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Life Unworthy of Life alert

Sunday February 4, 2007

Last week, the Dallas Morning News published an op-ed account by the mother of a Down syndrome child, talking about the worth of her daughter's life, in connection to the recent news that far fewer Down babies are being born -- the apparent reason being that mothers who learn via amniocentesis that they're carrying a Down baby abort their unborn children. The mom wrote:

She was a fresh-faced young woman with a couple of adorable kids, whiling away an hour in the sandbox at the park near my home. So was I, or so I thought. New in town, I had come to the park in hopes of finding some friends for myself and my little ones.

Her eyes flicked over to where my daughter sat, shovel gripped in a tiny fist, and then traveled quickly away. The remark that followed was directed to the woman next to her, but her voice carried clearly across the playground. "Isn't it a shame," she said, an eyebrow cocked in Margaret's direction, "that everyone doesn't get amnio?" It's been more than 20 years, but I saw the face of that woman again when I read about the recommendation from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists this month that all pregnant women get prenatal screening for Down syndrome. I worry that universal screening brings us all closer to being like that woman at the sandbox – uninformed, judgmental and unable to entertain the possibility that people with disabilities have something to offer.


She concluded thusly:

If physicians and genetics professionals are willing to learn from people with disabilities and their families, they can disseminate the nuanced, compassionate message at the core of diversity and human rights: All people have value and dignity and are worthy of celebration.


Anyway, a reader wrote to the paper in response (the letter's in today's paper):

Re: "What the amnio won't tell you – Prenatal testing weeds out fetuses with Down syndrome, says Patricia Bauer. But being 'less abled' doesn't equate to 'less worthy,' " Jan. 28 Points.

Ms. Bauer offers a weak excuse to justify having a child with Down syndrome. Since the ability to terminate these pregnancies is available, why not use it?

People with Down syndrome or other intellectual disabilities are "better educated and leading longer, healthier and more productive lives than ever," she writes. Yeah, right. They can fill jobs such as grocery baggers and other such high-paying jobs.

These rich and rewarding lives are a figment of Ms. Bauer's imagination. Has she ever asked Margaret if she is happy with her lot?

Don Hopper, Flint


Words fail.
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Comments
sigaliris
February 8, 2007 2:08 PM
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M_David, I deliberately did not attach a particular name to that comment, because it was in fact a general comment. You are by no means the only person here who ever misuses so-called logic. Willfully misunderstanding or misrepresenting the opponent's premises in order to draw false conclusions from them in an attempt to make them look stupid without ever addressing the substance of their remarks is quite a common technique. I object to it whenever it shows up. And I'm sure I've sometimes fallen prey to it myself, because it can be pretty tempting.

harvey lacey
February 8, 2007 2:29 PM
http://www.harveylacey.com

Re: Welfare vs Abortion.
It's pretty obvious that: a) Any reasonable payments will be unable to eliminate those 25% completely.
b) For someone seing abortion as completely unacceptable behavior, that reduction (0%-25% depending on the variables involved) is seen as unsatisfactory. An outright and enforced ban is likely to achieve a much larger reduction. dobeln
Hmmmmmm, welfare, where in the heck did welfare come into this discussion? We're talking about funding children. If you look at the link I provided it isn't hard to come to the conclusion that universal health care would have a much greater impact than just a twenty five percent. When you consider the message of healthcare these days is leaning heavily towards education and preventive medicine we could see some of the other reasons for aborting either becoming a mute point or having a viable alternative to abortion. With preventitive medicine initiatives we'd most likely see more effective sexual education. This in itself could make a big dent in the largest reason given for having an abortion, mother too young and unprepared for the daunting task of parenting. Again, removing abortion as an option via a law is in effect an unfunded mandate imposed upon women. It's an unfair and inequal mandate targeting one specific group, women capable of childbirth. The burden is especially harsh on those least able to bear it, the poor. We also have to keep in mind this is not unlike the Islamic veil in some middle east countries. It's a faith based mandate for believers and non-believers alike. If one believes life starts at birth then anti-abortion is an imposition of another's faith upon their own.

M_David
February 8, 2007 8:33 PM
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sigaliris M_David, I deliberately did not attach a particular name to that comment, because it was in fact a general comment. You are by no means the only person here who ever misuses so-called logic.
You specifically were referring to what I said here, and you just attacked me again by saying that I "misuse so-called logic". Again, without showing how I do so. This is a personal attack, without addressing anything specific I have said, and again you are doing it in a indirect way. Willfully misunderstanding or misrepresenting the opponent's premises in order to draw false conclusions from them in an attempt to make them look stupid without ever addressing the substance of their remarks is quite a common technique. So now I am willfully misrepresenting people. Again, you give no specific example. This is another a personal attack without merit, again done indirectly. I object to it whenever it shows up. And I'm sure I've sometimes fallen prey to it myself, because it can be pretty tempting. You just did it to me. Sheese, man, get a grip. Everything I have said on this thread I have take great care to be precise and clear as possible, use direct quotes, and to request clarification if I have misunderstood somebody. I have dealt with ideas, not personal attacks. If you have a logical or clarity problem with something I have specifically said in the abortion discussion above, please give me the quote and I will either correct myself or explain myself. Otherwise, your undocumented accusations against me are just that - empty.

sigaliris
February 9, 2007 12:47 AM
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M_David, since when is it a personal attack to say that someone s logic is inadequate? Isn t that what you were just doing to watsy? This was quite a lengthy exchange, with watsy answering your questions repeatedly and in some detail. I don t think it would be of much interest to any other readers for me to pick it over line by line, so I m afraid I must decline your request to give you all points I had logic or clarity problems with. I will give you a couple of examples, though. watsy wrote a long, nuanced post, and you boiled it down to the following: 1) Unborn babies have a right to life!?2) Mothers have a right to kill unborn babies (with a doctors help only!)?3) But only before 10 weeks!?4) But exceptions for crazy mothers!?5) The government has no right to say anything about it though! Your use of incomplete sentences, exclamation marks that were not present in the original, and inadequate punctuation, in effect makes a mockery of her original writing. In addition, you put her statements out of order and out of context, and you have changed the wording.
For instance, where watsy brought up a serious problem for consideration--the mother has a history of psychosis that's controlled on a slew of antipsychotics, but the antipsychotics aren't to be given during pregnancy--you substitute crazy mothers. Most people involved with mental illness avoid the word crazy because it has pejorative connotations and is unclear, since it can mean a person who acts weirdly or inappropriately in addition to being slang for a mentally ill person. It s like calling someone with physical disabilities a gimp. This IS a misrepresentation of what she said. watsy clearly explained that she believes the fetus has a right to life, but that it is not an absolute right to life, since it is limited by some considerations, like a risk to the life of the mother. By limiting your version to The fetus has a right to life! and truncating it there, you make it appear that she first granted an absolute right and then contradicted herself. In fact, she never granted an absolute right to life in the first place, so it is not illogical for her to place limits on that right. You may not agree with her, but she is consistent with her own statements.
The government has no right to say anything about it though is also, clearly, NOT what she said, and she corrected you on that point herself, but you did not acknowledge that. If you ask for correction, and your correspondent does correct you, and you then ignore them, it calls your sincerity into question. Where you were quoting her actual words, I had no problem with it, but when you began to substitute your own changed and abbreviated versions, and then to substitute letters and numbers, I think you veered off into creating an inaccurate strawman argument, from which you then drew increasingly inaccurate conclusions. When you substitute your own words for the words of your opponent, then draw conclusions from these invented premises and ascribe them to the original statement, you are misrepresenting and you are misusing logic. It s better to stick to arguing with what people have actually said. ? I think that s enough to serve as an example. I thought you were doing it willfully, because you appear to have a good mind, so I assumed you were able to understand watsy as well as I did. But I admit it was an assumption, and possibly an unwarranted one, so I will be happy to retract the willfully if you like.

M_David
February 9, 2007 4:01 PM
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M_David, since when is it a personal attack to say that someone s logic is inadequate? It is when you do not show the quote in which their logic is bad . You never did. That is a personal attack. You did it over and over - and I gave you the exact quotes where you did it. Where you were quoting her actual words, I had no problem with it If you followed the discussion to the end, you will see that she re-formed her points and I responded by: 1) addressed only direct quotes to avoid misquoting her and get specifically to what she said 2) used letter-coded logical points to avoid any misunderstanding, and then repeatably asking for clarification if I was misunderstanding her direct quotes. 3) showed many logical problems with it, after which she immediately stopped the conversation. 4) You then run to the first part of the conversation to find where I wasn't giving exact quotes when I was trying to use humor to make my point.
I immediately corrected this and gave only exact quotes afterwards once I saw that people were not going to be intellectually honest about their gaps in logic. So the logical points I made are also made using only exact quotes in the second round. If you really wanted to see the discussion, just look there and address my points. If, of course, you are really interested in the points of the debate. I must say you seem far more interested in attacking me than in the logic of what was actually being discussed - what you call faulty. This is also one of the best ways to find if a person is really trying to discuss honestly or not: do they make and effort to actually understand the other person and follow their corrections to language - which I did (and you are not doing here by using the first parts of the conversation)?

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Rod Dreher is an editorial columnist for the Dallas Morning News, and author of "Crunchy Cons" (Crown Forum), a nonfiction book about conservatives, most of them religious, whose faith and political convictions sometimes put them at odds with mainstream conservatives. The views expressed in this blog are his own.

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