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Feminized Christianity, anyone?

Wednesday September 26, 2007

We've been talking about whether or not western Christianity has become or is becoming feminized. Along those lines, BabyBlue, an Episcopalian attending TEC's bishops' meeting in New Orleans, picked up one of the new "official" hymns being trilled by the...
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Brian Finlayson
September 26, 2007 6:15 PM

That's worse than the "Jesus is my boyfriend" praise songs that I have to suffer through in my oh so contemperary non-denominational seeker friendly church. If I can't tell whether the person we are singing about is the Logos through whom all was created or the cover model on a dimestore Harlequin then Houston we have a problem.

sigaliris
September 26, 2007 6:26 PM

Okay, Rod, as the resident squad leader of the Militia Etheridge, I'll bite. Could you please elaborate on exactly what makes this hymn disgusting to you? It would help me out a lot, because, you know, I can't militantly attack you in my strident, humorless fashion unless I have a clear idea of just what wrongheaded notions you're currently promoting. : )

It seems a bit bland, for sure. But there's nothing in it that's positively unscriptural. I'm sure you know that God doesn't actually have a penis, and while Jesus does, he is normally considered our brother rather than our father. So God's fatherhood is metaphorical, and as such, is neither more nor less real than God's motherhood. Surprising as it is, there are actually motherhood metaphors for God in the highly patriarchal Old Testament. So why not in the occasional hymn?

Matt K
September 26, 2007 6:33 PM

Compared to 3 millenia of patriarchy, a little feminzaiton will not bring down Christ's church. Yes, as sigaliris says, Jesus had a penis. But if the incarnation was to save what the Logos took on in flesh, and if both Male and Female who are baptized into Christ are saved by that incarnation, then it cannot be Jesus' maleness that saves us, but the union of his divinity and humanity.

All that said, this hymn is a little inane, but not because I'm scared of femininity.

Anonymous
September 26, 2007 6:48 PM

Typical. Men have no problem when God is describe with stereotypically male personality traits, or as "He", but when the shoe is on the other foot, it becomes intolerable.

It's no surprise that men project their own image and traits onto God, but if they're going to, they should not be surprised when women do the same thing.

Brian Finlayson
September 26, 2007 6:53 PM

No, men don't project their own image and traits onto God, He has done so to men.

Anonymous
September 26, 2007 7:00 PM

And not to women?

Jimmie
September 26, 2007 7:10 PM

"this hymn is a little inane."

Ya think?

Rod Dreh
September 26, 2007 7:18 PM

Sig, I'll get back to you later -- I'm about to dive into another project right now, and we have to get our No. 2 son ready for a medical procedure tomorrow, so it may be a while -- but my very short and inadequate answer would be that God has revealed Himself to Jews and Christians as the Father. I don't believe that God has a penis, for goodness' sake, but I don't believe at all that it's of no matter whether God wishes for His creatures to relate to Him as masculine or feminine. I hope somebody else will explain this before I am able to return to this blog -- and if anybody is of a mind to, please offer a prayer for our Lucas and his doctor -- but the gist of the difference in our perspectives is to be found in this anonymous comment someone left after you did:

It's no surprise that men project their own image and traits onto God, but if they're going to, they should not be surprised when women do the same thing.

In that one sentence is the chasm between orthodox and progressive religion. The orthodox believes God has revealed to us His nature, and how He wants us to relate to Him; the progressive believes that religion is primarily a human construct, and therefore relatively -- to some, infinitely -- mutable.


sigaliris
September 26, 2007 7:36 PM

Rod, you and your family will be receiving my possibly heterodox but heartfelt prayers.

Brad
September 26, 2007 7:46 PM

The five-to-the-twenty-fifth dodecagenic hive matrix orbiting Klee will have a crisis of the faith, fer sure, when this talk reaches 'em.

Rjak
September 26, 2007 8:32 PM

In addition to the complaints about the heterodoxy of this hymn, it's just plain terrible writing! Like virtually every single hymn composed since 1960, it has utterly devoid of any literary merit. It is, I suspect, an act of mercy that we have not been given the tune to it.

My personal opinion (following the Pontificator) is that all songs written since 1960 should be banned outright. It's true that there have been a few good ones, and such a ban ought only to be temporary (100 years or so), but right now our clergy & music ministers are utterly incapable of discerning what is sacred music and what should never be sung.

Anonymous
September 26, 2007 8:34 PM

And you believe God wants us to relate to him as masculine, as male?

This idea sends all sorts of warning bells off in my head. Someone once told me that most people view God as very much like them; I'd go a step farther and say that those in power construct God in their own image to maintain and legitimize that position of power. It's not a coincidence, in my mind, that churches and religions where the power lies with men promote the view of God as masculine or male, and that those invested in promoting racial supremacy will say things like, "God is white," or "God is black". I've also seen "God is gay" on a sign at a protest rally.

These are ideas are pretty self-serving for the organizations who put them forth, in that they promote the domination of one sex or race (and I'm sure there are other examples) over another, no matter how sincerely they may be believed. I mean, if the ultimate power in the universe is a "He", or "white", what does that imply for those of us living with the issues of gender, race and power structures on earth?

Anonymous
September 26, 2007 8:56 PM

But God has not revealed Himself as white, or black, or gay. So if indeed there are people who make such bizarre claims, they are founded only in their own imaginations.

Through Jesus Christ, however, God HAS revealed Himself as Father.

LisaS
September 26, 2007 9:25 PM

Well ... I'm a cradle Episcopalian, and although I cringe every time the lady behind me at church loudly substitutes feminine pronouns for male ones, my primary objection to this particular hymn is its complete lack of artistic merit. (And to add to it, it's probably sung to Old 100th--which I love, but irritates my Methodist husband.)

Could it be that God is be a Father, and Jesus a Son, but that They are not limited by our clumsy definitions of gender? Might God be "male" and still mothering, comforting, creating? Might Christ be male in body but female in whole-body sacrifice? And isn't the Holy Spirit recognized in some traditional circles as the Hagia Sophia, the distinctly female spirit of Holy wisdom?

I'm not one to limit the Holy by what we see on Earth. We are but hollow copies of perfection.

Matt K
September 26, 2007 10:25 PM

Rod, I'm a consider myself conservative evangelical in my theology. I do believe it is God's self-revelation that is the initiation of our religion, and I believe it was an event in history (the Logos incarnate in the man Jesus of Nazareth) and in that man he prayer to "The Father". I agree this is an important part of our the preaching of the church, but can we do that without using exclusively male terms for every and all discussion of who God is? The preaching of the church should witness to this historical event, but it should also witness to the fact that the God in whose image both male and female were created has been dominated by patriarchal cultural language often to the marginalization of women.

Dan
September 26, 2007 11:09 PM

Well, it is better than the feminist prayer we were forced to recite in seminary- which went something like this: "Oh BreadBaker Woman god, put me in your oven of love for I am well kneaded dough." Utterly horrific. I'm still in therapy over that one.

godisnotreligious
September 26, 2007 11:10 PM

"Through Jesus Christ, however, God HAS revealed Himself as Father"...
of course, that also could be regarded as a "bizarre claim"...
ancient Myths don't have any advantage over modern Myths...
Jesus was most likely a real mortal man...
but the Christ Myth was invented by superstitious ancient men...
and were "founded only in their own imaginations"...

the spiritual value of this modern Mothering God Myth versus the spiritual value of the ancient Christ Myth is just a matter of personal preference...
since it's very unlikely that either Myth is a good match with Reality...

faith hope love joy peace to all...

Elizabeth
September 26, 2007 11:40 PM

And the problem is?
No, I'm serious. While the bible tends overwhelmingly towards male imagery for God, it also uses some very "feminizing" terminology: God as the quivering womb, for example, or God as the mother nursing the nation of Israel at her breast.

rebeccat
September 26, 2007 11:42 PM

I think the revelation of God as primarily male is related more to the role of fathers in the ancient world. The men were responsible for their families and off spring in a very profound way. Everything depended on his goodness or lack there of. If a woman was a poor mother, the family had hope of blessings and redemption through the goodness of their father. However, if the father was a poor father, a good mother could do very little to elevate her family past her husband's failures. So a good father was revered in the ancient world.
However, I find the idea that God revealed himself as male through Jesus ridiculous in the extreme. Jesus had to be one or the other, for heaven's sake! His existance on earth in a male body made things easier, but should hardly be viewed as an endorsement or elevation of one sex over the other.
And the fact is that there are places in scriptures where God identifies with mothers. They are far less frequent than father identifications, but they are certainly there and no irrelevant, I think.
However, as a practical matter singing praises to God as mother is problematic when it comes to the balance of men and women in church and how each experiences their faith. Religion has been carried on the backs of women from the very ealiest days. One of the things which made Christianity so radical in its earliest days was the fact that there were more female converts among the rich, so many rich Christian women married men of far lower social status than themselves. But men are important to the faith, and as equals in creation are as in need of God's saving grace as women. It seems unwise to do things which uneccesarily alienate men (not for any chauvanist reasons, just because a full grown man probably has had enough of mothering without having God join in) and do almost nothing for the women. I think it is good for us to be taught to consider the feminine, mothering aspects of God (after all both men and women are created in His image), but singing praises in the trite way found in the song above seems like overkill. However, to be perfectly honest, as a conservative bible beater, I'm having a hard time thinking of a legitimate argument for why the song is theologically incorrect. I just think it's unnecessary and unhelpful.

Elizabeth
September 26, 2007 11:43 PM

(And forgive me for not saying this first: Rod, you and Lucas will be in my prayers tonight.)

Larry Parker
September 27, 2007 1:12 AM

Rod:

No wonder you posted so much today :-( Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

One of my biggest objections to fundamentalism in general is the idea that unerrant word of G-d has, oh by the way, been written down and then translated over and over again BY IMPERFECT MEN AND WOMEN, **NOT** A PERFECT G-D, from ancient Hebrew to Aramaic to Greek to Latin to Old and Middle English to Modern English. (At least.) Not to mention the dozens of different translations in Middle to Modern English used today.

Any chance some subtleties, or not-so-subtleties, could have been lost (or gained) along the way? Ya think?

That, and what Elizabeth noted about the patriarchal nature of society in the Israel of the Old and New Testaments, makes me question the truly revelatory nature of G-d being male. (Let's not even get into how this justifies the Catholic male priesthood ...)

Then again, I'm progressive, not traditionalist, in general. So make of that what you will.

Not that I think G-d is female, either; I think G-d is G-d. Which means we have SOME common ground:

I think the hymn is stupid, too.

Charles Cosimano
September 27, 2007 1:42 AM

The hymn is stupid and yes, it's the sort of thing that makes Islam almost look attractive by comparison.

Rod Dreher
September 27, 2007 7:47 AM

Sig, I was looking this morning for an excellent essay I read years ago explaining how the entire Christian "set-up," for lack of a better term, fails to work if we cease to think of God as Father (and follow the other traditional, patriarchal forms handed down to us in Holy Scripture). I thought maybe I'd read it in First Things, but I guess I'm wrong. I did, however, find an essay in First Things from a Jewish perspective that considers the same question, and answers it in a way that orthodox Christians can pretty much accept. Here is that essay. And here is a key excerpt -- sorry about the length, but I won't be able to come back to the blog till later today:
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From Matthew Berke, "God and Gender in Judaism" (First Things, 1996):

The idea behind gender sensitivity is that religious teaching and liturgy should reflect the religious equality of women-as full partners in the covenant and as creatures equally made b’tselem elohim, "in the image of God." Many women say they feel excluded by a theological and liturgical vocabulary that is overwhelmingly masculine: they can neither relate to nor find any self-reflection in the awesome, patriarchal God-figure who relies so heavily on power, fear, rules, and hierarchy. To include women in the religious life of the Jewish community, they argue, God must be re-imaged in a way that incorporates the feminine aspects of the divine nature.

Liturgical reformers contend that such reimaging is easily accommodated within a traditional Jewish framework. After all, it is argued, the sages insisted that God has no body and is beyond the categories of male and female, incorporating both but limited by neither. The ancient rabbis were aware that God is eyn sof-unknowable, unfathomable, indescribable-and they regarded all God-language as approximate and figurative. Even in the Bible itself, as well as in mystical texts and other writings, feminine imagery is occasionally employed to describe God. The dominant imagery is masculine, the revisers claim, only because women have been powerless and marginalized throughout Jewish history; their voices have been silenced by men who have had all the power and who, idolatrously, projected onto God their own male image. This male- centered social construction of God has been a perennial instrument of oppression against women, and serves, even today, to define women as inferior and radically "other"-religiously, culturally, and politically. If Judaism is to survive and flourish, it cannot afford to alienate half of its members with outdated sexist language and conceptualizations.
The question arises, then: Is there any reason, in the face of such potent challenges, to insist on the continued pervasiveness of masculine God imagery? In fact, there is good reason for both women and men to refrain from embracing the new feminized liturgies. God-language is loaded (to borrow Marx’s famous phrase about commodities) with "metaphysical subtleties and theological niceties" such that seemingly innocent revisions change the religious substance of Judaism in unexpected and undesired ways.

One may readily concede that all God-language is in some sense figurative, that human language and understanding are unable to grasp the Ultimate. However, it does not follow that all figurative language is therefore equal in approximating the mystery of the divine. Though we never penetrate to the inner reality of God, we do encounter Him in certain relationships that are humanly describable, however imperfectly. To address God as Father or Lord or King does not identify the sex or describe the essential being of God so much as it defines certain relationships between Him and us. While the God we pray to is beyond male or female, He has chosen to disclose Himself in distinctly masculine ways that are structured into the meanings of the Torah and the prayerbook, and cannot therefore simply be altered at will.

For God’s divine parenthood, neither mother nor father is an entirely satisfactory metaphor. Children have a genetic link to their natural mothers and fathers, whereas God’s parenthood involves no genetic connection and no role for sex or procreation. Nevertheless, parenthood is a necessary metaphor for God’s relation to humankind: it expresses the sense of personal care and solicitude that the words Creator and Maker fail to capture. Because generic parenthood is a meaningless concept-we have no sense or experience of a generic parent-we are stuck with the alternatives of mother and father.
There can be little doubt that, for Judaism, divine parenthood is better symbolized by fatherhood than motherhood, or at least that fatherhood is far less problematic than motherhood. In Genesis, God-like a father- generates outside of Himself. In the creation myth of feminine deities, however, everything emerges from the womb of the Mother God, conveying a sense that the world is an emanation or extension of the divine, and therefore divinized, as in pantheism. But at the very center of Jewish monotheism is the denial of a divinized nature: Nature is good, because God has made it so, but nature is not divine, and human beings are not made of godstuff.

The moral and theological implications of the Mother God and "birth metaphor" have been cogently described by Rabbi Paula Reimers in her essay "Feminism, Judaism, and God the Mother" (Conservative Judaism, Fall 1993). If "the universe and its processes are ’birthed’ by the deity," Rabbi Reimers argues, then nature and its cycles are "held to be an expression of the divine will." In such a cosmology, good and evil lose all meaning, everything being good in its proper time. Suffering and death no less than flourishing and life are to be regarded as "necessary stations on the great wheel of existence." In a "birthed" universe, moreover, "human beings are not qualitatively different from anything else that exists. They share in the divine essence, as children of the goddess, but only to the same extent that everything else does. Human life objectively is no more or less significant than the life of animals or plants. . . . Human free will is dissolved in the face of the determinism of nature." Human beings need follow no moral standard other than to accept and submit "to the divine rhythm of existence, of which they are a part."

Rabbi Reimers contrasts the "inherent pantheism of goddess religion, rooted in the birth metaphor," with Jewish monotheism, which "is rooted in the creation metaphor of Genesis." In Judaism, nature and humanity emerge not as part of an undifferentiated birth of the universe, but through discrete acts of creation in which all things are appointed a place in the hierarchy of the world. Good and evil, right and wrong, are known not by reference to nature’s processes, impulses, and vitalities, but through the words and commandments of a transcendent God. Because God is not identified with the cycles of natural recurrence but with unique revelations and mighty acts-especially the Covenant-time is given meaning by progressive development, and history is imbued with direction and purpose. Human beings are not permitted to view themselves or their impulses as divine; they are to understand themselves, rather, as creatures made "in the image and likeness of God," with a dignity and worth above the rest of nature, and with free will to act according to transcendent laws concerning good and evil.

The Father-God metaphor, then, while revealing certain limits and imperfections of human language and understanding, provides a better symbolization than motherhood of the sense of distance in the divine- human relationship and is less likely therefore to invite a pantheistic cosmology. As Rabbi Reimers explains, "Those who want to use God/She language want to affirm womanhood and the feminine aspect of the deity. They do this by emphasizing that which most clearly distinguishes the female experience from the male. A male or female deity can create through speech or through action, but the metaphor for creation which is uniquely feminine is birth. Once God is called female, then, the metaphor of birth and the identification of the deity with nature and its processes become inevitable." Her last point is not a matter of mere conjecture or speculation: in ancient times female deities were in fact seen as having given birth to the world, with nature-worship following almost invariably. Today, too, feminist theology regularly falls back upon the birth metaphor, and, not surprisingly, often lapses into a pantheistic worldview as well (often under the guise of "deep ecology").

In sum, according to Rabbi Reimers, "the composers and compilers of those [biblical and rabbinic] texts knew that the deity could be understood as female; many of the peoples among whom they lived worshipped goddesses" (and, she might have added, their societies were male-dominated all the same). "Our ancient teachers" used masculine language for God not so much as an expression of chauvinism as a means to prevent the "introduction of alien theological ideas into the heart of monotheistic religion."

Rod Dreher
September 27, 2007 8:08 AM

P.S. Anyway, the poetry in this hymn is lame.

John E.
September 27, 2007 8:15 AM

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how the entire Christian "set-up," for lack of a better term, fails to work if we cease to think of God as Father (and follow the other traditional, patriarchal forms handed down to us in Holy Scripture).
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Only if you insist on reading the Judeo/Christian mythos as True History.

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While the God we pray to is beyond male or female, He has chosen to disclose Himself in distinctly masculine ways that are structured into the meanings of the Torah and the prayerbook, and cannot therefore simply be altered at will.
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Following Larry Parker's comments, I'll point out that the writers of the Torah chose to represent God in distinctly masucline ways.

allen
September 27, 2007 8:39 AM

For what it's worth, Rod, Berke's article provides a far better explanation of modern Pagan theology than many Pagans themselves have managed.

If the natural world is birthed by God/dess, and thus shares in Divinity in some fashion, then we can look to Nature, all of it, including one another, to better know God. The nature and structure of the world are greater revelations of the Divine Will than any text composed by human hands. For many of us, there's far more majesty and awe in e=mc^2 than "fiat lux".

But even my heathen self has to agree -- the "hymn" is pretty awful.

sigaliris
September 27, 2007 9:34 AM

Okay, let's get this off the table right away--the hymn is stoopid. End of story. However, we all know that's not why Rod chose it. There's an infinite variety of really stoopid hymns out there using more conventional language. Rod picked this one for opprobrium because it hails God as Mother.

Rod says this: (and I'm talking about rather than to him only because it seems he's not around today) The orthodox believes God has revealed to us His nature, and how He wants us to relate to Him; the progressive believes that religion is primarily a human construct, and therefore relatively -- to some, infinitely -- mutable.

Yes, God has revealed to us some aspects of "his" nature, through human minds using human language. There is no such thing as pure revelation. We wouldn't understand it if could see it. There's no denying that our humanity, time-bound and limited as it is, has shaped every single thing we think we know about God. You really cannot escape the understanding that religion is humanly constructed.

So the question is not whether religion is mutable. That is a given. To use phrases crunchy cons like, change is "in the nature of things." It is "part of the human condition." In fact, change is the only Permanent Thing! Humans change, and as they change, their religion changes with them. We will never really know exactly what religion was like for a Roman pagan, for a Palestinian peasant in 100 BC, for Paul, for Aquinas. Even though we have their words, we can no longer inhabit those words as they did.

Religion is mutable, like everything else that pertains to humans. Pretending it's not is living in a self-willed state of delusion. Christianity has changed, is changing, will change again. However, like other forms of tradition, religion is one of the important ways that humans sustain continuity over time and ensure that important understandings and social agreeements are not lost. Tradittion helps regulate the nature and speed of inevitable change. As such, it should be treated with respect and care.

But if you say that religious tradition is or should be immutable, because it is revealed once and for all, you are missing the fact that Jesus himself changed his tradition radically and uncompromisingly. He offended and alarmed the religious teachers of his time. They called him a blasphemer. You are making the same argument that killed Jesus.

Richard
September 27, 2007 9:48 AM

First, the hymn is stupid. It has always amazed me how people would endure bad art, whether music, poetry, sculpture, or visual, if one just hangs the title of "religious" or "Christian" on it, when without that appellation they would reject it out of hand as the ridiculous nonsense it is.

For those in the Christian tradition, God is neither male nor female. Although traditionally described as male and father in Scripture and liturgy, God is neither father nor mother, but both, and neither. Even Scripture has a very few references to God as female (in Isaiah where God is described as the nursing mother caring for her infant, or Jesus at Jerusalem describing himself as a mother hen wanting to gather the helpless chicks under his wings for protection). Lady Julian of Norwich famously called Christ mother, and wrote about the maternal nature of God.

An image that helps foster faith should be permitted and encouraged.

Dale Price
September 27, 2007 10:45 AM

It all depends upon how seriously the church/community takes scriptural revelation, whether it has any concept of inspiration or inerrancy, etc. This thread shows that. Without a common framework or authoritative interpretive tradition, you can do whatever you damn well want with it.

Now, the leadership of The Episcopal Church has, where it is coherent, a uniformly low view of the authority and inspiration the Bible. Effectively, they have shrugged it off in favor of continuing revelation and being "led by the Spirit." Meaning, they'll sing what they like. But Lord--would it kill them to give Bernie Taupin a retainer? This makes Marty Haugen look like Charles Wesley.

BTW, all the female references to God in Hebrew and Jewish scriptures are either similes or are part of a parable. When addressing God, it is invariably done as "He." And for Christians, the fatherhood dimension emphasized by Jesus Christ is normative, the stray commentary of Bl. Julian notwithstanding.

sigaliris
September 27, 2007 10:50 AM

A thought-experiment: first, some background. Many years ago, when I lived in a cult-like Catholic-dominated charismatic enclave, the leaders began pressuring women to conform to a certain dress code. Pants were forbidden. Women had to wear skirts. Shorter skirts were barely tolerated. Official approval was reserved for long, sack-like garments that would conceal every part of the female anatomy.

A guy we knew, who was in other respects a dutiful junior patriarch, heard the complaints of his wife. She told him how hard it was to go up and down stairs in a long skirt while carrying babies and laundry, how hard not to trip. And in a shorter skirt, constantly bending to pick things up, or having to sit on the floor with children, it was hard to remain modest. He decided to check it out for himself. He didn’t quite have the guts to put on a skirt and wear it, but for one whole week he tried to imagine throughout the day that he was wearing the suitable garb for women.

He found it to be quite a revelation. “I had to think about my clothes all the time,” he said. “I had to think about my body all the time, and who might be looking at me, and what they might be seeing. I had to keep my legs together all the time, and not bend over, and think about how I was sitting. It was exhausting!”

Now here’s my experiment for you, Rod, and all the other men here who have the guts to try it. I’m not going to ask you to imagine yourself as a girl, because I don’t think you could. Instead, imagine yourself as the boy-child you used to be. You woke up in a parallel world, and everything in church is reversed. God is female, feminine, and every picture of Her everywhere is a woman. God has breasts and rounded hips. She is glorious. She is revered. She is almighty. And she looks nothing like you.

She has given birth to all creation, and women are made in Her image and likeness. Women are special. They can give birth. You can’t. When God came to earth, She came as a woman, and all her chosen followers were women. That is why women can be priests, and you can’t. You aren’t even allowed behind the altar rail, because there is something about men that you don’t understand yet, something wrong about you that makes it wrong for you to be that close to the holy body and blood of God. You see old men doing the cleaning work behind that rail sometimes, and this puzzles you, but you are just a little boy so you have nothing to say about it. You have to wear a special hat when you enter the church, because you are a boy, and you need to be covered up. Girls go in with their heads bare.

All the stories about God use the pronouns “She” and “Her.” All the prophets, all the famous theologians, most of the teachers are women. The Pope is a woman. The bishops are women. The priests are women. All the prayers and hymns say “she” and “her” and “daughters of God.” A pompous woman named Leona Podles has written an essay titled “God Has No Sons” and your mother thinks it’s great. They tell you that you shouldn’t feel excluded because the category of women includes men. So you go on praying “God of our Mothers, look now with favor on your daughters!”

There is one man who appears in church. He wears a long robe down to his feet, and a headdress so you can see nothing but his face. He agreed to be the human father of the Holy Daughter of God. We only know a few things that he said, and mostly he is praised because of his total submission to the will of the Divine Mother. “Do whatever you want to me,” he said, when She appeared to him. She miraculously penetrated his body to remove his seed without his experiencing any sexual feeling. He then remained a virgin for his entire life. This man is your role model.

I could go on, but I think you get the idea. For the next week, every time you’re in church, every time you pray, turn the genders around. I’d like to say for the next year, or the next fifty years, but I’d settle for a week or two.

When it’s just me talking, you can say “Oh, that crazy Sig. She has a bee in her bonnet about this, and she doesn’t know what she’s talking about!” But you have a daughter. You can’t do that to her. You have a responsibility to imagine how the world will be for her.

Jim
September 27, 2007 11:03 AM

Sig, what an excellent post.

I can only add that God as mother is not new imagery in either the Old Testament or the New. We can look at the Book of Wisdom and see lots of feminine imagery there. Jesus uses feminine imagery in several of the parables about the kingdom of God.
We can read Julian of Norwich, canonized by the RC Church, so obviously not controversial in that time.

We humans want to keep putting God and Jesus in boxes that fit the limits of our understanding, But I think coming to know God has to mean finding God in the unexpected, the places where we don't think He (aha! tried to avoid pronouns but have given up :-) would be.

Jim
September 27, 2007 11:09 AM

And I was referring to Sig's 1st post, not the equally profound 2nd post. Just FYI :-)

Brad
September 27, 2007 11:30 AM

"When it’s just me talking, you can say “Oh, that crazy Sig. She has a bee in her bonnet about this, and she doesn’t know what she’s talking about!”

Oh, good grief--AGAIN, Sig. First prancing mice in *ssless chaps, now Divine prostate milking. How are we ever gonna corral the children and horses running terrified through the streets now?

Fortunately, "if English was good enough for Jesus, it's good enough for the children of Texas" so I can point this out to you. ;-)

rebeccat
September 27, 2007 11:57 AM

Rod, I'm sorry, but Rabbi Reimer's thinking is illogical hypothesis which may provide an interesting thought experiement, but does nothing to illuminate the theological validity of a father God over a mother God. There are so many errors in her thinking and theology (especially from a Christian perspective) that I just wouldn't have time to go over them here.
If you want some ideas of a large portion of her error in thinking which renders all of her discussion on the issue of father and mother invalid, I would suggest the following verses:
Proverbs 16:4
Ecclesiastes 7:14
Romans 8:28
There's one more I can't think of right now which says that what the enemy means for evil, God uses for good.
I think there are good practically reasons, based on human phsycology and such for prefering father God over mother God, but to raise those reasons to the level of theological imperative is an error, IMO.

Richard Barrett
September 27, 2007 1:56 PM

And she looks nothing like you.

Sig, I can normally respect where you're coming from even if I don't agree, but I find myself unable to do so here. I can respect the clear effort you've put into the argument, however, and would agree that it deserves a response made with the same effort. Unfortunately, I don't have the time to do that right now, but I'll comment on one point:

Where in the world do you get the idea that the Virgin Mary, in her obedience, is a role model only for women? Or even the only role model for women? Or even the idea that she's the only woman you'd ever see depicted? St. Theckla the Protomartyr, Equal to the Apostles was just commemorated three days ago (feast day 24 Sept). Give that some thought--"Equal to the Apostles."

Richard

sigaliris
September 27, 2007 3:06 PM

Well, Richard, I think your example of Thekla the Protomartyr might have more force if I'd ever heard of her. I had to go and google to find her story. Remember, I was raised in the Western Church! So I think you may have served my side of the argument better than your own.

I would also have to ask what her "equality" with the Apostles really meant. The book in which she's mentioned is apocryphal. She isn't equally mentioned with them in the approved Scriptures, and thus doesn't appear in regular liturgical readings. Her "equality" also doesn't mean that her saintly witness justifies ordination of women. I've never seen her depicted anywhere. And God "blesses" her by entombing her in a rock, thus ending her life, while she's fleeing yet another rape attempt. This does tend to reinforce the idea that the very best kind of woman to be is a dead virgin. My kind of God would have rescued her from indignity by slaying her pursuers instead! But that's getting off-topic. : )

As to the Virgin Mary, I know that she is sometimes held up as a model for all believers, but I think that those who decry the "feminization" of the Church would like to root out that idea. They don't want men to identify with Mary. I don't mean to make a whipping boy of Leon Podles, but he is a handy exemplar, since Rod brought him up.

Brief quotes from Podles: There is only one pattern for both men and women to be conformed to, that of the Son.

But many "traditional” Catholic devotions to Mary are contaminated by very odd ideas about gender and sexuality, as I discussed in my book The Church Impotent. Men of unbalanced sexuality are attracted by these distorted devotions.

You'd have to take that up with them, though, not with me, since I don't have deep familiarity with their arguments.

I do appreciate your thoughtful comments.

Rob Grano
September 27, 2007 3:19 PM

"I can only add that God as mother is not new imagery in either the Old Testament or the New. We can look at the Book of Wisdom and see lots of feminine imagery there. Jesus uses feminine imagery in several of the parables about the kingdom of God."

AND

"I think there are good practically reasons, based on human phsycology and such for prefering father God over mother God, but to raise those reasons to the level of theological imperative is an error, IMO."

There is motherly imagery concerning God in the Scriptures, but nowhere is God addressed as 'Mother.' That's because these images are metaphors. God's fatherhood, however, is not metaphorical but real, as He is the father of the divine Son from all eternity. Hence, the idea of God as Father is rooted in the very life of the Holy Trinity and thus is theologically imperative. If God is not eternally 'Father' then Jesus is not eternally 'Son,' and then what you have is no longer Christianity, as it denies the Creed.

Brad
September 27, 2007 3:58 PM

"Hence, the idea of God as Father is rooted in the very life of the Holy Trinity and thus is theologically imperative. If God is not eternally 'Father' then Jesus is not eternally 'Son,' and then what you have is no longer Christianity, as it denies the Creed."

Now this leaves me wondering whether the five-to-the-twenty-fifth dodecagenic hive matrix orbiting Klee would find this dismaying or a consolation.

Jim
September 27, 2007 4:20 PM

Why Rob, let's not get carried away. You seem to be setting up the strawman that permitting one's mind to see God the Father as God the Mother is tantamount to Arianism (denying the eternal always was/always will be relationship between God the Father and Jesus).

Because you and I both do not seem to be Arians, we both agree that Jesus as God the Son has been God the Son eternally, and in that way, we understand Mary to be "Mother of God" only in sense that she gave birth to Jesus when he was made incarnate. So far so good?

Are you therefore asserting that God the Father is male? I do not believe orthodox Christianity requires us to believe that only human men are made in God's image (I acknowledge many biblical fundamentalists insist on this point, but hopefully we are staying within the realm of RC Catholicism and/or orthodox Christianity).
If one accepts the mystery of the Trinity and accepts that women are made in God's image and accepts that our humanity makes it impossible for us to fully understand the Trinity (mystery, remember?), I don't see why it requires that much of a stretch to understand God the Father as "Parent" and, being beyond gender or human conception, to be as much "Mother" as "Father" ?

Jim

Richard Barrett
September 27, 2007 4:28 PM

I would also have to ask what her "equality" with the Apostles really meant. The book in which she's mentioned is apocryphal.

"Apocryphal" in the sense that she's not mentioned in the New Testament. That doesn't mean that the texts have no authority, in either Catholic or Orthodox tradition. "Equal-to-the-apostles" is an appellation given to several women saints, too, not just her. St. Photini, for example, who is mentioned in the New Testament (if not by name), St. Helen, St. Olga, St. Nina... the list goes on.

She isn't equally mentioned with them in the approved Scriptures, and thus doesn't appear in regular liturgical readings.

False; she's in the synaxarion, so in theory her account would be read in the Liturgy on her feast day. At least on the Orthodox calendar, her feast has its own set of propers for Vespers, Matins, and Divine Liturgy, so you'd be hearing plenty about her once a year.

Her "equality" also doesn't mean that her saintly witness justifies ordination of women.

Anymore than an apostle's equality to her would allow him to bear children. Function, not quality.

I've never seen her depicted anywhere.

http://orthodoxwiki.org/images/1/1e/Thekla_the_Protomartyr.jpg
http://goarch.org/en/chapel/saints.asp?contentid=216
http://ocafs.oca.org/FeastSaintsViewer.asp?SID=4&ID=1&FSID=102715

There, fixed that problem. Heck, go to images.google.com, do a search on "St. Thekla" and you can even see pictures of churches named after her.

And God "blesses" her by entombing her in a rock, thus ending her life, while she's fleeing yet another rape attempt. This does tend to reinforce the idea that the very best kind of woman to be is a dead virgin.

Only through what I submit is an extremely cynical reading. If you want to read a different symbolism into it, the "rock" could be seen in relation to the image of Matthew 16:18, "...on this rock I will build my church"--in other words, her sanctity is considered part of the foundation of the Christian faith, which would go along well with the "Equal-to-the Apostles" designation.

Richard

Richard Barrett
September 27, 2007 4:29 PM

Sig, I posted a response that's been held for moderation (probably because of links). Watch this space.

Richard

Anonymous
September 27, 2007 4:58 PM

Is anyone here aware that the lyrics are based on the poetry of Julian of Norwich, circa 15th century?

Seriously? No one?

Can someone hand out the news applications for library cards, please!!!

maplewood
September 27, 2007 5:00 PM

sorry...missed my name...I said the above...guess I was SO excited!...

sigaliris
September 27, 2007 5:43 PM

That's way cool, maplewood. Is there any chance you could post the original?

rebeccat
September 27, 2007 5:57 PM

The idea that if God is not eternally a literal father and Jesus not eternally a literal son, then Christianity is invalidated is a complete logical fallacy! The one in no way leads to the other.

Rob Grano
September 27, 2007 6:36 PM

Jim, you're allowing your ostensible apophaticism to trump what's been revealed in Scripture and in the doctrine of the Church. And what you're doing is not so much Arian, as Gnostic. It is speculating about God without reference to His revelation in Christ. God is never addressed as 'mother' or 'parent' (in fact, if we accept the understanding that God is indeed a person, then calling him 'parent' is meaningless, the term being a generic one that needs further qualification when applied to a specific individual. No one is just a 'parent,' he/she is either a father or a mother), and the terms 'Father, Son, and Holy Spirit' are both revealed in Scripture and validated in the Creed. God may be "like" a mother but he is never simply "like" a father. He IS the Father, from whom all paternity in heaven and earth is named (Eph 3:14). Of course this doesn't mean that He is male. He transcends sexuality in the same way that He transcends all other merely human categories. But the fact of his fatherhood cannot be transcended because it's of the "stuff" of Scripture and doctrine.

"The idea that if God is not eternally a literal father and Jesus not eternally a literal son, then Christianity is invalidated is a complete logical fallacy! The one in no way leads to the other."

Who said they are 'literal'? In fact they are beyond literal, to the extent that all early fatherhood is but an image of the eternal fatherhood of God and the Son (Eph. 3:14 again).

Larry Parker
September 27, 2007 8:01 PM

John E.:

How can we know that? Are you a scholar of ancient Hebrew? Do you have access to the original scribes?

And, even if you did and you're right, does that change the fact that the writers would naturally be biased, being men (with one or two exceptions) in a patriarchal society?

"Because generic parenthood is a meaningless concept-we have no sense or experience of a generic parent-we are stuck with the alternatives of mother and father. There can be little doubt that, for Judaism, divine parenthood is better symbolized by fatherhood than motherhood, or at least that fatherhood is far less problematic than motherhood. In Genesis, God-like a father- generates outside of Himself. In the creation myth of feminine deities, however, everything emerges from the womb of the Mother God, conveying a sense that the world is an emanation or extension of the divine, and therefore divinized, as in pantheism. But at the very center of Jewish monotheism is the denial of a divinized nature: Nature is good, because God has made it so, but nature is not divine, and human beings are not made of godstuff."

Sorry, Rod, I don't buy it. AT ALL.

Strikes me as rationalizing psychobabble (curiously New Agey, at that) meant to justify male superiority over women, using the invocation of G-d to wield the sledgehammer.

After that rough language (sigh -- but you want us to say what we really think in the comboxes, right?) ... I hope Lucas and your family are well.

John E.
September 27, 2007 8:25 PM

>>>
And, even if you did and you're right, does that change the fact that the writers would naturally be biased, being men (with one or two exceptions) in a patriarchal society?
>>>

Larry, that was my point, perhaps poorly expressed. I agree with you.

I don't believe "God chose to express himself" to the writers of the Torah, I believe the writers of the Torah wrote in a way that expressed their view of God.

Jim
September 27, 2007 9:44 PM

Sig and others who might wish to know more of Julian of Norwich, this 30-day meditation book based on her writings was my introduction. (It was a gift from my mom :-)

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Will-Well-Great-Spiritual-Teacher/dp/0877935637

Larry Parker
September 27, 2007 10:50 PM

Whoops.

Mea culpa, John E.

Rob Grano
September 28, 2007 7:12 AM

"Strikes me as rationalizing psychobabble (curiously New Agey, at that) meant to justify male superiority over women, using the invocation of G-d to wield the sledgehammer."

New Agey? Nope -- there's nothing new about it. It has a long and accepted pedigree in Christian theology. Much has been written on this subject, but one of the best summaries, IMO, is here:

http://touchstonemag.com/archives/article.php?id=13-06-022-f


recovering ex-Pentecostal
September 28, 2007 11:08 AM

What's wrong with felt banners?

Larry Parker
September 28, 2007 11:33 AM

Rob:

The WRITING was New Agey.

The underlying theory, clearly, is anything but.

Richard Barrett
September 28, 2007 12:22 PM

I see my comment made it through moderation; thanks, Rod! Sig, it's the post before the one where I said I had a response in moderation.

One other thing to add is that, checking my Liber Usualis, the Western tradition, at least pre-Vatican II, also commemorates St. Thekla, although curiously there is a one day difference of feast days--23 September in the West, 24 September in the East. Now, whether or not in the Novus Ordo world her feast would rise to the level of acknowledgment, I can't say.

Richard

Lee
September 28, 2007 1:00 PM

This hymn is not my cup o' tea, but, for starters, it doesn't even address God as "Mother," it describes god as "mothering" which is surely a permissible way of describing one aspect of God's work. Jesus compared himself to a mother hen and there was a tradition in the early church of comparing Jesus to a mother pelican. And, as others have pointed out, many saints and mystics have used feminine imagery for God and it's not completely foreign to the Bible itself.

Marian Neudel
October 9, 2007 11:48 PM

"Jim, you're allowing your ostensible apophaticism to trump what's been revealed in Scripture and in the doctrine of the Church." Rob Grano, whoever you may be, what is apophaticism? I used to be a medical transcriber, I did 4 years in Div. School, and I am currently making my way through the Septuagint, but this is a new one for me. I have to assume some of the other regulars find it unfamiliar too. Help.

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