After today's Dallas Morning News update, I feel comfortable calling the double murder of Amina and Sarah Said, allegedly by their father (who is still on the run from police), an honor killing (if, of course, their father was the murderer). Excerpt:
Islam Said has previously disputed widespread rumors and media reports that his Muslim father's religion may have been the reason for the killings. Some have speculated that the deaths may have been "honor killings," a practice in which a man kills a female relative who he believes has somehow shamed the family.Irving police have said that they are exploring all possible motives for the slayings. Police have acknowledged that the family had some previous domestic problems.
Gail Gartrell, the sisters' great-aunt, said Saturday that Mr. Said had physically abused the two girls for years. Around Christmas, the girls' mother – Ms. Gartrell's niece – had fled because of Mr. Said's threats to kill the girls after he learned they had boyfriends, she said.
"She ran with them because she knew he would carry out the threat," Ms. Gartrell said. "This was an honor killing."
The girls had a Christian service (weirdly, a Baptist service conducted by a Catholic priest, according to the story), and then a Muslim service at a mosque:
The short Muslim service was at a gold-domed mosque in Richardson in a cavernous gym, with prayers piped across loudspeakers. The closed caskets were at the far side of the gym, end to end.Dozens of Muslim men lined up in front of the girls' caskets. About 20 feet behind them were women in hajibs. An imam then led a Muslim prayer.
Dr. Yusuf Kavacki, head of the Richardson mosque, alternating between English and Arabic, told mourners that all living things are destined to die. Another imam talked about families being the most important thing in Islam and the need for parents to work to keep their families strong.
OK, maybe they didn't mention honor killing because they didn't want to make a judgment on the father, who hasn't been charged. But for pity's sake, the reason why Muslim fathers who commit honor killings murder their daughters is because they believe they are keeping their families strong, by punishing daughters who violate the social code! As I've said here, a member of Kavakci's mosque told me and two other DMN editors over lunch that what we in the West consider to be unacceptable violence is considered by Muslims like him to be defending the family.
When police finally capture Yaser Abdel Said, the girls' father, it will be very, very interesting to learn who, if anybody, was helping shelter Said ... and why.

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I'd be very surprised to find that Said is even in the country.
So it's legal to marry at 15 in Tarrant County? Oy.
At least three Mannings in one thread ... evidence of the advanced state of pre-Dhimmitude.
Him being Muslim has nothing to do with it. I wouldn't kill my kids no matter what they do and I am Muslim. There are many men and women in this world that kill each other, their wives, or their kids. Why is it every time it is a Muslim. Lets bring the religion in it. But every time it is a Christian or Jew, or Hindu lets not.
I think the problem with this is that the man was abusive towards his children period.
I do not know who you have been talking too but in Islam this is completely and utterly wrong. Only uneducated Muslims would ever think this is acceptable. Actually only despicable people would ever harm or kill another human being. Being a certain religion has nothing to do with it.
Also one more thing with the posts. Why is it that people always have an opinion about something they know nothing of.
My point is that in Islam (TRUE ISLAM) not someone pretending or acting in their own selfish needs that happen to be Muslim.
Women are revered and treated equally towards men in every way. I have not seen a post yet that actually portrays Islam in the true way. I just think that most people like to stay ignorant then to talk to a Muslim who actually might change your view point.
It is normal in human nature to try to stay in your own comfort zone. Stepping out of this comfort zone is too hard on some people. Basically what I am saying is that if a person is against Islam or against what they believe is true about Islam, they will never listen to another who KNOWS about Islam. I wish people would learn to be more open minded and stop being so hateful to your fellow humans.
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