Wow. I hunt, and I did pretty well in college, but that might have been the stupidest thing I've read in a long time.>
god_is_in_the_tv
December 19, 2006 3:07 PM
A vile human wrote that article. We're talking Ann Coulter vile. What is it about dickhead pundits like that which makes them so particularly nasty?
Are they dead inside?>
Hautblossom
December 19, 2006 3:21 PM
http://math.boisestate.edu/gas/index.html
What exactly do you admire about this person, Rod?
HB>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 3:22 PM
Also, sorta-off topic, but townhall.com is easily one of the worst-designed websites I've ever seen. I get a migraine just looking at it, let alone trying to read through the inane commentary that gets posted there.>
harvey lacey
December 19, 2006 3:25 PM
http://www.harveylacey.com
I'm glad I'm not the only one that gave Rod demerits on this one.
The sad thing is the boys (his) will want to grow up and be a hero in dad's eyes. It's what kids do. They'll look at this Adams character and since dear old dad thinks he hung the moon, try to emulate not only just the actions, but the attitude.
I wonder if he'll still think it manly when his sons are modeling it, just for him.>
Bob Rockouski
December 19, 2006 3:27 PM
Interesting comments above: stupidest, vile and nasty.
How about the merits of the underlying argument or is personal dimiution the only response? The arrogance never ceases. This ties in perfectly with what Rod has been writing regarding Therapy/Virtue.
To clarify, push back is coming from us out here in the hinterlands.>
Joshua
December 19, 2006 3:28 PM
I guess I'm on my own, but that was a fun article. Thanks Rod.>
Susan
December 19, 2006 3:31 PM
After we harvest a hog, we re going to go give it to one of the poor underprivileged South Carolina black families that - due to racism, segregation, and poverty have never had the opportunity to pursue a public education. When you meet them I want you to explain why you have squandered opportunities they never had opportunities like a place in the North Carolina university system where 70% of your education is funded by the public.
I suspect that this attitude is what Rod admires, and I have to say that I agree with him. I don't work with privileged university students - luckily for many of them - but I meet and know enough of them to have encountered the mindset this guy is condemning. The "the world owes me" mindset.
Those of us who have children who "reason" thus will have a lot to answer for, and cause enough to regret our foolishness in allowing them to persist in it. The world doesn't "owe" anybody anything, which these youngsters will find out to their sorrow once they get out of school.>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 3:33 PM
Ah yes, because Rod is mocked for posting an idiotic article, that means the forces of the p.c. therapeutic culture are out to get him. Who's the the whining victim here again?>
Joel
December 19, 2006 3:35 PM
I repeat HB's question: What, precisely, is supposed to be admirable about this person? The lesbian joke in particular makes me think that this is just a frat boy who got older without ever growing up. The social justice lesson tacked on to the end does not make up for the arrogance and stupidity that permeate the writing.
Is this what living in the south does to people? Count me out.>
Tope
December 19, 2006 3:43 PM
Savor it? Pass it on? No thanks. I would have to explain this bit, among others:
But if you choose option A , don t ever sign up for one of my classes again. Just take a course from one of the feminist professors. They have aborted 1/4 of the males in your generation and seek to turn the other 3/4 of the males into effeminate victims who are dishonest with their professors and afraid of hunting. Think this matter over carefully before you get back to me. Neither I nor our nation can tolerate another of your metrosexual missives. Nor can our nation survive without a revival of emphasis on character, responsibility, and personal integrity.
Wow. You could cut the misogyny with a knife - not to mention the straw men and logical fallacies. This is a disgusting display of contempt for women. One would think that Adams could extol the virtues of hunting without taking potshots at women, 'effeminate' men (apparently all men except for him and his fellow hunters?), his students, and really the world at large.
I'm disappointed that you would recommend such a vile piece of work. I wish I could say I'm surprised. If this is the sort of thing I can expect from your blog, I think I've learned all I can here. Sayonara.>
Tope
December 19, 2006 3:47 PM
Bob -
I can't say I see the underlying argument of which you speak. What would that be? That hunting is manly? That lying and complaining about a deserved grade is dishonest? That feminists are baby killers who lack integrity and turn men into wimps? I'm sorry, none of those strike me as particularly deep or sophisticated arguments.>
Susan
December 19, 2006 3:49 PM
Come on, guys. Think about the student to whom this letter is addressed. He missed the final 28 meetings of the class in question, to wit, he blew the class off. Then rather than slinking off in silence as most of us would, he came up with the dog-ate-my-homework concoction of death robbery and firing, which I along with the author suspect is pure fiction. And now he has the unmitigated gall to protest a grade of D-, which as we all suspected before we got to that point should have been an F.
Cutting the prof a little slack for the lesbian crack, I'd say that taking this overprivileged ungrateful kid out hunting to encounter some reality is too good for him. Would you hand this screw-up a gun? I would have grave reservations about even letting him carry the machete.
Then the program is to take him to meet some people who think a dead hog is a gift from heaven because they haven't seen that much meat in one place for as long as they can remember. And he can explain to them why he is squandering the hard work and effort of so many people, undoubtedly including his parents, which is being poured into the education he is ignoring.
I hope the prof is serious. I hope the kid goes. I hope he learns something.
I'm from Los Angeles and I live in San Francisco. Many of my close friends are lesbians. I don't agree with that part.
But that's not what this article is about. It's about screw-up kids and people who have been handed the world on a platter and who can't bother to make the most minimal effort on their own behalf. And we've got lots of those folks out here in the blue states too. If asked to chose sides, I can tell you which side I'm on.>
Tope
December 19, 2006 4:10 PM
Susan,
Adams could have made all of those points without being juvenile and sexist. I'm totally on board with calls for people to take more personal responsibility for their mistakes. I think it's a very important message for our time and culture.
But that doesn't give Adams a pass to insult huge groups of people and generalize them as lacking in integrity and personal responsibility (and worse). Yes, the student was wrong. So is Adams. He doesn't deserve any slack.>
mari lup
December 19, 2006 4:13 PM
Are you out of your MIND, Rod?? I razz you about a lot of your delusions and incoherent beliefs, but that essay is just terrible -- self-righteous, smug, sanctimonious, homophobic. And, er, MURDEROUS. I'd cheer to raise the rafters if I heard about one of those boars gutting him with its tusks.
-ml>
god_is_in_the_tv
December 19, 2006 4:16 PM
He missed the final 28 meetings of the class in question, to wit, he blew the class off.
Even if this were the case (and to be sure I see no evidence in that "missive" that makes me think it is), the level of contempt dripping from every word discredits whatever point Rambo there was trying to make.
And besides...
What if the kid was telling the truth?>
mari lup
December 19, 2006 4:18 PM
I forgot: It's also petty, misogynistic, arrogant, grandiose, pathetically aggrieved, and paternalistically racist.>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 4:20 PM
Does anyone really think this is about a real situation, and not just some corny conservative parable that Mr. Adams made up to take shots at slacker college students, and [somewhat bizarrely] lesbians? I mean, it's all well and good that Dr. Adams doesn't give out undeserved grades, but the particulars here - missing 28 classes, followed by mealy-mouthed cajoling for a higher grade, the alleged "metrosexuality" of the student in question, the po' black family in the backwoods - it all just sounds a little too good to be true. And all the chest-thumping, macho-white hunter stuff is just laughable, really. I've been a hunter for more than 20 years, and there's nothing more tedious than some a-hole going on and on about what a great hunter they are, how hunting builds character, etc. I've met just as many over-priveleged, jerks in hunting blinds as I ever did on a college campus.>
Bruce
December 19, 2006 4:26 PM
http://7leper.blogspot.com
What is it about dickhead pundits like that which makes them so particularly nasty?
How paradoxical, spewing nastiness in response to nastiness.
On the whole I think Adams is saying what needs to be said, though I also cringed at the lesbian comment. Guess I'm not masculine enough.>
Bruce
December 19, 2006 4:30 PM
http://7leper.blogspot.com
It's also [...] paternalistically racist.
Which part? Where Adams acknowledges there are poor blacks in the area or where he gives them food?>
Hautblossom
December 19, 2006 4:31 PM
http://math.boisestate.edu/gas/index.html
My first thought was that Rod was joking. Then I read his entry again ("Read this. Savor it. Pass it on to everyone you know.") and thought no, he's not joking. Now I'm back to thinking he's joking.
HB>
Susan S.
December 19, 2006 4:37 PM
I wonder if this will end up in his tenure review? Like John Kerry, the writer probably should avoid being ironic and/or funny since he appears to lack the talent at either.>
god_is_in_the_tv
December 19, 2006 4:37 PM
Bruce,
Dickead is uncivil.
Calling someone a liar becauase one questions hismanhood is nasty.
A nuanced difference, to be sure, but a difference nonetheless.>
Rod Dreher
December 19, 2006 4:45 PM
I forgot: It's also petty, misogynistic, arrogant, grandiose, pathetically aggrieved, and paternalistically racist.
Hee hee hee!>
Bruce
December 19, 2006 4:46 PM
http://7leper.blogspot.com
Dickhead is uncivil.
I dunno, let's check the first three Merriam-Webster definitions of "nasty":
1 a : disgustingly filthy b : physically repugnant 2 : INDECENT, OBSCENE 3 : MEAN, TAWDRY
But I'll grant you it was uncivil as well.
Calling someone a liar becauase one questions hismanhood is nasty.
Except the main reason Adams thinks the student untruthful is because of the student's claim to have only missed "several" classes.
But whether the student is truthful or not is beside the point. He didn't earn a decent grade in the class, yet thinks he should receive one. If all those calamities really befell him that semester, he should just retake the class. Because the point of the class is to learn and not just receive a grade, right?>
god_is_in_the_tv
December 19, 2006 5:02 PM
Ooh ooh! I can play the dictionary game too!
Several: an indefinite number more than two and fewer than many .
Of course, whether 28 constitutes "many" is relative.
The point is, without evidence that the slacker is also a liar, dickhead should have kept the snark to himself.
He doesn't deserve to be a Professor when what he Professes is vile.>
Hautblossom
December 19, 2006 5:04 PM
http://math.boisestate.edu/gas/index.html
Oh come on, Bruce. The student isn't the point here. Yeah, fail him (I assume "him," but maybe I'm missing something). Call him a dishonest whiny illiterate loser and give him a D- or an F with a hefty side of contempt. But the student here is just an excuse for Adams to go off on a general rant against what he sees as a threat to his type of manhood (unless of course the whole thing is a send-up of a Great White Hunter running scared). He could just as easily have started out "The other day I saw a girlie man walking down the street and that got me to thinking about my recent hog-hunting trip to South Carolina..."
HB>
god_is_in_the_tv
December 19, 2006 5:05 PM
And Rod's response to an acusation of insensitivity is about what one should expect from a fratboy - not an adult.
Does it ever occur to any of you patriarchal types that the reason so many people want to see your reign end is because you're assholes?>
Bruce
December 19, 2006 5:15 PM
http://7leper.blogspot.com
Does it ever occur to any of you patriarchal types that the reason so many people want to see your reign end is because you're assholes?
What? And have my throne occupied by the likes of you? Never!>
C.M.W.
December 19, 2006 5:16 PM
WOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOO! Thank you, Rod! Loved it!>
Deb
December 19, 2006 5:21 PM
Honestly, I wouldn't want to take this man's classes if that is the way he thinks and acts. He has more of a problem than the student. And yes, I agree that some people expect to get by w/o doing their work. So.....
What is wrong with I'm sorry, but you didn't attend 28 classes and your grades weren't good enough for anything other than a D-.
Plain, simple, and you are addressing the problem. All w/o insulting half the population and looking like an a**.>
Rod Dreher
December 19, 2006 5:21 PM
Does it ever occur to any of you patriarchal types that the reason so many people want to see your reign end is because you're assholes?
Hee hee hee.>
B-Dog
December 19, 2006 5:26 PM
Hee hee hee yourself, Rod. What's really offensive about this article is that it's just not funny. He may be a fine prof and a hunter, but he's no David Sedaris. Just plain lame.>
Rod Dreher
December 19, 2006 5:28 PM
none
[Checking to see how easy it is to impersonate Rod here.]>
Hautblossom
December 19, 2006 5:30 PM
http://math.boisestate.edu/gas/index.html
I'm not going to take the "hee hee hee" posts as genuine Rod posts.
HB>
Aaron
December 19, 2006 6:00 PM
Hey, at least it gives the prof a nice excuse to claim he isn't racist, you know, so he can say, "hey, I have black friends, I give them dead wild hogs">
Angela
December 19, 2006 6:40 PM
Seriously, I would like the real Rod (not the hee-hee-hee guy) to explain why he thought so much of that piece. Yes, spoiled undergrads who think they deserve certain grades are annoying. When I was a grad student (a liberal, lesbian grad student, oh my!), I was responsible for grading exams. One kid failed the class because he did not give one-tenth of a crap about it, until he got his final grade and it was an F. He complained to the prof (a liberal feminist female) and got exactly nowhere. My partner teaches high school, and has had more than her share of students who think they deserve A's because of their parents' socioeconomic status, not because of the work they put in. Such a story could be told without the "I'm gonna build you up, girlyman" rhetoric. And yes, giving food to the poor is a good thing, but this guy's tone is definitely paternalistic, not to mention paranoid (he's fantasizing through the whole thing about how PETA, abortion-loving feminists, and metrosexuals would curse and cower at his big manly approach). And as for the blind lesbian at the weenie roast? I'd like to introduce him to some of the country butches I know here in Georgia. He'd be the one shaking, hunting rifle and all.
But enough about the illustrious Mr. Adams. What's up, Rod? I like this blog, despite the fact that I disagree with you about much, as you might surmise. Usually, I find that you approach differences respectfully, even while sticking to your views. I realize that you didn't write this piece, but . . . what's the deal?>
Therese Z
December 19, 2006 6:41 PM
www.exultet.blogspot.com
Personally, I like a little vitriol. It was hilarious.>
Susan
December 19, 2006 6:45 PM
Will the real Rod Dreher please stand up?
In the meantime while we wait for that longed-for event, I'm wondering why I am not offended by Dr. Adams. He is assuredly a misogynist, or this piece purports to be. And a homophobe into the bargain, same caveat. That might be part of it: his claim of misogyny doesn't quite ring true. I suspect that it is something of a pose here.
As someone who made a career in law at a time when everyone still was saying that I couldn't do that, I've met real misogynists, the real deal, and I'm not believing this guy particularly. Besides, I learned a long time ago to just tune that kind of thing out. Otherwise you can drive yourself crazy, and who wins then?
I'm sorry, I just do find this thing funny, so shoot me, and as the parent of a recent college student I've met a number of kids (not mine, thank God) who have precisely the wimpy attitude Dr. Adams is attacking here. "Oh golly I just couldn't get it together to come to class hardly at all because of all the misfortunes in my life, so why not give me a good grade anyhow?" And, "The world owes me." We parents and taxpayers of both genders are out here working our butts off to give these kids an education which is virtually free to them and that's what we get.
If it's racist to give meat to poor people we need more racists. What's better, that or that he takes the hog home and becomes obese? I would remind all you naturalists that hogs are not indigenous to the North American continent, and furthermore I've met some in the wild and they will as soon kill you as look at you, Dr. Adams is giving us the straight reading on that one.
And those of you who are offended by hunting, I hope you're all vegans, because otherwise you're a tad inconsistent.>
Hautblossom
December 19, 2006 7:07 PM
http://math.boisestate.edu/gas/index.html
And those of you who are offended by hunting, I hope you're all vegans, because otherwise you're a tad inconsistent.
Other than mari lup's "MURDEROUS" comment, which is on the vague side, I don't see responses here from people offended by hunting. I think you're setting up a straw man.
HB>
kim margosein
December 19, 2006 7:11 PM
It is times like this that I regret the Confederates lost the Civil War. The USA would have been so much better off without the South.
Kim M>
Anonymous
December 19, 2006 7:24 PM
You've never had a public school education, so here's a hog. Enjoy.
Yeah, this guy's a real reformer.>
connie
December 19, 2006 8:09 PM
I try, I really try, to cultivate a better opinion of Rod than the one I've had, in which he's a self-satistifed, holier-than-thou, better-than-you cultural conservative. He's no longer writing for The Corner (I guess), and he has admitted being wrong in backing the Iraq War. Two steps forward.
But his writing contains so much "I'm persecuted just because I'm a white male Christian Southern conservative." "Why can't all families have the dad work and the mom stay home and school the kids?" [Oops, that didn't quite work, did it?] "Why doesn't everyone believe in God the way I do?" "Things would be so much better if everyone acted like I do!"
I try, I really do. Then he favorably points to a piece of cr*p writing like this, and it's 10 steps backwards.
Come on, Rod, tell us what you liked about that article. And acknowledge the validity of some of its criticisms as pointed out here.>
Christine
December 19, 2006 8:14 PM
Well -- my husband is a retired police officer, an ex-Marine and VietNam vet.
He's also not a hunting fan. Does that make him a metrosexual ??
Can't say I really enjoyed this article.>
RB
December 19, 2006 8:43 PM
That feminists are baby killers who lack integrity and turn men into wimps? . Tope | 12.19.06 - 10:52 am | #
Uh... Yeah.
Rod, you knew this would be unpopular, so why post it? I've enjoyed reading the reactions, though. I guess the PC culture reaches deeper into conservatism than I realized. How can we teach boys to be men when our men are criticized for being men?>
Christine
December 19, 2006 8:51 PM
"How can we teach boys to be men when our men are criticized for being men?"
Well, that's the question, isn't it? Just what does it mean to "be a man" ??>
RB
December 19, 2006 9:08 PM
Refer to the article for a couple of examples:
Stating the truth in spite of the potential backlash. Another could be - here's an idea - feeding a family that's struggling for money. Or - accepting the consequences when you deserve a failing grade.>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 9:11 PM
As an amusing aside, can anyone tell me who wrote this passage:
"I was a successful deer hunter exactly once. And it was the last day I ever hunted deer. Killing that big, beautiful animal for no good reason left me disgusted with myself. ">
mari lup
December 19, 2006 9:18 PM
I believe Rod wrote that, and I've always respected him for it. While I don't find it amusing (a word frequently misused for some reason), it does constitute Reason #37 why his admiration for that fool's essay is confusing.>
Christine
December 19, 2006 9:18 PM
RB, I don't see that any of the criteria you state are gender-related.
Nor does hunting in and of itself make a man.>
RB
December 19, 2006 9:23 PM
Jaybird, When you kill an animal for food, it does leave a sensitive person with a feeling of sadness. The deer wanted to live as bad as you or I do. But - there is also a sense of thankfulness to the animal itself. It gave it's life in order to give you life. It's an experience to be treasured, rather than feared. Is that really what all the criticism of this article is about? What fault could possibly be found in feeding a family in need? I guess Americans prefer chickens who grow to full size in two weeks with beak and legs removed for convenience.>
RB
December 19, 2006 9:24 PM
Nor does hunting in and of itself make a man. Christine | 12.19.06 - 4:23 pm | #
Of course not. The title of the article was Integrity 101, not Hunting 101.>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 9:26 PM
While I don't find it amusing (a word frequently misused for some reason), it does constitute Reason #37 why his admiration for that fool's essay is confusing.
Yes Rod wrote it. What I find "amusing" here is the incongruity between his stated ambivalence about the whole macho/redneck aspect that frequently characterizes the sport (fairly or not) vs. his apparent approval of same in the the moronic Adams piece he linked to earlier today.>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 9:30 PM
RB-
I'm well aware of the moral implications of hunting, and I'm not numb to them. I've hunted for over 20 years. I just think Rod's seemingly gleeful celebration of this idiotic piece is a little bizare, given his own qualms about hunting.>
Mike
December 19, 2006 9:37 PM
That article was a joke. It reeked of empty masculinity parading as "character". And the fallacies were abundant--we should all be against PETA lest poor black families starve! What? It seems like a fake article written by a liberal posing a conservative just to make conservatives look like a joke.>
Christine
December 19, 2006 9:50 PM
Um, I don't think that deer "gave" its life. It was taken.
From one of the responses to the article on the site:
"Given the use of the word "metrosexual" it appears to me that the student was a boy, not a girl. Here's hoping a little hunting and public humiliation will turn that boy into a man."
I absolutely deplore this kind of caricature.>
Rod Dreher
December 19, 2006 9:51 PM
I don't like to hunt myself. I have nothing against hunting per se. My admiration for the article had nothing to do with the fact that it was written in the voice of a hunter.
I liked that the author put the smackdown on privileged middle-class weenies who expect the world to bend to their wishes, and did so humorously. Nothing more to it than that. The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.>
Aaron
December 19, 2006 9:54 PM
Where was the humor? I could understand (context is everything)if this guy was on a comedy tour but....>
RB
December 19, 2006 9:58 PM
I absolutely deplore this kind of caricature. Christine | 12.19.06 - 4:55 pm | #
I suppose you deplore clearly defined gender roles and any hint of masculinity as well. As for your opposition to hunting, if you prefer meat out of factory farms, you really have no moral authority whatsoever when it comes to animal rights.>
jaybird
December 19, 2006 10:00 PM
"I liked that the author put the smackdown on privileged middle-class weenies who expect the world to bend to their wishes, and did so humorously. Nothing more to it than that. The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home. "
It did? I guess maybe in some conservative-pundit-fever-dream version of reality... but otherwise it was just another poorly-written right-wing rant on the internet.>
Aaron
December 19, 2006 10:22 PM
I suppose you deplore clearly defined gender roles and any hint of masculinity as well.
Please, enlighten us as to what a masculine gender role entails.
Is it huntin'
Is it having wild rampant sex?
Is it being good at sports, in corollary, would golf and bowling count?
Is it NOT using hairspray/gel?
Is it wearing whitytighties, boxers, or freeballing?
C'mon man, tell us what it is!>
Tope
December 19, 2006 10:36 PM
The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.
People express indignation and offense at an offensive article, and your response is that it must be true because we're offended?
Do you actually read people's responses before you start mocking them?>
RB
December 19, 2006 10:43 PM
C'mon man, tell us what it is! Aaron | 12.19.06 - 5:27 pm | #
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The point of the article is that masculinity is NOT running away from the effects of your behavior, or trying to weasel out with lies or half-truths.
P.S. Golf DOESN'T count.>
Susan
December 19, 2006 11:11 PM
I liked that the author put the smackdown on privileged middle-class weenies who expect the world to bend to their wishes, and did so humorously. Nothing more to it than that. The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.
Go, Rod!
Also, RB!>
Susan
December 19, 2006 11:13 PM
Rod, you knew this would be unpopular, so why post it? I've enjoyed reading the reactions, though. I guess the PC culture reaches deeper into conservatism than I realized. How can we teach boys to be men when our men are criticized for being men?
Yes, RB, right on.>
RB
December 19, 2006 11:19 PM
Aaron: I'm not trying to defend any macho/redneck stereotype. I do want to point out, however, the tendency of our culture to faint over anything with masculine origins or overtones. Most men define manhood by the personality and mannerisms of their own father, for good or bad. Feminism has set forth the idea that the father (masculine role model)is at best, unnecessary, and at worst, evil. My point is that traditional views of masculinity, integrity, strength, security and justice have value. The impact of a lovingly engaged Dad, macho or not, is immeasurable. The article's thesis, well written or not, is valid. Failure to own up to failure is decidedly un-manly.>
Reader John
December 19, 2006 11:44 PM
De gustibus no est diputandum. I read Adams' column as a formulaic screed to meet his contract obligation despite lacking anything worthwhile to say. "Poor people" and tuition-as-welfare were the faux redeeming social value.>
Aaron
December 19, 2006 11:48 PM
RB-
I thought it was great tying in the spoiled brats failure to accept responsibility with the squandering of his opportunities, but don't you think the whole anti-femine (obviously I don't agree with your definition above), homophobic ranting kinda invalidated any moral point he was trying to make.
I also disagree our culture faints over anything with masculine overtones, sports is as manly as it gets (sans golf ;) )and we idoloize sports figures, but you don't see women's sports too often.
My point is that traditional views of masculinity, integrity, strength, security and justice have value. The impact of a lovingly engaged Dad, macho or not, is immeasurable.
And I agree, but the author invalidated himself, like creationists, hardcore rightwingers such as the author are hard to separate from the parody, that's how deep in their own feces they are.>
RB
December 20, 2006 12:03 AM
Sports are a valid outlet for natural masculine aggression, but the average professional athlete is the same whiny little brat that the article spoke of. I'm talking about media painting dad as a buffoon, or a drunken abuser. While these things do occur, and are quite detrimental, dad is NEVER unnecessary. I don't think the tone of the article invalidated the thesis. I understand that people put up walls when they hear things that are offensive to them, but the fact is, extreme Feminism has damaged the role of masculinity in society. Gender nuetrality, fluidity, and all that other ridiculous b.s. Stupid ideas deserve intolerance.>
Aaron
December 20, 2006 3:01 AM
Ok, maybe the central thesis wasn't so much invalidated but rather hidden in a bunch of unnecessary bigoted garbage.>
elizabeth
December 20, 2006 3:12 AM
"Just take a course from one of the feminist professors. They have aborted 1/4 of the males in your generation..."
As if there are enough feminist professors to get pregnant with 1/4 of the males of a generation - especially if they are the lesbian man-haters the paleocons make feminists out to be!
This is the sorriest excuse for humor writing I've seen in a long time, not to mention a complete misread of feminism. But it sure does bring out some interesting, if distasteful, responses.
Some of ya'll good Christians need to start practicing more of the love your much vaunted Savior recommended. You'll feel much better.>
elmo
December 20, 2006 5:17 AM
I'm sorry, but the crack about the blind lesbian at a weenie roast was funny.>
mary
December 20, 2006 9:46 AM
He might be right, but what for he posted that letter on public instead of sending it privately to that boy? It looks as if his main purpose was to show everyone how smart, brave, masculine and honest he is comparing to that guy. ;)>
Matt
December 20, 2006 1:25 PM
Rod - great post! A very refreshing, no-nonsense read.>
joe perez
December 20, 2006 9:37 PM
http://until.joe-perez.com/
Rod, I did read the piece AND your recommendation AND I am passing along the following comment to everyone I know who reads my blog.
Not as funny as a blind lesbian at a weenie roast The "Crunchy Con", the The Dallas Morning News editor and apparent homohater who enjoys posing as One of the Good Conservatives, loves this piece of crap and calls its author his hero. The essay is so unfunny and predictable though the author comes across as an Archie Bunker sort of curmudgeon not to be taken seriously.
One of Dreher's comment box commentators says that the piece doesn't really offend because the author is obviously striking a pose. That's gotta be it. It's so insincere, it's actually amusing. The only scary thing is that Rod "I'm one of the Good Conservatives, really!" Dreher does seem to take it seriously. He calls the author his hero.
Rod, any brownie points as a "good, intelligent, reasonable homophobe" you may have ever earned with me are flushed down the toilet. I can just see you right now reading the "blind lesbian at a weenie roast" punchline and rolling in the aisles with laughter. You ... so ... funny. But hey you got attention, so maybe that makes you happy.
"Will the real Rod Dreher please stand up?" his sane readers ask. I think maybe he is standing. I've begun to ask ... Is Rod Dreher a dork? I'm open to being convinced otherwise, but the evidence--and the Google Pagerank--is rapidly mounting.>
EMC
December 31, 2006 6:13 PM
I think all the offended ones here should spend a semester at the humorless, diversity-worshipping, oppressively "sensitive" arena where Prof. Adams attempts to give his students a real education. Just read his archives and see what a crazy little gulag "higher" education has become. Or try "Phi Beta Cons" at NRO. His in-your-face style is entirely appropriate.>
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Wow. I hunt, and I did pretty well in college, but that might have been the stupidest thing I've read in a long time.>
A vile human wrote that article. We're talking Ann Coulter vile. What is it about dickhead pundits like that which makes them so particularly nasty?
Are they dead inside?>
What exactly do you admire about this person, Rod?
HB>
Also, sorta-off topic, but townhall.com is easily one of the worst-designed websites I've ever seen. I get a migraine just looking at it, let alone trying to read through the inane commentary that gets posted there.>
I'm glad I'm not the only one that gave Rod demerits on this one.
The sad thing is the boys (his) will want to grow up and be a hero in dad's eyes. It's what kids do. They'll look at this Adams character and since dear old dad thinks he hung the moon, try to emulate not only just the actions, but the attitude.
I wonder if he'll still think it manly when his sons are modeling it, just for him.>
Interesting comments above: stupidest, vile and nasty.
How about the merits of the underlying argument or is personal dimiution the only response? The arrogance never ceases. This ties in perfectly with what Rod has been writing regarding Therapy/Virtue.
To clarify, push back is coming from us out here in the hinterlands.>
I guess I'm on my own, but that was a fun article. Thanks Rod.>
After we harvest a hog, we re going to go give it to one of the poor underprivileged South Carolina black families that - due to racism, segregation, and poverty have never had the opportunity to pursue a public education. When you meet them I want you to explain why you have squandered opportunities they never had opportunities like a place in the North Carolina university system where 70% of your education is funded by the public.
I suspect that this attitude is what Rod admires, and I have to say that I agree with him. I don't work with privileged university students - luckily for many of them - but I meet and know enough of them to have encountered the mindset this guy is condemning. The "the world owes me" mindset.
Those of us who have children who "reason" thus will have a lot to answer for, and cause enough to regret our foolishness in allowing them to persist in it. The world doesn't "owe" anybody anything, which these youngsters will find out to their sorrow once they get out of school.>
Ah yes, because Rod is mocked for posting an idiotic article, that means the forces of the p.c. therapeutic culture are out to get him. Who's the the whining victim here again?>
I repeat HB's question: What, precisely, is supposed to be admirable about this person? The lesbian joke in particular makes me think that this is just a frat boy who got older without ever growing up. The social justice lesson tacked on to the end does not make up for the arrogance and stupidity that permeate the writing.
Is this what living in the south does to people? Count me out.>
Savor it? Pass it on? No thanks. I would have to explain this bit, among others:
But if you choose option A , don t ever sign up for one of my classes again. Just take a course from one of the feminist professors. They have aborted 1/4 of the males in your generation and seek to turn the other 3/4 of the males into effeminate victims who are dishonest with their professors and afraid of hunting. Think this matter over carefully before you get back to me. Neither I nor our nation can tolerate another of your metrosexual missives. Nor can our nation survive without a revival of emphasis on character, responsibility, and personal integrity.
Wow. You could cut the misogyny with a knife - not to mention the straw men and logical fallacies. This is a disgusting display of contempt for women. One would think that Adams could extol the virtues of hunting without taking potshots at women, 'effeminate' men (apparently all men except for him and his fellow hunters?), his students, and really the world at large.
I'm disappointed that you would recommend such a vile piece of work. I wish I could say I'm surprised. If this is the sort of thing I can expect from your blog, I think I've learned all I can here. Sayonara.>
Bob -
I can't say I see the underlying argument of which you speak. What would that be? That hunting is manly? That lying and complaining about a deserved grade is dishonest? That feminists are baby killers who lack integrity and turn men into wimps? I'm sorry, none of those strike me as particularly deep or sophisticated arguments.>
Come on, guys. Think about the student to whom this letter is addressed. He missed the final 28 meetings of the class in question, to wit, he blew the class off. Then rather than slinking off in silence as most of us would, he came up with the dog-ate-my-homework concoction of death robbery and firing, which I along with the author suspect is pure fiction. And now he has the unmitigated gall to protest a grade of D-, which as we all suspected before we got to that point should have been an F.
Cutting the prof a little slack for the lesbian crack, I'd say that taking this overprivileged ungrateful kid out hunting to encounter some reality is too good for him. Would you hand this screw-up a gun? I would have grave reservations about even letting him carry the machete.
Then the program is to take him to meet some people who think a dead hog is a gift from heaven because they haven't seen that much meat in one place for as long as they can remember. And he can explain to them why he is squandering the hard work and effort of so many people, undoubtedly including his parents, which is being poured into the education he is ignoring.
I hope the prof is serious. I hope the kid goes. I hope he learns something.
I'm from Los Angeles and I live in San Francisco. Many of my close friends are lesbians. I don't agree with that part.
But that's not what this article is about. It's about screw-up kids and people who have been handed the world on a platter and who can't bother to make the most minimal effort on their own behalf. And we've got lots of those folks out here in the blue states too. If asked to chose sides, I can tell you which side I'm on.>
Susan,
Adams could have made all of those points without being juvenile and sexist. I'm totally on board with calls for people to take more personal responsibility for their mistakes. I think it's a very important message for our time and culture.
But that doesn't give Adams a pass to insult huge groups of people and generalize them as lacking in integrity and personal responsibility (and worse). Yes, the student was wrong. So is Adams. He doesn't deserve any slack.>
Are you out of your MIND, Rod?? I razz you about a lot of your delusions and incoherent beliefs, but that essay is just terrible -- self-righteous, smug, sanctimonious, homophobic. And, er, MURDEROUS. I'd cheer to raise the rafters if I heard about one of those boars gutting him with its tusks.
-ml>
He missed the final 28 meetings of the class in question, to wit, he blew the class off.
Even if this were the case (and to be sure I see no evidence in that "missive" that makes me think it is), the level of contempt dripping from every word discredits whatever point Rambo there was trying to make.
And besides...
What if the kid was telling the truth?>
I forgot: It's also petty, misogynistic, arrogant, grandiose, pathetically aggrieved, and paternalistically racist.>
Does anyone really think this is about a real situation, and not just some corny conservative parable that Mr. Adams made up to take shots at slacker college students, and [somewhat bizarrely] lesbians? I mean, it's all well and good that Dr. Adams doesn't give out undeserved grades, but the particulars here - missing 28 classes, followed by mealy-mouthed cajoling for a higher grade, the alleged "metrosexuality" of the student in question, the po' black family in the backwoods - it all just sounds a little too good to be true. And all the chest-thumping, macho-white hunter stuff is just laughable, really. I've been a hunter for more than 20 years, and there's nothing more tedious than some a-hole going on and on about what a great hunter they are, how hunting builds character, etc. I've met just as many over-priveleged, jerks in hunting blinds as I ever did on a college campus.>
What is it about dickhead pundits like that which makes them so particularly nasty?
How paradoxical, spewing nastiness in response to nastiness.
On the whole I think Adams is saying what needs to be said, though I also cringed at the lesbian comment. Guess I'm not masculine enough.>
It's also [...] paternalistically racist.
Which part? Where Adams acknowledges there are poor blacks in the area or where he gives them food?>
My first thought was that Rod was joking. Then I read his entry again ("Read this. Savor it. Pass it on to everyone you know.") and thought no, he's not joking. Now I'm back to thinking he's joking.
HB>
I wonder if this will end up in his tenure review? Like John Kerry, the writer probably should avoid being ironic and/or funny since he appears to lack the talent at either.>
Bruce,
Dickead is uncivil.
Calling someone a liar becauase one questions hismanhood is nasty.
A nuanced difference, to be sure, but a difference nonetheless.>
I forgot: It's also petty, misogynistic, arrogant, grandiose, pathetically aggrieved, and paternalistically racist.
Hee hee hee!>
Dickhead is uncivil.
I dunno, let's check the first three Merriam-Webster definitions of "nasty":
1 a : disgustingly filthy b : physically repugnant
2 : INDECENT, OBSCENE
3 : MEAN, TAWDRY
But I'll grant you it was uncivil as well.
Calling someone a liar becauase one questions hismanhood is nasty.
Except the main reason Adams thinks the student untruthful is because of the student's claim to have only missed "several" classes.
But whether the student is truthful or not is beside the point. He didn't earn a decent grade in the class, yet thinks he should receive one. If all those calamities really befell him that semester, he should just retake the class. Because the point of the class is to learn and not just receive a grade, right?>
Ooh ooh! I can play the dictionary game too!
Several: an indefinite number more than two and fewer than many .
Of course, whether 28 constitutes "many" is relative.
The point is, without evidence that the slacker is also a liar, dickhead should have kept the snark to himself.
He doesn't deserve to be a Professor when what he Professes is vile.>
Oh come on, Bruce. The student isn't the point here. Yeah, fail him (I assume "him," but maybe I'm missing something). Call him a dishonest whiny illiterate loser and give him a D- or an F with a hefty side of contempt. But the student here is just an excuse for Adams to go off on a general rant against what he sees as a threat to his type of manhood (unless of course the whole thing is a send-up of a Great White Hunter running scared). He could just as easily have started out "The other day I saw a girlie man walking down the street and that got me to thinking about my recent hog-hunting trip to South Carolina..."
HB>
And Rod's response to an acusation of insensitivity is about what one should expect from a fratboy - not an adult.
Does it ever occur to any of you patriarchal types that the reason so many people want to see your reign end is because you're assholes?>
Does it ever occur to any of you patriarchal types that the reason so many people want to see your reign end is because you're assholes?
What? And have my throne occupied by the likes of you? Never!>
WOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOO! Thank you, Rod!
Loved it!>
Honestly, I wouldn't want to take this man's classes if that is the way he thinks and acts. He has more of a problem than the student. And yes, I agree that some people expect to get by w/o doing their work. So.....
What is wrong with I'm sorry, but you didn't attend 28 classes and your grades weren't good enough for anything other than a D-.
Plain, simple, and you are addressing the problem. All w/o insulting half the population and looking like an a**.>
Does it ever occur to any of you patriarchal types that the reason so many people want to see your reign end is because you're assholes?
Hee hee hee.>
Hee hee hee yourself, Rod. What's really offensive about this article is that it's just not funny. He may be a fine prof and a hunter, but he's no David Sedaris. Just plain lame.>
[Checking to see how easy it is to impersonate Rod here.]>
I'm not going to take the "hee hee hee" posts as genuine Rod posts.
HB>
Hey, at least it gives the prof a nice excuse to claim he isn't racist, you know, so he can say, "hey, I have black friends, I give them dead wild hogs">
Seriously, I would like the real Rod (not the hee-hee-hee guy) to explain why he thought so much of that piece. Yes, spoiled undergrads who think they deserve certain grades are annoying. When I was a grad student (a liberal, lesbian grad student, oh my!), I was responsible for grading exams. One kid failed the class because he did not give one-tenth of a crap about it, until he got his final grade and it was an F. He complained to the prof (a liberal feminist female) and got exactly nowhere. My partner teaches high school, and has had more than her share of students who think they deserve A's because of their parents' socioeconomic status, not because of the work they put in. Such a story could be told without the "I'm gonna build you up, girlyman" rhetoric. And yes, giving food to the poor is a good thing, but this guy's tone is definitely paternalistic, not to mention paranoid (he's fantasizing through the whole thing about how PETA, abortion-loving feminists, and metrosexuals would curse and cower at his big manly approach).
And as for the blind lesbian at the weenie roast? I'd like to introduce him to some of the country butches I know here in Georgia. He'd be the one shaking, hunting rifle and all.
But enough about the illustrious Mr. Adams. What's up, Rod? I like this blog, despite the fact that I disagree with you about much, as you might surmise. Usually, I find that you approach differences respectfully, even while sticking to your views. I realize that you didn't write this piece, but . . . what's the deal?>
Personally, I like a little vitriol. It was hilarious.>
Will the real Rod Dreher please stand up?
In the meantime while we wait for that longed-for event, I'm wondering why I am not offended by Dr. Adams. He is assuredly a misogynist, or this piece purports to be. And a homophobe into the bargain, same caveat. That might be part of it: his claim of misogyny doesn't quite ring true. I suspect that it is something of a pose here.
As someone who made a career in law at a time when everyone still was saying that I couldn't do that, I've met real misogynists, the real deal, and I'm not believing this guy particularly. Besides, I learned a long time ago to just tune that kind of thing out. Otherwise you can drive yourself crazy, and who wins then?
I'm sorry, I just do find this thing funny, so shoot me, and as the parent of a recent college student I've met a number of kids (not mine, thank God) who have precisely the wimpy attitude Dr. Adams is attacking here. "Oh golly I just couldn't get it together to come to class hardly at all because of all the misfortunes in my life, so why not give me a good grade anyhow?" And, "The world owes me." We parents and taxpayers of both genders are out here working our butts off to give these kids an education which is virtually free to them and that's what we get.
If it's racist to give meat to poor people we need more racists. What's better, that or that he takes the hog home and becomes obese? I would remind all you naturalists that hogs are not indigenous to the North American continent, and furthermore I've met some in the wild and they will as soon kill you as look at you, Dr. Adams is giving us the straight reading on that one.
And those of you who are offended by hunting, I hope you're all vegans, because otherwise you're a tad inconsistent.>
And those of you who are offended by hunting, I hope you're all vegans, because otherwise you're a tad inconsistent.
Other than mari lup's "MURDEROUS" comment, which is on the vague side, I don't see responses here from people offended by hunting. I think you're setting up a straw man.
HB>
It is times like this that I regret the Confederates lost the Civil War. The USA would have been so much better off without the South.
Kim M>
You've never had a public school education, so here's a hog. Enjoy.
Yeah, this guy's a real reformer.>
I try, I really try, to cultivate a better opinion of Rod than the one I've had, in which he's a self-satistifed, holier-than-thou, better-than-you cultural conservative. He's no longer writing for The Corner (I guess), and he has admitted being wrong in backing the Iraq War. Two steps forward.
But his writing contains so much "I'm persecuted just because I'm a white male Christian Southern conservative." "Why can't all families have the dad work and the mom stay home and school the kids?" [Oops, that didn't quite work, did it?] "Why doesn't everyone believe in God the way I do?" "Things would be so much better if everyone acted like I do!"
I try, I really do. Then he favorably points to a piece of cr*p writing like this, and it's 10 steps backwards.
Come on, Rod, tell us what you liked about that article. And acknowledge the validity of some of its criticisms as pointed out here.>
Well -- my husband is a retired police officer, an ex-Marine and VietNam vet.
He's also not a hunting fan. Does that make him a metrosexual ??
Can't say I really enjoyed this article.>
That feminists are baby killers who lack integrity and turn men into wimps? .
Tope | 12.19.06 - 10:52 am | #
Uh... Yeah.
Rod, you knew this would be unpopular, so why post it? I've enjoyed reading the reactions, though. I guess the PC culture reaches deeper into conservatism than I realized. How can we teach boys to be men when our men are criticized for being men?>
"How can we teach boys to be men when our men are criticized for being men?"
Well, that's the question, isn't it? Just what does it mean to "be a man" ??>
Refer to the article for a couple of examples:
Stating the truth in spite of the potential backlash. Another could be - here's an idea - feeding a family that's struggling for money. Or - accepting the consequences when you deserve a failing grade.>
As an amusing aside, can anyone tell me who wrote this passage:
"I was a successful deer hunter exactly once. And it was the last day I ever hunted deer. Killing that big, beautiful animal for no good reason left me disgusted with myself. ">
I believe Rod wrote that, and I've always respected him for it. While I don't find it amusing (a word frequently misused for some reason), it does constitute Reason #37 why his admiration for that fool's essay is confusing.>
RB, I don't see that any of the criteria you state are gender-related.
Nor does hunting in and of itself make a man.>
Jaybird,
When you kill an animal for food, it does leave a sensitive person with a feeling of sadness. The deer wanted to live as bad as you or I do. But - there is also a sense of thankfulness to the animal itself. It gave it's life in order to give you life. It's an experience to be treasured, rather than feared. Is that really what all the criticism of this article is about? What fault could possibly be found in feeding a family in need? I guess Americans prefer chickens who grow to full size in two weeks with beak and legs removed for convenience.>
Nor does hunting in and of itself make a man.
Christine | 12.19.06 - 4:23 pm | #
Of course not. The title of the article was Integrity 101, not Hunting 101.>
While I don't find it amusing (a word frequently misused for some reason), it does constitute Reason #37 why his admiration for that fool's essay is confusing.
Yes Rod wrote it. What I find "amusing" here is the incongruity between his stated ambivalence about the whole macho/redneck aspect that frequently characterizes the sport (fairly or not) vs. his apparent approval of same in the the moronic Adams piece he linked to earlier today.>
RB-
I'm well aware of the moral implications of hunting, and I'm not numb to them. I've hunted for over 20 years. I just think Rod's seemingly gleeful celebration of this idiotic piece is a little bizare, given his own qualms about hunting.>
That article was a joke. It reeked of empty masculinity parading as "character". And the fallacies were abundant--we should all be against PETA lest poor black families starve! What? It seems like a fake article written by a liberal posing a conservative just to make conservatives look like a joke.>
Um, I don't think that deer "gave" its life. It was taken.
From one of the responses to the article on the site:
"Given the use of the word "metrosexual" it appears to me that the student was a boy, not a girl. Here's hoping a little hunting and public humiliation will turn that boy into a man."
I absolutely deplore this kind of caricature.>
I don't like to hunt myself. I have nothing against hunting per se. My admiration for the article had nothing to do with the fact that it was written in the voice of a hunter.
I liked that the author put the smackdown on privileged middle-class weenies who expect the world to bend to their wishes, and did so humorously. Nothing more to it than that. The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.>
Where was the humor? I could understand (context is everything)if this guy was on a comedy tour but....>
I absolutely deplore this kind of caricature.
Christine | 12.19.06 - 4:55 pm | #
I suppose you deplore clearly defined gender roles and any hint of masculinity as well. As for your opposition to hunting, if you prefer meat out of factory farms, you really have no moral authority whatsoever when it comes to animal rights.>
"I liked that the author put the smackdown on privileged middle-class weenies who expect the world to bend to their wishes, and did so humorously. Nothing more to it than that. The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.
"
It did? I guess maybe in some conservative-pundit-fever-dream version of reality... but otherwise it was just another poorly-written right-wing rant on the internet.>
I suppose you deplore clearly defined gender roles and any hint of masculinity as well.
Please, enlighten us as to what a masculine gender role entails.
Is it huntin'
Is it having wild rampant sex?
Is it being good at sports, in corollary, would golf and bowling count?
Is it NOT using hairspray/gel?
Is it wearing whitytighties, boxers, or freeballing?
C'mon man, tell us what it is!>
The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.
People express indignation and offense at an offensive article, and your response is that it must be true because we're offended?
Do you actually read people's responses before you start mocking them?>
C'mon man, tell us what it is!
Aaron | 12.19.06 - 5:27 pm | #
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The point of the article is that masculinity is NOT running away from the effects of your behavior, or trying to weasel out with lies or half-truths.
P.S.
Golf DOESN'T count.>
I liked that the author put the smackdown on privileged middle-class weenies who expect the world to bend to their wishes, and did so humorously. Nothing more to it than that. The fact that it's caused several of you to have to take to the bed after having been overcome with the vapors makes me think that Adams hit rather close to home.
Go, Rod!
Also, RB!>
Rod, you knew this would be unpopular, so why post it? I've enjoyed reading the reactions, though. I guess the PC culture reaches deeper into conservatism than I realized. How can we teach boys to be men when our men are criticized for being men?
Yes, RB, right on.>
Aaron:
I'm not trying to defend any macho/redneck stereotype. I do want to point out, however, the tendency of our culture to faint over anything with masculine origins or overtones. Most men define manhood by the personality and mannerisms of their own father, for good or bad. Feminism has set forth the idea that the father (masculine role model)is at best, unnecessary, and at worst, evil. My point is that traditional views of masculinity, integrity, strength, security and justice have value. The impact of a lovingly engaged Dad, macho or not, is immeasurable. The article's thesis, well written or not, is valid. Failure to own up to failure is decidedly un-manly.>
De gustibus no est diputandum. I read Adams' column as a formulaic screed to meet his contract obligation despite lacking anything worthwhile to say. "Poor people" and tuition-as-welfare were the faux redeeming social value.>
RB-
I thought it was great tying in the spoiled brats failure to accept responsibility with the squandering of his opportunities, but don't you think the whole anti-femine (obviously I don't agree with your definition above), homophobic ranting kinda invalidated any moral point he was trying to make.
I also disagree our culture faints over anything with masculine overtones, sports is as manly as it gets (sans golf ;) )and we idoloize sports figures, but you don't see women's sports too often.
My point is that traditional views of masculinity, integrity, strength, security and justice have value. The impact of a lovingly engaged Dad, macho or not, is immeasurable.
And I agree, but the author invalidated himself, like creationists, hardcore rightwingers such as the author are hard to separate from the parody, that's how deep in their own feces they are.>
Sports are a valid outlet for natural masculine aggression, but the average professional athlete is the same whiny little brat that the article spoke of. I'm talking about media painting dad as a buffoon, or a drunken abuser. While these things do occur, and are quite detrimental, dad is NEVER unnecessary.
I don't think the tone of the article invalidated the thesis. I understand that people put up walls when they hear things that are offensive to them, but the fact is, extreme Feminism has damaged the role of masculinity in society. Gender nuetrality, fluidity, and all that other ridiculous b.s. Stupid ideas deserve intolerance.>
Ok, maybe the central thesis wasn't so much invalidated but rather hidden in a bunch of unnecessary bigoted garbage.>
"Just take a course from one of the feminist professors. They have aborted 1/4 of the males in your generation..."
As if there are enough feminist professors to get pregnant with 1/4 of the males of a generation - especially if they are the lesbian man-haters the paleocons make feminists out to be!
This is the sorriest excuse for humor writing I've seen in a long time, not to mention a complete misread of feminism. But it sure does bring out some interesting, if distasteful, responses.
Some of ya'll good Christians need to start practicing more of the love your much vaunted Savior recommended. You'll feel much better.>
I'm sorry, but the crack about the blind lesbian at a weenie roast was funny.>
He might be right, but what for he posted that letter on public instead of sending it privately to that boy? It looks as if his main purpose was to show everyone how smart, brave, masculine and honest he is comparing to that guy.
;)>
Rod - great post! A very refreshing, no-nonsense read.>
Rod, I did read the piece AND your recommendation AND I am passing along the following comment to everyone I know who reads my blog.
Not as funny as a blind lesbian at a weenie roast
The "Crunchy Con", the The Dallas Morning News editor and apparent homohater who enjoys posing as One of the Good Conservatives, loves this piece of crap and calls its author his hero. The essay is so unfunny and predictable though the author comes across as an Archie Bunker sort of curmudgeon not to be taken seriously.
One of Dreher's comment box commentators says that the piece doesn't really offend because the author is obviously striking a pose. That's gotta be it. It's so insincere, it's actually amusing. The only scary thing is that Rod "I'm one of the Good Conservatives, really!" Dreher does seem to take it seriously. He calls the author his hero.
Rod, any brownie points as a "good, intelligent, reasonable homophobe" you may have ever earned with me are flushed down the toilet. I can just see you right now reading the "blind lesbian at a weenie roast" punchline and rolling in the aisles with laughter. You ... so ... funny. But hey you got attention, so maybe that makes you happy.
"Will the real Rod Dreher please stand up?" his sane readers ask. I think maybe he is standing. I've begun to ask ... Is Rod Dreher a dork? I'm open to being convinced otherwise, but the evidence--and the Google Pagerank--is rapidly mounting.>
I think all the offended ones here should spend a semester at the humorless, diversity-worshipping, oppressively "sensitive" arena where Prof. Adams attempts to give his students a real education. Just read his archives and see what a crazy little gulag "higher" education has become. Or try "Phi Beta Cons" at NRO. His in-your-face style is entirely appropriate.>
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