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The end of Tammy Faye

Thursday July 19, 2007

Categories: Culture
Saw the Larry King interview with cancer-stricken Tammy Faye Bakker Messner tonight. It was tough to watch. She is suffering terribly, is down to 65 pounds, and speaks in a gaspy whisper. I've always thought her to be one of...
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mm
July 19, 2007 11:06 PM

I think she's suffered enough.

TP
July 19, 2007 11:20 PM

Rod,

I agree with you, woo hoo, finally! I do agree with you that the way they lived on other people's money was just depressing. I don't know the state of her soul, that is between God and her, but she did some damage to the witness of Christians. When I try to engage friends and aquaintences about my faith, they usually tell me how they are repelled from Christianity due to the behavior of people like the Baker's. Intentional or not, they hurt God's witness on Earth. I pray for her, and hope she will know peace soon. I pray for her family, they have been through a lot.

mm
July 19, 2007 11:27 PM

It's important to remember that Tammy Faye was not indicted by the grand jury.

From his book, "Forgiven", Charlotte Observer reporter Charles E. Shepard writes, "A day before the the eighth anniversary of Jessica Hahn's trip to Florida, the federal grand jury in Charlotte indicted Bakker and [PTL President]Dortch for mail fraud, wire fraud, and conspiring to defraud the public through the sale of lifetime [timeshare] partnerships. The indictment alleged that the two men had failed to disclose the true number of partnerships sold to PTL partners and, by the use of the mails and public airwaves, had sold tens of thousands more partnerships than PTL had the lodging to accommodate. The grand jury also accused the men of concealing the Hahn payoff and the true financial condition of PTL from the ministry's board of directors."

The grand jury did not consider her to be an indictable part of the "swindle".
(p552)

Bob
July 19, 2007 11:37 PM

For all have sinned, and fall short. . . That kept running through my mind as I watched Tammey Faye on Larry King. If her faith gave her such confidence in view of what she has done and been through, it did give me a bit of hope. For her sake, I hope that message rings true to the world. God always gives us a second chance.

Rawlins
July 19, 2007 11:50 PM

Personally, I never quite understood why all bets are off evaluating someone's life and deeds simply because they are either dying or dead. We are all going to die and thus someday be dead. So how does that great equalizer in the sky allow this inevitable ritual of altered state protocol?

Tammy Faye has yes suffered greatly in more than one incarnation era in her après-80s life. And for that I am sincerely sorry. I do not however see what that has to do with anything relevant to the Bakker story of yore.

If Ted Haggard is suddenly announced to be on his death bed, will all be forgiven? Oh, wait- oops; I forgot. Brother Ted now eschews meth and was re-converted into a card-carrying heterosexual after a 3 day intervention. This of course after his three year intercourse--err—discourse/interaction with a male prostitute.

Picky, picky.

Rod Dreher
July 19, 2007 11:54 PM

I hear you, mm, but as I recall from reading her book, she defended the air-conditioned doghouse and all the rest of the insane luxury crap she and Jim acquired from the pockets of their followers.

I dunno, maybe I'm being too hard on her, but I remember going out to Jimmy Swaggart's church as a college student at LSU, when word got out that big news was going to be announced in the pulpit the next morning. I went out to cover it for the college paper. I was not all that religious then, and loved to spite Jimmy Swaggart and his followers. I went expecting to have a laugh.

What I heard was his (in)famous "I have sinned against you, my Lord" sermon. I was prepared to believe him a phony, but what I was not prepared for was the way that sermon hit the people around me in the congregation. Judging by the way they were dressed, these were not wealthy people. These were not fashionable people. These were the kind of people smart-aleck college boys like me like to poke fun at. And they were hurting. They were hurting bad. They'd believed in Swaggart, and trusted him as a man of God. And on evidence, many of them were shattered.

I left there not laughing, or feeling triumphant, but unusually (for callow me) sad. Not for Swaggart, but for those who had believed in him.

I don't have any reason to believe that Tammy Faye committed any crime in the PTL debacle. But I strongly believe that she was morally culpable in that rotten enterprise, and that she's never owned up to what she did. Not that it matters much now, but still, it was really weird to run across that article I wrote eight or so years ago, just minutes after I'd seen her on TV making what is surely her last performance. It was quite a coincidence.

mm
July 20, 2007 12:00 AM

All bets are off, Rawlins, because the final judgement of a person's life and worth is the sole privilege of an omniscient God.

mm
July 20, 2007 12:16 AM

Perhaps not, Msrs. Dreher, but do you really need a more vivid portrait of suffering than you've seen tonight? Would her complete and public humiliation then satisfy you?

Rawlins
July 20, 2007 12:21 AM

MM, I know the drill. All redemption is in the Lord's hands. Faith 101. Those of us on earth cannot pass judgment for eternity. That said, I just see no point in playing the don't ask/don't tell card regarding those who play fast and loose with the law and other people's money....... in God's name no less.

Our accountability is ultimately to God. But that does not mean that we are not accountable to those we harm in real time. Since when is it appropriate dispensation to emulate blind zombies with Alzheimer's relative to public figures, regarding their behavior and deeds among us in our times? There is Passing Judgment and there is passing the torch.

Rod is absolutely correct that she shares a huge moral culpability to which she never owned up. Only God can judge her. But I'm here to remind her. Or anyone else.

Faith
July 20, 2007 12:22 AM

Honestly, I've never been a big fan of Tammy Faye ( she's always seemed fairly rediculous to me, honestly ) and I don't know enough about the situation with her "swindle" to comment, but since I could never stomach Falwell, I think I'll just say that at this point, it's really not up to anyone to judge her. If you believe in your God, and in the Bible, then I don't have to tell you that it's not your job to do so.

I may not believe in that kind of thing, but it seems to me like if you do believe in it, you've got to trust that whatever you think she does or doesn't deserve will be dealt with during God's judgement, and pointing out what you deem to be sins, mistakes, ect, just makes you look petty. ( Note: This is the collective 'you', I'm not talking to or about anyone in particular. Before someone goes bat**it, I thought I'd point that out, lol. )

mm
July 20, 2007 12:32 AM

Rawlins, one doesn't have to be a blind zombie with Alzheimer's (LOL)
to understand that we'll never see perfect justice in this world. Many lawsuits were brought against PTL, but there was nothing left after the bankruptcy. Caveat Emptor.

Rawlins
July 20, 2007 12:35 AM

Well, since the consensus seems to be that no one should or can judge anyone, then I can just assume this is the perfect way to unclog our overwhelmed court dockets. Who are we to judge,? Let em all go! Shut it all down! Let the legal/moral onus chips fall where they may.

Next issue. Sweet dreams.

mm
July 20, 2007 12:41 AM

Oooh. I think somebody needs a hug.

Faith
July 20, 2007 12:48 AM

Well, basically Rawlins, what you're saying is that God's word is rediculous, lol. While I'd have to agree, I find it funny that most conservative christians don't practice a 15th of what they preach.

Rod Dreher
July 20, 2007 1:17 AM

Rawlins is not saying that at all. He's only making the perfectly legitimate point that while only God can judge the state of her soul, there's nothing wrong with assessing the public life of a public person. I mean, look, if my newspaper chooses to mark her passing with an editorial on the meaning of her life, it won't do to leave out all the bad stuff on the principle that one shouldn't speak ill of the dead. If I am called on to write about the meaning of her life for the newspaper, I will have to point out that in public, at least, she never accepted that she was anything but a victim of the PTL calamity -- even though that conclusion is as shaky as it is self-serving.

No, mm, I don't want to see Tammy Faye humiliated. Who cares, ultimately, about PTL anymore? Still, when I think of her, I think of a ridiculous woman who rode the televangelist gravy train to obscene wealth (an air-conditioned doghouse!), lost it all when her husband got sent to jail for bilking the faithful, and who spent the rest of her life presenting herself as the plucky survivor of injustice. In other words, an amusing fraud. After tonight, I also think of a woman who is in extreme physical pain, and who is suffering as no one should have to suffer. The latter doesn't erase the former in her biography, though perhaps it might redeem it, if you choose to see it that way.

The Christian faith only obliges those who hold it not to pass judgment on the souls of the departed. It does not oblige them to refuse accounting of a person's deeds and character. That's usually a misunderstood point invoked by people who don't want to think ill of someone, but can't think of ground upon which to defend the accused. Regarding the recently departed, it is right to incline toward charity, but unless you're delivering the eulogy, charity does not require a dishonest appraisal. If George W. Bush were to pass away tomorrow, the fact and circumstances of his passing would not, or should not, soften or improve the assessment of his leadership. Right? (Though the journalist Robert Novak, in a WNYC radio interview the other day, observed how unjustifiably the reputation of many US presidents improved after they passed away. Dying was for many of them a good career move.)

Thomas Aquinas
July 20, 2007 1:17 AM

"[B]ut since I could never stomach Falwell, I think I'll just say that at this point, it's really not up to anyone to judge her."

But, apparently, we can say that we can't stomach her. :-)

Rod Dreher
July 20, 2007 1:20 AM

but since I could never stomach Falwell, I think I'll just say that at this point, it's really not up to anyone to judge her.

In other words, because she made the right enemies, she gets a pass. What a curious moral calculus that is.

mm
July 20, 2007 3:03 AM

Srs. Dreher, if anyone has a "right" to judge her it's me. I was a front line casualty of PTL's misdeeds; employed at the time by another large ministry that reaped a 30% fall off of donations, causing the elimination of my job in 1987 (and 300 others'). I was a direct victim of that far-reaching debacle.

But please explain further: How does my shouting that from the housetops fortify anything worthwhile, especially since she is no longer in a position to "swindle" anyone? Do you really wish for a world where our sins of pride, envy, greed, deceit - and whatever else they may be - are rehashed again and again over the course of a lifetime just for the satisfaction of public ridicule?

At what point should a Christian's extension of grace toward another Christian, overrule?

fabulousheretic
July 20, 2007 4:45 AM

It's not so much that TF minimizes her role in the 'debacle', but that the so-called 'debacle' was not as big a 'swindle' on the part of the Bakker's that most people imagine.

Yes, there was horrible mismanagement, but reports of the Bakker's extravagant lifestyle and even their personal role in the defrauding have been greatly over-assumed.

Zero-Equals-Infinity
July 20, 2007 6:22 AM

The sight of Tammy Faye in that video evokes a terrible sense of pity and a sense that despite anything else I may think she must be a gutsy person. I doubt if I was at that stage of cancer, looking like a famine relief poster approaching death, that I would give a television interview on Larry King.

None of this justifies or absolves her of her past, and it shouldn't. Still, it is not my role to judge her state, and I do hope that she faces death well, and if God exists experiences a grace and mercy beyond what we mere humans are able to give.

Mary from Pennsylvania
July 20, 2007 7:45 AM

I wonder if we're not seeing here the consequences of a clericalism, a more medieval attitude than we're prepared to face, among Christians of all sorts, including Orthodox Christians?

In the three decades I've been Orthodox, I have very often heard the insistent declaration that the Orthodox Church is devoid of any form of clericalism, but it doesn't match the disillusionment we see when Orthodox clergy fail in any way to live up to the laity's expectations.

Why should it surprise us when we see "the mighty fallen" even among protestants?

We are all human. Christ is the Judge. We fail. God forgives. But the more "clericalist", the more idolatrous we become, the greater our anguish when we see that our priestly or hierarchical superiors have fallen off their pedestals--pedestals on which we sinners put them in the first place.

Clericalism and idolatry have nothing to do with Christian love, respect and agape. When we cry out at a bishop's consecration "Axios, Axios, Axios!" we need to see ourselves as under obligation to help leaders lead and to help ourselves to follow in love. It's a two-way street, that love between clergy and people, and it's got a solid line down the middle that we cross at our spiritual peril.

I think I read Christ's words about the Church He founded to mean that the Church is a family. Families don't pray together or stick together very well these days, it seems... We'll not be one as Jesus and the Father are one until we become a family again.

Eric W
July 20, 2007 9:51 AM

If you ever have a chance to see the 6-part Jay Bakker show that was on the Sundance Channel ("One Punk Under God"), the segments with his mom and dad are very telling. Jim Bakker comes across as a man who unhealthily depends on other people "loving" him to give him a sense of self-worth. He can't even relate to or talk to his own son, and he can only act normal when he's in front of a TV camera, and Tammy Faye confirms that fact. These are two pitiable people who were as parasitically dependent on their audiences as their audiences came to depend on them. The sad thing is, the PTL fanbase thought that Jim and Tammy loved them, when it was actually their "love" for Jim and Tammy that powered the show.

thomas tucker
July 20, 2007 9:57 AM

Not having seen the whole interview, I must ask why Larry King is having her on. I suspect that the point for him is to attract viewers for a ghastly spectacle; but what is her personal reason for being on? Unless there's a good one, I think the King and the network are odious for allowing her to make herself, once again, be a spectacle for titillation.

TGScott
July 20, 2007 1:46 PM

When I was a child at home during the summer, they would come on mid-morning. I was raised in the church and I knew that Jim and Tammy were lying and I would throw tantrums at the TV and wish that someday they'd get theirs back in spades. I got my wish in this life, but now I take no pleasure in knowing that the woman is and has been terminally ill for quite awhile now. Having a mother who suffered horribly from terminal cancer immediately tugs my heart strings for others going through it. I only hoped that by both of them getting their comeuppance in this life, that it would turn them around for the better. From the sounds of it, Tammy Faye is stuck fast to the way she's always believed it should be, and that's not a good thing. Having said that, I wish her no ill.

Chuck
July 20, 2007 2:12 PM

I'm inclined to think that Larry King had her on so he could finally have a guest that looks worse than he does. Other than that I have never really understood the fuss about the Bakkers. The provided entertaining spectacle and only fleeced those who were stupid enough to deserve to be fleeced.

And in any event I would have more sympathy for her than I would for those poor dummies. Money is easily replaced but dying tends to be sort of permanent.

Susan
July 20, 2007 3:09 PM

God love her, she looks terrible, and must feel terrible. May she find an easy way into the arms of the Savior.

Rod Dreher
July 20, 2007 3:46 PM

Not having seen the whole interview, I must ask why Larry King is having her on. I suspect that the point for him is to attract viewers for a ghastly spectacle; but what is her personal reason for being on? Unless there's a good one, I think the King and the network are odious for allowing her to make herself, once again, be a spectacle for titillation.

King said she approached him about doing an interview. I thought maybe she would want to make some sort of appeal to people to get right with God before they die, or something like that, but there was none of that. I thought afterward, "What was that for?" Eric's post makes me think that she's so addicted to being on TV that she had to have her hit one more time before she faded to black.

ossicle
July 20, 2007 5:46 PM

A thread about this on a secular website. Interestingly affectionate comments:

http://jezebel.com/gossip/clips/god-bless-tammy-faye-280761.php

Anonymous
July 21, 2007 9:41 PM

God rest the soul of Ms. Faye.

Reux Luscat
July 22, 2007 5:51 AM

Srs. Dreher, if anyone has a "right" to judge her it's me. I was a front line casualty of PTL's misdeeds; employed at the time by another large ministry that reaped a 30% fall off of donations, causing the elimination of my job in 1987 (and 300 others'). I was a direct victim of that far-reaching debacle....
mm

Sounds like one mafiosi complaining about another moving into his territory.

jim
July 22, 2007 4:24 PM

I always love the judge and jury type (that's directed at the Omnipotent Mr. Dreher). "Allege" a term covered in your companies "Rules of Conduct", is a violation. Ever heard of lead by example? If memory serves she was not convicted of any crime. Hence. "her role" w/out evidence and a conviction, is nothing more than your unfounded opinion. Your speech seems to lends itself to hate. Your timing, or the lack there of, is beyond poor!

Rod Dreher
July 22, 2007 4:40 PM

Oh please, Jim. Of course she wasn't charged with a crime. The way she lived -- the Rolls-Royces, the air-conditioned doghouses -- while her husband and his criminal compatriots fleeced the faithful, makes her complicit morally in the scandal that was PTL. She never to my knowledge publicly regretted any of it. That shouldn't be forgotten in any postmortem assessment of her character.

Richard Gohner
July 23, 2007 5:04 AM

Tammy Faye was a spiritual hero for me. I loved her very much. She showed me how to be a light in a very dark world. She was an amazing singer (having recorded 25 albums), an inspiring author, and a great mother and grandmother. Tammy always demonstrated unconditional love, and was willing to go where no Christian would go in ministering to the gay community. Pastor Benny Hinn was right when he said, a few years ago, that it's time for the Christians to listen to Tammy again. Seeing her on Larry King on Thursday literally broke my heart, yet I was in awe of her courage and unwavering faith right to the end! She was an amazing example to the world that night, and all throughout her colorful life.

Dr. Lisa Guzzardi
July 25, 2007 1:52 AM

I met Roe Messner years ago while working on Operation Dignity.Roe was a very professional, kind man that exemplified character and integrity.Roe really made an impression on me. As for Tammy, I feel that she had a childlike innocence and a love for life that you dont see very often. Tammy saw the good in people. She loved her God and up until the bitter end she stood knowing who she was. She never veered from her path even in the harshest of circumstances. As a christian counselor, I see so many people who go through far less than she has-simply give up. Tammy's death had meaning. Her life had meaning. I pray that her memory will be an example to all who embrace her. If Roe should read this e-mail I pray for him, Tammy Sue, Jim jr. and her precious little puppies who will miss her. Tammy you were loved. may God be with your family,
Dr.Lisa Guzzardi

Anonymous
March 21, 2008 9:09 AM

There are so many things that people do not know about Jim Bakker,Tammy Faye Bakker Messner,Roe Messner,Benny Hinn,Jimmy Swaggart,Paul and Jan Crouch,Pat Robertson,etc.,etc. and the so called "Christian world"..One day the truth will come out, and people need to hear it."Judge not least ye be judged",but when you KNOW the truth first hand you can only keep it in for so long.THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE...The truth will set me free.....ONE DAY.

Beverly
October 14, 2008 7:20 PM

Yes I do believe Tammy was showered with gifts. But I do not believe that she knew what her husband was doing. She ws cleared so leave it there. Tammy Loved the Lord, she really did. She made some very bad choices in her life, but after all she is human.

She inspired me, and when I listened to her always felt the joy of the lord withion my heart. I am really missing her.

Rest In Peace Tammy

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