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Wednesday November 4, 2009

Categories: Depression

Am I Depressed or Just Deep?

s-WATER-large.jpg I spent my adolescence and teenage years obsessing about this question: Am I depressed or just deep?  

When I was nine, I figured that I was a young Christian mystic because I related much more to the saints who lived centuries ago than to other nine-year-old girls who had crushes on boys. I couldn't understand how my sisters could waste quarters on a stupid video game when there were starving kids in Cambodia. Hello? Give them to UNICEF! 

Now I look back with tenderness to the hurting girl I was and wished somebody had been able to recognize that I was very depressed.

Not that I would have accepted the help. I believed, along with all the other adults in my life, that my melancholy and sensitivity were part of my "special" make-up, that they were gifts to celebrate, not neuroses to treat. And should I take meds that helped me laugh and play and design cool barrettes like the other girls, well, then I would lose my depth.

On the PBS website "This Emotional Life"--a multi-platform project centered on a three-part series documentary to be broadcast in early 2010 hosted by Harvard psychologist and bestselling author Daniel Gilbert--psychologist Paula Bloom discusses the topic of being deep versus being depressed. On her blog post "Am I Depressed or Just Deep?," she writes:
 
Sometimes, people confuse being depressed with being philosophical. If I had a dollar (well, maybe $2) for every time I hear "I am not depressed, I am just realistic", "Anyone who isn't depressed isn't paying attention", or "Life has no meaning and I am going to die, how can I be happy?" I could likely support a hardcore latte habit. Depression can have such an effect on your worldview. 
There are a few basic existential realities we all confront: mortality, aloneness and meaninglessness. Most people are aware of these things. A friend dies suddenly, a coworker commits suicide or some planes fly into tall buildings-these events shake most of us up and remind of us of the basic realities. We deal, we grieve, we hold our kids tighter, remind ourselves that life is short and therefore to be enjoyed, and then we move on. Persistently not being able to put the existential realities aside to live and enjoy life, engage those around us or take care of ourselves just might be a sign of depression.

 
We all get sad sometimes, struggle to fall asleep, lose our appetite or have a hard time focusing. Does this mean we are depressed? Not necessarily. So how do you know the difference? The answer, as with most psychological diagnoses comes down to one word: functioning. How are you sleeping and eating? Are you isolating yourself from others? Have you stopped enjoying the things you used to enjoy? Difficulty focusing and concentrating? Irritable? Tired? Lack of motivation? Do you feel hopeless? Feel excessively guilty or worthless? Experiencing some of these things may be a sign of depression.

Wednesday November 4, 2009

Categories: Depression

There's Nothing Deep About Depression

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Peter Kramer's article, "There's Nothing Deep About Depression," which was published in the New York Times magazine in 2005, is truly a classic, if you haven't already read it in entirety. You can get to the article by clicking here. Here are my favorite excerpts:

Shortly after the publication of my book ''Listening to Prozac,'' 12 years ago, I became immersed in depression. Not my own. I was contented enough in the slog through midlife. But mood disorder surrounded me, in my contacts with patients and readers.

I found myself speaking -- sometimes about ethics, more often about mood disorders -- with many audiences, in bookstores, at gatherings of the mentally ill and their families and at professional meetings. Invariably, as soon as I had finished my remarks, a hand would shoot up. A hearty, jovial man would rise and ask -- always the same question -- ''What if Prozac had been available in van Gogh's time?''

I understood what was intended, a joke about a pill that makes people blandly chipper. The New Yorker had run cartoons along these lines -- Edgar Allan Poe, on Prozac, making nice to a raven. Below the surface humor were issues I had raised in my own writing. Might a widened use of medication deprive us of insight about our condition? But with repetition, the van Gogh question came to sound strange. Facing a man in great pain, headed for self-mutilation and death, who would withhold a potentially helpful treatment?

Thursday October 29, 2009

Categories: Depression

Daylight Savings Time and SAD

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Okay, folks, we got three days until Armageddon for depressives: Daylight Savings Time. Time to pull out the HappyLites!

In case you think I'm making up all this stuff about less light leading to depression, especially in the winter months, I will quote a woman with much more medical knowledge and expertise than me: Karen Swartz, M.D., Director of Clinical Programs at the Johns Hopkins Mood Disorders Center, and one of the physicians who evaluated me when I was severely depressed in March of 2006.

Here's what she says in a special report as part of the Fall 2007 Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin called "Getting Relief From Light Therapy":

Some people experience episodes of depression only during the winter months, particularly January and February, when there is less sunlight--thus the name "winter depression," or seasonal affective disorder (SAD). Typically, symptoms of depression peak in the winter and recede in the spring. 

As seasons change, so does the amount of daily sunlight, which in turn causes changes in the body's internal biological clock, known as circadian rhythm. This rhythm is a 24-hour cycle that affects our eating and sleeping patterns, brain wave activity, hormone production, and other biological activities. In some people, less daily sunlight and changes in circadian rhythm can bring about depression.

One theory is that the relative lack of sunlight during these times may alter brain levels of certain mood-related chemicals, for example, increasing levels of the hormone melatonin.

People with SAD often eat and sleep excessively, crave sugary or starchy foods, and have a full remission in the spring and summer when more daily sunlight is available.

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Thursday October 29, 2009

Categories: Depression

Recognizing SAD

According to Karen Swartz, here's how to recognize seasonal affective disorder (SAD):

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is characterized by recurring bouts of major depression that usually coincide with the shorter daylight hours of autumn and winter. Though a person with SAD may have depressive episodes at other times of the year, the number of seasonal episodes significantly outnumbers the non-seasonal ones.


For an episode of major depression to be classified as SAD, there should be at least three episodes of mood disturbance in three separate winter seasons, at least two of which are consecutive. There should be no association between disturbance and situation stresses, such as being unemployed each winter.

A major depression, seasonal or otherwise, is characterized by the following symptoms [my note here: also remember the "atypical" symptoms I listed last week that can occur especially in men]:

• Sad, depressed, or irritable mood
• Changes in appetite or weight
• Sleep problems
• Lack of energy
• Inability to make decisions
• Problems concentrating
• Low self-esteem (feelings of worthlessness or guilt)
• Lack of interest in or enjoyment of activities
• Diminished sex drive
• Bodily aches and pains
• Memory loss
• Suicidal thoughts

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Wednesday October 28, 2009

Categories: Depression

Lawyers and Depression: An Interview with Daniel Lukasik

dan lawyer.jpg Today I have the honor of interviewing Daniel Lukasik, a distinguished attorney and the creator of the very cool website LawyersWithDepression.com. Daniel also writes the Lawyers With Depression blog, which covers a range of different topics, from spirituality to how to make smart decisions as professionals.
 

Question: Why are so many lawyers depressed?

Daniel:

1. Lawyers are Pessimistic Thinkers.

According to Professor Martin Seligman, lawyers have a "pessimistic explanatory style." This is not the same thing as seeing the glass as "half empty." Rather, pessimistic lawyers tend to attribute the causes of negative events as stable and global factors (It's going to last forever, and it's going to undermine everything.) The pessimist views bad events as pervasive, permanent, and uncontrollable while the optimist sees them as local, temporary and changeable ("Oh well, I didn't win this one, but tomorrow's a new day and I will get a fresh start."). Pessimism is seen as a plus among lawyers, because seeing troubles as pervasive and permanent is a component of what the law profession deems prudence. They have to foresee every possible snare and catastrophe. While this might help them be better lawyers, this trait does not always make them happy human beings. In fact, pessimistic thinking is seen by cognitive behavioral therapy as a hallmark of depression.

2. Negative Behavior Patterns.

According to Professor Andrew Benjamin, lawyers take on too much work and have trouble maintaining healthy relationships. This, in turn, precipitates career dissatisfaction, loss of intrinsic motivation, and abandonment of personal values. These behavior patterns leave many lawyers suffering from high levels of depression and from chronically elevated levels of hostility, cynicism, and aggression.

3. High Levels of Stress.

The adversarial nature of the profession repeatedly triggers the physiological
fight-or-flight response in our bodies. When confronted with a threat -whether real or perceived - this response kicks in and floods our bodies with the powerful hormones cortisol and adrenaline, which propel us into action. Over time, this chronic anxiety causes the release of too many fight-or-flight hormones. Research has shown that prolonged release of cortisol damages areas of the brain that have been implicated in depression: the hippocampus (involved in learning and memory) and the amygdale (involved in how we perceive fear). Indeed, Richard O'Connor - an expert on depression - has concluded that depression "is stress that has gone on too long."

Wednesday October 28, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Daniel Lukasik: Stress, Depression and Our Bodies

How to avoid burnout.

Monday October 26, 2009

Categories: Anxiety, Depression

Mindful Monday: 11 Ways to Treat the Death Thoughts That Come with Depression and Anxiety

Some tips for when you can't stop thinking about death.

Monday October 26, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Treating Depression and Folate Deficiency with Medical Foods

Alicia Sparks's post "Treating Depression and Folate Deficiency with Medical Foods" on PsychCentral discusses a fascinating topic. I was supposed to be part of the media briefing she participated in, but couldn't be there, so I wanted to feature her...

Thursday October 22, 2009

Social Attachment, Motherhood, and Mental Illness: An Interview with Jessica Zucker

Social attachment tips for new moms from a psychologist, and ways to compensate when you didn't experience that as a baby.

Tuesday October 20, 2009

Categories: Depression

16 Ways Depression Is Like a Pumpkin

Yes. It's that season where I compare everything to a pumpkin! 1. It comes in all shapes and sizes (and diagnoses). 2. With enough creativity, you can it put it to good use. 3. You have to carefully monitor...

Monday October 19, 2009

Mindful Monday: When Darkness Surrounds You

Mother Teresa and Henri Nouwen both experienced dark nights of the soul.

Monday October 12, 2009

Mindful Monday: Dare to Stay with Your Pain, Stay with Your Loneliness

Spiritual author Henri Nouwen and psychologist John Bradshaw on healing the pain of your inner child.

Monday September 28, 2009

Video: Don't Give Up

I actually taped this video awhile back. Some of you may have already seen it. Even though it's not a great shot of me, the video's message, on perseverance, is important, I think. And that's the theme today. So I...

Monday September 21, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

12 Ways to Keep Going

A Beyond Blue reader recently asked me to forward this piece to her. I needed to read it again, too ... to try to find the dogged determination within me to stay focused on hope, not hopelessness. A woman who...

Thursday September 17, 2009

Bounce: 6 Steps to Become More Resilient

How do you bounce back? Tips for resilience

Wednesday September 16, 2009

Categories: Anxiety, Depression

Use Caution With Positive Thinking

positive thinking can make your thoughts worse, self-help can hurt you

Tuesday September 8, 2009

Categories: Depression

Depression Increases the Risk of Major Diseases and Illnesses

It's fairly known that depression can occur after a heart attack and can increase the likelihood of a second heart attack. But did you know that the flip side is also true? That depression itself can increase a person's...

Friday September 4, 2009

Categories: Depression

Give Me the Gun: When Suicidal Ideations Take Over

I have been thinking about this question ever since I read it on a discussion thread in Group Beyond Blue. Group Beyond Blue member Meg writes: So, my husband has shown interest in getting a handgun permit. It's the...

Thursday August 27, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

10 Steps to a Self-Esteem File

For newbies, or for any reader wanting more information, I recently wrote out 10 steps to make your own self-esteem file. These instructions are featured in this Beliefnet gallery that you can get to by clicking here. Here's my...

Wednesday August 26, 2009

Schedule of a HSF (Highly Sensitive Family)

A typical Saturday morning in our highly-sensitive house looks like this: 2:00 a.m. HSH (highly sensitive husband) goes downstairs to sleep on the couch because he keeps getting awoken by the loud snoring of his HSW (highly sensitive wife), who...

Wednesday August 19, 2009

12 Ways to Overcome Jealousy and Envy

I have been told that envy is my least becoming quality. But what do you expect from a girl who grew up with three gorgeous sisters within three years of me? Cute junior-high boys used me to get to my...

Wednesday August 5, 2009

Psalm 91: God Is With You

I recently came upon this message on my Beliefnet homepage: I have bipolar as well, but I am usually more depressed than manic. I fight every day to look for something to cling to do I do not take my...

Tuesday August 4, 2009

Categories: Depression

Preschool Depression Is Real

It's official. Depression is real among kids as young as three. In a study lead by Dr. Joan Luby, a psychiatrist at Washington University in St. Louis, researchers found that preschoolers with depression had a 4 times greater likelihood...

Tuesday August 4, 2009

Categories: Depression

Signs of Childhood Depression May Surprise

I found the following post by Rick Nauert, Ph.D., Senior News Editor interesting. Click here to get to it. New research suggests the symptoms of depression among children are often different from those displayed by adults. German scientists discovered...

Tuesday August 4, 2009

Categories: Depression

It's Official: We're Miserable

I love the polls that fellow blogger John McManamy offers on his blog, Knowledge Is Necessity, and I love his entertaining way of putting all the facts together. So July was a pretty crappy month for him and his...

Thursday July 30, 2009

Categories: Depression

Recovery From Addiction and Depression: An Interview with Vivian Eisenecher

recovery from addiction and depression, dual diagnosis

Thursday July 30, 2009

Categories: Depression

Can the 12 Steps Help a Mood Disorder?

I also asked Vivian if a person struggling with a mood disorder can benefit from the 12 steps in his or her recovery. This is what she said ... I think the 12 steps can be used to recover from...

Tuesday July 28, 2009

Categories: Depression

John Gallagher: I Went from Suicide to Surrender

Nine years ago John Gallagher tried to kill himself--not once, but twice. Today, with God's help, he is dedicating his life to helping others cope with depression and its impact on families. Here is his story. Read more at...

Monday July 27, 2009

Henri Nouwen on Living with the "Not Yet"

The following passage is from Henri Nouwen's book, "The Inner Voice of Love": Try to keep your small, fearful self close to you. This is going to be a struggle, because you have to live for a while with the...

Wednesday July 22, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

3 Ways We Can Control Our Moods

Larry Drain of the Hopeworks Community blog wrote an excellent post on three things we can do about our moods: prevention, coping, learning. He writes "Moods are processes--not event. They have a coming and a going." Like mindfulness specialist...

Thursday July 9, 2009

9 Favorite Scripture Verses

On my post "6 Favorite Prayers," Beyond Blue reader June wrote: "Thank you so much for these!
Will there be a sequel?" Here my sequel! 9 of my favorite scripture verses ... Ecclesiastes 3: A Time for Everything There is a...

Monday July 6, 2009

Mindful Monday: 4 Steps to Mindfulness

On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through...

Monday July 6, 2009

Categories: Anxiety, Depression

Love After Love: A Poem About Mindfulness

At the end of track 3, of Elisha Goldstein's CD, "Mindful Solutions for Stress, Anxiety, and Depression," he recites this moving poem by Derek Walcot. Each time I hear it, I get a little closer to self-acceptance. And ironically enough,...

Thursday July 2, 2009

Categories: Depression

Pundits Ponder Whether Palin Had Postpartum Depression

Katherine Stone over at Postpartum Progress writes an interesting post in response to the Vanity Fair article by Todd Purdum suggesting that former Vice President candidate Govern Sarah Palin was experiencing postpartum depression during the Presidential campaign. She is right...

Monday May 25, 2009

Mindful Monday: Don't Let Fear Motivate You

On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through the...

Friday May 22, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Do Antidepressants Dull Emotions?An Interview with Ron Pies, M.D.

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best...

Tuesday May 19, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Why Antidepressants Do Live Up to the Hype: I See a Cup Half Full

I always get a little irritated with articles like the one just published in Time magazine: "Why Antidepressants Don't Live Up to the Hype" by John Cloud. Why? Because I know that somewhere out there is a person who...

Thursday May 14, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Dark Night and Clinical Depression

What's the difference between a dark night of the soul, as understood by the Spanish Carmelite mystic, St. John of the Cross, and clinical depression? It is a topic that has intrigued me for over 15 years because my senior...

Thursday May 14, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

An Excerpt from "A Hell of Mercy" by Tim Farrington

From A HELL OF MERCY by Tim Farrington. Copyright C 2009 by Tim Farrington. Reprinted by permission of HarperOne, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers. Doubt as to whether you are in a dark night or "just depressed" is probably...

Friday May 8, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

A Letter to New Moms

Blogger Katherine Stone at Postpartum Progress, will host the first annual Mother's Day Rally for Moms' Mental Health this Mother's Day. This online event will feature 24 open letters to new mothers on the importance of maternal mental health....

Monday May 4, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Can You See Your Progress?

I started a discussion thread on Group Beyond Blue where folks are chatting about their small and big victories. To join the discussion, click here or visit Group Beyond Blue by clicking here. I especially liked this contribution from John...

Wednesday April 29, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

One Life Saved, One Not

Just when I think that Beyond Blue is just a bunch of yuppie whining, and the real problems of the world are found in the poverty-stricken corners of Somalia, not in the air-conditioned, spacious family rooms of middle- and upper-class...

Wednesday April 29, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Suicides Spike in April and May

According to J. Raymond DePaulo Jr., M.D., professor of psychiatry at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine: Although you might think that more people would tend to commit suicide in the dark days of winter, in fact, the peak seasons...

Monday April 20, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Erika Krull: Motherhood and Depression

The following post is one of the best that I've read regarding postpartum depression and other health conditions related to pregnancy and motherhood. You can get to it by clicking here. I have excerpted a few paragraphs. Gender expectations and...

Friday April 17, 2009

Categories: Depression

Friday's Question: Is Depression Really Less Common in Men Than in Women?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Thursday April 16, 2009

Categories: Depression

My Holistic Approach to Depression

I usually don't respond to the harsh critiques of my blog, but I need to defend myself on this one because it echoes the bullying statements I often hear from some family members and friends, especially those who embrace the...

Thursday April 16, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: What's Your Response?

I recently told my therapist that I was going to come up with an automatic response to unintentional hurtful comments that come my way, so that I don't have to absorb them and stew over them hours after the...

Wednesday April 8, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

On the Huffington Post: 12 Depression Busters

I was thrilled to see my 12 Depression Busters featured as the lead on the Huffington Post's Living section (until they changed to "6 Things You Didn't Know About Passover," which is also a great read. Anyway, if you're feeling...

Wednesday April 8, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

John McManamy: Play, People, Play!

Awhile back, fellow blogger John McManamy and I were talking about the dull process of becoming an adult, and how important it is to retain our playful spirits, especially if you're battling a mood disorder. Well, he certainly took my...

Wednesday April 8, 2009

How to Pray When Depressed

I often refer to this gallery of ways you can pray when you're depressed written by Kathryn J. Hermes, F.S.P. I'm glad she gives us 10 spiritual techniques because my prayer method changes daily when I'm going through a...

Tuesday April 7, 2009

Video: Good Boundaries, Bad Boundaries

Since I'm talking a lot about boundaries lately, I thought I'd republish the one I taped last summer where I describe an exercise I learned in the psych ward (how to visualize your boundaries) and give you an example of...

Wednesday April 1, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

On April Fool's Day: 9 Ways Humor Heals

I wrote this post awhile back, and Beliefnet featured it as a gallery. Given it's April Fool's Day, I thought it was appropriate to republish it. To get to the gallery, click here. Of all my tools to combat stress-especially the...

Tuesday March 31, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Brains of People with Depression Are Different (As if you didn't know that)

I admit that I find it somewhat consoling to read studies that prove our brains are different because that makes me feel legitimate in my gripes, or vindicated in my efforts to correct my thought distortions. Like there really...

Friday March 27, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: How Do You Grow Your Faith As a Person With a Mental Illness?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Friday March 27, 2009

Categories: Catholicism, Depression

Depression: It's Spiritually Incorrect

I've been politically incorrect for as long as I can remember. I really should wear a sign around my neck that says "I apologize if I say something offensive," because it feels like I am eating the soles of my...

Thursday March 26, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Surviving Depression: A Mindful Way

I've had the great pleasure of developing a relationship with Dr. Elisha Goldstein who writes the blog "Mindfulness and Psychotherapy" for Psych Central. I'm featuring an interview with him coming up, but I wanted to link to one of his...

Thursday March 26, 2009

John McManamy: Depression ... Are We All Alone?

Many thanks to my friend John McManamy for blogging on my post "Depression: They Just Don't Get It" last week. I like how he answers the question, "Are we all alone in our depression?" No, not really. Way too many...

Thursday March 19, 2009

Depression: They Just Don't Get It

I've learned in 12-step support groups that if you decide to share something important with a loved one, or try to amend a broken relationships, you should do so without any expectation of a response. I wish I had followed...

Tuesday March 17, 2009

Patrick Tracey on Dual Diagnosis: Mental Illness and Addiction

Since today is not only St. Patrick's Day, the biggest drinking day of the year, but also my 20th anniversary of sobriety (yah!! Except for the one-night relapse in college but I don't count that), I wanted to talk to...

Wednesday March 11, 2009

John McManamy: When a Friend Commits Suicide

I was moved by fellow bloggers John McManamy's tribue to his friend, Kevin, who commit suicide just six months ago. John has channelled his grief by producing an important suicide prevention video "The Road to Nowhere." I urge you to...

Tuesday February 24, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Elvira Aletta: I'll Cry If I Want To

I loved the post by Dr. Eliva G. Aletta on PsychCentral.com about crying. I find it comforting to hear a shrink say that she cries too. (I thought they were immune?) Elvira gives us some history on her philosophy on...

Friday February 20, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

An Interview with Tim Farrington, author of "A Hell of Mercy"

As you guys know, I have been devoting Fridays to answering questions or interviewing experts and authors. This week I have the honor of interviewing Tim Farrington, the acclaimed novelist of Lizzie's War, "The California Book of the Dead," "Blues...

Friday February 6, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

John Grohol: Efficacy of Antidepressants

Given the topic of our interview today, I thought I'd include a link over to John Grohol's excellent article, "Efficacy of Antidepressants" where he analyzes the studies published last year that try to shake the efficacy and usefulness of modern...

Friday February 6, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Edward Shorter: Before Prozac--The Troubled History of Mood Disorders

I need to preface today's interview by saying that I whole-heartedly support treatment of depression with the right pharmaceutical medication. For those readers who have just joined us, let me explain that I went through six doctors before I found...

Friday February 6, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Podcast: Kevin Keough Interviews Dr. Edward Shorter

Tune into this North Star Guardian podcast of Dr. Edward Shorter discussing his book, "Before Prozac" with my fellow blogger friend, Kevin Keough. To read more Beyond Blue, go to http://blog.beliefnet.com/beyondblue, and to get to Group Beyond Blue, a support...

Monday February 2, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

On Groundhog Day: 12 Winter Depression Busters

I don't really care if that bloody woodchuck emerges from its hole to see its shadow or not today. History tells this depressive that we still have a good 30 to 40 days to endure really crappy weather, during...

Thursday January 29, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Susan Schechter: A New Hollowness in my Soul

I just received the kindest note from Beyond Blue reader Caroline who said that when she can't sleep at night, sometimes she watches my videos ... that I have a fierceness in my expression that gives her courage to...

Thursday January 15, 2009

The Big Depression (or Elephant): The Recession, Faith, and Anxiety

With the exception of Monday's piece, I have been avoiding the topic of the economy for months because I didn't want to add to the panic so many of us feel, which, in turn, contributes to the crisis: because...

Friday January 9, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: What Is Some Recommended Reading for Depression and Bipolar Disorder?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Thursday January 8, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Psychiatric Service Dogs

Beyond Blue reader Susan Schechter wrote about psychiatric service dogs on her blog, "If you're going through hell keep going," which you can find by clicking here. She writes: I want to thank my dear friend Edge for bringing this...

Wednesday January 7, 2009

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Stressed Out? Get a Pet

Another great article by John Grohol of Psych Central is his research on how a pet can relieve stress. In his article that you can find by clicking here: Feeling stressed out? New research suggests the benefit of getting a...

Monday January 5, 2009

Categories: Depression

12 Winter Depression Busters for the First Monday of the New Year (i.e. Yuck Day)

I think most people would agree with me that today is one of the LEAST favorite days of the year: the first Monday of the year when we are encouraged, okay required, to put on the tie again and head...

Wednesday December 31, 2008

Categories: Depression

5 Tips to Make Your Resolutions Stick! On Psych Central

My buddy John Grohol over at PsychCentral.com published my 5 tips to make your resolutions stick. You can visit them there, or review them here. I know what you're thinking: another cheesy, goody-two-shoes article on how I can keep all...

Wednesday December 31, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Doxieman's New Year's Resolution: First Things First (i.e. Less Beyond Blue)

I have been sort of dreading this day ... when Beyond Blue reader Doxieman got a life and wouldn't need Beyond Blue or Group Beyond Blue so much. Darn it. This means my page views will surely be down...

Tuesday December 30, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Myth of Holiday Suicide Rates

My fellow Beliefnet blogger David Gibson has written an interesting post on the "myth" of holiday suicide rates based on a story by Jim Nichols of the Cleveland Plain-Dealer: Researchers have consistently debunked the old saw for at least 20...

Tuesday December 23, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

John Grohol: 12 Tips to Keep Joy in the Holidays

John Grohol who runs PsychCentral.com has written an excellent article about how to keep the joy in the holidays. One of my new year's resolutions is to link more to other bloggers, especially those as articulate and informed as...

Sunday December 21, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

On the Winter Solstice: New Study Suggests Genetic Predisposition to SAD

Happy winter solstice to all my Beyond Blue readers. I am celebrating by staring into my HappyLite! Here's an interesting article about the possible genetic predisposition to SAD published by NAMI, National Alliance on Mental Illness: The holidays are a...

Friday December 19, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Beyond Blue Named as Top Ten Depression Blog for 2008!

Yah!!!!! This just in from PsychCentral, the Internet's largest and oldest independent mental health network: Beyond Blue was voted among the top ten depression blogs. Read all the other picks in Sandra Kiume's story by clicking here. This is...

Thursday December 18, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Beyond Blue Turns 2!

Guess what I was doing two years ago today? Publishing my first Beyond Blue post! I want to take the opportunity to thank my dear Beyond Blue readers for all of your encouragement, inspiration, and support over the last 24...

Thursday December 18, 2008

Categories: Depression

A Short History of Beyond Blue

In April 2006, one month out of the psych unit at Johns Hopkins hospital, I composed my first raw and candid piece about my depression, inspired by Montgomery County Executive Douglas Duncan who withdrew his candidacy for governor of Maryland...

Thursday December 18, 2008

Categories: Anxiety, Depression

The First Blog Post: My Story So Far

Although I've suffered from depression and anxiety from the moment I was induced from my mother's womb, I officially joined the elite club in 1989, my freshman year at Saint Mary's College in Notre Dame, Indiana, when I went by...

Tuesday December 9, 2008

Categories: Depression

9 Holiday Depression Busters

My "9 Holiday Depression Busters" are featured in a Beliefnet gallery. You can get to it by clicking here. It's supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year--but not if negative emotions take hold of your holidays....

Tuesday December 9, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue is the Place for Holiday Support!

We depressives hang together this time of year. Check out some of the insightful discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue if you're having trouble forcing a smile. To read more Beyond Blue, go to www.beliefnet.com/beyondblue, and to get to...

Friday December 5, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: What Are Some Happiness Boosters?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Wednesday December 3, 2008

Categories: Depression

Depression in the 21st Century: Enter Neurobiology

The more I research and read about depression, the more questions I have about this brain disease, and the more I realize I don't know.For example, it's difficult to wrap my brain (no pun intended) around the "circuit-board" model of...

Monday December 1, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Mindful Monday: What Advent Means to a Depressive

On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through...

Friday November 28, 2008

10 Uplifting Quotes for a Depressed Heart

Again, this title is too positive to be my own. But we must start the holiday season with a heart of joy, no? Here's a good beginning ... What is it about a short quotation that carries so much power?...

Friday November 14, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: Is Grief a Mental Disorder?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Friday November 14, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Anatomy of Sorrow

As part of his comment, Dr. Ron Pies provided the link to another of his articles, "The Anatomy of Sorrow: A Spiritual, Phenomenological, and Neurological Perspective," which I found incredibly fascinating (of course, I'm obsessed with the brain and how...

Tuesday November 11, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Katherine Stone Named WebMD 2008 Health Hero

Hail to my blogging buddy, Katherine Stone, who was just named WebMD 2008 Health Hero! Congrats Katherine!! Here's what the say about her (you can read about all the recipients by clicking here): Mother Taps Into Her Own Experience to...

Tuesday November 11, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Psych Central's Top 10 Bipolar Blogs (2008)

Alas, if you still have more time on your hands after you've read all the blogs on my top 10 list and all the ones on my blog roll, you can check out the Top 10 Bipolar Blogs picked...

Tuesday November 11, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

My Interview with "America" Magazine

Some of you remember my trip to New York City this summer when I was experiencing bad symptoms, but went anyway. One of the many reasons for the trip was an interview with "America" magazine, a reputable Catholic publication. They...

Monday November 10, 2008

Mindful Monday: Discipline, a System of Techniques

On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through the...

Friday November 7, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: Should I Tell My Boss About My Mood Disorder?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Friday November 7, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Man Sues for "Bipolar Discrimination"

Thanks to Beliefnet's Lilit Marcus for finding this story about a guy with bipolar disorder getting $80,000 from his company on discrimination charges. Read the entire article on Canada.com by clicking here. I've excerpted from it below. An $80,000 judgment...

Thursday November 6, 2008

Blame the Illness, Not the Patient

One of the most hurtful comments made to me during the worst of my depression was this: "You must not want to get better." I'm having a hard time forgiving the person who said that, even as I know...

Tuesday November 4, 2008

Categories: Depression

12 Winter Depression Busters

We've officially entered the hard months, the "dark ages" as the midshipmen at the Naval Academy say: the time of the year when the sun disappears and the pale complexions of your friends remind you that you had better...

Tuesday November 4, 2008

Categories: Depression

Surviving Winter

One of the better articles I've read about surviving winter is found at BustedHalo.com. Writer Nora Bradbury-Haehl penned a beautiful piece about her love-hate relationship with the cold months. As a spouse of a depressive, she gets it. She really...

Thursday October 30, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Cyberbullying and Internet Harassment: Words CAN Hurt You

Every day I drop David off for school I pray that none of the seemingly sweet boys in their Catholic school uniforms will bully my boy because I know his chemistry is similar to mine: he's extremely sensitive and cruel...

Thursday October 30, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Larry Parker: 4 Lessons on Bullying

I asked Beyond Blue Larry Parker to write a piece about bullying since he described his bullying with such detail in my interview of him. He elaborates here, on how bullying can stay with you for a lifetime. ... 1....

Wednesday October 29, 2008

Which Came First? Religion or Depression

There's a cartoon with a chicken and an egg in bed together. The chicken is smoking a cigarette with a very satisfied expression on his face, and the egg is restless and disgruntled. The caption above the egg says, "Well,...

Wednesday October 29, 2008

Group Beyond Blue: Spirituality and the Mind

Group Beyond Blue member Luthitarian started a fascinating discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue on "Spirituality and the Mind," where he asks folks to share what religious tradition or practice or philosophy has helped them with their depression. He...

Monday October 27, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Bulletin Boards

I learned one more technique to deal obsessions from Group Beyond Blue member Belleo, who started a discussion called "Bulletin Board" at Group Beyond Blue (which you can get to by clicking here) at Beliefnet Community. Here's what she...

Friday October 24, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: Can Taking an Antidepressant Make Me Suicidal?

In a recent Johns Hopkins Health Alert, I read this: Suicide attempts or suicidal thoughts are common symptoms of depression, and the risk of suicide may increase as depression begins to respond to treatment because the person might regain just...

Friday October 24, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Latest on Antidepressants: Be Careful Where You Get Your Facts

James Gordon, author of "Unstuck" and Charles Barber, author of "Comfortably Numb" present some interesting statistics on antidepressants. However, for persons like myself who suffer from severe depression, some context is needed to their facts. An article in the Summer...

Thursday October 23, 2008

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz: They Don't Have to Be Perfect

Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Peg for directing me on the combox to my post "12 Ways to Overcome Jealousy and Envy" to Elizabeth Scott's review of "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz. As I mentioned on other posts,...

Thursday October 23, 2008

Franco: I Believe in You

I was touched by Beyond Blue reader Franco's comment on the combox of my post, "12 Ways to Handle Jealousy and Envy," in which he wrote: I think that three little words, I love you, always work magic at some...

Thursday October 23, 2008

Barbara: Good Enough is Great

I also appreciated Beyond Blue Barbara's comment on the same post, "12 Ways to Overcome Jealousy and Envy," because it reminded the wisdom in the flick "Babe," when the farmer says to the pig, "That'll do, Pig. That'll do." If...

Tuesday October 21, 2008

Bipolar II Meets Bipolar I (and all hell breaks loose): One Woman's Trip to the Dark Side and Back

Thanks to Lilit Marcus for finding this fascinating article about a bipolar woman (Bipolar II) who married a Bipolar I guy. The article's author, Y. Euny Hong, articulates all the drama of the relationship in such incisive language that...

Tuesday October 21, 2008

What Not to Say to a Depressed Person

My blogging buddy, James Bishop at Finding Optimism, wrote a great blog recently on what NOT to say to a depressed person. I've excerpted from it below. To get to his blog click here. There are many terrible things that...

Monday October 20, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

I Believe In Quitting

Group Beyond Blue member Drama Queen wrote a powerful piece about this very notion, of breaking the patterns of dysfunction. I loved her essay. Here it is. I believe in quitting.  Growing up in America, in a middle-class home...

Friday October 17, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: How Is Depression Different From Sadness?

On Fridays I will address a question related to depression and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to...

Thursday October 16, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

National Boss Day: Depression and Work

Since it is National Boss Day, I wanted to continue a conversation that was started on the combox of my post "Job Stress Triggers Depression" about the relationship between work and depression. An anonymous Beyond Blue reader wrote this: The connection...

Thursday October 16, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

4 Strategies to Boost Your Self-Esteem at Work

Ellen McGrath has written a helpful article for "Psychology Today" on boosting your self-esteem at work. I have excerpted her four strategies below, but to read the entire article, "Self-Esteem at Work," click here. Research has shown that the more...

Wednesday October 15, 2008

Video: Go To Your Happy Place

I know a "happy place" sounds corny. How many times have you seen a character on a sitcom close his eyes and say, "I'm going to my happy place. I'm almost there. Up, I can't find any parking. Hold on,...

Wednesday October 15, 2008

Saint Mary's College: A Happy Place for Me, and Home to My Soul

In "Home Coming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child," bestselling author John Bradshaw describes his years in the seminary as nurturing, where he adopted many "new fathers" and "new mothers" to replace the abusive ones who raised him. He writes,...

Tuesday October 14, 2008

Recognizing Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Johns Hopkins Medicine has published the following information on recognizing and treating Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD): Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is marked by recurrent, repetitive thoughts (obsessions), behaviors (compulsions), or both that a person recognizes as unreasonable, unnecessary, or foolish yet are...

Monday October 13, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Columbus Day: What's Your Newest Adventure?

In the spirit of Columbus Day, I thought I'd discuss what we're doing over at Group Beyond Blue (in Beliefnet's community, or social networking site) because in my role as moderator of the group of more than 1,000 members,...

Thursday October 9, 2008

The Spiritual Life and Bipolar Disorder

Also on Beliefnet's Bipolar Resource page is my article on the intersection of spiritual life and bipolar disorder. I don't think I'm romanticizing my bipolar disorder in saying that my real faith, the engine that propels me to love better...

Thursday October 9, 2008

What Religion Can Do For Your Health

Like many of you, I'm always telling people I will pray for their health, and I mean it. I realize that every person I pray for doesn't get his wish just because I've engaged the Guy upstairs in a conversation,...

Wednesday October 8, 2008

4 Steps to Better Boundaries

My second job out of college was with a religious giftware company. I was a product-development coordinator for "inspirational" brands, which meant I was required to do things like write directions on how to bury St. Joseph for a "St....

Tuesday October 7, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Mental Illness Awareness Week and National Day of Prayer for Mental Illness

According to NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness): Since 1990, mental health advocates across the country have joined together during the first week of October to celebrate Mental Illness Awareness Week (MIAW) and Bipolar Disorder Awareness Day. In 1990,...

Monday October 6, 2008

7 Steps to Heal Your Inner Child

According to John Bradshaw, author of "Home Coming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child," the process of healing your wounded inner child is one of grief. And it involves these seven steps (in Bradshaw's words): 1. Trust For your wounded...

Friday October 3, 2008

Friday's Question: How Do I Care for Someone with Depression?

I don't know how many times I've been asked this question. And I can't think of a better way of answering than James Bishop's article, "12 Ways to Care for Someone with Depression," which you can get to by clicking...

Thursday October 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: 12 Quotes that Really Stuck

Group Beyond Blue member Micaiah started a fantastic thread on Group Beyond Blue called "Quote of the Day." He explains: One of the things I do in my classroom every day is post a "Quote of the Day." These...

Thursday October 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Growing Older Learning Lessons

Another entertaining and thoughtful thread at Group Beyond Blue is the one started by Group Beyond Blue Member Vick2008 called "Growing Older Learning Lessons." Because I feel like I'm always learning some lesson, I tuned in and was glad...

Thursday October 2, 2008

Categories: Depression

Group Beyond Blue Crosses 1,000!

We now have over 1,000 members of Group Beyond Blue! I want to take this opportunity to sincerely thank all of you who have been such active members. Because all of the interesting discussion threads that you post are...

Tuesday September 30, 2008

Group Beyond Blue: A Monthly Newbie Discussion Thread

We've had several discussions at Group Beyond Blue (at Beliefnet Community) about how we can welcome the newbies into our community and how to be sure not to miss those who need the support but might not be as...

Monday September 29, 2008

Mindful Monday: Replacing Old Tapes With New Ones

On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through the...

Monday September 29, 2008

Video: Meeting My Inner Child

In case you're confused, I accidentally published this last week. Sorry! Now it makes sense given today's mindful Monday meditation.Some of you have already seen this video about my reading through my junior-high journals and the process of coming to...

Thursday September 25, 2008

eHarmony Wrote Back: Discrimination or Not?

The other night I was looking for an article when I came across this response to my post "Dear God: Why E-Harmony Has Got It Wrong" where I explained that I thought it was unfair that eHarmony includes depression among...

Wednesday September 24, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Don't Give Up! 12 Ways to Keep Going

My brilliant editor, Holly Rossi, compiled a beautiful gallery from the content of my post, "12 Ways to Keep Going." Click here to view the gallery. A woman who lives with chronic pain said to my mom the other...

Tuesday September 23, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Beliefnet's Bipolar Resource Page!

Beliefnet's health editor (and my editor), Holly Rossi, did an exceptional job of compiling a variety of different posts and galleries on a bipolar resource page. It's like the Target of bipolar information. No need to go around to all...

Tuesday September 23, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Bipolar Puzzle: Kids and Bipolar Disorder

Writer Jennifer Egan published an excellent, comprehensive article about bipolar disorder among kids in Sunday's New York Times Magazine. She profiles several different families as well talks to experts in the field, asking doctors how they go about diagnosing a...

Monday September 22, 2008

Mindful Monday: I Said to Me Soul, Be Still

On Mindful Monday, my readers and I practice the art of pausing, TRYING to be still, or considering, ever so briefly, the big picture. We're hoping this soul time will provide enough peace of mind to get us through the...

Friday September 19, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Friday's Question: Should I Make My Wife Go to the Hospital?

On Fridays I will address a basic psychiatric question and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to do...

Friday September 19, 2008

What If She Refuses to Go to the Hospital?

On Fridays I will address a basic psychiatric question and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to do...

Wednesday September 17, 2008

Don't Cancel That Guilt Trip! Why We Need a Little of It

When I was an assistant editor at U.S. Catholic magazine, I remember publishing a piece by Christine Gudorf called "Don't Cancel That Guilt Trip." She makes a strong case for why we should, as a society, hang on to a little guilt...

Tuesday September 16, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Male Depression: Why It's Undiagnosed and What It Looks Like

Last month, I dedicated a day to the topic of women's issues and depression: how our hormonal fluctuations contribute to depression and bipolar disorder. Some readers questioned whether or not the figures were accurate--that twice as many women than men...

Tuesday September 16, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Job Stress Triggers Depression in Men

I know my title sounds sexist. Like men are the only ones working. HELLO??!!! Job stress triggers depression in women, too! BUT research suggests that job stress is often the primary trigger for depression in men, whereas relationship stress (you...

Tuesday September 16, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Storied Mind: Work, Men, and Depression

One of my favorite male bloggers is John at Storied Mind because he writes about things most of my readers can relate to: work stress, sexual addictions, and the fine line between health and illness. I love his post called...

Tuesday September 16, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

When Male Depression Goes Untreated

Also from MayoClinic.com, these health complications resulting from untreated depression, and the suicide statistics for males (note: this is written for the reader seeking help): Like other men, you may feel that your depression symptoms aren't severe. You may believe...

Friday September 12, 2008

Friday: A Day for Questions on Beyond Blue

I guess because it's the start of a new school year I want to shake things up a little and add some new features. So we have "Mindful Monday" when we get to navel gaze and be all spiritual, Wednesday...

Friday September 12, 2008

Friday's Question: How Can I Make Someone Get Help?

On Fridays I will address a basic psychiatric question and find the answer from an expert. If you have a question you want answered, please ask it on the combox of this post, and I'll try my best to do...

Friday September 12, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

4 Ways to Support Someone with Depression

I loved James Bishop's suggestions of ways to support someone struggling with depression. You can't go wrong if you follow his directions on what to say to a friend or relative about this topic no one wants to address.  To...

Friday September 12, 2008

BustedHalo on Dealing With a Loved One Who's Depressed

Dr. Christine Whelon, author of "Why Smart Men Marry Smart Women" and columnist with BustedHalo.com wrote an important column recently to address a reader, Susan, who had been dating a man struggling with depression. Following are some excerpts from...

Thursday September 11, 2008

6 Ways to Stop Dwelling on It

Beliefnet just featured an excerpt from O, The Oprah Magazine, about obsessive thoughts, which included several good pointers. You can get to the gallery by clicking here. It begins .... Ruminating regularly often leads to depression. So if you have...

Tuesday September 9, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Today Is Bipolar Disorder Awareness Day

According to NAMI (National Alliance for Mental Illness): Bipolar Disorder Awareness Day was created by the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), originally supported by a grant from Abbott Laboratories, to increase awareness of bipolar disorder, promote early detection...

Tuesday September 9, 2008

TMI (Too Much Information): 4 Ways to Clear the Mind Clutter

During this hiatus from the online world, I realized that all the information I force feed myself during a normal workday is as unhealthy for me as fast food. Now that I'm back to my desk, I don't want to...

Tuesday September 9, 2008

4 Steps to Banish Email Clutter

I just found a great article on clearing e-mail clutter on a blog called "Think Simple Now." She offers a few suggestions on how to tweak your preferences so to avoid the land of clutter anxiety. And don't fool yourself...

Tuesday September 9, 2008

Group Beyond Blue: Count the Small (and Big) Victories Along the Way!

Thanks to Group Beyond Blue member Deep Within for starting the discussion thread on Group Beyond Blue called "YOU did that!" She's absolutely right in that we are quick to congratulate children on their small and big accomplishments throughout...

Monday September 8, 2008

A Place for the Singing of Angels: The Power of Silence and Solitude (or at least no e-mail)

I realize that this post is a tad hypocritical since my paycheck depends on your clicks, but I need to tell you about my inner transformation during my 19-day hiatus from the computer because, as you might suspect, my mood...

Monday September 8, 2008

5 Reasons Why Adults (Like Kids) Need Quiet Time

The following excerpts are taken from "Modern Spiritual Masters: Writing on Contemplation and Compassion" edited by Robert Ellsberg: 1. To Hear God Talk And if we really want to pray we must first learn to listen, for in the silence of...

Monday September 8, 2008

10 Ways to Harness Solitude

The following Beliefnet gallery was timely for me since I'm finally realizing the healing power of solitude and actually letting myself enjoy my own company, where I can be still and silent for a few minutes. To get to the...

Friday September 5, 2008

10 Things I'm Going to Do Differently This School Year

I recently confessed to a friend who suffers from Seasonal Affective Disorder that I get anxious upon hearing the humming sound of the cicadas in late July because I know summer is about finished and it's almost time to get...

Friday September 5, 2008

100 Healthy Habits You Should Start in College (or Anytime)

Just when I thought I had a lot of goals, I read Alisa Miller's article on "100 Healthy Habits You Should Start in College." Each area of your life (like sleep) has seven or eight goals. That's a lot of...

Thursday September 4, 2008

Group Beyond Blue: Jealousy

Awhile back I started a discussion thread on jealousy at Group Beyond Blue (you can get to by clicking here). Check some great suggestions on what fellow depressives do when they start feeling green! To read more Beyond Blue,...

Tuesday September 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Why Are More Women Than Men Depressed?

I recently did some research for a women's magazine about depression in young women (ages 18 to 30). The editors wanted to know why so many more women than men struggle with depression. I got out my copy of "A...

Tuesday September 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Infertility and Depression

We've discussed the topic of infertility and depression often on the discussion boards of Group Beyond Blue. The risk for depression is real among women having difficulty getting pregnant and this is why, according to Dr. Ruta Nonacs in "A...

Friday August 29, 2008

Suicide and Eternal Damnation: Who Is Going to Hell?

Group Beyond Blue member SurvivorForce started a discussion thread called "Are we damned if we commit suicide?" at Group Beyond Blue on Beliefnet's Community. He wrote:  I have heard that some believe suicide is unforgivable, and that God will...

Friday August 29, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Letter to a Suicidal Person From a Survivor

Group Beyond Blue member Rose S. posted a beautiful reflection on Group Beyond Blue called "Letter to a suicidal person from a survivor": Dear friend, I am writing this to you both as the survivor of an attempted suicide...

Wednesday August 27, 2008

Categories: Depression

Yoga Can Relieve Anxiety and Depression

According to The Johns Hopkins Winter 2008 Issue of Depression and Anxiety Bulletin: Low levels of the neurotransmitter gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA) have been associated with depression and particularly anxiety, and antidepressants have been shown to increase GABA levels. Now, preliminary...

Tuesday August 26, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

12 Bricks of a Strong Mental Foundation

I was reading "The No-Cry Discipline Solution" last night (because I'd like to discipline without the tears and tantrums!), as recommended by my psychiatrist, and found author Elizabeth Pantley's points for building a strong parental foundation to be ones...

Friday August 22, 2008

How to Pray When You're Depressed

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! When I...

Thursday August 21, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Who's to Blame?

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! Just before...

Wednesday August 20, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

If You Compare, You'll Despair

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way!  I know...

Wednesday August 20, 2008

Are Depressives More Spiritual?

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! I am...

Tuesday August 19, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Bedtime Therapy, I Mean Stories

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! My daughter's...

Monday August 18, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Why Beyond Blue?

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! Some people...

Monday August 18, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

My Story (So Far)

Because I'm on vacation this week, I've decided to publish posts from the two-week test pilot of Beyond Blue back in October of 2006, two months before its initial launch in December 2006. We've come a long way! Although I've...

Friday August 15, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Serotonin Spirituality Connection

Thanks to my editor, Holly, for finding this fascinating study about serotonin and spirituality. I've argued in many places that I swear we depressives are more religious. It turns out that high image brain scans are documenting a biological underpinning...

Thursday August 14, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Simi on Self-Esteem

I was moved by the comment made by Beyond Blue reader Simi on the combox of my post "Video: My Self-Esteem File." I was happy to see this site. I am a therapist myself, and I also suffer from depression....

Tuesday August 12, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Bipolar Disorder: A Kind of Learning Disability

I have a learning disability called bipolar disorder. My thought process is severely distorted at times, making me believe that the plastic spider in front of me is real, and if I don't exert all my energy into swatting it,...

Tuesday August 12, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Dick Cavett: Smiling Through

Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker for forwarding to me Dick Cavett's blog post on depression. It's marvelous. I've excerpted a few paragraphs below. To read the entire article, click here. I thought it was interesting that he mentions...

Monday August 11, 2008

The Challenge of Living Mindfully

Macrina Wiederhehr explains how we can impart some of the wisdom of the monastic tradition into our workday in her book "Seven Sacred Pauses." Among my favorite passages are these: How can we learn to open our hearts to simple...

Monday August 11, 2008

Why Solitude Is Sacred: In Peace and Quiet, We Find Our Truth

Ironically, right as I'm trying to incorporate some solitude into my life, Beyond Blue reader Frank sent me this meditation of his on solitude. As I read it, it occurred to me that the experience of motherhood is much like...

Wednesday August 6, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Storied Mind: You Are So Beautiful

My blogging buddy John over at "Storied Mind" doesn't need a glamour shot to be reminded that he is beautiful to God. I loved his reflection on this very topic, which you can get to by clicking here. There is...

Monday August 4, 2008

Dear God: Don't Sweat It! I Got Ya Covered

Dear God, In Matthew's gospel (14:13-21) we read about the miracle of the loaves and fish: When Jesus heard what had happened [to John the Baptist', he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Hearing of this, the...

Monday August 4, 2008

The Loaves and Fish in Barbara's Life: God Is Never Fickle

Interestingly enough, just as I was contemplating how God really does take care of you when you take care of yourself, I received this note from Beyond Blue Barbara: I am very happy. I've just been told that I have...

Thursday July 31, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Podcast: An Interview with Dr. J. Raymond DePaulo

Click here for an interview on WYPR Maryland Morning of Dr. J. Raymond DePaulo, Jr., Chairman of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Johns Hopkins Medicine on the topic of "Prozac and Placebo" by radio host Sheilah Kast....

Tuesday July 29, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Anti-Depression Measures

A very helpful discussion thread was started at Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community by Group Beyond Blue member Desertsutra called "Anti-Depression Measures," where people have listed what helps them keep going. Desertsutra begins: I know there are lots...

Wednesday July 23, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

5 Steps to Problem Solving

In Steven Curtis's book "Understanding Your Child's Puzzling Behavior," he provides a table called "Steps to Understanding and Intervention" that I think can be applied to any problem we depressives encounter in our recovery. You can download the worksheets (described...

Tuesday July 22, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Therapy Is Creative Problem Solving

A friend recently asked me what, exactly, about counseling was so helpful to me. I thought for a minute and then said, "I go in there with a mess of problems. I'm entangled in them. I'm overwhelmed. I don't see...

Tuesday July 22, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Problem Solving

I started a discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community where we can tackle one of our problems and come up with creative solutions. Here is my post: As you'll see in Thursday's post, I'm trying to...

Thursday July 17, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Don't Get Stuck on "Unstuck": Depression Is Real, and Drugs Help Me

I think I'm smarter today than I was two years ago. At that time had someone forwarded me Newsweek's interview with James Gordon, founder of the Center for Mind-Body Medicine and author of "Unstuck: Your Guide to the Seven-Stage Journey...

Thursday July 17, 2008

Categories: Depression

Peter D. Kramer: Prozac Nation?

Another of his classic essays is the following, titled "Prozac Nation?" in which Kramer refutes the modern wave of thought that we are overmedicating our country, numbing America to every hiccup or discomfort, and doling out antidepressants where there...

Tuesday July 15, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Fantasizing Too Much? Plan a Positive Escape

I've been feeling badly that I spend so much of my day fantasizing ... about a place not covered in dirty laundry, and where sex is spontaneous (not scheduled), and backrubs and pillow talk come before and after. At this...

Tuesday July 15, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

I Hoped the Ocean Would Help You See

I loved this story by Beyond Blue reader Melzoom on the combox of my post, "Dear God: Come All Who are Weary": My second suicide attempt was not immediately severe enough to put me in the hospital. My husband came...

Friday July 11, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue is Beliefnet's Top Support Group!

I just now got official word that Group Beyond Blue was the winner of Beliefnet's Top Support Group contest. Yah! I continue to be amazed and delighted at the level of support and friendship and encouragement that is present...

Thursday July 10, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Suicide: Premeditated Versus Impulsive

Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker for forwarding me the piece, "The Urge to End It All," published in last Sunday's New York Time magazine. It was quite timely for me because I spent the majority of my...

Thursday July 10, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Group Beyond Blue: Concentrate on the "How" of Suicide, Versus the "Why"

Group Beyond Blue member Larry Parker started a discussion thread about the New York Times piece on Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community. There he writes: It's a little disorienting at first reading ourselves discussed in the clinical (literally...

Wednesday July 9, 2008

Categories: Depression

Recovery, Inc. and My Aunt GiGi

In my video I mentioned Dr. Abraham Low's organization, Recovery, Inc. For those of you not familiar with Recovery, Inc., it is a somewhat old-fashioned but very effective mental health program for persons suffering from depression and other mood disorders. Founded...

Tuesday July 8, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Pray, Laugh, Breathe: Two Days of Healing

I wanted to thank all my dear Beyond Blue readers for your care and concern after I published the video about my darker days. I really was mixed on whether or not to publish that. But I remembered my golden...

Saturday July 5, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Vote for Beliefnet's Top Support Group

Beliefnet has collected and discussed nominees for its Top Support Group contest. More than one member has told them that these groups sustain them, give them life, and get them through rough days. They also help people celebrate their...

Wednesday July 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Day 2: More of Your Stories

There were so many amazing stories written on the thread "Your Story," so I'm just publishing some of the first ones written there. Likes these from Group Beyond Blue members Luthitarian, iLiberty, and Lapatosu. To read more Beyond Blue,...

Wednesday July 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

iLiberty: I Am Jane Doe

I've never attempted suicide. I've never been hospitalized. I go to work nearly every day and support a large family. I've taken my meds regularly for the past 17 years without fail. I don't forget. I can't forget. The cost...

Wednesday July 2, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Lapatosu: There Are No Villains

I've survived the normal issues in an American woman's life in the 80's and 90's. Raising 6 kids through the teenage years, father remarries, mother's medical crisis', death of stepmom, car wrecks, job changes, alcohol abuse on my part, with...

Tuesday July 1, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Day 1: Your Stories

I have been thinking lately about what it means to be a leader (manager, moderator, fill in the blank), and, like I described in my post yesterday, I think it requires getting out of the way as often as...

Tuesday July 1, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Melzoom: I Will Never Make Those Mistakes Again

When my parents divorced, I was nine years old. My mother and I moved from a very remote area to suburban Detroit where she had grown up. We lived with my grandparents for a year before moving into our own...

Tuesday July 1, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Jomaspan: Born Bipolar

I'm one of those people who believe that you are born with bipolar disorder. When and how it manifests is based on experience, but the raw ingredients are in your DNA. When I look back on my childhood, I can...

Wednesday June 25, 2008

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Mindful Meditation and Depression: Some Lotus Therapy

Has your therapist recommended mindful meditation? If she hasn't already, she very well might try to integrate it into your cognitive behavioral therapy by the time you graduate from counseling. The New York Times ran an interesting piece about...

Monday June 16, 2008

Liberate Yourself From Your Fear of Happiness

In "Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment" by Tal Ben-Shahar, Ph.D. (and thanks to my Guardian Angel Ann for sending me an autographed copy!): When we do not feel that we are worthy of happiness, we...

Thursday June 5, 2008

Categories: Depression

Nancy: When Nothing Is Funny

If you haven't noticed already, I'm dedicating a lot of posts to the topic of humor lately. For two reasons: as I've said in so many posts, humor is central to my recovery, and second, to respond to those readers...

Friday May 30, 2008

Categories: Depression

Marya Hornbacher: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

For this week's segment of my series, "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" I thought I'd reprint the interview with the author Marya Hornbacher in the "Washington Post" by Post staff writer Rachel Beckman. You can get to the...

Friday May 30, 2008

Categories: Depression

Possessed and Then Released

Here's an excerpt from "Madness: A Bipolar Life": by Marya Hornbacher Sometimes I just run as far and as hard as I can, until I can't breathe, until my heart is about to explode, or until, stumbling drunk, I...

Friday May 23, 2008

Categories: Depression

Ann Omohundro: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

Ann Omohundro needs little introduction, as I speak so often of her on Beyond Blue. If you want a refresher on who she is, check out my video, "Meet Guardian Angel, Ann!" I wanted to share more of her...

Thursday May 15, 2008

Categories: Depression

Beliefnet's Living with Depression Site


 Beliefnet's health editor (and my editor) Holly Rossi has pulled together an impressive and comprehensive site called "Living with Depression." Today I'll feature a few things from that page, which you can get to by clicking here. The first...

Thursday May 15, 2008

Categories: Depression

How to Pray When You're Depressed

In her piece "How to Pray When You're Depressed," Kathryn Hermes, F.S.P. offers several ways to pray when you are depressed. To view the gallery, click here. It begins: When you're depressed, you may discover that the shadows and tempests...

Thursday May 15, 2008

Categories: Depression

Celebrity Depression and Their Lessons


 Another feature on "Living with Depression" is my gallery of celebs who are battling depression and the spiritual lessons they afford us. To get to that gallery, click here. It begins: When it comes to depression, I search everywhere...

Wednesday May 14, 2008

Categories: Depression

Laughter as Mental Medicine

The blog, "We Must Not Think Too Much," is becoming one of my trusted sources of cool stories about depression and mental illness. I have no idea how she is able to scour all the sources she does. But she's...

Wednesday May 14, 2008

Categories: Depression

Ovidia: How She Spent Her Nervous Breakdown

While we're on the topic of humor, go check out Ovidia's post today on "How She Spent Her Nervous Breakdown." You will get your much-needed daily chuckle. Click here to get there. To read more Beyond Blue, go to...

Monday May 12, 2008

Categories: Depression

Mothering When You Are Depressed

As I sit down to write my Mother's Day post, I am filled with both tears and goose bumps.Yesterday at the park I talked to a fellow preschool mom in length about her father, who left for a loaf of...

Thursday May 8, 2008

Categories: Depression

Group Beyond Blue: How Do You Fill the Hole in the Soul?

Join the interesting discussion thread, "How Do You Fill the Hole in the Soul?" that I started a few days ago at Group Beyond Blue, which you can get to by clicking here. Lots of interesting suggestions are thrown...

Wednesday May 7, 2008

Categories: Depression

One Artist's Way Out of (Mild) Depression

In her classic book, "The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity," Julia Cameron offers readers twelve ways to recover their sense of self or inner creativity. According to this artist, nurturing one's creative powers is a spiritual exercise--and...

Thursday May 1, 2008

Categories: Depression

Tears On Her Laptop: A Co-Worker's Suicide

Speaking of suffering and anger and confusion, I was incredibly moved by a post on a blog called "Old Lady's Law Office and Kitchen Table" (to get to there click here) about a coworker's death. Suicide. She asks the questions...

Tuesday April 15, 2008

Categories: Depression

Kay Redfield Jamison: Learning to Love Our Jagged Edges

My absolute favorite essay on depression is a piece Kay Redfield Jamison wrote for NPR's "This I Believe" collection of testimonies. It's about learning to love our jagged edges. I believe that curiosity, wonder and passion are defining qualities...

Tuesday April 8, 2008

Categories: Depression

Mr. Dooce, Stress, and Depression

While I don't appreciate the nasty tone of many comments on my post about J.K. Rowling's Suicidal Days, they have caused me to rethink my claim that divorce doesn't CAUSE depression—even if it can TRIGGER it. Big whoop, you say:...

Tuesday April 8, 2008

Categories: Depression

The Mike Wallace Case Study

As an example of the relationship between stress and depression, J. Raymond DePaulo, Jr., M.D. mentions the situation with CBS commentator Mike Wallace, when he was on trial for libel over a story he'd done. In "Understanding Depression," DePaulo writes:...

Friday April 4, 2008

Categories: Depression

Does Depression Shrink Your Brain? James Potash, M.D.--How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

For this week's "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" segment, I have reprinted a fascinating article by James Potash, associate professor of psychiatry and co-director of the Mood Disorders Program (where I graduated with the help of Dr. Smith)...

Thursday April 3, 2008

Categories: Depression

Nearly Half of Americans Suffer from a Mental Disorder at Some Point

I was taken aback by these statistics that I just read in Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Health Alert: that a quarter of all adults have symptoms of at least one mental disorder each year, and nearly half of all...

Wednesday April 2, 2008

Categories: Depression

Saturday: Self-Esteem Forum #4

Thanks again to Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker (Doxieman122 in the Community) who has taken over moderating the Self-Esteem Forums ever since my doctor told me I needed to start delegating. The following is his invitation: Group Beyond Blue...

Monday March 31, 2008

Categories: Depression

The Murky Politics of Mind-Body: "Depression Is a Brain Disease" 101

According to yesterday's comprehensive article in the "New York Times" by Sarah Kershaw, this month the House has passed a bill that would require insurance companies to provide mental health insurance parity. HALLELUIA! HALLELUIA! HALLELUIA! Writes Kershaw: It was...

Thursday March 27, 2008

Categories: Depression

A Sudden Shift in Moods: Andrew Solomon and Cyclothymia

I remember reading the following Washington Post article in December of 2005, when I was trying to figure out what in the heck was going on with me. It helped me to understand the nuances that exist within the...

Wednesday March 26, 2008

Categories: Depression

Jim Carrey: He's Writing a Bad Book

Thanks once more to Lilit Marcus who finds most of my stories on celebrity depression. This one I find disturbing, though. Says Carrey: "I think there's a whole new way of healing depression that doesn't require drugs, but using...

Tuesday March 25, 2008

Categories: Depression

Boundaries and Depression

I wanted to thank all of you for your supportive comments regarding http://blog.beliefnet.com/beyondblue/2008/03/video-on-boundaries.html ">my boundary struggle lately with work and family. It was helpful for me to see how many others are at the same place. Like Beyond Blue reader...

Friday March 14, 2008

Categories: Depression

Peter D. Kramer: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

I knew there was little chance of getting a personal interview with Peter D. Kramer, clinical professor of psychiatry at Brown University, and author of “Listening to Prozac” and “Against Depression,” among other books. So for my interview series,...

Monday February 25, 2008

Categories: Depression

And the Oscar Goes To...Us

If anyone deserves an Oscar for exceptional acting, it's a depressive. My guardian angel, Ann, told me the other day that she has spent more than half of her life pretending to be a happy person. "People have no...

Monday February 25, 2008

Categories: Depression

Judith Warner: Overselling Overmedication

Thanks to Beyond Blue readers Barbara (formerly known as "Babs") and NYJLM (who writes her own blog, "So Love Is Hard and Love Is Tough" for forwarding me the link to Judith Warner's opinion piece, "Overselling Overmedication" about the...

Thursday February 21, 2008

Categories: Depression

Why Sadness Can Blow Your Budget

Here's an interesting story about shopping and depression. To read the Associated Press article, click here. It begins: BOSTON, Massachusetts (AP) -- If you're sad and shopping, watch your wallet: A new study shows people's spending judgment goes out...

Tuesday February 19, 2008

Categories: Depression

Why the World Needs Diabetes, Cancer, and Dementia

If I caught your attention with my title, good. That was the point. Because it was absurd (my title, I mean). Let’s celebrate AIDS! Breast Cancer! Dementia! Yeah! They are all ways of embracing our darker sides! Let's create...

Tuesday February 19, 2008

Categories: Depression

That's Not BECAUSE OF Depression--That's DESPITE Depression

Last week's post on the Newsweek happiness article provoked many interesting comments. I especially liked this insightful one from Beyond Blue reader Mia: Such a great discussion here. And I really love the distinctions being made: "medicine" vs "drugs" and...

Tuesday February 19, 2008

Categories: Depression

Group Beyond Blue: A Buddy System?

Last week I started a discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue (in Beliefnet's Community) about possibly starting a buddy system within Beyond Blue so we have even more support than is offered through discussion threads, blog comments, and participation...

Friday February 8, 2008

Categories: Depression

Newsweek's Happiness Article: Heroic Melancholy???

I’m sorry to report that I don’t have an interview today. But I DO have some fodder for a great discussion. Beliefnet’s Lilit Marcus directed me to Newsweek’s psychology story “Happiness: Enough Already” about the “anti-happiness” movement, or shall...

Friday February 8, 2008

Categories: Depression

My Happiness Level: Dieting and Shopping at Plus-Sizes Boutiques

I don't want to cry "poor me" or anything. Lord help me if I sound like I'm WHINING. BUT all this talk about happiness levels reminded me of a post I wrote awhile back on jealousy. Yep. I admit. I...

Tuesday February 5, 2008

Categories: Depression

"Battered Beyond Blue" on The Splintered Mind

My blogging buddy, Douglas Cootey, over at The Splintered Mind wrote the following sympathetic and thoughtful blog post after he, too, was reamed out regarding a Heath Ledger commentary. Interestingly enough, Douglas gets it from the other side--from those...

Thursday January 31, 2008

Categories: Depression

Acupuncture for Treating Depression

I learned the following at healthyplace.com, a depression community, which was an interesting place you might want to check out. Regarding acupuncture: Two randomized, controlled, clinical trials suggest that electroacupuncture may reduce symptoms of depression as effectively as amitryptiline, a...

Wednesday January 30, 2008

Categories: Depression

Depression and Chronic Pain Stories

Of course, for some of us, feeling sick is a chronic condition. I was overwhelmed by all the comments to my post "Chronic Pain and Depression: The Gift of Gab and God." So many people are in so much pain....

Monday January 28, 2008

Categories: Depression

Amy Grant on Depression

Awhile back, Beliefnet's Dena Ross wrote a short piece on how Christian Music superstar Amy Grant deals with holiday depression. Now Dena offers a comprehensive interview with Amy regarding faith, family, and depression. To see the part of her...

Friday January 25, 2008

Categories: Depression

What Does Holistic Mean?

I loved this comment by Beyond Blue reader Leslie because she views "holistic health" as a system using any and all tools that can facilitate growth, recovery, and health of the body, mind, and spirit. Compassionate people like Leslie also...

Friday January 25, 2008

Categories: Depression

The Lesson About the Life Boat

I want to thank all my Beyond Blue readers for responding with so much compassion and support to my post "My Holistic Approach to Depression." As you can see, the reader pushed a pretty sensitive button by claiming that I...

Thursday January 24, 2008

Categories: Depression

Group Beyond Blue: What Were You Like When You Were Young?

I started a discussion thread at Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet's Community asking the question: what were you like when you were young? Because I'm curious as to how many others felt very depressed, even suicidal, as a kid....

Tuesday January 22, 2008

Categories: Depression

Thank You, Beyond Blue Readers and Group Members!

I don't do this often enough, so let me try to make up for it now. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for caring about each other in the way that you do--offering each other your compassion, empathy, and...

Tuesday January 22, 2008

Categories: Depression

Group Beyond Blue: I'm a Newbie

At Group Beyond Blue on Beliefnet's Community site, Beyond Blue member Kylinda launched a discussion on being a newbie to the site. Here is what she said: I don't feel like there's anyone I can talk to without being...

Thursday January 17, 2008

Categories: Depression

Small Miracles at Christmas

Speaking of Kay, I don't know if I am the only one who caught this comment of hers of the message board of my post "Video: O Holy Night": Merry christmas to you, Therese, and all BB readers and writers.
...

Wednesday January 16, 2008

Categories: Depression

Three Depression Memoirs Cast Light on British Epidemic

Also from Lilit Marcus, this interesting article about three new novels that cast a new light on Britain's hidden epidemic. Stephanie Merritt, who suffers from depression herself, writes a memoir for Random House (and this article) because she wants greater...

Thursday January 10, 2008

Categories: Depression

Chronic Pain and Depression: The Gift of Gab and God

A few years back the father of a woman I know shot himself because he couldn’t take his chronic pain anymore. This guy was a highly educated man--a doctor, actually—but, despite all his knowledge and connections, could not find anything...

Thursday January 10, 2008

Categories: Depression

Depression Hurts--I Mean, Physically

I recently read an interview with Dr. Paul McClelland, a psychiatrist at St. Agnes Hospital in Baltimore about the serious physical changes in the body and brain that can be a result of depression. These conditions or complications are among...

Monday January 7, 2008

Categories: Depression

Karen Swartz, M.D.: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

For today’s “How Do You Move Beyond Blue?” post, I have published a comprehensive update of some fascinating studies that will lead to more effective treatments for depression and other mood disorders. This valuable summary by Karen Swartz was...

Saturday January 5, 2008

Categories: Depression

Cathy: On Light and Darkness

I was touched by Cathy's response to my "Dear God: Be My Light" post because it's so honest and articulates beautifully what so many of us feel on those days we struggle: I should pull out my dusty Meister Eckhart...

Saturday January 5, 2008

Categories: Depression

Linda-Marie: Hang In There

And I was impressed by Linda-Marie's response to Cathy, especially when she is at a vulnerable place herself. Thanks, Linda-Marie! Cathy, I have gone through periods like you are describing. I am doing my best not to descend into a...

Wednesday December 26, 2007

Categories: Depression

Larry's 12 Days of Christmas

To see Larry Parker start his own blog has been a highlight of 2007, as well. Actually, after reading his "12 Days of Christmas," I'm a bit scared of the competition: Twelve months of celibacy Eleven lithium tablets Ten DBSA...

Thursday December 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

Bambi's Christmas Wish

I was saddened by this message from Beyond Blue reader Bambi on the message board of "Blanche's 12 Bipolar, Alcoholic Days of Christmas": I am extreamly sad. I have a family I live with. I'm 51, my mother is 69,...

Thursday December 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression, Suffering, and Playing Your Cards Right

After Beyond Blue reader Larry Parker read Zana's comment, he provided the link to lyrics of Kenny Rogers's, "The Gambler." I've sung this song so many times (yeah, yeah, yeah, you're thinking ... "NO, GOD, DON'T SING IT FOR...

Thursday December 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

Playing Your Cards and the Serenity Prayer

Kenny Rogers's refrain--You got to know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em/ Know when to walk away and know when to run--sounds an awful lot like the Serenity Prayer: God, Grant me the courage to accept the...

Tuesday December 18, 2007

Categories: Depression

Amy Grant on Battling Holiday Depression

Dena Ross wrote a great blog post about Christian music star's Amy Grant's depression. To get there, click here. Writes Dena: In her book, "Mosaic: Pieces of My Life So Far," Christian music star Amy Grant talks about her...

Saturday December 15, 2007

Categories: Depression

Dooce on Depression

You all may know the ever-popular blogger, Dooce. I really loved her post on depression last Thursday, and based on the over 1,000 comments I'm thinking other people could relate, too! Here's the first paragraph: I was recently at...

Friday December 14, 2007

Categories: Depression

Giving Up the Addiction

Although I couldn't leave Tracy's blog after I found it, the following post is my favorite, because I could so relate to the self-righteous (I'm RIGHT!) war that rages in her brain, especially when it comes to work performance. And...

Friday December 14, 2007

Categories: Depression

The Moms' Disease

You can find Tracy's blog post called "The Moms' Disease" by clicking here. I have excerpted from it below: It's called Postpartum Depression, or PPD for those of us (too much) in the know. I've done a fair amount of...

Friday November 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Larry Parker: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

If you’ve been reading Beyond Blue with any regularity, you know Larry Parker, because Larry is my most, um, vocal and frequent, commenter. He is extremely intelligent. Philosophical and sophisticated brains like his are the reason I kept my...

Thursday November 29, 2007

Categories: Depression

Perseverance Versus Steadfastness

Thanks to Beyond Blue reader Becky P. who explained the difference between perseverance and steadfastness on the comment board of "Dear God: On Perseverance": I had a really hard weekend and I've noticed those too well known symptoms of my...

Thursday November 29, 2007

Categories: Depression

Perseverance: An Antidote to Perfectionism

Two other comments got me thinking about how perseverance is really an antidote to the curse of perfectionism that poisons so many of us with creatively-formed brains (isn't that a nice way of saying it?). On the comment board of...

Tuesday November 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

Some Words for the Desperate

Back on my post "16 Ways Depression Is Like a Pumpkin," Beyond Blue reader Kathy wrote this: I have been reading Beyond Blue for awhile. You may give hope to people with minimum to mild depression. But apparently you have...

Tuesday November 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

His Suicide Saved Me

I wanted to share Beyond Blue reader Julia's comment that she wrote on the message board of my post "Dear God: On Getting the Right View" for two reasons: I was taken aback by her beautiful articulation of what it's...

Tuesday November 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression: Life With No Filter

Also intriguing was Beyond Blue reader Mary's comment back on my post "Mother Teresa: My Saint of Darkness and Hope": I remember once reading in an article that said that people who are depressed have a more realistic picture of...

Friday November 16, 2007

Categories: Depression

When the Reframing Gets Tiring

I think this is my favorite blog post of Rita's because it addresses that feeling we all encounter ... "I'm so blessed ... so why am I depressed?" (Hey, that rhymes! blessed and depressed ... cool!) I've been reframing my...

Tuesday November 13, 2007

Categories: Depression

Stick with the Winners

After reading the newest study on obesity—that the risk for obesity increased 171 percent (that wasn’t a typo!) among persons with obese friends—I realized the wisdom of my moms words when she told my sisters and me in high school...

Friday November 9, 2007

Categories: Depression

John D.: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

This week, for Beyond Blue’s series, "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" I am interviewing John D., who is a fellow mental-health blogger. His site, "Storied Mind," is full of insights on a variety of topics: anger, tears, marriage, workplace...

Friday November 9, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression At Work

Another blog post I read with interest was John's piece about how his depression affects his work performance. I've wanted to talk about that more on Beyond Blue, but frankly that's more difficult for me to expose to readers than...

Wednesday November 7, 2007

Categories: Depression

Speaking Out on College Campuses

Also in yesterday's "Washington Post," was a wonderful article about the group Active Minds, founded by Malmon to promote dialogue about mental health on college campuses. She lost her older brother, Brian, to suicide in 2002, when he was a...

Tuesday November 6, 2007

Categories: Depression

Seinfeld on Humor: To Break the Face

Since I am such a huge Seinfeld fan--I swear the script writers studied my life before crafting each episode--I thought I'd include an excerpt from Jerry Seinfeld's book, "SeinLanguage," which I own, of course. I try to exercise his wisdom...

Friday November 2, 2007

Categories: Depression

Side Effect #2: Weight Gain

One of Liz’s most popular video blogs is the one in which she describes weight gain as a side effect. Since so many Beyond Blue readers have expressed this frustration, I thought I’d include it here....

Friday November 2, 2007

Categories: Depression

Psych Meds and Weight Gain

A few months ago, I featured an interview with Dr. Sanjay Gupta on this very topic of weight gain and psych meds. To read the interview I excerpted from the Winter 2007 issue of the Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety...

Thursday November 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

About Light Therapy

From "Getting Relief From Light Therapy" in the Fall 2007 Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin: After years of lurking on the sidelines of depression treatment, therapy with bright light is finally winning a more prominent place in the arsenal...

Thursday November 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

Light Therapy: Some Instructions

Also from "Getting Relief From Light Therapy" in the Fall 2007 Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin: Bright-light therapy involves sitting in front of a bank of full-spectrum fluorescent lights for 30-60 minutes each day. To be maximally effective, the...

Thursday November 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

Cheap Light Therapy

Karen Swartz, M.D., offers some light-therapy options for those on a tight budget: • A light on a timer. If your experience with SAD includes difficulty getting out of bed in the morning, try putting a lamp in your bedroom...

Wednesday October 31, 2007

Categories: Depression

To Everything There Is a Season

I have always loved the verses of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, and throughout October and November I say them daily. The beautiful words are attributed to Solomon, which isn't surprising since, according to the Bible, God granted him abundant wisdom. Not Wisdum....

Friday October 26, 2007

Categories: Depression

Male Depression: Symptoms to Watch For

Also in the Fall 2007 issue of the "Johns Hopkins Depression and Anxiety Bulletin," a closer look at the symptoms of depression in men, and how they differ to classical symptoms most often found in women: It is difficult to...

Friday October 26, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression Without Sadness

Here are some classic symptoms of depression: • Persistent sadness or anxiety • Difficulty concentrating and remembering things • Fatigue and diminished energy • Changes in sleep and appetite • Feelings of hopelessness, guilt, and/or worthlessness • Thoughts of death...

Tuesday October 23, 2007

Categories: Depression

Cancer and Depression: It Sucks (But You Knew That)

A few weeks back, a Beyond Blue reader asked (I can’t find the comment, sorry!), “What do you do when you are afflicted by BOTH cancer and depression? Your twelve steps work great for healthy people. But what do you...

Thursday October 18, 2007

Categories: Depression

12 Depression Busters

A few Beyond Blue readers have asked me to post the 12 Depression Busters gallery that Beliefnet featured back in July into a blog so that they can print them out. (By the way, it got 43 diggs! Not that...

Tuesday October 16, 2007

Categories: Depression

Charles Schulz: Melancholy and Laughter

Last week there was an article in the "New York Times" about the spat between David Michaelis, the author of the biography of Charles M. Schulz (creator of the "Peanuts" comic strip) released this week by HarperCollins, and the Schulz...

Tuesday October 16, 2007

Categories: Depression

Stephen Colbert: Laugh When You're Afraid

With the suicide attempt of Owen Wilson a few weeks ago, I’ve been thinking a lot about humor and depression—about how so many of us depressives use wit as a remedy for our melancholy. "If we couldn’t laugh, we would...

Tuesday October 16, 2007

Categories: Depression

Owen Wilson: Darkness Invisible

Thanks to reader Larry Parker for directing me to the story "Darkness Invisible" by Daphe Merkin in the New York Times Magazine last month. It is a powerful commentary on the public’s response to the suicide attempt of Owen Wilson....

Friday October 12, 2007

Categories: Depression

Neurobiology: New Models For Depression

I'm facinated by this "circuit-board" model of major depression--the connection between specific sets of nerve cells in different regions of the brain--explained by researchers like Helen S. Mayberg, M.D., professor of psychiatry and neurology at Emory School of Medicine. And...

Wednesday September 26, 2007

Categories: Depression

This, Too, Shall Pass

In case any Beyond Blue readers are camping out in the Black Hole, convinced that they will never ever have a different mailing address, I wanted to share Michelle’s letter with you, so that you have at least one thing...

Tuesday September 18, 2007

Categories: Depression

Nancy on Suffering

I was also very moved by Nancy's comment on that same message board: [Your post] brings tears to my eyes as I identify with all that you said and the unspoken words also. It is a deep longing and pain...

Tuesday September 18, 2007

Categories: Depression

The Soul in Depression

Thanks to reader Sandy Slaga for mentioning this podcast called "The Soul in Depression" that you can hear by going to the American Public Media's series, "Speaking of Faith," by clicking here. Here's a description of the podcast that you...

Thursday September 13, 2007

Categories: Depression

The Depression Debate: Biological? Spiritual? Both?

There’s a debate that keeps resurfacing on the message boards of Beyond Blue: is depression a physiological disorder or a spiritual illness in nature? With prayer and medication, can you live happily drug free? Or is that asking for problems?...

Thursday September 13, 2007

Categories: Depression

Some Manners, Please

I remember the dinner conversation the night of November 4, 1980: "Please pass the corn." Five minutes later: "Pass the salt." My mom voted for Carter. My dad voted for Reagan. I headed to the bathroom. That’s how I deal...

Friday September 7, 2007

Prayer and Medication: A Collaborative Approach

Kevin Culligan, O.C.D. describes his collaborative approach to persons experiencing both depression and dark nights in the same chapter of Egan’s book, "Carmelite Prayer": I follow a collaborative approach to assisting others with their spiritual journey. With most persons, this...

Friday September 7, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Spiritual Life and Bipolar Disorder

According to Kevin Culligan, O.C.D, manic depression can mimic the behavior of someone growing in her spiritual life. Hey, that’s great news for me! The next time I get manic and tell an inappropriate joke to a colleague, I can...

Thursday September 6, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

College Depression

I was honored to participate last week in a blogger conference call sponsored by Revolution Health with Dr. Val Jone, Dr. Mark Smaller, and Ross Szabo about depression and mental illness among college students today. You can listen to the...

Thursday September 6, 2007

Categories: Depression

College Depression Warning Signs

I mentioned some of these in my prior post, but these warning signs are taken from Ross's "Behind Happy Faces" website: Changes in feelings such as fear and anger are a normal part of life. Personal situations, such as a...

Thursday September 6, 2007

Categories: Depression

Facts About College Depression

Yikes! Here are some facts I came across on Ross's "Behind Happy Faces" website regarding depression and mental illness among college kids. I'm thinking that maybe I won't send David and Katherine off to school, as much as that sounds...

Wednesday September 5, 2007

Categories: Depression

12 Ways to Care for a Depressed Person

My blogging buddy, James Bishop, over at "Finding Optimism," wrote an excellent post entitled "12 Ways to Care for a Depressed Person." I'll give you the first three, and then go over there yourself to get the others. It's worth...

Thursday August 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Religion and Depression: God and Key Lime Pie

After Eric read the latest story about Mother Teresa’s crisis of faith, he turned to me and said, "I don’t get it. All you religious types are depressed. What came first? The depression or the religion? . . . And...

Thursday August 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Owen Wilson: On Understanding Suicide (and Attempts)

"The human heart is exquisitely fragile," Catholic author and columnist Ron Rolheiser writes in his annual column on suicide. "Our judgments need to be gentle, our understanding deep, and our forgiveness wide." I am grateful to reader Babs for leading...

Tuesday August 28, 2007

Categories: Depression

Mother Teresa: My Saint of Darkness and Hope

"If I ever become a saint—I will surely be one of 'darkness,'" Mother Teresa wrote in September of 1959. "I will continually be absent from heaven—to light the light of those in darkness on earth." Two years earlier she wrote...

Monday August 27, 2007

Categories: Depression

The Psychology of Happiness

I’ve mentioned psychologist Martin Seligman, author of "Authentic Happiness" (also the name of his website) and the father of positive psychology in past posts because his approach to depression and mood disorders has been helpful. Wendy Schuman of Beliefnet recently...

Monday August 27, 2007

Categories: Depression

When Self-Help Isn't Helpful

I was relieved to know Jane Chin, Ph.D., of Chinspirations.com agrees with my doctor that persons who are severely depressed should stay away from self-help books. On the message board on my post "What the Secret Can and Can’t Do...

Friday August 24, 2007

Categories: Depression

Treatment Resistant? Read James

Have you been labeled "treatment resistent"? Maybe you just haven't found the right psychiatrist. My blogging buddy, James, wrote a great post yesterday on his process of finding the right treatment for him. He links to my post on "My...

Thursday August 23, 2007

Categories: Depression

6 Exercise Tips from My Docs

Since so many Beyond Blue readers expressed the importance of exercise in their war against depression on the message board of my " ">Depression and Coupes" post, I thought I’d share exercise tips by Karen Swartz, M.D., one of the...

Monday August 20, 2007

Categories: Depression

Beyond Blue on Yahoo

Last Friday Yahoo ran a story on postpartum depression blogs out there to help moms. My blogging buddy, Katherine Stone, was featured, and she was so kind as to mention Beyond Blue as part of the story. To read the...

Thursday August 16, 2007

Motherhood and Depression

I’ve said this in prior posts, but hopefully writing it over and over again will help me to know better how to tackle it. I hate that my depression affects my kids. Because I know it does. According to Mark...

Thursday August 16, 2007

The Case for Family Support

According to Dr. Mark Gold (who wrote "The Good News About Depression"--have I mentioned I hate that title?), a major problem in today’s society is that there is no support from extended family for depressed mothers. Gold says this: In...

Wednesday August 15, 2007

Categories: Depression, Marriage

Marriage and Depression

Have you ever been at a wedding reception when the best man stands us and toasts his glass of champagne to the bride, who is “so much better than the last one”? An awkward silence ensues, followed by an explosion...

Wednesday August 15, 2007

Mary Magdalene: Manic Depressive?

My Guardian Angel Ann is a great guardian angel to my children, so, in grandparent style, she bought each of them a picture book and inscribed a message on them. She also bought Eric and me books. Mine was a...

Tuesday August 14, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The "Easy Way Out"?

Also in the "Washington Post," I was delighted to see the following letter to the editor regarding the Laura Zigman essay on depression I excerpted in my "The Moment She Cried Uncle" post (to read the whole essay, click here)...

Monday August 13, 2007

Categories: Depression, Friendships

Spiritual Friendships and Angels

"So let me get this straight," a friend of a friend said to me last night. "You drove eight hours up to Boston to stay with a woman you met on an Amtrak train two years ago, and with whom...

Thursday August 9, 2007

Categories: Depression

Is Depression Like Cancer?

There’s an interesting discussion on the message boards of my "Relapse: The Waiting Place" post and "What Makes People Relapse?" post about whether or not a person can fully recover from depression. Is depression like cancer … in that we...

Thursday August 9, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression and Brain Tumors

Just yesterday I was talking to my fellow Beliefnet blogger David Kuo about the similarities between brain tumors and depression. I don't have to worry about my growth turning malignant as much as he does, but we both agreed that...

Thursday August 9, 2007

Categories: Depression

Optimism Versus Hope

Reader Larry Parker is always posting interesting comments. I was intrigued by the distinction he makes (with Patton Dodd) between optimism and hope, and the comparison he makes between depression and cancer. He shares on the message board of "Relapse:...

Thursday August 9, 2007

Categories: Depression

Optimism and Depression

In his comment, Larry highlighted some points made by Patton Dodd, who wrote Beliefnet’s "Optimism Is Depression," (click here) about the distinction between optimism and hope. The article begins . . . Long before "The Secret" had readers talking about...

Wednesday August 8, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Enough with the Gratitude!

Even as I’m not very good at it, I know that gratitude is important and can help a person beat depression. Based on her research findings, University of California psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky believes that keeping a gratitude journal--taking the time...

Wednesday August 8, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Spare Me the Platitudes

I was so refreshed by the candid comment of reader Margaret and so many others on my "They Just Don’t Get It" post. Margaret’s insights deserve an entire post because she hit on so many emotions that depressives feel but...

Tuesday August 7, 2007

Categories: Depression, Parenting

Postpartum Progress

Also at BlogHer I met a soulmate in Katherine Stone. She writes a fabulous blog on postpartum depression. In fact, it's the most visited site on postpartum issues. Katherine spoke at a workshop I attended about blogs becoming a voice...

Tuesday August 7, 2007

Categories: Depression

Fertility Problems and Depression

Thanks to reader Tina who mentioned her miscarrage as a possible trigger for her recent relapse into depression on the message board of "Relapse: The Waiting Place." Just as depression is often triggered by a birth (postpartum depression), it happens...

Wednesday August 1, 2007

Relapse: The Waiting Place

Thanks to an anonymous reader on my "Is It a Relapse?" post who wrote: This is a great article! However, what have you done that helped you to come out of it since? I was hoping to read on and...

Thursday July 26, 2007

Categories: Depression

Resilience: The Opposite of Depression

The opposite of depression is not happiness, according to Peter Kramer, author of "Against Depression" and "Listening to Prozac," it is resilience: the ability to cope with life’s frustrations without falling apart. Proper treatment doesn’t suppress emotions or dull a...

Thursday July 26, 2007

Categories: Depression

The Full Plate Club

Thanks to Beyond Blue, I know that I’m not alone with regard to how my packed schedule contributes to depression. Reader TJ wrote this in an e-mail to me: One major factor to being suicidal was not enough time to...

Wednesday July 25, 2007

Advice for Moira

I continue to be amazed and delighted by the support offered by readers to those who post their problems on the message boards of Beyond Blue. The other day at breakfast, Eric said to me, "I feel bad for Moira."...

Tuesday July 24, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

For Gabriel: Your Disease Is Real

One of the most meaningful notes I received on my relapse post was from a woman who lost her son to suicide. After reading her words, I felt renewed in my mission to educate as many people as I can...

Tuesday July 24, 2007

Categories: Depression, Friendships

How to Approach a Friend?

Along the lines of helping people to understand mental illness, I received the following question on my relapse post. I wondered what Beyond Blue readers have to say about how to approach a friend who is struggling with depression. Thank...

Monday July 23, 2007

Reader Wisdom: What Helped You

Here are just a few of the pearls I found on the message board of "Is It a Relapse?" Reach the Middle Place Deep inside you have the heart and faith to know that bad as today is, there is...

Monday July 23, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

I Know What You Mean

I was also pleased to hear how many readers have recently discovered Beyond Blue and are so relieved to have found a place where others share their pain, that they take away such hope from the reader comments and from...

Tuesday July 17, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

Menstruation and Depression

Here’s an interesting article on WebMD by Miranda Hitti about the relationship between depression and menstrual cycles. Jan. 28, 2005 -- Most women with depression get worsening symptoms prior to their periods, researchers say. In a new study, 64% of...

Monday July 16, 2007

Categories: Depression, Friendships

Guardian Angels from Hell

"Acknowledge miracles in your life. Angels are God’s miracle workers," writes Jayne Howard Feldman, and Suzanne Siegel Zenkel says "Where there is goodness, there is an angel." I’ve met an angel at every important crossroad in my life. One came...

Thursday July 12, 2007

When to Get Help

Every depressive is different when it comes to crying "Uncle," and calling the doc. My guardian angel Ann says that if she stays in bed three days in a row, she will call the doctor on the fourth day (or...

Tuesday July 10, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Return of Enjoyment

Although we weren’t allowed to roast marshmallows in the psych ward (for fear of someone purposely lighting himself on fire), there were many campfire moments, where we sat in a circle sharing some of the most intimate memories, stories, hopes,...

Tuesday July 10, 2007

Categories: Depression, Mental Health

The Other Face of Depression

When that happens to a manic-depressive when her bumps get wings and fly away? She becomes "exuberant," the title of Kay Redfield Jamison’s book ("Exuberance: The Passion for Life"). This is the other face of depression, not mania. Jamison writes:...

Thursday June 28, 2007

My Depression Toolbox

I've shared my twelve depression busters before, but by clicking here you can view a gallery featuring my toolbox that directs me toward mental health, and serves as an emergency lifeline in case I get lost along the way. I...

Wednesday June 27, 2007

Label Me, Please

For a long while I was afraid to write things such as "I am mentally ill" or "I am bi-polar." I was afraid of labels. By calling myself a manic-depressive would I trap my psyche in "sick" mode? By accepting...

Wednesday June 13, 2007

Categories: Depression

What "The Secret" Can and Can't Do For Depression

Thanks to reader Larry Parker who wrote the following message on my "Oprah at Wellesley" post: Creative visualization, or "The Secret," or the Law of Attraction--or whatever you want to call Oprah's philosophy--is not inspiring for those of us with...

Wednesday June 13, 2007

Categories: Depression, Depression

A Call for Prayers

I don’t know how to respond to the following notes posted on various message boards other than to say that I pray for you and offer you my sincere condolences and support. And I ask all readers out there to...

Wednesday June 13, 2007

Categories: Depression, Depression

A Call for Prayers

I don’t know how to respond to the following notes posted on various message boards other than to say that I pray for you and offer you my sincere condolences and support. And I ask all readers out there to...

Friday June 8, 2007

Categories: Depression

Paris Hilton: Depression Isn’t a Rich Disease

If I could avoid it--and exit the grocery store without accidentally reading tabloid headlines--I wouldn't follow the details of Paris Hilton’s life. And even if I was one of those people truly fascinated by her, like my sister is, I...

Friday June 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

Sandy Slaga: How Do You Move Beyond Blue?

A few weeks ago, I launched my series "How Do You Move Beyond Blue?" with an interview with Gretchen Rubin, a fellow blogger who is working on the "Happiness Project."Now I bring to you the lovely and inspirational Sandy Slaga,...

Thursday May 31, 2007

Categories: Depression

Oprah Is Now My Friend: Her Show on Depression

I hereby apologize for my anti-Oprah remarks in past posts. Until last week's show on depression I didn't realize all the support she offers (online chat rooms and tons of resources via her media kingdom, which starts at www.oprah.com) to...

Thursday May 31, 2007

Categories: Depression

Morning Has Broken for Phil

On Wednesday’s show Oprah also interviewed Phil Aronson, husband of Emme Aronson, formerly the world's leading plus-size super model and Revlon cover girl.I think his story is important to tell too because our society often thinks of depression as a...

Thursday May 31, 2007

Categories: Depression

Mars and Venus in Tears: Men, Women, and Depression

On Oprah's website, I found this interesting article about the difference in symptoms between women and men who suffer from depression:According to psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz, author of "Anatomy of a Secret Life," major depression and dysthymia affect twice as...

Wednesday May 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Defining Major Depression

For readers like "Citizen," I think it's important to list the symptoms of major depression covered by the DSM-IV (the current edition of the Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) published by the American Psychiatric Association.According to the DSM-IV, a person...

Wednesday May 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Criteria for Depression Are Too Broad, Researchers Say

Click here to read Shankar Vedantam's entire "Washington Post" article on the new guidelines for diagnosing depression.It begins:Up to 25 percent of people in whom psychiatrists would currently diagnose depression may only be reacting normally to stressful events such as...

Tuesday May 29, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression or Life?

Thanks to reader "Citizen" who posted the following question on my "Labor Pains" post:How do you distinguish depression from ordinary feelings, if it isn't as obvious as what you have described?Separating clinical depression from the sadness and normal anxiety caused...

Tuesday May 22, 2007

Categories: Depression

Labor Pains

Depression is a lot like childbirth. Once you've climbed out of the Black Hole (i.e. are holding your newborn in your arms) you forget (at least temporarily) about all the cursing you did during the labor that got you there.In...

Monday May 21, 2007

Advice for Graduates and Depressives

Speaking of advice for graduates, here are a few passages from recent commencement addresses that I found especially meaningful. From them I gleaned many insights on how to live more gracefully with depression and anxiety.Toni Morrison at Wellesley College, 2004:...

Friday May 11, 2007

Categories: Catholicism, Depression

Bishop Battles Depression--and Its Stigma

Here's an excellent article written by Douglas Todd for Religion News Service about Archbishop Roussin's depression and how he is fighting for better understanding of mental illness within religious communities.Once again, Roussin is my hero!Archbishop Raymond Roussin remembers the shame...

Thursday May 10, 2007

Categories: Depression

Down Came the Rain

I mentioned in my "Celebrity Depression, Spiritual Lessons" gallery how Brooke Shields' memoir, "Down Came the Rain," gave me permission to cry all I wanted, especially in the months after I started breastfeeding Katherine, when I started to sink into...

Thursday May 3, 2007

Categories: Depression

What If? A Doctor's Note of Hope

My heart goes out to reader Nancy, who posted the following message on my "Depression Is Conquerable" post:"I read with interest your posts about depression. I have been a long-time sufferer--since I was a child--of major depression as well as...

Thursday May 3, 2007

Categories: Depression

Q&A on Deep Brain Stimulation and Depression

I mentioned Deep Brain Stimulation (DBS) the other day, but the link to the article on it required a password. Sorry about that.Here are some excerpts from an interview with Helen S. Mayberg, M.D., professor of psychiatry and neurology at...

Tuesday May 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression--The Full Monty

What do the Christian existential thinker Soren Kierkegaard and the movie "The Full Monty" (the 1997 flick about six unemployed steel workers who form a male striptease act) have in common?Let me tell you.Kierkegaard described despair as not being conscious...

Tuesday May 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

The Real Live Preacher's Depression--Full Monty Style

Ever since my friend helped forge the connection between Kierkegaard's act of kenosis, or self-emptying (in my case sharing with the world my story of depression and recovery) and "The Full Monty," I've been on the lookout for other flashers...

Tuesday May 1, 2007

Categories: Depression

Chris Rose’s Depression—Full Monty Style

Another poignant testimony is the 4,500-word article entitled "Hell and Back" by Chris Rose, a columnist for The Times-Picayune in New Orleans, who reported on the post-Katrina life, and, as a result, got sucked down the "rabbit hole" (as he...

Monday April 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Depression Is Conquerable

This is why I need to be in touch with people currently battling the demons of depression: they remind me of where I was, so that in the event I find myself in that massive pile of animal waste again,...

Monday April 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Treatment for Depression: Some Facts

I just shared my belief that depression is conquerable. But how? Here are some treatment facts, according to "The Johns Hopkins White Papers 2007: Depression and Anxiety" by Karen L. Swartz, one of the physicians who evaluated me in Spring...

Monday April 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Good News For Treatment-Resistant Depression

Also from "The Johns Hopkins White Papers 2007":"If you're on an antidepressant and it's not working, don't give up on it: You may need a higher dose, a longer duration of therapy, a different drug altogether, or a combination of...

Monday April 30, 2007

Categories: Depression

Deep Brain Stimulation For Treatment-Resistant Depression

Click here to read a fascinating interview on "Medscape Today" with Helen S. Mayberg, MD, Professor of Psychiatry and Neurology, at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, about her groundbreaking research into the neurophysiologic loci of depression and the benefits of...

Friday April 27, 2007

A Dozen Addiction Zappers and Depression Busters

Lest my readers think that I'm contracted by the Dark Side (sorry, watching too much "Star Wars" lately) to encourage addictive behavior and rationalize all weakness, here are a dozen addiction zappers and depression busters I use in deficient moments...

Friday April 6, 2007

Categories: Depression

Good Friday and the Bleeding Woman

Good Friday and the narrative of the Lord's passion will always be connected to the story of the hemorrhaging woman in the Synoptic Gospels (Matthew, Mark, and Luke) for me, because just as I yelled out to God in the...

Tuesday April 3, 2007

Categories: Depression, Marriage

Reader Response: 'Til Death Do Us Part

Another Reader Question: one reader asked if she should leave her husband of 30 years (did I get that right?) because he is unsupportive of her depression. (Feel free to fill in the gaps of the situation on the message...

Thursday March 15, 2007

Categories: Depression

What I Can Learn From Gov. Patrick

Massachusetts Governor Deval Patrick must have memorized Don Miguel Ruiz's classic, "The Four Agreements"--a book introducing the wisdom of the ancient Toltec, a Mexican tribe of scientists and artists--because it appears he's got the first agreement down: "Be Impeccable with...

Thursday March 15, 2007

Categories: Depression

Kitty's Shocking Story

I was so moved by these excerpts that I read from Kitty Dukakis' memoir about her battle with depression. With the help of medical journalist Larry Tye, Kitty shares how controversial shock therapy treatments saved her life....

Tuesday March 13, 2007

Categories: Depression

Rosie, My New Best Friend

I've always loved Rosie O'Donnell for her courteous and tactful wit. But now I want to hang photos of this comedian all over my desk because, as a fellow depressive gone public, she has just made my job of educating...

Wednesday March 7, 2007

Categories: Depression

Ten (or Eleven) Days to Self-Esteem

Each summer I pick a project. Last year's was to develop my self-esteem. According to David Burns, that should only take ten days. But nine months later, I'm still not there.From June to August last year, this was the routine:...

Tuesday March 6, 2007

Categories: Depression

Go Into the Pain?

Now that I have mocked the meditation of one of the most prominent Catholic theologians of our time, let me say that I adore Henri Nouwen's stuff. Because it is so raw and real. A friend of mine told me...

Thursday February 15, 2007

Categories: Depression

Talia's Blog

Yeterday I mentioned Talia Mana's blog, and now I'll share that she just interviewed me on blogging about depression. Her website, the Centre for Emotional Well-Being, is full of interesting research, commentary, and discussions. She and I have decided to...

Wednesday February 7, 2007

Categories: Depression

Honey, I Think It's Time!

I wish psychiatrists sent depressives home with instructions on when to go to the hospital similar to the ones obstetricians give to pregnant women once they reach 37 weeks of gestation: when your contractions last for a minute each and...

Monday January 22, 2007

Categories: Depression

Art Buchwald: A Blues Brother

Last Wednesday a friend of mine died.He was one of the most successful newspaper columnists of his time, the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize, and a comic genius. But I appreciated Art Buchwald most as one of the three "Blues...

Monday January 22, 2007

Categories: Depression

In Art's Words

Art Buchwald wrote the following as an introduction to a fantastic article in "Psychology Today" (Nov, 1999) called "Celebrity Meltdown: Famous, Important People Who Have Suffered Depression.""I had two depressions, one in 1963 and the other in 1987--the first clinical...

Monday January 22, 2007

Categories: Depression

In Good Company

We're in good company! Here's just a preliminary list of famous people who have struggled with mental disorders. Even more are found in the same "Psychology Today" article for which Art Buchwald wrote an introduction.H-HospitalizedSA-Suicide AttemptS-SuicidePublic FiguresBarbara Bush * Former...

Friday January 19, 2007

Categories: Depression, Relationships

Abusive Relationships and Depression

Thanks to a reader, Jennifer, for her comment on how Eric's intolerance for clutter could be seen as controlling. It made me think of the correlation between abusive relationships and depression. While I'm happy to report that my marriage is...

Thursday January 18, 2007

Categories: Depression, Relationships

Depression and Couples

I found this interesting article on how depression affects couples: "Depression Fallout: The Impact of Depression on Couples."...

Tuesday January 16, 2007

Categories: Depression

Show Up With Flowers

I stayed relatively silent about my depression for two decades because I felt I had no right to complain.Two million children in Africa die a year from Malaria. That's suffering. Mothers risk their lives to give birth in war-torn Iraq....

Tuesday January 16, 2007

Categories: Anxiety, Depression

On "Coming Out"

From my original blog, in case you missed it:I haven't always been so candid about my depression and anxiety. A year ago, while in the eye of the storm, I bailed on delivering the keynote address to a large Catholic...

Wednesday January 10, 2007

Categories: Depression

Use Your Words

I'm always telling David and Katherine to use their words (instead of whining and screaming), but I'm often afraid to use them myself. Unlike Eric, who vocalizes a resentment before it's had time to fester and start a family, I...

Wednesday January 3, 2007

Categories: Depression

Two Great Resources for Women

Depression affects women almost twice as often as men, with about one in four women suffering from it in her lifetime. While depression may strike at any time, studies show that women are particularly vulnerable during their childbearing years. Two...

Wednesday December 27, 2006

Categories: Depression

My Self-Esteem File

I tell the story of the poinsettia because it describes what has happened to me with "Beyond Blue." At the low point of my depression, I was convinced that I had absolutely nothing to offer the world: that my husband...

Wednesday December 27, 2006

Categories: Depression

Warm Fuzzies

Here are a few of those warm fuzzies you've been kind enough to post on this blog. Let's keep sharing with each other:Some days I feel there is no hope for me. But then I read your article and a...

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