Architecture, sacred order and Benedict
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Allow me to beat Gary Seaton to the punch - One can see this realization in real, "live" mortar and stone, taking shape before one's very eyes, at Clear Creek Monastery. For those not in the know, that is more formally known as Our Lady of the Annunciation of Clear Creek Priory - a Benedictine monastery under construction at Hulbert, Oklahoma in the foothills of the Ozark Mountains. There the monks are building -- with the active approval of our local ordinary, Bp. Edward Slattery, "a monastery to last a thousand years." You can read more about it at: www.clearcreekmonks.org I'm tempted to say that its just in time.
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Gary's told me about Clear Creek before, and the community growing up around it. I'd say Clear Creek is the best cultural news I've heard in years. Bess says that the kind of work that will need to be done to regenerate community will not be possible to complete in 10 years, but will be the work of generations. God bless those monks and the faithful gathering around them.
I do think that we have already turned the corner to a new Dark Age, and are seeing some intentional community formation ala Benedictine structures in the homeschooling movement, etc. I do take issue with blaming urban blight on people who leave the city for the suburbs (better schools, less crime), because I truly believe our culture in general is not supportive of family and unable to deal with inner city crime. The long commutes, extra jobs, and lost family time often make the suburbs uncomfortable for families, but still it is safer than the city. Keeping one's children and spouse safe is visceral...it trumps most everything else; hence the millions of over-worked, commuting parents out there. Instead, I would put the blame on city governments that either will not or cannot control crime, and that will not engage in any meaningful school reform. In the barbaric atmosphere of our pop culture, reform of any kind is problematic...and I think we'll continue to see small, Benedictine-type enclaves grow and thrive in the future. Given the advance of radical Islam into western countries, the inability of government to solve crime and education problems, as well as a host of other modern issues (a sex-saturated society, national polarization between political perspectives, etc), I think it's entirely possible to see a major breakdown of the civilizational structures we've taken for granted. Thinking strictly of a catastrophic terrorist attack in one of our larger cities, the flight from urban life will become a flood. Just looking at New Orleans, which may never come back fully, one is humbled by just how fragile civilization is. Viva St. Benedict!
How about a fourth option- a cooperative housing corporation. Cooperatives are owned by the end-users of the product, in this case housing, according to internationally recognized principles. There are models of cooperative housing all over the country, and there is no reason New Urbanists could not adopt the model.
I will read this book. PS - The immediate problem is economic. To be a real community, the economy of the people must be integrated into the community...and there must be enough local industry to support it. Perhaps a community that starts as a company town, and in turn supports many "feeder" industries? Solve this problem, and you would have to beat people away with a stick. (and deal with the problem of those who wish to live in the community yet not follow the faith that creates the community - see Inquisition). PPS - The secondary problem is that most Americans who long for community are not ready for community life. The Amish and other "primatives" are instructive, as they are the only ones who have actually made it happen here for any length of time...all have a serious rule of life, with those who violate it kicked out. Forget about having people of "similar" faith; it would have to have real doctrine, with real authority, and real excommunications - otherwise, it most likely is a pipe dream. It might last a few years with some nice folk...but just wait...
fbc: Happy to have been "beaten to the punch"!
A couple of side comments on Clear Creek......The architect for the new monastery is Thomas Gordon Smith, former head of the architecture school at ND....and a colleague of Philip Bess. (TGS recently turned down the appointment as Architect of the United States {federal gov't} because it would have required him to give up his private practice.) Due to the explosion of vocations at Clear Creek from around the English-speaking world (a CC monk from New Zealand was ordained to the priesthood in Dec.; monks at CC come from the U.S., Canada, Australia and......France), several postulants and novices are living in tuff sheds. And the greatest influx of vocation "inquirers" literally came to visit during last month's ice storms, when the monastery was without power for seven days. Rod would be torn between the sublimity of the chant and the monks'......frommage blanc!
Here's a suggestion to those who want to build a community-friendly community: look at the places that already work. Find a way to incorporate convenient shopping places with playgrounds (the outdoor kind) and playing fields. Find a way to locate schools and churches within walking distance. Build houses in accessible neighborhoods... take a look at the older New England towns, or urban neighborhoods that were once functional (and now, too often, no longer safe). I come at this problem from a New England perspective, but see no reason why the concepts wouldn't work for sub/urban living in other parts of the country. My sister (in LA) talks about how she has to drive to get to the park, the store, the library, the place where she walks (!). I can walk to all these places, and to church when I don't have to transport a guitar and a baritone horn. I don't think people are unwilling to give up cars, if they can do so and get where they need to go.
I've long wondered if monasteries exist that encourage lay people to live nearby.None of the links on the Clear Creek site work. Are lay families are gravitating toward the area around the monastery and living there? Or are all "the faithful gathering around them" those would are considering entering the monastery? Rod, If the former is the case, do you know of any similar Orthodox communities? My wife and I have spoke of moving near a rural monastery, but are relutant to return to the West, liturgically.
Anthony: The laity who are locating near Clear Creek are doing it on their own. They're not considering entering the monastery. They wouldn't be admitted! (Although their sons would be encouraged....if they have vocations!) It's very much an "ad hoc" movement. Some families live quite close by.....others live 5 miles away, some 20, some in/near Tulsa (~50 miles away). If you visit (and you'd be welcomed) you can easily talk with the "local" families after Mass, and quickly get a feel for what's developing. The monks themselves are quite busy praying the Divine Office, celebrating Mass (Solemn High Mass daily at 10am, private low masses daily ~7:30 depending on when Matins and Lauds conclude), building the new monastery, raising sheep (organically), planting gardens, setting up a furniture-making foyer, and forming new monks. The days melt away......
Gary, you'd said something to me last year about me going up there one weekend with you. Let's try to make it work this year.
Rod: Sounds good. Look for a private eM.
Very interesting stuff Rod. Since reading your book, I've always wondered how "crunchy" principles, particularly as they pertain to the use of space, community, architecture, etc. could be applied out here where I live in suburbia. I'm particularly interested in Bess' recommendations on how suburban churches could partner with developers to build the kind of intentional communities that truly reflect the sacred order. Looks like I'll be adding another book to my wish list!
http://www.newmonasticism.org
Rod: Lot I could opine about here, but I'll keep it brief. I had my own period of flirtation with traditional Christian intentional communities. The Orthodox Christian congregation of Eagle River, AK - a former Evangelical Orthodox parish - has done just this - buying property and building houses and living in close proximity to each other. It's a case study in what you are discussing here, and I'd recommend learning their story. In my experience, it shows both the potential and the pitfalls of this concept. Such communities can breed a communal faith that attracts others because of the depth of the commitment to the Holy Spirit. At the same time, they can breed an unhealthy form of zeolatry and fundamentalism. One form of this movement that I do think has more potential involves single people. In Santa Fe, we've explored the possibility of buying a property for the purpose of allowing a number of single older women - widows, and never married - so that they can live together and support each other. There are plenty examples of a similar kind of community developing at schools and homes for troubled teens and young adults. Obviously, both forms have potential problems that must be managed. But single people in general I believe have a much better chance of making such a community work. It might sound nice for parents and children to live close to each other - and perhaps being in the same neighborhood is a good idea - but families today need some elbow room, particularly because of the range of approaches to parenting. Which on the whole is a good thing. Living more isolated - be it for better housing, safer neighborhoods, ability to keep animals, or proximity to nature - is a great choice for families today, since that great gift of our age - easy transportation in the form of the automobile - means that such isolation does not mean limited access to good groceries, libraries, museums, schools, churches and so on. Bless, Doug
Doug, Can you point me to more information on the Eagle River thing?
Isn't this 'communitas' something that Monaghan's trying out w/Ave Maria City (or whatever) in Florida?
Gary, Thanks for the information. Are any of the Divine Office prayers open to the public? Or is just the Mass? A note for anyone in town, the Cistercian monastery near UD has every hour except compline open to the public. I'd like to visit Clear Creek. If anyone from the Dallas area would like to arrange a late spring/early summer visit and share a car, e-mail me. anthonyking at gmail.com.
Thinking about traditionalist urban planning in this context, we should also give some thought to the "streetcar suburbs" of 100 years ago. These included houses on small lots (enough for a garden and a few trees) within walking distance to a little "downtown" for basic services, and also walking distance to trolley, train, etc. service to "the city," (for more services, higher intensity economic activity, etc.). Possibly another way to get people so tht they do not have to depend on the auto.
Douglas Cramer, I also would be interested in the Eagle River story (I live in Kenai). Thanks.
Douglas Cramer, I found the link to the Eagle River community is here, but of course it doesn't have any details of zeolatry. The only hard edge I could find was a mellow anti-Catholic leaning, in this case the usual complaints such as ...the Roman Patriarch (the Pope) pulled away from the other four Patriarchs, pursuing his long-developing claim of universal headship of the Church... etc., etc. But the website doesn't say much, and it's obviously trying to sell itself. I would really like to hear some first-hand history if you have the time, as I'm sure I'll visit sometime in the near future.
In Santa Fe, we've explored the possibility of buying a property for the purpose of allowing a number of single older women - widows, and never married - so that they can live together and support each other. In some ways this sounds a lot like a return to the Beguine project of the 13th-14th centuries in the Low Countries: single women banding together in a religious community without taking vows. In their case they eveolved from good works into more of a mystical direction: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beguines
Where I live, there are "new urbanist" projects all over, especially clustered around the light rail stops. Most of them tend to be expensive, and cater more towards baby boomers whose kids have grown, who sell their (highly-appreciated) suburban houses to move into a "power condo" (3 bedrooms, an elevator, indoor garage) set in the heart of charming, quaint downtowns with lots of services in walking distance.
...it's taken you this longer to come to this realization?? no wonder you were wrong on Iraq.
Stefanie, Great point. I live in the Dallas area, and it seems that most of the New Urban projects cater to a very specific (i.e. high-end) market niche. $300,000 and up just to get in - and that's a small, townhome type dwelling. Seems as if this is one of Philip Bess' major concerns with New Urbanism. I'm very curious to see what he has to say about this issue.
maybe this could have all been avoided if Pope Leo XIII's 1891 encyclical letter Rerum Novarum had been supportive of the teachings of Henry George's teaching rather condemning George's writings (George warned that no economic solution could be permanently effective unless humankind abide by the precepts of natural law and conform to the principles of moral living as it relates to the private use of land) as contrary to Catholic belief and excommunicated Father Edward McGlynn from St. Stephens Parish in NYC (the largest parish in the US) for supporting them. http://tinyurl.com/2jgymc http://tinyurl.com/339ecv from Rerum Novarum: "The State would act in an unjust and inhumane manner were it to exact more than is just from private owners (of land) under the guise of a tax." (pp. 98, 194) more than anything else - the landowner's monopoly on the collection of the unearned and socially derived increment of the return on land (economic rent) based on state granted privilege without any obligation on those excluded along with the overt subsidies of public infrastructure ( a rent-seeking, public "givings" strategy) has contributed to the decimation of rational and an ordered urban living environment that the new urbanists hope to address. http://www.progress.org/cg/geoglynn.htm
Interesting. I read this as I begin to take an interest in the writings of Wendell Berry. Of course he is a "ruralist," but I think they run together ("both/ander that I am)....healthy cities, and healthy use of the land.
Franz, The "streetcar" lines in most of the streetcar suburbs were built by the land developers to help sell their lots and houses. There was never a long-term plan for their finance and upkeep. None in-fact was possible. Ask any urban transit expert about the densities necessary to support light and heavy rail mass-transit and the answer is inevitably about 50 units per acre or more. Otherwise, expensive empty trains circle aimlessly most of the time. I speak as someone who has had extensive experience working with in-fill development projects and attendent city services including working with New Urbanist pioneer Peter Calthorpe. Peter, would take a more nuanced view than mine but reading from the same playbook wouldn't dispute the figures.
I would call Wendell Berry a "neo-southern agrarian"... Interestingly the southern agrarians and catholic distributists, who had essentially the same critique of modernity's state monopoly capitalism (both individualist and collectivist varieties) tried to unite in the late 1930's via a gentleman named Herbert Agar (co-editor of "Who Owns America")...he was a war correspondent for the Louisville Kentucky Courier-Dispatch based in London who became familiar with both Chesterton & Belloc while working for Chesterton earlier. the publication called "Free America" was edited by a Georgist named Ralph Borsodi and the writing was a unification of catholic distributist (Chesterton & Belloc) with southern agrarians (Allen Tate & John Crowe Ransom) also added were: - Borsodi's homestead movement (school of living) - Consumer Cooperative Movement - Catholic Rural Life Conference - some of the Protestant rural life organizations see Allan Carlson's "New Agrarian Mind" for a whole chapter on Herbert Agar which includes a chapter on Wendell Berry too... http://tinyurl.com/2zl9qs Here's a history of Agrarianism from Carlson: http://tinyurl.com/24ys9s
For many years I lived in what has been called a "streetcar suburb" and it was the product of a developer who rode the train out, saw a bunch of land just being wasted on farms and bought it to develop. And when the weather was not too hot or too cold and not raining it was nice to be able to walk downtown for lunch or take the commuter train into Chicago. But, my friends were all miles west and the weather was often dreadful, so walking was not an option. And you can't carry a week's groceries without the car. A small house is a burden if you like room and a garden is useless when it is 15 below 0. And the commuter train into the city is useless when the job is nowhere near either the city nor the rail line.
Rod- serious question... do you think we can ever put this "type" of left-right coalition together again? Murray Rothbard tried in the 60's with libertarians and the anti-authoritaran SDS I am thinking about: mutualists (Kevin Carson's ricardian socialists/free market anti-capitalists) geo-libertarians/geoists (Peter Barnes'natural and social commons trust movement) bio-regionalists (Kirk Sale) new urbanists (James Kunstler) open source software (Eben Moglen) catholic distributists (Bill Kauffman/Rod Dreher) southern agrarians (Wendell Berry)
Matt: Here's the link to the site for the congregation in Eagle River. There story is frequently told in Orthodox circles, but I'm not aware of anyplace it's been formally published. Perhaps in Peter Gillquist's "Becoming Orthodox". http://www.stjohnalaska.org/ Bless, Doug
All, In hindsight, it isn't fair of me to mention struggles the Eagle River community has had, if they come across as a touch slanderous. They've raised up a lot of good folks; I've also spoken with lots of people over the years from the community who have been candid about how living in such close proximity can lead to certain dysfunctional habits. But I can't really go in to details without breaching trust, so never mind! Bless, Doug
It makes me feel kind of tired to read this: ...all have a serious rule of life, with those who violate it kicked out. Forget about having people of "similar" faith; it would have to have real doctrine, with real authority, and real excommunications - otherwise, it most likely is a pipe dream. Before you (general--not just you, M_David) get started building this community, you might want to check out the history of the Catholic charismatic movement in America. Many intentional "covenant communities" were created, and once they came under the influence of the "shepherding" movement, they were run along lines much like this. Eventually they came apart at the seams, and it wasn't pretty. Of course, the leadership blamed most of the problems on faithless weaklings who couldn't take a little discipline. The fallout in messed-up lives and lost faith was, as the Vatican would put it, not negligible. There are remnants of the movement still around, and I believe Steve Clark is still running his Sword of the Spirit network pretty much according to the plan M_David suggests. I would rather have all my teeth pulled out than live there, but if this is the kind of thing you think you would like, you might want to check it out. It would save you the effort of creating one of your own. I'm not mocking the desire for community. It is an abiding human need, and can create much happiness and potential to grow in holiness. But what you need to get there is SERIOUS work on living in love with people who won't do things your way, NOT more draconian rules and anathematizing. If one cannot get along with people who are mere figments of the ether online, one will certainly not be able to love them when they are living next door. I wonder how many more times people have to place their hand on the same stovetop before realizing that, yes, it is hot, and it will burn you.
I've been to the Eagle River parish before. It's a beautiful place, and the priest at my parish spent about six years living there as a younger man. They've got a lot of wonderful ministries going there; the Eagle River Institute, the Saint James House, not to mention a parish school. I spent about three hours talking to Fr. Marc Dunaway, the parish priest at St. John's. He talked very freely about how their community developed (he's the son of the original priest), and went so far as to say they got labeled by some as a right-wing commune early on. He also said that they were very intentional about telling parishioners, "If you don't live close to St. John's, move!" As a result, a parish of about 300 people or so has more than fifty percent living within a mile of the cathedral. I don't know any more about their situation than that in terms of generalities. I'm familiar with an anecdote or two, in particular a situation with a mission they spearheaded in Wasilla, but I don't know that these anecdotes are significant of anything beyond how difficult it is to know how to live truly in community in the modern day. All in all, it seems like a good, healthy place at present. If they have weathered any storm, let us be thankful that God has seen fit to allow them to do so without some of the tragic circumstances other such communities have had to endure. Richard
...There are remnants of the movement still around, and I believe Steve Clark is still running his Sword of the Spirit network pretty much according to the plan M_David suggests. I would rather have all my teeth pulled out than live there, but if this is the kind of thing you think you would like, you might want to check it out. It would save you the effort of creating one of your own sigaliris: First, I would note that you say your Sword community is still around (whatever that is) and the others are gone...hmmm... Second, communities that are founded in strong doctrine are not "my plan", and I never said I was desiring to form any community. I was simply pointing out the facts as they stand. From my limited knowledge, it is simply the history of any real community that has ever lasted more that a generation in America that I know of. Amish, Mennonites, Mormons, etc. The problem with the "love" based communities seems to be they can't outlast the few nice people that found them. They are based on good people, not ideas. And people die, at which time their bad doctrine cannot last. Heck, doctrine is the history of the New Testament, as St. Paul, Mr. Love himself, was not afraid to excommunicate as needed. If one cannot get along with people who are mere figments of the ether online, one will certainly not be able to love them when they are living next door. I'm not sure what you are saying here, but feel free to expound? I wonder how many more times people have to place their hand on the same stovetop before realizing that, yes, it is hot, and it will burn you. This is exactly my point! How many endless communities have been tried since the '60s in America and just don't seem to last? Thousands. I would look to the ones who have lasted more than a generation - and those, to my limited knowledge, all have strong doctrine and rules. All the rest fade away.
There is an intentional charismatic Catholic community near me. I've gotten to know some of the members and like them very much. (motherofgod.org) We're moving to an old house in an old neighborhood within walking distance of downtown and the parks in town. I am excited to see how our community develops. Living out here in the 'burbs have been lonely.
I am whipsawed between the loneliness of the suburbs and a very tribal parish; and the dis-appeal of the impression left on a secular friend by her observation of the remains of the Eagle River enterprise. May I propose that we all work on our souls, character, and agreeableness-in-nonessentials before we set up housing situations? I observe over many years a man I know fairly well, who, in spite of the general misery of the legal profession, has inevitably found himself employed among gentlemen and Christians. I conclude it is his competence, character, and sincere tacit values; and that all the effort in the world to set up a "Christian firm" would have gone for naught without "the Lord building the house" and "watching the city" in these affairs. And yes, New Urbanism is the pet these days of the childless and same-sex joined. Expensive, bounded, cramped, rather noisy, even if it is down the block from Whole Foods. It's the less-Creative-Class smaller cities that are growing, or so I hear. However, putting together a consortium to put a down payment on multiple-dwelling is a good idea. I'd want to try owning and maintaining it together as an investment for a few years before moving in. And to avoid making the living situation an idol, but only an infrastructure tool toward a life of charity and peace. Living too subject to others' varying indulgence-levels toward their children, would be very tough. Having a profit-making workplace associated is a gonzo idea! Thanks for the book tip. I'll buy it.
M_david, I didn't mean to make you feel picked on by quoting your words. They were simply the most succinct statement of the topic I wanted to comment on. When you refer to "the facts as they stand," I'm just suggesting that anyone who is serious about living in community might want to do a little more research before deciding they know what the facts are. Yes, strong doctrine and rules can be one factor in creating group cohesion. However, as successful as they are, I would not wish to be a Mormon. Some other doctrinally based groups that have survived from the sixties until now are the Unification Church, the Church of Scientology, the Hare Krishnas, and the Children of God. All have strong doctrine, but it is not good doctrine. In fact, in my view, it is toxic to human beings. Mind control does not always work out for the best, no matter how pious the motivation behind it. (And now I can only hope that I don't find a rattlesnake in my mailbox for slandering the wondrousness of any of the above Chosen Peoples.) feel free to expound Well, it's not rocket science. It's clear that even in a place like this blog, where people meet voluntarily to discuss common interests and shared concerns, misunderstandings, bad communication, and hurt feelings abound. This is multiplied to the nth degree in a face-to-face community. To live together in harmony, it s not enough to have correct ideas. Interpersonal skills are needed. To me it seems that practice in patience, kindness, humility, clear communication and not taking things personally is way more important for community building than getting the doctrine just right. Sarah in Maryland's mention of Mother of God community in Maryland is very a propos, because this is one of the charismatic groups that came to grief under authoritarian leadership. It has re-formed, and I don't personally know anything about the new revised version. I think they have some safeguards in place against those problems. Here's a report on their troubled past: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/local/longterm/library/mog/mogmain.htm
sigaliris: M_david, I didn't mean to make you feel picked on by quoting your words. You misunderstand me; that "I feel picked on" is not accurate. I was simply trying to ensure my words were not brought places they didn't go...the need for good doctrine and group authority has nothing to do with supporting power-mad individuals, which seems to be your concern. ...as successful as they are, I would not wish to be a Mormon...Unification Church, the Church of Scientology, the Hare Krishnas...All have strong doctrine, but it is not good doctrine. We agree 100% here. Well, it's not rocket science. It's clear that even in a place like this blog, where people meet voluntarily...bad communication, and hurt feelings abound. This is multiplied to the nth degree in a face-to-face community. Interesting; I would go the other way and say that blogs are not meant for community but rather for the testing of ideas...and folk who have hurt feelings on blogs are using them for the wrong reasons. It ain't a real community, just a forum for ideas. And an great one! Remember, folk who join a community do so because of shared values, and so 99% of the talk going on here wouldn't happen in a community. For example, anyone who is pro-abort / pro-homosexual lifestyle would be automatically excomunicated in most existing local communities I know of (that have lasted) and so those divisive issues simply never come up. Those folk just leave. But a blog invites all, and rightfully so. We don't have to live together. Ideas are cheap. BTW, a local community I know here has avoided this issue of authority by requring a minimum 2 hour/day discussion with all members...that sort of face time gets ALL on the table. Soon you know these folk better than yourself! No hiding from differing values, so off many go. To live together in harmony, it s not enough to have correct ideas. Interpersonal skills are needed. I agree. I would go further, and say that the family implosion of today has millions of "only child" or institutionalized kids that usually prevent them from learning how to work with others in a family setting, which is what real communities emulate. Thus, we have millions of people out there who cannot get along in community. Not as diffcult for, say, the Amish who have outlawed birth control and thus have 8 kid families. Family is thus a way of life, and getting along a learned childhood value. Mix family implosion with all the bad doctrine out there (much coming from the resulting individualism) and communities are nearly impossible with the people of America today, and rightly so. We have lost our families and (good enough) doctrine. Folk like the Amish have both, and can limp along. But folk raised on indivdualism - with the birth control pill, divorce, and 2-kid families - have little hope here. God is clever but not malicious.
M_David, I'd say there were quite a few inadequately examined assumptions in there, but it is not for me to correct them. I guess we'll just have to let experience determine the truth. I tried to share mine because I hate to see people get hurt unnecessarily, but maybe that's how they learn. In any case, not my problem. I'm intrigued by your description of the group that spends two hours a day discussing everything. Have you participated? Do you know how they run this discussion? How is it moderated, and do they have any code of conduct for modes of expression? How big is the group? Is the focus on consensus or on weeding out the bad elements? I'd also be interested to know if anyone else on this topic has personal experience of an intentional community, and how it worked or didn't. Doug? Are you in this category? Is there anything you can share without feeling that you are breaking confidentiality? And now I'm off to write a birthday greeting to my often disagreeable little brother, who for some obscure reason insists on having his own wacky ideas and not agreeing that I'm always right about everything. I will tell him how much I value, respect, and miss him, and I know that even if one of us takes up Zoroastrianism or UFOlogy, I'll always love him and he'll always love me. But wait--oh no--he only has two children! And he's quite the individualist as well . . . not to mention he believes in global warming . . . So there's NO HOPE for him! Oh woe . . . wonder if I should tell the poor guy. (goes off muttering)
sigaliris ...takes up Zoroastrianism or UFOlogy, I'll always love him and he'll always love me. But wait--oh no--he only has two children! And he's quite the individualist as well . . . not to mention he believes in global warming . . . So there's NO HOPE for him! Oh woe... Your political views seem to have interfered with your ability to process information and think objectively. I was not talking about individual relationships. I was talking about people who give up all to live with each other - community life - that involve many people living together. If you wish to challenge an idea, surely you can do so in a straightforward manner and not keep trying to imply I've said things I haven't. I'm intrigued by your description of the group that spends two hours a day discussing everything. Have you participated? Do you know how they run this discussion? No. Yes, I know a lot about it for reasons I won't go into here. How is it moderated, and do they have any code of conduct for modes of expression? How big is the group? Is the focus on consensus or on weeding out the bad elements? Social rules, yes, 50+, no, no.
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