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Sunday July 15, 2007

This sounds like yet another crazy Episcopalian story, and it kind of is, but it's more sinister. A California man who was until recently a pornographic film star has decided that he wants to be an Episcopal priest. The San...
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Joey
July 15, 2007 10:49 PM

This isn't really surprising, if you look at it in a philosophical or, especially, a theological way. Humans have souls, which are holy and formed in the image of God Himself, and also bodies, which are basically just really advanced cows when you come down to it. Pornography plays only to the body---it is for nothing more than physical titilation, the soul really has no part in it. So it's not really surprising that, over time, it will become more and more "animal," as the soul becomes more and more detached from it, because porn has nothing to do with loving or even knowing the object of one's attraction.

God bless.

sigaliris
July 15, 2007 11:33 PM

Joey, I think you are mistaken about the nature of pornography. Frankly, if pornography were primarily concerned with the pleasures of the flesh, it would be much less harmful. Exuberant, mutually pleasing sexual enjoyment might be considered illicit by the Church, due to the lack of marriage vows, but it wouldn't be evil. What makes it seriously wrong comes all from the spirit--brutality, gloating violation of innocence, domination of the weak, pleasure in causing pain without consent and taking what is not freely given. These are all evil and all come from the heart of man. Animals don't sin. To say porn is evil because it's "animal" is missing the point. (And btw, we're not all that closely related to cows--who engage in very little extra-procreational sexual frolicking. We're primates. You've got the wrong mammal there.)

Joseph
July 16, 2007 2:06 AM

All I got to ask social conseratives when they omniously warn about our slouch towards gomorrah is: What about Rock'n Roll?

It was the music of Satan. Why haven't we ended up in hell yet? I mean we were warned 60 years ago about its Satanic influence. Shouldn't the consequences have finally kicked in?

M_David
July 16, 2007 2:49 AM

Why haven't we ended up in hell yet?


Sadly, one man's cultural joy is another man's hell.

But...from an objective point of view, is not cultural "hell" simply a place so bad that man willingly dies off with no hope for the future? Commits cultural sucide, so to speak?

Interestingly, not a single culture has maintained a TFR=2 (replacement rate) after embracing Rock'n Roll. And wasn't there an old Stone's song called Sympathy For the Devil?

Could it be...Satan? :-)

masha
July 16, 2007 3:11 AM

Former porn star might become a saint, but i'm afraid orthodox church would never ordain him. If i'm not mistaken it demands from future priests special purity in relations with women, a man should be 'a husband of only one wife'. For example one friend of my mother, 50 years old man, became a believer and graduated from theological university. He divorsed many years ago and wanted to become a priest very much, but he was put before a choice -either he finds ex-wife (marriage with whom was secular) and marries her again in church, or becomes a monk. No third option.
He didn't feel himself ready to be a monk and ex-wife said she might marry him again but the mere idea of becoming a priest's wife scares her to death and laughed at him. So a trained priest stays not in demand.

franz
July 16, 2007 8:04 AM

Before you swallow this one hook, line and sinker, consider the attached:

http://episcopalchurch.typepad.com/episcope/2007/07/stop-the-presse.html

I'm not saying one side or the other is right, but be aware that there are some challenging the accuracy of the original story.

Sarah in Maryland
July 16, 2007 9:59 AM

Jesus does warn against "sexual immorality," but doesn't get into nitty gritty details about everything that it entails. He does say that he has come not to abolish the law, but to fulfill it. Weren't we given the law so that we may know right from wrong? And I think that the law has a great deal to say about sexual immorality. It is foolishness to say that Jesus didn't have anything to say about sex.

Maybe this is a mis-reading about divorce, but isn't it possible to be forgiven this sin? This poor monk became a new creature when he accepted Christ and his old sins should not be counted against him.

Eric W
July 16, 2007 10:02 AM
This isn't really surprising, if you look at it in a philosophical or, especially, a theological way. Humans have souls, which are holy and formed in the image of God Himself, and also bodies, which are basically just really advanced cows when you come down to it. Pornography plays only to the body---it is for nothing more than physical titilation, the soul really has no part in it. So it's not really surprising that, over time, it will become more and more "animal," as the soul becomes more and more detached from it, because porn has nothing to do with loving or even knowing the object of one's attraction.

God bless.

St. Paul in 1 Corinthians 6:12-20 seems to suggest that some things we do with our bodies, e.g., fornication, can't be extricated from our souls - hence the soul really does have a part in it - and in the case of fornication by a Christian (and maybe by a non-Christian as well?), it is not two persons but three who are "joined" in and by the act. Also, I don't think the Hebrew and even NT understanding of "soul" is that it's some immaterial part or essence that can be divorced from the body. The Hebrew nephesh/neshamah often refers to the whole being, IIRC.

foston
July 16, 2007 11:46 AM

This man, like all sinners, should be welcomed. We forget ourselves, and declare ourselves "more holy" by our attempts to exclude. It is the very antithesis of the ministry of Jesus, who sought out the excluded and unclean. If we put these historic people in their appropriate context, then they would be the porn stars of their day. A prostitute in the days of Jesus was reviled, even though (mysteriously) they still had customers that helped them support them and their children.

Furthermore, the Bible is absolutely full of very imperfect people that God worked through. Think: King David. Reread his good story and then judge this man.

Lets not be the pharisees of the day by couch quarterbacking the choices of the Church to see who may or may not be suited for Holy Orders.

God can work miracles through any person if they are willing to listen. Maybe this man's time has come.

Eric W
July 16, 2007 12:06 PM

Accept him, yes.

But from the earliest days, the Church had criteria for a person's admission into the Body of Christ by baptism and chrismation, and in order to receive the Eucharist.

And even in the Apostles' letters, that acceptance could be strained or suspended or broken by unrepentance or sinful actions by a Christian brother or sister.

Rod Dreher
July 16, 2007 1:04 PM

I'm with Eric on this.

Alicia
July 16, 2007 1:36 PM

It's true that great sinners have become saints, and I have to ask: How do we know whether this man is fit to be a priest or not? If I were responsible for judging his fitness, I would, of course, want to look very carefully at his background and would have definite questions about his previous career.

In terms of the dark direction porn has gone in, that trend also seems to operating in the glorified "snuff" films that are currently disguised as horror movies (like Saw, Saw II, and Hostel, Hostel II, etc.) I refuse to see movies like that, but I agree with the person who said that porn (or at least, dark, sadomasochistic porn) is not about our "animal" nature, it is about some sort of soul sickness.

Anonymous
July 16, 2007 2:00 PM

Because the real devil wears horns of course ( I thought it was prada)

Franklin Evans
July 16, 2007 3:58 PM

Isn't this a direct (meaning, not cliched) example of holier than thou?

As a non-Christian (and having never been one, not an ex-C), this is an aspect of dogma that keeps me perpetually confused. I find it, most of the time, in direct contradiction to other aspects like forgiveness and salvation.

One comparison point that comes to mind is the Jewish high holy days Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Every year, Jews seek atonement for sins against both God and their fellows.

I'm not attempting to create parallels or invidious comparisons. I'm just drawing attention to something I find less than constructive, and that's establishing a tradition of forgiveness and then judging people who have done wrong and later seek to start anew. It seems to me, observing from the outside, that a once and done criminal like a murderer is somehow easier to forgive than the porn star cited above.

Rod Dreher
July 16, 2007 4:29 PM

Franklin, it's not a simple question of forgiveness. This guy was a great sinner, and may turn out to be a great saint. He is not entitled to be a priest just because that's what he's decided he wants to be. If he wants to help people spiritually or otherwise, fine. But to be an ordained priest means he will take on enormous responsibilities by virtue of his office. A priest stands for something. Seems to me that he should demonstrate that he really has turned from his former life before he takes up the ordained ministry. To be sure, I have never lived like this man, but I wouldn't be suited for the ministry, though I at one time considered the priesthood.

It's like this: say that this guy had been a poisoner, but turned from his former profession in January, and by summer said he wanted to join your staff as a chef. Would you think it wise to hand him the keys to the pantry and a toque so soon?

Anonymous
July 16, 2007 4:57 PM

If the porn guy has genuinely changed course then be assured that trumpets in Heaven are a-blarin', and choirs of angels are a-singin', and we should be rejoicing right along with them--whether he should be a priest or not is another matter. But I wanted to comment more on Rod's point that pornography is a profoundly evil enterprise, and I'd suggest it was even before the guys in the business started wearing around their Hail Satan T-shirts and goat leggings and such. We tend to gloss over it as not so big a deal and more and more it gets mainstreamed and for cryin' out loud Hugh Hefner is just a cuddly fuzzy bear--who will probably have a state funeral when he dies--I can just see the E! Channel documentaries now... But in all seriousness, imagine how it is that the pornography enterprise wrecks souls:
We are created in God’s image, and more than anything that means we are created to love, to put the good of others first, above our own good, to love others as Jesus showed us that he loves us. The essential temptation, man’s condition really, is to put ourselves first, in the center, and the other’s purpose becomes to serve us one way or another. The other becomes an object for us to use. We are all on a vector—gradually moving toward being able to love like God, or gradually moving away from that.
The greatest evil of pornography is that it trains us to objectify others. With each pornographic image, after each image, after each image, we are training ourselves to see the other person not as a person, as an embodied soul, but as an object, an object whose sole purpose is our gratification. And the more we are trained in this way the more we become this way, and the more it spills over into our relationships so we come to see those around us as objects, whom we are less and less able to love. With the pervasiveness of pornography (something that’s new, never in history has it been like this), God only knows how many souls are having the ability to love gradually sucked out of them.
And the models and actors, same thing. They know well that they are being used, but that’s fine, they’re getting paid—so they are happily using those who are using them. And those behind it all?—pure business—trafficking in the bodies and souls of others for pure hard cash. In all aspects of the whole enterprise people are commodities, objects to be used for one’s own gratification—sexual, financial, whatever.
And the end result for an individual wrapped up in it, regardless of what part he or she plays—viewer, model, or businessman—is a steady day-after-day training, continual reiteration, that people are objects to be used, until, finally, the person has become unable to love, and unable to receive love, and that is Hell.
All of Evil’s efforts have this same aim and this is just one salient among many, but it’s not a small one, and I’d suspect it’s not an unsuccessful one.
It's deeply sad, really. Remember that all of these folks--however they participate--are God's children, with potential destinies so beautiful. But all under attack, all gradually having their capacity for love taken away. I imagine God looks at this enterprise--consuming his children--with the same horror that we would view child pornography--his beautiful children's souls tormented, bewildered, pulverized.

aaron
July 16, 2007 5:25 PM

Interestingly, not a single culture has maintained a TFR=2 (replacement rate) after embracing Rock'n Roll.

And the misuse of statistics, currently at 87.42%, is at an all time high.

Anonymous
July 16, 2007 6:27 PM

"...But to be an ordained priest means he will take on enormous responsibilities by virtue of his office. A priest stands for something. .."

Paul? Augustine?

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