In the Orthodox Church, yesterday was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul. To celebrate, I was invited to a parish dinner at the rectory of Archbishop Dmitri here in Dallas. Though the cathedral is quite lovely, the archbishop --...
Rod, yesterday was the feast of SS. Peter and Paul in the Catholic Church, too.
The feast of SS. Peter and Paul is a big deal in Rome, because of course they are regarded as the two founders of the Church of Rome. (Much is made of the fact that both the secular, imperial Rome and the later Christian Rome are regarded as having two founders.) Last year when I was in Rome doing Fr. Foster's Latin program, he arranged for the class to take a trip outside Rome on that day, because he said Rome would be a madhouse. That was rather irritating for those of us who, unlike him, haven't lived in Rome for 35 years and would like to have experienced the "madhouse" for ourselves. ;-)>
Jenna
June 30, 2006 5:29 PM
June 29 is also the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul in the Lutheran Church, too.>
Photini Blackburn
June 30, 2006 5:31 PM
I converted to the Roman Church when I was 18. I spent 11 years working for it professionally, and over 20 as a member. When I converted to Orthodoxy three years ago, I knew I had really come home. The question is not whether the Orthodox Church has sin (it does) or whether it deals with sin better or worse than any other ecclesial body. The issue is whether it is the Church. Some of us former Catholics have come to the conclusion that the Roman church is schismatic and heretical-working for it helped confirm that for me. The diversity and beauty are selling points, but ultimately the issue is where do you find the Body of Christ. Romans seem to spend a lot of time yelling at potential converts to Orthodoxy-I used to do that too because the pain of trying to be faithful to historic Christianity within the Roman church caused so much pain that I could not bear the idea of someone actually getting to be Orthodox if I could not. To Rod I say, "Come on in-it is far more wonderful than you can imagine-even with the sexual scandals and other sins. God is to be found here.">
Please, readers, let's not turn this thread into a discussion on the heresy of this or that church. The point I wanted to make with this entry is that the social element of the Church -- Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant, whatever -- is so important. This is new to me; I've always thought of "the Church" as an institution that defines dogma and dispenses sacraments, and that's pretty much it. My wife grew up Southern Baptist, and she said the hardest thing for her to get used to about being Catholic is the loss of that "dinner on the grounds" sensibility that was second nature to Southern Baptists, at least the ones she grew up with. I'm sure that some Catholics have that too, and I don't intend to be cracking on Catholics in this way. I only wanted to point out that what I saw yesterday -- a small, diverse community of believers, united in belief, feasting together after completing the fast and celebrating the liturgy -- was a model of the Church that is new to me as someone accustomed to a more purely intellectual model. And it's a beautiful thing, whether you get it in an Orthodox parish, a Catholic one, a Protestant one...>
M.Z. Forrest
June 30, 2006 6:23 PM
http://discalcedyooper.blogspot.com
As one who hasn't denied the catholicity of Orthodoxy, let me say, it sounded like a wonderful evening. It is a great privelege and honor being given a seat with a prelate. Most of us would find such an experience humbling and edifying. There is nothing like being around holy men to encourage one's spirits.
I doubt it was your intention in this post, but you seem to be inviting a contrast with Roman Catholicism on this point. It is not difficult to be edified when being in the upper room so to speak. It is quite another matter to be in the Garden of Gethsemane watching the suffering of our Lord. Even the apostles grew weary and rested leading our Lord to chastize, "Could you not watch for one hour?" Even the one who would betray him was in the garden. But the same Lord who was in the upper room was the same one in the garden. Our Lord is present in intense joy and extreme suffering.
I do not reject the Orthodox. I think the lack of communion is the greatest scandal in the Church. This post is already too lecture-y the way it is. It would be nice if you could become Orthodox without rejecting the commonly understood Catholic Church. Intellectually it is impossible to do. The temptation is to convince oneself that such is a radical choice even if one knows that it is not.
I apologize in advance for the length and the lecture-y tone. Peace be with you.>
Rod Dreher
June 30, 2006 6:40 PM
MZF: I doubt it was your intention in this post, but you seem to be inviting a contrast with Roman Catholicism on this point. It is not difficult to be edified when being in the upper room so to speak.
No, that wasn't my intention. I am told that Abp Dmitri is almost sui generis when it comes to bishops ("In all of Russia, you would not find an Orthodox bishop like him," one Russian immigrant parishioner told me, referring to Dmitri's man-of-the-people humility). What was edifying to me was not so much being around the archbishop (though that certainly was), but the feeling of "here we are all together, a family praying and feasting under the same roof." That's new to me, and I see now what I didn't see before.>
justin
June 30, 2006 6:45 PM
Rod, my experience of Orthodoxy has been precisely that. I had the same experience at my friend's birthday party recently, at which both Metropolitan Gerasimos of San Francisco and Bishop Anthimos of Olympos were present, along with a number of clergy and a bunch of us common folk. There was an organic, humble quality to it all that was very edifying.>
Photini Blackburn
June 30, 2006 7:22 PM
I wasn't so much trying to start a thread about the heresy of this or that church as to say that I understand Mr. Dreher's experience at the Cathedral-and that the particular qualities he describes perhaps point to something he is looking for. I don't know if I am a crunchy conservative, but I find a lot in the book that I agree with. My desire to live a traditional, organic, connected Christian life was frustrated a lot when I was Roman-I found my parishes to be lacking in those qualities. That's not to say there are no Roman parishes where that life might be lived. Further, I too practiced for a while at an Eastern Catholic parish. I know that experience too. However I certainly do not want to start a nasty debate.>
Rod Dreher
June 30, 2006 7:26 PM
I hear you, Photini, and your experience is like mine. But really, I don't want us to argue on this thread about which is better, Orthodoxy or Catholicism. Rather, I want to celebrate what I hope Christians of all churches would value, whether they have it or not, and that is the sense of the community united in prayer and belief, feasting on a special day.>
Photini Blackburn
June 30, 2006 7:41 PM
Amen to that. :)>
Jonathan Carpenter
June 30, 2006 8:06 PM
Mr. Dreher said: "I don't want us to argue on this thread about which is better, Orthodoxy or Catholicism."
You may not publicly do this arguing. You let your readers do that for you. Based on the overall focus of that as well as the constant maliciousness you heap on any Catholic, it is safe to say you are a Orthodox Christian. All that is left is to post pictures of you partaking of the eucharist at St. Seraphim's to show how much you have turned your back on your faith.>
Elaine
June 30, 2006 8:16 PM
http://orthodoxelaine.blogspot.com/
Rod, I've been to those special feast days at Vladika's and it is awesome...but it's not just in the 'upper room' that you get that wonderful family feeling. It is on the parish level, too. We gather together every Sunday for dinner after the Divine Liturgy in Plano (St. Sava Orthodox). I can count off-hand, 5 different languages that you are likely to hear on any given Sunday. Everyone chattering happily and eating together in fellowship. It's really wonderful! In Denton, at St. Maximos the Confessor, it is the same. And up in Denison at St. Paul the Apostle - the same. Like Vladimir said to you, this is Church.>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 8:22 PM
It's really striking to me that this scene sounds like a family gathering. Rod, are you sure you aren't looking for a new family, instead of a new faith?
What's also striking is that you seem to enjoy people around you speaking a language (or languages) that *you don't understand*. It's like you have the intimacy of family, but also you are far removed from it enough that it's not threatening to you and you don't have to deal with any of the inevitable messiness and unpleasantness in genuinely intimate family life (not to mention that you haven't known these people for very long). You're having your (gourmet) cake and eating it too.>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 8:24 PM
PS: Thanks Jonathan Carpenter for pointing that out. If Rod didn't want people to argue whether Orthodoxy was better than catholicism, he wouldn't write posts like this one.
It's called being "passive aggressive".>
justin
June 30, 2006 8:40 PM
And the knee-jerk, visceral reaction of Catholics to posts like this is called either "over-sensitivity" or "envy.">
David J. White
June 30, 2006 8:43 PM
If you like hearing people speak in languages you don't understand, why are you uncomfortable at the Latin Mass? Perhaps it because there is a different between a worship situation and a fellowship situation? I'm just thinking out loud here.>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 8:51 PM
Justin, I don't "envy" delusions.>
M.Z. Forrest
June 30, 2006 8:51 PM
http://discalcedyooper.blogspot.com
My analogy seemed somewhat missed by others. Upper Room was simply denoting joy and celebration. If you look at a lives of the saints, you see the ability to see God's grace amongst sinners. For the Orthodox, Dostoevsky is oft quoted as saying he could see Christ greatest in the drunk or the prostitute.
I have nothing against joy and celebration. They are vital and necessary. I would not call it a mark of discernment on anything. It is easy to see God's presense in joy and festivity. It is the greatest challenge to see His presense amidst wreckage and destruction.>
M.Z. Forrest
June 30, 2006 8:53 PM
http://discalcedyooper.blogspot.com
I would certainly agree that it would be nice if the Church had more potlucks that even a bishop would attend.>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 8:53 PM
David White, maybe he doesn't mind hearing russian when he isn't expected to participate, whereas he is expected/invited to participate in the latin mass.
call me crazy, but i find irritating when i'm at a social gathering and people around me are speaking a language i can't understand.>
jaybird
June 30, 2006 9:05 PM
"Vladika himself is a gourmet cook, and had prepared a flan, a flan de queso, a dried apricot torte, and some sort of complicated raspberry meringue cake. One sidebar filled up with deviled eggs, cheeses, anchovies, sausages and other antipasti, and the more hearty dishes lined a side table in the dining room."
Do we know if the flan, eggs, cheeses and sauages came from free-range animals on organic farms?>
Loren Z
June 30, 2006 9:46 PM
I sometimes attend a monthly mass from a travelling SSPX priest. After the mass there is always a lunch where everyone comes together united in faith. Being somewhat unsatisfied and dissapointed with the Novus Ordo masses and making the brave move to attend SSPX masses we have a lot in common. There is a real sense of community that is lacking in the mainstream RC parishes no matter how hard they try to artificially promote it.
Archbishop Dmitri looks like a very good man. Keep in mind that he is a convert and converts have a reputation for being the best. When he made his choice to convert, he may have alienated himself from his family and friends and former faith community. He made a conscious choice and does not take his faith for granted. That may be the case for a lot of the parishioners in his church. United in faith and the choices they made on their journeys.
That is not always the case. I live in an area which had a lot of Orthodox immigrants.
Depsite their liturgical beauty and rich heritage, most of the Orthodox people I know do not practice at all. Oddly enough given their identical liturgies and beliefs Ukrainian Catholic parishes have far higher mass attendance and vibrant parishes then Ukrainian Orthodox parishes.
As a devout Catholic I am saddened with all of the problems the church is grappling with and the leaderships inability or unwillingness to deal with these problems. However, we are all sinners and if you expect perfection from this world you will always be dissappinted.>
Rod Dreher
June 30, 2006 9:50 PM
David, it's not that I "enjoy" hearing other languages spoken -- good grief, don't take Kathleen Reilly's boringly spiteful and altogether predictable interpretations of what I supposedly think as having anything to do with what I actually think. I only mentioned the foreign languages as an example of the cultural diversity present at this parish gathering -- at the "e pluribus unum" aspect of it. Which you could have in any church. I was just trying to bring color. Leave it to the usual knotheads to turn what I hoped would be a thread about what church potlucks and communal celebrations mean to you, whatever church you're in, into yet again a dull argument over Catholic-versus-Orthodox, and a conversation-killing analysis of my spirituality.>
god_is_in_the_tv
June 30, 2006 9:58 PM
Take it with a grain of salt, Rod.
It means you've got something to say when people take the opportunity to try to discount, counter or distract from it.
I don't always agree with your stances and interpretations, but I respect the way you present them.>
M_David
June 30, 2006 10:01 PM
I am 100% with Rod on the lack of social, family dimension to the Church in America today.
Note three other branches off Abraham's tree that do well in the familial, social dimension:
1) Jews 2) Mormons 3) Muslims
All three of these have a dynamic, healthy social life with mega customs, food, community, and that sense of "belonging".
Yet I don't think I could be in any of these groups, even when I am at the heights of the "warm fuzzy" Rod (and I) get in those situations and lean to my partner and say, "here is Christ's Church". I would be far more likely to do this when witnessing Christ in the suffering and the poor.
Watch out for emotional doctrine. It can lead to error. However, I absolutely agree with Rod we cannot ignore the social, cultural angle. It is mandatory for a Christian. What we do is what we really believe, not what we say.>
Pauli
June 30, 2006 10:05 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
I think to most people, the principle e pluribus unum would dictate the prayer be said in one common language, Latin or Greek or Russian or take your pick.
Sorry the conversation is not up to your standards.>
Jonathan Carpenter
June 30, 2006 10:06 PM
Mr. Dreher, people would not engage in "again a dull argument over Catholic-versus-Orthodox, and a conversation-killing analysis of my spirituality" if you would be straight with people the people you say you like. This vagueness would make Dan Rather proud.>
Curious
June 30, 2006 10:12 PM
Last Sunday I attended a special gathering at my Roman Catholic parish, too. It was to say goodbye to our wonderful pastor, whose deserved reputation for orthodoxy caused celebration here in Fort Worth when he was named our new diocesan chancellor by our new bishop. We will miss having him as pastor, but we rejoice to have him as chancellor!
The gathering was certainly not up to Rod's standards. A lovely buffet was served, but the food was quite ordinary, of the sandwiches-cold fruit and veggies-cake variety. Father's blessing before the food was heartfelt and simple, but in ordinary everyday English. (If any foreign language was occasionally heard, it was probably Spanish). The many who attended all had one desire--to thank Father for his years of service and leadership.
I met a woman I didn't know, who talked about the wonderful Bible study classes Father has held throughout his time at this parish. She was a former Episcopalian, and our conversation turned to the current events in that church. I enjoyed talking to her very much. Meanwhile, my husband had met an older gentleman who spoke about his upcoming visit with his one surviving brother, a Benedictine priest in his 80s.
I doubt there is anything about my parish or that gathering that Rod would approve. From the crowded parish hall to the plebian plastic cups and paper plates, from the folded metal chairs to the flicker of fluorescent lighting, the whole thing could be described in Rod's usual pejoratives: middle-class, bourgeois, white-bread, comfortable. But I saw the Church. Love, community, concern for each other's welfare, sadness mixed with joy at the departure of our dear pastor, laughter, conversation, a very ordinary meal transformed into something special by the occasion.
If you have to have gourmet food, the company of archbishops and a kind of exclusivity to have the Church, then what are you really looking for?>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 10:22 PM
Rod, it's your standard "stop being boring" retort to us that is getting boring -- not to say predictable.>
Pauli
June 30, 2006 10:23 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Curious wrote: > If you have to have gourmet food, the company of > archbishops and a kind of exclusivity to > have the Church, then what are you really looking for?
This reminds me of some High Church Anglican friends who love their fancy liturgy and big-fish-in-small-pond access to Bishops but are embarrassed by the "Joe-Sixpack-in-the-pew" types you'll find in a typical Catholic parish, as well as all the unspoken prejudices. Maybe due to the recent rumors of schism in the Anglican/Episcopalian world, the Eastern Orthodox Church will become the new Via Media for Protestants who want a bigger dose of tradition but who can't stomach swimming the Tiber.>
Bruce
June 30, 2006 10:46 PM
http://7leper.blogspot.com
I do think that breaking bread together is something a lot of modern-day Christians are missing (whether they know it or not). My parish has a potluck dinner after the midweek service.
We're mostly white-bread converts, so I guess the food wouldn't be up to the Rod-Dreher-strawman's standards, but I'm inclined to think that the real Rod Dreher wouldn't mind. Or if he did, he'd be polite and not say anything. :)>
Loren Z
June 30, 2006 10:50 PM
From the crowded parish hall to the plebian plastic cups and paper plates, from the folded metal chairs to the flicker of fluorescent lighting, the whole thing could be described in Rod's usual pejoratives: middle-class, bourgeois, white-bread, comfortable.
That's the problem with the contempoary Catholic church. Perfectly mediocre.
In the link above I posted a link to various beautiful eastern Orthodox and eastern Catholic parishes that were built over 100 years ago by illiterate peasant immigrants. Similar works of beauty can be found in rural Alberta French towns built by the hands of the local faithful. Before criticizing Rod, you should understand that the eastern rites have always taken their religious practices very seriously and feasts are and have always been taken very seriously. This was the case of those Ukrainian peasants 100 years ago and it is still the case with their descendents today.
What is wrong with exposure to high culture anyway? In the practices we worship the lord should we not strive for the best?>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 10:58 PM
"I do think that breaking bread together is something a lot of modern-day Christians are missing (whether they know it or not). "
errr, only if they're not going to mass. mass is the ultimate "pot luck dinner" -- if properly understood, others pale in comparison.>
maria
June 30, 2006 11:05 PM
I had a social opportunity recently, too. During lunch today, I did my Meals on Wheels route. At one house, a frail elderly guy had a hard time making it to the door. I tried to unlatch it from the outside but couldn't, so he had to get up and unlatch it for me. He was sitting at the kitchen table just a few feet away from the door, but it took him a while to get to the door. First he had to clutch the table for support, then the refrigerator, then the door jamb. It was heartbreaking.
But he didn't speak Russian, and his meal was certainly not gourmet, so maybe he doesn't count.... ;)>
brierrabbit
June 30, 2006 11:09 PM
Sorry Ron, looks like a lot of people got entirely the wrong idea from your post. All you said was you had a great time with some wonderful people communing together with Christ, and many people posting here, acted like you had some subliminal messages about Catholism. SHEESH people, lighten up. He just had a great time.>
Bruce
June 30, 2006 11:13 PM
http://7leper.blogspot.com
kathleen reilly writes: mass is the ultimate "pot luck dinner"
I understand what you're saying, but I think we're still missing something if we as a Christian body don't sit down and eat meals together regularly. I want fellowship and to enjoy the fruits of the earth with my brothers.>
Anthony King
June 30, 2006 11:13 PM
I first started attending Mass at a monastery. After a couple of years I realized that I was missing out on being a part of a parish community. Most of the people who attended Mass at the monastery went because the liturgy was austere rather than the trainwreck you find at most Catholic parishes. But it wasn't a parish. We came, the monks chanted Mass, and we left.
When I visited some nearby parishes I was overwhelmed by the sense of anonymity as well as the poverty of the liturgical practices. It seemed like a lose-lose situation. When I first attended Divine Liturgy at the local Byzantine parish the thing that made me feel most at home was that after Liturgy everyone stayed to eat and spend time together. Something's just not right if, after celebrating the Feast of X at Mass, there isn't any food for the faithful to share.>
Rod Dreher
June 30, 2006 11:19 PM
Thank you, Brierrabbit. You got my point entirely. And not that it would matter to you bitching-and-moaning knotheads, but I drank wine out of a plastic cup at the gathering last night, and it was delicious. The people and the occasion was the thing, and it was a lovely thing.
If I wrote a post that said simply, "Christ is risen! Glorify him!", the Knotheads would find something to complain about.>
maria
June 30, 2006 11:26 PM
Hmmm, I seem to remember St. Paul saying, "Don't you have homes to eat and drink in?"
Diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks, I guess. My (small, intensely closeknit) parish has potlucks out the wazoo--Sunday afternoons after Mass, Wednesday nights, "soup & bread" & catechesis on Wednesdays during Lent--but I never stay for them. I have many friends there, and I socialize with them after Mass, but I'd just as soon eat dinner with my family. Guess I'm into that Domestic Church stuff. :)>
dhoff
June 30, 2006 11:30 PM
"here we are all together, a family praying and feasting under the same roof."
That is The Mass. That's not enough for you? I don't mean to be snarky, I ask sincerely.>
C.M.W.
June 30, 2006 11:33 PM
Again, I say that you have the opportunity to experience fellowship and community a mere 48 miles away in Greenville, TX and yet you choose not to attend.
Example from St. William's website: Come and stay the Day (On Most Sundays) No need to rush home 11:30am: Mass in Latin (the Novus Ordo ), at St. William Church. This Mass in Latin is exactly like the other Masses except that it is offered in Latin. This is NOT the old Mass which is also known as the Tridentine Mass or the Mass of Pope Pius V. Booklets will be available in translation: Latin-to-English and Latin-to-Spanish. ***The Cafeteria will be open after the 11:30am Mass for those who wish to bring a Picnic Lunch. As mentioned before, everyone is welcome to join us for this weekly pot-luck dinner at St. William. 2:35pm 3:40pm: 1 HOUR OF CONFESSION 2:30pm-3:30pm: HOLY HOUR with Exposition of the Most Blessed Sacrament. We will begin the The Divine Mercy Novena followed by the Rosary. During this time the Most Blessed Sacrament will be exposed for adoration. At 2:35pm I will begin hearing Confessions. At 3:30pm we will conclude with Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament and the Divine Praises.
I am sure Fr. Weinberger would be happy to oblige you with multi-lingual prayers (English, Latin and Spanish). The gourmet food, I can't guarantee, but multi-cultural food is a certainty.
Sorry Ray, but you sound like a stuck-up snob to this Knothead and as someone who used to have respect for what you wrote, I can honestly say,"Glad I got over that!".>
Rod Dreher
June 30, 2006 11:37 PM
Sorry, I'm checking out of this thread. I'm sick of you Catholics who cannot leave well enough alone, who have to turn every post into an occasion to start a fight over Catholicism versus Orthodoxy. If that's your idea of keeping me in the Catholic Church, or of making Catholicism attractive to potential converts, you're pitifully mistaken. You would be a lot more persuasive, and even interesting, by talking about the good things happening in your own parish. That's the only reason I started this thread: for people to talk about moments like this they've experienced in their own church, whatever their church is, and to discuss its meaning in their lives.>
Rod Dreher
June 30, 2006 11:39 PM
I hasten to add that when I say "you Catholics," I'm talking only about Catholics who have weighed in on this thread with nasty commentary.>
Curious
June 30, 2006 11:42 PM
"Knotheads" ??
Rod, if you must label people with whom you disagree, couldn't we stick with "Catholic hotheads?"
I'm sorry you never found community in the Catholic Church. (Did your old parish really not offer any opportunities whatsoever for this?) I'm sorry the priest sex scandal has caused you to turn your back on Roman Catholicism and actively seek another church. But I wish you'd quit acting like the Eastern Orthodox church has all these unique wonderful opportunities that don't exist in the church whose dust you can hardly wait to shake off your feet.>
C.M.W.
June 30, 2006 11:45 PM
I am not trying to keep you in the Catholic Church, you have already left. Just trying to do damage control!>
kathleen reilly
June 30, 2006 11:48 PM
"not that it would matter to you bitching-and-moaning knotheads, but I drank wine out of a plastic cup at the gathering last night"
you're right Rod, it doesn't matter a whit to "the Knotheads", which is kind of our point, if ya think about it.>
JohnMcG
June 30, 2006 11:49 PM
http://johnmcg.blogspot.com
Here's what I think might be seting people off -- "the archbishop -- "Vladika" they call him (from a Russian word meaning "Master," used here as a term of affection) -- lives humbly in a small cottage out back."
It does seem that this was added (especially the "humbly" part) to contrast with the perception that RC bishops live lives of luxury and splendor. (when most actually live in tiny apartments). Kind of like, Peggy Noonan's "sell off the mansions." There really arent' any mansions.
And if your girlfriend leaves you, and then tells a story about a date with her new boyfriend, concluding with the observation that this is what a relationship would look like, you're going to feel a little hurt.
I'm somewhat confused because it's long been my suspicion that the community aspect is what was missing from Mr. Dreher's experience of Catholicism, which was partly why the scandals hit him so hard and he didn't understand why it didn't hit others in the same way.
I suspect if the exact same event were hosted by an RC bishop, Mr. Dreher wouldn't have reacted the same way. The multiple languages would be pandering, the bishop would have been criticized for devoting himself to his culinary pursuits rather than his flock, the bishop would be making a transparent attempt to curry favor with influential people, and what was that pro-choice politician doing there, anyway?
Anyway, I am glad that Mr. Dreher has found community, but saddened that it had to happen elsewhere. I pray that we will all be one some day.>
Caedmon
June 30, 2006 11:53 PM
http://www.novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"Sorry, I'm checking out of this thread. I'm sick of you Catholics who cannot leave well enough alone, who have to turn every post into an occasion to start a fight over Catholicism versus Orthodoxy."
Rod, it's clear you've attracted a gaggle of shrews, naysayers and other insufferable types who must comment negatively on your every post simply because you wrote "Crunchy Cons," with which they vehemently disagree, but worse, you announced that you're considering Orthodoxy, which has driven these unstable, insecure types 'round the bend. If it is not possible to weed these folks out, I would recommend you go to a "No Comments" status. What you have to say is too important to be constantly interrupted by these folks.>
Curious
June 30, 2006 11:56 PM
Rod, two more points:
First, reread your original post. I just did. Nowhere in it do you EVER ask people to reflect on their own experiences; in fact, you present this as a kind of unique experience which you never encountered in the Roman Catholic Church. Not only that, but your final paragraph is open to interpretation--when I first read it I thought it was a declaration on your part that the EO church was the True Church. I'm sure I'm not alone here.
Second, I just reread this comment thread. I don't find anyone's comments, Catholic or Orthodox, "nasty" except yours, Rod, when you decided to call your Catholic commenters "knotheads" on at least two seperate occasions. No one else has descended to that kind of abuse, IMO.>
maria
July 1, 2006 12:02 AM
No one else has descended to that kind of abuse, IMO.
Except Caedmon.>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 12:13 AM
http://www.novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
One more time Mrs. Diane Kamer, previously thrown out of this blog but re-registered as "maria": don't you have the "Real World," or something like that, to get to?
"gaggle of shrews" -- sexist abuse at that! tsk tsk!>
The young fogey
July 1, 2006 12:24 AM
http://aconservativesiteforpeace.info
Rod: I hear you. Matches my experience at more than one Eastern parish church including Orthodox ones.
You can also get that communitarian traditionalist vibe - fellowship - in the few places where Anglo-Catholicism survives: coffee hour after Mass (common among many Anglicans), drinks after Evensong and Benediction.
Regarding the abuse, and it is abuse, you could always moderate comments, only allowing them after you've read them, but that's time-consuming when you get as many as you do.>
C.M.W.
July 1, 2006 12:38 AM
Your tolerance for "nastiness" seems to be selective. There is an awful lot of nasty being thrown around on the thread below this one and you haven't peeped once. Can you say...double standard?>
maria
July 1, 2006 12:40 AM
Hi, Caedmon / Nevski! How verrrry nice to see you here. (Battinf eyelashes sweetly.)
Y'know, Vladyka's array of antipasti and whatnot reminds me an awful lot of the spreads my Italian relatives used to put out at every holiday. I grew up with "slow food," you see, and convivial extended-family get-togethers. I'm used to it. Maybe that's why I don't regard it as some sort of Great Sacramental Epiphany. ;)>
C.M.W.
July 1, 2006 12:41 AM
Personally, I agree that the nastiness didn't start with the Knotheads, but with you, Mr. Dreher and the Orthodox, but I would never expect you to see it.>
Lulu
July 1, 2006 12:50 AM
I always enjoyed the coffee (though it was terrible) and random food at my dad's RCIA meetings. The only real problem with it was that no priest or otherwise orthodox person led the gospel discussion that formed the first half of it. I had to be the orthodox-smackdown person at my table, which is new for me, because usually I put-up and shut up. Yes, I'm a terrible Christian, don't nag.
The best experience I've ever really had that could be considered sort of 'upper-room'-ish was my summer program at Thomas Aquinas College. You have no idea how great it is to accidentally interrupt people while they're saying grace by themselves at breakfast, and to be able to talk about any issue, religious or philosophical, during any meal, with similarly interested people. We public-school educated Catholic teenager are starved for this kind of company, which is why I think TAC and similar schools have grown so much recently.
I think pot-luck is the best idea for church gatherings, because catered food means less people come. People love having other people eat their messes!
Umm...on another note, even though this post is on the 'correct' topic, as it were, it it now considered 'off topic' because of the general drift of the thread? I'm curious as to the right terminology.>
maria
July 1, 2006 12:53 AM
Lorenz wrote:
There is a real sense of community that is lacking in the mainstream RC parishes no matter how hard they try to artificially promote it.
Lorenz, I disagree. But then, I'm in the Diocese of Charlotte, where Catholics are still so few that they really do stick together. There's almost too much fellowship available at out little parish, and there's nothing the leats bit "artificial" about it. My hermit husband's kind of shy, and it's definitely more fellowship than he prefers. LOL--as I said above, diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks. Not everyone is gregarious, and some would rather sink into the earth and be swallowed alive than undergo a "convivial" dining experience with a large group of people.
But anyway, as I say, if it's warm, genuine Catholic fellowship you want, the Southeast is where you'll find it---along with solid orthodox Catholicism.>
luke
July 1, 2006 1:30 AM
http://tiso.wordpress.com/
Loren,
Thank you for that link to the church pictures...lovely.
Rod,
I've been to a gathering at Vladyka Dmitri's house, just like you described. I'm glad you were invited.>
kathleen reilly
July 1, 2006 1:56 AM
"If that's your idea of keeping me in the Catholic Church, or of making Catholicism attractive to potential converts, you're pitifully mistaken."
Rod, your self-centeredness knows no bounds. I for one am barely interested in "keeping you in the Catholic Church". I don't know you, and anyway I'm not sure you were really in the Church in the first place. I'm just pointing out where in your thinking about the Church you go astray-- not that you care.>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 2:33 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"'gaggle of shrews' -- sexist abuse at that! tsk tsk!"
Me and Shakespeare. We be mates. (Twist on line from Crocodile Dundee.)
Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men who blog on your blog.>
Tope
July 1, 2006 2:33 AM
Rod -
Why on earth are you surprised when you get comments like this? You seem like an intelligent man. It's really not that hard to figure out.>
Jonathan Carpenter
July 1, 2006 2:36 AM
Kathleen:
He is not interested in staying in the church. He made up his mind years ago. It is no different than those fundamentalists who always used to accuse us of worshiping the Virgin Mary. You could show them articles and logically prove to them that notion is BS, but they still will not listen. This is also because "Catholic bashing" is in vogue here in Dallas and in Louisiana. Richard Hofstader called Anti-Catholicism "The Pornography of the Puritan.">
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 2:37 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"Hi, Caedmon / Nevski! How verrrry nice to see you here. (Battinf eyelashes sweetly.)"
You've been seeing me here for the last two days, and you've responded to me about a half a dozen times. You're just now getting around to greetings? Does some substance affect your memory?
But what about those friars and the fake bishop, anyway?>
maria
July 1, 2006 3:33 AM
Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men who blog on your blog.
Ooooh, no nastiness here, nooooh. Only the Catholics are nasty. Calling people knotheads and shrews is Christian Charity to the Nth Power.
Sheesh. With Christian Love like this, who needs hate?
BTW, Nevski: I wouldn't tangle with Kathleen if I were you. She can see right through you. And she's a lot less easy to intimidate and humiliate (in that oh-so-chivalrous way) than I am. Good luck! You'll need it. :)>
maria
July 1, 2006 3:35 AM
BTW: Yesterday was my younger son's name day, and I must say I rather resent Rod's implication that it's the exclusive property of the Orthodox Church.
Viva St. Peter, the Rock on which Christ built his Catholic Church.>
Pauli
July 1, 2006 3:53 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
Caedmon wrote: > Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your > credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men > who blog on your blog.
What? Me wispy? ROFL>
luke
July 1, 2006 4:05 AM
http://tiso.wordpress.com/
...and I must say I rather resent Rod's implication that it's the exclusive property of the Orthodox Church.
Absurd, yet ridiculous.>
Lucas
July 1, 2006 4:31 AM
I've just read the comments herein and I'm embarrassed by the tone of the arguments.
Yes, there was a post by Photini bringing up the issue of Orthodoxy v. Catholocism--Rod quickly objected to the threads going that way. I would think his persistent asking not to have a talk-down-the-Catholics post would have alleviated some concerns. Photini seconded his sentiment.
Following this, you'll notice that Mr Johnathan Carpenter begins openly accusing Ron of using the comments section as a way of passively arguing against RCism. If this was Rod's intention why would he so firmly dissuade Photini from doing the same?
In reading your series of back-and-forths I cannot believe that --from either side--constructive commentary couldn't be made in a civil, Christian manner.
-Lucas>
Curious
July 1, 2006 4:38 AM
Luke, what's ridiculous about it? Rod's post begins: "In the Orthodox Church, yesterday was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul." That sentence clearly implies that Rod is telling us something special about the Orthodox Church, when in fact June 29 is the Feast of Saints Peter and Paul in the Roman Catholic Church as well, and even in some Christian denominations according to some people who posted at the top of this thread. Journalistic accuracy would suggest that Rod begin his post in a way that acknowledges this fact, i.e. "In the Orthodox Church as in much of Christendom, yesterday was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul." To omit this fact while highlighting the Orthodox observance of this feast has much the same effect as a sentence which says, "In the Baptist Church, December 25 is a special feast day known as 'Christmas.'">
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 4:54 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
Rod, if you're still reading the comments here and interested in improving the quality of the Comments section of your blog, please contact me via my web site and we can discuss options. I will be out of town until July 8, with limited access to the Internet.
My guess is, however, that your desire may be to leave the comments section just as it is, since it's at once so revealing and entertaining. Whatever your pleasure. But I would at least like to chat with you privately some time, if you're available.>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 4:58 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"BTW, Nevski: I wouldn't tangle with Kathleen if I were you."
Yes, I've seen Kathleen in action, Diane. Don't sell yourself short: you intimidate me more than she does.
If that tells you anything. :>0>
kathleen reilly
July 1, 2006 5:09 AM
night night Shakespeare, i mean, Caedmon.>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 5:22 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
Don't you mean, "Now cracks a noble heart. Good night, sweet prince, And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest!"?
Or you could find some line from Crocodile Dundee, like, "Good shootin', Skippy.">
Lizabeth
July 1, 2006 5:25 AM
paideaclassics.org
Both the Roman Catholic Church and the Orthodox Church claim to be the 'One True Church.' It doesn't make sense for Roman Catholics to be offended by Orthodox claims since their own church makes the very same claims. And it would be good to read the actual ancient canons of the councils of the first millenia when both the East and West were one, as well as the overall consensual patristic witness before casting any stones.
Whether or not we agree with each other, why can we not at least respect each another's differing view points? And also respect that some people may choose to leave one faith community in favor of the other? Why must we get so angry and defensive?
At the same time, I am *very* sure that the clergy at St. Seraphim's would strongly discourage name calling. It goes totally against the Orthodox teaching of striving for the virtues, most of all humility and focusing on one's own sins most of all.
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, the sinner.>
Rod Dreher
July 1, 2006 5:30 AM
Good grief, I mentioned that it was the Feast of St. Peter and St. Paul in the Orthodox Church because so often there are feast days in the Orthodox church that aren't the same as in the Catholic Church. I meant nothing else by it. And I think you handful of trolls understand that, but have nothing better to do than ruin what might have been a decent ecumenical thread about feasting and social life in the church.
Caedmon, I have no control over who gets to post in these boxes. It's all on Beliefnet. If I did, we wouldn't even have to be having this conversation. I would simply ask those of you who aren't Catholic please not to judge all Catholics by the childish behavior of this small handful of spiteful malcontents. All I can say is that we will apparently have to learn to talk around them.>
Rod Dreher
July 1, 2006 5:37 AM
Let me add to that: I hope the rest of you who read this blog and these comboxes will please stick around, despite it all. I don't have the authority to throw the loud, obnoxious drunks out of the party, but I hope the rest of you, on all sides of any issue, will stick around and not be dissuaded from commenting, from participating, from exchanging views. There are so many bright intelligent and interesting people who leave comments on these threads, and I would count it a real loss if you all were driven out by the knotheads. That appears to be their point: to spoil whatever fun or useful conversation we might get going here. Don't let them win. Please stick around.>
kathleen reilly
July 1, 2006 5:40 AM
'Or you could find some line from Crocodile Dundee, like, "Good shootin', Skippy." '
yeah, i could, but the thing is, i don't really spend much time "finding lines" from shakespeare, current cinema, etc. just so i can be some sort of erstwhile thread champion extraordinaire. but apparently that is something crunchy conservatives like to do.>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 5:40 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"Whether or not we agree with each other, why can we not at least respect each another's differing view points? And also respect that some people may choose to leave one faith community in favor of the other? Why must we get so angry and defensive?
At the same time, I am *very* sure that the clergy at St. Seraphim's would strongly discourage name calling. It goes totally against the Orthodox teaching of striving for the virtues, most of all humility and focusing on one's own sins most of all."
Two things, Lizbeth. Normal Catholics would respect, say, Rod's differning viewpoint. Normal Catholics, and a few have chimed in here, would tell Rod, "We're sorry you're thinking about leaving, but God bless you in whatever decision you make."
The other thing is that a number of the Fathers weren't so "nice" as you think. Jerome comes to mind, and even Basil of Caesarea. According to Tradition, Nt. Nicholas of Myra, "Santa Claus" himself, punched the heretic Arius in the face. So a little deserved name-calling surely can't be condemned.
Am I in Arkansas yet? God please speed it!>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 5:43 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"yeah, i could, but the thing is, i don't really spend much time "finding lines" from shakespeare, current cinema, etc. just so i can be some sort of erstwhile thread champion extraordinaire. but apparently that is something crunchy conservatives like to do."
Well, dear, that post was so rhetorically lame that your stock just plunged. Not that it was high to begin with.
Diane, is this an example of the prowess about which you warned me?
(Goodnight, sweet shrews.)>
Jonathan Carpenter
July 1, 2006 5:53 AM
Mr. Dreher said:
"There are so many bright intelligent and interesting people who leave comments on these threads, and I would count it a real loss if you all were driven out by the knotheads."
So long we walk the same line Mr. Dreher does we are intelligent and interesting people. Otherwise as he implies in his blog and paper we enable "Child Molesters." This gets to the heart of my anger with Mr. Dreher and his colleagues. He implies that because we are not singing the praise of everything the DMN et. al. do to bring light to the corruption in the Catholic church we are enabling it. That is a deceitful lie! In short, by all means attack corruption where you find it, but do not imply because some of us are not jumping to canonize you that we enable the abuse.>
kathleen reilly
July 1, 2006 6:03 AM
Caedmon, don't forget your handy Bartlett's book of quotations when you go on your little trip.>
Caedmon
July 1, 2006 6:23 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
Kathleen, don't forget to suck eggs while I'm gone.>
Marty
July 1, 2006 6:24 AM
The reaction to what Rod says shows the limitations of the internet, wonderful as it is, in that you can't see the person speak and hear the tone of voice to help you interpret what they mean sometimes. So sometimes what a person says sounds snarky and it really isn't. Like when Rod said that June 29 was the Feast of Ss. Peter and Paul I thought, well, gosh doesn't he know it is in the Catholic Church too? I didn't think about the point that some of the feasts are not at the same time, like All Saints, and that there are Old Testament Saints and such that the East has days for and we don't. I also thought when he said the guy says to him "This is the Church" and he thinks "Yes it is", I thought, oh gosh, Rod has gone and officially converted to Orthodoxy. Actually, I guess what you were trying to say is that when Christians meet together in fellowship, that Christ is there, and where He is, that's where the Church is.
Yeah, I do agree with that and think part of the problem with both the Catholic Church (I am a Catholic, convert from the Episcopal Church) and the Evangelical "Superchurches" is that the average parish is so large it's hard to get a sense of community. I think the average Eastern parish is smaller and more intimate, at least in America. I also think that Americans are a very rootless people who often live at a great distance from their relatives and so look for family in their church community. From what I have read so far, it appears that Rod was born in Lousiana, and has lived in New York and Texas. No wonder he is looking for community. And in a sense our fellow Christians are our family.
It is sad to me that due to the unfortunate break between East and West, a person cannot be big C Catholic and B O Orthodox at the same time but has to choose to join one or the other. This is very unfortunate. Some of the people from my old Episcopal Church joined the Russian Orthodox Church. Well, I said to myself, at least they joined a real church with real sacraments. A sister church, if you will. When I talk to them, they often gently try to get me to consider joining them. I tell them I am not going to do that because I do firmly believe in the necessity of the Petrine office. However, the fact that they want me to join them means that they do care about me because they believe that they have found the True Church and they would be remiss if they didn't try to share that with me. I feel the same way about them and am sad that we no longer can take communion together at the same altar. This is why the present divided state of Christendom is a shame and a scandal. I think the church needs to "breathe with both lungs" and I pray that we may one day all be one. There is much beauty and holiness in both the East and the West. Rod, if you do end up joining the Orthodox Church, I just hope you won't be one of those converts who thinks everything about their previous church was second rate and bogus. I don't even feel that way about the Episcopal Church, as much as it's been taken over by some pretty wacky people. There's a lot of good stuff in the Book of Common Prayer, and if CS Lewis, Samuel Johnson, George Herbert and Jannani Luwuum aren't in heaven, I don't think I'll make it either!>
MJ
July 1, 2006 6:30 AM
I've experienced somewhat of the same thing Rod is talking about at the (Roman) Catholic Croatian parish where I play. While there is the same griping, back-biting, gossiping, infighting, and just general human-condition behavior that characterize your average ho-hum congregation (Catholic or Protestant), there's something else. I haven't been able to put my finger on it, but the closest I can come is to say that it involves an immigrant culture from a couple of generations ago, a large part of which is an unspoken assumption that much of life revolves around the church -- moreso for the older members, but sometimes for their children and children's children too. The older members of the congregation put me to shame, baking bread all day for bake sales, or cooking fish for fish frys during Lent, or showing up to sing for every funeral. They are fiercely dedicated to keeping up the traditions (that's with a small "t") of their church and culture. I'm sorry to say that there aren't as many of the younger generation who are as dedicated, but there are some at least. And darn it, there IS something intensely beautiful and old-worldly about hearing people speak in a language I can't understand. The Croatian hymns we sing are so moving that I am ashamed to admit that just over a year ago I never even knew they existed.
A new gripe of mine has become the lack of attention that these ethnic parishes get from most of the higher-ups in the church, not only clergy but also publishers. The hymnals are full of goofy hymns, and they're often translated into Spanish, and sometimes even Asian and African languages. But what about the eastern European languages that we have whole churches speaking in some parts of the country? Not that we'd want to sing those songs -- I'd give up a thousand "Gather Us In"'s for just one "Kraljice Neba," -- but my point is that some ethnicities are ignored. I guess we're way too last century for the up-to-date OCP folks. In the meantime, the Orthodox churches are preserving their traditions whether or not it's the hip thing to do. Sometimes being hip isn't what attracts us, as Rod has found out.>
Curious
July 1, 2006 6:54 AM
Rod, you have made it abundantly clear that those of us Catholics who wish to defend the Catholic faith are not welcome on this blog. In fact, any Catholic unwilling to lap up eagerly your honeyed descriptions of your newfound spiritual paradise will be subjected to your derision, childish epithets, and slurs as to our characters and purposes here (I have NEVER been called a troll by anyone but you.)
Enough. I am not willing to commit the sin of being lukewarm. Besides, I have far too much self-respect to remain in a "community" where it is clear that I am not wanted. I will continue to add your name to my nightly rosary intentions, but I will no longer participate in this ugly charade. Though I will miss reading this blog, I will not miss your dismissive and abusive attitude toward posters such as myself; in fact, it is my duty to leave, since it is quite possible that I have become an occasion of sin for you.
A poster above suggests that "Normal Catholics, and a few have chimed in here, would tell Rod, "We're sorry you're thinking about leaving, but God bless you in whatever decision you make."" Actually, "normal Catholics" try to dissuade their friends and acquaintences from schism, whether the ancient schism of the east or the newer one of SSPX. I made the mistake, Rod, of thinking that you actually wanted to debate the merits of Catholicism, both here on this blog and in a few e-mails we exchanged. Now I see that you are set on the course for the Orthodox Church, and have no further interest in Catholicism. I therefore encourage my fellow "knotheads" to join me in my determination to leave you to the road you have chosen. We won't be missed.
Goodbye, Rod. Or perhaps a better word, all things considered:
Dasvidanya.>
Rod Dreher
July 1, 2006 6:57 AM
You make me think, MJ: the fellowship at the Maronite cathedral in Brooklyn where we used to worship was like this. Those Arab (Lebanese) Christians were so terrific, and treated the church like it was more than just a place to go on Sunday morning. Such kindness, such enthusiasm! We even named our second-born for the old Lebanese monsignor who was the happy genius of the parish.
Marty, if I do ultimately leave the Roman church, don't worry, I won't be one of those who complain about her. I have been given far too many gifts as a Roman Catholic, and far too many mercies, to be that kind of person. I agree with you that it's a shame that RCs and Odox are still divided ... but I'm thrilled that Pope Benedict is continuing his predecessor's outreach to the East, and I hope and pray that the East will respond in kind (though having looked at the theological issues that divide the two churches, I really don't see how full unity is possible given all the water under the bridge; still, nothing is impossible with God!)>
maria
July 1, 2006 7:12 AM
Marty, if I do ultimately leave the Roman church, don't worry, I won't be one of those who complain about her.
Good grief. You already do nothing but complain about her. It couldn't possibly get any worse once you Dox. (Or maybe it could. You may fit right in with the Indiana List / ROCOR Cafe crowd. You've already got the "anti" mentality down pat.)
And BTW: The "Roman" church? I don't know any "Roman" church. We're the Catholic Church, thank you very much. Last time I checked, we weren't wearing togas.
Curious, Jonathan Carpenter, C.M.W., and anyone else who's interested: Feel free to e-mail me anytime at diane_kamer@yahoo.com. Like Curious, I am outta here. The atmosphere is noxious.
God bless!>
Dave Armstrong
July 1, 2006 9:18 AM
http://ic.net/~erasmus/RAZ345.HTM
Hi Rod,
>. . . if I do ultimately leave the Roman church, don't worry, I won't be one of those who complain about her. I have been given far too many gifts as a Roman Catholic, and far too many mercies, to be that kind of person.
Good for you. I'm just curious (forgive my ignorance, and I've only skimmed this thread, reading mostly your comments), why you are considering possibly leaving Catholicism for Orthodoxy? I'm assuming the reason must be more than the pleasantness of interesting social gathering with good food (not that you intended to leave such an impression!).
In Him,
Dave>
Lizabeth
July 1, 2006 3:04 PM
paideaclassics.org
If you would like to learn the historic/patristic teaching on what it really means to be 'catholic,' St. Vincent of Lerin's 5th century Commonitory is a very good start.
If you read early church writings at all, you will see that this teaching is consistant throughout the early Church. And the Orthodox Church today, continues to hold on to it in her definition of what it means to be 'catholic'.
Also, Caedman, the biggest problem among Orthodox today, especially on the two lists mentioned by another poster here, is the number of Orthodox who presume they have the spiritual perfection (and the humility and grace that comes with it) to be like the great saints of the past who fought against heresy. It is better to follow St. Seraphim and 'acquire the Spirit of peace so that a thousand souls maybe saved around us.' Unfortunately, most of us are not anywhere near that level of perfection, and we are more likely to do harm out of our own uncontrolled passions, than good out of the indwelling grace of God.>
Joe M
July 1, 2006 4:48 PM
The Church? Or a gourmet supper club?>
luke
July 1, 2006 5:46 PM
>>> And BTW: The "Roman" church? I don't know any "Roman" church. We're the Catholic Church, thank you very much. >>>
Absurd, yet nonsensical.>
maria
July 1, 2006 5:52 PM
OK, here's my parting shot: Above, Rod maintains that the "theological differences" are "too great" between Catholicism and Orthodoxy. I say that's horsehockey. The fact that you can say this, Rod, shows that you have already drunk the kool-aid---er, I mean the sauvignon blanc.
As one Orthodox hierarch put it, "fanaticism alone" exaggerates the "insignificant differences" between Catholicism and Orthodoxy. Apparently, Rod, you have aligned yourself with the fanatics. And Big Hint: They're not on the Catholic side.
I hope some Catholics do keep comboxing here, in order to counter certain essentially fideistic Orthodox arguments which may nonetheless lead impressionable people astray.
In the meantime, here's a link to the article from which I drew the "fanaticism alone" comment:
James Likoudis, like yourself, Diane, is an anti-Orthodox fanatic.
His famous last words: To go deep into history is to cease to be Eastern Orthodox.
I'll be sure to remind Archbishop Dmitri of that when I see his this evening.>
C.M.W.
July 1, 2006 8:30 PM
I signed off in the thread called "Heat" is hot and I stand with Curious calling on all Catholic Hotheads to ban themselves. Adios!>
David J. White
July 1, 2006 9:01 PM
"Richard Hofstader called Anti-Catholicism "The Pornography of the Puritan.""
I've also heard anti-Catholicism described as "the anti-Semitism of the Left".
***
I'm sorry that this thread has degenerated the way it has. It is possible that I started it, without meaning to. T think I'm the first one who posted a comment here. I'm one of those who interpreted Rod's opening statement, the way he phrased it, as an indication that he wasn't aware that July 29 was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul in the West, as well as in the East. I'm sorry if I misunderstood, and I'm sorry if I was in any way responsible for the way this thread has degenerated.>
Jonathan Carpenter
July 2, 2006 12:36 AM
Mr. Dreher said:
"Marty, if I do ultimately leave the Roman church."
You already have Mr. Dreher. Most Orthodox Catholics would know we are not in the Roman Church. This designation was created by Anti-Catholic bigots like Charles Chinniquy who wished to raise questions about Catholic's loyalty. If we are to subscribe to Mr. Dreher's POV, do we call his church Greek Orthodox, Russian Orthodox, Romanian or what?>
kathleen reilly
July 2, 2006 12:46 AM
CMW and Curious, I hope ultimately you will decide not to ban yourselves. It's fun to point out the emperor has no clothes-- especially when pointing it out to the "emperor" himself (well, the emperor and his courtiers). Don't let the resultant squawking rattle you. We are on the side of truth, justice and the American way!>
maria
July 2, 2006 1:27 AM
Luke: I can't resist pointing out your ad hominem tactics. When you pulled the same stunt at the Pontifications blog, you got a nice resounding smack from the Pontificator. Would that he were here to administer another.
I don't care if you think Mr. Likoudis is the second coming of Beezlebub. If you had a shred of intellectual honesty, you'd engage his argument rather than maligning his person. Of course, it's a lot easier to do the latter...and it saves you the trouble of actually having to mount a credible defense for your position. Which you couldn't do anyway on a bet, so I suppose your recourse to cheap ad hominem is understandable. (As well as very telling.)
OK, now I really am outta here--LOL.>
Richard Barrett
July 2, 2006 3:36 AM
Looking at how this thread has devolved, I would suggest that it is very clear why rapproachement between East and West is not coming anytime soon. One cannot mandate unity from the top down--"you can't legislate love," as my dad always used to tell me. Until we start acting like brothers and sisters in Christ regardless of whose bishops will commune who (something that is entirely out of the control of the layperson to begin with), nothing on which our bishops reach concord will make a whit of difference. (See also the Council of Florence.)
Rhetorical oneupsmanship is not the business of the Christian people. Loving each other is. A conversation focused on that point would be far more productive, and dare I say it, far more crunchy.
Richard>
simon
July 2, 2006 3:51 AM
Thank you, Richard Barrett.
Truly, the bulk of the comments above make this an execrable thread.>
Pauli
July 2, 2006 4:41 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Richard Barrett: > I would suggest that it is very clear why rapproachement > between East and West is not coming anytime soon.
You're probably right about that, but I don't think a few comments like the ones solicited by this blog post prove anything of that kind. Catholics are just as likely to jump on each others throats. It's just that Rod has an expert talent for pushing buttons and he's doing it with this extremely public "conversion". This blog post & ensuing comments merely represent the latest installment in that drama.
Dave Armstrong, a renowned convert and apologist, weighed in above with this question: "I'm just curious, why you are considering possibly leaving Catholicism for Orthodoxy? I'm assuming the reason must be more than the pleasantness of interesting social gathering with good food (not that you intended to leave such an impression!)." Mr. Armstrong is no internet troll and I echo his question. I wonder if I missed Rod's giving of his theological basis in another part of the blog, other than what he mentioned in the comments here: "I've always thought of 'the Church' as an institution that defines dogma and dispenses sacraments, and that's pretty much it." (emphasis mine) Obviously if "that's pretty much it" is his final answer, Catholics and Orthodox would do well to point out that both churches have much more fully-developed ecclesiologies.
I wish Rod would give some solid theological reasons for his move. I became Catholic in 1994 after studying the teachings of the church for several years. During that time, I hungrily read Peter Gillquist's "Becoming Orthodox" alongside many Catholic books. But he really didn't answer the question "why not Roman Catholic" to my satisfaction.
During that time, I also attended a Maronite Rite liturgy which I found to be very beautiful. I've also enjoyed the traditions and congregational singing of the Byzantine Rite Catholics. I don't know why these aren't good enough for Rod anymore. Is it the whole scandal thing? See, I don't get that; everyone knows Rod had nothing to do with bad priests or any scandals or coverups -- does he think it reflects personally on him more than on anyone else?>
Stephen Hand, editor TCRNews.c
July 2, 2006 4:42 AM
http://tcrnews.com/
In the late 197o's and early 1980's I often attended Russian Orthodox and other Othodox churches. Without wanting to give offense, I found that many considered their own national or local churches "more orthodox" than the others, even to the point of rejecting relatively ancient icons (not ancient enough for some) or corrupted or liberal-apostate, bishops and all, and on and on and on. Before long I was longing for a Pope and the Christ-given principle of unity which Orthodoxy simply could not obtain and so I returned to the Church of my batism, where problems and persecutions are not enough to make me even think of leaving.
For me, though I rejoice to consider the Orthodox churches our very intimate "Sister" churches, I would never want that shadow side of the Orthodox experience. And so "Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant, whatever..." is, as I see it, a sad ecclesiology.
I think time will make you want to return, at least in ecumenical longing.
SH>
Marty
July 2, 2006 4:55 AM
Well, it's too bad this thread has gone downhill so badly. However, speaking as a Catholic, I don't think the use of the term "Roman Catholic Church" is necessarily perjorative. I have often heard the term used to delineate between Latin Rite Catholics and those of the various Eastern Rites. It's true that some of my Episcopalian friends call it the "ROMAN catholic" church, big emphasis on Roman because they claim that the Anglican Church is part of the Catholic Church. And fundies often talk about "Romanism"
However, I have heard Catholics use the term Roman Catholic of themselves without perjoration. So I don't think you should go looking for offense where none is meant.
I read a good article in the American Conservative magazine recently (Amconmag is put out by Pat Buchanan and others of the "Old Right" who want to present a different point of view from the neocons). There is an article by an EO lady who describes herself as EO but an admirer of the Pope and the Catholic Church. She reports on some hopeful movement in rapprochment between our two Churches. Part of this is driven by the increasing secularism and godlessness of Western Europe. Unfortunately, too many Christians seem to be arguing about how to arrange the furniture while outside the house the whole neighborhood is burning down.
I certainly don't like to see people leave the Catholic Church because I believe that the fullness of Christian truth is there. However, if someone ceases to believe that the Papacy is a necessity for the Church, what should they do? People are always saying that people who don't believe in the Church's claims should leave. So if Rod doesn't believe anymore that ubi Petrus, ibi Ecclesia, what is he supposed to do? I mean, if he does leave, at least he's not joining some fundamentalist sect like lots of ex-Catholics. The Pope has described the Orthodox Church as a "sister Church" and there is no doubt in our minds of the validity of her sacraments and priesthood.
So what I am trying to say is I don't think all you well meaning Catholics who are trying to either argue Rod into staying in the Church or threatening him with eternal damnation, are accomplishing your intended ends.
I am not trying to be indifferentist about this whole thing. Rod, I wish you would choose an Eastern Rite Catholic Church if you are so enamored with all things Eastern. You get all that cool Eastern spirituality and communion with the Successor of Peter both. What's not to like about that???
However, the best I can do is pray that God will guide you and give you enlightenment. God bless.>
Marty
July 2, 2006 5:00 AM
Oh, yeah, one more comment, glad to see Stephen Hand posting here. Sir, your website rocks and you have my utmost admiration. The rest of you folks, if you haven't checked out TCRnews, you need to do so!>
The young fogey
July 2, 2006 5:12 AM
http://aconservativesiteforpeace.info
As one Orthodox hierarch put it, "fanaticism alone" exaggerates the "insignificant differences" between Catholicism and Orthodoxy.
Correct. Is that hierarch Bishop Hilarion (Alfeyev) of the Moscow Patriarchate?
Apparently, Rod, you have aligned yourself with the fanatics.
I disagree.
And BTW: The "Roman" church? I don't know any "Roman" church. We're the Catholic Church, thank you very much.
There is such a thing as 'the Roman Church', I think technically called 'the Latin Church'. At least until recently it had the Pope as its patriarch as well as its universal leader. The Eastern Catholics are Catholic but not Roman/Latin.
(Strictly speaking the Roman Church is the Diocese of Rome.)
James Likoudis is a nice man - we've corresponded - and does yeoman service for the Roman Rite but is biased against Orthodoxy and not an expert on it as far as I can tell.
Out of fairness I'll balance that by saying IMO Frederica Mathewes-Greene is a nice woman - we've met - but biased against and knows little about Western Catholicism.>
Jonathan Carpenter
July 2, 2006 5:33 AM
It is not that he is now Orthodox that bothers me. What bothers me is all the years pretending to be a loyal Catholic in Communion with the Holy See, when basically he believed the axiom "Mater Si! Magistra No!" Basically denying the teaching authority of the church. I can tolerate Maureen Dowd, Richard Mcbrien et. al. This is because they are straight about what they are and what they believe. Not so with Mr. Dreher. It comes across about as well as Walter Cronkite saying "I am a Liberal but my beliefs do not affect my objectivity." Who believes this? No one today just as no one should believe Mr. Dreher's platitudes.>
luke
July 2, 2006 6:24 AM
http://tiso.wordpress.com/
In the late 197o's and early 1980's I often attended Russian Orthodox and other Othodox churches. Without wanting to give offense, I found that many considered their own national or local churches "more orthodox" than the others,..
Imagine if you can, Stephen Hand, that in the early 20th Century, an atheist political power had overtaken Europe or Italy, had taken the Pope of Rome captive, murdered most of the clergy of the Roman patriarchate, and cut off all communication between the Pope and the Roman Catholic bishops in the United States. Imagine still further that the murdering atheist government in Europe or Italy had begun to go to the US courts and succeed in taking RC church properties from their congregations. Think about the magnitude of that situation for awhile, and how the RC bishops and churches in the US would have fared without their pope. Then talk to me about how messed up the Orthodox Church is in America. The RCC hasn't begun to drink from that cup.
And she is slowly but surely overcoming the martyrdom of the past 100 years. She is far along from where she was in the late 1970s.>
Richard Barrett
July 2, 2006 6:58 AM
Embarrassing spelling mistake on my part: it is, of course, "rapprochement" not "rapproachment". It was an error for which I should get full reproach-ment.
Or something.
Apologies.
Richard>
JohnT
July 2, 2006 7:06 AM
http://immaculatedirection.blogspot.com/
I was collecting heirloom seeds from my winter garden all day and I missed the bulk of this.
Caedmon you said: Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men who blog on your blog.
Wisps of men? I blog at concrunchy.blogspot.com as cubeland mystic. I suspect you re your comment might have been directed at me since I have the ethereal handle and the unusual picture. Please consider that I fall more in the crunchy camp, and I blog there for the engaging thoughtful discussion. Although I am Roman Catholic, my picture is of an Orthodox hermit, out of respect for the Orthodox faith.
The contras have never treated me with disrespect. I blog on their subjects, and try to engage them from the crunchy point of view when applicable. The only other crunchy that blogs there is a gentlemen named Jeff, and only infrequently.
There is a lot of intellectual gravitas over there, which makes it a very challenging environment. If you feel you have what it takes perhaps you should join us? If the crunchies want to be taken seriously they should patiently address their critics every time, and in great detail since crunchies are the ones asking for the lifestyle change. Especially when they make bold statements that they can see things that matter more clearly.
They are not wisps of men , they are good men and women engaging what they see to be spurious challenges to their political beliefs. Kathleen is not a shrew she is a woman trying to live out her vocation in a difficult world. That is a dehumanizing, unchivalrous, and shameful thing to say about her, especially coming from, and it is difficult to say in light of this exchange, someone on our side.>
Photini Blackburn
July 3, 2006 5:26 PM
Good grief. I feel that I've started this nasty fight and I'm sorry for it. The issue, as I can see it, is whether the Orthodox Church is in schism from the Roman Church or vice versa. The answer will differ depending on which side you are on-a side which I assume/hope people have chosen because they are convinced of the truth claims of that particular ecclesial body. Mr.Dreher, it seems to me, is humble enough to do a lot of his struggling in public, and nastiness of any sort is not the proper response. I was simply making the point that ultimately the Church one belongs to should be based on convictions about Truth. The sexual scandals and other sins can cause pain, but they cannot justify joining or leaving any church. As to the Roman anger I see on this site, is it not possible that Mr. Dreher is simply coming to the conclusion that Orthodoxy is the faithful expression of the Church? Is it inconceivable that someone could come to that conclusion? Mr. Likuodis made that decision in the opposite direction-neither position is without reasonable defenses. Mr. Dreher may remain Roman. If he does, I am sure that it will be because he thinks it is the truth. If he leaves, I think it will be for the same reason. People are responsible for seeking to find the Truth and then conforming themselves to it. While I am convinced there is a true Church and that Orthodoxy is it, I realize that others do not see it that way. God knows their hearts while I do not-He will judge us both. It is not Christian to insinuate that Mr. Dreher is some hideous person because he seems to be disenchanted with the Roman church-it may pass, or it may show itself to be an honest decision to go where he thinks the truth is to be found. All I would say to the angry Romans is that your church admits the Orthodox churches are Churches. JPII spoke of the Church as breathing with two lungs. Those of us of a traditional ecclesiology would not say the Church is lacking a lung since we are convinced that Orthodoxy is the Church. The Roman Church senses a lack in its own experience-the issue will be whether reunion is one of sisters or the absorption of lesser bodies into a centralized papacy. I practiced at an Eastern Catholic Church, so I know what the answer to that usually is. Ultimately, the issue is about where the Church is to be found. That was my original point. We can disagree about the answer, but we don't have to attack each other personally.>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 6:26 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"[I]s it not possible that Mr. Dreher is simply coming to the conclusion that Orthodoxy is the faithful expression of the Church? Is it inconceivable that someone could come to that conclusion?"
Photini, certainly not. But you are misreading any catholic anger to be found here -- at least mine. Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize one's conversion process so shamelessly? and all the while, implying that one's refined tastes and superior intellect are part and parcel of such a decision? People constantly refute this point with "Dreher said no such thing" -- perhaps not explicitly, but context is all. As a professional editor, Dreher should know this (IMHO he does know it, but that's another issue). And how do you explain Dreher's indulgence of outrageously rude Orthodox commenters, coupled with his lashing out at not-nearly-as-rude catholics?
that was a rhetorical question. I'm not particularly interested in an answer at this point. but you seem like a reasonable person, so I would urge you to reconsider the catholic input on this thread.>
Brian
July 3, 2006 7:03 PM
I should like to make three points.
First, that some converts to Orthodoxy, especially evangelical ones, can be very anti-catholic. I think they bring this anti-catholicism with them when they enter the Church. In my experience, the average cradle Orthodox layman or priest is not "anti-catholic." I have not run across it in my Orthodox experience. New converts to Orthodoxy in chat rooms do not necesarily reflect Orthodox thinking.
What about the MP? I don't think he is anti-catholic, either. I think he has some very large disagreements with the Pope over the EC issue (and others). He may be wrong, but I don't see him as having a fundamentally anti-catholic mindset. I think he was very moved when the Pope returned the Kazan Icon back to its rightful owners.
Second, there are substantive issues between us. What Roman Catholic (I am not using this term perjoratively, for when I was young, I attended a Latin parish. The sign outside said "RCC" under the Saint's name) would say that Papal Infallibility is not a central issue? If I reject Papal Infallibility, does that make me a fanatic? No, I just don't agree with it. Neither do I consider a Roman Catholic arguing for it as a fanatic.
A fanatic is a person who is not being reasonable and uses non-edifying speech. He or she is arguing, not out of love and respect for the other person, but to try to win debating points.
Third, I personally don't think that reconciliation and communion is possible. Does anybody here really think that any Pope is going to drop Infallibility? Does anybody really think that the Orthodox are going to accept Infallibility? Unfortunately, there are other issues where the divide is rather deep.
I think what is very possible and desirable is co-operation between us on moral and societal issues, e.g. abortion, euthanasia, the sanctity of marriage, etc.>
Photini Blackburn
July 3, 2006 7:19 PM
Well, I haven't spent large amounts of time on this site, therefore I could have missed really rude Orthodox commentary. If so, then I would say the same thing-rude is rude and uncalled for. I'm not bothered by vigorous debate at all, but nastiness seems to be counterproductive. Mr. Dreher, I think, can struggle with his issues anywhere he wants. I don't know if he has a superior intellect. If taste is objective, and to a certain extent I think it is, he may or may not have superior tastes. You may of course take issue with him, but frankly I find you in particular extremely harsh. That sounds harsh in print, and I apologize. I doubt very seriously if Mr. Dreher would deny that intelligent and tasteful people can be Roman Catholics. What I would say is this. I found many good and holy people in the Latin church. There is much in it that I still admire and agree with. However, I found the actual practice of Roman Catholicism in this country very far removed (in general) from the historic Christian faith. I found myself and other theological conservatives like myself hanging on to the idea of the Pope for dear life because the bishops, priests and parishes around us were so often dysfunctional to the point of heresy. This made my faith cerebral and abstract beyond a certain point because I could not practice a vigorous, theologically orthodox Catholicsm in the parishes I worked in. If you want to e-mail me privately I can explain further. One of the reasons I became Roman is because there were no Orthodox churches in the town where I grew up. I may have been Orthodox from the beginning if there had been. Perhaps Mr. Dreher has always been more Orthodox than Roman, and is now finding that out. Perhaps not, and he will work out his issues with the Latin church and remain in communion with Rome. This is his blog, however, if I am not mistaken. He can work out his stuff in whatever manner he likes, and while it is right and just to challenge him if you disagree, to attack him personally is not OK. Examples would be questioning whether he was ever a faithful son of the Roman church or insinuating that he has already left the Roman church. Unless a person is his wife, his spiritual director or Mr. Dreher himself, I cannot imagine where they would think their remarks along this line were justified. I'm just sorry that remarks I made led Mr. Dreher to think he should opt off this thread because the tone got so nasty so fast.>
Jennifer
July 3, 2006 7:31 PM
"Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize one's conversion process so shamelessly?"
It may not be "respectful" but it's certainly normal with these issues when one is considering conversion. The way I see it is that he's trying to sort things out. Most of us do that privately but he's doing it publically. The sorting out process isn't necessarily pretty but it's an honest and real thing, IMHO.
"and all the while, implying that one's refined tastes and superior intellect are part and parcel of such a decision? People constantly refute this point with "Dreher said no such thing" -- perhaps not explicitly, but context is all. As a professional editor, Dreher should know this (IMHO he does know it, but that's another issue)."
See, I don't get this one. Granted I don't read everything on this blog and didn't read his book, but I don't see where Rod Dreher is implying that he is better or smarter than Roman Catholics.
In contrast, we have some very explicit statements here questioning the sincerity of Mr. Dreher's conversion, his motives, his loyalty to the Catholic Church, etc. Which IMHO are completely inappropriate.>
luke
July 3, 2006 7:47 PM
"Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize one's conversion process so shamelessly?"
What Jennifer said. Roman converts do this all the time. It is a red herring.>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 7:54 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
luke, I wouldn't know, but so what? then they are immature and disrespectful as well.>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 8:10 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
Photini and Jennifer, the blog has a comments section and I felt compelled to use it. I will say that the only reason I'm on the blog is because Dreher wrote Crunchy Conservatives, and the habits of thinking Dreher exhibits in that book that are all too consistent with what I see, and have described to you, here. I'm sorry if you believe I'm extremely harsh, but Dreher makes me angry, so I guess the anger shows.
I should clarify: IMHO *Dreher believes* he has a superior intellect and superior tastes. I don't believe that either are superior to, say, mine, or those of many people I know.
Personally, I'm not interested in peoples' reasons for their religious orientation (unless I know them personally). Likewise I don't expect you to be interested in mine. Now it's my turn to sound harsh, but I don't see what your conversion story has to do with my problems with Rod Dreher.>
Pauli
July 3, 2006 8:12 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Luke wrote in response to Kathleen: > "Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize > one's conversion process so shamelessly?" Roman > converts do this all the time.
Luke, could you post some links as examples re: these Romans? I'd like to compare and contrast. Thanks in advance.>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 8:17 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"It may not be 'respectful' but it's certainly normal"
Jennifer, it may be normal, but so is thong underwear being sold in the little girl's clothing section. And if you agree that it's not respectful -- synonymous with "disrespectful" -- then I see no reason why catholics should pipe down.>
Jennifer
July 3, 2006 8:18 PM
"I'm sorry if you believe I'm extremely harsh, but Dreher makes me angry, so I guess the anger shows. "
Obviously he makes you angry but why? I seriously don't get it. He's just a guy who wrote a book that 99% of people have never heard of.
"should clarify: IMHO *Dreher believes* he has a superior intellect and superior tastes. I don't believe that either are superior to, say, mine, or those of many people I know."
Let's be honest here, Dreher probably does believe that he has superior intellect/tastes than a lot of people. You probably believe that you have superior intellect/tastes than a lot of people. While we're being honest, I think I've got superior intellect/tastes to a lot of people too. (humility is not one of my virtues)
But what I don't see is the progression from his supposed belief that he's intellectually superior to many people to a belief that he's considering Orthodoxy because he's intellectually superior or in particular that he's intellectually superior to Roman Catholics.>
Jennifer
July 3, 2006 8:21 PM
"Jennifer, it may be normal, but so is thong underwear being sold in the little girl's clothing section. And if you agree that it's not respectful -- synonymous with "disrespectful" -- then I see no reason why catholics should pipe down."
I don't think that you should "pipe down" but I think you should refrain from writing that he was never Catholic to begin with or that he's a narcicist, etc.>
Photini Blackburn
July 3, 2006 8:23 PM
Nothing really except to say that what appears (and please note I say appears) to be his struggle is the struggle of lots of people. As to anger, why be angry? It is a laudable thing to defend what you believe to be the Truth. You can think Mr. Dreher is tasteless, etc....but why be angry? It's not a personal attack on you is it? You think he is doing something wrong by considering conversion to Orthodoxy-OK. I would expect a faithful Roman to think that. You can say the Orthodox church is schismatic, as I said the Roman one is. That's not ugly-it's a theological opinion. However, all persons are due respect even if their opinions may not be, and in a written medium such as this it is difficult to keep it clear that ideas are being "attacked" rather than persons. There is plenty of sin in both the Eastern and Western churches. None of us need act as if the other has a monopoly on human shortcomings. I would really hope though that people who for the most part do not even know one another could keep a level of civil discourse without anger. If non-believers read this thread, they might rightly run in the opposite direction. I don't know your heart, Kathleen, and would not have the audacity to claim otherwise. It just seems to be that the sort of venom I see on this subject (and not just from you) does not add to constructive coversation. We can really think one another dead wrong on things of immense import and still be civil-no?>
Pauli
July 3, 2006 8:32 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Dave Armstong weighs in with some great comments on this thread. Hey, can't help it -- I'm a huge fan of Armstrong, he's one smart Roman.
Also, there's a 4th of July sale at Blockbuster.
So, Luke, how's that list of Romans who blogged their conversions coming along?>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 8:39 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"You can say the Orthodox church is schismatic, as I said the Roman one is. That's not ugly-it's a theological opinion."
You continue to misread me, Photini. I don't care that you think the Roman Catholic Church is schismatic. I really really really really don't care. just note this: THROUGHOUT Dreher's extended writing about his conversion I have seen zero purely theological discussion about Orthodoxy versus catholicism. None. instead it's all about Rod's personal experience with orthodox food, orthodox people, orthodox religious music, orthodox architecture, orthodox prelates, etc. versus the (implicitly) inferior experiences he has had with such catholicism. Rod would say he is making theological points by writing about such. In other words, Rod has the audacity to imply that his personal peccadilloes rise to the level of theology. That is what makes me angry.>
Jennifer
July 3, 2006 8:40 PM
"So, Luke, how's that list of Romans who blogged their conversions coming along?"
I'm jump in with an example. I know for a fact that some Anglicans were not too thrilled with the Pontificator's blog. They didn't feel that he represented Anglicanism in a fair light. Some of them felt that he was disrespectful towards where he came from.
I doubt seriously that any Roman Catholic reading the Pontificator's blog had the same impression.>
Jennifer
July 3, 2006 8:53 PM
"THROUGHOUT Dreher's extended writing about his conversion I have seen zero purely theological discussion about Orthodoxy versus catholicism. None. instead it's all about Rod's personal experience with orthodox food, orthodox people, orthodox religious music, orthodox architecture, orthodox prelates, etc. versus the (implicitly) inferior experiences he has had with such catholicism."
The way I see it is that he's going through the 'love' stage of the conversion process. Sure it can be annoying but it's a normal part of the conversion process.
Our decision to convert has to more than intellectual. There should be an emotional aspect of it as well as an intellectual aspect. In some ways, you are joining a family when you convert.
I would argue that these supposedly non-intellectual reasons for his 'enchantment' with Orthodoxy are in fact 'theological,' what we worship is what we believe and all that.
"In other words, Rod has the audacity to imply that his personal peccadilloes rise to the level of theology."
But the fact of the matter is that some tastes are superior. Some art and music is superior. See the link below for a talk by a great priest in Chicago about the cult of ugliness.
"Ugliness is not just a matter of personal taste nor is beauty in the eye of the beholder. Fr. Branken claims ugliness can be known objectively and has an effect upon souls since it takes man away from God.">
Pauli
July 3, 2006 9:04 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Jennifer, thanks, that's at least a start. I haven't read his blog much. If the other entries are like this current one then I appreciate his theological astuteness and clarity. If you could point me to a direct blog entry made before he formally converted but when he was considering Romanism, I'd be very interested in reading it. That would be a good "apples-to-apples" comparison with Rod's current posts.>
Jennifer
July 3, 2006 9:16 PM
"If you could point me to a direct blog entry made before he formally converted but when he was considering Romanism, I'd be very interested in reading it. "
He converted a few years ago so I doubt those posts are still available. I vaguely remember the posts from about the time that he converted and never saw a problem with them. However, I was never Episcopal. I think it was the standard "there is no future in ECUSA" line. I agree with that so didn't think twice when I read it. But I know that some Anglicans found his 'rhetoric' to be very hurtful.
Other offensive RC convert rhetoric would include that guy (whose name escapes me at the moment) saying that to delve into history means to cease being Eastern Orthodox.>
Brian
July 3, 2006 9:31 PM
Kathleen,
Forgive me for chiming in. But I don't see the need to be angry at Mr. Dreher.
He has not said that the RC is bad. He has said that his experience as a Catholic was (is?) positive. He has also not made the argument that his personal tastes arise to the level of "theology." I have not read his posts that way.
Now you may be upset that his positive Orthodox experiences imply that his Catholic experiences were not as good. I would feel the same way if the shoe were on the other foot. I would be upset and sad, but not angry. His experiences are what they are.
I have read many times about protestant converts to Rome talk about how they considered Orthodoxy but rejected it in the end, especially for what I would call poor reasons (e.g. ethnicity).
This upsets me, but does not make me angry at the person.>
Photini Blackburn
July 3, 2006 9:37 PM
OK. I am going to try very hard (no promises) to make this the last post I write on this thread. The level of conversation is not getting any more charitable. To the extent I am responsible, I apologize to any and all. I was not suggesting, Kathleen, that you cared or should care about whether I think the Roman church is in schism, and therefore was not, I think, misreading you. I was using that as an example as to how people might disagree strongly without lowering themselves to personal attacks. As to Mr. Dreher's personal likes/dislikes, whatevers: Those things can be theological if you think about it in a certain way. Take any shortcoming of any church body. You could ask whether there is anything in the theology of the church-it's ecclesiology, liturgics, whatever, that led to or helped the problem to grow. The answer may be yes, but not necessarily. If Mr. Dreher is going on a bit with what you think are merely personal tastes, then certainly you should say so. He doesn't owe us, however, any particular sort of response. He can say what he likes. You can say his ideas are bad if you like, and then he can choose to elaborate or leave it where it is. My point again, made very wearily, is that nothing, absolutely nothing he says or does not say on this blog gives anyone the right to impugn his person. It is a bad form of argumentation and a lack of Christian charity to do so. One can reasonably say to him, "I do not think you are giving theological reasons for your possible choice." Fine, but one does not need to suggest that he is doing something in bad faith. Neither does one need to suggest that he was never a good RC or whatever. I feel responsible for the mess of this thread. I had no intention of starting what has become a nasty argument. We should be doing fruitful dialogue with one another and Mr. Dreher. It is fair to say to him that if he is going to throw out the Orthodox/Catholic thing, then he can expect people to hammer away at it. What I was hoping for is that we need not hammer away at one another!>
luke
July 3, 2006 9:39 PM
Luke, could you post some links as examples re: these Romans? I'd like to compare and contrast. Thanks in advance.
"I feel responsible for the mess of this thread. "
Photini, don't feel guilty about this. This thread would likely have been the same without your original post. These people have been arguing with each a very long time.>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 11:49 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
Brian, Rod exhibits a pattern. He is doing to the catholic church, and by extension fellow catholics, what he did to "mainstream conservatives" in his book Crunchy Conservatives. If you haven't read his book or his previous "crunchy con" blog on National Review then perhaps you are not as familiar with the pattern as I am. This blog is named after that book -- his way of thinking about religion and politics is of a piece, and IMHO is harmful to Rod himself. I feel compelled to point it out. He has zero interest in what I have to say, that has been amply illustrated. But I'm betting that life will have its way with him and he'll be forced to figure out he's building castles (OK, orthodox cathedrals) on sand. By saying this I'm manifestly not impugning Orthodoxy, i'm impugning Rod. Whether or not he converts is almost irrelevant. I have huge issues with the catholic church, but whether or not he converts barely matters to me.>
Pauli
July 3, 2006 11:50 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Jennifer: > Other offensive RC convert rhetoric would include that > guy (whose name escapes me at the moment) saying that > to delve into history means to cease being Eastern > Orthodox.
Sounds like a take-off on Cardinal Newman's original remark, "To immerse yourself in history is to cease to be Protestant."
Luke, thanks for your but one example. I looked up some of the comments to his post 914. Very "woody" theologically, to borrow from Monty Python yet again. I especially like his pointing out of the issues of lack of any positve sense of "westernness" and lack of any final court of appeal in regards to Orthodoxy. I can see Anglicans might be upset by a lot of what he said.
I have to say that although I've followed this thread very closely and made a few comments, I am not angry with Rod. I have been frustrated at times; as when on the other thread I said "poop or get off the pot." That might be slightly uncharitable, but fairly mild for a blog comment. I said it to another guy who was hesitating coming in to the Catholic Church and it worked. :)
No, but seriously I think you can make a case that the exuberant attitude of Kimel about his new found faith is similar to Rod's. However Kimel's presentation includes statements of the dilemmas and arguments pertinent to why he converted. Rod's presentations usually include comparisons of food and conviviality and even in the substantive comparisons like the handling of scandals very little proof is offered that the episodes being compared aren't strictly anecdotal.
Someone remarked earlier that the only reason certain of us are critiquing Rod's conversion is that we don't like the ideas in his book. I would suggest that we are critiquing both for the same reason: we find that Rod's judgment is often blurred by personal taste, his logic often makes impossible intuitive leaps based on selected anecdotes and qualitative research and his writing is often marred by vague insinuations and sucker punches at his scapegoat of the day. On some days it's the Pope, other days it's the "mainstream conservatives".
On this whole conversion issue which is primarily one of theology, his entire presentation is very "tinny", i.e., it rings hollow. I hear from him that an Archbishop lives simply like a Franciscan, I hear from him that prayers are offered in several languages at a dinner, I hear that the OCA handled a financial scandal barely covered by the media better than the RCC handled a sexual-abuse problem in Boston which was turned into a frenzy for the media and trial lawyers. It's as if he's ignoring/avoiding any theological issues rather than being like the typical "annoying convert" who is dying to debate everyone in earshot and engage them one the big theological issues, the "permanent things" if you will, to focus on the ephemeral.>
kathleen reilly
July 3, 2006 11:56 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"I would argue that these supposedly non-intellectual reasons for his 'enchantment' with Orthodoxy are in fact 'theological,' what we worship is what we believe and all that. "
I don't discount that point, but often the enchantment inevitably cheapens the process. You can become infatuated with a religion, just like you can become infatuated with a rock band or a person. *One must guard against such infatuation, not celebrate it.* That's why the conversion process should remain private, and why mature people consider conversion privately.>
"That's why the conversion process should remain private, and why mature people consider conversion privately."
I would argue that there is no such thing as a private conversion. Little "c" catholicism is by definition 'communitarian.'
As to your assertion that mature people consider their conversion privately, I would argue that's a matter of taste and personality. You're falling into what you accuse Dreher.
This is a cliche, but none the less it's true. Some of us live our lives very privately. Some of us don't. I don't think it's necessarily a matter of "maturity" but rather of disposition.
For that matter, there have been a number of very public conversions to Roman Catholicism chronicled on blogs, e.g. Alvin Kimmel. I watched him over the year or so when he was considering conversion and it was obvious where he was going but I don't know if it was as obvious to him as it was to me and other readers of the blog. It never occured to me that he was immature because his 'steps towards conversion' were so public. And I doubt seriously that any RC reader of his blog thought that Mr. Kimmel was "immature." On the other hand, I wouldn't be surprised if some of the ECUSA readers of the blog thought he was "immature" and wished he considered his conversion in private.>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 12:34 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
Jennifer, so which is it? "there is no such thing as a private conversion" or it depends on one's "disposition"?
You said, "This is a cliche, but none the less it's true. Some of us live our lives very privately. Some of us don't. I don't think it's necessarily a matter of "maturity" but rather of disposition."
Well it's true that Pamela Anderson Lee and Paris Hilton live their lives publicly. But surely they're just as mature as I am, right? they just have different "dispositions". then again, iit's also a "cliche" that some of us are more mature and discreet than others.>
JohnT
July 4, 2006 1:08 AM
http://immaculatedirection.blogspot.com/
Let s not forget the entire Surprised by Truth series about conversions to the Roman Church.
There is also the Journey Home series on EWTN, a multi-year series dedicated solely to the conversion stories of those returning to Roman Catholicism. http://ewtn.com/journeyhome/index.asp
Kathleen and Pauli, is this the type of thing you are talking about when you are critical of Rod s public kvetching about our faith, and then his subsequent flirtation with the Orthodox church? If so this is minor, perhaps consider ceding this trivial point. You have much more substantive criticisms to offer than this.
Rod,
Please allow me to offer a little advice. If this were my blog, and I had a consistent group of dissenters I would engage them every single time that they showed up. Do it in a consistent friendly manner and then welcome them back for more. Also I would engage them at their home field too (http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/). When you allow them to impugn your ideas without response they diminish them. Hence they are winning in my book. A rope-a-dope strategy works in sports, but is not effective in the world of ideas. After all it was you who gored their factory farm raised ox. These folks are not knotheads , they are smart and consistent, and that s why you cannot afford to ignore them any more.>
Jennifer
July 4, 2006 2:12 AM
"Jennifer, so which is it? "there is no such thing as a private conversion" or it depends on one's "disposition"?"
It's both actually. There is no "private" conversion to Roman Catholicism or Orthodoxy. One is joining a community. Usually the conversion ceremony (baptism or confirmation/chrismation) take place in during the liturgy.
How public one is about their reason for converting is due to disposition. Some of us, as you say, lead our lives privately. Others need to talk to people about it.
Back when I was RC, I had a conversation with my then-priest about this exact topic. Conversion was a huge deal at this parish. I'm somewhat shy and don't like a lot of public attention. I told him that if I was converting I don't know if I would like everything to be so public. He reminded me that becoming Catholic is becoming part of a community. However, he makes an effort to know the disposition of the convert, to get a feel for what makes them uncomfortable. BTW, this is a solidly conservative priest who converts more people in his diocese than other priest.
"Well it's true that Pamela Anderson Lee and Paris Hilton live their lives publicly. But surely they're just as mature as I am, right?"
I know you know what I'm getting at here so I'll let this one alone.>
Brian
July 4, 2006 2:50 AM
Kathleen,
You said: "By saying this I'm manifestly not impugning Orthodoxy, i'm impugning Rod."
You shouldn't be impugning anybody. Thats the point. :)
What human knows what is going through somebody else's mind, what struggles they are going through, what awful experiences they have had? This applies to Pamela Anderson and Paris Hilton.
That is why Christ said not to judge the person. We can judge what they say or what they do (regarding the moral law, not in regards to attending a pierogi eating contest) and label it correct or incorrect.
Some on this thread accuse Mr. Dreher of not engaging the issues "theologically." Well, perhaps his whole point is not a theological one. He is just reflecting on his experiences of a community.>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 2:57 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"What human knows what is going through somebody else's mind"
I know what's going through Rod's mind. he blogs about it almost every freaking day.>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 3:03 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
Jennifer, I honestly have no earthly idea what you are talking about. I have never, in all my years of churchgoing, had a potential convert publicly discuss with the parish the whys and wherefores of why he or she may or may not convert. I also have never heard of such a thing in any parish anywhere. The only time when converts are publicly identified is at the actual conversion mass. That is a far cry from doing an "I may convert, I may not" dance on a public blog for months on end. If you can't see the difference then I can't help you.
one final thing: Maturity is not subjective. Perhaps you will find that out at a later date.>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 3:05 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"We can judge what they say or what they do ... and label it correct or incorrect."
PS Brian: that is exactly what I'm doing, and i make no apology for it. It appears you simply don't like it. sorry about that.>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 3:10 AM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
doh! it appears I do "make an apology".>
Jennifer
July 4, 2006 4:10 AM
"one final thing: Maturity is not subjective. Perhaps you will find that out at a later date."
You're right. It's not subjective and I think every reader of this thread can draw their own conclusions about who really has the problem here.>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 4:04 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"Kathleen and Pauli, is this the type of thing you are talking about when you are critical of Rod s public kvetching about our faith, and then his subsequent flirtation with the Orthodox church? "
No. a book about someone's conversion that has already taken place is different than what is going on here. Dreher states he has not yet converted. A public consideration of one's own possible conversion is what I have a problem with.
There is obviously no problem with catholics trying to get people to convert, as with the EWTN series. catholics owe that to potential converts.>
simon
July 4, 2006 4:57 PM
kathleen reilly, whence did this sublime principle come, that no one considering conversion may ever talk about it in public?
Sounds ludicrous to me. You say yourself that you "have huge issues with the Catholic Church" and therefore "whether or not he converts barely matters to me". Yet you and a handful others shamelessly wave the "Catholic" banner in these comboxes, spouting half-remembered theological nonsense and insulting our Orthodox brothers in Christ. Well, speaking as a devout and (by the grace and mercy of God) permanent Catholic, NO THANKS FOR THE HELP!
Why are you so obsessed with Rod, his supposed sinister motives, his personality, the ways he talks about his religious experience or what foods he likes? If it doesn't float your boat, why do you bother reading it?
I think Rod would be making a serious mistake by leaving the Catholic Church. I believe the Petrine office is and always has been essential to the Church and that the Orthodox -- who have so much that is good, true and beautiful -- are undermined by the absence of St. Peter. But if I knew nothing about either the history or the theology and had to judge the matter only from the "Catholic" witness in these comboxes, I would certainly form a bias against Catholicism.
What, by the way, are your "huge" issues with the Catholic Church?>
JohnT
July 4, 2006 7:26 PM
http://immaculatedirection.blogspot.com/
Why are you so obsessed with Rod, his supposed sinister motives, his personality, the ways he talks about his religious experience or what foods he likes? If it doesn't float your boat, why do you bother reading it?
It s not an obsession in my view. Rod wrote a book about the influence of faith on politics. He created a category of conservatives that may or may not exist. The dissenters have some skin in conservative politics, and I suspect they see Rod's incursion as a weakening of the base. They are pointing out the inconsistencies of Rod's message. For example in this specific case Rod makes negative public statements about our faith as practicing Roman Catholic, and then talks publicly about his infatuation with Orthodoxy. (Disclaimer: I have the same infatuation and respect for Eastern Orthodoxy, but I will not convert.)
When the dissenters pursue Rod he does not engage them. Since he makes his statements publicly in a discussion forum they think that he should debate them on the issues. Hence they keep criticizing his ideas. Rod has the ability via his position in the media to influence thousands of people's decisions on faith and politics.
Here is where they are rightly concerned, Caleb Stegal. Right now the thought of a third party is laughable. However in a perfect storm scenario a power splitting third party scenario could occur in the near future. This would be a bad thing.
If Rod's book were called Crunchy Catholics you would have never heard of Pauli, Contra, Bubba and Kathleen or anyone else I forgot. If they were off point stragglers or whacko s you would have forgot about them by now. However, they have consistently and intelligently stated their cases against Rod's ideology for a long time now. The problem is Rod does not challenge them on this forum or their own contra crunchy site. By allowing them to drive the debate here unchallenged, he is weakening his own credibility in my view.
I propose the following challenge.
Rod should go out and get some of his high powered Crunchies (Stegall, Larison etc.) and the Contra's should get Goldberg and other dissenters. You have 10 crunchies vs. 10 contras. Create a blog with only the selected 20 participants. Come up with a list of 30 questions, and have a neutral party post them over the course of a month. I volunteer to be the neutral party.>
Pauli
July 4, 2006 7:50 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com
Kimel does do something I tried not to do during my conversion to Catholicism and that is that he brings up problems in his former church. I wanted to make sure that people didn't get confused about why I was leaving. I wanted them to know it was the whole package of "Romanism" that I was swallowing. Even so, some did recommend me going "Reformed Episcopal" kind of the cake-and-eat-it recommendation within my tradition. They were very much focused on the implied condemnation represented by a conversion.
I wanted all the arguments to be about Catholic dogmas, theology and practice and why I felt they were part of the ancient Christian faith. But relating these apologetic points was like steering those bumper cars at the amusement park; the other party would also plow into me with "what's wrong with our church?" I was actually better able to present their side of the theological argument than they were. This represented extremely annoying behavior on my part, but I think people would have been more annoyed if I'd said, "Yo, I'm not down with this whole theology bit, I just like statues, dudes with robes and beer and bingo with my Roman homies."
Another convert who's semi-well-known told me at the time "You know, after you convert, no Protestants are going to want to discuss any of this with you with few exceptions," and she was right. Other than the occasional "So, how's that new Pope working out for you guys?" no one really wants to jump into anything substantial. It's much easier for them to believe that what caused me to convert is some kind of personality disorder or matter of taste, style over substance.
This is probably in my experience the most humiliating thing about converting -- people you care about trying to ignore this aspect of your life. Sometimes you'll walk in the room and everyone will abruptly be silent and you'll wonder if it was "that weird thing you did." But all this is made up for because every once in a while someone, usually a less religious person, will get curious and ask, "Why did you convert again?" and you light up and get to explain in clear terms the substantive theological reasons why you did "that weird thing."
I'm not suggesting that every convert has to have a flair for apologetics or even a love of theology. A love of God would seem to lead one to a love of theology, but I wouldn't claim that to be a hard and fast maxim. Like I've said before, there might be another thread on this site where Rod discussed/is discussing/will discuss the substantive theological differences; that will shed more light on his conversion process.>
maria
July 4, 2006 8:53 PM
Pauli, I agree that Al Kimel takes a more negative view of his former communion than is typical of converts to Catholicism. Most converts to catholicism--either high-profile or obscure--have many positive things to say about their former confessions. Steve Ray, Mark Shea, Thomas Howard, Peter Kreeft, Greg Krehbiel, and many others extol the solid grounding in Basic Christianity they received from their evangelical backgrounds. They praise the evangelical zeal for souls, the love of Scripture, the emphasis on closeknit Christian community, and the many other virtues associated with their former communions.
In Fr. Kimel's defense, he is coming from a communion--TEC/ECUSA--that has become increasingly hard to take seriously. I know he appreciates its positive aspects (majestic liturgy, lovely church architecture), but I think he has become so overwhelmed by its negative aspects that he cannot help but testify to their deleterious influence. I believe he converted to Catholicism for essentially positive reasons; he would have preferred to convert to Orthodoxy, all things considered, but the Scriptural and patristic witness to Petrine jurisdictional primacy proved too mcuh for him. So, it was Peter that made the difference--IOW, theological and historical considerations. However, Fr. Al might never have considered the claims of Rome at all had not the ECUSA descended into "madness." In the wake of GC2006, who can blame him?
I believe it is entirely different for converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy. They are not coming from a church that has officially abandoned all commitment to biblical and patristic Christian faith. Rather, they are converting from the Church which most fully and consistently upholds the entire Christian Faith, whole and intect, via the threefold witness of Scripture, Tradition, and the living Magisterium. Thus, IMHO, whereas converts from ECUSA can perhaps be forgiven a certain negative attitude toward their former communion, converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy cannot. And, in my experience--my Internet experience, at least--converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy almost invariably become fiercely anti-Catholic. I have seen few exceptions--and, of those few exceptions, every single solitary one has ended up coming back to the Catholic Church. (One revert told me he had intended to remain an ecumenical, irenic Orthodox, free of anti-Catholic sentiment, but this was rather difficult to pull off in Bishop Tikhon's diocese.) Personally, I think the ex-Catholic Orthodox's hostility toward Catholicism--which is often extreme--reflects a certain "kicking against the goad." Some just go on kicking until they've whipped themselves into a froth of pure hate and fury. Others get tired of kicking and come back home to Rome.
I hope Rod will be one of the latter, but his unfair, slanted comparisons of Orthodoxy and Catholicism--always to the latter's disadvantage--do not give me much reason for hope.
Simon, BTW: I find your indignation selective indeed. You ignore the MUCH more inexcusable behavior of certain Orthodox on this forum--and of Rod himself for that matter--and single out the Catholics for censure. This is precisely the sort of double standard that IMHO does no service to either God or Truth. If Catholics' reasoned objections to Rod's misrepresentations supposedly give such bad witness, then what can be said of the ad hominem rants of Caedmon, Luke, and co.? Why do the Orthodox get a free pass? Can you say "double standard"?>
kathleen reilly
July 4, 2006 8:59 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
"Yet you and a handful others shamelessly wave the "Catholic" banner in these comboxes, spouting half-remembered theological nonsense and insulting our Orthodox brothers in Christ."
Simon, that's nonsense. I've done nothing of the kind. and if others did, that is because they see their religion being gratuitously maligned by an attention-seeker. They are hurt and insulted, and I can't say I blame them. Let us remember, too, that some orthodox on this site have not been great examples of intelligence and charity.
my huge issues with the catholic church are irrelevant to the discussion, and certainly not your concern.>
Brian
July 5, 2006 2:11 PM
Kathleen,
You said: "PS Brian: that is exactly what I'm doing, and i make no apology for it. It appears you simply don't like it. sorry about that."
First, forgive me for saying that is not what you are doing. I was talking about the ligitimacy of criticizing Mr. Dreher's comments, not Mr. Dreher himself, which is what you did.
I don't see much to criticise in relating a positive experience of attending another church's celebration, other than to comment that he is not attending Mass.
Second, its not a matter of me liking what you say or not. I do not want to patronize you, so forgive me if you think that is what I am doing. I have said before that I fully understand your concern and your being upset.
All I am saying is that it is not spiritually healthy to condemn the person.
Pax.>
Brian
July 5, 2006 2:18 PM
Dear Pauli,
You said: "Like I've said before, there might be another thread on this site where Rod discussed/is discussing/will discuss the substantive theological differences; that will shed more light on his conversion process."
Don't you think that after hundreds of years, we all know the differences between us? Anybody studying the issue knows or should know the pro's and con's of each position. I daresay that most western converts to Orthodoxy had at one time or another studied the issue.
I did myself. I think the arguments for the Orthodox position are compelling, but many such as Simon in his post above have come to a different conclusion.
Again, I don't think Mr. Dreher is angling to start a theological discussion on the differences between Orthodoxy and the Latin church. There are many forums on the net for that. I think he is just relating his present experiences.>
simon
July 5, 2006 5:26 PM
maria said: If Catholics' reasoned objections to Rod's misrepresentations supposedly give such bad witness, then what can be said of the ad hominem rants of Caedmon, Luke, and co.? Why do the Orthodox get a free pass?
1. We all need to distinguish better between reasoned argument and bigotry. If I state my opinion that the Orthodox misread history with regard to the Petrine office or the pentarchy of partriarchates in late antiquity, I am not "anti-Orthodox." If I express gratitude for the fact that as a Western Christian I have the opportunity to attend Holy Mass and receive Our Lord in the most holy Eucharist every single day, I am not being "anti-Orthodox."
Conversely, if an Orthodox Christian points to historical evidence in favor of his Church and against mine, he is not being "anti-Catholic." Likewise, if he points out the merits of some particular Eastern Christian devotion or practice that in his opinion has been unfortunately neglected in the Catholic Church, he is not "anti-Catholic".
It's when we start the ad hominems, or when we make sweeping generalizations about problems that are supposedly endemic to each other's communions, that we go off the rails. To that end, I think your comments about the supposed ill-will of "Internet Orthodox" are way over the top.
2. I am not Orthodox, so my personal concern is that my fellow Catholics in this, er, "debate" uphold the law of charity.>
simon
July 5, 2006 5:37 PM
kathleen reially said: my huge issues with the catholic church are irrelevant to the discussion, and certainly not your concern.
Well, you're the one who brought up your "huge issues" in the first place.
Bottom line: Catholic-Orthodox food fights are not edifying and seem to bring out the worst aspects of both communions (not surprisingly, perhaps, since the only one who revels in Christian disunity is Satan).>
maria
July 5, 2006 5:42 PM
Good grief, Simon. Have you read this thread? I am not referring to Orthodox arguments contra the papacy; I would consider such arguments typical grist for the blog-combox mill and a welcome change from insulting ad hominems!
No. I am referring to Caedmon's rants about "a gaggle of shrews" and Rod's rants that all Catholics who dare to disagree with him are "knotheads" and "loudmouthed malcontents."
Such comments go way, way beyond the pale and have no place in a forum like this one.
Surely you would agree...?>
Lizabeth
July 5, 2006 5:45 PM
paideaclassics.org
"I believe it is entirely different for converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy. They are not coming from a church that has officially abandoned all commitment to biblical and patristic Christian faith. Rather, they are converting from the Church which most fully and consistently upholds the entire Christian Faith, whole and intect, via the threefold witness of Scripture, Tradition, and the living Magisterium. "
Anybody who reads the canons and teachings of the first thousand years would see this as totally and absurdly untrue. It was forbidden to change the Nicene-Constantinopolitan Creed outside of another council without being anathamatized (the canons of those two councils themselves stated this), yet it was done unilaterally by the west. It was forbidden to 'add or take anything away' from the faith (even the early popes of Rome stated this), yet, obviously a lot of doctrinal as well as serious changes in tradition have occured in the west. The Tradition that used to bind the Latin Church to the Greek Church, no longer is very evident in the west at all.
And for those who believe Rod is 'leaving the Church', this isn't even the teaching of the Magisterium of Rome. As a Roman Catholic, you certainly could say this for someone leaving for Protestantism. But it does reveal a strong prejudice and misunderstanding of your own Church's teachings if you say this for someone leaving for the Orthodox Faith. You need to read your own Church's official stance on this.
The only thing anyone here has pointed out as 'lacking' in the Orthodox Faith, is its 'obedience' to the pope of Rome. But no one here, has offered strong evidence that the Orthodox Church ever held such an absolute obedience when the two churches were one. And they cannot prove this through the ancient canons which, though giving the title of 'first among equals' to the pope, actually limits the jurisdiction of Rome to her own geographical territory. And it was just this last year, that the Pope, officially dropped his title as patriarch of the west, the one part of his current title that had existed at the time when the east and west were united (the rest of his titles came in after the schism and cannot be recognized by the east). And they cannot prove papal supremacy/infallibility through historical church life. They can prooftext (like the Protestants do with the Bible), instances where it may appear that way. But these proof texts do not reconcile the actual canons or the greater body of patristic evidence that points in a different direction. Overwhelmingly, the early Church believed that the Pope was the first among equals. But the Church as a whole, did not believe the pope as infallible. The fact that two popes were anathamatized for heresy in two Ecumenical councils makes it impossible for the Orthodox to accept such a novel teaching (made official in the 18th century), at all. And the pope never had supreme jurisdiction over the Church. He did not call any of the Great Ecumenical Councils. He didn't even attend any of them. And I believe there were some cases where he didn't even send any deligates there. He, like the rest of the Patriarchs, had to sign and agree to them before they could be considered universal. But he did not have the authority to impose them on the rest of the Church. The Church had to come to agreement, through the power of the Holy Spirit, together.>
Brian
July 5, 2006 6:02 PM
Simon,
I fully agree with your post. Hearm hear!!>
Brian
July 5, 2006 6:02 PM
That is, hear, hear! :)>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 6:15 PM
"Rod's rants that all Catholics who dare to disagree with him are "knotheads" and "loudmouthed malcontents.""
Where did he write that "all Catholics" who disagree with him were knotheads or loudmouthed malcontents? I agree that you wrote that about you and your friends but "all Catholics who dare to disagree with him..." Come on now, Diane.
If you can't find the exact passage, then please apologize to Mr. Dreher for slandering him.
Thank you>
simon
July 5, 2006 6:16 PM
Brian said: Don't you think that after hundreds of years, we all know the differences between us? Anybody studying the issue knows or should know the pro's and con's of each position.
With this I have to disagree. Yes, we know the almost formulaic arguments on both sides about the filioque, papal supremacy, development of doctrine, etc.
But the real East-West problem is the failure to talk with each other charitably, along with the pride that leads people on each side to think, "every visible aspect of our Church is perfect and complete, so anything those [Greeks/Franks] do differently must be the result of their total misunderstanding of [fill in a core Christian doctrine]".
For all the polemics about the 9th century filioque controversy, the "schism" that supposedly happened in 1054, and the very real cultural hostility and theological misunderstanding between the two sides, the fact remains that both Latin and Byzantine Christians in the middle ages took it for granted that they were all part of the One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church.
Political events -- the fall of Constantinople and the Polish-Russian wars -- convinced Christians on both sides that their legitimate, age-old doctrinal and liturgical differences were fundamentally Church-dividing issues. The Muslim Caliph appointed the Orthodox patriarchs, and for obvious reasons chose hierarchs noted for their anti-Western views. The Tsars developed their absurd "Third Rome" theory. Likewise, Western Christians showed little charity toward their Eastern brethren, trying to achieve reunion by force where possible and doing nothing for the Greeks under Islamic rule. Moreover, the West until very recently viewed Orthodoxy the way most of us still (wrongly) view the Armenians, Copts, etc. -- as some kind of quaint relic from antiquity, with no real significance in the contemporary Christian world.
There was no "Here I stand" moment between Catholicism and Orthodoxy, no Council of Chalcedon that either side rejected. There are enormous differences between us, which I'm not trying to minimize. But because both sides first came to see those real differences as fundamental Church-dividing issues as a result of unrelated political, cultural or military developments, there is room now for fruitful dialogue. There also remains hope -- utopian though it may seem -- for the restoration of full communion.>
maria
July 5, 2006 7:07 PM
Jennifer, he has said worse than this, as you well know. Check out the "Heat" thread as well as this one. I am sure you can find the relevant quotes.
And no, I am not going to apologize to Rod for the fact that he has repeatedly, unprofessionally, and unChristianly insulted me and my fellow Catholics. (Insert Rolleyes emoticon here.)>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 7:15 PM
"Jennifer, he has said worse than this, as you well know. Check out the "Heat" thread as well as this one. I am sure you can find the relevant quotes."
Sorry Diane, but I don't see "relevant quotes" saying that all Catholics who disagree with him were loudmouths, etc. What he wrote was that a group of Catholics, including yourself, were loudmouths, etc. That is NOT the same thing as "all Catholics who disagree with him." Presumably there are tens of millions of Catholics who disagree with him about something or the other.
"And no, I am not going to apologize to Rod for the fact that he has repeatedly, unprofessionally, and unChristianly insulted me and my fellow Catholics."
I think he's insulted you and some of your friends but you and your friends are not the same thing as all Catholics.
BTW, another apology you need to make is to Jeff for calling him a "jerk" then a "cad" and for lying about him, e.g. writing that he believed ordinary Catholic parishes were beneath contempt. Unless of course you can come up with the relevant quote from Jeff saying this. (which of course you can't because once again you were exaggerating out of hurt and anger)>
Brian
July 5, 2006 7:23 PM
Simon,
Thank you for your thoughtful comments.
However, I must disagree that the estrangement is due to "not listening" to each other or "pride."
There are very legitimate differences. These differences have not been helped by the political/social issues you mention, but they are legitimate none the less.
I have had the priviledge of listening to Metropolitan MAXIMOS of Pittsburgh, who was one of the major contributors to the recent statement on the filioque issue by the North American Orthodox/Catholic Theological Consultation. He shared with our class the proposals of that statement before the final document was released. He said quite specifically that there IS a difference (on the filioque) and we should recognize it and go from there.
I would encourage any Catholic or Orthodox to read it. The address is:
IMHO the schism could have been overcome by now IF the theological situation was similar to that of the 12th Century. But it is not. From the Orthodox POV, Rome has added doctrines such as infallibility (something not even mentioned by RC theologians when the schism occurred).
After Vatican I, it is now very difficult to come to a common understanding. Papal Supremacy is one thing, Papal infallibility as a doctrine is quite another.
As I said in the previous post, does any Catholic think that Papal Infallibility is negotiable? Does anybody seriously think that the Orthodox would accept that?
From my POV, both Vatican I and II were not good councils for the latin church. One set the bar way too high, the other set it too low, and now they are reaping the whirlwind.
Sorry if my comments offend you or anyone else on this site.>
maria
July 5, 2006 7:29 PM
If you don't see 'em, Jennifer, you're not looking very hard.
Now go away and harass someone else, please, as I have repeatedly asked you to do on at least three fora.>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 7:38 PM
"If you don't see 'em, Jennifer, you're not looking very hard."
If they are so easy to find why you don't quote them here?
"Now go away and harass someone else, please, as I have repeatedly asked you to do on at least three fora."
Sorry, Diane, but I just want clarification.
If you're going to make accusations you should be able to back them up.>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 7:49 PM
"As I said in the previous post, does any Catholic think that Papal Infallibility is negotiable?"
Brian,
One could assume that Rome has already implicitly stated that papal infallibility is negotiable with the Balamand statement. If papal infallibility were indeed a dogma of the faith, the Church would not stop trying to convert ethnic Orthodox to Catholicism.>
maria
July 5, 2006 8:05 PM
"One could assume" that, and one would be wrong.
VCI is non-negotiable. The Church does not repeal the solemn decrees of ecumenical councils.>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 8:12 PM
" "One could assume" that, and one would be wrong.
VCI is non-negotiable. The Church does not repeal the solemn decrees of ecumenical councils."
And Diane, err Maria, comes to the rescue of the RCC.
If VCI is "non-negotiable" then why doesn't Rome seek the conversion of born Orthodox?>
maria
July 5, 2006 8:17 PM
Jennifer: There are delicate political reasons for this. (And BTW, Rome doesn't target any one group for conversion; that doesn't mean Rome has ceased to believe that she is the one True Church which all are bound to belong to. Please see Dominus Iesus and the Catechism. Also Lumen Gentium and the VCII Decree on Ecumenism. They, not the Bamamand Statement, are the authoritative, official sources for Catholic ecclesiology.
And BTW--I notice above that you are once again practicing spiritual direction without a license. As I said before, please practice it on someone else for a change. Like, maybe, on your friend Caedmon / Nevski, who has called women on this thread "shrews" and told them to "suck eggs." Of course, your double standard blinds you to this sort of viciousness---but then, how can I take you seriously as my would-be spiritual director when you exhibit such selective indignation? ;)>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 8:29 PM
"And BTW--I notice above that you are once again practicing spiritual direction without a license."
One doesn't need a license to practice spiritual direction, Diane, and one doesn't need any kind of professional training to "diagnose" you.
"Like, maybe, on your friend Caedmon / Nevski, who has called women on this thread "shrews" and told them to "suck eggs." "
Again with the significant misinterpretations of what others write. Nevski didn't all "women" "shrews." He called Kathleen and you, I believe, shrews. He then told Kathleen to "suck eggs." A bit rude and crude but not offensive to all women because most of us don't behave like she does.>
maria
July 5, 2006 8:34 PM
Jennifer, did I say he called *all* women "shrews"? Stop putting words in my mouth, dear.
You forfeited your credibility a long, long time ago.
Bye-bye!>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 8:50 PM
"Bye-bye!"
How many times have you said that to me, Diane? But yet you always come back.
And yeah, I did put words in your mouth here. Usually you ignore the challenges to your gross exagerations, e.g. writing that Jeff wrote that all ordinary parishes were beneath contempt. I assume you ignore them because you'll never admit making a mistake, e.g. ignoring YF "stupid posts" about the schismatics at Medjugorje. I apologize.
Now where's that apology for Jeff or for Dreher?>
maria
July 5, 2006 8:56 PM
Bye-bye, Jennifer.
Find someone else to harass.
And for the 80 thousandth time, honey, you are NOT my spiritual director. Stop telling me what to do. Go. harass. someone. else.>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 9:06 PM
"Find someone else to harass."
So I take it this means that you couldn't any posts where Jeff wrote that all ordinary parishes were beneath contempt or that Rod wrote that all Catholics who disagreed with him were "loudmouths?" Since you are conceding that you exaggerated, I assume that they should be expecting an apology?>
kathleen reilly
July 5, 2006 9:22 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
criminy, get a life Jennifer.>
kathleen reilly
July 5, 2006 9:24 PM
http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/
PS: no apologies from me are forthcoming, so don't go expecting one.>
maria
July 5, 2006 9:33 PM
LOL, Kathleen. You ain't kiddin'.>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 9:44 PM
"criminy, get a life Jennifer."
Taken from the person who has an "I hate Rod Dreher" blog. LOL
"PS: no apologies from me are forthcoming, so don't go expecting one."
I wasn't expecting one from you. Apologizing doesn't appear to be your style. But Diane, I think has a conscience.>
Brian
July 5, 2006 10:18 PM
Come on, every one, please let's be civil. As Gandhi said, if we adopt the "eye for an eye" scenario we will all end up blind. :)
Jennifer, I don't believe Balamand opens "Papal Infallibility" to negotiation. Many Orthodox, as you know, don't like Balalmand, either. The same goes for RC traditionalists.>
Brian
July 5, 2006 10:22 PM
Maria,
Unfortunately, the history of the so-called "Uniate" movement was precisely to target the conversion of the Orthodox. Thank heaven that the Vatican has recently and officially renounced this odious practice, though one wonders if this still occurs on the local level.>
Jennifer
July 5, 2006 10:26 PM
"Jennifer, I don't believe Balamand opens "Papal Infallibility" to negotiation. Many Orthodox, as you know, don't like Balalmand, either. The same goes for RC traditionalists."
I agree, however, IMHO, it does indicate a 'shift' in RC thinking about the papacy.
I'm aware that some RC trads hate the Balamand Agreement. I believe there are groups in Eastern Europe, affiliated with the SSPX, that consider it to be a betrayal.>
maria
July 5, 2006 10:45 PM
Brian: As for "odious" practices, I think there have been quite enough of those on both sides, frankly. Under the Soviet regime, countless Ukrainian Catholics were forced to convert to Orthodoxy, and the Orthodox Church gleefully confiscated their centuries-old churches. As soon as the Ukraine regained its freedom--thanks largely to Pope John Paul II & Ronald Reagan :)--many Ukrainians who'd been forced to become Orthodox promptly switched back to Catholicism. They couldn't revert fast enough. Yet the Orthodox Church has yet to give them back their churches.
Meanwhile, in Holy Russia, Catholics and Protestants alike are being persecuted--sometimes violently (Protestant churches burned down and that kinda thing)--while both Putin and Aleksi do precisely nothing about it.
Things are tough all over.>
maria
July 5, 2006 10:49 PM
Jennifer: Please, ixnay with the divide-and-conquer stuff. God has not granted you special insight into Kathleen's soul. OK?
You know, when you're not insulting people, you have some really good things to say. I thought your posts about modernity over at Crowhill were very insightful.>
simon
July 5, 2006 11:06 PM
Brian: Your post above in response to mine is much appreciated and certainly not offensive. I agree that the differences between Orthodoxy and Catholicism are real, legitimate and significant. My point is simply that the obstacle to the two sides even beginning to talk through those differences has until recently been the cultural and historical baggage both sides carry. That is why there is room for hope.
Look: in the past decade or two, both the RCC and the OC have reached substantial agreement on Christology with the Oriental Orthodox -- and who would have thought that possible after Chalcedon and the 15 centuries of bitterness that followed? The OC/Oriental Orthodox agreed statement in the 90s even called for the lifting of all anathemas and restoration of full communion between the two Churches, though this has not happened. There is always a place for hope.>
Brian
July 5, 2006 11:09 PM
Dear Maria,
Yes, I quite agree with the thrust of your statement. Bishop KALLISTOS said basically the same thing you said about the way the communists forced the EC's into Orthodoxy in his book, "The Orthodox Church."
However, I wouldn't say the Orthodox "gleefully" did anything. At the height of the purges under Stalin, there were only two functioning bishops in the Soviet Union. The rest had been tortured and shot. During the height of "Holy Mother Russia" when the Orthodox Czars reigned supreme, they never forced the EC's back into the Orthodox Church. It was the communists who came up with this idea because they looked with dread upon the Papacy.
The Orthodox were doing what they were told, which is certainly no excuse, but I don't think "gleeful" would describe anything they did during those times.
Also, many churches have been restored to the EC's, which is a good thing. However, some have also been confiscated by the EC's. Hence the tension between the Vatican and the MP.
I also agree with you regarding religious persecution. Not to excuse Russian behavior, but you must remember that there has never really been religious freedom in Russia until now. There was not complete religious freedom in the US until 80 years AFTER the Consitution was ratified. The first amendment was thought to apply ONLY to the Federal Government. The Congrgational Church was the established Church in Massachusetts until before the Civil War. Hence Thoreau's civil disobedience...he did not want to pay the church tax.
Moreover, both the EC's and Orthodox are dismayed by the activity of evangelical groups and cults. The so-called "registration process" does not apply to any established religious groups, only to new ones. The established groups would include the ECs, the Jews, the Muslims, the Buddhists, and some existing protestant groups like the Baptists.
I don't condone this at all. I am just trying to put it into context.>
simon
July 5, 2006 11:14 PM
Unfortunately, the history of the so-called "Uniate" movement was precisely to target the conversion of the Orthodox. Thank heaven that the Vatican has recently and officially renounced this odious practice, though one wonders if this still occurs on the local level.
Brian, I honestly find it a bit baffling how so many Orthodox (especially Russians) can take umbrage at Catholic proselytizing in historically Orthodox lands while doing exactly the same thing in historically Catholic lands.
For example, Rod Dreher's friend the OCA Archbishop of Dallas and the South apparently evangelizes actively in Mexico! Fine with me. But if that is okay with the Orthodox, then why is it wrong for Catholic priests to evangelize in Moscow among the unchurched whose great-grandparents were probably Orthodox?>
Brian
July 5, 2006 11:16 PM
Simon,
Yes, there is always hope.
I had as a professor, Fr. Michel Najim, who served on those commissions with the Oriental Orthodox. He was hopeful. :)
However, he also served on the previous RC/Orthodox International Diologue Commission meeting in Emmitsburg, MD (?) which broke up over the EC controversy. He was not so hopeful. :(>
Brian
July 5, 2006 11:24 PM
Simon,
You ask a good question.
The Orthodox only established diocese in Western Europe to tend to those Orthodox faithful who had moved there. They basically retained their own native culture and language. They never actively proselytized anybody in Western Europe. As a matter of fact, up until recently it was not easy for a non-Orthodox to convert.
The Orthodox by any stretch of the imagination are not what I would classify as an intensely "missionary" church- to its discredit.
Also, you should make a distinction between proselytizing in canonical territories that were established prior to the schism, such as Russia and most of eastern Europe AND proselytizing in America. There are no canons stating who has jurisdiction in America.
If the Vatican wants to re-establish and re-unite with the historically Orthodox sees, then it would not be prudent for them to actively engage in missionary activity at the same time. That is why they are not doing it, officially at any rate.>
justin
July 6, 2006 4:32 AM
"The Orthodox by any stretch of the imagination are not what I would classify as an intensely "missionary" church- to its discredit"
I submit that this is a fairly ignorant statement. See the Orthodox missions today in Africa which are reaping great fruits, and the missions in Alaska, Kamchatka and Siberia, China, Japan, Indonesia, and others. They even have a mission today to Jews in Jerusalem. The Antiochians especially in this country have brought many Protestants into the Church, and there is some effort within the OCA to begin reaching out to African-Americans.>
Brian
July 6, 2006 2:12 PM
Justin,
I am Orthoox myself, I don't think its ignorant at all. I think it reflects facts.
I did not say the Orthodox have no missionary activity. If you will carefully read my post, I said that it has not been known as an "intensely" missionary Church.
For example, the CMA is about the same size as the Orthodox Church in America (all jurisdictions), yet it supports and sends out many, many more missionaries. The last time I checked, it was by a factor of 20.>
JohnT
July 6, 2006 4:10 PM
http://immaculatedirection.blogspot.com/
Brian or Simon
Two questions:
Do both churches consider each other's members heretics?
Is there an Eastern Orthodox equivalent for say the Carmelites?
These are serious questions I have. If you don't mind answering them please contact me at my site via email. I have no intentions of arguing with you, I am truly curious.>
stolzi
July 6, 2006 5:19 PM
quote, "Christ is risen! Glorify him!"
Er, um, er - Rod, you'll need to learn the greetings better if you become Orthodox :)
Easter is "Christ is risen! Indeed He is risen!"
Christmas is "Christ is born! Glorify Him!"
Just call me Knothead...>
Brian
July 6, 2006 6:03 PM
John,
This is a complicated question. In the past, both sides have hurled accusations of schism at each other. Some Orthodox consider the filioque and Papal Infallibility as heresy, while others see it as a very flawed doctrine. There is a continuum.
As far as I know, the Synodikon does not list the filioque or PI as heretical, but when we receive converts from the RC the rite requires that they renounce the filioque, though in practice this is not usually done.
Nowadays, I would say that the RC's have (officially) a much more tolerant attitude towards the Orthodox than vice-versa. RC's will allow their faithful to participate in some Orthodox sacraments under certain circumstances and allow us to partake of their Eucharist. The Orthodox do not allow this either way.
Orthodoxy does not have "orders" as such. We have monks and nuns which follow the rules laid down by St. Basil and others. We don't have "secular" orders like teaching nuns and brothers. Our nuns and monks are in a monastery.
Hope this helps. Others can chime in.>
simon
July 6, 2006 6:45 PM
John,
I think Brian answered your question well. I would just add that Catholics in general have never regarded the Orthodox as heretics. In recent centuries, it was common for Catholics to use the term "schismatic" to refer to the Orthodox, meaning they had made a juridical break with Rome despite maintaining the true faith and valid sacraments of the Church.
As part of the Catholic Church's deepening self-understanding brought about by the Second Vatican Council, we now regard both the Orthodox and the Oriental Orthodox (Armenians, Syriacs, Copts, Ethiopians, etc.) as sister churches with whom we are unfortunately not yet in full communion.
Eastern Christians (both Orthodox and Oriental Orthodox) may receive the Catholic sacraments if they ask for them of their own free will and if it is pastorally advisable. Catholics who can not get to a Catholic Church (e.g., if they are in Russia, Greece, Armenia, etc.) may fulfill the Church's precept to attend Sunday Mass by participating in the Divine Liturgy at an Orthodox or Oriental Orthodox Church. In case of grave necessity, they may receive the sacraments in these Eastern Churches if permitted to do so. There are specific, mutual arrangements for intercommunion at wedding ceremonies in the case of mixed marriages between Catholics and certain of the Oriental Orthodox churches.>
Justyn Strother
July 6, 2006 9:32 PM
strotherfamily.blogspot.com
As an Orthodox Christian who loves the Catholic church to which my parents belong (I was raised "nothing" - they redeiscovered their faith) I think the negative respose to this post is completely without measure.
Not getting it.....
Justyn>
Justyn Strother
July 6, 2006 9:42 PM
strotherfamily.blogspot.com
And I obviously have a nursling on my lap - forgive the typos and miss spells....
justyn>
luke
July 6, 2006 10:21 PM
Diane writes: VCI is non-negotiable. The Church does not repeal the solemn decrees of ecumenical councils.
As long as in Roman Catholicism an individual stands as the locus of Tradition ("I am Tradition"), all decrees will be negotiable.
How does the Roman church repeal the decree of the Council of Constance, which rules that a council is of a higher authority than a pope? By the word of a pope! And so it goes.>
luke
July 6, 2006 10:49 PM
Brian,
As you may or may not know, Orthodoxy does have a different theology of missions from what we understand in traditional American churches. A book by a priest who serves in Alaska is enlightening in that theology.
Thanks guys. I appreciate all your replies. I am looking for books/articles on Eastern Orthodox Mysticism. If you know some please post here or contact me through my site. Thanks again.>
Brian
July 6, 2006 11:11 PM
Luke and others,
As I said before, I never stated that the Orthodox Church does not have missions. However, what I am stating that in the past it has not been very missionary minded. By the past I mean the last 100 years or so for the Russian Church and more for the others.
The reason for this is that under Islamic domination the Church could not do missionary work. The same went for the Russians under Communism.
As far as the Orthodox immigrants in the west (the so-called "diaspora") are concerned, the missionary activity has picked up of late. But organizations like the OCMC are not that old.
Also, I would ask you to honestly look at most Orthodox parishes and tell me how they are doing local missions. Sadly, many are not. Many Orthodox recognize this situation.
I am Orthodox, but I must relate what I see. Things are getting better and I am sure it will continue.>
luke
July 6, 2006 11:29 PM
Also, I would ask you to honestly look at most Orthodox parishes and tell me how they are doing local missions. Sadly, many are not. Many Orthodox recognize this situation.
Your point is taken. Overall, the witness of local churches is really the more pertinent, in my opinion. Sending foreign missionaries is not nearly the "white field" that it once was because most countries have established churches. Orthodox foreign mission is primarily one of supporting the local churches in a given place.
But the ethnically insular parishes are, in many cases, as you say. These parishes will eventually grow old and die. However, for each of those you can likely find a new mission parish springing up where there is a need.>
justin
July 7, 2006 3:27 AM
JohnT,
I couldn't find a button to contact you on your blog. I'd be happy to give you the titles of some books if you'd like. email me at jbosl at yahoo dot com.>
seth
July 7, 2006 6:20 PM
http://sethearl.wordpress.com/
dropping in late in the conversation. i just wanted to state that there is not a man on earth i love so much, yet know so little than our dear Archbishop Dmitri. i'm glad you got to spend some time with him. He is a wonderful bishop. God grant him many years!>
Caedmon
July 8, 2006 6:47 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
"Kathleen is not a shrew she is a woman trying to live out her vocation in a difficult world."
Yes, that is very much in evidence from how she apparently lives out that "vocation" over on that blog and in the comments boxes here.
"That is a dehumanizing, unchivalrous, and shameful thing to say about her, especially coming from, and it is difficult to say in light of this exchange, someone on 'our' side."
Just returning fire, sir. If she truly wants to be treated in a chivalric manner, then she should start behaving like a lady.
I need another discussion forum like I need a hole in the head, by the way, but thanks for the invitation nonetheless.>
Caedmon
July 8, 2006 7:08 AM
http://novaemilitiae.squarespace.com/
The response above was to JohnT, by the way.
And Rod, something tells me you're tolerating all these frenzied attacks by Roman Catholics in the comments boxes for a very good reason. (Wink-wink!)
Adieu to all.>
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Rod, yesterday was the feast of SS. Peter and Paul in the Catholic Church, too.
The feast of SS. Peter and Paul is a big deal in Rome, because of course they are regarded as the two founders of the Church of Rome. (Much is made of the fact that both the secular, imperial Rome and the later Christian Rome are regarded as having two founders.) Last year when I was in Rome doing Fr. Foster's Latin program, he arranged for the class to take a trip outside Rome on that day, because he said Rome would be a madhouse. That was rather irritating for those of us who, unlike him, haven't lived in Rome for 35 years and would like to have experienced the "madhouse" for ourselves. ;-)>
June 29 is also the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul in the Lutheran Church, too.>
I converted to the Roman Church when I was 18. I spent 11 years working for it professionally, and over 20 as a member. When I converted to Orthodoxy three years ago, I knew I had really come home. The question is not whether the Orthodox Church has sin (it does) or whether it deals with sin better or worse than any other ecclesial body. The issue is whether it is the Church. Some of us former Catholics have come to the conclusion that the Roman church is schismatic and heretical-working for it helped confirm that for me. The diversity and beauty are selling points, but ultimately the issue is where do you find the Body of Christ. Romans seem to spend a lot of time yelling at potential converts to Orthodoxy-I used to do that too because the pain of trying to be faithful to historic Christianity within the Roman church caused so much pain that I could not bear the idea of someone actually getting to be Orthodox if I could not. To Rod I say, "Come on in-it is far more wonderful than you can imagine-even with the sexual scandals and other sins. God is to be found here.">
Here's a good piece from the incedible Fr. Z on the presentation of the pallia. My former Bishop, Donald Wuerl, was there. Three cheers!>
Please, readers, let's not turn this thread into a discussion on the heresy of this or that church. The point I wanted to make with this entry is that the social element of the Church -- Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant, whatever -- is so important. This is new to me; I've always thought of "the Church" as an institution that defines dogma and dispenses sacraments, and that's pretty much it. My wife grew up Southern Baptist, and she said the hardest thing for her to get used to about being Catholic is the loss of that "dinner on the grounds" sensibility that was second nature to Southern Baptists, at least the ones she grew up with. I'm sure that some Catholics have that too, and I don't intend to be cracking on Catholics in this way. I only wanted to point out that what I saw yesterday -- a small, diverse community of believers, united in belief, feasting together after completing the fast and celebrating the liturgy -- was a model of the Church that is new to me as someone accustomed to a more purely intellectual model. And it's a beautiful thing, whether you get it in an Orthodox parish, a Catholic one, a Protestant one...>
As one who hasn't denied the catholicity of Orthodoxy, let me say, it sounded like a wonderful evening. It is a great privelege and honor being given a seat with a prelate. Most of us would find such an experience humbling and edifying. There is nothing like being around holy men to encourage one's spirits.
I doubt it was your intention in this post, but you seem to be inviting a contrast with Roman Catholicism on this point. It is not difficult to be edified when being in the upper room so to speak. It is quite another matter to be in the Garden of Gethsemane watching the suffering of our Lord. Even the apostles grew weary and rested leading our Lord to chastize, "Could you not watch for one hour?" Even the one who would betray him was in the garden. But the same Lord who was in the upper room was the same one in the garden. Our Lord is present in intense joy and extreme suffering.
I do not reject the Orthodox. I think the lack of communion is the greatest scandal in the Church. This post is already too lecture-y the way it is. It would be nice if you could become Orthodox without rejecting the commonly understood Catholic Church. Intellectually it is impossible to do. The temptation is to convince oneself that such is a radical choice even if one knows that it is not.
I apologize in advance for the length and the lecture-y tone. Peace be with you.>
MZF: I doubt it was your intention in this post, but you seem to be inviting a contrast with Roman Catholicism on this point. It is not difficult to be edified when being in the upper room so to speak.
No, that wasn't my intention. I am told that Abp Dmitri is almost sui generis when it comes to bishops ("In all of Russia, you would not find an Orthodox bishop like him," one Russian immigrant parishioner told me, referring to Dmitri's man-of-the-people humility). What was edifying to me was not so much being around the archbishop (though that certainly was), but the feeling of "here we are all together, a family praying and feasting under the same roof." That's new to me, and I see now what I didn't see before.>
Rod, my experience of Orthodoxy has been precisely that. I had the same experience at my friend's birthday party recently, at which both Metropolitan Gerasimos of San Francisco and Bishop Anthimos of Olympos were present, along with a number of clergy and a bunch of us common folk. There was an organic, humble quality to it all that was very edifying.>
I wasn't so much trying to start a thread about the heresy of this or that church as to say that I understand Mr. Dreher's experience at the Cathedral-and that the particular qualities he describes perhaps point to something he is looking for. I don't know if I am a crunchy conservative, but I find a lot in the book that I agree with. My desire to live a traditional, organic, connected Christian life was frustrated a lot when I was Roman-I found my parishes to be lacking in those qualities. That's not to say there are no Roman parishes where that life might be lived. Further, I too practiced for a while at an Eastern Catholic parish. I know that experience too. However I certainly do not want to start a nasty debate.>
I hear you, Photini, and your experience is like mine. But really, I don't want us to argue on this thread about which is better, Orthodoxy or Catholicism. Rather, I want to celebrate what I hope Christians of all churches would value, whether they have it or not, and that is the sense of the community united in prayer and belief, feasting on a special day.>
Amen to that. :)>
Mr. Dreher said:
"I don't want us to argue on this thread about which is better, Orthodoxy or Catholicism."
You may not publicly do this arguing. You let your readers do that for you. Based on the overall focus of that as well as the constant maliciousness you heap on any Catholic, it is safe to say you are a Orthodox Christian. All that is left is to post pictures of you partaking of the eucharist at St. Seraphim's to show how much you have turned your back on your faith.>
Rod, I've been to those special feast days at Vladika's and it is awesome...but it's not just in the 'upper room' that you get that wonderful family feeling. It is on the parish level, too. We gather together every Sunday for dinner after the Divine Liturgy in Plano (St. Sava Orthodox). I can count off-hand, 5 different languages that you are likely to hear on any given Sunday. Everyone chattering happily and eating together in fellowship. It's really wonderful! In Denton, at St. Maximos the Confessor, it is the same. And up in Denison at St. Paul the Apostle - the same. Like Vladimir said to you, this is Church.>
It's really striking to me that this scene sounds like a family gathering. Rod, are you sure you aren't looking for a new family, instead of a new faith?
What's also striking is that you seem to enjoy people around you speaking a language (or languages) that *you don't understand*. It's like you have the intimacy of family, but also you are far removed from it enough that it's not threatening to you and you don't have to deal with any of the inevitable messiness and unpleasantness in genuinely intimate family life (not to mention that you haven't known these people for very long). You're having your (gourmet) cake and eating it too.>
PS: Thanks Jonathan Carpenter for pointing that out. If Rod didn't want people to argue whether Orthodoxy was better than catholicism, he wouldn't write posts like this one.
It's called being "passive aggressive".>
And the knee-jerk, visceral reaction of Catholics to posts like this is called either "over-sensitivity" or "envy.">
If you like hearing people speak in languages you don't understand, why are you uncomfortable at the Latin Mass? Perhaps it because there is a different between a worship situation and a fellowship situation? I'm just thinking out loud here.>
Justin, I don't "envy" delusions.>
My analogy seemed somewhat missed by others. Upper Room was simply denoting joy and celebration. If you look at a lives of the saints, you see the ability to see God's grace amongst sinners. For the Orthodox, Dostoevsky is oft quoted as saying he could see Christ greatest in the drunk or the prostitute.
I have nothing against joy and celebration. They are vital and necessary. I would not call it a mark of discernment on anything. It is easy to see God's presense in joy and festivity. It is the greatest challenge to see His presense amidst wreckage and destruction.>
I would certainly agree that it would be nice if the Church had more potlucks that even a bishop would attend.>
David White, maybe he doesn't mind hearing russian when he isn't expected to participate, whereas he is expected/invited to participate in the latin mass.
call me crazy, but i find irritating when i'm at a social gathering and people around me are speaking a language i can't understand.>
"Vladika himself is a gourmet cook, and had prepared a flan, a flan de queso, a dried apricot torte, and some sort of complicated raspberry meringue cake. One sidebar filled up with deviled eggs, cheeses, anchovies, sausages and other antipasti, and the more hearty dishes lined a side table in the dining room."
Do we know if the flan, eggs, cheeses and sauages came from free-range animals on organic farms?>
I sometimes attend a monthly mass from a travelling SSPX priest. After the mass there is always a lunch where everyone comes together united in faith. Being somewhat unsatisfied and dissapointed with the Novus Ordo masses and making the brave move to attend SSPX masses we have a lot in common. There is a real sense of community that is lacking in the mainstream RC parishes no matter how hard they try to artificially promote it.
Archbishop Dmitri looks like a very good man. Keep in mind that he is a convert and converts have a reputation for being the best. When he made his choice to convert, he may have alienated himself from his family and friends and former faith community. He made a conscious choice and does not take his faith for granted. That may be the case for a lot of the parishioners in his church. United in faith and the choices they made on their journeys.
That is not always the case. I live in an area which had a lot of Orthodox immigrants.
Webshots - Images of Alberta's Orthodox Heritage
Depsite their liturgical beauty and rich heritage, most of the Orthodox people I know do not practice at all. Oddly enough given their identical liturgies and beliefs Ukrainian Catholic parishes have far higher mass attendance and vibrant parishes then Ukrainian Orthodox parishes.
As a devout Catholic I am saddened with all of the problems the church is grappling with and the leaderships inability or unwillingness to deal with these problems. However, we are all sinners and if you expect perfection from this world you will always be dissappinted.>
David, it's not that I "enjoy" hearing other languages spoken -- good grief, don't take Kathleen Reilly's boringly spiteful and altogether predictable interpretations of what I supposedly think as having anything to do with what I actually think. I only mentioned the foreign languages as an example of the cultural diversity present at this parish gathering -- at the "e pluribus unum" aspect of it. Which you could have in any church. I was just trying to bring color. Leave it to the usual knotheads to turn what I hoped would be a thread about what church potlucks and communal celebrations mean to you, whatever church you're in, into yet again a dull argument over Catholic-versus-Orthodox, and a conversation-killing analysis of my spirituality.>
Take it with a grain of salt, Rod.
It means you've got something to say when people take the opportunity to try to discount, counter or distract from it.
I don't always agree with your stances and interpretations, but I respect the way you present them.>
I am 100% with Rod on the lack of social, family dimension to the Church in America today.
Note three other branches off Abraham's tree that do well in the familial, social dimension:
1) Jews
2) Mormons
3) Muslims
All three of these have a dynamic, healthy social life with mega customs, food, community, and that sense of "belonging".
Yet I don't think I could be in any of these groups, even when I am at the heights of the "warm fuzzy" Rod (and I) get in those situations and lean to my partner and say, "here is Christ's Church". I would be far more likely to do this when witnessing Christ in the suffering and the poor.
Watch out for emotional doctrine. It can lead to error. However, I absolutely agree with Rod we cannot ignore the social, cultural angle. It is mandatory for a Christian. What we do is what we really believe, not what we say.>
I think to most people, the principle e pluribus unum would dictate the prayer be said in one common language, Latin or Greek or Russian or take your pick.
Sorry the conversation is not up to your standards.>
Mr. Dreher, people would not engage in "again a dull argument over Catholic-versus-Orthodox, and a conversation-killing analysis of my spirituality" if you would be straight with people the people you say you like. This vagueness would make Dan Rather proud.>
Last Sunday I attended a special gathering at my Roman Catholic parish, too. It was to say goodbye to our wonderful pastor, whose deserved reputation for orthodoxy caused celebration here in Fort Worth when he was named our new diocesan chancellor by our new bishop. We will miss having him as pastor, but we rejoice to have him as chancellor!
The gathering was certainly not up to Rod's standards. A lovely buffet was served, but the food was quite ordinary, of the sandwiches-cold fruit and veggies-cake variety. Father's blessing before the food was heartfelt and simple, but in ordinary everyday English. (If any foreign language was occasionally heard, it was probably Spanish). The many who attended all had one desire--to thank Father for his years of service and leadership.
I met a woman I didn't know, who talked about the wonderful Bible study classes Father has held throughout his time at this parish. She was a former Episcopalian, and our conversation turned to the current events in that church. I enjoyed talking to her very much. Meanwhile, my husband had met an older gentleman who spoke about his upcoming visit with his one surviving brother, a Benedictine priest in his 80s.
I doubt there is anything about my parish or that gathering that Rod would approve. From the crowded parish hall to the plebian plastic cups and paper plates, from the folded metal chairs to the flicker of fluorescent lighting, the whole thing could be described in Rod's usual pejoratives: middle-class, bourgeois, white-bread, comfortable. But I saw the Church. Love, community, concern for each other's welfare, sadness mixed with joy at the departure of our dear pastor, laughter, conversation, a very ordinary meal transformed into something special by the occasion.
If you have to have gourmet food, the company of archbishops and a kind of exclusivity to have the Church, then what are you really looking for?>
Rod, it's your standard "stop being boring" retort to us that is getting boring -- not to say predictable.>
Curious wrote:
> If you have to have gourmet food, the company of
> archbishops and a kind of exclusivity to
> have the Church, then what are you really looking for?
This reminds me of some High Church Anglican friends who love their fancy liturgy and big-fish-in-small-pond access to Bishops but are embarrassed by the "Joe-Sixpack-in-the-pew" types you'll find in a typical Catholic parish, as well as all the unspoken prejudices. Maybe due to the recent rumors of schism in the Anglican/Episcopalian world, the Eastern Orthodox Church will become the new Via Media for Protestants who want a bigger dose of tradition but who can't stomach swimming the Tiber.>
I do think that breaking bread together is something a lot of modern-day Christians are missing (whether they know it or not). My parish has a potluck dinner after the midweek service.
We're mostly white-bread converts, so I guess the food wouldn't be up to the Rod-Dreher-strawman's standards, but I'm inclined to think that the real Rod Dreher wouldn't mind. Or if he did, he'd be polite and not say anything. :)>
From the crowded parish hall to the plebian plastic cups and paper plates, from the folded metal chairs to the flicker of fluorescent lighting, the whole thing could be described in Rod's usual pejoratives: middle-class, bourgeois, white-bread, comfortable.
That's the problem with the contempoary Catholic church. Perfectly mediocre.
In the link above I posted a link to various beautiful eastern Orthodox and eastern Catholic parishes that were built over 100 years ago by illiterate peasant immigrants. Similar works of beauty can be found in rural Alberta French towns built by the hands of the local faithful. Before criticizing Rod, you should understand that the eastern rites have always taken their religious practices very seriously and feasts are and have always been taken very seriously. This was the case of those Ukrainian peasants 100 years ago and it is still the case with their descendents today.
What is wrong with exposure to high culture anyway? In the practices we worship the lord should we not strive for the best?>
"I do think that breaking bread together is something a lot of modern-day Christians are missing (whether they know it or not). "
errr, only if they're not going to mass. mass is the ultimate "pot luck dinner" -- if properly understood, others pale in comparison.>
I had a social opportunity recently, too. During lunch today, I did my Meals on Wheels route. At one house, a frail elderly guy had a hard time making it to the door. I tried to unlatch it from the outside but couldn't, so he had to get up and unlatch it for me. He was sitting at the kitchen table just a few feet away from the door, but it took him a while to get to the door. First he had to clutch the table for support, then the refrigerator, then the door jamb. It was heartbreaking.
But he didn't speak Russian, and his meal was certainly not gourmet, so maybe he doesn't count.... ;)>
Sorry Ron, looks like a lot of people got entirely the wrong idea from your post. All you said was you had a great time with some wonderful people communing together with Christ, and many people posting here, acted like you had some subliminal messages about Catholism. SHEESH people, lighten up. He just had a great time.>
kathleen reilly writes:
mass is the ultimate "pot luck dinner"
I understand what you're saying, but I think we're still missing something if we as a Christian body don't sit down and eat meals together regularly. I want fellowship and to enjoy the fruits of the earth with my brothers.>
I first started attending Mass at a monastery. After a couple of years I realized that I was missing out on being a part of a parish community. Most of the people who attended Mass at the monastery went because the liturgy was austere rather than the trainwreck you find at most Catholic parishes. But it wasn't a parish. We came, the monks chanted Mass, and we left.
When I visited some nearby parishes I was overwhelmed by the sense of anonymity as well as the poverty of the liturgical practices. It seemed like a lose-lose situation. When I first attended Divine Liturgy at the local Byzantine parish the thing that made me feel most at home was that after Liturgy everyone stayed to eat and spend time together. Something's just not right if, after celebrating the Feast of X at Mass, there isn't any food for the faithful to share.>
Thank you, Brierrabbit. You got my point entirely. And not that it would matter to you bitching-and-moaning knotheads, but I drank wine out of a plastic cup at the gathering last night, and it was delicious. The people and the occasion was the thing, and it was a lovely thing.
If I wrote a post that said simply, "Christ is risen! Glorify him!", the Knotheads would find something to complain about.>
Hmmm, I seem to remember St. Paul saying, "Don't you have homes to eat and drink in?"
Diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks, I guess. My (small, intensely closeknit) parish has potlucks out the wazoo--Sunday afternoons after Mass, Wednesday nights, "soup & bread" & catechesis on Wednesdays during Lent--but I never stay for them. I have many friends there, and I socialize with them after Mass, but I'd just as soon eat dinner with my family. Guess I'm into that Domestic Church stuff. :)>
"here we are all together, a family praying and feasting under the same roof."
That is The Mass. That's not enough for you? I don't mean to be snarky, I ask sincerely.>
Again, I say that you have the opportunity to experience fellowship and community a mere 48 miles away in Greenville, TX and yet you choose not to attend.
Example from St. William's website:
Come and stay the Day (On Most Sundays)
No need to rush home
11:30am: Mass in Latin (the Novus Ordo ), at St. William Church. This Mass in Latin is exactly like the other Masses except that it is offered in Latin. This is NOT the old Mass which is also known as the Tridentine Mass or the Mass of Pope Pius V. Booklets will be available in translation: Latin-to-English and Latin-to-Spanish.
***The Cafeteria will be open after the 11:30am Mass for those who wish to bring a Picnic Lunch. As mentioned before, everyone is welcome to join us for this weekly pot-luck dinner at St. William.
2:35pm 3:40pm: 1 HOUR OF CONFESSION
2:30pm-3:30pm: HOLY HOUR with Exposition of the Most Blessed Sacrament. We will begin the The Divine Mercy Novena followed by the Rosary. During this time the Most Blessed Sacrament will be exposed for adoration. At 2:35pm I will begin hearing Confessions.
At 3:30pm we will conclude with Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament and the Divine Praises.
I am sure Fr. Weinberger would be happy to oblige you with multi-lingual prayers (English, Latin and Spanish). The gourmet food, I can't guarantee, but multi-cultural food is a certainty.
Sorry Ray, but you sound like a stuck-up snob to this Knothead and as someone who used to have respect for what you wrote, I can honestly say,"Glad I got over that!".>
Sorry, I'm checking out of this thread. I'm sick of you Catholics who cannot leave well enough alone, who have to turn every post into an occasion to start a fight over Catholicism versus Orthodoxy. If that's your idea of keeping me in the Catholic Church, or of making Catholicism attractive to potential converts, you're pitifully mistaken. You would be a lot more persuasive, and even interesting, by talking about the good things happening in your own parish. That's the only reason I started this thread: for people to talk about moments like this they've experienced in their own church, whatever their church is, and to discuss its meaning in their lives.>
I hasten to add that when I say "you Catholics," I'm talking only about Catholics who have weighed in on this thread with nasty commentary.>
"Knotheads" ??
Rod, if you must label people with whom you disagree, couldn't we stick with "Catholic hotheads?"
I'm sorry you never found community in the Catholic Church. (Did your old parish really not offer any opportunities whatsoever for this?) I'm sorry the priest sex scandal has caused you to turn your back on Roman Catholicism and actively seek another church. But I wish you'd quit acting like the Eastern Orthodox church has all these unique wonderful opportunities that don't exist in the church whose dust you can hardly wait to shake off your feet.>
I am not trying to keep you in the Catholic Church, you have already left. Just trying to do damage control!>
"not that it would matter to you bitching-and-moaning knotheads, but I drank wine out of a plastic cup at the gathering last night"
you're right Rod, it doesn't matter a whit to "the Knotheads", which is kind of our point, if ya think about it.>
Here's what I think might be seting people off -- "the archbishop -- "Vladika" they call him (from a Russian word meaning "Master," used here as a term of affection) -- lives humbly in a small cottage out back."
It does seem that this was added (especially the "humbly" part) to contrast with the perception that RC bishops live lives of luxury and splendor. (when most actually live in tiny apartments). Kind of like, Peggy Noonan's "sell off the mansions." There really arent' any mansions.
And if your girlfriend leaves you, and then tells a story about a date with her new boyfriend, concluding with the observation that this is what a relationship would look like, you're going to feel a little hurt.
I'm somewhat confused because it's long been my suspicion that the community aspect is what was missing from Mr. Dreher's experience of Catholicism, which was partly why the scandals hit him so hard and he didn't understand why it didn't hit others in the same way.
I suspect if the exact same event were hosted by an RC bishop, Mr. Dreher wouldn't have reacted the same way. The multiple languages would be pandering, the bishop would have been criticized for devoting himself to his culinary pursuits rather than his flock, the bishop would be making a transparent attempt to curry favor with influential people, and what was that pro-choice politician doing there, anyway?
Anyway, I am glad that Mr. Dreher has found community, but saddened that it had to happen elsewhere. I pray that we will all be one some day.>
"Sorry, I'm checking out of this thread. I'm sick of you Catholics who cannot leave well enough alone, who have to turn every post into an occasion to start a fight over Catholicism versus Orthodoxy."
Rod, it's clear you've attracted a gaggle of shrews, naysayers and other insufferable types who must comment negatively on your every post simply because you wrote "Crunchy Cons," with which they vehemently disagree, but worse, you announced that you're considering Orthodoxy, which has driven these unstable, insecure types 'round the bend. If it is not possible to weed these folks out, I would recommend you go to a "No Comments" status. What you have to say is too important to be constantly interrupted by these folks.>
Rod, two more points:
First, reread your original post. I just did. Nowhere in it do you EVER ask people to reflect on their own experiences; in fact, you present this as a kind of unique experience which you never encountered in the Roman Catholic Church. Not only that, but your final paragraph is open to interpretation--when I first read it I thought it was a declaration on your part that the EO church was the True Church. I'm sure I'm not alone here.
Second, I just reread this comment thread. I don't find anyone's comments, Catholic or Orthodox, "nasty" except yours, Rod, when you decided to call your Catholic commenters "knotheads" on at least two seperate occasions. No one else has descended to that kind of abuse, IMO.>
No one else has descended to that kind of abuse, IMO.
Except Caedmon.>
One more time Mrs. Diane Kamer, previously thrown out of this blog but re-registered as "maria": don't you have the "Real World," or something like that, to get to?
http://p090.ezboard.com/ fgregsdi...icID=4990.topic>
"gaggle of shrews" -- sexist abuse at that! tsk tsk!>
Rod: I hear you. Matches my experience at more than one Eastern parish church including Orthodox ones.
You can also get that communitarian traditionalist vibe - fellowship - in the few places where Anglo-Catholicism survives: coffee hour after Mass (common among many Anglicans), drinks after Evensong and Benediction.
Regarding the abuse, and it is abuse, you could always moderate comments, only allowing them after you've read them, but that's time-consuming when you get as many as you do.>
Your tolerance for "nastiness" seems to be selective. There is an awful lot of nasty being thrown around on the thread below this one and you haven't peeped once. Can you say...double standard?>
Hi, Caedmon / Nevski! How verrrry nice to see you here. (Battinf eyelashes sweetly.)
Y'know, Vladyka's array of antipasti and whatnot reminds me an awful lot of the spreads my Italian relatives used to put out at every holiday. I grew up with "slow food," you see, and convivial extended-family get-togethers. I'm used to it. Maybe that's why I don't regard it as some sort of Great Sacramental Epiphany. ;)>
Personally, I agree that the nastiness didn't start with the Knotheads, but with you, Mr. Dreher and the Orthodox, but I would never expect you to see it.>
I always enjoyed the coffee (though it was terrible) and random food at my dad's RCIA meetings. The only real problem with it was that no priest or otherwise orthodox person led the gospel discussion that formed the first half of it. I had to be the orthodox-smackdown person at my table, which is new for me, because usually I put-up and shut up. Yes, I'm a terrible Christian, don't nag.
The best experience I've ever really had that could be considered sort of 'upper-room'-ish was my summer program at Thomas Aquinas College. You have no idea how great it is to accidentally interrupt people while they're saying grace by themselves at breakfast, and to be able to talk about any issue, religious or philosophical, during any meal, with similarly interested people. We public-school educated Catholic teenager are starved for this kind of company, which is why I think TAC and similar schools have grown so much recently.
I think pot-luck is the best idea for church gatherings, because catered food means less people come. People love having other people eat their messes!
Umm...on another note, even though this post is on the 'correct' topic, as it were, it it now considered 'off topic' because of the general drift of the thread? I'm curious as to the right terminology.>
Lorenz wrote:
There is a real sense of community that is lacking in the mainstream RC parishes no matter how hard they try to artificially promote it.
Lorenz, I disagree. But then, I'm in the Diocese of Charlotte, where Catholics are still so few that they really do stick together. There's almost too much fellowship available at out little parish, and there's nothing the leats bit "artificial" about it. My hermit husband's kind of shy, and it's definitely more fellowship than he prefers. LOL--as I said above, diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks. Not everyone is gregarious, and some would rather sink into the earth and be swallowed alive than undergo a "convivial" dining experience with a large group of people.
But anyway, as I say, if it's warm, genuine Catholic fellowship you want, the Southeast is where you'll find it---along with solid orthodox Catholicism.>
Loren,
Thank you for that link to the church pictures...lovely.
Rod,
I've been to a gathering at Vladyka Dmitri's house, just like you described. I'm glad you were invited.>
"If that's your idea of keeping me in the Catholic Church, or of making Catholicism attractive to potential converts, you're pitifully mistaken."
Rod, your self-centeredness knows no bounds. I for one am barely interested in
"keeping you in the Catholic Church". I don't know you, and anyway I'm not sure you were really in the Church in the first place. I'm just pointing out where in your thinking about the Church you go astray-- not that you care.>
"'gaggle of shrews' -- sexist abuse at that! tsk tsk!"
Me and Shakespeare. We be mates. (Twist on line from Crocodile Dundee.)
Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men who blog on your blog.>
Rod -
Why on earth are you surprised when you get comments like this? You seem like an intelligent man. It's really not that hard to figure out.>
Kathleen:
He is not interested in staying in the church. He made up his mind years ago. It is no different than those fundamentalists who always used to accuse us of worshiping the Virgin Mary. You could show them articles and logically prove to them that notion is BS, but they still will not listen. This is also because "Catholic bashing" is in vogue here in Dallas and in Louisiana. Richard Hofstader called Anti-Catholicism "The Pornography of the Puritan.">
"Hi, Caedmon / Nevski! How verrrry nice to see you here. (Battinf eyelashes sweetly.)"
You've been seeing me here for the last two days, and you've responded to me about a half a dozen times. You're just now getting around to greetings? Does some substance affect your memory?
But what about those friars and the fake bishop, anyway?>
Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men who blog on your blog.
Ooooh, no nastiness here, nooooh. Only the Catholics are nasty. Calling people knotheads and shrews is Christian Charity to the Nth Power.
Sheesh. With Christian Love like this, who needs hate?
BTW, Nevski: I wouldn't tangle with Kathleen if I were you. She can see right through you. And she's a lot less easy to intimidate and humiliate (in that oh-so-chivalrous way) than I am. Good luck! You'll need it. :)>
BTW: Yesterday was my younger son's name day, and I must say I rather resent Rod's implication that it's the exclusive property of the Orthodox Church.
Viva St. Peter, the Rock on which Christ built his Catholic Church.>
Caedmon wrote:
> Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your
> credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men
> who blog on your blog.
What? Me wispy? ROFL>
...and I must say I rather resent Rod's implication that it's the exclusive property of the Orthodox Church.
Absurd, yet ridiculous.>
I've just read the comments herein and I'm embarrassed by the tone of the arguments.
Yes, there was a post by Photini bringing up the issue of Orthodoxy v. Catholocism--Rod quickly objected to the threads going that way. I would think his persistent asking not to have a talk-down-the-Catholics post would have alleviated some concerns. Photini seconded his sentiment.
Following this, you'll notice that Mr Johnathan Carpenter begins openly accusing Ron of using the comments section as a way of passively arguing against RCism. If this was Rod's intention why would he so firmly dissuade Photini from doing the same?
In reading your series of back-and-forths I cannot believe that --from either side--constructive commentary couldn't be made in a civil, Christian manner.
-Lucas>
Luke, what's ridiculous about it? Rod's post begins: "In the Orthodox Church, yesterday was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul." That sentence clearly implies that Rod is telling us something special about the Orthodox Church, when in fact June 29 is the Feast of Saints Peter and Paul in the Roman Catholic Church as well, and even in some Christian denominations according to some people who posted at the top of this thread. Journalistic accuracy would suggest that Rod begin his post in a way that acknowledges this fact, i.e. "In the Orthodox Church as in much of Christendom, yesterday was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul." To omit this fact while highlighting the Orthodox observance of this feast has much the same effect as a sentence which says, "In the Baptist Church, December 25 is a special feast day known as 'Christmas.'">
Rod, if you're still reading the comments here and interested in improving the quality of the Comments section of your blog, please contact me via my web site and we can discuss options. I will be out of town until July 8, with limited access to the Internet.
My guess is, however, that your desire may be to leave the comments section just as it is, since it's at once so revealing and entertaining. Whatever your pleasure. But I would at least like to chat with you privately some time, if you're available.>
"BTW, Nevski: I wouldn't tangle with Kathleen if I were you."
Yes, I've seen Kathleen in action, Diane. Don't sell yourself short: you intimidate me more than she does.
If that tells you anything. :>0>
night night Shakespeare, i mean, Caedmon.>
Don't you mean, "Now cracks a noble heart. Good night, sweet prince,
And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest!"?
Or you could find some line from Crocodile Dundee, like, "Good shootin', Skippy.">
Both the Roman Catholic Church and the Orthodox Church claim to be the 'One True Church.' It doesn't make sense for Roman Catholics to be offended by Orthodox claims since their own church makes the very same claims. And it would be good to read the actual ancient canons of the councils of the first millenia when both the East and West were one, as well as the overall consensual patristic witness before casting any stones.
Whether or not we agree with each other, why can we not at least respect each another's differing view points? And also respect that some people may choose to leave one faith community in favor of the other? Why must we get so angry and defensive?
At the same time, I am *very* sure that the clergy at St. Seraphim's would strongly discourage name calling. It goes totally against the Orthodox teaching of striving for the virtues, most of all humility and focusing on one's own sins most of all.
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, the sinner.>
Good grief, I mentioned that it was the Feast of St. Peter and St. Paul in the Orthodox Church because so often there are feast days in the Orthodox church that aren't the same as in the Catholic Church. I meant nothing else by it. And I think you handful of trolls understand that, but have nothing better to do than ruin what might have been a decent ecumenical thread about feasting and social life in the church.
Caedmon, I have no control over who gets to post in these boxes. It's all on Beliefnet. If I did, we wouldn't even have to be having this conversation. I would simply ask those of you who aren't Catholic please not to judge all Catholics by the childish behavior of this small handful of spiteful malcontents. All I can say is that we will apparently have to learn to talk around them.>
Let me add to that: I hope the rest of you who read this blog and these comboxes will please stick around, despite it all. I don't have the authority to throw the loud, obnoxious drunks out of the party, but I hope the rest of you, on all sides of any issue, will stick around and not be dissuaded from commenting, from participating, from exchanging views. There are so many bright intelligent and interesting people who leave comments on these threads, and I would count it a real loss if you all were driven out by the knotheads. That appears to be their point: to spoil whatever fun or useful conversation we might get going here. Don't let them win. Please stick around.>
'Or you could find some line from Crocodile Dundee, like, "Good shootin', Skippy." '
yeah, i could, but the thing is, i don't really spend much time "finding lines" from shakespeare, current cinema, etc. just so i can be some sort of erstwhile thread champion extraordinaire. but apparently that is something crunchy conservatives like to do.>
"Whether or not we agree with each other, why can we not at least respect each another's differing view points? And also respect that some people may choose to leave one faith community in favor of the other? Why must we get so angry and defensive?
At the same time, I am *very* sure that the clergy at St. Seraphim's would strongly discourage name calling. It goes totally against the Orthodox teaching of striving for the virtues, most of all humility and focusing on one's own sins most of all."
Two things, Lizbeth. Normal Catholics would respect, say, Rod's differning viewpoint. Normal Catholics, and a few have chimed in here, would tell Rod, "We're sorry you're thinking about leaving, but God bless you in whatever decision you make."
The other thing is that a number of the Fathers weren't so "nice" as you think. Jerome comes to mind, and even Basil of Caesarea. According to Tradition, Nt. Nicholas of Myra, "Santa Claus" himself, punched the heretic Arius in the face. So a little deserved name-calling surely can't be condemned.
Am I in Arkansas yet? God please speed it!>
"yeah, i could, but the thing is, i don't really spend much time "finding lines" from shakespeare, current cinema, etc. just so i can be some sort of erstwhile thread champion extraordinaire. but apparently that is something crunchy conservatives like to do."
Well, dear, that post was so rhetorically lame that your stock just plunged. Not that it was high to begin with.
Diane, is this an example of the prowess about which you warned me?
(Goodnight, sweet shrews.)>
Mr. Dreher said:
"There are so many bright intelligent and interesting people who leave comments on these threads, and I would count it a real loss if you all were driven out by the knotheads."
So long we walk the same line Mr. Dreher does we are intelligent and interesting people. Otherwise as he implies in his blog and paper we enable "Child Molesters." This gets to the heart of my anger with Mr. Dreher and his colleagues. He implies that because we are not singing the praise of everything the DMN et. al. do to bring light to the corruption in the Catholic church we are enabling it. That is a deceitful lie! In short, by all means attack corruption where you find it, but do not imply because some of us are not jumping to canonize you that we enable the abuse.>
Caedmon, don't forget your handy Bartlett's book of quotations when you go on your little trip.>
Kathleen, don't forget to suck eggs while I'm gone.>
The reaction to what Rod says shows the limitations of the internet, wonderful as it is, in that you can't see the person speak and hear the tone of voice to help you interpret what they mean sometimes. So sometimes what a person says sounds snarky and it really isn't. Like when Rod said that June 29 was the Feast of Ss. Peter and Paul I thought, well, gosh doesn't he know it is in the Catholic Church too? I didn't think about the point that some of the feasts are not at the same time, like All Saints, and that there are Old Testament Saints and such that the East has days for and we don't. I also thought when he said the guy says to him "This is the Church" and he thinks "Yes it is", I thought, oh gosh, Rod has gone and officially converted to Orthodoxy. Actually, I guess what you were trying to say is that when Christians meet together in fellowship, that Christ is there, and where He is, that's where the Church is.
Yeah, I do agree with that and think part of the problem with both the Catholic Church (I am a Catholic, convert from the Episcopal Church) and the Evangelical "Superchurches" is that the average parish is so large it's hard to get a sense of community. I think the average Eastern parish is smaller and more intimate, at least in America. I also think that Americans are a very rootless people who often live at a great distance from their relatives and so look for family in their church community. From what I have read so far, it appears that Rod was born in Lousiana, and has lived in New York and Texas. No wonder he is looking for community. And in a sense our fellow Christians are our family.
It is sad to me that due to the unfortunate break between East and West, a person cannot be big C Catholic and B O Orthodox at the same time but has to choose to join one or the other. This is very unfortunate. Some of the people from my old Episcopal Church joined the Russian Orthodox Church. Well, I said to myself, at least they joined a real church with real sacraments. A sister church, if you will. When I talk to them, they often gently try to get me to consider joining them. I tell them I am not going to do that because I do firmly believe in the necessity of the Petrine office. However, the fact that they want me to join them means that they do care about me because they believe that they have found the True Church and they would be remiss if they didn't try to share that with me. I feel the same way about them and am sad that we no longer can take communion together at the same altar. This is why the present divided state of Christendom is a shame and a scandal. I think the church needs to "breathe with both lungs" and I pray that we may one day all be one. There is much beauty and holiness in both the East and the West. Rod, if you do end up joining the Orthodox Church, I just hope you won't be one of those converts who thinks everything about their previous church was second rate and bogus. I don't even feel that way about the Episcopal Church, as much as it's been taken over by some pretty wacky people. There's a lot of good stuff in the Book of Common Prayer, and if CS Lewis, Samuel Johnson, George Herbert and Jannani Luwuum aren't in heaven, I don't think I'll make it either!>
I've experienced somewhat of the same thing Rod is talking about at the (Roman) Catholic Croatian parish where I play. While there is the same griping, back-biting, gossiping, infighting, and just general human-condition behavior that characterize your average ho-hum congregation (Catholic or Protestant), there's something else. I haven't been able to put my finger on it, but the closest I can come is to say that it involves an immigrant culture from a couple of generations ago, a large part of which is an unspoken assumption that much of life revolves around the church -- moreso for the older members, but sometimes for their children and children's children too. The older members of the congregation put me to shame, baking bread all day for bake sales, or cooking fish for fish frys during Lent, or showing up to sing for every funeral. They are fiercely dedicated to keeping up the traditions (that's with a small "t") of their church and culture. I'm sorry to say that there aren't as many of the younger generation who are as dedicated, but there are some at least. And darn it, there IS something intensely beautiful and old-worldly about hearing people speak in a language I can't understand. The Croatian hymns we sing are so moving that I am ashamed to admit that just over a year ago I never even knew they existed.
A new gripe of mine has become the lack of attention that these ethnic parishes get from most of the higher-ups in the church, not only clergy but also publishers. The hymnals are full of goofy hymns, and they're often translated into Spanish, and sometimes even Asian and African languages. But what about the eastern European languages that we have whole churches speaking in some parts of the country? Not that we'd want to sing those songs -- I'd give up a thousand "Gather Us In"'s for just one "Kraljice Neba," -- but my point is that some ethnicities are ignored. I guess we're way too last century for the up-to-date OCP folks. In the meantime, the Orthodox churches are preserving their traditions whether or not it's the hip thing to do. Sometimes being hip isn't what attracts us, as Rod has found out.>
Rod, you have made it abundantly clear that those of us Catholics who wish to defend the Catholic faith are not welcome on this blog. In fact, any Catholic unwilling to lap up eagerly your honeyed descriptions of your newfound spiritual paradise will be subjected to your derision, childish epithets, and slurs as to our characters and purposes here (I have NEVER been called a troll by anyone but you.)
Enough. I am not willing to commit the sin of being lukewarm. Besides, I have far too much self-respect to remain in a "community" where it is clear that I am not wanted. I will continue to add your name to my nightly rosary intentions, but I will no longer participate in this ugly charade. Though I will miss reading this blog, I will not miss your dismissive and abusive attitude toward posters such as myself; in fact, it is my duty to leave, since it is quite possible that I have become an occasion of sin for you.
A poster above suggests that "Normal Catholics, and a few have chimed in here, would tell Rod, "We're sorry you're thinking about leaving, but God bless you in whatever decision you make."" Actually, "normal Catholics" try to dissuade their friends and acquaintences from schism, whether the ancient schism of the east or the newer one of SSPX. I made the mistake, Rod, of thinking that you actually wanted to debate the merits of Catholicism, both here on this blog and in a few e-mails we exchanged. Now I see that you are set on the course for the Orthodox Church, and have no further interest in Catholicism. I therefore encourage my fellow "knotheads" to join me in my determination to leave you to the road you have chosen. We won't be missed.
Goodbye, Rod. Or perhaps a better word, all things considered:
Dasvidanya.>
You make me think, MJ: the fellowship at the Maronite cathedral in Brooklyn where we used to worship was like this. Those Arab (Lebanese) Christians were so terrific, and treated the church like it was more than just a place to go on Sunday morning. Such kindness, such enthusiasm! We even named our second-born for the old Lebanese monsignor who was the happy genius of the parish.
Marty, if I do ultimately leave the Roman church, don't worry, I won't be one of those who complain about her. I have been given far too many gifts as a Roman Catholic, and far too many mercies, to be that kind of person. I agree with you that it's a shame that RCs and Odox are still divided ... but I'm thrilled that Pope Benedict is continuing his predecessor's outreach to the East, and I hope and pray that the East will respond in kind (though having looked at the theological issues that divide the two churches, I really don't see how full unity is possible given all the water under the bridge; still, nothing is impossible with God!)>
Marty, if I do ultimately leave the Roman church, don't worry, I won't be one of those who complain about her.
Good grief. You already do nothing but complain about her. It couldn't possibly get any worse once you Dox. (Or maybe it could. You may fit right in with the Indiana List / ROCOR Cafe crowd. You've already got the "anti" mentality down pat.)
And BTW: The "Roman" church? I don't know any "Roman" church. We're the Catholic Church, thank you very much. Last time I checked, we weren't wearing togas.
Curious, Jonathan Carpenter, C.M.W., and anyone else who's interested: Feel free to e-mail me anytime at diane_kamer@yahoo.com. Like Curious, I am outta here. The atmosphere is noxious.
God bless!>
Hi Rod,
>. . . if I do ultimately leave the Roman church, don't worry, I won't be one of those who complain about her. I have been given far too many gifts as a Roman Catholic, and far too many mercies, to be that kind of person.
Good for you. I'm just curious (forgive my ignorance, and I've only skimmed this thread, reading mostly your comments), why you are considering possibly leaving Catholicism for Orthodoxy? I'm assuming the reason must be more than the pleasantness of interesting social gathering with good food (not that you intended to leave such an impression!).
In Him,
Dave>
If you would like to learn the historic/patristic teaching on what it really means to be 'catholic,' St. Vincent of Lerin's 5th century Commonitory is a very good start.
http://www.westernorthodox.com/commonitory
If you read early church writings at all, you will see that this teaching is consistant throughout the early Church. And the Orthodox Church today, continues to hold on to it in her definition of what it means to be 'catholic'.
http://www.beliefnet.com/story/9/story_917_1.html
Also, Caedman, the biggest problem among Orthodox today, especially on the two lists mentioned by another poster here, is the number of Orthodox who presume they have the spiritual perfection (and the humility and grace that comes with it) to be like the great saints of the past who fought against heresy. It is better to follow St. Seraphim and 'acquire the Spirit of peace so that a thousand souls maybe saved around us.' Unfortunately, most of us are not anywhere near that level of perfection, and we are more likely to do harm out of our own uncontrolled passions, than good out of the indwelling grace of God.>
The Church? Or a gourmet supper club?>
>>> And BTW: The "Roman" church? I don't know any "Roman" church. We're the Catholic Church, thank you very much. >>>
Absurd, yet nonsensical.>
OK, here's my parting shot: Above, Rod maintains that the "theological differences" are "too great" between Catholicism and Orthodoxy. I say that's horsehockey. The fact that you can say this, Rod, shows that you have already drunk the kool-aid---er, I mean the sauvignon blanc.
As one Orthodox hierarch put it, "fanaticism alone" exaggerates the "insignificant differences" between Catholicism and Orthodoxy. Apparently, Rod, you have aligned yourself with the fanatics. And Big Hint: They're not on the Catholic side.
I hope some Catholics do keep comboxing here, in order to counter certain essentially fideistic Orthodox arguments which may nonetheless lead impressionable people astray.
In the meantime, here's a link to the article from which I drew the "fanaticism alone" comment:
">http://www.catholic.net/rcc/Periodicals/Homiletic/2001-01/likoudis.html>
James Likoudis, like yourself, Diane, is an anti-Orthodox fanatic.
His famous last words: To go deep into history is to cease to be Eastern Orthodox.
I'll be sure to remind Archbishop Dmitri of that when I see his this evening.>
I signed off in the thread called "Heat" is hot and I stand with Curious calling on all Catholic Hotheads to ban themselves.
Adios!>
"Richard Hofstader called Anti-Catholicism "The Pornography of the Puritan.""
I've also heard anti-Catholicism described as "the anti-Semitism of the Left".
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I'm sorry that this thread has degenerated the way it has. It is possible that I started it, without meaning to. T think I'm the first one who posted a comment here. I'm one of those who interpreted Rod's opening statement, the way he phrased it, as an indication that he wasn't aware that July 29 was the Feast of SS. Peter and Paul in the West, as well as in the East. I'm sorry if I misunderstood, and I'm sorry if I was in any way responsible for the way this thread has degenerated.>
Mr. Dreher said:
"Marty, if I do ultimately leave the Roman church."
You already have Mr. Dreher. Most Orthodox Catholics would know we are not in the Roman Church. This designation was created by Anti-Catholic bigots like Charles Chinniquy who wished to raise questions about Catholic's loyalty. If we are to subscribe to Mr. Dreher's POV, do we call his church Greek Orthodox, Russian Orthodox, Romanian or what?>
CMW and Curious, I hope ultimately you will decide not to ban yourselves. It's fun to point out the emperor has no clothes-- especially when pointing it out to the "emperor" himself (well, the emperor and his courtiers). Don't let the resultant squawking rattle you. We are on the side of truth, justice and the American way!>
Luke: I can't resist pointing out your ad hominem tactics. When you pulled the same stunt at the Pontifications blog, you got a nice resounding smack from the Pontificator. Would that he were here to administer another.
I don't care if you think Mr. Likoudis is the second coming of Beezlebub. If you had a shred of intellectual honesty, you'd engage his argument rather than maligning his person. Of course, it's a lot easier to do the latter...and it saves you the trouble of actually having to mount a credible defense for your position. Which you couldn't do anyway on a bet, so I suppose your recourse to cheap ad hominem is understandable. (As well as very telling.)
OK, now I really am outta here--LOL.>
Looking at how this thread has devolved, I would suggest that it is very clear why rapproachement between East and West is not coming anytime soon. One cannot mandate unity from the top down--"you can't legislate love," as my dad always used to tell me. Until we start acting like brothers and sisters in Christ regardless of whose bishops will commune who (something that is entirely out of the control of the layperson to begin with), nothing on which our bishops reach concord will make a whit of difference. (See also the Council of Florence.)
Rhetorical oneupsmanship is not the business of the Christian people. Loving each other is. A conversation focused on that point would be far more productive, and dare I say it, far more crunchy.
Richard>
Thank you, Richard Barrett.
Truly, the bulk of the comments above make this an execrable thread.>
Richard Barrett:
> I would suggest that it is very clear why rapproachement
> between East and West is not coming anytime soon.
You're probably right about that, but I don't think a few comments like the ones solicited by this blog post prove anything of that kind. Catholics are just as likely to jump on each others throats. It's just that Rod has an expert talent for pushing buttons and he's doing it with this extremely public "conversion". This blog post & ensuing comments merely represent the latest installment in that drama.
Dave Armstrong, a renowned convert and apologist, weighed in above with this question: "I'm just curious, why you are considering possibly leaving Catholicism for Orthodoxy? I'm assuming the reason must be more than the pleasantness of interesting social gathering with good food (not that you intended to leave such an impression!)." Mr. Armstrong is no internet troll and I echo his question. I wonder if I missed Rod's giving of his theological basis in another part of the blog, other than what he mentioned in the comments here: "I've always thought of 'the Church' as an institution that defines dogma and dispenses sacraments, and that's pretty much it." (emphasis mine) Obviously if "that's pretty much it" is his final answer, Catholics and Orthodox would do well to point out that both churches have much more fully-developed ecclesiologies.
I wish Rod would give some solid theological reasons for his move. I became Catholic in 1994 after studying the teachings of the church for several years. During that time, I hungrily read Peter Gillquist's "Becoming Orthodox" alongside many Catholic books. But he really didn't answer the question "why not Roman Catholic" to my satisfaction.
During that time, I also attended a Maronite Rite liturgy which I found to be very beautiful. I've also enjoyed the traditions and congregational singing of the Byzantine Rite Catholics. I don't know why these aren't good enough for Rod anymore. Is it the whole scandal thing? See, I don't get that; everyone knows Rod had nothing to do with bad priests or any scandals or coverups -- does he think it reflects personally on him more than on anyone else?>
In the late 197o's and early 1980's I often attended Russian Orthodox and other Othodox churches. Without wanting to give offense, I found that many considered their own national or local churches "more orthodox" than the others, even to the point of rejecting relatively ancient icons (not ancient enough for some) or corrupted or liberal-apostate, bishops and all, and on and on and on. Before long I was longing for a Pope and the Christ-given principle of unity which Orthodoxy simply could not obtain and so I returned to the Church of my batism, where problems and persecutions are not enough to make me even think of leaving.
For me, though I rejoice to consider the Orthodox churches our very intimate "Sister" churches, I would never want that shadow side of the Orthodox experience. And so "Orthodox, Catholic, Protestant, whatever..." is, as I see it, a sad ecclesiology.
I think time will make you want to return, at least in ecumenical longing.
SH>
Well, it's too bad this thread has gone downhill so badly. However, speaking as a Catholic, I don't think the use of the term "Roman
Catholic Church" is necessarily perjorative. I have often heard the term used to delineate between Latin Rite Catholics and those of the various Eastern Rites. It's true that some of my Episcopalian friends call it the "ROMAN catholic" church, big emphasis on Roman because they claim that the Anglican Church is part of the Catholic Church. And fundies often talk about "Romanism"
However, I have heard Catholics use the term Roman Catholic of themselves without perjoration. So I don't think you should go looking for offense where none is meant.
I read a good article in the American Conservative magazine recently (Amconmag is put out by Pat Buchanan and others of the "Old Right" who want to present a different point of view from the neocons). There is an article by an EO lady who describes herself as EO but an admirer of the Pope and the Catholic Church. She reports on some hopeful movement in rapprochment between our two Churches. Part of this is driven by the increasing secularism and godlessness of Western Europe. Unfortunately, too many Christians seem to be arguing about how to arrange the furniture while outside the house the whole neighborhood is burning down.
I certainly don't like to see people leave the Catholic Church because I believe that the fullness of Christian truth is there. However, if someone ceases to believe that the Papacy is a necessity for the Church, what should they do? People are always saying that people who don't believe in the Church's claims should leave. So if Rod doesn't believe anymore that ubi Petrus, ibi Ecclesia, what is he supposed to do? I mean, if he does leave, at least he's not joining some fundamentalist sect like lots of ex-Catholics. The Pope has described the Orthodox Church as a "sister Church" and there is no doubt in our minds of the validity of her sacraments and priesthood.
So what I am trying to say is I don't think all you well meaning Catholics who are trying to either argue Rod into staying in the Church or threatening him with eternal damnation, are accomplishing your intended ends.
I am not trying to be indifferentist about this whole thing. Rod, I wish you would choose an Eastern Rite Catholic Church if you are so enamored with all things Eastern. You get all that cool Eastern spirituality and communion with the Successor of Peter both. What's not to like about that???
However, the best I can do is pray that God will guide you and give you enlightenment. God bless.>
Oh, yeah, one more comment, glad to see Stephen Hand posting here. Sir, your website rocks and you have my utmost admiration. The rest of you folks, if you haven't checked out TCRnews, you need to do so!>
As one Orthodox hierarch put it, "fanaticism alone" exaggerates the "insignificant differences" between Catholicism and Orthodoxy.
Correct. Is that hierarch Bishop Hilarion (Alfeyev) of the Moscow Patriarchate?
Apparently, Rod, you have aligned yourself with the fanatics.
I disagree.
And BTW: The "Roman" church? I don't know any "Roman" church. We're the Catholic Church, thank you very much.
There is such a thing as 'the Roman Church', I think technically called 'the Latin Church'. At least until recently it had the Pope as its patriarch as well as its universal leader. The Eastern Catholics are Catholic but not Roman/Latin.
(Strictly speaking the Roman Church is the Diocese of Rome.)
James Likoudis is a nice man - we've corresponded - and does yeoman service for the Roman Rite but is biased against Orthodoxy and not an expert on it as far as I can tell.
Out of fairness I'll balance that by saying IMO Frederica Mathewes-Greene is a nice woman - we've met - but biased against and knows little about Western Catholicism.>
It is not that he is now Orthodox that bothers me. What bothers me is all the years pretending to be a loyal Catholic in Communion with the Holy See, when basically he believed the axiom "Mater Si! Magistra No!" Basically denying the teaching authority of the church. I can tolerate Maureen Dowd, Richard Mcbrien et. al. This is because they are straight about what they are and what they believe. Not so with Mr. Dreher. It comes across about as well as Walter Cronkite saying "I am a Liberal but my beliefs do not affect my objectivity." Who believes this? No one today just as no one should believe Mr. Dreher's platitudes.>
In the late 197o's and early 1980's I often attended Russian Orthodox and other Othodox churches. Without wanting to give offense, I found that many considered their own national or local churches "more orthodox" than the others,..
Imagine if you can, Stephen Hand, that in the early 20th Century, an atheist political power had overtaken Europe or Italy, had taken the Pope of Rome captive, murdered most of the clergy of the Roman patriarchate, and cut off all communication between the Pope and the Roman Catholic bishops in the United States. Imagine still further that the murdering atheist government in Europe or Italy had begun to go to the US courts and succeed in taking RC church properties from their congregations. Think about the magnitude of that situation for awhile, and how the RC bishops and churches in the US would have fared without their pope. Then talk to me about how messed up the Orthodox Church is in America. The RCC hasn't begun to drink from that cup.
And she is slowly but surely overcoming the martyrdom of the past 100 years. She is far along from where she was in the late 1970s.>
Embarrassing spelling mistake on my part: it is, of course, "rapprochement" not "rapproachment". It was an error for which I should get full reproach-ment.
Or something.
Apologies.
Richard>
I was collecting heirloom seeds from my winter garden all day and I missed the bulk of this.
Caedmon you said:
Yes, Madam: you are very much the shrew, but to your credit somewhat more manly than the wisps of men who blog on your blog.
Wisps of men? I blog at concrunchy.blogspot.com as cubeland mystic. I suspect you re your comment might have been directed at me since I have the ethereal handle and the unusual picture. Please consider that I fall more in the crunchy camp, and I blog there for the engaging thoughtful discussion. Although I am Roman Catholic, my picture is of an Orthodox hermit, out of respect for the Orthodox faith.
The contras have never treated me with disrespect. I blog on their subjects, and try to engage them from the crunchy point of view when applicable. The only other crunchy that blogs there is a gentlemen named Jeff, and only infrequently.
There is a lot of intellectual gravitas over there, which makes it a very challenging environment. If you feel you have what it takes perhaps you should join us? If the crunchies want to be taken seriously they should patiently address their critics every time, and in great detail since crunchies are the ones asking for the lifestyle change. Especially when they make bold statements that they can see things that matter more clearly.
They are not wisps of men , they are good men and women engaging what they see to be spurious challenges to their political beliefs. Kathleen is not a shrew she is a woman trying to live out her vocation in a difficult world. That is a dehumanizing, unchivalrous, and shameful thing to say about her, especially coming from, and it is difficult to say in light of this exchange, someone on our side.>
Good grief. I feel that I've started this nasty fight and I'm sorry for it. The issue, as I can see it, is whether the Orthodox Church is in schism from the Roman Church or vice versa. The answer will differ depending on which side you are on-a side which I assume/hope people have chosen because they are convinced of the truth claims of that particular ecclesial body. Mr.Dreher, it seems to me, is humble enough to do a lot of his struggling in public, and nastiness of any sort is not the proper response.
I was simply making the point that ultimately the Church one belongs to should be based on convictions about Truth. The sexual scandals and other sins can cause pain, but they cannot justify joining or leaving any church.
As to the Roman anger I see on this site, is it not possible that Mr. Dreher is simply coming to the conclusion that Orthodoxy is the faithful expression of the Church? Is it inconceivable that someone could come to that conclusion? Mr. Likuodis made that decision in the opposite direction-neither position is without reasonable defenses.
Mr. Dreher may remain Roman. If he does, I am sure that it will be because he thinks it is the truth. If he leaves, I think it will be for the same reason. People are responsible for seeking to find the Truth and then conforming themselves to it. While I am convinced there is a true Church and that Orthodoxy is it, I realize that others do not see it that way. God knows their hearts while I do not-He will judge us both. It is not Christian to insinuate that Mr. Dreher is some hideous person because he seems to be disenchanted with the Roman church-it may pass, or it may show itself to be an honest decision to go where he thinks the truth is to be found.
All I would say to the angry Romans is that your church admits the Orthodox churches are Churches. JPII spoke of the Church as breathing with two lungs. Those of us of a traditional ecclesiology would not say the Church is lacking a lung since we are convinced that Orthodoxy is the Church. The Roman Church senses a lack in its own experience-the issue will be whether reunion is one of sisters or the absorption of lesser bodies into a centralized papacy. I practiced at an Eastern Catholic Church, so I know what the answer to that usually is.
Ultimately, the issue is about where the Church is to be found. That was my original point. We can disagree about the answer, but we don't have to attack each other personally.>
"[I]s it not possible that Mr. Dreher is simply coming to the conclusion that Orthodoxy is the faithful expression of the Church? Is it inconceivable that someone could come to that conclusion?"
Photini, certainly not. But you are misreading any catholic anger to be found here -- at least mine. Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize one's conversion process so shamelessly? and all the while, implying that one's refined tastes and superior intellect are part and parcel of such a decision? People constantly refute this point with "Dreher said no such thing" -- perhaps not explicitly, but context is all. As a professional editor, Dreher should know this (IMHO he does know it, but that's another issue). And how do you explain Dreher's indulgence of outrageously rude Orthodox commenters, coupled with his lashing out at not-nearly-as-rude catholics?
that was a rhetorical question. I'm not particularly interested in an answer at this point. but you seem like a reasonable person, so I would urge you to reconsider the catholic input on this thread.>
I should like to make three points.
First, that some converts to Orthodoxy, especially evangelical ones, can be very anti-catholic. I think they bring this anti-catholicism with them when they enter the Church. In my experience, the average cradle Orthodox layman or priest is not "anti-catholic." I have not run across it in my Orthodox experience. New converts to Orthodoxy in chat rooms do not necesarily reflect Orthodox thinking.
What about the MP? I don't think he is anti-catholic, either. I think he has some very large disagreements with the Pope over the EC issue (and others). He may be wrong, but I don't see him as having a fundamentally anti-catholic mindset. I think he was very moved when the Pope returned the Kazan Icon back to its rightful owners.
Second, there are substantive issues between us. What Roman Catholic (I am not using this term perjoratively, for when I was young, I attended a Latin parish. The sign outside said "RCC" under the Saint's name) would say that Papal Infallibility is not a central issue? If I reject Papal Infallibility, does that make me a fanatic? No, I just don't agree with it. Neither do I consider a Roman Catholic arguing for it as a fanatic.
A fanatic is a person who is not being reasonable and uses non-edifying speech. He or she is arguing, not out of love and respect for the other person, but to try to win debating points.
Third, I personally don't think that reconciliation and communion is possible. Does anybody here really think that any Pope is going to drop Infallibility? Does anybody really think that the Orthodox are going to accept Infallibility? Unfortunately, there are other issues where the divide is rather deep.
I think what is very possible and desirable is co-operation between us on moral and societal issues, e.g. abortion, euthanasia, the sanctity of marriage, etc.>
Well, I haven't spent large amounts of time on this site, therefore I could have missed really rude Orthodox commentary. If so, then I would say the same thing-rude is rude and uncalled for. I'm not bothered by vigorous debate at all, but nastiness seems to be counterproductive. Mr. Dreher, I think, can struggle with his issues anywhere he wants. I don't know if he has a superior intellect. If taste is objective, and to a certain extent I think it is, he may or may not have superior tastes. You may of course take issue with him, but frankly I find you in particular extremely harsh. That sounds harsh in print, and I apologize. I doubt very seriously if Mr. Dreher would deny that intelligent and tasteful people can be Roman Catholics.
What I would say is this. I found many good and holy people in the Latin church. There is much in it that I still admire and agree with. However, I found the actual practice of Roman Catholicism in this country very far removed (in general) from the historic Christian faith. I found myself and other theological conservatives like myself hanging on to the idea of the Pope for dear life because the bishops, priests and parishes around us were so often dysfunctional to the point of heresy. This made my faith cerebral and abstract beyond a certain point because I could not practice a vigorous, theologically orthodox Catholicsm in the parishes I worked in. If you want to e-mail me privately I can explain further.
One of the reasons I became Roman is because there were no Orthodox churches in the town where I grew up. I may have been Orthodox from the beginning if there had been. Perhaps Mr. Dreher has always been more Orthodox than Roman, and is now finding that out. Perhaps not, and he will work out his issues with the Latin church and remain in communion with Rome. This is his blog, however, if I am not mistaken. He can work out his stuff in whatever manner he likes, and while it is right and just to challenge him if you disagree, to attack him personally is not OK. Examples would be questioning whether he was ever a faithful son of the Roman church or insinuating that he has already left the Roman church. Unless a person is his wife, his spiritual director or Mr. Dreher himself, I cannot imagine where they would think their remarks along this line were justified. I'm just sorry that remarks I made led Mr. Dreher to think he should opt off this thread because the tone got so nasty so fast.>
"Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize one's conversion process so shamelessly?"
It may not be "respectful" but it's certainly normal with these issues when one is considering conversion. The way I see it is that he's trying to sort things out. Most of us do that privately but he's doing it publically. The sorting out process isn't necessarily pretty but it's an honest and real thing, IMHO.
"and all the while, implying that one's refined tastes and superior intellect are part and parcel of such a decision? People constantly refute this point with "Dreher said no such thing" -- perhaps not explicitly, but context is all. As a professional editor, Dreher should know this (IMHO he does know it, but that's another issue)."
See, I don't get this one. Granted I don't read everything on this blog and didn't read his book, but I don't see where Rod Dreher is implying that he is better or smarter than Roman Catholics.
In contrast, we have some very explicit statements here questioning the sincerity of Mr. Dreher's conversion, his motives, his loyalty to the Catholic Church, etc. Which IMHO are completely inappropriate.>
"Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize one's conversion process so shamelessly?"
What Jennifer said. Roman converts do this all the time. It is a red herring.>
luke, I wouldn't know, but so what? then they are immature and disrespectful as well.>
Photini and Jennifer, the blog has a comments section and I felt compelled to use it. I will say that the only reason I'm on the blog is because Dreher wrote Crunchy Conservatives, and the habits of thinking Dreher exhibits in that book that are all too consistent with what I see, and have described to you, here. I'm sorry if you believe I'm extremely harsh, but Dreher makes me angry, so I guess the anger shows.
I should clarify: IMHO *Dreher believes* he has a superior intellect and superior tastes. I don't believe that either are superior to, say, mine, or those of many people I know.
Personally, I'm not interested in peoples' reasons for their religious orientation (unless I know them personally). Likewise I don't expect you to be interested in mine. Now it's my turn to sound harsh, but I don't see what your conversion story has to do with my problems with Rod Dreher.>
Luke wrote in response to Kathleen:
> "Do you think it is mature or respectful to publicize
> one's conversion process so shamelessly?" Roman
> converts do this all the time.
Luke, could you post some links as examples re: these Romans? I'd like to compare and contrast. Thanks in advance.>
"It may not be 'respectful' but it's certainly normal"
Jennifer, it may be normal, but so is thong underwear being sold in the little girl's clothing section. And if you agree that it's not respectful -- synonymous with "disrespectful" -- then I see no reason why catholics should pipe down.>
"I'm sorry if you believe I'm extremely harsh, but Dreher makes me angry, so I guess the anger shows. "
Obviously he makes you angry but why? I seriously don't get it. He's just a guy who wrote a book that 99% of people have never heard of.
"should clarify: IMHO *Dreher believes* he has a superior intellect and superior tastes. I don't believe that either are superior to, say, mine, or those of many people I know."
Let's be honest here, Dreher probably does believe that he has superior intellect/tastes than a lot of people. You probably believe that you have superior intellect/tastes than a lot of people. While we're being honest, I think I've got superior intellect/tastes to a lot of people too. (humility is not one of my virtues)
But what I don't see is the progression from his supposed belief that he's intellectually superior to many people to a belief that he's considering Orthodoxy because he's intellectually superior or in particular that he's intellectually superior to Roman Catholics.>
"Jennifer, it may be normal, but so is thong underwear being sold in the little girl's clothing section. And if you agree that it's not respectful -- synonymous with "disrespectful" -- then I see no reason why catholics should pipe down."
I don't think that you should "pipe down" but I think you should refrain from writing that he was never Catholic to begin with or that he's a narcicist, etc.>
Nothing really except to say that what appears (and please note I say appears) to be his struggle is the struggle of lots of people. As to anger, why be angry? It is a laudable thing to defend what you believe to be the Truth. You can think Mr. Dreher is tasteless, etc....but why be angry? It's not a personal attack on you is it? You think he is doing something wrong by considering conversion to Orthodoxy-OK. I would expect a faithful Roman to think that. You can say the Orthodox church is schismatic, as I said the Roman one is. That's not ugly-it's a theological opinion. However, all persons are due respect even if their opinions may not be, and in a written medium such as this it is difficult to keep it clear that ideas are being "attacked" rather than persons. There is plenty of sin in both the Eastern and Western churches. None of us need act as if the other has a monopoly on human shortcomings. I would really hope though that people who for the most part do not even know one another could keep a level of civil discourse without anger. If non-believers read this thread, they might rightly run in the opposite direction. I don't know your heart, Kathleen, and would not have the audacity to claim otherwise. It just seems to be that the sort of venom I see on this subject (and not just from you) does not add to constructive coversation. We can really think one another dead wrong on things of immense import and still be civil-no?>
Dave Armstong weighs in with some great comments on this thread. Hey, can't help it -- I'm a huge fan of Armstrong, he's one smart Roman.
Also, there's a 4th of July sale at Blockbuster.
So, Luke, how's that list of Romans who blogged their conversions coming along?>
"You can say the Orthodox church is schismatic, as I said the Roman one is. That's not ugly-it's a theological opinion."
You continue to misread me, Photini. I don't care that you think the Roman Catholic Church is schismatic. I really really really really don't care. just note this: THROUGHOUT Dreher's extended writing about his conversion I have seen zero purely theological discussion about Orthodoxy versus catholicism. None. instead it's all about Rod's personal experience with orthodox food, orthodox people, orthodox religious music, orthodox architecture, orthodox prelates, etc. versus the (implicitly) inferior experiences he has had with such catholicism. Rod would say he is making theological points by writing about such. In other words, Rod has the audacity to imply that his personal peccadilloes rise to the level of theology. That is what makes me angry.>
"So, Luke, how's that list of Romans who blogged their conversions coming along?"
I'm jump in with an example. I know for a fact that some Anglicans were not too thrilled with the Pontificator's blog. They didn't feel that he represented Anglicanism in a fair light. Some of them felt that he was disrespectful towards where he came from.
I doubt seriously that any Roman Catholic reading the Pontificator's blog had the same impression.>
"THROUGHOUT Dreher's extended writing about his conversion I have seen zero purely theological discussion about Orthodoxy versus catholicism. None. instead it's all about Rod's personal experience with orthodox food, orthodox people, orthodox religious music, orthodox architecture, orthodox prelates, etc. versus the (implicitly) inferior experiences he has had with such catholicism."
The way I see it is that he's going through the 'love' stage of the conversion process. Sure it can be annoying but it's a normal part of the conversion process.
Our decision to convert has to more than intellectual. There should be an emotional aspect of it as well as an intellectual aspect. In some ways, you are joining a family when you convert.
I would argue that these supposedly non-intellectual reasons for his 'enchantment' with Orthodoxy are in fact 'theological,' what we worship is what we believe and all that.
"In other words, Rod has the audacity to imply that his personal peccadilloes rise to the level of theology."
But the fact of the matter is that some tastes are superior. Some art and music is superior. See the link below for a talk by a great priest in Chicago about the cult of ugliness.
http://www.tfp.org/what_we_do/index/ugliness.htm
"Ugliness is not just a matter of personal taste nor is beauty in the eye of the beholder. Fr. Branken claims ugliness can be known objectively and has an effect upon souls since it takes man away from God.">
Jennifer, thanks, that's at least a start. I haven't read his blog much. If the other entries are like this current one then I appreciate his theological astuteness and clarity. If you could point me to a direct blog entry made before he formally converted but when he was considering Romanism, I'd be very interested in reading it. That would be a good "apples-to-apples" comparison with Rod's current posts.>
"If you could point me to a direct blog entry made before he formally converted but when he was considering Romanism, I'd be very interested in reading it. "
He converted a few years ago so I doubt those posts are still available. I vaguely remember the posts from about the time that he converted and never saw a problem with them. However, I was never Episcopal. I think it was the standard "there is no future in ECUSA" line. I agree with that so didn't think twice when I read it. But I know that some Anglicans found his 'rhetoric' to be very hurtful.
Other offensive RC convert rhetoric would include that guy (whose name escapes me at the moment) saying that to delve into history means to cease being Eastern Orthodox.>
Kathleen,
Forgive me for chiming in. But I don't see the need to be angry at Mr. Dreher.
He has not said that the RC is bad. He has said that his experience as a Catholic was (is?) positive. He has also not made the argument that his personal tastes arise to the level of "theology." I have not read his posts that way.
Now you may be upset that his positive Orthodox experiences imply that his Catholic experiences were not as good. I would feel the same way if the shoe were on the other foot. I would be upset and sad, but not angry. His experiences are what they are.
I have read many times about protestant converts to Rome talk about how they considered Orthodoxy but rejected it in the end, especially for what I would call poor reasons (e.g. ethnicity).
This upsets me, but does not make me angry at the person.>
OK. I am going to try very hard (no promises) to make this the last post I write on this thread. The level of conversation is not getting any more charitable. To the extent I am responsible, I apologize to any and all. I was not suggesting, Kathleen, that you cared or should care about whether I think the Roman church is in schism, and therefore was not, I think, misreading you. I was using that as an example as to how people might disagree strongly without lowering themselves to personal attacks. As to Mr. Dreher's personal likes/dislikes, whatevers: Those things can be theological if you think about it in a certain way. Take any shortcoming of any church body. You could ask whether there is anything in the theology of the church-it's ecclesiology, liturgics, whatever, that led to or helped the problem to grow. The answer may be yes, but not necessarily. If Mr. Dreher is going on a bit with what you think are merely personal tastes, then certainly you should say so. He doesn't owe us, however, any particular sort of response. He can say what he likes. You can say his ideas are bad if you like, and then he can choose to elaborate or leave it where it is. My point again, made very wearily, is that nothing, absolutely nothing he says or does not say on this blog gives anyone the right to impugn his person. It is a bad form of argumentation and a lack of Christian charity to do so. One can reasonably say to him, "I do not think you are giving theological reasons for your possible choice." Fine, but one does not need to suggest that he is doing something in bad faith. Neither does one need to suggest that he was never a good RC or whatever. I feel responsible for the mess of this thread. I had no intention of starting what has become a nasty argument. We should be doing fruitful dialogue with one another and Mr. Dreher. It is fair to say to him that if he is going to throw out the Orthodox/Catholic thing, then he can expect people to hammer away at it. What I was hoping for is that we need not hammer away at one another!>
Luke, could you post some links as examples re: these Romans? I'd like to compare and contrast. Thanks in advance.
Here's but one example - ">http://catholica.pontifications.net/?page_id=956>
"I feel responsible for the mess of this thread. "
Photini, don't feel guilty about this. This thread would likely have been the same without your original post. These people have been arguing with each a very long time.>
Brian, Rod exhibits a pattern. He is doing to the catholic church, and by extension fellow catholics, what he did to "mainstream conservatives" in his book Crunchy Conservatives. If you haven't read his book or his previous "crunchy con" blog on National Review then perhaps you are not as familiar with the pattern as I am. This blog is named after that book -- his way of thinking about religion and politics is of a piece, and IMHO is harmful to Rod himself. I feel compelled to point it out. He has zero interest in what I have to say, that has been amply illustrated. But I'm betting that life will have its way with him and he'll be forced to figure out he's building castles (OK, orthodox cathedrals) on sand. By saying this I'm manifestly not impugning Orthodoxy, i'm impugning Rod. Whether or not he converts is almost irrelevant. I have huge issues with the catholic church, but whether or not he converts barely matters to me.>
Jennifer:
> Other offensive RC convert rhetoric would include that
> guy (whose name escapes me at the moment) saying that
> to delve into history means to cease being Eastern
> Orthodox.
Sounds like a take-off on Cardinal Newman's original remark, "To immerse yourself in history is to cease to be Protestant."
Luke, thanks for your but one example. I looked up some of the comments to his post 914. Very "woody" theologically, to borrow from Monty Python yet again. I especially like his pointing out of the issues of lack of any positve sense of "westernness" and lack of any final court of appeal in regards to Orthodoxy. I can see Anglicans might be upset by a lot of what he said.
I have to say that although I've followed this thread very closely and made a few comments, I am not angry with Rod. I have been frustrated at times; as when on the other thread I said "poop or get off the pot." That might be slightly uncharitable, but fairly mild for a blog comment. I said it to another guy who was hesitating coming in to the Catholic Church and it worked. :)
No, but seriously I think you can make a case that the exuberant attitude of Kimel about his new found faith is similar to Rod's. However Kimel's presentation includes statements of the dilemmas and arguments pertinent to why he converted. Rod's presentations usually include comparisons of food and conviviality and even in the substantive comparisons like the handling of scandals very little proof is offered that the episodes being compared aren't strictly anecdotal.
Someone remarked earlier that the only reason certain of us are critiquing Rod's conversion is that we don't like the ideas in his book. I would suggest that we are critiquing both for the same reason: we find that Rod's judgment is often blurred by personal taste, his logic often makes impossible intuitive leaps based on selected anecdotes and qualitative research and his writing is often marred by vague insinuations and sucker punches at his scapegoat of the day. On some days it's the Pope, other days it's the "mainstream conservatives".
On this whole conversion issue which is primarily one of theology, his entire presentation is very "tinny", i.e., it rings hollow. I hear from him that an Archbishop lives simply like a Franciscan, I hear from him that prayers are offered in several languages at a dinner, I hear that the OCA handled a financial scandal barely covered by the media better than the RCC handled a sexual-abuse problem in Boston which was turned into a frenzy for the media and trial lawyers. It's as if he's ignoring/avoiding any theological issues rather than being like the typical "annoying convert" who is dying to debate everyone in earshot and engage them one the big theological issues, the "permanent things" if you will, to focus on the ephemeral.>
"I would argue that these supposedly non-intellectual reasons for his 'enchantment' with Orthodoxy are in fact 'theological,' what we worship is what we believe and all that. "
I don't discount that point, but often the enchantment inevitably cheapens the process. You can become infatuated with a religion, just like you can become infatuated with a rock band or a person. *One must guard against such infatuation, not celebrate it.* That's why the conversion process should remain private, and why mature people consider conversion privately.>
Luke, thanks for your but one example.
How many does it take to make an obvious point?
">http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0898704782/qid=1151964171/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/104-6963580-2109532?s=books&v=glance&n=283155>
"That's why the conversion process should remain private, and why mature people consider conversion privately."
I would argue that there is no such thing as a private conversion. Little "c" catholicism is by definition 'communitarian.'
As to your assertion that mature people consider their conversion privately, I would argue that's a matter of taste and personality. You're falling into what you accuse Dreher.
This is a cliche, but none the less it's true. Some of us live our lives very privately. Some of us don't. I don't think it's necessarily a matter of "maturity" but rather of disposition.
For that matter, there have been a number of very public conversions to Roman Catholicism chronicled on blogs, e.g. Alvin Kimmel. I watched him over the year or so when he was considering conversion and it was obvious where he was going but I don't know if it was as obvious to him as it was to me and other readers of the blog. It never occured to me that he was immature because his 'steps towards conversion' were so public. And I doubt seriously that any RC reader of his blog thought that Mr. Kimmel was "immature." On the other hand, I wouldn't be surprised if some of the ECUSA readers of the blog thought he was "immature" and wished he considered his conversion in private.>
Jennifer, so which is it? "there is no such thing as a private conversion" or it depends on one's "disposition"?
You said, "This is a cliche, but none the less it's true. Some of us live our lives very privately. Some of us don't. I don't think it's necessarily a matter of "maturity" but rather of disposition."
Well it's true that Pamela Anderson Lee and Paris Hilton live their lives publicly. But surely they're just as mature as I am, right? they just have different "dispositions". then again, iit's also a "cliche" that some of us are more mature and discreet than others.>
Let s not forget the entire Surprised by Truth series about conversions to the Roman Church.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0964261081/ref=pd_sim_b_3/102-7743943-3575325?%5Fencoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=283155
And apples to apples, Muggeridge s (an editor) public conversion to Catholicism.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malcolm_Muggeridge
There is also the Journey Home series on EWTN, a multi-year series dedicated solely to the conversion stories of those returning to Roman Catholicism.
http://ewtn.com/journeyhome/index.asp
Kathleen and Pauli, is this the type of thing you are talking about when you are critical of Rod s public kvetching about our faith, and then his subsequent flirtation with the Orthodox church? If so this is minor, perhaps consider ceding this trivial point. You have much more substantive criticisms to offer than this.
Rod,
Please allow me to offer a little advice. If this were my blog, and I had a consistent group of dissenters I would engage them every single time that they showed up. Do it in a consistent friendly manner and then welcome them back for more. Also I would engage them at their home field too (http://concrunchy.blogspot.com/). When you allow them to impugn your ideas without response they diminish them. Hence they are winning in my book. A rope-a-dope strategy works in sports, but is not effective in the world of ideas. After all it was you who gored their factory farm raised ox. These folks are not knotheads , they are smart and consistent, and that s why you cannot afford to ignore them any more.>
"Jennifer, so which is it? "there is no such thing as a private conversion" or it depends on one's "disposition"?"
It's both actually. There is no "private" conversion to Roman Catholicism or Orthodoxy. One is joining a community. Usually the conversion ceremony (baptism or confirmation/chrismation) take place in during the liturgy.
How public one is about their reason for converting is due to disposition. Some of us, as you say, lead our lives privately. Others need to talk to people about it.
Back when I was RC, I had a conversation with my then-priest about this exact topic. Conversion was a huge deal at this parish. I'm somewhat shy and don't like a lot of public attention. I told him that if I was converting I don't know if I would like everything to be so public. He reminded me that becoming Catholic is becoming part of a community. However, he makes an effort to know the disposition of the convert, to get a feel for what makes them uncomfortable. BTW, this is a solidly conservative priest who converts more people in his diocese than other priest.
"Well it's true that Pamela Anderson Lee and Paris Hilton live their lives publicly. But surely they're just as mature as I am, right?"
I know you know what I'm getting at here so I'll let this one alone.>
Kathleen,
You said: "By saying this I'm manifestly not impugning Orthodoxy, i'm impugning Rod."
You shouldn't be impugning anybody. Thats the point. :)
What human knows what is going through somebody else's mind, what struggles they are going through, what awful experiences they have had? This applies to Pamela Anderson and Paris Hilton.
That is why Christ said not to judge the person. We can judge what they say or what they do (regarding the moral law, not in regards to attending a pierogi eating contest) and label it correct or incorrect.
Some on this thread accuse Mr. Dreher of not engaging the issues "theologically." Well, perhaps his whole point is not a theological one. He is just reflecting on his experiences of a community.>
"What human knows what is going through somebody else's mind"
I know what's going through Rod's mind. he blogs about it almost every freaking day.>
Jennifer, I honestly have no earthly idea what you are talking about. I have never, in all my years of churchgoing, had a potential convert publicly discuss with the parish the whys and wherefores of why he or she may or may not convert. I also have never heard of such a thing in any parish anywhere. The only time when converts are publicly identified is at the actual conversion mass. That is a far cry from doing an "I may convert, I may not" dance on a public blog for months on end. If you can't see the difference then I can't help you.
one final thing: Maturity is not subjective. Perhaps you will find that out at a later date.>
"We can judge what they say or what they do ... and label it correct or incorrect."
PS Brian: that is exactly what I'm doing, and i make no apology for it. It appears you simply don't like it. sorry about that.>
doh! it appears I do "make an apology".>
"one final thing: Maturity is not subjective. Perhaps you will find that out at a later date."
You're right. It's not subjective and I think every reader of this thread can draw their own conclusions about who really has the problem here.>
"Kathleen and Pauli, is this the type of thing you are talking about when you are critical of Rod s public kvetching about our faith, and then his subsequent flirtation with the Orthodox church? "
No. a book about someone's conversion that has already taken place is different than what is going on here. Dreher states he has not yet converted. A public consideration of one's own possible conversion is what I have a problem with.
There is obviously no problem with catholics trying to get people to convert, as with the EWTN series. catholics owe that to potential converts.>
kathleen reilly, whence did this sublime principle come, that no one considering conversion may ever talk about it in public?
Sounds ludicrous to me. You say yourself that you "have huge issues with the Catholic Church" and therefore "whether or not he converts barely matters to me".
Yet you and a handful others shamelessly wave the "Catholic" banner in these comboxes, spouting half-remembered theological nonsense and insulting our Orthodox brothers in Christ. Well, speaking as a devout and (by the grace and mercy of God) permanent Catholic, NO THANKS FOR THE HELP!
Why are you so obsessed with Rod, his supposed sinister motives, his personality, the ways he talks about his religious experience or what foods he likes? If it doesn't float your boat, why do you bother reading it?
I think Rod would be making a serious mistake by leaving the Catholic Church. I believe the Petrine office is and always has been essential to the Church and that the Orthodox -- who have so much that is good, true and beautiful -- are undermined by the absence of St. Peter. But if I knew nothing about either the history or the theology and had to judge the matter only from the "Catholic" witness in these comboxes, I would certainly form a bias against Catholicism.
What, by the way, are your "huge" issues with the Catholic Church?>
Why are you so obsessed with Rod, his supposed sinister motives, his personality, the ways he talks about his religious experience or what foods he likes? If it doesn't float your boat, why do you bother reading it?
It s not an obsession in my view. Rod wrote a book about the influence of faith on politics. He created a category of conservatives that may or may not exist. The dissenters have some skin in conservative politics, and I suspect they see Rod's incursion as a weakening of the base. They are pointing out the inconsistencies of Rod's message. For example in this specific case Rod makes negative public statements about our faith as practicing Roman Catholic, and then talks publicly about his infatuation with Orthodoxy. (Disclaimer: I have the same infatuation and respect for Eastern Orthodoxy, but I will not convert.)
When the dissenters pursue Rod he does not engage them. Since he makes his statements publicly in a discussion forum they think that he should debate them on the issues. Hence they keep criticizing his ideas. Rod has the ability via his position in the media to influence thousands of people's decisions on faith and politics.
Here is where they are rightly concerned, Caleb Stegal. Right now the thought of a third party is laughable. However in a perfect storm scenario a power splitting third party scenario could occur in the near future. This would be a bad thing.
If Rod's book were called Crunchy Catholics you would have never heard of Pauli, Contra, Bubba and Kathleen or anyone else I forgot. If they were off point stragglers or whacko s you would have forgot about them by now. However, they have consistently and intelligently stated their cases against Rod's ideology for a long time now. The problem is Rod does not challenge them on this forum or their own contra crunchy site. By allowing them to drive the debate here unchallenged, he is weakening his own credibility in my view.
I propose the following challenge.
Rod should go out and get some of his high powered Crunchies (Stegall, Larison etc.) and the Contra's should get Goldberg and other dissenters. You have 10 crunchies vs. 10 contras. Create a blog with only the selected 20 participants. Come up with a list of 30 questions, and have a neutral party post them over the course of a month. I volunteer to be the neutral party.>
Kimel does do something I tried not to do during my conversion to Catholicism and that is that he brings up problems in his former church. I wanted to make sure that people didn't get confused about why I was leaving. I wanted them to know it was the whole package of "Romanism" that I was swallowing. Even so, some did recommend me going "Reformed Episcopal" kind of the cake-and-eat-it recommendation within my tradition. They were very much focused on the implied condemnation represented by a conversion.
I wanted all the arguments to be about Catholic dogmas, theology and practice and why I felt they were part of the ancient Christian faith. But relating these apologetic points was like steering those bumper cars at the amusement park; the other party would also plow into me with "what's wrong with our church?" I was actually better able to present their side of the theological argument than they were. This represented extremely annoying behavior on my part, but I think people would have been more annoyed if I'd said, "Yo, I'm not down with this whole theology bit, I just like statues, dudes with robes and beer and bingo with my Roman homies."
Another convert who's semi-well-known told me at the time "You know, after you convert, no Protestants are going to want to discuss any of this with you with few exceptions," and she was right. Other than the occasional "So, how's that new Pope working out for you guys?" no one really wants to jump into anything substantial. It's much easier for them to believe that what caused me to convert is some kind of personality disorder or matter of taste, style over substance.
This is probably in my experience the most humiliating thing about converting -- people you care about trying to ignore this aspect of your life. Sometimes you'll walk in the room and everyone will abruptly be silent and you'll wonder if it was "that weird thing you did." But all this is made up for because every once in a while someone, usually a less religious person, will get curious and ask, "Why did you convert again?" and you light up and get to explain in clear terms the substantive theological reasons why you did "that weird thing."
I'm not suggesting that every convert has to have a flair for apologetics or even a love of theology. A love of God would seem to lead one to a love of theology, but I wouldn't claim that to be a hard and fast maxim. Like I've said before, there might be another thread on this site where Rod discussed/is discussing/will discuss the substantive theological differences; that will shed more light on his conversion process.>
Pauli, I agree that Al Kimel takes a more negative view of his former communion than is typical of converts to Catholicism. Most converts to catholicism--either high-profile or obscure--have many positive things to say about their former confessions. Steve Ray, Mark Shea, Thomas Howard, Peter Kreeft, Greg Krehbiel, and many others extol the solid grounding in Basic Christianity they received from their evangelical backgrounds. They praise the evangelical zeal for souls, the love of Scripture, the emphasis on closeknit Christian community, and the many other virtues associated with their former communions.
In Fr. Kimel's defense, he is coming from a communion--TEC/ECUSA--that has become increasingly hard to take seriously. I know he appreciates its positive aspects (majestic liturgy, lovely church architecture), but I think he has become so overwhelmed by its negative aspects that he cannot help but testify to their deleterious influence. I believe he converted to Catholicism for essentially positive reasons; he would have preferred to convert to Orthodoxy, all things considered, but the Scriptural and patristic witness to Petrine jurisdictional primacy proved too mcuh for him. So, it was Peter that made the difference--IOW, theological and historical considerations. However, Fr. Al might never have considered the claims of Rome at all had not the ECUSA descended into "madness." In the wake of GC2006, who can blame him?
I believe it is entirely different for converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy. They are not coming from a church that has officially abandoned all commitment to biblical and patristic Christian faith. Rather, they are converting from the Church which most fully and consistently upholds the entire Christian Faith, whole and intect, via the threefold witness of Scripture, Tradition, and the living Magisterium. Thus, IMHO, whereas converts from ECUSA can perhaps be forgiven a certain negative attitude toward their former communion, converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy cannot. And, in my experience--my Internet experience, at least--converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy almost invariably become fiercely anti-Catholic. I have seen few exceptions--and, of those few exceptions, every single solitary one has ended up coming back to the Catholic Church. (One revert told me he had intended to remain an ecumenical, irenic Orthodox, free of anti-Catholic sentiment, but this was rather difficult to pull off in Bishop Tikhon's diocese.) Personally, I think the ex-Catholic Orthodox's hostility toward Catholicism--which is often extreme--reflects a certain "kicking against the goad." Some just go on kicking until they've whipped themselves into a froth of pure hate and fury. Others get tired of kicking and come back home to Rome.
I hope Rod will be one of the latter, but his unfair, slanted comparisons of Orthodoxy and Catholicism--always to the latter's disadvantage--do not give me much reason for hope.
Simon, BTW: I find your indignation selective indeed. You ignore the MUCH more inexcusable behavior of certain Orthodox on this forum--and of Rod himself for that matter--and single out the Catholics for censure. This is precisely the sort of double standard that IMHO does no service to either God or Truth. If Catholics' reasoned objections to Rod's misrepresentations supposedly give such bad witness, then what can be said of the ad hominem rants of Caedmon, Luke, and co.? Why do the Orthodox get a free pass? Can you say "double standard"?>
"Yet you and a handful others shamelessly wave the "Catholic" banner in these comboxes, spouting half-remembered theological nonsense and insulting our Orthodox brothers in Christ."
Simon, that's nonsense. I've done nothing of the kind. and if others did, that is because they see their religion being gratuitously maligned by an attention-seeker. They are hurt and insulted, and I can't say I blame them. Let us remember, too, that some orthodox on this site have not been great examples of intelligence and charity.
my huge issues with the catholic church are irrelevant to the discussion, and certainly not your concern.>
Kathleen,
You said: "PS Brian: that is exactly what I'm doing, and i make no apology for it. It appears you simply don't like it. sorry about that."
First, forgive me for saying that is not what you are doing. I was talking about the ligitimacy of criticizing Mr. Dreher's comments, not Mr. Dreher himself, which is what you did.
I don't see much to criticise in relating a positive experience of attending another church's celebration, other than to comment that he is not attending Mass.
Second, its not a matter of me liking what you say or not. I do not want to patronize you, so forgive me if you think that is what I am doing. I have said before that I fully understand your concern and your being upset.
All I am saying is that it is not spiritually healthy to condemn the person.
Pax.>
Dear Pauli,
You said: "Like I've said before, there might be another thread on this site where Rod discussed/is discussing/will discuss the substantive theological differences; that will shed more light on his conversion process."
Don't you think that after hundreds of years, we all know the differences between us? Anybody studying the issue knows or should know the pro's and con's of each position. I daresay that most western converts to Orthodoxy had at one time or another studied the issue.
I did myself. I think the arguments for the Orthodox position are compelling, but many such as Simon in his post above have come to a different conclusion.
Again, I don't think Mr. Dreher is angling to start a theological discussion on the differences between Orthodoxy and the Latin church. There are many forums on the net for that. I think he is just relating his present experiences.>
maria said: If Catholics' reasoned objections to Rod's misrepresentations supposedly give such bad witness, then what can be said of the ad hominem rants of Caedmon, Luke, and co.? Why do the Orthodox get a free pass?
1. We all need to distinguish better between reasoned argument and bigotry. If I state my opinion that the Orthodox misread history with regard to the Petrine office or the pentarchy of partriarchates in late antiquity, I am not "anti-Orthodox." If I express gratitude for the fact that as a Western Christian I have the opportunity to attend Holy Mass and receive Our Lord in the most holy Eucharist every single day, I am not being "anti-Orthodox."
Conversely, if an Orthodox Christian points to historical evidence in favor of his Church and against mine, he is not being "anti-Catholic." Likewise, if he points out the merits of some particular Eastern Christian devotion or practice that in his opinion has been unfortunately neglected in the Catholic Church, he is not "anti-Catholic".
It's when we start the ad hominems, or when we make sweeping generalizations about problems that are supposedly endemic to each other's communions, that we go off the rails. To that end, I think your comments about the supposed ill-will of "Internet Orthodox" are way over the top.
2. I am not Orthodox, so my personal concern is that my fellow Catholics in this, er, "debate" uphold the law of charity.>
kathleen reially said: my huge issues with the catholic church are irrelevant to the discussion, and certainly not your concern.
Well, you're the one who brought up your "huge issues" in the first place.
Bottom line: Catholic-Orthodox food fights are not edifying and seem to bring out the worst aspects of both communions (not surprisingly, perhaps, since the only one who revels in Christian disunity is Satan).>
Good grief, Simon. Have you read this thread? I am not referring to Orthodox arguments contra the papacy; I would consider such arguments typical grist for the blog-combox mill and a welcome change from insulting ad hominems!
No. I am referring to Caedmon's rants about "a gaggle of shrews" and Rod's rants that all Catholics who dare to disagree with him are "knotheads" and "loudmouthed malcontents."
Such comments go way, way beyond the pale and have no place in a forum like this one.
Surely you would agree...?>
"I believe it is entirely different for converts from Catholicism to Orthodoxy. They are not coming from a church that has officially abandoned all commitment to biblical and patristic Christian faith. Rather, they are converting from the Church which most fully and consistently upholds the entire Christian Faith, whole and intect, via the threefold witness of Scripture, Tradition, and the living Magisterium. "
Anybody who reads the canons and teachings of the first thousand years would see this as totally and absurdly untrue. It was forbidden to change the Nicene-Constantinopolitan Creed outside of another council without being anathamatized (the canons of those two councils themselves stated this), yet it was done unilaterally by the west. It was forbidden to 'add or take anything away' from the faith (even the early popes of Rome stated this), yet, obviously a lot of doctrinal as well as serious changes in tradition have occured in the west. The Tradition that used to bind the Latin Church to the Greek Church, no longer is very evident in the west at all.
And for those who believe Rod is 'leaving the Church', this isn't even the teaching of the Magisterium of Rome. As a Roman Catholic, you certainly could say this for someone leaving for Protestantism. But it does reveal a strong prejudice and misunderstanding of your own Church's teachings if you say this for someone leaving for the Orthodox Faith. You need to read your own Church's official stance on this.
The only thing anyone here has pointed out as 'lacking' in the Orthodox Faith, is its 'obedience' to the pope of Rome. But no one here, has offered strong evidence that the Orthodox Church ever held such an absolute obedience when the two churches were one. And they cannot prove this through the ancient canons which, though giving the title of 'first among equals' to the pope, actually limits the jurisdiction of Rome to her own geographical territory. And it was just this last year, that the Pope, officially dropped his title as patriarch of the west, the one part of his current title that had existed at the time when the east and west were united (the rest of his titles came in after the schism and cannot be recognized by the east). And they cannot prove papal supremacy/infallibility through historical church life. They can prooftext (like the Protestants do with the Bible), instances where it may appear that way. But these proof texts do not reconcile the actual canons or the greater body of patristic evidence that points in a different direction. Overwhelmingly, the early Church believed that the Pope was the first among equals. But the Church as a whole, did not believe the pope as infallible. The fact that two popes were anathamatized for heresy in two Ecumenical councils makes it impossible for the Orthodox to accept such a novel teaching (made official in the 18th century), at all. And the pope never had supreme jurisdiction over the Church. He did not call any of the Great Ecumenical Councils. He didn't even attend any of them. And I believe there were some cases where he didn't even send any deligates there. He, like the rest of the Patriarchs, had to sign and agree to them before they could be considered universal. But he did not have the authority to impose them on the rest of the Church. The Church had to come to agreement, through the power of the Holy Spirit, together.>
Simon,
I fully agree with your post. Hearm hear!!>
That is, hear, hear! :)>
"Rod's rants that all Catholics who dare to disagree with him are "knotheads" and "loudmouthed malcontents.""
Where did he write that "all Catholics" who disagree with him were knotheads or loudmouthed malcontents? I agree that you wrote that about you and your friends but "all Catholics who dare to disagree with him..." Come on now, Diane.
If you can't find the exact passage, then please apologize to Mr. Dreher for slandering him.
Thank you>
Brian said: Don't you think that after hundreds of years, we all know the differences between us? Anybody studying the issue knows or should know the pro's and con's of each position.
With this I have to disagree. Yes, we know the almost formulaic arguments on both sides about the filioque, papal supremacy, development of doctrine, etc.
But the real East-West problem is the failure to talk with each other charitably, along with the pride that leads people on each side to think, "every visible aspect of our Church is perfect and complete, so anything those [Greeks/Franks] do differently must be the result of their total misunderstanding of [fill in a core Christian doctrine]".
For all the polemics about the 9th century filioque controversy, the "schism" that supposedly happened in 1054, and the very real cultural hostility and theological misunderstanding between the two sides, the fact remains that both Latin and Byzantine Christians in the middle ages took it for granted that they were all part of the One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church.
Political events -- the fall of Constantinople and the Polish-Russian wars -- convinced Christians on both sides that their legitimate, age-old doctrinal and liturgical differences were fundamentally Church-dividing issues. The Muslim Caliph appointed the Orthodox patriarchs, and for obvious reasons chose hierarchs noted for their anti-Western views. The Tsars developed their absurd "Third Rome" theory. Likewise, Western Christians showed little charity toward their Eastern brethren, trying to achieve reunion by force where possible and doing nothing for the Greeks under Islamic rule. Moreover, the West until very recently viewed Orthodoxy the way most of us still (wrongly) view the Armenians, Copts, etc. -- as some kind of quaint relic from antiquity, with no real significance in the contemporary Christian world.
There was no "Here I stand" moment between Catholicism and Orthodoxy, no Council of Chalcedon that either side rejected. There are enormous differences between us, which I'm not trying to minimize. But because both sides first came to see those real differences as fundamental Church-dividing issues as a result of unrelated political, cultural or military developments, there is room now for fruitful dialogue. There also remains hope -- utopian though it may seem -- for the restoration of full communion.>
Jennifer, he has said worse than this, as you well know. Check out the "Heat" thread as well as this one. I am sure you can find the relevant quotes.
And no, I am not going to apologize to Rod for the fact that he has repeatedly, unprofessionally, and unChristianly insulted me and my fellow Catholics. (Insert Rolleyes emoticon here.)>
"Jennifer, he has said worse than this, as you well know. Check out the "Heat" thread as well as this one. I am sure you can find the relevant quotes."
Sorry Diane, but I don't see "relevant quotes" saying that all Catholics who disagree with him were loudmouths, etc. What he wrote was that a group of Catholics, including yourself, were loudmouths, etc. That is NOT the same thing as "all Catholics who disagree with him." Presumably there are tens of millions of Catholics who disagree with him about something or the other.
"And no, I am not going to apologize to Rod for the fact that he has repeatedly, unprofessionally, and unChristianly insulted me and my fellow Catholics."
I think he's insulted you and some of your friends but you and your friends are not the same thing as all Catholics.
BTW, another apology you need to make is to Jeff for calling him a "jerk" then a "cad" and for lying about him, e.g. writing that he believed ordinary Catholic parishes were beneath contempt. Unless of course you can come up with the relevant quote from Jeff saying this. (which of course you can't because once again you were exaggerating out of hurt and anger)>
Simon,
Thank you for your thoughtful comments.
However, I must disagree that the estrangement is due to "not listening" to each other or "pride."
There are very legitimate differences. These differences have not been helped by the political/social issues you mention, but they are legitimate none the less.
I have had the priviledge of listening to Metropolitan MAXIMOS of Pittsburgh, who was one of the major contributors to the recent statement on the filioque issue by the North American Orthodox/Catholic Theological Consultation. He shared with our class the proposals of that statement before the final document was released. He said quite specifically that there IS a difference (on the filioque) and we should recognize it and go from there.
I would encourage any Catholic or Orthodox to read it. The address is:
http://www.usccb.org/seia/filoque.shtml
IMHO the schism could have been overcome by now IF the theological situation was similar to that of the 12th Century. But it is not. From the Orthodox POV, Rome has added doctrines such as infallibility (something not even mentioned by RC theologians when the schism occurred).
After Vatican I, it is now very difficult to come to a common understanding. Papal Supremacy is one thing, Papal infallibility as a doctrine is quite another.
As I said in the previous post, does any Catholic think that Papal Infallibility is negotiable? Does anybody seriously think that the Orthodox would accept that?
From my POV, both Vatican I and II were not good councils for the latin church. One set the bar way too high, the other set it too low, and now they are reaping the whirlwind.
Sorry if my comments offend you or anyone else on this site.>
If you don't see 'em, Jennifer, you're not looking very hard.
Now go away and harass someone else, please, as I have repeatedly asked you to do on at least three fora.>
"If you don't see 'em, Jennifer, you're not looking very hard."
If they are so easy to find why you don't quote them here?
"Now go away and harass someone else, please, as I have repeatedly asked you to do on at least three fora."
Sorry, Diane, but I just want clarification.
If you're going to make accusations you should be able to back them up.>
"As I said in the previous post, does any Catholic think that Papal Infallibility is negotiable?"
Brian,
One could assume that Rome has already implicitly stated that papal infallibility is negotiable with the Balamand statement. If papal infallibility were indeed a dogma of the faith, the Church would not stop trying to convert ethnic Orthodox to Catholicism.>
"One could assume" that, and one would be wrong.
VCI is non-negotiable. The Church does not repeal the solemn decrees of ecumenical councils.>
" "One could assume" that, and one would be wrong.
VCI is non-negotiable. The Church does not repeal the solemn decrees of ecumenical councils."
And Diane, err Maria, comes to the rescue of the RCC.
If VCI is "non-negotiable" then why doesn't Rome seek the conversion of born Orthodox?>
Jennifer: There are delicate political reasons for this. (And BTW, Rome doesn't target any one group for conversion; that doesn't mean Rome has ceased to believe that she is the one True Church which all are bound to belong to. Please see Dominus Iesus and the Catechism. Also Lumen Gentium and the VCII Decree on Ecumenism. They, not the Bamamand Statement, are the authoritative, official sources for Catholic ecclesiology.
And BTW--I notice above that you are once again practicing spiritual direction without a license. As I said before, please practice it on someone else for a change. Like, maybe, on your friend Caedmon / Nevski, who has called women on this thread "shrews" and told them to "suck eggs." Of course, your double standard blinds you to this sort of viciousness---but then, how can I take you seriously as my would-be spiritual director when you exhibit such selective indignation? ;)>
"And BTW--I notice above that you are once again practicing spiritual direction without a license."
One doesn't need a license to practice spiritual direction, Diane, and one doesn't need any kind of professional training to "diagnose" you.
"Like, maybe, on your friend Caedmon / Nevski, who has called women on this thread "shrews" and told them to "suck eggs." "
Again with the significant misinterpretations of what others write. Nevski didn't all "women" "shrews." He called Kathleen and you, I believe, shrews. He then told Kathleen to "suck eggs." A bit rude and crude but not offensive to all women because most of us don't behave like she does.>
Jennifer, did I say he called *all* women "shrews"? Stop putting words in my mouth, dear.
You forfeited your credibility a long, long time ago.
Bye-bye!>
"Bye-bye!"
How many times have you said that to me, Diane? But yet you always come back.
And yeah, I did put words in your mouth here. Usually you ignore the challenges to your gross exagerations, e.g. writing that Jeff wrote that all ordinary parishes were beneath contempt. I assume you ignore them because you'll never admit making a mistake, e.g. ignoring YF "stupid posts" about the schismatics at Medjugorje. I apologize.
Now where's that apology for Jeff or for Dreher?>
Bye-bye, Jennifer.
Find someone else to harass.
And for the 80 thousandth time, honey, you are NOT my spiritual director. Stop telling me what to do. Go. harass. someone. else.>
"Find someone else to harass."
So I take it this means that you couldn't any posts where Jeff wrote that all ordinary parishes were beneath contempt or that Rod wrote that all Catholics who disagreed with him were "loudmouths?" Since you are conceding that you exaggerated, I assume that they should be expecting an apology?>
criminy, get a life Jennifer.>
PS: no apologies from me are forthcoming, so don't go expecting one.>
LOL, Kathleen. You ain't kiddin'.>
"criminy, get a life Jennifer."
Taken from the person who has an "I hate Rod Dreher" blog. LOL
"PS: no apologies from me are forthcoming, so don't go expecting one."
I wasn't expecting one from you. Apologizing doesn't appear to be your style. But Diane, I think has a conscience.>
Come on, every one, please let's be civil. As Gandhi said, if we adopt the "eye for an eye" scenario we will all end up blind. :)
Jennifer, I don't believe Balamand opens "Papal Infallibility" to negotiation. Many Orthodox, as you know, don't like Balalmand, either. The same goes for RC traditionalists.>
Maria,
Unfortunately, the history of the so-called "Uniate" movement was precisely to target the conversion of the Orthodox. Thank heaven that the Vatican has recently and officially renounced this odious practice, though one wonders if this still occurs on the local level.>
"Jennifer, I don't believe Balamand opens "Papal Infallibility" to negotiation. Many Orthodox, as you know, don't like Balalmand, either. The same goes for RC traditionalists."
I agree, however, IMHO, it does indicate a 'shift' in RC thinking about the papacy.
I'm aware that some RC trads hate the Balamand Agreement. I believe there are groups in Eastern Europe, affiliated with the SSPX, that consider it to be a betrayal.>
Brian: As for "odious" practices, I think there have been quite enough of those on both sides, frankly. Under the Soviet regime, countless Ukrainian Catholics were forced to convert to Orthodoxy, and the Orthodox Church gleefully confiscated their centuries-old churches. As soon as the Ukraine regained its freedom--thanks largely to Pope John Paul II & Ronald Reagan :)--many Ukrainians who'd been forced to become Orthodox promptly switched back to Catholicism. They couldn't revert fast enough. Yet the Orthodox Church has yet to give them back their churches.
Meanwhile, in Holy Russia, Catholics and Protestants alike are being persecuted--sometimes violently (Protestant churches burned down and that kinda thing)--while both Putin and Aleksi do precisely nothing about it.
Things are tough all over.>
Jennifer: Please, ixnay with the divide-and-conquer stuff. God has not granted you special insight into Kathleen's soul. OK?
You know, when you're not insulting people, you have some really good things to say. I thought your posts about modernity over at Crowhill were very insightful.>
Brian: Your post above in response to mine is much appreciated and certainly not offensive. I agree that the differences between Orthodoxy and Catholicism are real, legitimate and significant. My point is simply that the obstacle to the two sides even beginning to talk through those differences has until recently been the cultural and historical baggage both sides carry. That is why there is room for hope.
Look: in the past decade or two, both the RCC and the OC have reached substantial agreement on Christology with the Oriental Orthodox -- and who would have thought that possible after Chalcedon and the 15 centuries of bitterness that followed? The OC/Oriental Orthodox agreed statement in the 90s even called for the lifting of all anathemas and restoration of full communion between the two Churches, though this has not happened. There is always a place for hope.>
Dear Maria,
Yes, I quite agree with the thrust of your statement. Bishop KALLISTOS said basically the same thing you said about the way the communists forced the EC's into Orthodoxy in his book, "The Orthodox Church."
However, I wouldn't say the Orthodox "gleefully" did anything. At the height of the purges under Stalin, there were only two functioning bishops in the Soviet Union. The rest had been tortured and shot. During the height of "Holy Mother Russia" when the Orthodox Czars reigned supreme, they never forced the EC's back into the Orthodox Church. It was the communists who came up with this idea because they looked with dread upon the Papacy.
The Orthodox were doing what they were told, which is certainly no excuse, but I don't think "gleeful" would describe anything they did during those times.
Also, many churches have been restored to the EC's, which is a good thing. However, some have also been confiscated by the EC's. Hence the tension between the Vatican and the MP.
I also agree with you regarding religious persecution. Not to excuse Russian behavior, but you must remember that there has never really been religious freedom in Russia until now. There was not complete religious freedom in the US until 80 years AFTER the Consitution was ratified. The first amendment was thought to apply ONLY to the Federal Government. The Congrgational Church was the established Church in Massachusetts until before the Civil War. Hence Thoreau's civil disobedience...he did not want to pay the church tax.
Moreover, both the EC's and Orthodox are dismayed by the activity of evangelical groups and cults. The so-called "registration process" does not apply to any established religious groups, only to new ones. The established groups would include the ECs, the Jews, the Muslims, the Buddhists, and some existing protestant groups like the Baptists.
I don't condone this at all. I am just trying to put it into context.>
Unfortunately, the history of the so-called "Uniate" movement was precisely to target the conversion of the Orthodox. Thank heaven that the Vatican has recently and officially renounced this odious practice, though one wonders if this still occurs on the local level.
Brian, I honestly find it a bit baffling how so many Orthodox (especially Russians) can take umbrage at Catholic proselytizing in historically Orthodox lands while doing exactly the same thing in historically Catholic lands.
For example, Rod Dreher's friend the OCA Archbishop of Dallas and the South apparently evangelizes actively in Mexico! Fine with me. But if that is okay with the Orthodox, then why is it wrong for Catholic priests to evangelize in Moscow among the unchurched whose great-grandparents were probably Orthodox?>
Simon,
Yes, there is always hope.
I had as a professor, Fr. Michel Najim, who served on those commissions with the Oriental Orthodox. He was hopeful. :)
However, he also served on the previous RC/Orthodox International Diologue Commission meeting in Emmitsburg, MD (?) which broke up over the EC controversy. He was not so hopeful. :(>
Simon,
You ask a good question.
The Orthodox only established diocese in Western Europe to tend to those Orthodox faithful who had moved there. They basically retained their own native culture and language. They never actively proselytized anybody in Western Europe. As a matter of fact, up until recently it was not easy for a non-Orthodox to convert.
The Orthodox by any stretch of the imagination are not what I would classify as an intensely "missionary" church- to its discredit.
Also, you should make a distinction between proselytizing in canonical territories that were established prior to the schism, such as Russia and most of eastern Europe AND proselytizing in America. There are no canons stating who has jurisdiction in America.
If the Vatican wants to re-establish and re-unite with the historically Orthodox sees, then it would not be prudent for them to actively engage in missionary activity at the same time. That is why they are not doing it, officially at any rate.>
"The Orthodox by any stretch of the imagination are not what I would classify as an intensely "missionary" church- to its discredit"
I submit that this is a fairly ignorant statement. See the Orthodox missions today in Africa which are reaping great fruits, and the missions in Alaska, Kamchatka and Siberia, China, Japan, Indonesia, and others. They even have a mission today to Jews in Jerusalem. The Antiochians especially in this country have brought many Protestants into the Church, and there is some effort within the OCA to begin reaching out to African-Americans.>
Justin,
I am Orthoox myself, I don't think its ignorant at all. I think it reflects facts.
I did not say the Orthodox have no missionary activity. If you will carefully read my post, I said that it has not been known as an "intensely" missionary Church.
For example, the CMA is about the same size as the Orthodox Church in America (all jurisdictions), yet it supports and sends out many, many more missionaries. The last time I checked, it was by a factor of 20.>
Brian or Simon
Two questions:
Do both churches consider each other's members heretics?
Is there an Eastern Orthodox equivalent for say the Carmelites?
These are serious questions I have. If you don't mind answering them please contact me at my site via email. I have no intentions of arguing with you, I am truly curious.>
quote, "Christ is risen! Glorify him!"
Er, um, er - Rod, you'll need to learn the greetings better if you become Orthodox :)
Easter is "Christ is risen! Indeed He is risen!"
Christmas is "Christ is born! Glorify Him!"
Just call me Knothead...>
John,
This is a complicated question. In the past, both sides have hurled accusations of schism at each other. Some Orthodox consider the filioque and Papal Infallibility as heresy, while others see it as a very flawed doctrine. There is a continuum.
As far as I know, the Synodikon does not list the filioque or PI as heretical, but when we receive converts from the RC the rite requires that they renounce the filioque, though in practice this is not usually done.
Nowadays, I would say that the RC's have (officially) a much more tolerant attitude towards the Orthodox than vice-versa. RC's will allow their faithful to participate in some Orthodox sacraments under certain circumstances and allow us to partake of their Eucharist. The Orthodox do not allow this either way.
Orthodoxy does not have "orders" as such. We have monks and nuns which follow the rules laid down by St. Basil and others. We don't have "secular" orders like teaching nuns and brothers. Our nuns and monks are in a monastery.
Hope this helps. Others can chime in.>
John,
I think Brian answered your question well. I would just add that Catholics in general have never regarded the Orthodox as heretics. In recent centuries, it was common for Catholics to use the term "schismatic" to refer to the Orthodox, meaning they had made a juridical break with Rome despite maintaining the true faith and valid sacraments of the Church.
As part of the Catholic Church's deepening self-understanding brought about by the Second Vatican Council, we now regard both the Orthodox and the Oriental Orthodox (Armenians, Syriacs, Copts, Ethiopians, etc.) as sister churches with whom we are unfortunately not yet in full communion.
Eastern Christians (both Orthodox and Oriental Orthodox) may receive the Catholic sacraments if they ask for them of their own free will and if it is pastorally advisable. Catholics who can not get to a Catholic Church (e.g., if they are in Russia, Greece, Armenia, etc.) may fulfill the Church's precept to attend Sunday Mass by participating in the Divine Liturgy at an Orthodox or Oriental Orthodox Church. In case of grave necessity, they may receive the sacraments in these Eastern Churches if permitted to do so. There are specific, mutual arrangements for intercommunion at wedding ceremonies in the case of mixed marriages between Catholics and certain of the Oriental Orthodox churches.>
As an Orthodox Christian who loves the Catholic church to which my parents belong (I was raised "nothing" - they redeiscovered their faith) I think the negative respose to this post is completely without measure.
Not getting it.....
Justyn>
And I obviously have a nursling on my lap - forgive the typos and miss spells....
justyn>
Diane writes: VCI is non-negotiable. The Church does not repeal the solemn decrees of ecumenical councils.
As long as in Roman Catholicism an individual stands as the locus of Tradition ("I am Tradition"), all decrees will be negotiable.
How does the Roman church repeal the decree of the Council of Constance, which rules that a council is of a higher authority than a pope? By the word of a pope! And so it goes.>
Brian,
As you may or may not know, Orthodoxy does have a different theology of missions from what we understand in traditional American churches. A book by a priest who serves in Alaska is enlightening in that theology.
">http://www.svspress.com/product_info.php?products_id=200>
Thanks guys. I appreciate all your replies. I am looking for books/articles on Eastern Orthodox Mysticism. If you know some please post here or contact me through my site. Thanks again.>
Luke and others,
As I said before, I never stated that the Orthodox Church does not have missions. However, what I am stating that in the past it has not been very missionary minded. By the past I mean the last 100 years or so for the Russian Church and more for the others.
The reason for this is that under Islamic domination the Church could not do missionary work. The same went for the Russians under Communism.
As far as the Orthodox immigrants in the west (the so-called "diaspora") are concerned, the missionary activity has picked up of late. But organizations like the OCMC are not that old.
Also, I would ask you to honestly look at most Orthodox parishes and tell me how they are doing local missions. Sadly, many are not. Many Orthodox recognize this situation.
I am Orthodox, but I must relate what I see. Things are getting better and I am sure it will continue.>
Also, I would ask you to honestly look at most Orthodox parishes and tell me how they are doing local missions. Sadly, many are not. Many Orthodox recognize this situation.
Your point is taken. Overall, the witness of local churches is really the more pertinent, in my opinion. Sending foreign missionaries is not nearly the "white field" that it once was because most countries have established churches. Orthodox foreign mission is primarily one of supporting the local churches in a given place.
But the ethnically insular parishes are, in many cases, as you say. These parishes will eventually grow old and die. However, for each of those you can likely find a new mission parish springing up where there is a need.>
JohnT,
I couldn't find a button to contact you on your blog. I'd be happy to give you the titles of some books if you'd like. email me at jbosl at yahoo dot com.>
dropping in late in the conversation. i just wanted to state that there is not a man on earth i love so much, yet know so little than our dear Archbishop Dmitri. i'm glad you got to spend some time with him. He is a wonderful bishop. God grant him many years!>
"Kathleen is not a shrew she is a woman trying to live out her vocation in a difficult world."
Yes, that is very much in evidence from how she apparently lives out that "vocation" over on that blog and in the comments boxes here.
"That is a dehumanizing, unchivalrous, and shameful thing to say about her, especially coming from, and it is difficult to say in light of this exchange, someone on 'our' side."
Just returning fire, sir. If she truly wants to be treated in a chivalric manner, then she should start behaving like a lady.
I need another discussion forum like I need a hole in the head, by the way, but thanks for the invitation nonetheless.>
The response above was to JohnT, by the way.
And Rod, something tells me you're tolerating all these frenzied attacks by Roman Catholics in the comments boxes for a very good reason. (Wink-wink!)
Adieu to all.>
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