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Variations on a theme

Saturday April 28, 2007

1. Saith Ruth Gledhill, the BBC will air, as part of its Sunday worship programming, a recording of a "gay mass" from San Francisco's church of the Most Holy Redeemer, a Catholic congregation in the Castro. The event happened last...
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M_David
April 28, 2007 5:13 PM
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Great post. No matter what position one holds on gay rights, the media does nobody any favors by playing favorites. To be honest, I'm very concerned with a backlash on liberal issues once the boomers have passed on. Even though I'm conservative on many issues, I see myself as Chesterton did: "I'm still a liberal. It's those people who aren't liberals". But this generation of media have turned liberal into a dirty word. The outrageous media bias for homosexuality, abortion, feminism, multiculturism, environmentalism, secularism - you name it - puts the potential for a backlash at a high water mark in another generation. Emotionally, I (and millions of other liberally-minded types) see "Democrat-Liberal" and "Bully-Media" as the same thing. And this is mainly due to the shameless pimping the media does for them. It's gonna be hard to care much when it all goes the other way.

Irenaeus
April 28, 2007 5:42 PM
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Most days, I worry about gay activists more than terrorists.

trotsky
April 28, 2007 7:14 PM
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Most days, I worry about gay activists more than terrorists. And that's why, most days, many liberals worry more about fundamentalist Christians than about terrorists. Say what you will about the sometimes cuthroat (metaphorically speaking) episcopal politics, poisoning a prelate doesn't seem like the kind of step any churchman would take -- liberal or conservative.

Anne
April 28, 2007 8:50 PM
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I have seen prayer services and/or Masses celebrated for mothers, the ill, for peace, the victims of disasters, for graduating kids, and many more. Is there no room in the Church for a prayer service for gays and lesbians as well?

ron chandonia
April 28, 2007 9:20 PM
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The outrageous media bias for homosexuality, abortion, feminism, multiculturism, environmentalism, secularism - you name it - puts the potential for a backlash at a high water mark in another generation. One can hope and pray. It seems especially likely this could happen with abortion, as many "can't believe my daughter is pro-life" stories attest. But the gay-pride crusade is still winning the hearts and minds of young people who endure Days of Silence where, it seems, the only ones silent are the Christians.

CourageMan
April 28, 2007 10:31 PM
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Anne: I wrestled with that issue a bit last month (in chronological order, top = earliest): Special masses But this ... (two more links upcoming; Haloscan sez four is too many)

CourageMan
April 28, 2007 10:32 PM
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Here are the other two, less-recent first: Pro-Con in Tablet Utah Mass update

Starrs
April 28, 2007 11:21 PM
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#1 seems to me an internal RC problem - deominations everywhere are exploring how to include gays, and while I undoubtedly fall on the conservative side of the spectrum, perhaps its a discussion that needs to be had. The church has to recognize at some point that either its teaching or its people need to change. #2 is very scary indeed, but African politics/religion have a long history together, often quite violent, like tribalism.
#3 is maddening, mostly because McGreevey really is a terrible poster-boy for anyone. For conservatives, it's obvious - but for liberals, he treated his family quite shamefully and is unrepentant about it.
Maybe I'm being naive, but I don't connect the conspiracy theory dots together on these three yet.

M_David
April 28, 2007 11:25 PM
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One can hope and pray. ron, I hear you. But let me give you an example of overreach and backlash: feminism.
Overreach *draconian child support laws *no-fault divorce *silly combat options in the military for women held to lower physical standards *preferences like Title IX Backlash *family breakdown *child obesity and decline *a whole generation of men who think women deserve no quarter, and family and children too risky to consider Abortion? Abortion, like slavery, will surely become culturally taboo and illegal over time for Darwinian reasons (Roe effect, Mexican family influence, and all that). But for all of us who grew up with Democrats kissing this evil, it will be nearly impossible to think about Democrats rationally after they dump abortion rights. A past example: my Irish grandmother only recently stopped voting Democrat, and is now reflecting how she supported a lot of evil over the last few decades due her historical bias against Republicans. Voters like her were the reason abortion is legal. She should have woke up in '73. This could happen again, but reversed. Who knows what evil Republicans are capable of in the future. Bottom line: backlash is dangerous. The media doesn't help by picking sides.

M_David
April 28, 2007 11:33 PM
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Anne: Is there no room in the Church for a prayer service for gays and lesbians as well? I think it depends on the context. What are we praying for? If we had a prayer service for, say, people who identified themselves as fornicators, we would know what we were praying for. However, homosexuality is often celebrated in this culture. Hence the problem with homosexual masses.

Susan S.
April 29, 2007 12:57 AM
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Your friend TMatt is becoming more and more conspiratorial. And shame on you for connecting two gay posts with the Malawi story, suggesting that somehow gay issues resulted in the death in Malawi. I know your rampant discomfort--and odd obsession--with homosexuality leads you to focus inordinate attention on the issue, but it seems rather shameless to talk about "variations on a theme" and insinuate a gay connection to the Malawi killing.

Scott R.
April 29, 2007 3:38 AM
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Newt tried to crucify Clinton for getting a blowjob (and, believe me, that impeachment was *horror* that the president had an affair) while he kept his willy free. I wonder how many sermons Ted Haggard preached on that. McGreevey never did anything like that. He's scum, but he never held himself out as a paragon of virtue.

Scott R.
April 29, 2007 3:39 AM
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puts the potential for a backlash at a high water mark in another generation. One can hope and pray. Where there's life,t here's hope. The Russians seem to be embracing dictatorship again as well. I'm sure there will always be a place for another Joe McCarthy in this country.

godisaheretic
April 29, 2007 5:57 AM
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when the day comes where gays are treated more or less equally, especially when homophobic persons stop fighting against gay equality, then the days of "a pass from the media" will be over... and when that amazingly spiritual mortal man Jesus said "love your neighbor as yourself" surely he meant "all" your neighbors... oh, that changes everything... so "love your gay neighbor as yourself"... faith hope love joy peace to all...

CourageMan
April 29, 2007 8:35 AM
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McGreevey ... [is] scum, but he never held himself out as a paragon of virtue. So you point is that sinners should only preach sin and/or that nobody should tell anybody else to be a better person than he himself is? If not ... what IS your point?

CourageMan
April 29, 2007 8:39 AM
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I know your rampant discomfort--and odd obsession--with homosexuality bru-THUR ... can people have moral stances without their being reduced to either personal discomfort or odd obsessions? If not ... what is your rampant discomfort with sexism, Susan? And what is your odd obsession with Catholicism? What personal issues are you compensating for? What is behind you hatred? Let's have a hug.

Scott R.
April 29, 2007 3:21 PM
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My point is that a bunch of adulterers inhabit the upper echelon of Xtian morality in this country, and they are preaching that "morality" (and stirring up hatred for gay people/trying to curtail their civil liberties) while some of them doing what they tell their flock not to. If they're going to tell people to keep their penises in their pants, it might be nice if they did the same and if they are going to tell people not to be gay, they should be seeing male whores/drug dealers. It doesn't look nice, ya know?
Which is why I have no respect for the Xtian establishment in this country. The Catholic Church lost it a long time ago, and the protestants are catching up quite nicely.

Susan S.
April 29, 2007 3:47 PM
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"CM also notes other double standards being applied to McGreevey concerning his conduct -- stuff that if a straight politician were doing it, would be cause for outrage -- concluding that the media are giving the sleazy love guv a break because of his membership in the Oppressed Americans demographic." But has he? And given the high standing that the band of conservative philanders have in the GOP, I don't see much of a double standard. Gingrich is not a pariah in the party. Neither is Guiliani. or McCain. or Papa Bush.
And my sense is there is great discomfort about McGreevey in the gay community. He's no hero and many appear to treat him with suspicion.

Anonymous Also
April 29, 2007 5:43 PM
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Susan S.'s post about many gays being suspicious about Mc Greevey does seem to hold water. I've heard him get hammered pretty good on Gay USA, (which is on Free Speech TV), and gay people I've talked to see him as an oppurtunist, if that's the right word. Granted, it's pretty much anecdotal, but there are people out there saying such things. As I've said before -- Your Opinion May Vary -- And that's fine, too.

metanous
April 29, 2007 7:18 PM
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"So you point is that sinners should only preach sin and/or that nobody should tell anybody else to be a better person than he himself is? If not ... what IS your point? CourageMan "
How about "first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. [NIV]
As for backlash, M_David: let's see, today there's a kind of man who hates feminism and women[--"deserve no quarter", so hatred is my inference--]and is angry because he is notin complete control of marriage anymore [my inference] and "think family and children are too risky to consider" and consequently their genes won't survive. Whereas men who embrace the equality, freedom, and independence of women and are willing to have and care for children even under the scary risks terms of equality with women: their genes will be passed down to future generations. What's the problem?

Susan S.
April 29, 2007 8:30 PM
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The left blogosphere and gay blogosphere is largely uninterested in McGreevey, beyond the gossip of it all. He'll never be a "leader" on the left or in the gay community; the same can't be said for Gingrich. I'm not sure where CM or Rod get this iead that he is being given royal treatment.

Simon
April 29, 2007 8:35 PM
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How about "first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. Stating that homosexual behavior is morally wrong isn't an attempt to "remove the speck from your brother's eye" while ignoring the plank in one's own eye.
It's simply an observation that planks and specks don't belong in eyes.
The commandment of Christ is not to judge other persons -- that is NOT the same thing as refusing to acknowledge whether certain behaviors are objectively right or wrong. The latter attitude is cowardly and, ultimately, diabolical.

metanous
April 29, 2007 11:23 PM
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I thought "don't judge" meant "do not judge." I don't have enough time in my life to deal with (i.e. judge: to form or give an opinion after separating and considering the particulars of a situation) the many planks in my own eyes, much less make comments either about other specific individuals or general concepts. If McGreevey or Gingrich asked me to comment on the way they treated their wives, or if they wondered if their homosexual or heterosexual liaisons with women other than their wives were morally wrong, I d tell them how I would feel if I had treated my wife that way. Or if I engaged in aforesaid sexual liaisons. It s not fear of saying whether certain acts by actual human beings are objectively right or wrong I have to do that for myself all the time. It s fear of disobeying my Lord by trying to get around his plain, clear, and simple words through various forms of logic-chopping or reinterpretation. I trust that you are not calling me a coward or a tool of the devil that was just your way of acknowledging that certain objective behavior (i.e. various reified theoretical concepts) is always wrong. Just as, if anyone continues to throw stones, I can infer that they think they are without sin.

bam in ri
April 30, 2007 2:15 AM
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Rod, I wonder why you posted the story of the gay prayer service at Most Holy Redeemer in San Francisco. I hope it wasn't to fan the flames of gay hatred, so prevalent in the right-wing blogosphere, because I think you're much too big a man to stoop to that. My father was a devout Irish-Catholic man, but I can tell you that I have never forgot his admonition to not point your finger at the sins of others, because that finger will point back at you. And I think that advice applies to the McGreevy situation too, a sad situation all the details of which we are not privy to.

Simon
April 30, 2007 5:06 AM
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I thought "don't judge" meant "do not judge." And saying that homosexual conduct is immoral does not involving judging. Objectively, it IS wrong.
The subjective circumstances, motives, perceptions, knowledge that prompts a particular person to engage in immoral conduct is something no one but God can know. Thus, no one but God can ever know how culpable another person is for anything, no matter how heinous. Attributing guilt or some punishment to a particular person is the judging that Christ forbids, and that the Church never does.
We know that flying airplanes into crowded office towers is among the gravest moral evils, an act worthy of damnation. Nevertheless, a Christian can not judge the souls of even the 9/11 hijackers, and we are commanded to pray for their forgiveness. To refrain from judging them, however, is not the same as believing that no one has the right to say mass murder is evil.

M_David
April 30, 2007 6:00 AM
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men who embrace the equality, freedom, and independence of women and are willing to have and care for children...their genes will be passed down to future generations. That's the problem. Those people aren't having kids - why would the men ever invest in families like this? Liberals don't have many kids, and thus any country with this culture has to import from patriarchal cultures that do have kids. In the US, it's the lower/working class men who don't have much to lose (and don't hold marriages together well) who are doing most of the breeding. Hey, it's fun. Not a good brew for social stability. And of course every year feminism gets less popular due to the family chaos these kids have to grow up in. We are already seeing shifts in the polls in this direction. Kids don't like getting the shaft. In summary, all feminism does besides wreck society is cause the TFR of the liberal non-patriarchal areas to drop like a stone. If you doubt this, here's a good article from liberal Phillip Longman.

CourageMan
April 30, 2007 8:30 AM
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Scott R. wrote: ... of Xtian morality Not worth reading farther. Alert me when you grow up.
And my complaint about double standards was the treatment of McGreevey in the Mainstream Media. Susan's rebuttal points that center on the receptions in the gay or either side's partisan press are simply not on point.
She continues: the high standing that the band of conservative philanders have in the GOP ... [including] Papa Bush. Would you care to provide documentation for that charge? Repudiated-by-the-sources reports in Spy Magazine, anything by Kitty Kelley, anything by Joe Conason that uses Linda Tripp as a hearsay source, and rumors of affairs that NEITHER party alleges -- these do not count as "documentation," BTW. Not do repetitions thereof in the comment fields in Democratic Underground or whatever other rock's underside you liberals scrape this kind of crap off of. metanous wrote" How about "first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. [NIV] Ah ... so you DO have no point besides "people cannot preach morals better than their own conduct." Which makes a downward spiral from the faults of last year the only possible course of history.

Norris
April 30, 2007 4:46 PM
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Yes, you cannot descern the course of proper action based simply upon what people do. People have an almost perfect track record for disappointing the expectations of others. Certainly no one here is claiming that if "Papa Bush" had committed adultery (as claimed here) that somehow adultery is okay. Or, IS that the claim? The claim of hypocracy by the libertine should be a corollary to Godwin's Law.

~tv
April 30, 2007 7:26 PM
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Ah - the spectre of "objective reality" rears its ugly head once again. "Objectively, homosexuality is morally wrong," is a subjective statement. If you conservatives wish to have your bugaboos and scapegoats, please feel free to do so - just stop pretending that it's based on anything other than your own subjective prejudices. You'd get a hell of a lot more respect if you'd just be honest about it.

Norris
April 30, 2007 7:58 PM
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How 'bout... "Objectively, homosexual activity is physically wrong." ? In any event, TV, methinks you're engaging in some subjective Freudian Projection.

Norris
May 1, 2007 4:43 PM
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"Ah - the spectre of 'objective reality' rears its ugly head once again." [low chuckles] Get used to it. [low chuckles] It's not going away.

sigaliris
May 1, 2007 5:34 PM
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How 'bout, "objectively, homosexual activity is physically identical to acts that many heterosexual males greatly enjoy when performed by them upon females"? I can't be more specific due to the family nature of this blog, but I think everyone knows what I mean. Even the most controversial of these acts--and again, I think you probably know what I mean--is merrily engaged in by a significant minority of heterosexuals. (And by the way, a significant minority of homosexuals never engage in said act, so does that make them okay now?) As for oral sex, which I will mention because others have done so on other topics without reprimand, so I assume that's fair game, I know that some conservative religious believers think it is morally wrong--at least, when carried out to its, ahem, logical conclusion. However, even the Catholic Church and people like Tim LaHaye think it's quite all right when used as foreplay. So, how is that an act that a man is willing to have his wife do for him becomes disgusting, gross and degrading when he thinks about a man doing it for another man? Doesn't seem to show a very high respect for women if some acts are so demeaning that they're suitable only for women to perform. Head-scratching here.

Norris
May 1, 2007 6:19 PM
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Sigaliris, Talked about conflated and confused. The "acts" you elliptically refer to would be physically wrong regardless of the gender of the participants. Nota bene the word "phyically". It is a recognition of teleology. Regarding why one might consider the act gross if engaged in by men, it is because IT IS ENGAGED IN BY MEN. The same reaction can be expected in seeing men kiss passionately. This doesn't require one to see one kisser as less than another kisser. The male and female kissers are equal. Two guys kissing is just gross. Well, not "just" gross. There is much more to be said of it. Why is it that so many do not find men and women engaged in the sexual acts you mentioned disgusting as well? Because disorder comes in degrees.

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