and writers.
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Also from Lilit Marcus, this interesting article about three new novels that cast a new light on Britain's hidden epidemic. Stephanie Merritt, who suffers from depression herself, writes a memoir for Random House (and this article) because she wants greater...
A few years back the father of a woman I know shot himself because he couldn’t take his chronic pain anymore. This guy was a highly educated man--a doctor, actually—but, despite all his knowledge and connections, could not find anything...
I recently read an interview with Dr. Paul McClelland, a psychiatrist at St. Agnes Hospital in Baltimore about the serious physical changes in the body and brain that can be a result of depression. These conditions or complications are among...
For today’s “How Do You Move Beyond Blue?” post, I have published a comprehensive update of some fascinating studies that will lead to more effective treatments for depression and other mood disorders. This valuable summary by Karen Swartz was...
I was touched by Cathy's response to my "Dear God: Be My Light" post because it's so honest and articulates beautifully what so many of us feel on those days we struggle: I should pull out my dusty Meister Eckhart...
And I was impressed by Linda-Marie's response to Cathy, especially when she is at a vulnerable place herself. Thanks, Linda-Marie! Cathy, I have gone through periods like you are describing. I am doing my best not to descend into a...
To see Larry Parker start his own blog has been a highlight of 2007, as well. Actually, after reading his "12 Days of Christmas," I'm a bit scared of the competition: Twelve months of celibacy Eleven lithium tablets Ten DBSA...
I was saddened by this message from Beyond Blue reader Bambi on the message board of "Blanche's 12 Bipolar, Alcoholic Days of Christmas": I am extreamly sad. I have a family I live with. I'm 51, my mother is 69,...
After Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker read Zana's comment, he provided the link to lyrics of Kenny Rogers's, "The Gambler." I've sung this song so many times (yeah, yeah, yeah, you're thinking ... "NO, GOD, DON'T SING IT FOR...
Kenny Rogers's refrain--You got to know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em/ Know when to walk away and know when to run--sounds an awful lot like the Serenity Prayer: God, Grant me the courage to accept the...
Dena Ross wrote a great blog post about Christian music star's Amy Grant's depression. To get there, click here. Writes Dena: In her book, "Mosaic: Pieces of My Life So Far," Christian music star Amy Grant talks about her...
You all may know the ever-popular blogger, Dooce. I really loved her post on depression last Thursday, and based on the over 1,000 comments I'm thinking other people could relate, too! Here's the first paragraph: I was recently at...
Although I couldn't leave Tracy's blog after I found it, the following post is my favorite, because I could so relate to the self-righteous (I'm RIGHT!) war that rages in her brain, especially when it comes to work performance. And...
You can find Tracy's blog post called "The Moms' Disease" by clicking here. I have excerpted from it below: It's called Postpartum Depression, or PPD for those of us (too much) in the know. I've done a fair amount of...
If you’ve been reading Beyond Blue with any regularity, you know Larry Parker, because Larry is my most, um, vocal and frequent, commenter. He is extremely intelligent. Philosophical and sophisticated brains like his are the reason I kept my...
Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Becky P. who explained the difference between perseverance and steadfastness on the comment board of "Dear God: On Perseverance": I had a really hard weekend and I've noticed those too well known symptoms of my...
Two other comments got me thinking about how perseverance is really an antidote to the curse of perfectionism that poisons so many of us with creatively-formed brains (isn't that a nice way of saying it?). On the comment board of...
Back on my post "16 Ways Depression Is Like a Pumpkin," Beyond Blue reader Kathy wrote this: I have been reading Beyond Blue for awhile. You may give hope to people with minimum to mild depression. But apparently you have...
I wanted to share Beyond Blue reader Julia's comment that she wrote on the message board of my post "Dear God: On Getting the Right View" for two reasons: I was taken aback by her beautiful articulation of what it's...
Also intriguing was Beyond Blue reader Mary's comment back on my post "Mother Teresa: My Saint of Darkness and Hope": I remember once reading in an article that said that people who are depressed have a more realistic picture of...
I think this is my favorite blog post of Rita's because it addresses that feeling we all encounter ... "I'm so blessed ... so why am I depressed?" (Hey, that rhymes! blessed and depressed ... cool!) I've been reframing my...
After reading the newest study on obesity—that the risk for obesity increased 171 percent (that wasn’t a typo!) among persons with obese friends—I realized the wisdom of my moms words when she told my sisters and me in high school...
This week, for Beyond Blue’s series, "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" I am interviewing John D., who is a fellow mental-health blogger. His site, "Storied Mind," is full of insights on a variety of topics: anger, tears, marriage, workplace...
Another blog post I read with interest was John's piece about how his depression affects his work performance. I've wanted to talk about that more on Beyond Blue, but frankly that's more difficult for me to expose to readers than...
Also in yesterday's "Washington Post," was a wonderful article about the group Active Minds, founded by Malmon to promote dialogue about mental health on college campuses. She lost her older brother, Brian, to suicide in 2002, when he was a...
Since I am such a huge Seinfeld fan--I swear the script writers studied my life before crafting each episode--I thought I'd include an excerpt from Jerry Seinfeld's book, "SeinLanguage," which I own, of course. I try to exercise his wisdom...
One of Liz’s most popular video blogs is the one in which she describes weight gain as a side effect. Since so many Beyond Blue readers have expressed this frustration, I thought I’d include it here....
A few months ago, I featured an interview with Dr. Sanjay Gupta on this very topic of weight gain and psych meds. To read the interview I excerpted from the Winter 2007 issue of the Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety...
From "Getting Relief From Light Therapy" in the Fall 2007 Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin: After years of lurking on the sidelines of depression treatment, therapy with bright light is finally winning a more prominent place in the arsenal...
Also from "Getting Relief From Light Therapy" in the Fall 2007 Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin: Bright-light therapy involves sitting in front of a bank of full-spectrum fluorescent lights for 30-60 minutes each day. To be maximally effective, the...
Karen Swartz, M.D., offers some light-therapy options for those on a tight budget: • A light on a timer. If your experience with SAD includes difficulty getting out of bed in the morning, try putting a lamp in your bedroom...
I have always loved the verses of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, and throughout October and November I say them daily. The beautiful words are attributed to Solomon, which isn't surprising since, according to the Bible, God granted him abundant wisdom. Not Wisdum....
Also in the Fall 2007 issue of the "Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin," a closer look at the symptoms of depression in men, and how they differ to classical symptoms most often found in women: It is difficult to...
Here are some classic symptoms of depression: • Persistent sadness or anxiety • Difficulty concentrating and remembering things • Fatigue and diminished energy • Changes in sleep and appetite • Feelings of hopelessness, guilt, and/or worthlessness • Thoughts of death...
A few weeks back, a Beyond Blue reader asked (I can’t find the comment, sorry!), “What do you do when you are afflicted by BOTH cancer and depression? Your twelve steps work great for healthy people. But what do you...
A few Beyond Blue readers have asked me to post the 12 Depression Busters gallery that Beliefnet featured back in July into a blog so that they can print them out. (By the way, it got 43 diggs! Not that...
Last week there was an article in the "New York Times" about the spat between David Michaelis, the author of the biography of Charles M. Schulz (creator of the "Peanuts" comic strip) released this week by HarperCollins, and the Schulz...
With the suicide attempt of Owen Wilson a few weeks ago, I’ve been thinking a lot about humor and depression—about how so many of us depressives use wit as a remedy for our melancholy. "If we couldn’t laugh, we would...
Thanks to reader Larry Parker for directing me to the story "Darkness Invisible" by Daphe Merkin in the New York Times Magazine last month. It is a powerful commentary on the public’s response to the suicide attempt of Owen Wilson....
I'm facinated by this "circuit-board" model of major depression--the connection between specific sets of nerve cells in different regions of the brain--explained by researchers like Helen S. Mayberg, M.D., professor of psychiatry and neurology at Emory School of Medicine. And...
In case any Beyond Blue readers are camping out in the Black Hole, convinced that they will never ever have a different mailing address, I wanted to share Michelle’s letter with you, so that you have at least one thing...
I was also very moved by Nancy's comment on that same message board: [Your post] brings tears to my eyes as I identify with all that you said and the unspoken words also. It is a deep longing and pain...
Thanks to reader Sandy Slaga for mentioning this podcast called "The Soul in Depression" that you can hear by going to the American Public Media's series, "Speaking of Faith," by clicking here. Here's a description of the podcast that you...
There’s a debate that keeps resurfacing on the message boards of Beyond Blue: is depression a physiological disorder or a spiritual illness in nature? With prayer and medication, can you live happily drug free? Or is that asking for problems?...
I remember the dinner conversation the night of November 4, 1980: "Please pass the corn." Five minutes later: "Pass the salt." My mom voted for Carter. My dad voted for Reagan. I headed to the bathroom. That’s how I deal...
Kevin Culligan, O.C.D. describes his collaborative approach to persons experiencing both depression and dark nights in the same chapter of Egan’s book, "Carmelite Prayer": I follow a collaborative approach to assisting others with their spiritual journey. With most persons, this...
According to Kevin Culligan, O.C.D, manic depression can mimic the behavior of someone growing in her spiritual life. Hey, that’s great news for me! The next time I get manic and tell an inappropriate joke to a colleague, I can...
I was honored to participate last week in a blogger conference call sponsored by Revolution Health with Dr. Val Jone, Dr. Mark Smaller, and Ross Szabo about depression and mental illness among college students today. You can listen to the...
I mentioned some of these in my prior post, but these warning signs are taken from Ross's "Behind Happy Faces" website: Changes in feelings such as fear and anger are a normal part of life. Personal situations, such as a...
Yikes! Here are some facts I came across on Ross's "Behind Happy Faces" website regarding depression and mental illness among college kids. I'm thinking that maybe I won't send David and Katherine off to school, as much as that sounds...
My blogging buddy, James Bishop, over at "Finding Optimism," wrote an excellent post entitled "12 Ways to Care for a Depressed Person." I'll give you the first three, and then go over there yourself to get the others. It's worth...
After Eric read the latest story about Mother Teresa’s crisis of faith, he turned to me and said, "I don’t get it. All you religious types are depressed. What came first? The depression or the religion? . . . And...
"The human heart is exquisitely fragile," Catholic author and columnist Ron Rolheiser writes in his annual column on suicide. "Our judgments need to be gentle, our understanding deep, and our forgiveness wide." I am grateful to reader Babs for leading...
"If I ever become a saint—I will surely be one of 'darkness,'" Mother Teresa wrote in September of 1959. "I will continually be absent from heaven—to light the light of those in darkness on earth." Two years earlier she wrote...
I’ve mentioned psychologist Martin Seligman, author of "Authentic Happiness" (also the name of his website) and the father of positive psychology in past posts because his approach to depression and mood disorders has been helpful. Wendy Schuman of Beliefnet recently...
I was relieved to know Jane Chin, Ph.D., of Chinspirations.com agrees with my doctor that persons who are severely depressed should stay away from self-help books. On the message board on my post "What the Secret Can and Can’t Do...
Have you been labeled "treatment resistent"? Maybe you just haven't found the right psychiatrist. My blogging buddy, James, wrote a great post yesterday on his process of finding the right treatment for him. He links to my post on "My...
Since so many Beyond Blue readers expressed the importance of exercise in their war against depression on the message board of my " ">Depression and Coupes" post, I thought I’d share exercise tips by Karen Swartz, M.D., one of the...
Last Friday Yahoo ran a story on postpartum depression blogs out there to help moms. My blogging buddy, Katherine Stone, was featured, and she was so kind as to mention Beyond Blue as part of the story. To read the...
I’ve said this in prior posts, but hopefully writing it over and over again will help me to know better how to tackle it. I hate that my depression affects my kids. Because I know it does. According to Mark...
According to Dr. Mark Gold (who wrote "The Good News About Depression"--have I mentioned I hate that title?), a major problem in today’s society is that there is no support from extended family for depressed mothers. Gold says this: In...
Have you ever been at a wedding reception when the best man stands us and toasts his glass of champagne to the bride, who is “so much better than the last one”? An awkward silence ensues, followed by an explosion...
My Guardian Angel Ann is a great guardian angel to my children, so, in grandparent style, she bought each of them a picture book and inscribed a message on them. She also bought Eric and me books. Mine was a...
Also in the "Washington Post," I was delighted to see the following letter to the editor regarding the Laura Zigman essay on depression I excerpted in my "The Moment She Cried Uncle" post (to read the whole essay, click here)...
"So let me get this straight," a friend of a friend said to me last night. "You drove eight hours up to Boston to stay with a woman you met on an Amtrak train two years ago, and with whom...
There’s an interesting discussion on the message boards of my "Relapse: The Waiting Place" post and "What Makes People Relapse?" post about whether or not a person can fully recover from depression. Is depression like cancer … in that we...
Just yesterday I was talking to my fellow Beliefnet blogger David Kuo about the similarities between brain tumors and depression. I don't have to worry about my growth turning malignant as much as he does, but we both agreed that...
Reader Larry Parker is always posting interesting comments. I was intrigued by the distinction he makes (with Patton Dodd) between optimism and hope, and the comparison he makes between depression and cancer. He shares on the message board of "Relapse:...
In his comment, Larry highlighted some points made by Patton Dodd, who wrote Beliefnet’s "Optimism Is Depression," (click here) about the distinction between optimism and hope. The article begins . . . Long before "The Secret" had readers talking about...
Even as I’m not very good at it, I know that gratitude is important and can help a person beat depression. Based on her research findings, University of California psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky believes that keeping a gratitude journal--taking the time...
I was so refreshed by the candid comment of reader Margaret and so many others on my "They Just Don’t Get It" post. Margaret’s insights deserve an entire post because she hit on so many emotions that depressives feel but...
Also at BlogHer I met a soulmate in Katherine Stone. She writes a fabulous blog on postpartum depression. In fact, it's the most visited site on postpartum issues. Katherine spoke at a workshop I attended about blogs becoming a voice...
Thanks to reader Tina who mentioned her miscarrage as a possible trigger for her recent relapse into depression on the message board of "Relapse: The Waiting Place." Just as depression is often triggered by a birth (postpartum depression), it happens...
Thanks to an anonymous reader on my "Is It a Relapse?" post who wrote: This is a great article! However, what have you done that helped you to come out of it since? I was hoping to read on and...
The opposite of depression is not happiness, according to Peter Kramer, author of "Against Depression" and "Listening to Prozac," it is resilience: the ability to cope with life’s frustrations without falling apart. Proper treatment doesn’t suppress emotions or dull a...
Thanks to Beyond Blue, I know that I’m not alone with regard to how my packed schedule contributes to depression. Reader TJ wrote this in an e-mail to me: One major factor to being suicidal was not enough time to...
I continue to be amazed and delighted by the support offered by readers to those who post their problems on the message boards of Beyond Blue. The other day at breakfast, Eric said to me, "I feel bad for Moira."...
One of the most meaningful notes I received on my relapse post was from a woman who lost her son to suicide. After reading her words, I felt renewed in my mission to educate as many people as I can...
Along the lines of helping people to understand mental illness, I received the following question on my relapse post. I wondered what Beyond Blue readers have to say about how to approach a friend who is struggling with depression. Thank...
Here are just a few of the pearls I found on the message board of "Is It a Relapse?" Reach the Middle Place Deep inside you have the heart and faith to know that bad as today is, there is...
I was also pleased to hear how many readers have recently discovered Beyond Blue and are so relieved to have found a place where others share their pain, that they take away such hope from the reader comments and from...
Here’s an interesting article on WebMD by Miranda Hitti about the relationship between depression and menstrual cycles. Jan. 28, 2005 -- Most women with depression get worsening symptoms prior to their periods, researchers say. In a new study, 64% of...
"Acknowledge miracles in your life. Angels are God’s miracle workers," writes Jayne Howard Feldman, and Suzanne Siegel Zenkel says "Where there is goodness, there is an angel." I’ve met an angel at every important crossroad in my life. One came...
Every depressive is different when it comes to crying "Uncle," and calling the doc. My guardian angel Ann says that if she stays in bed three days in a row, she will call the doctor on the fourth day (or...
Although we weren’t allowed to roast marshmallows in the psych ward (for fear of someone purposely lighting himself on fire), there were many campfire moments, where we sat in a circle sharing some of the most intimate memories, stories, hopes,...
When that happens to a manic-depressive when her bumps get wings and fly away? She becomes "exuberant," the title of Kay Redfield Jamison’s book ("Exuberance: The Passion for Life"). This is the other face of depression, not mania. Jamison writes:...
I've shared my twelve depression busters before, but by clicking here you can view a gallery featuring my toolbox that directs me toward mental health, and serves as an emergency lifeline in case I get lost along the way. I...
For a long while I was afraid to write things such as "I am mentally ill" or "I am bi-polar." I was afraid of labels. By calling myself a manic-depressive would I trap my psyche in "sick" mode? By accepting...
Thanks to reader Larry Parker who wrote the following message on my "Oprah at Wellesley" post: Creative visualization, or "The Secret," or the Law of Attraction--or whatever you want to call Oprah's philosophy--is not inspiring for those of us with...
I don’t know how to respond to the following notes posted on various message boards other than to say that I pray for you and offer you my sincere condolences and support. And I ask all readers out there to...
I don’t know how to respond to the following notes posted on various message boards other than to say that I pray for you and offer you my sincere condolences and support. And I ask all readers out there to...
If I could avoid it--and exit the grocery store without accidentally reading tabloid headlines--I wouldn't follow the details of Paris Hilton’s life. And even if I was one of those people truly fascinated by her, like my sister is, I...
A few weeks ago, I launched my series "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" with an interview with Gretchen Rubin, a fellow blogger who is working on the "Happiness Project."Now I bring to you the lovely and inspirational Sandy Slaga,...
I hereby apologize for my anti-Oprah remarks in past posts. Until last week's show on depression I didn't realize all the support she offers (online chat rooms and tons of resources via her media kingdom, which starts at www.oprah.com) to...
On Wednesday’s show Oprah also interviewed Phil Aronson, husband of Emme Aronson, formerly the world's leading plus-size super model and Revlon cover girl.I think his story is important to tell too because our society often thinks of depression as a...
On Oprah's website, I found this interesting article about the difference in symptoms between women and men who suffer from depression:According to psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz, author of "Anatomy of a Secret Life," major depression and dysthymia affect twice as...
For readers like "Citizen," I think it's important to list the symptoms of major depression covered by the DSM-IV (the current edition of the Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) published by the American Psychiatric Association.According to the DSM-IV, a person...
Click here to read Shankar Vedantam's entire "Washington Post" article on the new guidelines for diagnosing depression.It begins:Up to 25 percent of people in whom psychiatrists would currently diagnose depression may only be reacting normally to stressful events such as...
Thanks to reader "Citizen" who posted the following question on my "Labor Pains" post:How do you distinguish depression from ordinary feelings, if it isn't as obvious as what you have described?Separating clinical depression from the sadness and normal anxiety caused...
Depression is a lot like childbirth. Once you've climbed out of the Black Hole (i.e. are holding your newborn in your arms) you forget (at least temporarily) about all the cursing you did during the labor that got you there.In...
Speaking of advice for graduates, here are a few passages from recent commencement addresses that I found especially meaningful. From them I gleaned many insights on how to live more gracefully with depression and anxiety.Toni Morrison at Wellesley College, 2004:...
Here's an excellent article written by Douglas Todd for Religion News Service about Archbishop Roussin's depression and how he is fighting for better understanding of mental illness within religious communities.Once again, Roussin is my hero!Archbishop Raymond Roussin remembers the shame...
I mentioned in my "Celebrity Depression, Spiritual Lessons" gallery how Brooke Shields' memoir, "Down Came the Rain," gave me permission to cry all I wanted, especially in the months after I started breastfeeding Katherine, when I started to sink into...
My heart goes out to reader Nancy, who posted the following message on my "Depression Is Conquerable" post:"I read with interest your posts about depression. I have been a long-time sufferer--since I was a child--of major depression as well as...
I mentioned Deep Brain Stimulation (DBS) the other day, but the link to the article on it required a password. Sorry about that.Here are some excerpts from an interview with Helen S. Mayberg, M.D., professor of psychiatry and neurology at...
What do the Christian existential thinker Soren Kierkegaard and the movie "The Full Monty" (the 1997 flick about six unemployed steel workers who form a male striptease act) have in common?Let me tell you.Kierkegaard described despair as not being conscious...
Ever since my friend helped forge the connection between Kierkegaard's act of kenosis, or self-emptying (in my case sharing with the world my story of depression and recovery) and "The Full Monty," I've been on the lookout for other flashers...
Another poignant testimony is the 4,500-word article entitled "Hell and Back" by Chris Rose, a columnist for The Times-Picayune in New Orleans, who reported on the post-Katrina life, and, as a result, got sucked down the "rabbit hole" (as he...
This is why I need to be in touch with people currently battling the demons of depression: they remind me of where I was, so that in the event I find myself in that massive pile of animal waste again,...
I just shared my belief that depression is conquerable. But how? Here are some treatment facts, according to "The Johns Hopkins White Papers 2007: Depression and Anxiety" by Karen L. Swartz, one of the physicians who evaluated me in Spring...
Also from "The Johns Hopkins White Papers 2007":"If you're on an antidepressant and it's not working, don't give up on it: You may need a higher dose, a longer duration of therapy, a different drug altogether, or a combination of...
Click here to read a fascinating interview on "Medscape Today" with Helen S. Mayberg, MD, Professor of Psychiatry and Neurology, at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, about her groundbreaking research into the neurophysiologic loci of depression and the benefits of...
Lest my readers think that I'm contracted by the Dark Side (sorry, watching too much "Star Wars" lately) to encourage addictive behavior and rationalize all weakness, here are a dozen addiction zappers and depression busters I use in deficient moments...
Good Friday and the narrative of the Lord's passion will always be connected to the story of the hemorrhaging woman in the Synoptic Gospels (Matthew, Mark, and Luke) for me, because just as I yelled out to God in the...
Another Reader Question: one reader asked if she should leave her husband of 30 years (did I get that right?) because he is unsupportive of her depression. (Feel free to fill in the gaps of the situation on the message...
Massachusetts Governor Deval Patrick must have memorized Don Miguel Ruiz's classic, "The Four Agreements"--a book introducing the wisdom of the ancient Toltec, a Mexican tribe of scientists and artists--because it appears he's got the first agreement down: "Be Impeccable with...
I was so moved by these excerpts that I read from Kitty Dukakis' memoir about her battle with depression. With the help of medical journalist Larry Tye, Kitty shares how controversial shock therapy treatments saved her life....
I've always loved Rosie O'Donnell for her courteous and tactful wit. But now I want to hang photos of this comedian all over my desk because, as a fellow depressive gone public, she has just made my job of educating...
Each summer I pick a project. Last year's was to develop my self-esteem. According to David Burns, that should only take ten days. But nine months later, I'm still not there.From June to August last year, this was the routine:...
Now that I have mocked the meditation of one of the most prominent Catholic theologians of our time, let me say that I adore Henri Nouwen's stuff. Because it is so raw and real. A friend of mine told me...
Yeterday I mentioned Talia Mana's blog, and now I'll share that she just interviewed me on blogging about depression. Her website, the Centre for Emotional Well-Being, is full of interesting research, commentary, and discussions. She and I have decided to...
I wish psychiatrists sent depressives home with instructions on when to go to the hospital similar to the ones obstetricians give to pregnant women once they reach 37 weeks of gestation: when your contractions last for a minute each and...
Last Wednesday a friend of mine died.He was one of the most successful newspaper columnists of his time, the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize, and a comic genius. But I appreciated Art Buchwald most as one of the three "Blues...
Art Buchwald wrote the following as an introduction to a fantastic article in "Psychology Today" (Nov, 1999) called "Celebrity Meltdown: Famous, Important People Who Have Suffered Depression.""I had two depressions, one in 1963 and the other in 1987--the first clinical...
We're in good company! Here's just a preliminary list of famous people who have struggled with mental disorders. Even more are found in the same "Psychology Today" article for which Art Buchwald wrote an introduction.H-HospitalizedSA-Suicide AttemptS-SuicidePublic FiguresBarbara Bush * Former...
Thanks to a reader, Jennifer, for her comment on how Eric's intolerance for clutter could be seen as controlling. It made me think of the correlation between abusive relationships and depression. While I'm happy to report that my marriage is...
I found this interesting article on how depression affects couples: "Depression Fallout: The Impact of Depression on Couples."...
I stayed relatively silent about my depression for two decades because I felt I had no right to complain.Two million children in Africa die a year from Malaria. That's suffering. Mothers risk their lives to give birth in war-torn Iraq....
From my original blog, in case you missed it:I haven't always been so candid about my depression and anxiety. A year ago, while in the eye of the storm, I bailed on delivering the keynote address to a large Catholic...
I'm always telling David and Katherine to use their words (instead of whining and screaming), but I'm often afraid to use them myself. Unlike Eric, who vocalizes a resentment before it's had time to fester and start a family, I...
Depression affects women almost twice as often as men, with about one in four women suffering from it in her lifetime. While depression may strike at any time, studies show that women are particularly vulnerable during their childbearing years. Two...
I tell the story of the poinsettia because it describes what has happened to me with "Beyond Blue." At the low point of my depression, I was convinced that I had absolutely nothing to offer the world: that my husband...
Here are a few of those warm fuzzies you've been kind enough to post on this blog. Let's keep sharing with each other:Some days I feel there is no hope for me. But then I read your article and a...