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Killed for not wearing a hijab

Tuesday December 11, 2007

Categories: Islamic terrorism
Muslim dad allegedly strangles teenage daughter for not wearing a hijab. This happened not in Iran, not in Palestine, not in Saudi Arabia or Iraq or Pakistan. This happened in Canada. Where journalist Mark Steyn and Maclean's magazine are facing...
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Anonymous
December 11, 2007 6:43 PM

Seems like the state's human rights laws are beginning to closely correlate to the mentality in many Islamic nations. Hmmmm...maybe it is true that if you bend the edges of extremism back far enough, you have totalitarianism either way.

ds0490
December 11, 2007 6:50 PM

Female abuse victims are often forgotten in the stories of abuse in the Catholic church. Right here in Iowa we have an instance of a woman who is working to correct that oversight.

http://www.wcfcourier.com/articles/2007/12/09/news/metro/20261d1d9a788df8862573ac000f2031.txt


Meanwhile, just today, a priest in Maine was removed pending investigation into charges of abuse.

http://www.southcoasttoday.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20071211/NEWS/712110353


Unfortunately, even our military faces the issue of Catholic clergy sexual misconduct, and in this case there is a particularly deadly twist...AIDS.

http://archive.gulfnews.com/articles/07/12/07/10173076.html

ds0490
December 11, 2007 6:59 PM

A question for you, Rod. How many Muslim clerics must denounce this kind of violence before you will stop trying to characterize all of Islam as violent, abusive and terror-loving?

speaks_truth
December 11, 2007 7:10 PM

"Men are the managers of the affairs of women for that God has preferred in bounty one of them over another, and for that they have expended of their property. Righteous women are therefore obedient, guarding the secret for God's guarding. And those you fear may be rebellious admonish; banish them to their couches, and beat them. If they then obey you, look not for any way against them; God is All high, All great."
Quran, 4:34
Praise be!

Lynn
December 11, 2007 7:10 PM

"A question for you, Rod. How many Muslim clerics must denounce this kind of violence before you will stop trying to characterize all of Islam as violent, abusive and terror-loving?"

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And how, exactly, can they do that DS? Woman may be beaten for disobedience and in 3 of 4chools may be killed for apostasy. This young woman appears to be both disobedient and, based on the information given, probably quite close to open apostasy. Islam is everything that Mohammad said and did, and he was

truth
December 11, 2007 7:13 PM

"Men are the managers of the affairs of women for that God has preferred in bounty one of them over another, and for that they have expended of their property. Righteous women are therefore obedient, guarding the secret for God's guarding. And those you fear may be rebellious admonish; banish them to their couches, and beat them. If they then obey you, look not for any way against them; God is All high, All great."
Quran, 4:34

Jean
December 11, 2007 7:14 PM

sd0490, it's funny because I don't really hear _any_ Muslim clerics ever denouncing this sort of thing. And if they do, they always word it very carefully and qualify it to such an extent where they may as well not even have said anything. As to your other reply where you point out the Catholic abuse, yes of course it's dreadful... but nobody there gets killed for what they wear... by their own fathers.

Lynn
December 11, 2007 7:15 PM

Didn't actually mean to post that - and it's happened before.

To continue: Islam is everything that Mohammad did and said . . .
and Mohammad said: "whoever discards his religion, kill him. . . "

ds0490
December 11, 2007 7:32 PM

"As to your other reply where you point out the Catholic abuse, yes of course it's dreadful... but nobody there gets killed for what they wear... by their own fathers."

Yes...and your point? I concede that there are Muslims who commit horrid atrocities with the belief that their faith's teachings condone it, or that their religious leaders will provide them with cover. Whether it be the bombings of the WTC (both in the early 90s and in 2001), the numerous terrorist attacks over the past 50 years, or the countless instances of abuse such as this one, where a father commits what he may well have viewed as some sort of "honor killing" of a disobedient child. The Muslim religious world is replete with such instances. However, I draw the line at characterizing the religion as being of this nature, and that seems to be where you (and Rod) would take issue with me.

In Rod's posts we see this formulation:

Person claiming Muslim faith does terrible thing, therefore all Muslims are terrible, therefore the Muslim faith is terrible.

Many people have challenged me here on my characterization of the Catholic faith as an incubator of abusive behavior. They seem to be able to make distinctions between the actions of those within the faith itself. In other words, one sinful priest (or 15,000) does not make the faith of those priests invalid.

Further, they are unwilling to accept an unbeliever's critique of their Scripture, or an unbeliever's questioning of their exegesis of said Scripture, because that unbeliever cannot understand the true meaning of the Scripture. Why? Because he is not a believer.

And then, these unbelievers (from a Muslim standpoint) show no compunction in critiquing the Quran or the exegesis of the Quran by numerous Muslim believers. When their errors in exegesis are pointed out to them, they react negatively and toss out accusations of "dhimmitude".

Sauce for the goose, Jean. If instances of abuse and violence committed by Muslims with the belief that their religion or its leaders support such actions is to be accepted as evidence that the Muslim faith is defective, then Catholics (and in a broader sense, Christians) should be subject to the same standards.

Personally, I hope that "father" is convicted to the fullest extent of the law, and that he does not see the light of day for many, many years. Same with the "brother". I use quotes because I do not believe that a real father or brother could do that to someone they truly loved.

But folks (and especially Rod & Erin) will you hold the religious leaders here in this country, namely the Catholic and Orthodox leaders, to the same standard that you hold the Muslim leaders in Canada? Would you expect them to condemn the instances of child abuse here as you expect the Muslims to condemn this murder in Canada? Would you expect Catholic priests to offer full assistance and cooperation with law enforcement here as you expect the Muslim clerics in Canada to offer in the murder case?

Will you think it OK if a Muslim mosque declares bankruptcy to protect its assets so it can continue to do the ministry it provides, just as the Catholic churches here in the US are doing?

Will you think it is wrong for the Catholic and Orthodox leaders to do anything less than a full, public admittance of guilt in their involvement with the abuse issues, as I expect you would demand of Muslim clerics with regards to violence or terrorist issues?

Is there a double standard present?

Erin Manning
December 11, 2007 7:39 PM

"As to your other reply where you point out the Catholic abuse, yes of course it's dreadful... but nobody there gets killed for what they wear... by their own fathers."

True, Jean--but you know, Christian fathers sometimes *frown* when their teenage daughters wear sleeveless tops, and they *refuse* to buy their younger daughters Bratz dolls, so it's exactly the same./sarcasm

Honestly, ds0490, can you find a single tenet of Catholicism pretending that abuse is a good thing, permissible, or to be overlooked? Those responsible for the abuse cases you cite are clearly in violation of every principle of Catholicism--and of Christianity, for that matter. The equivalence you're trying to imply doesn't exist.

Anonymous
December 11, 2007 7:45 PM

The real issue here for me is the human rights laws suppressing any reasonable criticism of Islam. Hell--half my professors from undergraduate would be rotting in jail if this rule were in place in the U.S. and applied to criticism of Christianity.

ds0490
December 11, 2007 8:07 PM

"The real issue here for me is the human rights laws suppressing any reasonable criticism of Islam. Hell--half my professors from undergraduate would be rotting in jail if this rule were in place in the U.S. and applied to criticism of Christianity."

If certain groups have their way in this country, criticism of Christianity will be every bit as illegal here as criticism of Islam is in Canada.

ds0490
December 11, 2007 8:55 PM

Erin: "Honestly, ds0490, can you find a single tenet of Catholicism pretending that abuse is a good thing, permissible, or to be overlooked? Those responsible for the abuse cases you cite are clearly in violation of every principle of Catholicism--and of Christianity, for that matter. The equivalence you're trying to imply doesn't exist."

Maybe it's the link that is preventing the filter from posting my response...not certain. In any case, I will simply refer to the document by its name and go from there.

"Crimine solicitationies" came to light in 2003. The document, under the seal of Pope John XXIII, orders officials of the church to handle any instances of sexual misconduct in complete secrecy. It also suggests that relocation of the offending priest is quite acceptable.

I've posted links to this a couple of times. Perhaps the filter is simply slowed by inclement weather. Not certain. In any case, the document, which has been acknowledged as authentic by the Church, sanctions the cover-up of child abuse on the orders of the Pope himself.

Franklin Evans
December 11, 2007 9:04 PM

Gasp! Now, even in Canada!! [/sarcasm]

Does anyone know where the father (and brother) were born, and how old they were when they emigrated to Canada? I know I'm out on a limb, but my assumption/expectation is that they were born and raised in a Muslim country.

Does anyone have a documented explanation of the brother's being charged with obstruction? Is there a statement reliably attributed to the brother describing his motivation? Or should I be worried now, having rather more company on the limb all of a sudden?

rebeccat
December 11, 2007 9:06 PM

Oh yes, I hear priests speaking from the pulpit all the time advocating the rights of priests to be pedophiles, And all those people who were killed by protesting Christians during the "Piss Christ" affair were just horrid. And the way ministers regularly advise husbands of the permissability of wife beating in pre-cana classes. Oh, and it's just awful how women are locked in their homes with the windows papered over in Christian countries - france has a long history of such things, you know. And why doesn't anyone ever speak out against those Christians who hunted down and slit the throat of the director of The DaVinci Code? I mean, isn't it clear to everyone that we're on the verge of having our right to even speak critically of Christianity away? How could anyone possible miss the mortal threat to life limb and liberty posed by the unregenerate Christians in our midst?
Obviously, there's a HUGE double standard at work here.

Daniel
December 11, 2007 9:15 PM

Assuming this is was an "honor killing," it seems significant that Muslim groups and officials in Canada have strongly denounced the girl's death and have called for the harshest punishment possible. Even the group bringing the case against Steyn and McLeans has loudly condemned the murder.

This is, of course, the difference between Muslims in Canada (and the U.S.) and what you see in the Middle East or even parts of Canada. There is an outrage over the compatibility of those kinds of belief and life in Canada (and quite certainly the U.S.). Before people start their handwringing over Sharia, it's important to keep this in mind

Victor Morton
December 11, 2007 10:03 PM

ds wrote:

"Crimine solicitationies" came to light in 2003. The document, under the seal of Pope John XXIII, orders officials of the church to handle any instances of sexual misconduct in complete secrecy. It also suggests that relocation of the offending priest is quite acceptable. ...
[T]he document, which has been acknowledged as authentic by the Church, sanctions the cover-up of child abuse on the orders of the Pope himself.

Have you read the document in question? Or are you cherry-picking talking-points you don't understand?

Jean
December 11, 2007 10:11 PM

rebeccat -- that was a most powerful illustration of the contrast between the contemporary interpretations of the faiths by the faithful, very well said. Many times you will hear Muslims say b-b-b-b-b-but the Crusades! What's important is how these behaviors affect our lives NOW.

To continue, it's my understanding that a Dutch lawmaker is making a film about the Quran as we speak. Surely it will motivate an intellectual discussion among scholars and be met with both constructive criticism and staunch disagreement, whereby the film maker will be invited to Mosques all across Holland to debate the merits of his arguments.

Chesswiz
December 11, 2007 10:56 PM

DS0490: The Church document to which you refer deals not with "any instances of sexual misconduct" committed by priests, but only the very specific ecclesiastical crime in which a priest solicits sexual favors (or allows himself to be seduced) in the confessional. It is not about the abuse of minors. Far from ordering complete secrecy, it obliges those who are aware of the solicitation to report it to the proper Church authorities; it also makes provision for the possible removal of the offender from priestly ministry (rather than merely relocating him). In fairness, you must acknowledge that the obligation of secrecy placed on those handling such cases flows logically from a respect for the strict confidentiality of sacramental confession, and not, as you recklessly allege, any desire to cover-up child abuse "on the orders of the Pope himself."

Your anti-Catholic straw men add nothing to the discussion; get a grip.

sigaliris
December 11, 2007 11:13 PM

Yes, this crime is horrifying and heartrending. A culture that teaches that fathers have life and death rights over daughters is evil. A culture that teaches that men have life and death rights over women is evil. I would be glad to see all such religions evaporate from the minds of men, and Islam can go first. (Do I get my brownie points now?)

I'm surprised that no one has referred to Ayaan Hirsi Ali's recent opinion piece in the New York Times, "Islam's Silent Moderates." In this piece, she first quotes the Koran:

The woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication, flog each of them with 100 stripes: Let no compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day. (Koran 24:2)

She then comments on recent cases of Islamic abuse--her sharpest points below:

But take a look at the verse above: more compelling even than the order to flog adulterers is the command that the believer show no compassion. It is this order to choose Allah above his sense of conscience and compassion that imprisons the Muslim in a mindset that is archaic and extreme.

When a “moderate” Muslim’s sense of compassion and conscience collides with matters prescribed by Allah, he should choose compassion. Unless that happens much more widely, a moderate Islam will remain wishful thinking.

I agree. She's right. I find this true for myself as well--whenever I choose anything above my sense of conscience and compassion, I find myself imprisoned in a mindset that is archaic and extreme.

For me, the welfare of women and children is a primary concern, all the time--not just when their lives, and deaths, can be deployed in some other cause that is given priority. Yes, I oppose Islam--among other things. If I thought Christian gentlemen stood shoulder to shoulder with me in in making women's welfare a priority, they would receive my gratitude and support. Sadly, at this time I don't feel confident that the enemy of my enemy is my friend. Feel free to convince me otherwise.

watsy
December 11, 2007 11:16 PM

I need to read the article by Steyn before forming any conclusions. The Muslims aren't trying to stifle free speech. They are trying to get people to stop saying things about them that aren't true. Falsehoods lead to prejudice and hatred, and that could possibly lead to hate crimes against Muslims.

What if I wrote an article that said inner city blacks are breeding like rabbits compared to their suburban white neighbors. We will see crime spread to the burbs due to an increase in homicides, illegal drug use, single mothers, prostitution, and declining schools if this trend continues.

I think that African Americans would be right to be upset. I haven't read the article, but if Steyn really did show statistics that Muslims are having more children than non-Muslims AND state that the result will be more violent behavior in the society, then they are right to be upset.

The father murdering his daughter has nothing to do with the Muslim protest against Steyn's article. I'm not sure why we're talking about the two things on the same thread. TV/radio stations take dumb polls all the time in an attempt to generate discussion. I don't see how you could come to the conclusion that the poll was designed to blame society for father's actions. That's looking for Manning's Corollary where it doesn't exist.

ds0490
December 11, 2007 11:19 PM

Victor Morton: "Have you read the document in question? Or are you cherry-picking talking-points you don't understand?"

Please, Victor...go ahead an enlighten me as if I have not read the document.

Larry Parker
December 11, 2007 11:36 PM

Look, this crime is disgusting. May that poor girl's soul rest in peace.

But Toronto is the one of the most diverse cities in the world -- even more diverse in many ways than New York. So why should it surprise us that there was at least one unreconstructed fanatic Muslim in Toronto who was willing to engage in the horror of honor killing despite now living in the New World?

Are the Mounties supposed to spy on all Muslims to stop this from happening? (Are American authorities?)

This thread has the ring to me of that Oscar-nominated song from "South Park, Bigger, Longer, and Uncut" -- "BLAME CANADA!!!"

ds0490
December 11, 2007 11:40 PM

Chesswiz: "DS0490: The Church document to which you refer deals not with "any instances of sexual misconduct" committed by priests, but only the very specific ecclesiastical crime in which a priest solicits sexual favors (or allows himself to be seduced) in the confessional. It is not about the abuse of minors."

I would refer you to section 23, entitled "The Worst Crime", specifically paragraph 73 under that section. The procedure outlined was clearly intended to be used in cases of homosexual misconduct, misconduct with a youth of either sex, or misconduct with an animal.

Chesswiz: "In fairness, you must acknowledge that the obligation of secrecy placed on those handling such cases flows logically from a respect for the strict confidentiality of sacramental confession, and not, as you recklessly allege, any desire to cover-up child abuse "on the orders of the Pope himself."

Can you show me in the document where instructions are given as to cooperation with local law enforcement agencies investigating any criminal infractions associated with these solicitations? I failed to find such, but I will admit that my first read was somewhat hurried. Clearly you have checked the document more thoroughly than I.

Victor Morton
December 12, 2007 12:15 AM

The entire document Crimen Sollicitationis -- *entire document* including the last four paragraphs -- concerns only cases of "solicitation," which is a very specific term in Canon Law for the not very common crime of the abuse of the Confessional for sexual purposes. (And hence the particular need for secrecy in such cases.)

Very few of the sexual misconduct cases in the American presbyterate did not involve such matters (disgusting enough matters though they did involve).

Because it's a document of canon law procedure, the secular law is never mentioned in it and has no more need to be mentioned in it than World War I, silent movies or 17th-century fashion styles do.

Here is that ultramontane John Allen breaking down the false furor and the aftermath originating in ignorant secular reporters, but which anti-Catholic liars like yourself have stuck into their playbook between the albino assassins and The Awful Disclosures of Maria Monk.

Victor Morton
December 12, 2007 12:17 AM

The one negative too many in here:

Very few of the sexual misconduct cases in the American presbyterate did not involve such matters (disgusting enough matters though they did involve).

Obviously, that should be "Very few ... involved" or "Most ... did not involve."

Victor Morton
December 12, 2007 12:19 AM

Please, Victor...go ahead an enlighten me as if I have not read the document.

Why should that be necessary, since you are the one citing it in the first place? Had you read it before citing it? Are you a canon lawyer, able to understand it?

Victor Morton
December 12, 2007 12:36 AM

If I thought Christian gentlemen stood shoulder to shoulder with me in in making women's welfare a priority, they would receive my gratitude and support. Sadly, at this time I don't feel confident that the enemy of my enemy is my friend. Feel free to convince me otherwise.

No thanks.

No clearer statement of feminism-based contempt for Christian men exists than this. A woman too wrapped in the domestic kulturkampf and/or too convinced of her worst-motive imputations about Christian men (not to speak of Christian women, who are often more antiabortion than Christian men) to be unable to decide between "Christian gentlemen" and the fanatical sexism that is normative in Islam.

Give thou me a break.

mary margaret
December 12, 2007 12:37 AM

Well, Rod, it took two comments before we got the "Christians (specifically in this case, Catholics-color me shocked) are just as bad" argument. And, for the most part, the discussion in the comments is now about the scandal in the Catholic Church. Terrible as some priests' actions have been, and they have been truly horrible, they have no bearing on this story. Now, if you could come up with some stories about the Catholic priest murdering his victim because of his/her(the victim's) impurity, you might have something that could relate to this situation.

God rest her soul, grant her mercy and peace.

sigaliris
December 12, 2007 7:18 AM

Ah, Victor. Thank you for being so reliable. I was counting on you for that response, or one very like it. In fact, I had my stopwatch out. And you are right on time. Naturally, I would choose even you over the fanatical sexism of Islam. Ya happy now? : ) Please show me where I expressed "contempt." I think there could be many clearer statements of contempt, possibly some that actually used that word and expressed that feeling. Which I did not. And who mentioned abortion? It wasn't me. Aren't you the guy who just recently expressed exasperation that posters failed to respond to what was actually said, while substituting easily refuted straw men of their own making? That guy was so smart.

I'd like to propose a law of my own, which I will call Andrea's Law in honor of Andrea Dworkin because I enjoy the pearl-clutching that results from the very mention of her name. If a woman dares to deplore crimes committed by men against women, it will be a very short time before she will be called crazy and/or a man-hater. But again, feel free to prove me wrong.

harvey lacey
December 12, 2007 8:58 AM

I read Rod's links and my instinctive response was about I wished the father had been in my circle of friends.

A couple of months ago I was cornered in a local grocery by a manager. In our banter over the years we'd discovered she was an evangelical Christian and I was an atheist. So when she approached me with her arms crossed and a "we need to talk" I assumed the worst.

She wanted to know how I became an atheist just what I believed. I answered her questions while trying to figure out where she was going.

Then she asked if atheists were pagans.

I explained that pagan was the oldest faith but for me it was a faith in deities and as an atheist I saw a world without deities. The only thing atheists and pagans had in common from my perspective was we weren't Christians.

She then told me about her fifteen year old son coming into the house the night before and telling her he was pagan. She'd told him that if pagan was against God then he would have to leave her house. She wasn't going to have something against God under her roof.

My response was, "my gawd woman, you're not going to let something as silly as religion come between you and your son are you?" I went on to explain that a fifteen year old going pagan is all about being a fifteen year old and nothing about faith.

A long time ago I decided that the cross gender relationship between a parent/child is more special in some ways than a same gender relationship. I believe it's about potential. Same gender we tend to be more judgemental wanting the offspring to be what we should have been. Cross gender we don't have that cross to carry and so we see a potential of what we could have been if we'd been of that gender. I do know that the father/daughter relationship is just as special in my book as the mother/son relationships I see.

I would have counseled the Muslim father with the same advice. I would have explained that we as humans come with a gene that's activated at puberty. What that gene does is make us rebel against everything around us. I call it the butt hole gene.

The butt hole gene is a good thing. Because without it the parents would want to keep the kid in the house forever. It saves us from ourselves. As parents we are obligated to always weigh teenager behavior for butt hole itis. If we identify the behavior as butt hole itis we should, well, darn, love the sinner while hating the sin?

In the twenties for most of us the butt hole gene goes into remission. The only time it acts up after that is when we're confronted with dealing with butt hole itis in a teen ager. The reaction is just as irrational as it was before.

I don't see this story as being about the good or bad of Christianity nor the good or bad of Islam. I see this story being about a catastrophic failure in what is probably one of the greatest opportunities a person has for a meaningful relationship they'll have in a lifetime.

If you google my name and "redemption" you'll find a story I wrote about an experience I had with my daughter when she was sixteen. She's now twenty nine and one of the high moments of my life happened last year. As I was playing with my grandson I caught her watching us. The look on her face spoke volumns about how she feels about her father and her son. She's still my hero and one of the reasons I wake up mornings counting my blessings and the day just follows on that note.

Yes, I would have liked to have been in his life. Maybe I could have helped him know the wonder that I do now later in his life.

The world would be a better place if the butt hole gene was identified and explained. I don't think it should be modified, it's too important, kids need to be on their own and parents don't allow that willingly.

Drunken Ira Hayes
December 12, 2007 9:24 AM

I'm curious whether back in the 1960s there was ever a case of an American dad murdering his son for wanting to grow long hair, or for wanting to go to a rock concert, or smoking pot, or any of the other things that a lot of people were trying back then? It sounds over the top, but in a country of 200 million there are some over-the-top people. Point being, one Muslim dad murdering his daughter for her choice of clothing does not make grounds for a sweeping accusation. It would be different if we had imams all over Canada calling for dads to murder their errant daughters.

sigaliris
December 12, 2007 9:26 AM

God rest her soul, grant her mercy and peace.

mary margaret, that is a very kind and compassionate thought on your part. Unfortunately, it's not really possible according to many orthodox Christians, is it? This little girl died a Muslim, as far as we know from the story, so she is now burning in hell for all eternity, isn't she? It's not God's fault, though. She made Him do it, by willfully failing to profess faith in Jesus before she was strangled. Attn. Victor: I am expressing contempt now. Certainly not for all Christians, and not for all Christian beliefs--just for the particular conviction that God would consign a murdered child to eternal torment.

rebeccat
December 12, 2007 9:38 AM

watsy, the answer to offensive speech is more speech, not lawsuits claiming hurt feelings and offense! COME ON! This isn't the Sudan or Saudi Arabia or North Korea for Christ sake! I cannot believe that such an opinion is even put forth in a western country!
And this whole completely ridiculous, obnoxious, I can't use the proper words because my post will be deleted on this family friendly site, idea that saying negative things about a group of people puts them at risk of violence is the lowest form of gutter logic concievable! Again, I can hardly believe that in a western country someone could even make such claims with a straight face!
We have freedom of speech. Period. There are a few narrow exceptions: exhortations to violence, personal libel (very narrowly defined), yelling "fire" in a crowded theater. Other than that, we have an absolute RIGHT to free speech.
Whatever happened to "I may not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it"? Have we really fallen so far as a people that this basic foundation on which all of our other rights, our entire character as a free people rests is now subject to hurt feelings, offense and the potential that someone may develop negative opinions and do something violent, somewhere, one day, maybe, I think, I'm afraid.
Coming from an American, this comment is really the most disheartening thing I've read all week. And it hasn't been a very good week. If only it weren't 8:30 in the morning - I think I need a drink!

Rdr Joseph
December 12, 2007 10:25 AM

Sig: Actually, what I have learned in Orthodoxy is that our salvation, as well as the salvation of others, is not for us to say. God, in God's infinite wisdom, will be the final arbiter, not us. I can no more say this Muslim girl will be condemned to hell than I can say that I will be saved. Despite her Muslim faith, she may be more pleasing to God and more Christ-like than this unworthy sinner.

I realize there are many Christians who will actively make pronouncements on who is saved, and who is not. But, IMHO, that borders on blasphemy, IOW, speaking for God. We cannot do that.

Lynn
December 12, 2007 10:35 AM

But the truth is, Mr. Lacey, this isn't really about the "butt hole" gene. It's part of something much, much larger than that . . . For g*d sakes, you people, LITTLE GIRLS are getting SHOVED BACK into burning buildings by the officials of a sovereign country for not being covered; hundreds of thousands get accosted by the police in Iran for a few wisps of hair, and the ones who don't tow the line get beaten and arrested over and over and over and over again until they submit; in other places they throw acid in your face, and in some parts of the world (Mosul comes to mind) they just plain SHOOT you . . . and the justifications are right there in the books: "beatings" for disobedience, "lashings" for female impropriety, and DEATH for apostasy. How is it that those abominable facts constantly get obscured in these discussions in favor of asset protection schemes and pedophile priests . . . ? Despicable to be sure, but in the constellation of abuses specifically sanctioned and officially practiced everday in the islamic world, they're just a blip on the radar (and I assure you that there are far worse things going in many madrassas that will never, ever see the light of day . . ). Here's one that might get y'all's attention - and bear in mind, all this occurred with the sanction of her family, her religion and the islamic country in which she resided:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up3yuQDAWKQ

Jeff Feagles
December 12, 2007 10:51 AM

Ira: Where have you been for the past six years? There have been innumerable stories about honor killings in both the West and the Middle East. This isn't just a case of a single individual snapping. Many muslims are still stuck in the tribal/shame culture that has existed in their societies for millenia.

sigaliris
December 12, 2007 10:59 AM

I appreciate that, Rdr Joseph, and I believe as you do. I greatly prefer the theology of Catholics and Orthodox, who find some way for God to be benevolent, over Calvinist theology, which boldly declares God directly responsible for the damnation of souls. I've always liked the description H.G. Wells gives of the hero's aged mother in In the Days of the Comet.

I said to her one day, "But do you still believe that hell of flame, dear Mother? You--with your tender heart!"

She vowed she did.

Some theological intricacy made it necessary to her, but still--

She looked thoughtfully at a bank of primulas before her for a time, and then laid her tremulous hand impressively on my arm. "You know, Willie, dear," she said, as though she was clearing up a childish misunderstanding of mine, "I don't think anyone will go there. I never did think that. . . ."

Simon
December 12, 2007 11:09 AM

Unfortunately, it's not really possible according to many orthodox Christians, is it? This little girl died a Muslim, as far as we know from the story, so she is now burning in hell for all eternity, isn't she? It's not God's fault, though. She made Him do it, by willfully failing to profess faith in Jesus before she was strangled.

What sort of "orthodox Christians" are these? Christ commands us clearly not to judge. It is no part of Christian tradition to declare that so-and-so, having died, is now in hell (much less to rejoice at such a horror). The Church, east and west, has always declared a handful of people "saints." It has never declared that any particular person is in hell. In traditional, orthodox Christianity, such particular judgments belong to God alone. We are entitled to HOPE that each person may find salvation in and through Christ, regardless of the external realities of his or her life.

elizabeth
December 12, 2007 11:29 AM

"She made Him do it, by willfully failing to profess faith in Jesus before she was strangled."

Wow - people can "make" the Almighty Creator and Ruler of Eternity do things.

This is news.

watsy
December 12, 2007 11:44 AM

Rebecca,

I agree that we have to be careful about how we limit free speech, but I don't think that it means that you can say whatever the heck you think short of threatening a person or yelling fire in a crowded theater. There are consequences to things that we say, and the more people whom you reach with your speech, the higher the standard or bar should be set for those people. Journalists, who's writings reach millions, don't get to say whatever they want without evidence to back it up. If Steyn wants to go around writing that all Muslims are terrorists and the world is going to be a more dangerous place because of Muslim breeding demographics, then he better have included numbers in his article to demonstrate & back up his claim that all(or most) Muslims are terrorists. Or, Maclean's magazine should get a Muslim writer on staff to counter what he has written & not rely on a 4 sentence blurb in the editorial section to counter what he said.

You might be willing to die for the right for people to say whatever the hell they want, but my guess is that you don't belong to a minority demographic that's targeted for hate crimes because of falsehoods that people are printing.

Drunken Ira Hayes
December 12, 2007 12:22 PM

Jeff,
True, but many Muslims aren't stuck in that tribal culture. See, I reckon the subtext point of Rod's entry is "We gotta do something about the rising tide of Muslim fanatics in the West!" OK, we got one fanatic father. Lock him in jail, throw away the key. But don't turn every other Muslim in Canada into a potential jihadist.

Scott in PA
December 12, 2007 12:35 PM

But don't turn every other Muslim in Canada into a potential jihadist.

Some of them are not just potential jihadists.

www. danielpipes.org/article/1639

rebeccat
December 12, 2007 12:42 PM

watsy, I'm married to a black man who is the subject of hate music, hate speech, constitutionally protected marches proclaiming his lesser status, etc. We are well aware of the reality of problems that unfettered free speech can pose for minorities. Yet, my husband, a veteran who served his country will be the first in line to defend Voltaire's infamous words: "I may not agree with what you say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it." It's a measure of the backwarness of this particular group that they can't understand and don't buy into this very western ideal of free speech.
The fact of the matter is that we have a constitutional right to say whatever we dang well please. Americans have DIED for this right throughout our history and it is a sad, disgusting day when we are willing to forgo and curtail this right for the sake of hurt feelings and offense.
And watsy, inform yourself. The Muslim group which is suing Styen demanded the right to a 5 page cover article, no editing, their choice of cover art in order to refute it. The editor of Mccleans rightly said, "I'd rather go bankrupt than have others dictate to me what I must publish in my magazine." And yes, statistics bar out that most terrorists are Muslims (although not the reverse which NO ONE is claiming).
If Muslims are offended by Styen's claim, well the answer to offensive speech is MORE speech, not petulant demands to shut up! I can not believe this is an argument which even needs to be made here in the USA!
I mean really, if we can't all rally around an almost absolute right to free speech, we should get rid of our military because there's nothing left to fight for. Just the most revolting thing I've heard in ages!

Daniel
December 12, 2007 12:52 PM

I think it's important to understand the context of Canadian law and speech rights. For good or for naught, Canadians view group rights differently than in the U.S., where individualism is the master. Under the Charter of Rights and Freedoms--which was only written in the early 1980s--there is an acknowledgment that groups have a collective right to be free from discrimination and harassment. This likely comes from Canada's tradition of acknowledging the rights of French-speaking Canadians in Quebec and the Maritimes.

This has meant that minority religions--Sikhs most prominently--have been given broader acknowledgment under the law than in the U.S. Because sexual orientation is included in the Charter, it also means gays and lesbians--as a group--have acknowledged protections. Thus, writing anti-gay or anti-Muslim screeds does trigger the possible protection under the Charter and provincial laws.

Under the Charter--which is like our Bill of Rights--there is also an acknowledgment that sometimes the majority will have to make sacrifices for the sake of the minority. That's a concept foreign to those of us in the U.S.

rebeccat
December 12, 2007 1:11 PM

Part of why it is so important that we as Americans stand up for the right to free speech is precisely because various groups have begun using other country's backwards laws to attempt to shut up American writers. There are a couple of cases in Britain where Muslim groups have tried to bring suit against American authors and publishers based on the idea that if a book published here in the US is shipped to someone in Britain that author and publisher could risk running afoul of Britain's more lax crybaby laws. Understand that. People are trying to use the laws of other countries to proscribe what can be written and published in the USA based on the possibility that such materials could find their way to lands which have laws protecting crybabies against hurt feelings. If we as Americans are going to waste our time worrying about how offended this group or that group might be (when our response should be "let me pass you a hanky and some smelling salts you worthless crybabies - your crying is taking up too much precious air!") rather than shouting to the rafters in support of those targeted by this crapola, then the dream which was America is dead.

Will Harrington
December 12, 2007 1:15 PM

Sigillaris, Do you really think that is Orthodox Christian belief that the poor girl is condemned to hell? Did you forget that one of the central tenents of the faith is that we are not to judge, God judges. To declare that she is damned is to assume the mantle of God. Speaking as an Orthodox Christian, I'm not going there. Also speaking as an Orthodox Christian, the most authoritative statement i can make about this poor girls ultimate fate is "I don't know".

Lynn
December 12, 2007 1:45 PM

Watsy - the "rising tide of muslim demographics" wouldn't be problematic in the least were it not for the fact that Islam itself is traditionally and viciously anti-liberal.

Many of the worst elements in the Islamic community - elements that muslims THEMSELVES are trying to reform in many islamic countires - will try to use your liberal sentiments to gain special protections for their faith in order to stifle sriticism. As we have seen, engaging in such criticisms has already become, in many cases, a very dangerous and costly enterprise . . . .

The truth is that through an honest process of examination and criticism, Islam and Mohammad will almost certainly lose a great deal of prestige and good will. (Part of the reason so much energy is being expended to stop it). This, in turn, will cause many muslims to suffer. They may even feel threatened and become agitated. That's an unfortuneate but NECESSARY by-product of well placed criticism - and a sure sign that there's something there that requires urgent attention.


PS - previous comment in lock-up for several hours . . . and it had a video of a weeping Wafa Sultan attached to it. What a pity.

sigaliris
December 12, 2007 2:43 PM

Will Harrington and Simon, I think I understand and respect where you're coming from. (And I didn't respond to Simon earlier because I felt I'd be cross-talking against where this thread is going right now, but I'll interpose a response anyway.) You are correct, of course, that the Catholic and Orthodox traditions have been careful not to say that any one particular human being is going to Hell--since this would be, as you rightly state, claiming knowledge that belongs only to God. However, I think you're being a little bit over-optimistic in your assessment of how teachings on Hell are actually applied. For instance, there's hot debate even in those traditions about whether one is even allowed to HOPE for the salvation of all, or even most, of mankind. Don't take my word for it--you can find such debates over on First Things.

When I was growing up, which was not SO long ago, the idea that "there is no salvation outside the (Roman Catholic) Church" was widely taught and believed. This made a pretty definite impression that non-Catholics one knew personally were going to Hell if nothing changed, or if they were hit by a bus before it did. My little brother lost his faith when the nuns told him our mother was going to Hell for being a Protestant. He felt that a religion that encouraged him to picture his own gentle, virtuous mother burning in Hell forevermore was not a religion he needed to have in his life--and I don't blame him. We were definitely taught that if you missed Mass on Sunday and happened to die before going to confession, you would go to Hell. I had a friend who converted to Catholicism and later had something resembling a mental breakdown when her beloved but atheist father died without professing faith, in spite of all her prayers. She was certain he'd gone to eternal punishment. As for divorced and remarried people, they were definitely Hell-bound, unless they would agree to live "as brother and sister" with their illegal second spouse. Without that, they couldn't repent, so they couldn't receive the sacraments, so they would go to Hell. There were a lot of crash-landings on that list. Now, you may think of these things as regrettable failures of catechesis, but that is how people thought, and I'll bet more of them still do than you might believe.

And I won't even start on Calvinist/evangelical positions on Hell. I guess you're just lucky enough never to have encountered earnest street-corner or door-to-door evangelists who ask you things like, "If you died tonight, do you know where you would go?" If you have not specifically, verbally accepted faith in Jesus, you are not a Christian in their book. You are "unsaved," and unsaved people go to Hell. That most certainly includes Muslims. So I think you'd have to say that there is a long Christian tradition of believing that large groups of people will inevitably go to Hell--even if one is allowed to hope that they will not.

watsy
December 12, 2007 2:52 PM

I'm married to a black man who is the subject of hate music, hate speech, constitutionally protected marches proclaiming his lesser status, etc.

I was a little girl when blacks were being slaughtered on the streets as they fought for the right to be seen as equal to the white man. It took time for the laws to change so that blacks could drink at the same water fountain, ride at the front of the bus, and go to school to become doctors, lawyers, and chiefs. They had good people writing laws to give them an advantage along the way. If saying that journalists in the MSM aren't free to write whatever the hell they want is anti-American, then I guess I'm just not a very good American. I think that journalists should be accountable & responsible for what comes off of their pens and processors. We don't really know what Steyn wrote, but if the Muslims are correct & what he wrote depicted most Muslims as terrorists, then he should be held accountable for writing falsehoods.

It sounds like Mclean magazine is run by a bunch of crybabies. It doesn't take much courage to write negatives about a group of people and then expect to dictate the terms of response.

Margaret
December 12, 2007 4:24 PM

We don't really know what Steyn wrote, but if the Muslims are correct & what he wrote depicted most Muslims as terrorists, then he should be held accountable for writing falsehoods.

Posted by: watsy | December 12, 2007 2:52 PM


As I understand it, the "article" in Maclean's was an excerpt from Steyn's book "America Alone." I've read it. I wish I still had it, but it's on loan to a friend. I can tell you, however, that Steyn certainly did not depict "most Muslims as terrorists." In fact, I got the impression that we went out of his way NOT to do that. (He's no fool!) The thrust of his book was that if things don't change, most Europeans will be Muslims... with all the cultural ramification that might imply.

aaron
December 12, 2007 5:24 PM

http://edition.cnn.com/2007/US/12/12/subway.attack/

Oo look, a terrorist helping Jews

ds0490
December 12, 2007 5:35 PM

Aaron: http://edition.cnn.com/2007/US/12/12/subway.attack/

"Oo look, a terrorist helping Jews"

Interesting that the police went ahead and arrested the Muslim who helped defend the Jewish man. Only after Mr. Adler told the police what happened did they release Mr. Askari.

All this over a holiday greeting. But of course, this story couldn't really have happened. Erin and Rod assure us that Christians do not do this kind of violence over mere words.

Jim
December 12, 2007 5:53 PM

Sig,

A big thumbs up on your reflections re: Hell. The nuns tried to teach us much of the same. Fortunately for me (particularly when my spiritual crisis came a few years ago), my mother toned down the rhetoric to something more consistent with a fair, loving God.

Come to think of it, it really scared me how easily many accepted the idea of Hell for whole swaths of people born/died in places not yet reached by Christian missionaries.

Which of God should a child learn first, the love or the fear?

Erin Manning
December 12, 2007 6:12 PM

"Erin and Rod assure us that Christians do not do this kind of violence over mere words."

Erin and Rod have assured you of nothing of the sort, of course, but go right ahead and equate the behavior of jerks and buffoons who happen to be Christian with the behavior of the Muslim dad who murdered his own daughter for not wearing a hijab. 'Cause it's exactly the same.

Hey, Rod, did *you* get the fatwa from your Orthodox leaders telling you to heckle Jewish subway riders? We Catholics haven't gotten ours, yet, what with all the emphasis on helping the youth group earn money to go to the next World Youth Day; but I'm sure it will be forthcoming, mixed in with the K of C blood drive announcement and the altar flower fundraiser. (End sarcasm. If anyone really needs to be told that.)

Daniel
December 12, 2007 7:09 PM

"Muslim dad who murdered his own daughter for not wearing a hijab."

Interesting you have these facts, when the police and the Canadian officials haven't reached that conclusion. I realize when you see a Muslim, you assume that he's going to commit an honor killing because that's your preconceived bias. Unfortunately, we don't really have any basis for knowing if it's true, not that it stops you from taking that leap.

But it's convenient for your narrative and, well, your manufactured outrage. And, well, Rod used the same narrative as a headline even though he did toss in the work "alleged" into the lead.

ds0490
December 12, 2007 7:12 PM

Erin: "Erin and Rod have assured you of nothing of the sort, of course, but go right ahead and equate the behavior of jerks and buffoons who happen to be Christian with the behavior of the Muslim dad who murdered his own daughter for not wearing a hijab. 'Cause it's exactly the same."

LOL..where have I said that jerks are always Christian. I think that the kindest thing that can be said about the male biological parent (I can no longer refer to him as a father) in that instance is that he is a jerk who happens to be Muslim.

Clearly you see him as a new leader on the forefront of a terrorist wave that will hit us before the end of the year.

ds0490
December 12, 2007 7:15 PM

Erin: "Erin and Rod have assured you of nothing of the sort, of course, but go right ahead and equate the behavior of jerks and buffoons who happen to be Christian with the behavior of the Muslim dad who murdered his own daughter for not wearing a hijab. 'Cause it's exactly the same."

Hmmm....maybe if the Muslim male biological parent had killed an abortionist you would simply consider him one of the "jerks or buffoons" who happened to be Muslim.

Kill an abortion clinic doctor, become a buffoon. Kill your daughter and become the example of All-That-Is-Wrong-With-Liberalism.

Thank you, Erin. I think I understand it now.

Susan
December 12, 2007 7:18 PM

Oh man, I take a few days out just to get some work done, and I lose the thread entirely. GREAT discussion, but I can't keep up!

ds0490
December 12, 2007 7:21 PM

Erin: "Muslim dad who murdered his own daughter for not wearing a hijab."

Daniel: "Interesting you have these facts, when the police and the Canadian officials haven't reached that conclusion. I realize when you see a Muslim, you assume that he's going to commit an honor killing because that's your preconceived bias. Unfortunately, we don't really have any basis for knowing if it's true, not that it stops you from taking that leap."

Daniel, I think the facts that were published in the story make it look like they have the goods on the male biological unit. Yes, innocent until proven guilty is a legal fact, but the appearance of guilt seems pretty strong in this case.

However, your point regarding prejudice is better supported in this particular story.

http://edition.cnn.com/2007/US/12/12/subway.attack/

Of particular note is this:

"Askari was first handcuffed alongside them, but he was released when Adler told police he was not an attacker, Hellerstein said."

Askari is the Muslim student who came to the aid of Mr. Adler when he was attacked for wishing some Christians "Happy Hanukkah". Since a Jewish man had been attacked, and a Muslim man was present, the police naturally assumed that the Muslim had attacked the Jew.

Such is the nature of prejudice...it often clouds one's view of the facts.

Erin Manning
December 12, 2007 7:29 PM

Clearly I don't, ds. Clearly I'm simply tired of the constant reaction of the left to incidence of violence involving Islamic fundamentalists being comprised of the tu quoque "Christians do it too! Christians bad! Christians eeeeevillll!" ad infinitum.

If you're really more worried about Christians rising up and committing acts of violence than you are about Muslims doing the same, that's your prerogative, of course. I find it extremely silly, short-sighted, and fantasy-based thinking, on a par with Daniel's manufactured prejudices which apparently give him the power to convict me of a racism I've never expressed and do not, in fact, hold within me.

ds0490
December 12, 2007 7:41 PM

Erin: "Clearly I don't, ds. Clearly I'm simply tired of the constant reaction of the left to incidence of violence involving Islamic fundamentalists being comprised of the tu quoque "Christians do it too! Christians bad! Christians eeeeevillll!" ad infinitum."

Would you care to elaborate on your statement "...but go right ahead and equate the behavior of jerks and buffoons who happen to be Christian with the behavior of the Muslim dad who murdered his own daughter for not wearing a hijab. 'Cause it's exactly the same."? Do you see any equation at all between Paul Hill's killing of an abortion doctor in the name of Christ and this male biological unit's killing of his own daughter in the name of Allah? Or is Paul Hill one of the "jerks and buffoons" you were referring to in your statement?

Lynn
December 12, 2007 7:58 PM

Interesting you have these facts, when the police and the Canadian officials haven't reached that conclusion. I realize when you see a Muslim, you assume that he's going to commit an honor killing because that's your preconceived bias. Unfortunately, we don't really have any basis for knowing if it's true, not that it stops you from taking that leap.


________________

Daniel and DS - For G*d sakes people, a couple of years ago the "religious enforcement" officers of a sovereign islamic country forced little girls back into a BURNING BUILDING for not being covered; in another islamic country, the police detain hundreds of thousands of women for showing a wisp of hair, and those who do not mend their ways are beaten and arrested over and over and over again until they submit to Islamic standards of dress. In some parts of the world they throw acid in your face, in a few places right now (Mosul comes to mind) they just shoot you like a dog in the street . . . and the Islamic justifications are RIGHT THERE, in the "holy" books: "beatings" for disobedience; "lashings" for female sexual impropriety; and "death" for apostasy - of which refusal to wear a hijab is a sure sign. Pedophile priests and asset protection schemes sure are despicable, but in the constellation of abuses that are sanctioned and practiced by sovereign countries under the banner of Islam today, they barely register . . .and I can assure you there are abuses of that nature and worse going on right now in many Madrassas that will NEVER see the right of day - not to mention the time honoured custom of child marriage, sanctioned under Shariah by the despicable example of Mohammad, in which 9 and 10 years old girls are being pawned off RIGHT NOW, TODAY, LEGALLY, for child rape across the islamic world. (I'd show a clip, but I'm scared my comment will disappear like the last one. If you need an instructive example, search "Camille Sadat," the daughter of Anwar Sadat - by no means an uneducated peasant - for a description of her Islamic marriage at the age of TWELVE).

Scott in PA
December 12, 2007 8:00 PM

Do you see any equation at all between Paul Hill's killing of an abortion doctor in the name of Christ...

Can you appreciate different rates in incidence? By several orders of magnatude?

A Sunday Telegraph investigation has established that honour killings are increasing rapidly in Britain. Home Office statistics suggest that there are 12 such murders each year. However, according to research, the true figure is much higher. At a conference in Southampton last week, police chiefs revealed that they are re-examining 2,000 deaths and-murders between 1996 and 2006 to establish whether they involve honour killings. So far, 19 have now been found to be honour killings. A further 20 involved some element of "honour violence".

http://www. telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2007/06/17/nhonour117.xml

"Honour violence". Has a nice ring to it. The things Muslims bring to our multicultural West.


mary margaret
December 12, 2007 8:09 PM

Wow, ds0490, you just willfully misunderstand, don't you? I hesitate to speak for Erin, but I would consider Paul Hill to be a murderer, as is the father of this poor girl.

Took me a bit to get back to this thread, so I'll make just a few comments here. First, thanks to the Orthodox who have commented and said just exactly what I, as a Catholic would say. God judges--we pray that all souls will be led to heaven. Now, to the "raised Catholic" folk who were told that everyone who was not clearly in the RCC were doomed to hellfire and damnation; I'm very sorry that this was taught to you. Those sisters, or whoever, were wrong. I hope that the injury that they did to you was unintended, but they simply did not know the teaching of the Church. I grew up in what sounds like the same time period, and never, ever was I told such a foolish thing. Hey, my brother asked a Bishop about those people who lived before Jesus, or in places where they had never even heard of Christianity, and the Bishop told him that they were to be judged by God, according to their situation. He assured my brother that God cannot, and would not be unjust. (This was probably around 1959--in other words, before VII.)

I also do not think that all Muslims are terrorists/murderers, or even potential terrorists/murderers. I do think that the religion itself seems to place a higher value on submission, than on love, but that's just me. I could be wrong, and would be pleased to learn that I am.

Once again, may God let eternal light shine upon her, and give her peace.

Mont D. Law
December 12, 2007 8:15 PM

This man killed this girl for the same reason men always kill women, because she belonged to him and she wouldn't comply.

Religion is not the place to look for the reasons for this type of crime.

Lynn
December 12, 2007 8:19 PM

"This man killed this girl for the same reason men always kill women, because she belonged to him and she wouldn't comply.

Religion is not the place to look for the reasons for this type of crime."

_______________


It's part of the answer, but if you're a woman living in an islamic country, governed by Islamic law, what that law actually SAYS has profound, real world consequences. . . .


Chris
December 12, 2007 8:23 PM

Since a Jewish man had been attacked, and a Muslim man was present, the police naturally assumed that the Muslim had attacked the Jew.

Such is the nature of prejudice...it often clouds one's view of the facts.

ds, even your reading comprehension is warped. He was thought to be among all of the other attackers. There wasn't some sort of profiling going on. Or did the police somehow know the man was Muslim right from the beginning?

harvey lacey
December 12, 2007 8:57 PM

It's part of the answer, but if you're a woman living in an islamic country, governed by Islamic law, what that law actually SAYS has profound, real world consequences. . . . Posted by: Lynn

Tell me about it Lynn, we have a gay son living in a Christian country, we can feel your pain.

Victor Morton
December 12, 2007 9:03 PM

I reacted to Sigaliris:

If I thought Christian gentlemen stood shoulder to shoulder with me in in making women's welfare a priority ... [but I don't]"

Sig complained about my calling this an example of "a woman too wrapped in the domestic kulturkampf and/or too convinced of her worst-motive imputations about Christian men (not to speak of Christian women, who are often more antiabortion than Christian men)," responding with:

And who mentioned abortion? It wasn't me. Aren't you the guy who just recently expressed exasperation that posters failed to respond to what was actually said, while substituting easily refuted straw men of their own making? That guy was so smart.

I still remember this thread here.

In that virtually identical context -- "the enemy of my enemy is not necessarily my friend" makes an appearance in both -- you made a virtually identical point. That, to use your lingo there, that the differences between Christianity and Islam on women are "quantity not quality." (From posted by: sigaliris | November 16, 2007 11:33 AM) And in another post there (Posted by: sigaliris | November 16, 2007 2:43 PM), you said "As long as Christian men don't consider us fully and completely equal and equally entitled to control our own lives and bodies," they are like kind slave owners rationalizing slavery by their kindness.

If "control our own lives and bodies" was not a reference to abortion, to what did it refer (I wasn't aware that the religious right made much of a fuss over nipple-piercing or cosmetic surgery)? You can't not know that "control our bodies" is a frequent abortion-euphemism, right?

Let me ask you, then ... do you believe that Christian men who oppose abortion are only better in degree (i.e., not different in kind) from Muslim men who practice honor-killing? Do you believe that both descriptors (opposing abortion, honor-killing) are merely different riffs off the same melody ("don't consider us fully and completely equal")? And if the answer is yes to both (and think that is a perfectly reasonable inference from your postings in these two threads), what does that say about your opinion of Christian women.

Lynn
December 12, 2007 9:08 PM

It's part of the answer, but if you're a woman living in an islamic country, governed by Islamic law, what that law actually SAYS has profound, real world consequences. . . . Posted by: Lynn

Tell me about it Lynn, we have a gay son living in a Christian country, we can feel your pain.
______________

Oh Good Lord. Are you actually trying to draw an equivalency between Islamic shariah and the treatment of gays in America . . . ? At this point, that just makes me tired and sad.

Sheilagh
December 12, 2007 9:14 PM

Sorry I haven't had a chance to read all of the posts yet.

But I have to say my initial reaction to reading the links is "Thank God we already have groups like the Liberty Cousel and Jay Sekuluv (sp?) and the St.Thomas Moore Legal Center! However many times they get off base, at least they are out there to give a Christian legal POV.

Seems we're going to need them alot more in the coming days.

May the soul of this young woman rest in peace. And May God's love and light flood her family's hearts with wisdom and grace and convict their hearts that they may change their ways and be forgiven. Amen

Sheilagh
December 12, 2007 9:26 PM

Meanwhile, just today, a priest in Maine was removed pending investigation into charges of abuse.

This is terrible news! Once again, another church [S.R.O. in the summertime]with wonderful people - many of whom have young children and grandchildren who visit this parish by the ocean.

God bless all of the parishoners at St.Mary's and any families that may be dealing with tragic consequences. Keep them in your Sacred Heart this Christmas season.

And watch over all of the victims of priest abuse this Christmas. May God find them and heal them and call them back to the Truth.

Sheilagh
December 12, 2007 10:53 PM

Correction:
There is only one allegation at this point.

ds0490
December 12, 2007 11:22 PM

Sheilagh, there were two allegations made, but against different priests.

http://kennebecjournal.mainetoday.com/news/local/4546709.html

sigaliris
December 12, 2007 11:24 PM

LONG POST WARNING--but Victor Morton has asked some long questions.

Let me ask you, then ... do you believe that Christian men who oppose abortion are only better in degree (i.e., not different in kind) from Muslim men who practice honor-killing? Do you believe that both descriptors (opposing abortion, honor-killing) are merely different riffs off the same melody ("don't consider us fully and completely equal")? And if the answer is yes to both (and think that is a perfectly reasonable inference from your postings in these two threads), what does that say about your opinion of Christian women.

That depends on the man. Opposing abortion doesn’t make you an oppressor in itself. It just makes you a man with an opinion. It’s what you want to do about the opinion that marks your place on the spectrum. Some Christian men really are not different at heart from Muslims. And bear in mind that not every Muslim is an honor-killer. Some believe sincerely that woman were created to be subordinate to men, to serve men, and to have their lives guided by men. They wouldn’t beat their wives or daughters, but they would kindly yet inexorably make every major decision for them and make sure they never have any means to independence. It’s “for their own protection.” They back this up with domination and controls of various kinds short of physical abuse. I’ve certainly met Christian men who were just like that.

I’ve also met Christian men who took it a step further, who advocated a level of dominance over women that most people would consider sick. I knew a man who thought it was his right--indeed, his responsibility--to physically chastise his wife for disobedience. He tied her to a chair and spanked her for not following the schedule he laid out for her. Fortunately, he was dissuaded from this by fellow Christians, though I’m not entirely sure if that was because they really considered it wrong, or merely dangerous to their cause should the news get out. If you think there are no Christians who beat their wives and children and justify it by scripture . . . well, you’re living in a dream world.

There are also Christian men who are genuinely respectful of women, but within a certain kind of framework--which, like the Muslim structure, though not identically to it, prescribes a certain role for women, within which they are respected, and outside of which they are condemned. They consider women equal in the sense that they are equally souls in relation to God. However, they don’t consider women equal in their abilities or the roles they fill. Women are always defined as subsidiary to or subordinate to men, or otherwise in relation to men, whereas men are not so defined in relation to women. Men are the default value. Women are something else. Some of these men continue to treat women with respect even when they are out of their proper place. Others can be unexpectedly savage to women who fail to obey the rules. Sometimes it’s hard to know how they’re going to behave until you see them in that situation. I’d say most of the men who are church-going husbands at home but will rape women and use prostitutes when they’re at war would fall into this category, for instance.

And, of course, there are some Christian men who respect women and treat them as equal partners in every way. Not all of these men are liberal clones. Some of them don’t like abortion either. But they would be unlikely to deny a woman medical attention until her ectopic pregancy ruptured and started a lethal hemorrhage, as has been done to some pregnant women in Guatemala, for instance.

Christianity is at war within itself. I think equality, compassion, and freedom for women are winning. I hope they are. I think the degree of freedom women have in modern western culture is unprecedented in history--which is not at all the same thing as saying I think things are unequivocally wonderful here. They’re not. But, of course, it is far better to be a woman here than in any Muslim country. And nobody on this blog, to my knowledge, has said otherwise. I don’t see conservatives as having been in the forefront of any of these improvements, however. For the most part, they’ve struggled vigorously to prevent them.

What do I think of Christian women? News flash: I am a Christian woman. I think most of them are doing the best they can under sometimes difficult circumstances. I think many of them experience inner anger and pain, some of them experience real and severe abuse, and some of them are happy and at peace in relationships that work for them.

sigaliris
December 12, 2007 11:26 PM

Correction: I typed Guatemala above. I meant Nicaragua. Though it's poasible the same thing has happened in Guatemala.

Sheilagh
December 12, 2007 11:28 PM

Just spoke with a lawyer in the Diocese who explained that what they're doing by publishing the article is putting out a call to see if there are any additional victims. He said that given the nature of abusers, if there is only one allegation it is wise to reserve judgment on the alleged crime. If there is more than one allegation, chances are extremely good the party is guilty.

So in these cases, he says it's a wait and see. And pray for the parties involved.

geef
December 12, 2007 11:44 PM

Grand Ayatollah Fadlallah has come out against the use of any violence towards women.

http://archive.gulfnews.com/region/Lebanon/10171067.html

Chris
December 13, 2007 12:22 AM

Geef, he's always held that position. Of course it is a direct contradiction of what the Koran says. Who are most Muslims going to believe, the Koran or what one imam says?

Donny
December 13, 2007 12:36 AM

Violence and Islam go together like peanut butter and jelly. The history of Islamic violence stretches from Mohammad to two-seconds ago.

Corrina
December 13, 2007 6:22 AM

"Violence and Islam go together like peanut butter and jelly. The history of Islamic violence stretches from Mohammad to two-seconds ago."

The same thing can be said about Christianity.

abc
December 13, 2007 10:01 AM

violence and islam do NOTTTT GO TOGETHER... don't stereyotype or make ur own concusions

Hanifah
December 13, 2007 10:11 AM

Well I belive that there is a double standard. Whenever someone does a crime, they don't outcast them for their religion. Like on the news, they never say call them a "Christian". I just think it's pretty stupid and ignorant for people to think this way, by calling people out because of their religion. I can't belive a father would strangle his daughter over something like that either.

geef
December 13, 2007 10:19 AM

"Geef, he's always held that position. Of course it is a direct contradiction of what the Koran says. Who are most Muslims going to believe, the Koran or what one imam says?"


A grand ayatollah is a very high figure to the shiites who's rulings are binding.

I don't understand how you can show some people positive reports and all they do is look for a negative. Someone posted a quote about violence in the old testament and the response was that traditional christian teachings have put the old testament under a new perspective. I accept this explanation. But now we have one of the highest religious authority figure in islam trying to re-interpret a verse from the koran and all some people can do is say he's wrong.

A billion plus muslims are never going to suddenly drop their faith and convert to christianity. If you think islam is evil than that's a pretty sad view of humanity.

Lynn
December 13, 2007 11:11 AM

Geef:

This Ayatollah is a reformer, and we all wish him well (may his tribe increase.) But there is a normative view and a common understanding in Islam regarding wife beating that is expressed in the legal codes and practices of islamic countries (and all 4 schools of Islamic thought) -and that is that females may be beaten on fear of disobedience (As expressed in Q4:34 which is, by definition, the immutable word of God). Simply focusing on the reformer while ignoring the reality is not honest and does not do justice to the underlaying problem.

Chris
December 13, 2007 11:32 AM

Someone posted a quote about violence in the old testament and the response was that traditional christian teachings have put the old testament under a new perspective. I accept this explanation. But now we have one of the highest religious authority figure in islam trying to re-interpret a verse from the koran and all some people can do is say he's wrong.

Geef, all I know is that he says women shouldn't be beaten by their husbands. I don't know what his logic is to refute the Koranic verse that allows wife beating. Or how he explains away the Koranic verse that says the wife is the field of the husband and he can plow when he wants (i.e. the wife is his sexual property). Or how does he handle that Muslim men can take non-Muslim women as slaves and use them for sex. Anyone can announce that something is wrong but it's important to know how he explains these verses in a better light.

For instance, let's say I declare that the Bible says the man isn't the head of the household. Someone is going to point out the several verses where I am wrong. You may agree with me, but that doesn't make me right in the context of what Christianity says. The people pointing out how the OT does or does not apply to the NT has been something discussed by Christians for centuries and there is fairly broad agreement. It's the same for Islam on how certain verses are addressed. And wife beating, based on certain criteria, has been allowed in Islam for centuries. So, if someone suddenly says it doesn't, don't expect me to cheer from the mountaintop unless there is some persuasive proof.

If you think islam is evil than that's a pretty sad view of humanity.

I do think Islam is evil. It was founded on blood and violence. That doesn't mean there aren't some good points to it or that there aren't good Muslims. However, there were good points to Communism, Fascism, and the French Revolution, but that doesn't mean that on the whole the ideologies involved were not evil.

Jim
December 13, 2007 4:26 PM

Chris, ummmmm, some would say Islam was founded as a result of the appearance of an angel to the prophet Muhammed. When you say it was founded on blood and violence, what event in history are you pointing to?

Chris
December 13, 2007 4:46 PM

Your statement implies that one act results in the foundation of a religion. That's like saying Christianity was founded at the birth of Christ and then ignoring his ministry, death, burial, and resurrection. Islam is founded on Quran (for a Muslim the direct word of Allah), Sura (sayings of Mohammed), and Hadith (life of Mohammed). Look at all of those and you'll see a violent and perverse religion when taken as a whole.

harvey lacey
December 14, 2007 7:50 AM

Islam is founded on Quran (for a Muslim the direct word of Allah), Sura (sayings of Mohammed), and Hadith (life of Mohammed). Look at all of those and you'll see a violent and perverse religion when taken as a whole. Posted by: Chris

And Christianity has nothing to do with the old Testament?

If you can isolate Christianity from the OT then I guess you can claim a pure faith in a perverted kind of way. Sending others to Hell as defined by Christ just because they don't bow down and declare One God and ask for forgiveness is sick. That's a death sentence on steroids for a slight. Sick, sick, sick.

Adding the OT to Christianity takes it from sick to terminal dementia. What kind of God would slaughter first born males to punish their parents? Maybe a better question would be: What kind of sick individual would define this kind of God as "loving"?

Rob G.
December 14, 2007 12:36 PM

Harvey, day after day, month after month, you display your profound ignorance of what Christianity's about and what it believes. I recommend that you do some reading and study on what traditional Christianity actually teaches.

I know virtually nothing about Hinduism, consequently I don't comment on it. Maybe you should follow suit about Christianity, at least until you're somewhat informed on the issue.

harvey lacey
December 14, 2007 6:03 PM

Okay Rob, show me where I'm wrong.

Didn't God slaughter first born sons to punish their parents?

How do you feel about that?

Isn't Jesus' position on whether you spend enternity in a non-consuming fire or in a mansion He's prepared for you based upon your confessing He is the Son of God?

How do you feel about that?

Chris
December 14, 2007 8:10 PM

Harvey, since you are an atheist, why should we care about your view on morality? It is only based on your subjective reason. How do you feel about that?

Or, since as an atheist, you probably are a materialist in the sense that material is all that exists and assuming it is governed by consistent laws, and you are made of material, you have no free will. How do you
feel about that?

You explain to me your reasonably consistent worldview that isn't based on fantasy like atheism and we can talk. Otherwise you are trapped in a logically inconsistent belief system and there is no reason to discuss anything. Because if your view is correct, then nothing matters and why should any of us care what anyone thinks? Actually, if you are right, we have no free will at all.

Anyways, as Rob G. pointed out, get beyond the Skeptics Bible and we might be able to talk.

harvey lacey
December 14, 2007 9:16 PM

Let me try this one more time, just for Chris and Rob.

Didn't God slaughter first born sons to punish their parents?

How do you feel about that?

Isn't Jesus' position on whether you spend enternity in a non-consuming fire or in a mansion He's prepared for you based upon your confessing He is the Son of God?

How do you feel about that?

The questions are based upon the tenets of Christianity, Moses and the Jews getting their freedom from the Egytpians, and Jesus' explanations about why human beings should become Christians.

They have nothing to do with my atheism. However, I think Rob and Chris need to think about something that might mean something to them as Christians. That something is people sometimes find these discussions because they're searching for answers in their own lives.

There are kazillions of people searching the internet. What if one of those people find this discussion and find my questions intriguing? What might be even more intriguing to them is the lack of a Christian answer.

After all, surely a Christian wouldn't serve a God that slaughtered children for the sins of their parents, or do they?

One of the great dichotomies of Christianity is the most Christian of acts are unChristlike.

Think Sister Teresa, she accepted people as they were and loved them all the same. If she'd been Christlike she'd have turned on them like Jesus did when they denied Him what He felt was His due.

Rob and Chris would much rather discuss my atheism than their Christianity, interesting, no?


sigaliris
December 14, 2007 9:39 PM

harvey, I'd love to discuss this with you, but I don't want to derail the challenge to Rob and Chris, because I'd really like to hear their answers, too. However, just FYI, I went and googled "Jesus Hell"--which I thought was a very amusing search term. I found all kinds of extremely scary and offensive material. This, for instance, by the Rev. J. Furniss, which is thought to have been one inspiration for the Hell sermon segment of Portrait of the Artist As a Young Dog. (I honestly hesitate to quote it, because it is so gruesome and horrible. So, spoiler alert--do not read if you have tender sensibilities.)

See on the middle of that red-hot floor stands a girl: she looks about sixteen years old. Her feet are bare. Listen; she speaks. “I have been standing on this red-hot floor for years! Look at my burnt and bleeding feet! Let me go off this burning floor for one moment!” The fifth dungeon is the red-hot oven. The little child is in the red-hot oven. Hear how it screams to come out; see how it turns and twists itself about in the fire. It beats its head against the roof of the oven. It stamps its little feet on the floor. God was very good to this little child. Very likely God saw it would get worse and worse, and would never repent, and so it would have to be punished more severely in hell. So God in His mercy called it out of the world in early childhood.

This strikes me as obscene. Really. The stuff of nightmares in the name of a merciful God. What could Muslim writings contain that would be a lot worse?

However, I also found the following interesting website by one Samuel Dawson.
http://www.tentmaker.org/articles/jesusteachingonhell.html

He argues that when Jesus is made to speak of "Hell," this is a mistranslation and that's not at all what he had in mind. A quote:

False theories of eternal punishment of the wicked have done unfathomable damage in the religious realm. Untold millions of people have obeyed God purely out of fear of a false concept of hell. Other untold millions have turned their backs on God because of a false sense of hell, as described by Roman Catholic sources, and their followers in most denominations.

I can certainly say Amen to that, whether Dawson's exegesis turns out to be correct or not.

harvey lacey
December 15, 2007 8:47 AM

Morning Sig, it is an interesting discussion we got going here.

The topic defines two things in my mind. One of course is it defines Christianity. It is a multi-splintered faith because there are so many different people adhering to it for so many different reasons. The God is loving and understanding individual reads the scriptures and finds support for their position. The person who isn't quite so loving and understanding of others finds the divine design that assures them man was created evil and has to earn salvation.

It also supports the atheist like myself who looks at the faithfull and sees Gods instead of God because each individual's identification of God reflects their needs and wants. It confirms the man created God instead of the vice versa premise.

We can look at Rob and Chris and see their reluctance to acknowledge scriptural evidence of a very mean spirited God, self defined as a jealous God, as perfectly understandable. That's because they can't define what God means to them as individuals in their lives on any topic without using scriptural tags they can quote and not explain.

They're not alone of course. I haven't found a Christian yet who can sit down and explain their personal faith without drifting into the perfectly acceptable unexplainable. Paul defined the perfectly acceptable unexplainable as faith, substance of things hoped for, evidence of things not seen.

Having faith is what we do. Even atheists have faith. We believe too. And just like everyone else, Christians included, our faith is individual, it's about us more than it is anyone else.

What is difficult is to accept is another's faith as the only only acceptable faith on faith. That's our humanity speaking. We question.

KLBA1
December 20, 2007 11:24 AM

OK let me get this straight. Because of "flaws" in the main texts of Judaism and Christianity, it's wrong to say that it's wrong for a Muslim to slay his daughter because he feels he is obeying an equally "flawed" Muslim text?

Your Name
March 9, 2009 9:19 AM

Its wrong for a muslim father to kill his daughter !! murder is not allowed in islam and whoever murders another person is concedered to be dead in islam. yet alot of humans make mistakes becuase we are simply not angels or flawless so MAY GOD GUID US ALL

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