The sacrificial sacerdote
When the United Methodists voice their slogan "Open hearts, open minds, open doors," they're not kidding:Yesterday - after undergoing a sex-change operation and taking on a new symbolic name - the Rev. Drew Phoenix received another one-year contract to head...
I don't know hardly anything about the Rev. Drew Phoenix and his/her particular case. But, I will point out that numerous people who have gone through such sex change operations have done so because they were hermaphrodites at birth or their sexual organs were ambiguous at birth and so the parents and doctors made a decision that turned out to be a mistake. Not everyone who is transgendered is so because they just decided they didn't like being a man or woman anymore and wanted to change. We should be compassionate.
"Wasn't there a Catholic bishop not too long ago who gave permission for a man surgically rearranged to resemble a woman to enter a convent as a nun?" No.
I think Joe S. brings up an interesting point. How should the Church deal with those who are born with ambiguous genitalia? Also, in one article I was reading on the subject a transgendered person compared himself to the Ethiopian eunuch? Is that an accurate comparison (excepting of course that the Ethiopian eunuch didn't have a sex change operation)?
Speaking of which, according to the infallible scruples of the church magisterium, which gender would a hermaphrodite sacramentally be allowed to marry?
Wasn't there a Catholic bishop not too long ago who gave permission for a man surgically rearranged to resemble a woman to enter a convent as a nun? Is it a rule of this blog that every post regarding a given non-RC denomination has to include a gratuitous slam at the Catholic hierarchy? Even if it has to be accomplished by simple assertion without citation, support or factual basis, as here? You're a professional journalist?
That was a question, not a slam. You RC-ers have some of the thinnest skins ever created by God. For a people who believe you hold the keys to the kingdom, you sure don't have much confidence in its ability to weather criticism.
Is it a rule of this blog that every post regarding a given non-RC denomination has to include a gratuitous slam at the Catholic hierarchy? What gratuitous slam? It really happened. I remember it -- and it was a conservative bishop, too. I'll find the link shortly.
K Street, knock it off. I deleted your nasty attack on my archbishop, which you know is untrue. The trannie nun thing really happened, and the bishop was Burke. You owe me an apology. Here's the story. If you've got a problem, it's with Bishop Burke, not me.
"It really happened?" You have no idea what happened. The article cites a woman who claimed that a would-be nun was a biological male, and cites the Bishop's response, which neither confirms nor denies the claims, but does refer to the would-be nun as "she."
The Riverfront Times? Now there's a stunningly credible source. On a par with citing Dan Savage as a reliable commenter on Deus Caritas Est. Even then, please note that the story you cite offers no substantation to the charge whatsoever. It simply repeats a second-hand allegation (an attachment to a Holy Office inquiry), made third-hand by the RFT's mention of it. Made fourth-hand by your repition of it. Rod, I'll make you a deal. I'm willing to be proven wrong on this and offer an apology if you could get this assertion as is past your editorial supervisor at DMN and into print.
I find Burke's non-denial denial to be less than convincing, but that's a matter of opinion. And I happen to like Burke. Look, if you dispute the facticity of this story, by all means say so. What irritates me is your assumption that I'm "gratuitously" and intentionally slamming the RC hierarchy. It's simply not the case that anything I bring up that reflects negatively on this or that bishop comes from anti-Catholic malice. There's a blog for people who think that, you know.
As a member of the UMC, I am constantly amazed at our race towards irrelevance. Our bishops and preachers say that a 50 member congregation that is oblivious to the spirit of Wesley theology is alive and healthy?? And its membership has quadrupled???
I don't really care about his/her gender identity crisis. I don't really care if he/she is a homosexual. I believe that if a preacher/congregation/denomination determinedly searches God's Word, church tradition and his/her God-given reason, sanity will return. I'm tired of the fight in my denomination about worship styles, homosexual acceptance and competing with the non-denominational mega-churches. If Methodists could return to being the movement of the Holy Spirit they were called to be, all of these issues would resolved.
And anyway, like ~TV said, all I did was ask a question, and it wasn't a question based on nothing. Asking a legitimate question, even if the answer is, "No, you're wrong," is not the same thing as a spurious attack.
What irritates me is your assumption that I'm "gratuitously" and intentionally slamming the RC hierarchy. I'm sorry you're irritated, but a throwaway line about an unsubstantiated story about a Catholic bishop at the end of a post about Methodists is definitionally gratuitous. That word is what it is, it doesn't mean wrong, or malevolent, or whatever, it just means that it had no purpose in telling the story at hand. As a journalist you should know the value of economy of narration.
Why do people have such a problem with gender reassignment? Don't we routinely correct birth defects?
Again, the answer to the question "Wasn't there a Catholic bishop not too long ago who gave permission for a man surgically rearranged to resemble a woman to enter a convent as a nun?" is "no." Sometimes responses to posts are not symptoms of thin-skinnedness but rather expressions intolerance of falsehood. If you want to discover the truth about the matter interview Abp Burke.
"Don't we routinely correct birth defects?" Yes. Most often these defects either inhibit the function of specific body parts (e.g., closing a hole in the heart) or physical disfigurement (e.g., harelip). There are cases of gender ambiguity. My impression is that they are quite rare, and I seriously doubt they are anywhere close to the majority of gender reassignment surgeries. I am open to seeing data proving otherwise. On a strictly biological basis, it's a pretty far leap from "let's fix this abnormally functioning intestine so that this newborn can digest food properly" to, say, a person with apparently intact and functioning female parts realizing/deciding they are male and requesting surgery as an adult. IMO.
Even in cases of physical gender ambiguity, isn't there always a definite genetic gender? It's not like you can have half a Y chromosome or something....
Joe S. wrote: "Not everyone who is transgendered is so because they just decided they didn't like being a man or woman anymore and wanted to change. We should be compassionate." Don't break your arm patting yourself on the back, your compassion doesn't go nearly far enough. NO ONE "just decides" to get sex reassignment surgery. In cases there there are not ambiguous reproductive organs, e.g., where a perfectly formed man gets reassignment surgery in order to approximate a female body, in _100%_ of the cases it's because for as long as he can remember he's had a _profound_ sense of being female. The profundity of this sense, in opposition to his physical form, has weighed terribly on him his entire life, making him completely miserable -- almost always suicidal. And it's finally, blessedly relieved when he gets the surgery. So feel free to feel compassion at the thought of these people living all those years in the wrong body. But a better emotion would be joy that there's something that can be done about it.
Oops, meant to type: "In cases _where_ there are not ambiguous reproductive organs..."
Man from K Street: The post-deletion policy precludes us from replying to you as efficiently as warranted, but your protestations about Rod's post are ludicrous. First, he doesn't have to jump through 10 hoops of your devising just so he can make a perfectly reasonable, related point. Second, this is a blog, part of the enjoyment of reading it is that people don't have to stick to ostensible journalistic practices. (Which of course are broken in journalism all the time anyway.) If you really mind so much, stick to reading those exquisite newspapers where everything's always so perfectly professional.
LuLu, Not quite. There are cases like XXY and XYY, and where a person has only one X chromasome (XO). It gets really confusing really fast.
We go to churches where men routinely wear gowns and dress-like vestments, and yet mock people who get sex-reassignment surgery? He is apparantly popular with his congregation, a strong religious leader, and apparantly a quite articualte advocate.
My question is: Why do you care? What exactly is your objection to having a transgender minister? Does your concern about failure to identify with a gender extend to men who wear dresses and robes?
Ah Daniel, you have that sharp and accurate tongue.
Many years ago, I read an article in the LA Times (I believe) about a man from San Francisco who elected to have the surgery to become a woman. He later regretted it and realized that it wasn't necessary for him to be himself. Also, I happen to know someone personally who believes he is a woman, but I have my severe doubts, as he seems to be more interested in dressing up as a woman and showing himself to people. He seems more like a confused exhibitionist than a true transexual.
I believe in the future, except in cases where there is true hermaphroditism at birth, society will rightly regard sex-change operations as a form of self-mutilation, which is what I believe they are in many cases.
If people feel truly accepted as they are, they won't need costly and (sometimes) hard to reverse operations in order to fit in.
Of course, that opens up the question as to whether self-mutilation of any kind will in the future be regarded as a protected form of "free expression".
I believe in the future, except in cases where there is true hermaphroditism at birth, society will rightly regard sex-change operations as a form of self-mutilation, which is what I believe they are in many cases. I think what you have is a lot of opinions. Which may or may not be worthwhile. We could use more scientific data to make a judment call like that. I have know 3 m-to-f transsexuals. They did not become pretty women. They were not showing off. What they did become was content.
Unfortunately, Rod and Man from K Street seem to be playing out their own private drama and have become oblivious to the original issue. Frankly, I don't see the problem. Rev, Phoenix is not seeking to inflict anyone to involuntary sex change and has not concelaed anything about his/her life. If Rev. Phoenix is not concelaing anything or proposing that others undergo gener change involtarily, what precisely is the harm? Knowing that such a surigical option exists, I am not inclined to rush out and get my plumbing re-arranged and I have met only one person in my entire life who did so. She is happy and feels more at peace with herself, and I don't know why others are so threatened by that.
Oh, by the way, the little blurch on the Bnet homepage that "Methodists Support Gender Change" is misleadiing. It makes it sound like the denomination has adopted some specific policy on this matter, when it has not. The church has taken no official stance. Perhaps because there are so many issues of vastly greater significance.
Self-mutilation bad, self-flagellation ... how about, ahem, breast enhancement, nose jobs, et al.
My question is: Why do you care? What exactly is your objection to having a transgender minister? Does your concern about failure to identify with a gender extend to men who wear dresses and robes? The amusing thing is that you think this is a serious question.
To be honest, those who label themselves "transgenderists" are exhibitionists. I have had medical treatment that is loosely termed "sex-change" surgery. Unlike what some think, in legitimate medical cases, a rather rigorous protocol is followed, and nothing proceeds without permission from the attending physician. Genuine medical cases are much rarer than instances of "transgenderism". Do not confuse the two.
One difference, of course, is that we mostly stay (decently) silent concerning our medical past, and we did NOT align ourselves with the gay lobby. I am speaking because these people make life difficult for those of us who went through legitimate medical programmes. My own attending physician is a division head at a regional medical centre and professor of endocrinology. This is not "back-alley" medicine. So, ask before you condemn. Ask to see their letter of diagnosis! Most of these sorts cannot produce one from a substantial MD. Be wary for the transgenderists, but be aware that not all people with medical treatment for this situation fit that category. I sign my name, to prove my bona fides. Vara Drezhlo
The story about the transexual nun was from a while ago. Where is she now? Has she been a good nun since then? Did she leave the convent? Did all that bluster and protest do any good-- besides give Rod the pleasure of being able to snark over it?
I have to say that the Riverfront Times article cited as "evidence" that Bishop Burke endorsed a "transgendered nun" is, um, ludicrous beyond all belief.
Here's what we've got: 1. A woman writes an unsolicited letter to the Vatican denouncing a local nun and accusing her of being "transgendered."
2. The letter also denounces the bishop for "recognizing" this nun, though there is no evidence that the complainer ever raised the issue with the bishop. 3. The letter offers no evidence to substantiate the allegation.
4. An "alternative" publication reports on the woman's letter as part of a hit piece in which now Archbishop Burke is described as, of all things, a "neoconservative" bishop(whatever that means). 5. The alternative publication also offers no evidence to substantiate the allegation. Neither does it quote a single person who even indicates awareness of this "controversy," despite supposedly interviewing for the article "more than a dozen priests" in the diocese where it is alleged to have occurred. 6. The allegation gets recycled here as fact, and the alternative publication piece is cited as the proof. Great moments in journalism.
"The amusing thing is that you think this is a serious question." So you aren't going to explain why your knickers are all wadded up by this story? Just another drive-by snark and snip, I guess.
No, because you don't really want to know, and Q.E.D., you won't respond with reasoned argument if I did. You come to this site not to engage opponents in argument, but only to bitch. I started three separate responses to your question yesterday before realizing that I was just wasting my time.
I'm actually interested in your reasoned argument, Rod. I probably won't agree with you, but it'd be interesting to hear. Mini-lecture: if you don't want the snark, don't invite the snark by engaging in it yourself. Ya gotta cop to your own guilt, dude.
This story does not surprise me. My respect for the Methodist denomination has been minimal for years, ever since a Methodist seminarian convinced my boss that a sex-change operation did not violate religious precepts. Of course, the two went on to have an intimate relationship.....
"if you don't want the snark, don't invite the snark by engaging in it yourself." Exactly. Physician, heal thyself. Maybe you get such attitude from commenters because you bring such attitude and snark to the table. Every post is slathered in sarcasm and condescension, yet when you are challenged on it, you complain that there isn't reasoned argument.
"Self-mutilation bad, self-flagellation ... how about, ahem, breast enhancement, nose jobs, et al." Agreed. I'm not big on plastic surgery except in cases where it is needed for things like cleft palates, or to help burn victims, etc.
I agree with tovart that nose jobs and breast enhancement are also a form of self-mutilation and probably a product of a bad body image.
Daniel, I can't speak for others but my objection is that a man cannot make himself into a woman. "Gender reassignment surgery" is the subjection of the body to surgery and large doses of hormones in order to satisfy a fetish.
There's a guy in San Diego who has been undergoing various kinds of surgery and body modification because he wants to be a tiger. (Something about him here: http://www.guardian.co.uk/silly/story/0,,531386,00.html) You and I know that, no matter what surgery he undergoes, this guy will never be a tiger but a human being who has mutilated himself in order to fulfil a fantasy. The same applies to gender modification--a man can make himself look like a woman, but, biologically speaking, he's always going to be a man. Such people may not hurt others with their self-mutilation, but they're hurting themselves and it is morally wrong for others to participate in their self-destructive delusion.
I believe I asked the same question without snark and got no acknowledgement. I don't see the tigerman analogy as valid. We're not alking about changing species...which is impossible. And those who undergo sexual reassignment also have to undergo consierable psychological counseling and testing to see if this desire is something more than a whim or a mere fantasy that everything will be fixed by a sex change. The one transsexual I have met seemed happy and well-balanced and even willing to endure the snarky comments and strange looks she got from people who knew her as a man. Having to put up with that hassle alone would seem to make this a surgery one would only seek if you were deeply convinced that life in the sex to which you were born was unbearably miserable. Once again, the question I ask, as snarklessly as possible, is, if a person undergoes this process and does not do so with ulterior motives, without deceit, and does not seek to impose the process upon anyone else in an involuntary manner, what precisely is the harm or sin in it?
Robert, perhaps it is a "sin" in the original meaning of the term - a mistake.
I don't think people who choose to change their sex should be ostracized or laughed at for their choices. Nor do I think they should be "defined" by mental health professionals as mentally ill.
I just think their choices should be probed and considered and questioned carefully to see whether they are truly healthy choices.
Robert, Tiger man is, by all accounts, healthy, happy, intelligent, and in all respects but his tiger fetish, psychologically healthy. He makes a good living, which is how he has been able to pay for all of his surgery. By all of the markers of happiness and stability he is no worse off than your anecdotal transsexual. You beg the question when you argue that the tiger-man's situation cannot be compared with gender reassignment surgery because changing genders is possible but changing species isn't. A man who has undergone GRS is no more a woman biologically than tiger-man is a tiger. That's the point. Neither sort of biological change is possible, and neither has been accomplished in spite of the mutilation to which the body has been subjected.
What, ultimately, is your point, penitent? So they're not really women, men or tigers. What about their situation makes it "morally wrong" (your words, not mine) to "participate in their self destructive delusion?" I mean, no one is "morally wrong" for allowing religionists to believe the delusions of their religions, so what exactly are you arguing for? Against?
tv, There are good arguments for the existence of God and the truth of the claims of the Gospels. There is no argument to support the claim that a man who has had his genitals removed and been injected with hormones has become a woman. "Gender reassignment surgery" is morally wrong because self-mutilation is morally wrong.
penitent... You argue that somehow a transgendered person is not a woman or a man, presumably because their genetic makeup has not changed. If I am wrong about this, please feel free to correct me. The problem is that tigerman will never have a tiger's brain, with the identity of a tiger. I would submit that a human male has far more in common with a human female than with a male tiger. Transgendered people maintain that their brains have somehow been wired for the opposite gender and that they have always felt profoundly out of synch with their bodies throughout their lives. You may chose to disagree with their analysis; but I have not lived with this struggle and I am assuming you haven't either, so we lack the ability to truly judge or understand it. You continually use the word "mutilate" which indicates your conviction that the bodies of these people have been disfigured in some way which renders them dysfunctional. The only function it seems they would lack is that of procreation. Some of these people have procreated before undergoing surgery, but even that did not lead them to feel comfortable or right in their own skin. Others refused to procreate because they felt it would only compound their misery. It's unlikely they would have kids, even if they didn't have the operation. Is procreation the issue here for you? It seems to be the only function this process renders impossible. Other physical functions and intellectual functions do not appear the be impeded. In the case of Rev. Phoenix, it seems that the surgery has not severed faith in God any more than it did for the Ethiopian eunch.
"Gender reassignment surgery" is morally wrong because self-mutilation is morally wrong. You haven't successfully made that case, but I respect that this is what you believe.
One additional thought. Circumcision is considered self-mutilation in many cultures, and it certainly involves changing one's natural form in a way which does not necessarily make you more functional. Why would God advocate self-mutilation for many centuries if it is so morally wrong? Paul has declared it no longer theoloigically necessary, but there is now evidence that it could be a surprisingly effect means of helping to prevent the spread of AIDS. Should Christians abandon the practice, even though it has potential health benefits because it is self-mutilation? Most of the time, it is parents who make the circumcision decision. (We did for our son) This goes a step further than entirely voluntary TGS.
Penitent, One thing should be highlighted in all of this: It's absolutelu none your business.
You don't want to be a woman, don't be a woman. I have worked with and counseled several people who were essentially born into the wrong bodies. Their entire way of thinking didn't match their bodies. If you don't have any scientific understanding on a topic, don't weigh in with an opinion (short of the fact that it makes you feel icky). You might actually harm someone.
1. "You continually use the word "mutilate" which indicates your conviction that the bodies of these people have been disfigured in some way which renders them dysfunctional. The only function it seems they would lack is that of procreation." "Mutilate" = "to injure or disfigure by irreparably damaging body parts." That is precisely what is done when a man's genitals are removed and what is left is shaped surgically so that it looks like female genitalia. 2. "The only function it seems they would lack is that of procreation."
When a man has his genitalia physically altered to resemble female genitalia, he does not now have the genitalia of a sterile woman. Rather, he merely has surgically altered male genitalia. The underlying biology has not changed, nor can it be changed. No reputable surgeon or scientist will claim otherwise. 3. "I would submit that a human male has far more in common with a human female than with a male tiger." A human being has far more in common with a tiger than with a cockroach, but that's not evidence that a particular human being might really be a tiger.
4. "Transgendered people maintain that their brains have somehow been wired for the opposite gender and that they have always felt profoundly out of synch with their bodies throughout their lives." Tigerman also feels that his brain really is wired to be a tiger. However, this conviction does not make him a tiger. 5. "it certainly involves changing one's natural form in a way which does not necessarily make you more functional." Circumcision is not the removal of a healthy organ with the aim of cosmetically altering what in order to make it appear to be an organ of the opposite gender. Indeed, circumcision is not the removal of an organ. Rather, it is the removal of a part of an organ that is not vital to the operation of that organ. Furthermore, as you suggested, there are good health reasons for practicing circumcision.
6. "Most of the time, it is parents who make the circumcision decision. (We did for our son) This goes a step further than entirely voluntary TGS." If you had your son's penis removed and cosmetically chaped to appear to be something that it is not, I would agree that you went 'a step further.' But that's not what you did.
7. "If you don't have any scientific understanding on a topic, don't weigh in with an opinion (short of the fact that it makes you feel icky" My comments are motivate precisely by my scientific understanding of human biology. GRS makes me "feel icky" only because it is grave physical harm to a perfectly healthy human body.
Tigerman also feels that his brain really is wired to be a tiger. However, this conviction does not make him a tiger. To be fair, it's his spirit that he believes is wired to be a tiger. Go to the man's website and read his story, yourself. He's not hurting anybody.
I work for a university that offers a PhD in Gender Studies and has public restrooms specifically reserved as "transgender," so I know that this an area where there's a lot of intellectual activity. This being the case, I'm hopeful that somebody can give a skeptical layman something that approaches an intellectually honest answer: What objective criteria can somebody use to claim that they feel like their "gender identity" is out of synch with their biology? Richard
The bottom line here seems to be your judgment that a transsexual's deep discomfort over their sexual identity is anchored in nothing but a "fantasy" while your position is based on some objective truth that they are always wrong. But, you still haven't explained how it is that you know that.
If it were possible to undergo some kind of gene therapy which would alter a person's sexuality at a chromosomal level, would that be acceptable to you? I am not being facetious here, I am really trying to understand the exact nature of your objection. I certainly think that anyone considering this step should undergo very extensive analysis to determine whether they really understand the implications of what they are requesting. I have never heard of it being done otherwise, though there may be some unscrupulous surgeons who will do this (and anything else) for a buck.
GRS makes me "feel icky" only because it is grave physical harm to a perfectly healthy human body. And, again, it is none of your business. If you think someone is self-mutilating, just think "there but for the grace of G-D go I" and walk on. I find your ability to live in other peoples' heads astonishing. Perhaps you should write a book.
Didn't Wendell Berry light a cat on fire in the back forty as part of some strange, fall festival thing? Didn't he write about it in one of his best-sellers?
And, again, it is none of your business. If you think someone is self-mutilating, just think "there but for the grace of G-D go I" and walk on. But we as a society have already decided that some things that people do to themselves *are* society's business, even if they don't hurt anyone else. People whose behavior seems to indicate grave mental illness are routinely hospitalized without their consent if they seem to constitute a threat to themselves, let alone to others.
I don't believe that anyone who has undergone sexual reassignment surgery has been involtarily admitted to a mental health facility based upon that request. Once again, they have been subjected to extensive screening processes when it comes to their mental health and therapists have concluded they would be most helped by having the surgery.
Is it a rule of this blog that every post regarding a given non-RC denomination has to include a gratuitous slam at the Catholic hierarchy?/i Yes. it is. Hadn't you noticed this before, Man from K Street? ;) Even if it has to be accomplished by simple assertion without citation, support or factual basis, as here? Especially in such a case. Beats dealing with the increasing mess in Rod's own communion: viz. ocanews.org You're a professional journalist? Kind of gives one pause, dunn't it?
In the sities Johns Hopkins University was in the forefront in performing surgeries on hermaphrodite babies. The parents simply chose a sex and the surgeons gave them what they ordered. Now it's proven that the male and female brain wave activity differs and many of those babies were wrongly rearranged. Nature has obviously mistakenly arranged some of those transgendered folks. How sad that the price for matching their brains with their bodies is sterility and very complicated sexual expression and sex drive.That is a very high price to pay.
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