Annie Lamott, accomplice
Annie Lamott confesses to helping kill a friend of hers. This will strike some of you as warm and humane. It strikes me as absolutely monstrous -- especially monstrous because it is presented as so soothing, so decent, so loving....
Thanks for posting this. I read Dr. Mohler's post last night, and I posted myself on this topic today regarding my disappointment in Lamott and in myself for believing in her. Even though I KNOW only God can know the heart, I would be interested to know your perspective on her spiritual condition. Can she really KNOW Jesus?>
Can she really KNOW Jesus?
You're questioning her salvation because she chose compassion over enforced suffering.
Do *you* know Him?>
I'm questioning her salvation because she chose to play God rather than to submit to His revealed will.
It all depends on the set of assumptions from which one is working.>
Actually, Crunchy here describes *exactly* why the rest of us are not comfortable with Christianity telling us when, how, and through what we should be forced to live or die:
The Christian understanding of humanity insists that we are not autonomous creatures that have the right to determine when we shall live and when we shall die.
Unfortunately, the *human* understanding of humanity, especially when someone sees another being kept alive artificially in the name of 'natural life,' comes into conflict with this.
To the contrary, our lives are in the disposition of the Creator,
Unless, of course, sentenced to death, I guess.
and human life is understood to posses inherent dignity from its natural beginning until its natural end. Any affirmation of assisted suicide or any form of euthanasia as a way of "releasing" persons by voluntary or involuntary intervention is a rejection of God's sovereign prerogative and a denial of His providence as gracious, merciful, and righteous.
Which brings us to the fact that attempting to use state power to block people from assisted suicide is based entirely on a specific religious belief, not the public interest.
In effect, using a specific interpretation of a specific religious authority to control the lives... and deaths... of others.
That's not OK.
My own religion *does* see a particular life as a school, of sorts, and that there's no point in keeping a body blowing air after the experience has ceased, for instance.
Who the Hel do you think you are?>
"Who the Hel do you think you are?"
I am someone who wants very much to be wrong about Anne Lamott. As I said in my second post, it all depends on the set of assumptions from which one is working. The "set of assumptions" for the Christain is the Bible. I'm not interested in a debate over whether or not euthenasia should be legal. I'm looking at this from the perspective of Lamott's decision-making process. By claiming to be a Christian, she is implicitly claiming the Bible to have a certain amount of authoriy in her life. Can one claim to be a Christian and blatantly disregard the Bible's position of the taking of human life? You can use the same decision-making paradigm whatever the religion. If someone tells you they are Muslim, you assume they adhere to the Koran. If someone practices Confucianism, you assume they adhere to the Tao. And so on.>
Rod, my sincere apologies. I intentionally asked a provocative question with the purpose of initiating a friendly discussion among "Crunchy Cons." Where ARE all the "Crunchy Cons"?
LOVED the book, by the way.
"Blessed are you when people insult you...because of Me."
Jesus (Matthew 5:11)>
Lets hope that we don't have too many people wanting to be "compassionate".You won't be able to trust anyone, ever again, if assited suicide gets to be considered "compassionate", when you get ill. If you get too inconveniant. at the wrong time. Even God would tell you, the only thing humans are ever really clever at, is coming up with rationalisms, to do what we want to do.We can come up with a "compassionate" reason to do anything. And we will.>
A great deal of the practice of modern medicine is based on an implicit trust by patients in medical professionals, in their judgment and in their recommendations. In other words, there is an unspoken trust that if your doctor tells you to take this pill, get this shot, have this operation, undergo this treatment, it will not harm you -- or, at least, the long-term benefit outweights the short-term discomfort, and the risks are disclosed and discussed up front. If physicians get involved in the deliberate taking of life, for any reason, it completely overturns this implicit trust. This is why physicians don't get involved in administering the lethal injection death penalty. If you cannot trust that you doctor won't deliberately harm or kill you, then modern medicine as we have known it is over.
Beside, why should people be permitted to kill themselves, with or without help? Because their body and their life is their own? Then why don't we allow people to make the choice to sell themselves into slavery? Or prostitution?>
I find this essay of Lamott's deeply troubling, and yes, I am a fan of her writing, particularly "Bird by Bird."
Without getting into the religious issues, there are plenty of people who are not sure where they stand on end-of-life issues, and there are serious ethical questions involved in "assisted suicide."
To me, suicide is an act of despair, and people who make the decision to die may seem to be "clear-headed" but that doesn't mean they are. When people are depressed or in shock, they don't necessarily make good decisions.
I'm not presuming to judge motives, but I'm wondering about the sanity of the three people involved in this decision.>
Because their body and their life is their own? Then why don't we allow people to make the choice to sell themselves into slavery?
We do - it's called earning a wage.
Or prostitution?
Arranged marriage?>
If you get an Incomplete, do you actually pass the class?
God bless.>
I've never seen anything "Jesusy" about Annie Lamott. She seems pretty Molochy to me.>
And in the offices and boardrooms of HMOs and health insurance companies across North America, there was much quiet rejoicing and whispers of "you go, girl!">
As far as medical professionals, the Hippocratic Oath is pretty clear on the issue.
"To please no one will I prescribe a deadly drug nor give advice which may cause his death."
The causative principle distinguishes giving a deadly dose of barbituates from, say, turning off a ventilator which is artificially prolonging life or discontinuing medications which are chemically elevating blood pressure after the body's own systems are failing.>
Funny that conservatives love to trot out the Hippocratic oath and demand that doctors abide by it, but fdeel it's okay to ignore the oath of office that the president takes to "uphold and defend the Constitution."
As I've said before, internal consistency is not a conservative strong suit.>
gitv,
president's oath doesn't need to be ignored. I would argue that, by vigorously prosecuting the war on terror, he is honoring his oath.
As to consistency, the NYT has its own problems with leaks. Those who leaked Plame's identity must be stopped, but those who leak about NSA data collection or SWIFT tracking are performing a public service. Kind of inconsistent, don't you think?>
Nope - in both cases, the NYT is merely reporting the news.
The leak needs to be plugged at the hole, not at the drain.>
"The NYT is merely reporting the news."
The supposed objectivity is undermined by the fact they published the original op-ed by Joe Wilson.
As to plugging the leak at the "hole, not at the drain," I think the "hole" needs to be plugged. However, Keller acknowledged a publisher has a role in making difficult decisions about what to publish & not publish. Officials, and Kean & Hamilton of the 9/11 commission, urged him not to. He had a choice, and in my opinion, chose poorly.>
Great. Another thread hijacked. I guess if you can't argue the facts,then changing the subject is all you've got.
The subject at hand is Anne Lamott killing her friend. This essay is sadder and more troubling than I think Lamott even knows. Here's a friend of hers suffering from a fatal illness and the best this Christian can do is ... kill him. Jesus didn't go to Mt. Sinai and tell us to kill the sick.
I've read that she calls herself "Jesusy" a term that is a reference to the Daily Show's "truthyness". What does this say about Lamott's own view of her faith that she compares her sincerity to that of a "fake news" show? Is she saying that her faith is a mere mockery of Christianity? If so, that is terribly sad. She is deeply, profoundly confused and this essay may be her way of reaching out for help. I pray the Holy Spirit comes and enlightens her mind and her heart.>
Wait wait wait - you're gonna blame this on their publication of Wilson's Op-ed? So their breaking of their own law is acceptable becauser the husband of an operative voiced his opinion?
I'll let you think that over and re-post before I call that the way I see that.
The NYT is doing its job. I know you don't like its job, but it's still doing it. The administration is circumventing laws and abusing the trust of the overwhelming majority of the populace.
The NYT absolutely has the Constitutional right to tell the people that, and the SCOTUS will likely agree. See The Pentagon Papers (NEW YORK TIMES CO. V. UNITED STATES CASE, 1971).>
The subject at hand is Anne Lamott killing her friend.
Sorry bout the hijack.
Your comment is completely inappropriate to frame the language this way. It's intellectually dishonest and smacks of libel.
What Lamott did was assist in a friend ending her own life.
It's that kind of emotional hyperbole that keeps the country from having anythign resembling a substantive debate about the right of an individual to end his or her own life.>
GITV: What I wrote libelous or hyperbole because I said that she killed her friend? Lamott says the very same thing in the lead of her essay. ("THE MAN I KILLED did not want to die, but he no longer felt he had much of a choice ...")>
Sorry about the typo. That last comment should have read, "Was what I wrote libelous or hyperbole because I said that she killed her friend"?>
Her article provided context. Your comment didn't.
Big difference, my friend. Your comment was made to incite and inflame, and it was out of line.>
GITV: My comment was made in the context of the essay Rod had linked to. That's how blogs work. You pretend to read my mind and my intentions but really you know nothing about either. That's how projection works.>
Rod,
You are just as disrespectful, unethical and incoherent as your predecessor on beliefnet.
Why can't beliefnet find a conservative voice who also has some sense of fairness?>
Sorry stallion.
I just read your words.
No mind there that *I* noticed.>
Against my better judgment (after reading the tone of comments on this and the previous post), I'll de-lurk and say this:
As a dyed-in-the-wool liberal, I've lately found myself demanding of my conservative friends when we arrive at the point where, regardless of left/right affiliations, rational persons agree that a thing is simply objectively wrong. This is a time where I've got to do what I demand of others and say: this is wrong.
I would find Lamott's article horrifying enough if it were written from a secular standpoint, but Lamott presents it as representative of a Christian worldview.
The worldview contained in this article is not gnostic, not Christian--Christian anthropology tells us that one's "self" is not simply one's "mind" or "ideas" but the composite person made up of mind and body. This life isn't a course which we might leave and still be ourselves--the belief in the eventual resurrection of the body means that we do NOT ultimately see this life as "an Earth school," but rather a fallen version of what we are meant to be: mind/body, fleshy souls.
The Christian thing to do here--and I do not here use "Christian" as an adjective for 'loving' or 'merciful,' I use it to mean 'indicative of a Christian worldview'--would have been to encourage her friend to explore palliative care, to help him overcome his terror at the idea of his mind being compromised... not to encourage the belief that our thoughts are our true selves, and our bodies simply some temporary school uniform.
Lamott's actions are not even presented as a last resort. Her friend did not try hospice care and find it lacking, but--at least this is what one gathers from the article--dismissed it out of hand. Lamott seemingly made no attempt to dissuade him from this. Do we not at the VERY minimum have an obligation to exhaust ALL other options before death?
It's a question to which I firmly believe both liberals and conservatives--particularly liberal and conservative Christians--must answer yes.
Apologies for the length of the response.>
GITV: I guess when you don't succeed in hijacking a thread, turning around and making personal attacks is all you've got. Nice try though.>
Lamontt is a great example of why theology matters. Great writer, weak theology. The church for the most part contributes to this. I would advice her to write about other things for a while and start reading solid theology. Christanity believes the embodied life is sacred.>
Claire,
Your response was right on. Thanks!>
Hooray for GITV. How about a little bit of agreeing to disagree wirhout insults. It struck me as I read these posts of people so convinced that their doctrine is right that there are other religions and beliefs in the world that believe with equal fervor that we in the US, all of us, are heathens and wrongdoers. There is no convincing them otherwise, no matter what argument is made, what doctrine is preached, what book is studied. My two cents: For all you folks who throw your religion at me, I say put your money where your mouth is. How many of you have actually spent a lot of time with the dying? How many have spent years watching what can happen to a human body with end stage AIDS, cancer,etc... If you say keep people alive because our lives are sacred, well good. Now get out there today and volunteer to make those lives bearable until the end. Quit preaching and start loving. Leave your judgements at the door too please. We each have lessons to learn on this earth with divine guidance. I love Anne Lamott. I do not know her life or beliefs either. She may make different choices from me, but it is not my place to condemn anyone. You don't like her? Well, don't read her stuff. In some cases, I think the horror of staying alive in a disease riddled body, with a terminal prognosis is the worst form of torture. The people I cared for had almost no one at their bedside to help them through those last days. Where are all you do gooders? Go help, go hold the hand of agony, and see what you conclude at the end. My personal experience was that God was in all the rooms of my patients. You could feel the spirit. I never once thought that God had a clipboard telling him which patient was more deserving, more christian, more holy. Perhaps Anne Lamott has a better understanding of grace than those here, perhaps not. Either way, go help and quit typing on the internet. Blessings and love.>
Preach on, FunInTheSun.
Between 1992 and 1994 I watched my circle of closest friends die off from the Big A. NINE friends in 2 years 2 months.
I watched most of them scream in pain from their hospital beds as disease after disease wracked their frail, lesion-ridden, 90-pound bodies.
I, too, see helping a loved one end his or her own life when that life is unbearable torure as one of the most compassionate things we as humans can ever do.
To the "Lamott is a killer" set:
Unless one has been in the same position as Lamott, or any of us who have watched our loved ones waste away in excruciating pain, one's comments about the "right" and the "wrong" of assisted suicide are nothing more than tea-cozy conversation - something to make us feel better about ourselves over scones.
I kind of have the same feeling about this topic that military must have about Iraq - that whole "if you haven't been through it, you're just a spectator and your opinion means jack" thing... I know it's not the best way to go about it, and I do apologize to anyone who was offended by my tone.
Doesn't change how I feel about it, though. Unless and until it's happened to you, your opining is nothing more than wind.>
Crunchy, I'll have to read all of Lamott's essay before I critique her. However I do get tired of this notion that CC submitted that God has this time line where we are born and die. I'm working with a patient at this moment who has advanced lung cancer. He refuses to die peacefully. He has requested to be placed on artifical life support and we will oblige, by law and respecting his choice. He will suffer greatly by making this choice. He will 'live' for a long time b/c the rest of him is healthy. What a time line! If we were to withhold artifical therapy he would get dizzy and die. Now, In God's name he will suffer with bed sores and infections. Lamott's doesn't seem so off to me when looking at this patient.>
He has requested to be placed on artifical life support and we will oblige, by law and respecting his choice. He will suffer greatly by making this choice. He will 'live' for a long time b/c the rest of him is healthy. What a time line! If we were to withhold artifical therapy he would get dizzy and die. Now, In God's name he will suffer with bed sores and infections. Lamott's doesn't seem so off to me when looking at this patient.
Re: God's Timeline...
I wonder if God intends for any poor folks without insurance to live beyond circumstances?
This fella Al spoke about will linger on as long as his insurance company decides it won't pay anymore.
Well, what if God wants him to come home? What if God wants the woman in the room next door whose insurance company won't pay for the experimental treatment to stick around? What if God has great plans for that homeless guy dying of TB right outside, but he can't get services because he doesn't exist as far as the money people are concerned?
I think taking the "what God wants..." road is pretty disingenuous when it comes to this issue.
How, for instance, do we know that God didn't put Anne Lamott into the life of this friend so that she could help him home when the time came?>
Several years ago, I watched my father, a man I greatly respect, choose to stop taking chemo that wasn't working. He then spent time at home, with family & hospice care, until his death. He died with mom by his bed, when the cancer had completed its course.
My opinion is informed by personal opinion, professional experience and my Christian worldview. Life and death are part of human experience, and are (in my opinion) part of a sacred cycle. Most religious groups oppose assisted suicide. Most states bar the practice. And, medical ethics (based upon the Hippocratic oath) preclude a physician from participating.
Some answers to the difficulties posed here are provided by pain management and hospice care. However, death is still a difficult topic for most of us to address with those we love.>
It doesn't matter...she could have been wrong, she could have been right...It doesn't matter. God loves her unconditionally, and to accept that is part of being a Christian.>
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