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Christmastime is here

Friday December 14, 2007

Categories: Family
What are y'all doing tonight? Us, sitting by the fire, listening to Christmas music, drinking a little bit of champagne (I am not taking well to the Nativity fast), and thinking about Christmas trees. Nesting, pretty much. Hard week. Warm...
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Zoetius
December 14, 2007 10:17 PM

Good looking group.!

Irenaeus
December 14, 2007 10:32 PM

Fresh Mex, Office reruns, Riesling, cat curled up on the sofa with us.

Cleveland
December 14, 2007 10:35 PM

Been there, done that; the happiest time of my life by a long shot.

Hope you realize what you have, Rod.

Bugg
December 14, 2007 10:41 PM

Merry Christmas and a Happy and Healthy New Year to you and yours, Rod, and one and all.

ds0490
December 14, 2007 10:54 PM

Cute family! Enjoy the down time and the holiday season.

Anonymous Also
December 14, 2007 11:08 PM

Very nice picture.

And Bugg, Merry Christmas and a Happy and Healthy New Year to you and anyone else who cares to claim this for themselves as well.

James Poulos
December 14, 2007 11:34 PM

That. Is. Heartwarming. Cabin in Virginia with the family. Fire and wine. Kids TBA. Merry Christmas, Drehers.

JLFuller
December 14, 2007 11:59 PM

They don't look like bad little boys to me. They look like fine young men. You are indeed blessed Rod. There is nothing more important in the world than your family. A godly man once said that no success in the world can compensate for failure in the home so keep on doing what you are doing. They grow up really fast.

Erin Manning
December 15, 2007 12:31 AM

Sometimes a picture is worth more than a thousand words. Sometimes a picture with about forty-nine words accompanying it can be worth even more than 3,800 words (cut down to 2,500); and an hour like this worth more than hundreds of hours at the office. As a couple of people have already said, Rod, you are blessed indeed; and I can't help but think that a bit of champagne offered with true and humble gratitude for hours like these is worth more to the spirit than reluctant asceticism.

Eric W
December 15, 2007 12:41 AM

Tomorrow (Saturday) is fish, wine and oil. Had you waited one day, you would not have violated the fast. ;^)

Eric W
December 15, 2007 12:42 AM

(I am, of course, being light-hearted.)

Larry Parker
December 15, 2007 12:50 AM

Your son on your left should be nicknamed "CC" (for "carbon copy"). Your other son looks a lot like you too.

Merry Christmas season to your wife too and entire family, Rod.

Erin Manning
December 15, 2007 12:54 AM

Ahh, Eric, but when does "Saturday" begin for the Orthodox in terms of the katalysis? Sundown Friday, midnight, or Saturday at dawn?

(Lighthearted also--but a little curious!)

Sheilagh
December 15, 2007 2:30 AM

My 4 boys and I are about to commence with Cookie Day! Gingerbread, Sugar, Chocolate Chip. Let's see how many last til Christmas This year.

Wishing you all A very Merry Christmas!!!
And all the love, peace and joy your hearts can hold.

Charles Cosimano
December 15, 2007 3:10 AM

Just came back from seeing about sixty of my most intimate friends in a cocktail lounge.

Eric W
December 15, 2007 8:25 AM

Our priest, Fr. Justin, says that one should just pick one method and be consistent - i.e., regard fast days as midnight to midnight (our/my choice), or sundown to sundown.

Jim
December 15, 2007 8:50 AM

We watched one of our favorite cheesy movies, "The Mummy Returns", while I sorted out misc. hair tangles from our two Aussies. No champagne, no fire, but nice and quiet.

NJ is going to get socked in this weekend, so aside from a neighborhood 'do, tis the weekend to get some Christmas cards and final year-end charitable contributions done/out of the way.

tmatt
December 15, 2007 9:05 AM

We're a sundown to sundown OrthoFamily, here in greater Baltimore.

The key is to be consistent and find a pattern that the children can embrace, when they are old enough to do so.

Now, that raises -- with Rod -- the question of how one defines AGE. Is it emotional, physical, cultural? Is he a bad little boy, too?

;-)

naturalmom
December 15, 2007 9:50 AM

Aww, how sweet. I'm love fireplaces -- I so wish we had one! (Come to think of it, what's a fireplace doing in Texas, anyway? They should be mandatory here in the north, as far as I'm concerned!)

We are enjoying evenings lit by the tree lights. When Christmas gets a little closer, we'll have some low-key family time with home worship, reading the nativity story, sharing thoughts about the year, etc. I love this time of year. The Quaker tradition of not celebrating holidays (because every day should be sacred and holy) is one I've rejected personally. Yes, every day *should* be sacred, but we human beings aren't very good at acting that way. I'm grateful for seasonal traditions and rituals.

BTW, did your wife take that shot, or did you take it with a timer on the camera while she was busy shopping, wrapping, writing Christmas cards, baking, changing the baby's diaper, or any of the other million things she probably has to do this month? Not that I'm bitter about my lack of down-time or anything... ;o)

Seriously though, best wishes to your family for a lovely and very Merry Christmas!

Insane Kitten
December 15, 2007 11:27 AM

Very nice. Best to you and yours, Rod.

allen
December 15, 2007 11:46 AM

Adorable! A blessed and wonderful Christmas to you and your family Rod, and a happy and prosperous New Year.

Anonymous Also
December 15, 2007 11:48 AM

Last night was spent getting ready for tonight.

We have the possibility of getiing up to two feet (that's FEET) of snow overnight tonight, so after a quick run to the grocery and a check of all things automotive, we are good to go.

Tonight, I intend to stay in the house and let whatever happens outside happen.

watsy
December 15, 2007 12:09 PM

Beautiful family, Rod! Merry Christmas. My husband loves to build fires. We have a lot of them in the winter. Last night we took the kids to the YMCA and played some basketball and did a little swimming. I'm terrible at fasting. I only try to do it on Yom Kippur, and I really suck. I can't do it. I get headaches and grumpy. I really admire those who can manage it. Especially, those who don't even let the toothpaste and water for rinsing pass their mouth.

I'd love for a little snow right now. The weather reporters keep making promises, but we haven't seen any. I'm thinking that it might be just a trick to get you to stay up and watch the late news. All evening they'll do little ads about the bad weather to come with a full report at 11PM. Of course, the full report doesn't come until the end of the news, and then the weather's beautiful.

The other evening they closed the schools for outside scheduled activities because of the inclement weather that was to come. My son's basketball practice was canceled, and there was no inclement weather. Has anyone else been experiencing this? Do you think that the news stations are sacrificing reporting integrity to boost ratings by creating excitement?

Rod Dreher
December 15, 2007 12:33 PM

Thanks for all the good wishes, everyone. Right back atcha. I took the photo with the pinhole camera on an iMac computer. We're going to get our Christmas tree today, and will be decorating it tonight. I'll post a shot of that later this evening. This time, I'll be sure to include Julie and Baby Nora.

Rich
December 15, 2007 1:14 PM

Unfortunately I'm in Mumbai and don't get back to DFW until Christmas Eve, but there's a good Christmas vibe even here. The biggest Christmas tree in Mumbai is here at my hotel. There are vendors that come up to your car in traffic to sell chopped nuts and magazines, but this week they are selling Santa hats too. A couple of the local radio stations are even playing Christmas songs. I must've heard Elvis sing Blue Christmas five times this week. It's pretty cool - even India's got a bit of the Christmas spirit.

And my wife has taught our 18-month old to say "Ho Ho Ho!" on the phone when I call home. Can't wait to get back.

Scott in PA
December 15, 2007 2:35 PM

I had the fire going too. I don't have kids, but I did have my Manhattan. Enjoyed a new DVD of Messiah. Stephen Cleobury conducting the Brandenburg Consort (original instruments) in the beautifully candlelit Pieterskerk in Leiden.

Outstanding performance! Highly recommended!

AnotherBeliever
December 15, 2007 3:07 PM

A nice long run along the perimeter, followed by some good Arab bread and Tahini. Wonderfully nice people (my mother not least among them) have sent us everything from books to stuffed bunnies (very soldierly) to cards to socks to snacks. We even have stockings and presents under a tree at the company - which First Sergeant is guarding from the curious 19 and 20 year olds. The Chapel is offering lots of good services, and by the time Christmas rolls around even our largely Muslim and Hindu kitchen service staff will be in the spirit - with often entertaining results. For example, at Thanksgiving they carved massive angels and hearts into ice, and made hundreds of little bread fish. :) Christmas Eve and Christmas Day traditionally the senior sergeants and officers take over most of the work, so we can hang out and relax. IF all goes as planned...

Christmas ain't so bad out here. A little strange, but it's simple. No commercialism, no greediness. And no ice storms or lake effect snow either! It's been 60 degrees by day, and we've hardly had any rain yet. All we could possibly desire in life is the one thing we can't have - the presence of our loved ones.

Rod, your boys are so adorable I want to scoop them up and give them smooches. So you'll have to do that for me. :) Enjoy the downtime - your kids need it, and so do you.

Everyone, keep in your prayers the young guys who WILL be out on patrols over the holidays. Things are looking up down south, but where we are at we've taken a lot of casualties. And pray also for the Christians of Iraq - they face a lot of persecution from Islamic militants and many will be living in fear this Christmas.

Mark Sullivan
December 15, 2007 4:17 PM

Fine brace of boys, ya got there Rod. Hope for many wonderful Christmases in the future.
Children, and a good wife, and family and freinds, make life worthwhile. It don't get more crunchy, that that.

aaron
December 17, 2007 8:33 AM

everything from books to stuffed bunnies (very soldierly)

Ah care packages, brings back fond memories of getting a big box (3'x3') of assorted candy and goods while in Basic. Thought drill sergeant would smoke me for hours. Gave me one night to make it all disappear...the platoon was happy.

Jim
December 17, 2007 3:58 PM

AnotherBeliever,

Thanks so much for your post and keeping it real for us back here. I hope you and the rest of our forces have a peaceful Christmas. Will pass your note on to my "prayer-net"

Jim

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Rod Dreher is an editorial columnist for the Dallas Morning News, and author of "Crunchy Cons" (Crown Forum), a nonfiction book about conservatives, most of them religious, whose faith and political convictions sometimes put them at odds with mainstream conservatives. The views expressed in this blog are his own.

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