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Friday September 22, 2006

A Jewish reader -- I point that out only to indicate that this conservative sensibility I keep talking about is by no means limited to Christians -- who is the father of a small child writes:I share your sentiments 100...
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Franklin Evans
September 22, 2006 9:38 PM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Quoting the reader Rod quoted:

The thing that gets me the maddest is every time I read of some person or group who tries to carve out a little island of moral normalcy for themselves.

I'd like to see this defined, please. Either give me the general case of what a "little island of moral normalcy" is supposed to be, or cite actual reports of actual cases where actual communities made an attempt to do something that came under fire, even if only in published form, from the ACLU or any similar organization.

See, I find this complaint very familiar. It is often (not always) accompanied by "and we used to have it better in the old days, when so-and-sos kept out of our town/neighborhood." Do I need to describe that further, or give it the appropriate labels?

As for the media invasion of our homes, I have little sympathy for those who are too weak to break their addiction to network television. When I tape a show I want to save or watch again later, I edit out the commercials, or if the taping is done in my absence, I fast-forward through them. If I like a movie, I'll rent it or buy it, on VHS and now on DVD. I own quite a bit of TV on DVD or tape. It's amazing how some shows are better than I remember them when they get to run uninterrupted.

My children are well trained. When a commercial comes on, they already know of another show they can watch, or simply switch to a book or newspaper while the commercials are running... or will watch a commercial for its wit or creativity, like a couple of the recent Mountain Dew commercials.>

Michael Blowhard
September 22, 2006 9:53 PM
www.2blowhards.com

Franklin -- So as far as you're concerned, people who want a little peace and quiet are, until they prove otherwise, racists? Really?

Rod -- What do you make of another approach to the question? It's that people growing up today are going to be waist-deep in electronic popular culture no matter what. Given that, perhaps it might work out well if they learn how to manage it. After all, mightn't the abstinence approach backfire? An analogy is booze. Americans tend to swing back and forth between total denial and binge-drinking. Meanwhile, Euros get their kids used to wine-drinking (a teaspoon in a glass of water, that kind of thing) from a very early age. And binge drinking isn't much of a problem in France, Spain, and Italy. But I don't know. Attaining any kind of balance can be tough in America, no?>

Richard
September 22, 2006 10:07 PM

Franklin,

Ever heard of Kiryas Joel or Domino's Pizza founder Monaghan's attempt to build a Catholic town in Florida? The ACLU wasn't too fond of either of these ideas: ">http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/11499702/>

watsy
September 22, 2006 10:53 PM

I've never tried to call into any of the conservative talk radio shows, but my understanding is that they screen the callers and don't permit the rational liberal viewpoint to be expressed. And they will cut you off quickly if you get by the screeners and present too many facts or offer the opposing viewpoint in a reasonable sort of way.

As for limiting conversation farther, what do you call telling kids what they can and can't discuss in school? We aren't talking about hate stuff(like forbidding Christian kids to harrass gays), but just normal stuff like......Harry Potter?

I saw nothing that Franklin wrote that's racist.>

pikkumatti
September 22, 2006 10:55 PM

I think Franklin's suggestions on how one might deal with modern culture when raising children might be better received if he didn't scold or accuse prior to offering those suggestions.

Love, man.>

Michael Blowhard
September 22, 2006 11:49 PM
www.2blowhards.com

Heavens, I'm not accusing Franklin of being racist. I'm wondering why (and/or if) he seems to be assuming that certain other people are racist.>

Franklin Evans
September 23, 2006 1:55 AM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

I didn't take either of you as accusing... but c'mon guys, parse my two statements at face value and try to answer the question.

Yes, the implication is that, in my experience, people I've witnessed making that complaint were often (note the redundancy: no, not always) implying a racist POV. I grew up with such people. Half my neighborhood had the same complaint, some variation of "those damn ni**ers chased us out of West Philly". Point of reference: that was same general area where the MOVE group booby trapped their house and the mayor ended up being blamed for burning down the whole block. (And a subsequent mayor's brother got sued for shoddy work in the rebuilding.)

I'm 50 years old. I grew up during a time when racism was called pride and moral supremacy, and the objects of those attitudes were demonized out the whazoo. I've seen a large change in the rhetoric in recent decades; I've also seen a shift in the target of the rhetoric, and very much the same NIMBY attitudes.

So, can anyone answer my question? Bring some light to my narrow-horizoned ignorance? I really would like some clarification.>

Michael Blowhard
September 23, 2006 2:08 AM
www.2blowhards.com

Franklin -- I'm 52, and I grew up in the Bad Old Days among smalltown Republicans. Many of them, if you pushed them, probably had some buried problems with race and homosexuality. But they were also, on a personal level, much kinder and more generous -- more humane -- than the big-city lefties I live among today, most of whom fall into the trap of wishing humanity well in the abstract.

I seldom heard much in the way of contempt and hostility towards anyone back in smalltownville. (They weren't crazy about school busing, but why should they have been?) Among my bigcity leftie friends and acquaintances, on the other hand, really aggressive nastiness towards (you name it) Catholics, religious people, smalltowners, Republicans is commonplace ... They often in fact pride themselves on how much they hate and look down on these people. They get this beady eyed look of self-pleasure, and you know an anti-rightie/religion/whatever vent is on its way.

I'm not being sentimental, btw. I get back to my old stomping grounds fairly regularly. They're really sweet people, even if horizons are a bit narrow. And they have no idea how much big city lefties despise and hate them.>

M_David
September 23, 2006 2:32 AM

I've never tried to call into any of the conservative talk radio shows, but my understanding is that they screen the callers and don't permit the rational liberal viewpoint to be expressed.

You know, I've been wondering why I've never heard the rational liberal viewpoint expressed.

BTW, I hear rumors that it's banned from the MSM as well.

I even read somewhere that if it was to dare pop up on Crunchy Cons, the censors would strike the post. So don't worry, I'm sure we're safe.

:-)>

Franklin Evans
September 23, 2006 3:01 AM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Michael,

So, I think I see our disconnect. I grew up smack dab between the two extremes: childhood thru high school in a Republican machine suburb right outside Philadelphia (again, those of you following in your atlases at home: Delaware County, the township of Upper Darby); then, for all but just under four years from then to now, living, working and raising children in the Democrat machine city of Philly. You could say, with some accuracy, that I've had a belly full of the extremes, and a thin icing of the middle ground.

I have met some of your sweet denizens of smalltownville, and I truly share your appreciation of them. I'd say to them what I'd say to anyone who is unfairly the target of prejudice or bigotry: ignore the lies, and live your lives with the integrity you've always lived them.

And I will have to concede one big point to you: I've found, in my personal travels, rather alot more and more easily expressed tolerance and acceptance amongst your smalltowners than I have in the big cities I've been to. I will also submit that Philly is not quite so bad, being more a hodge-podge of neighborhoods than your typical urban center. And I definitely don't see the contempt for your list of liberal targets. Maybe Philly is just a rare exception.

Anyone care to take a stab at my question? I'll reiterate it here:

The thing that gets me the maddest is every time I read of some person or group who tries to carve out a little island of moral normalcy for themselves.

I'd like to see this defined, please. Either give me the general case of what a "little island of moral normalcy" is supposed to be, or cite actual reports of actual cases where actual communities made an attempt to do something that came under fire, even if only in published form, from the ACLU or any similar organization.>

watsy
September 23, 2006 3:29 AM

Well, Franklin, what do you think of the example that a couple of the poster's gave to you? Mr. Domino Pizza bought some prime real estate to develop in Florida and only wants to sell to Catholics. He's decided what businesses will be permitted to be in his community and what they'll be able to sell(no condoms, birth control, or other trashy stuff). The ACLU's fighting him.

I'm not crazy about pop culture. I fix it by limiting what my kids watch. It's not easy and sometimes they get twisted ideas because of what they see. It doesn't seem to affect my son much. I've already heard my daughter(5 yrs) who is very lean say that she's fat.

I'm curious as to what the kids in Rod's kid's school talk about. Do they have conversation monitors at lunch?

M_David,
Very funny. If you aren't hearing the rational liberal opinion it could be censorship, but it could be that you need to open your mind. And b-net doesn't censor opinions as long as they're said "nicely and respectfully" and with a smile. :)>

M_David
September 23, 2006 4:10 AM

watsy:

You're right...I should have used Occam's Razor and realized that the simplest solution is almost always the correct one. What was I thinking? I finally bend to reality: a rational liberal position must not exist.

But I'll keep listening for sightings of it on Art Bell's program. ;-)>

Franklin Evans
September 23, 2006 4:19 AM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Watsy, I passed right over Richard's post several times. Richard, I apologize for my not paying attention.

The link is to a transcript of a talk show interview, and it's rather short on details. The key point there is in this quote:

...you ve to make a distinction between just encouraging like minded people to come and live in the same place with a town organized on religious principles, in which the religious group is given governmental authority.

Utah, and presumably Mormons, were also mentioned. What I want to know is how this relates to the question I'm asking. Mohaghan is an aberration in my opinion; I also agree that the ACLU at times seems to have too much time on its hands, at least in this case.

The point of my question is this: people complain about lots of things that, upon closer examination, either don't exist, are extremely rare, or exist in a form that's been spun to fit the complaint. As has been pointed out to me, I'd like to avoid making an assumption about the quote in Rod's article.

Show me the citations, or show me some integrity and label the complaint frivolous, that's all I ask.>

Sonetka
September 23, 2006 6:00 AM

They can't talk about Harry Potter? Good lord - if anything, that sounds to me like a road to making the kids more vulnerable in the future, not less. Whatever the policy might say, if kids are forbidden to talk about something, they're probably going to assume that there's something bad about it. When they get a bit older and discover that Harry Potter is not in fact a bad thing, they might jump to the conclusion that the other stuff wasn't so bad either, and decide that the school was lying to them about that. How is keeping children in ignorance (as opposed to innocence) supposed to strengthen their defenses? If anything it makes them weaker.

Sorry about the tangent. But the school's policy sounds really overly stringent. Also, I've seen a couple of kids who went off to college after having been raised in super-home-schooled, "protected" environments. Their defenses weren't stronger, as a rule. Generally, they had none at all when confronted with people who weren't coming from the same place as they - they had never been taught even to contemplate what these people were talking about, let alone really argue with them about it.>

Anne-Marie
September 23, 2006 6:10 AM

Michael B., I understand your qualms about the "abstinence approach" (love the term!); I knew someone in college who came from a TV-free home and spent practically his entire freshman year gazing vacantly at the common-room TV. However, I think that a close-to-zero-tolerance policy on popular culture is defensible for several reasons.

1--What I call the "edge of the cliff priciple." How do you keep from falling off a cliff? Not by standing at the edge and being really, really careful, but by staying away from the edge in the first place. The worldview of pop culture is so degraded emotionally, morally, psychologically, aesthetically, and spiritually that even a pretty small dose can be seriously damaging. No-one can create a perfectly hermetic bubble, so even with strict controls, your kids will be exposed to some dreck; without strict controls, they'd be in the danger zone.

2--The best way to teach kids to prize the true, the good, and the beautiful is to have them experience truth, goodness, and beauty, rather than to have them experience pop culture and then say, "See, that stuff is false, bad, and ugly." The abstinence approach is not merely negative. (Don't subscribe to cable. Turn off the TV and radio. Use internet filters. Stay away from malls as much as possible.) Excluding pop culture creates the space in which true culture can be enjoyed. (Read aloud. Visit a museum. Make music together.)

3--The habits born out of the abstinence approach--both the anti-pop-culture ones and the pro-real-culture ones--will stand your kids in good stead once they are older. This is the essence of "learn[ing] how to manage it." The goal is that as adults, they will have the tools to resist being "waist-deep in electronic popular culture no matter what."

The wine analogy doesn't work for me. Pop culture is not a good thing that can be bad when abused, so that our goal is for our kids to enjoy it responsibly; it's a bad thing, and our goal is for our kids to be able to recognize the ways in which it makes its poison seem yummy.>

Rich
September 23, 2006 7:40 AM

Franklin,
Thanks for pointing out that you are 50. That explains a lot to me. Almost every time I have ever seen someone inject race into a conversation where it isn't mentioned or quickly imply the 'racist' smear where it isn't warranted, they are baby boomers. There is apparently something about growing up in the 60's that set peoples moral compass to look at race as the end-all be-all of human existence. It's a cheap way to prove moral superiority. There's was nothing about race in Rod's post, but you sure didn't waste any time making it about race.

Several years ago my wife and I lived in an apartment complex that was bad news. The cops were in there EVERY night. We didn't step outside after sunset. I mentioned to some co-workers that we were going to move to a better neighborhood. One of my 50-something collegues subtly implied that we were racist and were moving away from "those sorts" who we didn't like. I not so subtly gave him a earful. Our complex was over half white. He didn't know that, and didn't care. We didn't want to get shot or robbed, but as far as he was concerned "better neighborhood" was just a racist code phrase. He was trying to prove his moral superiority to me.

You want some examples of people who "carve out a little island of moral normalcy"? Here's one. Back in the mid-90's my sisters rural west Texas town had a horrible drug problem. (Crystal meth especially). The town decided to institute drug testing in the schools. I'm sure to cosmopolitan coastal types that this sounds like the most oppressive thing since the gulag, but the people of the town thought it was a fantastic idea. Except one guy who joined with the ACLU and sued. The NY Times sent reporters who portrayed him as the lone voice of reason in a town full of ignorant rednecks. A PBS Frontline documentary (Larry vs. Lockney) did the same. A Federal Court overturned the drug testing policy. When they tried to go to a less restrictive policy, they had to get court permission and supervision. But those schools are used to dealing with Federal courts. They are always in there because some student wants to say a prayer before a football game or at graduation. And the towns are always in there over Christmas decorations, etc. etc.

But hey, I'm sure there's a reason that drug testing is racist.....>

Franklin Evans
September 23, 2006 2:04 PM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Rich,

If you read my post without reading Michael's response, you might find it possible to see my observation (cynical as it was) as more than "just" racist. Bigotry is real, it exists in a wide variety of areas, and while I can easily agree that it is very overused and overstated, that doesn't change the fact of its existence.

Your example is a good one. I vaguely remember seeing/hearing about the town's tribulations. I would not call it a pertinent example, but only because of hindsight: New Jersey is about to implement random testing for performance enhancing drugs in its high school students. In my own district (Philadelphia), they have metal detectors at the doors and students can (with due cause) be searched before entering. That town's problem was not in their goal, but in their methods... and that's a whole 'nother topic. :)

Drug abuse is not part of the culture. It is a criminal element of our society. Some can (waste their time) argue about legitimizing (as distinct from legalizing drugs, and how to fight the drug war all they like, but your example still doesn't address my original question. That we have drugs and their attendant problems doesn't mean that we tolerate it, or that we are on the way towards making it a part of our culture.

Oh, and I have no problems with having racists as neighbors. I have every problem with having racists setting social and political policy, being responsible for law enforcement, and being in charge of our institutions, like education. As a private citizen, I deal with them as individuals as I encounter them. You will not find me supporting laws or the passage of laws that coerce racists to change their attitudes. My approach is to let racists discover the moral bankruptcy of their attitudes all on their own.>

Rod Dreher
September 23, 2006 3:24 PM

I like Anne-Marie's idea of a two-pronged approach to raising kids in this culture: not only protecting them from the bad, but exposing them to the good. That's what we're trying to do in our house. If you just say "thou shalt not" without helping them to experience the good, the true and the beautiful, well, it's like taking half a course of antibiotics. You set your kid up for a much stronger sickness in the future.>

Lutheran Reader
September 23, 2006 4:51 PM

Rod - - Yes, yes - - "exposing them [children] to the good [in art, music, etc.]." But it will take persistence. Let me give an example. This summer, my two youngest daughters (homeschooled) were "on vacation" (like public school kids), but I did ask something like this, that they take half an hour a week to look at the pictures in an art book. They could do that all at once or in a bunch of little moments. One week the art might be Vermeer or Ruisdael,the next Frederic Remington. I didn't make an issue of it, but it was interesting how even so minimal an effort often wasn't made. There was plenty of time for DVDs from the library, though. That was no big deal in itself, but it shows that we have to stick with it. On the other hand, recently I had a John Eliot Gardiner recording of a Bach cantata on the stereo and one of these girls commented on liking it. (JEG's recordings seem to me often to have a bounce that I din't get in other recordings.)

So let's keep at it. One thing I like to think about is how, in this time when unimaginable rivers of garbage and filth flow freely, we also have a time in which people like me with below-average incomes _can_ borrow or even buy reproductions of great music and art, etc. I'm sure it's better to see a Samuel Palmer etching in a museum than in a book if you have the choice, but at least you can savor the reproduction.

A last thought: use a worthy picture as image on your computer desk top; a good thing for the youngsters to see. You can find them by Google image searches.>

pikkumatti
September 23, 2006 5:01 PM

Franklin, I guess the reason people are having trouble answering your question is because 1) it is a moving target, and 2) you bring it back to racism and bigotry.

The larger issue for many of us is how to live in the world without being "of" the world, and how to pass that on to our children. That is the tough part.

I'll use an example kind of like Rod's (without the Harry Potter ban). Our kids went to a small Catholic school through 8th grade -- where the kids tended to "grow up" slower than their counterparts. The parents and kids at the school were pretty much like-minded, which was the reason they chose the school to begin with, so in that way it was a bit of an enclave. (And, no, it was not a racist/bigoted fortress -- all races and economic levels were well represented, and got along just fine, thank you). So that is a bit of "moral normalcy" that we sought, and thankfully obtained.

The more insidious problem that I see is how the culture not only creeps in (can't help that, really) but on how the culture demands that it invade such enclaves. We see litigation on how a teacher at a Catholic school wants to be entitled to express opinions contrary to teachings of the Church. We see (successful) litigation on how libraries cannot install porn filters -- as though
the 1st amendment requires creeps to be able to access the same, turning public libraries into unsafe zones. We see whining by Howard Sterns of the world on how they can't say the seven dirty words on broadcasts -- as tho the 1st amendment permits that. And the entire political correctness wave prevents us from recognizing (and celebrating) differences among us, and especially prevents any moral judgment where it may be appropriate.

So, yeah, a little "moral normalcy" is what many of us look for. But no, as soon as we raise the issue, it gets turned into accusations that we who do so are bigoted and just don't want to associate with "others".

So spare me. You need to get out into the real (faith-based) world a little more, and see how we live, and how we are trying to live. At least before assuming that we are bigots and closed-minded.>

Dale Nelson
September 23, 2006 5:04 PM

C. S. Lewis's prescient novel That Hideous Strength seems to me to connect with this idea of households that have room for things that are good for the soul - - the "St. Anne's" community. A few years ago I prepared for a small Lutheran conference a paper on characteristics of that household that I thought might be transferable to our own. There's very little specifically Lutheran in the paper, "Bright Lights Under the Shadow of the Hideous Strength: The St. Anne's Household and Our Own Households." It's kind of a ragbag of ideas and notes, and comes to about 60 pages printed. (The bit on choosing names for our children is meant to be kind of playful, not offensive.) It probably was inspired in part by Rod's original "Crunchy Cons" article in National Review.

If anyone wants me to email it, just ask: dale_nelson AT mayvillestate.edu>

MIchael Blowhard
September 23, 2006 5:52 PM
www.2blowhards.com

John Eliot Gardiner and Samuel Palmer rock!

All due respect to all of you for trying to find and promote quieter, calmer, more enriching lives, of course. I'm a little surprised, though, that the pop culture is seen in such blanket terms. I have my reservations about much of it myself. But some of it is glorious, no?

I suppose the question depends to some extent on how you define its boundaries. If pop culture is defined as mind-polluting junk, then automatically that's all it is. But if it's seen as a subdivision of popular culture more generally ... I mean, is Elvis bad? Aretha? The Beatles? Do all kids need protecting from them? To take it a step further: is sexual provocation always and everywhere a bad thing? Some of us might think of eroticism and sexual allure (and beauty, etc) as close to poetry and something to be very grateful for. They might well be experienced as something related to religion.

Which is why I think the analogy to wine does work (though I agree with Anne-Marie on many other points). Youth, beauty, sex, art, giggles, pleasure ... These can be great things, and where and how they shade into popular and pop culture ... Well, the boundaries can be pretty vague.

One handy example: me. I'm a big reader and a semiprofessional writer. But I didn't get into reading and writing entirely through dusty old classics. Comic books and magazines played big roles. I'm a huge arts buff -- but I didn't turn into someone who attends the opera and loves art museums by being born to them. I became an arts buff by starting out as a movie buff.

So popular culture can be (and judging from friends often is) a doorway into culture in a much larger sense. And that's a good thing, no?

What *has* changed, it seems to me, is that pop culture has become far more of an all-engulfing end in itself for many kids. And that's a big challenge ...>

Lutheran reader
September 23, 2006 6:44 PM

Michael Blowhard, your advocacy of "hedonism" reminds me of a book that I think a lot of folks on this wavelength would like (including Orthodox and Roman Catholics): Angels in the Architecture: A Protestant Vision for Middle-earth, by Douglas Wilson and Douglas Jones.>

Franklin Evans
September 23, 2006 6:50 PM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

You (general) have a choice: you can assume that the dialogue is stuck, or you can unstick it and say explicitly what you want to say.

I have not played any card, racist or other. I have, in fact, made honest disclosure after asking a question that begs the answerer to say: yes, there is a difference here, and this is how we define it.

Pikkumatti failed to get unstuck in the first point, but came through (as I hoped he would) with a very explicit (and eloquent) answer.

Allow me to draw a personal parallel here. I am engaged, much like my LGBT friends before me, in "reclaiming" labels and redefining the dialogue; my "area" is paganism, a rather less urgent one than sexual identity to be sure, but one we (pagans) have a very large stake in. So I jump to speak up whenever an opportunity arises to "work the room", to engage those who have (in our minds, of course) an incorrect or inaccurate view of what it means to be pagan. I do, occasionally, whine a bit about the unfairness of it all; my task is monumental, it being opposed by centuries of Christian indoctrination and (my label) propaganda.

Now, the reader is faced with a second choice. You can see me as whining yet more, but only now about paganism. Or, you can see it as an attempt to be honest about my perspective, and to invite you to focus on those aspects of my perspective that either you wish to correct, or which I ask you to help me correct.

Pikkumatti, allow me to gently remind you: I have been immersed in the real (faith-based) world all my life. I am as much a member of the Catholic sub-culture as I am a citizen of the US, that being the vastly greater portion of my immersion. If you catch me making a direct statement about the general case, painting all or most of them racist or bigoted, then do please call me out on it... but I have not even come close to doing so, and the sensitivity you assume I have is possibly one you might look at for yourself.

Sigh. If I didn't know better, I be thinking that some here think of me as a troll. Instead, I'm offering a stronger level of honesty, because I feel I'm being challenged to do that by the rest of you.>

Michael Blowhard
September 23, 2006 7:30 PM
www.2blowhards.com

Lutheran reader -- Thanks for the book rec! I'll check it out. I'll also squirm a bit and argue that I'm not advocating hedonism -- I think pleasure per se is a rotten central goal for life. Still: pleasure is also a gift from above (or beyond, or wherever), and positive experiences are a kind of grace, and certainly aren't to be sneezed at, no? Also, pleasure comes in many forms ... But you got me in another sense: I do come at these discussions from a Buddhist/Vedantist/Tantric-y p-o-v ... Renunciation and indulgence, it's all part of the same panorama, etc ...>

Lutheran reader
September 23, 2006 7:43 PM

Yeah, I was using "hedonism" loosely. Take that usage as sort of in reaction to the oft-perceived, and sometimes real, Christian proclivity for anhedonia (more often, just a dullness to the beautiful and delightful).

I like the way Orthodox have a "BEAUTIFUL CORNER" set aside in their homes for icons.>

Michael Blowhard
September 23, 2006 7:46 PM
www.2blowhards.com

[Ten mins later ...] Sounds like a fascinating book, tks. Can I recommend one back at you? I forget if Rod went into this in his own book ... Christopher Alexander is someone readers here might enjoy. "The Timeless Way of Building" is the place to start, and "A Pattern Language" is genius. It's secular (at least on the surface), but they're books about housing and living, about how modernisty has de-spiritualized the experience of both, and how we might begin to reconstruct our lives (specifically in the context of buildings, but you're free to fly off and think of it all metaphorically and generally) in the present tense. It's about putting together all over again what has been lost in the way of wisdom, pleasure, satisfaction, craft ... Like I say: genius. His online website, alas, isn't up to the standards of his books. He's been very influential, in an underground kind of way. Sarah Susanka's "Not So Big House" is in his lineage, as is Jonathan Hales' "The Old Way of Seeing." The New Urbanists, about whom Rod did write, see Alexander as maybe their prime guru. That said, he is an ornery, big-ego'd cuss ...>

Michael Blowhard
September 23, 2006 7:52 PM
www.2blowhards.com

From a senses-and-beauty point of view, Orthodoxy is very appealing, isn't it? Dizzying, intoxicating stuff. There's an Orthodox church on Manhattan's upper east side I keep reminding myself to attend, it's well-known especially for the beauty of its Easter services. But, y'know, Easter almost always slips by without me noticing ...

My own main prob with Extreme Crunchiness is related to all this: it just doesn't strike me as very attractive. My shallowness, I suppose ... But are beauty, eroticism, and sensory appeal really trivial? I don't really think so. I think the hum that they radiate (and make us vibrate to) is parallel to the ground bass of existence itself, and may even be the ground bass. Do we tune into that better and vibrate to it the more by living like Amish people? (Bless 'em, of course.)>

Dale Nelson
September 23, 2006 11:48 PM

Michael, I'll look into at least one of the books you mention.

Samuel Palmer has been such an inspiration to me: "I _will_ have my weeds!" he insisted (meaning that he cultivated non-rare wildflowers on his property). Also (very much with tongue in cheek!): "The past for poets, the present for pigs!" And: "blessed green-tea time."

And yes - - comics. I, too. What I still love is the work of Carl Barks, the "Good Artist" for the Donald Duck and Uncle Scrooge comics. It was good to sit on the floor with one or other of my kids nestled close and read aloud to him or her a story like "Land of Square Eggs," "Back to the Klondike," "Tralla La," "The Ghost of the Grotto," "A Christmas for Shacktown," "The Seven Cities of Cibola," etc. These are delightful bits of storytelling and I warmly commend them as ways to inculcate that sense of pleasure from the written word (and drawing). One may be thankful that these stories are now easy to come by in reprints, or at least most of them are.>

Anne-Marie
September 24, 2006 2:27 AM

Michael B.,

You are right; as I was going to sleep last night, I was thinking that I had painted pop culture with too wide a brush.

At the same time, although you went from movies to opera, you might just as easily have gone from movies to music videos, no? If parents can start their kids off liking Bach, isn't that better than starting them on the Beatles and hoping it leads to Bach?

Also, I was thinking primarily of currently-produced pop culture. I can take or leave most Elvis and Beatles, but they're certainly better than the violent misogyny that passes for music nowadays.>

Anne-Marie
September 24, 2006 2:39 AM

Franklin,

Maybe the reason why you haven't received much in the way of a response is that no-one here reading the comments actually agrees with the reader Rod quoted. Difficult as it sometimes is to create an "island of moral normalcy," I don't feel that the ACLU or any other such group is a threat to our family's attempts to do so.

To me, the chief elements of moral normalcy are things the ACLU can't touch: defining our roles primarily in terms of our responsibilities to others, keeping childhood and adulthood distinct, training ourselves and our children in good habits, etc.>

Michael Blowhard
September 24, 2006 4:01 AM
www.2blowhards.com

Anne-Marie -- You're definitely right about that. My own theory is that pop culture was once a kind of fun alternative to adult culture. Now it has become a whole universe. Also, pop culture is now made by people who grew up on ppp culture -- they're real experts at exploiting and addicting teens in ways they didn't used to be. And with electronics everywhere, there seems to be no holding it back. I'm struck, when I'm around young adults, by this all the time. They tend to find any interest in anything beyond pop culture as weird, grey, boring. Pop culture is everything to them, and they're fine with this. Weird.

I'm all for raising kids wtih Bach, Samuel Palmer, etc, that's for sure.>

Rod Dreher
September 24, 2006 4:35 AM

Michael, I did bring up Susanka in the book, and "A Pattern Language" too. I'm with you on the importance of beauty, and I don't want to give the impression that I'm for stripping all sensuality, and even Eros, out of art. Far from it! I'm simply irritated by the gross sexuality on display all around us, unsublimated by any sense of artistry or moral restraint. I'm all for Eros in true art, and foursquare against pornography. It's just that I think the public square has been pornogra-fied. And that depresses the hell out of me.>

Anonymous
September 24, 2006 6:29 AM

Pop culture is everything to them, and they're fine with this.

I work in a tutoring center, and I see this all the time in my students. Most of them seem never to have visited, let alone inhabited, any other imaginative world. It's one of the main reasons they can't understand anything they read.>

Franklin Evans
September 24, 2006 6:48 AM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Anne-Marie:

Thank you. That definitely answers me sufficiently.>

Anne-Marie
September 24, 2006 6:52 AM

Whoops, that Anonymous tutor at 12:34 was me.>

pikkumatti
September 24, 2006 4:06 PM

Franklin, a belated response from me to your statement:

Pikkumatti, allow me to gently remind you: I have been immersed in the real (faith-based) world all my life. I am as much a member of the Catholic sub-culture as I am a citizen of the US, that being the vastly greater portion of my immersion. If you catch me making a direct statement about the general case, painting all or most of them racist or bigoted, then do please call me out on it... but I have not even come close to doing so, and the sensitivity you assume I have is possibly one you might look at for yourself.


1) The reason I said your question was a moving target is because your original comment was: See, I find this complaint very familiar. It is often (not always) accompanied by "and we used to have it better in the old days, when so-and-sos kept out of our town/neighborhood." Do I need to describe that further, or give it the appropriate labels? Sorry, friend, but it ain't me finding an accusation of bigotry in the mirror -- it came right from your keyboard.

2) And I knew that I'd get a reaction from you about spending some time in the real world, but I meant it -- because your comments showed that you do not have a good sense of how a lot of people live today. Instead, your point of reference is 30+ years ago when your neighbors said "those damn ni**ers chased us out of West Philly".. So hence my comment, and I'll stand by it.

And I'll admit that I probably directed a lot of emotion at you that ought to be directed at others (but, hey, you're friendly and won't call me names). The larger point is that it is a damn hard job these days to give moral guidance to our children, in a way that discerns a Truth outside of our personal desires that requires us to make value judgments. It is hard enough, without the culture continually becoming coarser, and more pervasive, and (especially) more damning of attempts to make moral value judgments. And when we complain a bit, then the "enlightened" tell us we are narrow-minded, bigoted, probably-racist-if-we-would-only-admit-it, robots who go by the rules of our church only because of a fear of Hell. And worse, then the "enlightened" tell us how to think and how to expose our kids to the debasements of life so that it will be better for them. Damn tired of it, I am.

And I think your comments and questions also don't reflect the truth that many of us out here in the world are open-minded -- we've considered many different things and ideas and moral/amoral acts throughout our lives -- but we are also open-minded enough (or been touched by grace) to recognize that there is Truth. And we hope and pray for the courage to live our lives accordingly, despite the obstacles thrown in our path.

Thanks for the opportunity to vent.>

Lutheran Reader
September 24, 2006 9:01 PM

I don't know if there is a "Therefore," connected with this.... but in connection with this popular culture-traditional high culture thread, I've often thought about my own youthful experience, in which, when I actually got to hear some classical music, I liked it, even without knowing what it was.

Here's a funny example. I saw the cartoon movie "Yellow Submarine" on TV many years ago. In one episode, the soundtrack music starts by quoting a few notes of Bach's Air for the G String. I thought that was _beautiful_. I loved it. But as far as I knew it was just soundtrack music. The point is that I could have just about been ravished if someone in my circle had laid on me a good recording of the Bach.

Again, Public TV had a series of classic old movies, and they used some music from "Pictures at an Exhibition" - - I knew I liked that.

Or one time I was in a class in which we were reading science fiction and someone brought in an LP and played Mars and Venus from Holst's "The Planets." Right blew me away.

I think I even liked the whiff of classical music that one used to get in those classic Bugs Bunny cartoons.

I think sometimes kids will really respond to this music if they Just Get The Chance. Of course, don't approach them with that "You've got to listen reverently" stance.

In closing: I recommend, for folks who want to give their kids an intro to classical music, Alan Hovhaness's Mysterious Mountain, and maybe even more (though I like MM more), the Mt. St. Helens music... see if the "Eruption" doesn't grab 'em.>

pikkumatti
September 25, 2006 3:12 AM

Hey, LR, great idea.

When our kids were tiny, I'd listen to The Marriage of Figaro on my car cassette player. There is one aria (I can't say which one) that we would always shout "SI!" (or CI! or whatever the Italian is). To this day, 15+ years later, when that pops up, we all shout SI! And they don't know why they sing along.>

Lutheran Reader
September 25, 2006 5:10 AM

Perhaps I can mention one more of those stories about being a kid and getting just a whiff of classical music and being pulled to it.

I never saw Disney's Fantasia till years later, but one Sunday evening "The Wonderful World of Color" had a special on Disney's animated cartoons & they showed a clip from that movie that used music from Tchaikovsky's "Nutcracker." I didn't know what it was, but I was fascinated by it (for all the lo-fi sound off our black and white TV!).

I'm not a musical person, in the sense that I can barely sing, can't play any instrument, can't read music, etc., which I think just enhances the value of my "testimony" about how classical music _can_ spontaneously appeal to kids. But we need to get it into their ears early before they absorb the kultursmog notion that says that that music is "for somebody else." And I do think it makes sense to try to minimize their exposure to the high-octane world of pop entertainment until they have had some pleasurable experiences of classic books, music, etc.>

Franklin Evans
September 25, 2006 3:14 PM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Pikkumatti,

I had a well-constructed, coherent response to your vent... and a HaloScan black hole must have eaten. The short of it is I'm glad you vented where I could see it, and as has happened already we are closer to agreement than not, at least on the important principles.>

jb doubtless
September 25, 2006 11:35 PM
www.fraterslibertas.com

Franklin, you are (by your own words) a secular humanist pagan.

Pikkumatti is clearly a person of God.

There is nothing of "important principles" that you agree on.>

Franklin Evans
September 26, 2006 3:23 AM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Really, JB.

It saddens me more than I can express to see you write that.>

Lutheran Reader
September 27, 2006 2:36 AM

Franklin, do you recognize the Natural Law? Because if you recognize that certain moral principles are Permanent Things, as I assume Pikkumatti does, then JB is wrong. The short form of the question is: if you have read C. S. Lewis's The Abolition of Man, do you agree with it? If you missed that lucent little book, getting at the answer might take a little more time.

But my guess is that you do hold, e.g., that murder, theft, defaming people, using people for one's own selfish ends, etc. are not just socially deleterious; they are offenses against a moral Law that human beings did not invent, and the recognition of which as Law is a human distinctive.

On the other hand, if you're an "Enlightened" modern/postmodern chap, who believes that there's no morality save what's developed by some people to keep others under control and so on, then JB's probably right, and there's no appreciable common ground between you and pikkumatti. But I hope he is not right in saying that.

My understanding is that when the first Christians went into the world and preached Christ to pagans, the pagans could at least recognize that we do evil; that we stand before some divine order - - gods, Logos, Tao - - guilty of sin; and that the consequences of sin are suffering and punishment; whether the punishing agency was conceived as the Erinyes or reincarnation or something else. There was some common ground.

Comments?>

Franklin Evans
September 27, 2006 5:24 PM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Lutheran,

I've already partially answered you in the "What a good school can do" combox, citing a speech by Robert A. Heinlein, who was about as much of a naturalist as one can get, IMO.

The rest is my POV, and Pikkumatti should be given room to express his take on it, but I have a good feeling that my impression is pretty accurate: it is precisely "natural law" that defines our common ground, and only an ego-driven quest to lay claim to the "origin" of that law can deny him and me our rightful and respectful sharing of that ground.

So, the caveat (if I can call it that) is that I don't care if you (general) describe it as ...moral Law that human beings did not invent..., nor do I care that you disapprove of the details of my personal faith. What I do care about, what I do place at the top of my list of priorities, is that we use that common ground as a starting point, and as the basis for mutual respect, neutral tolerance of each other, and as a foundation for peaceful co-existence that includes mutual aid and succor in times of need.

About that "ego-driven quest": modern Christians who have at best a superficial exposure to ancient traditions routinely embarass themselves with their claims of moral superiority and the "first discovery of right and wrong". An excellent reason (my own take on it) that early Christians did so well in the Roman empire is precisely their cruel treatment at the hands of Roman hierarchs. Being the target of evil -- in the midst of being called evil, as Roman propaganda clearly attempted to do, in terms and phrasings that bear a strong resemblance to modern Christian descriptions of my own faith -- can be a strong inducement for people to see their tradition as old, tired and even morally bankrupt, and to see the newcomers as fresh and attractive on a number of levels. I write that so I can call your attention to the fact that membership in the various paganisms, and Wicca in particular, is the fastest growing group in the US.

Makes one stop and think, eh? :-D>

pikkumatti
September 28, 2006 1:47 AM

Wow. I just stopped by to see if anything happened, and now this.

Here's my take. I in fact recognize that "certain moral principles are Permanent Things". Now on to whether the Natural Law or moral principles are a "moral Law that human beings did not invent".

What seems universal to me is that all humans (i.e., let's say reasonable or reasoned humans) strive to reach some ideal. That's why we all seem to enjoy hero stories, and all recognize some things as good and some as evil. So far, so good.

But, to coin a phrase, there are two kinds of people. Some find that ideal outside of themselves (or outside of humanity, for example according to a Law That Humans Did Not Invent), and convert themselves and their behavior to try to conform to that Law and that Ideal. These people recognize objective good and evil. And they will reach Happiness when their will conforms with that Ideal (e.g., God's will).

Other people seek an "ideal" or "faith", and modify (deform) their conscience, to match what they want to do anyway. Obviously this approach does not lend itself to recognizing objective good and evil, but devolves to moral relativism. For these people, the ideal is conformed to each person's will. These people will not conform their will to an Ideal, but vice versa.

IMHO, this is the story of the Fall in the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve eat from the Tree because they think (or are convinced) that they know better and can decide what is good and what is evil. The stain of original sin, if you will.

To the extent that Franklin and I have common ground, and I believe from his writing that we do, it comes from our common recognition that there is something outside of ourselves that is the Ideal, and that we humans ought to, through reason and faith, convert and conform ourselves to that Ideal. We will then be truly Happy.

Franklin and I obviously disagree on the source of that Ideal, and to some extent about what the Ideal is. But truth does not contradict Truth, and therefore as long as both of us keep searching, with open minds, to what Truth is and hoping (or praying) for the courage to conform ourselves to that Truth, then we should end up in the same place, given enough time (which, of course, we are not guaranteed to have).

Franklin, whaddaya think about THAT?>

Franklin Evans
September 28, 2006 6:53 AM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Pikkumatti, I think you have it exactly right, even the implication that our disagreements actually have some value in the scheme of things.

I believe that there is a third "category" that needs stating: the person who finds his connections to Truth, Law and Ideals by seeking inside, and looking outward to find that his search is a Good Thing. I state this not because it needs to be in opposition to the externalized "category", but because the semantic differences are important even while it is possible to demonstrate that there is no real difference between them. Perhaps the old cliche about the two sides of the same coin fits.

Not meaning to be glib or flippant, but I believe that we don't really disagree about the source of the Ideal. What we can't agree on is the symbolism involved, on the subjective labels we need to describe it. Your needs and my needs are very different, but our goals bear a strong overlapping resemblance... in my humble opinion. ;)>

pikkumatti
September 28, 2006 3:50 PM

I'll quibble with your "third" category a bit, because it is vulnerable to self-validation. Or maybe I'm just not strong enough to do things that way -- I truly need to be shaken up from the Outside, and be reminded that I don't know everything and that what I thought previously was wrong.

And, I'll submit that my faith ain't just symbols. The data over the last 2k years bears that out.

Other than that, I think we understand each other and are facing in the same direction. Thanks for this great exercise; it is good to have to think things through. And thanks, as always, for your courtesy.>

Franklin Evans
September 28, 2006 4:19 PM
http://madfedor.blogspot.com/

Quibble away, my friend. I've already worked out that my "third" alternative is a bit of a straw man, not really needed or even relevant. Emphasis on "different section of same side of coin" rather than anything else.

From my POV, we both work equally hard at our otherwise divergent faiths. I mention symbols not to dwell on them, but to imply (strongly) that we are faced with the same struggle faced by all humans: trying to describe an internal process that cannot be fully understood by anyone not living inside my skin. Of all human endeavors, personal enlightenment must share top billing with the brief, rare moments we are permitted to transcend our separation from each other, and truly share a single perception. That, my friend, is why I keep coming to forums like this one, and why I hate them for the further restrictions inherent in not being face-to-face. This is, barely, better than nothing.>

Lutheran Reader
September 29, 2006 3:22 AM

Good discussion, Franklin and Pikkumatti.>

Stefanie
October 7, 2006 8:57 PM

Childhood as a time of "innocence" is a very recent notion, within the past 150 years or so. The rest of the human past, children moved into "adult" activities (starting with learning the tools of their parents' work) as soon as they were physically able. Marriage (most often arranged) came as soon as girls were physically ready.

Interesting point about the school forbidding the discussion of *all* "popular culture." What's forbidden, only modern popular culture, or 19th century p.c. as well? After all, Sherlock Holmes and Dickens, as well as most opera and operettas, were the "pop culture" of their day.>

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