Crunchy Con

Close calls

Monday February 18, 2008

Categories: Varia

Julie was driving home from a birthday party with Lucas on Saturday, when she phoned me from the car. She said she'd just been motoring south on the expressway when she heard the screech of brakes behind her. When she glanced into the rearview mirror, she saw a truck spinning across the lanes, and several cars crashing. She punched the accelerator in case any cars spun her way, and exited quickly. A very close call.

I spoke to my father this past weekend, who reported on an extremely close call having to do with a tornado that passed through the other night. A twister was spotted on radar in Pointe Coupee parish, headed across the river to West Feliciana, where my folks live. The twister passed through the yard of their neighbor across the blacktop road, uprooting a pecan tree. It apparently lifted at just the moment when it came into my mom and dad's yard, but was close enough to the ground to destroy the crown of one of their ancient pecans. Then, judging by the evidence of limbs left on the ground, it passed in the next instant over my sister's house next door. She and her girls were sleeping soundly inside, and never knew that hovering briefly over their house was a tornado that, for whatever reason, had raised itself off the ground a moment before it arrived.

That's not the only spectacular close call my sister has had in her life. When she and her husband first married, he did shift work at a paper mill, which meant that she was sometimes at home alone at night. It so happened that a peeping tom appeared in the semi-secluded area in which they then lived, before they built their house near our parents' place. She'd call the police, but they never could catch the guy. She knows how to use a gun, and kept a loaded pistol near to hand when her husband was at work.

One night, when she was home alone, there was a knock at the door, very late. She refused to answer it, but got her gun ready. The knock came again, and a third time. I believe she'd called the cops by then, or perhaps my dad, who lived not far away. Anyway, by the time someone got there, the night visitor had departed. He never came back.

Well, years passed, and it happened that one of her high school classmates was arrested, charged and convicted as a serial killer. Derrick Todd Lee is now on Louisiana's death row for murdering seven women. It came out that Lee, who lived about two miles away, had a long history as a peeping tom, including multiple arrests. It was almost certainly him that night at her door. My sister said that Derrick was such a nice guy in school that if he had come to her door during the daylight, she would have let him in.

Can you imagine that? Can you imagine learning in retrospect that a man who would go on to murder seven women was almost certainly knocking at your door one night, when you were at home alone? Police believe Lee's murder spree began at least as far back as 1992. This was around the time that my sister got her late-night knock at the door. Why didn't he force his way in? Why didn't he come back after that night? I don't suppose we'll ever know.

I suspect if any of us ever really knew how close death has passed close by at some point or another, we would find it hard to leave the house the next morning.

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Comments
Larry Parker
February 19, 2008 1:10 PM

We are closer theologically (in the big picture, if not the minutiae) than I might have thought, Rod.

Maclin Horton
February 19, 2008 5:11 PM

Thanks, Kristen M, that did a lot to erase the distaste for Keillor that I've developed over the past ten years or so in response to his rather bitter political tirades.

I think Rod's response to Harvey re theodicy is very good. But there is a variant of Harvey's assertion ("...where no person should go...") that seems correct: don't try to puzzle out why a specific thing happened. I can think of a number of moderate-to-severe catastrophes, with results ranging from broken bones to the death of a completely innocent person, that happened as a result either of some seemingly inconsequential and unconnected action, or at worst a moment of inattention. They're the inverse of incidents like the one Richard Barrett describes above: the couple does sit down to fold the clothes, and the limb does fall on them. Or of the one Harvey describes.

Why the victims in those scenarios were chosen truly is a puzzle that will only make you crazy if you persist in trying to solve it.

Cleveland
February 19, 2008 7:28 PM

"Should I obtain a carry permit and a handgun? Will I someday be in a time and place in which I could save lives if I were armed?" dono

That depends on your makeup. Two types of people should not. The first is the type of person who would rather stand by and see his family raped and/or murdered for the sake of not personally contributing to violence. That's the type who not only turns his own other cheek (which is fine), but turns the other cheeks of his loved ones, too.

Personally, I've seen too much horror and pain in my life to standby and allow more of it if I could prevent it. Therefore, I've had a concealed carry permit since they first became available. Unless you live in one of the unconstitutional Democrat gulags, like occupied D.C., you have a right to have a gun handy at night in the bedroom. And remember, you are not murdering a person committed to mayhem--he is forfeiting his own life. Jesus didn't say to turn the other cheeks of your loved ones; to be like the bad shepherd who turns and runs away when the wolf comes. He told his followers to carry swords, obviously not to live by them but for their own self defense.

The second type of person who should not have a gun is the type who doesn't know how and/or is to afraid to use one properly. That type is apt to harm himself or do something stupid like leave a weapon accessible to a youngster.

TPSoCal
February 20, 2008 12:03 AM

I just had a major close call yesterday. I was driving from Dallas, TX to Atlanta, GA along I-20. I was just east of Birmingham, AL when an L shaped piece of metal fell off a pre-fab home and flew toward my car. The thing was headed straight for my windshield and my head. I swerved enough that the metal hit my hood and bounced over my roof. Because of traffic and construction, I could not pull over immediately. I went to the next rest stop and surveyed the hood. That piece of metal managed to punch a hole straight through the trunk about 2 feet from the driver's side of the windshield. I took it to a body shop and the whole hood has to be replaced. It was a very close call, if that had hit my windshield and/or head, I would have been with Jesus today.

TPSoCal
February 20, 2008 12:05 AM

It punched a hole in the hood, not trunk.

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Rod Dreher is an editorial columnist for the Dallas Morning News, and author of "Crunchy Cons" (Crown Forum), a nonfiction book about conservatives, most of them religious, whose faith and political convictions sometimes put them at odds with mainstream conservatives. The views expressed in this blog are his own.

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