Here's a weird thing that happened to me this morning. When I woke up, the phrase, "Ecrasez l'infame!" was in my mind. I speak a little French, but I don't know the verb ecraser, so I didn't know what the...
I do something similar, Rod, but I don't think it's time related. I fly. Not very far, mind you, just short distances, like across the kitchen. Do you do that as well? What does this phenomenon, if real, suggest about the nature of space-time?
aaron
March 11, 2008 10:28 AM
Trivial eh? How about coughing up all those combinations of numbers that won't win the lotto...
treebeard
March 11, 2008 10:29 AM
Rod, do you know that this phrase is usually considered to be Voltaire's rejection of Christianity (or at least the Church as he knew it in France)? That may be how you became familiar with it. I can't account for the coincidence though.
Connie
March 11, 2008 10:34 AM
I think someone used Voltaire's entire phrase in your comboxes here yesterday, or at least someplace I read comments, because I looked it up yesterday myself. You saw it and your subconscious retained it to dream about.
Connie
March 11, 2008 10:35 AM
The only blogs I read comments on yesterday were yours and Volokh. MAYBE the phrase was in the NYTimes, but it was definitely around yesterday, because it's in my babelfish history.
Maclin Horton
March 11, 2008 10:57 AM
This sort of thing happens outside of dreams to me pretty frequently, and I think to most people. You encounter a word or something that you've never heard of before, and within a day you run across it again. Sort of thing you don't really draw any conclusion from, but is just odd. I posted something about this phenomenon on my blog a while back, saying more or less "hmmm....". Some discussion ensued, ending in "hmmm....".
Jake
March 11, 2008 11:02 AM
In high school (in the early nineties) I had a recurring dream of standing in front of my parents house, everything covered in gray dust, and I was the only person left in the neighborhood. I was an anxiety-fileld child, so nuclear war, I wondered? It didn't make sense until I returned to my parents' neighborhood--in New Orleans--in October 2005. I was the only person around for blocks, maybe miles, and everything was still covered in dried gray mud and marsh grass from the storm. Other similar coincidences have occurred as well, but that's the most memorable. If only I could use this power for good!
Nonimos
March 11, 2008 11:21 AM
Rod, this kind of thing happens to me all the time - same trival nonsense. I think it probably just comes with having a somewhat intuitive personality, and being a writer you're picking up things out of the ether. Carl Jung referred to it as synchronicity, and while it can't be dismissed as mere coincidence, I don't find it as spooky as I used to. It's the same on a more profound level when two writers are working simultaneously on the same (besides a few minor details) novel or screenplay without knowing it. Ask any Hollywood ink-stained wretch; it happens so often they take it for granted. My favorite example happened when I used to intern in a TV newsroom in college. I'd had a dream occur several times about an AP dateline: COZUMEL (AP) - "Man Lost at Sea" - It was just like that, word for word. So this went on for about two weeks, and then one morning I logged on to AP wire, and there was a story with pretty much that dateline and topic, about a man who'd fallen off a jet ski and survived out in the Gulf of Mexico just off Cozumel for several days. Anyway, he survived, but my dream didn't do the poor sap any good.
Major Wootton
March 11, 2008 11:23 AM
On the topic of your question about dreams and time, you might look at J. W. Dunne's Am Experiment with Time. I've read only some of it so far and am not endorsing its conclusions, but for what it's worth, it is a book that quite interested C. S. Lewis and J. R. R. Tolkien. For documentation of their interest, see the memoir collection We Remember C. S. Lewis (ed. David Graham) and Verlyn Flieger's study of Tolkien, A Question of Time. I believe Dunne is mentioned in Lewis's That Hideous Strength, where the character Jane Studdock has "psychic" dreams.
Salamander
March 11, 2008 11:39 AM
This happens frequently to me. Been happening ever since childhood. And it is almost always some sort of trivial thing, like I'll dream I'm slicing onions while talking to someone, and then a day or two later I find myself having the exact conversation with that person while slicing onions...
It seems to be a fairly useless form of what my grandma called "second
Sight."
The only non-trivial times I've had a flash of the Sight both had to do with deaths. When my dad told me he had been diagnosed with cancer, I immediately knew he'd be dead in two years, which turned out to be right. Then a few years later, a friend of my in-laws was diagnosed with cancer. He had been fretting a good deal about Y2K (this was early in 1999) and the imminent collapse of civilization. I remember as soon as he told me he had a very treatable form of cancer, I *knew* he would die before Dec. 31, 1999. And he did, he passed away in early December.
I sure hope I'm not able to foretell my own death, as I would just as soon not know!
Marty
March 11, 2008 11:42 AM
Well, the only thing like this that happens to me is that ever since I was a little girl (I'm 54 now!), from time to time I have a recurring dream that a tornado is bearing down on my house and I am trying to get my family into the basement and things are going so slow while the tornado bears down on us. When I was younger, it was me and my parents and sisters in the dream, now it's husband and kids, and always the house I am living in at the time. I live in Virginia and tornadoes are pretty rare here. I attribute this dream to 2 things: even though tornadoes are rare here, we did have one when I was in 6th grade and I was on the school bus at the time and it got so black we couldn't see and the bus had to stop because of the wind. Then we found a tree blocking the road, when we got home found that tornado had ripped part of porch roof off and knocked down chimney. Also, when I was a kid, The Wizard of Oz was on the TV every freaking spring and I watched it at least a dozen times.
My husband, however, had occasionaly had precognitive dreams. He dreamed about someone shooting Reagan 2 months before it happened and about the space shuttle Challenger blowing up. This scared the crap out of him and he asked God to take this "gift" away and he hasn't had anymore precognitive dreams, not lately anyway.
Rod Dreher
March 11, 2008 11:57 AM
This is all very interesting to me. I should mention that my mother seems to have the same thing happen to her. She and I both tend to have ... well, I wouldn't call it a "gift," exactly, but at least more of an openness to this sort of thing. Totally unsought, I hasten to say; it's just that we tend to dream things, or be more intuitive to spiritual stuff. I don't know why.
Rod: I had a vague recollection that the phrase has historical or literary reference.
So you had seen it before somewhere, by your own admission (possibly even in these comboxes yesterday, as someone pointed out above). So you happen to dream it, and then you see it somewhere the next morning. That seems more like a run-of-the-mill co-incidence, than a premonition about the future.
jaybird
March 11, 2008 12:12 PM
Then again, maybe there's more to it:
"A lot o' people don't realize what's really going on. They view life as a bunch o' unconnected incidents 'n things. They don't realize that there's this, like, lattice o' coincidence that lays on top o' everything. Give you an example; show you what I mean: suppose you're thinkin' about a plate o' shrimp. Suddenly someone'll say, like, plate, or shrimp, or plate o' shrimp out of the blue, no explanation. No point in lookin' for one, either. It's all part of a cosmic unconsciousness."
I have this feeling that I was here before...only this computer and desk were not here, neither were these walls....and there was sand as far as the eye could see....
fdr
March 11, 2008 12:26 PM
BTW,
I'll have a song in my head for no known reason, then I'll go and start my car, and there it is playing on the radio.
Mike
March 11, 2008 12:29 PM
Mine was even more trivial, but just as odd. I woke up with an image of an apple, ham and cheese sandwich in my head. I had never heard of such a thing and thought I had perhaps invented something new. Later that day, we went to a restaurant for lunch to celebrate a coworker leaving our company.
On the menu, there was a "Vermont Sandwich," which was *gasp* an apple, ham, and cheese sandwich. Even weirder was that our departing coworker was from Vermont. I actually ordered something else, though.
Richard Barrett
March 11, 2008 12:36 PM
fdr: Years and years ago I read that the radio phenomenon is not altogether uncommon, and can sometimes be attributed to any metal you might have in your head (dental work, for example) acting as a receiver. Maybe that's actually urban legend, but it was something I read in a "Amazing Things You Never Knew!" kind of book.
Richard
Rod Dreher
March 11, 2008 12:38 PM
OK, here's something weird. I've been having trouble sleeping these past few nights, with non-specific anxiety dreams keeping me awake. My mother and I both have what I suppose is a very mild sort of "gift" for being open to the numinous. Completely unsought, I should say; it's just that we both manage to intuit things, and "know" things spiritually, and on rare occasions have experiences I can only call mystical. Nothing really dramatic; it's just something we've noticed.
After that odd synchronicity this morning, I thought to call my mom to see if she'd had any weird dreams. When I got her on the phone this morning, she blurted out that she'd had a terrible nightmare last night, that involved me being in a city, and in danger. She couldn't remember details, but she said it was so anxiety-producing it woke her up, and the dream continued when she went back to sleep. She said it ended with me being okay, but the dream really rattled her.
Ugh.
Eric W
March 11, 2008 12:56 PM
Our older daughter used to have such experiences. She'd be somewhere and/or doing something, and realize that she had "seen" it before. Now, maybe it was a brain trick, but it happened enough times over the years that it really freaked her out, and she prayed that it would stop, and as far as I know, it did.
I should ask her about it.
jaybird
March 11, 2008 12:56 PM
When I got her on the phone this morning, she blurted out that she'd had a terrible nightmare last night, that involved me being in a city, and in danger. She couldn't remember details, but she said it was so anxiety-producing it woke her up, and the dream continued when she went back to sleep. She said it ended with me being okay, but the dream really rattled her.
I assume she's aware you lived in New York about 7 years ago, right...?
Roland de Chanson
March 11, 2008 12:59 PM
Mon Dieu! If you are channeling M. Arouet, you will have to rename this site unbeliefnet.com!
But seriously, among the lovable old deist's oeuvre is the play Mahomet, ou le Fanatisme. Of course today this would be sacrilegious to the Peaceful Religionists and the politically dhimmified, while écrasez l'infâme (crush the infamous thing) would be applauded in the most stentorian tones. He was a precursor of so-called "intelligent design":
L’univers m’embarrasse, et je ne puis songer
Que cette horloge existe et n’ait point d’horloger.
But he would never have propounded that philosophical postulate as science.
He declared shortly his death: "Je meurs en adorant Dieu, en aimant mes amis, en ne haïssant pas mes ennemis, en détestant la superstition (I die worshiping God, loving my friends, not hating my enemies, detesting superstition."
A Jeffersonian avant la lettre.
Roland de Chanson
March 11, 2008 1:03 PM
Oops - forgot the translation of the verse:
The universe confounds me and I can't imagine
that this clockworks exists and has no clockmaker.
Scott Lahti
March 11, 2008 1:17 PM
Since college over a quarter-century ago, I've been struck when checking the time on my digital watches by their registering 59 seconds flipping to the 00 of the next minute, far more than the 1/60 proportion dictated by the law of averages - closer to 60-80+ percent of the time; often I'd wait a few seconds after the time-check urge hit just to further randomise things, and there was good ol' 59 seconds waiting for me like a wagging dog by the school bus...
Perhaps because over the years my reading usually finds itself with TV or radio background, I've had hundreds of episodes of seeing an uncommon word or proper name in print, at the very second an announcer, fictional character, or interview subject used it on a broadcast or cablecast...
In my high school (Wilton, CT) senior year, 1979-1980, Mrs. Martin had our Shakespeare class memorise for individual teacher's-lounge recital Hamlet's immortal "To be, or not to be" soliloquy, all thirty-some lines. I have over the almost three decades since recited it hundreds of times for fun, and so should not have been startled when, in wayward channel-flipping during the overnight just passed, I landed on the Turner Classic Movies showing of Larry Olivier's 1948 Hamlet: two seconds or so of silence preceded, you guessed it, "To be, or not..."
And the flying dreams mentioned above by Ted are with me proverbial - I've had the pleasure over the decades of everything from (being a bit-food-obsessed) simple foot-high swoops down a grocery aisle, to make-my-body-lighter-or-heavier fine-tuned ascensions outdoors that
ended up saving me drives or plane fares from, say, Virginia to Michigan. Lately, my turns toward the airborne-nocturnal have even turned self-referential as though serialised: "I *know* now that all those *earlier* flying episodes were just me dreaming - but this time it really *is* happening in real life! Wait till Mom sees me!"
Eric W
March 11, 2008 1:27 PM
Not the same thing, but I was at a meeting in the early 1990s in which the late Karla Turner spoke (at City Place).
She was a former UNT English professor who had experienced alien abduction (or whatever the phenomenon is), and had become somewhat of an authority and/or known researcher on the subject.
At this meeting, she or someone during the Q&A session mentioned or asked something about the digital clock flashing "11:11" and/or regularly waking up at "11:11." When the person said this, several of the people in the audience (who I assume were also "abductees") became visibly shaken, because they all had experienced it. It was totally unplanned and very eerie to me.
rombald
March 11, 2008 1:44 PM
"The universe confounds me and I can't imagine
that this clockworks exists and has no clockmaker."
That puts me in mind of Dawkins' "Blind Watchmaker". Interestingly, I came across the expression "Mecanique Aveugle" in one of the other philosphes, earlier than Voltaire - Diderot, if I remember rightly. RD's just not that original!
Kevin Divine
March 11, 2008 2:26 PM
I've had them since childhood, too. Like Rod, nothing massively important, just mundane stuff. Or really weird. When I was a kid, there was a lady who worked the sign in desk at the YMCA, handing out towels and stuff, and I had a dream about her one night in which she said, "I like my mustard on the bottom slice." Several years later, I got to work during their clean-up week in August and when we broke for lunch one day, I walked into the break room to hear this very lady tell a co-worker, "I like my mustard on the bottom slice." What It All Meant was beyond me, to say the least.
Derek Copold
March 11, 2008 2:30 PM
In fact, it happens to me with some frequency, and has since childhood.
This is how psychics build credibility. You remember the hits, but forget the misses.
What you have are coincidences. They stand out because of their unusualness. You haven't made a note of waking up with other things in your head and then having them disappear down your memory hole. I'd wager that they are far greater in number than the hits.
paagle
March 11, 2008 2:44 PM
I believe I've read that one of (perhaps "the") purpose of dreaming is sorting and storing information. In the process of sorting our brains compare memories for significance - potentially resulting in strange dreams. It is likely that our brains contain enough information to predict a high probability for some near-future event, but that our conscious minds haven't thought of it. This might be especially the case for trivial things, which we tend to not waste awake time on.
Rod Dreher
March 11, 2008 2:59 PM
What you have are coincidences. They stand out because of their unusualness. You haven't made a note of waking up with other things in your head and then having them disappear down your memory hole. I'd wager that they are far greater in number than the hits.
Oh, no doubt, but as Jung saw, there are coincidences, and there are *meaningful* coincidences. A friend who reads this blog just e-mailed to say that one night he had a bad dream in which the vice president shot somebody. The next day came the news that Vice President Cheney had been in a hunting accident in Texas, and had accidentally shot somebody. That's not a coincidence; that's a meaningful coincidence.
The whole "Ecrasez l'infame" dream is an example of a coincidence that seems meaningful -- because it was so completely random (I had only minutes earlier left a dream in which that phrase lingered in my mind -- yet also meaningless, because there is no apparent meaning to the phrase occurring in my life. At least none I can see. But Jung believed that when you had a couple of these meaningful coincidences, which he called synchronicities, occurring close to each other that you should pay attention to your dreams, because they are about to disclose something meaningful to you.
I've taken that advice once, and indeed the dreams around that time were profoundly meaningful, and changed the way I saw my life.
Erin Manning
March 11, 2008 3:13 PM
Marty, your husband's experiences sound similar to mine, only mine involved the Columbia, not the Challenger. Like your husband, I prayed for mine to go away, and they have, for the most part.
As for the weird dream thing, I think most people have experienced something like that, though I'm not sure if these experiences are truly paranormal or merely some demonstration of the brain's capacity for action which we don't yet understand. For instance, the dream of a person we haven't seen in a while right before we run into them--how do we know that our minds aren't aware on some level that this person is someone we generally see at intervals of greater than 365 days and less than, say, 500 days? So somewhere after the 365 day mark our subconscious mind triggers dreams about that person which increase both in frequency and in our ability to remember the dream until we actually do run into the person--at which point our dreams seem quite mystical to us.
The oddest, and funniest, experience I ever had involved a piano I bought in high school--I only played by ear, then, and wanted to teach myself some basics of reading music (which never got very far, unfortunately). Before I'd really begun practicing, I dreamed one night that I got out of bed, went down to the piano, and played the melody to "Yesterday" perfectly. In the morning when I woke up, I was curious enough to try it, and sure enough when I put my hands on the keys and pressed them in the same order I'd dreamed them, the melody was "Yesterday," a song I didn't know and didn't even like.
What was even weirder was years later when a radio announcer said, "Coming up next--this "Beatles" song was written when its composer dreamed the whole melody one night, and got up and wrote the song the next day!" Sure enough, it was "Yesterday." Which only proves that our subconscious minds are fond of mediocre music, alas. :)
James
March 11, 2008 3:23 PM
Yes, I've had this happen on and off from childhood. Sometimes I've dreamed of entire conversations...at the time with people I didn't yet know, but later realized I was living the conversation from the dream.
But, like you, it's never ever been anything important, sometimes very mundane. The first time it happened that I remember was as a child I dreamed of a trip to Six Flags (back then there was only one). The dream was so vivid I even remembered the smell of the park when I woke up. Now, I'd never even been to an amusement park, and when I finally went a year or so later, I was shocked by the first smell that hit me at the gate. It was the smell of the wood of the roller coaster. It was the same smell from my dream. Freaky at the time, but pretty unimportant in the scheme of things.
It seems to happen much less often now that I've got a 4 year old and a two-month old. I wonder why...heh, heh.
masha
March 11, 2008 3:42 PM
Ted, flying in dream means that person is growing, it happens usually to young people, i used to fly very often when i was young. (also on short distance)
About coinsidences. The most recent which i can remeber was a dream about St. Petersburg. This city has been special to me untill very recent times, to such degree that just anyone's talking about it made me nervous and jealous. I often saw it in dreams, (most often before my first and last visit there), dreams were usally fantastic, with strange buildings and strange people, once i even saw there my late granddad living in a halfruined wooden barn by railways. Granddad looked happy as he always was and treated me with a cup of cocoa.
This winter i saw Petersburg again after a long break. Me and unknown girl in long skirt were driving in roofless jeep along tidy streets, sometimes old fashioned trams passed by, i thought the scenery was like Moscow in 30ies or 50ies as i imagine it, the weather was like in early June, the girl near me was very young, sophisticated and intelligent as i always imagined citizens St. Petrsburg. She had a task to show me something. I felt near her like a moronic kid, was embarrased to say someting. We passed by streets very fast, in some yards were big red flowers of unknown sort and i said: It's February! In Moscow at this time is usually snow. Even if there is no snow flowers don't blossom anyway. She was silent for some time and then graciously repiled: it's St. Petersburg, you see...
We arrived to Dvortsovaya Square, on one side was Hermitage 3 times bigger than in reality, on the opposite was Isaakiy Cathedral painted light blue, narrower taller than real and generally looking not like itself. The girl crossed herself and prepared to enter, i thought if i cross myself and bow like everyone that girl would never guess that i'm not christened, then i thought that it doesn't interest her, but i crossed myself, then passing threshold i stumbled and thought: what for i decided to pretend? I decided to stay at the square to wait untill she comes out, and meanwhile studied the square - on the top of Hermitage were bronze statues size of a house each, and on the tops of drainpipes were hanging bunches of icicles which were also of enormous size and looked rather sinister, but beautiful. And i started to think: It's all Roman, everything is like in Rome here. It is Rome! Rome. And woke up repeating that.
The following day i had a boring minute and googled in the net some old articles of one writer, and in the one i found there was a description of his trip to St. Peterburg! You couldn't have guessed by title. In that article he said that some places of St.Petrburg reminded him Rome. And i thought what a surprise to read it today :)
Mike
March 11, 2008 4:15 PM
Perhaps this has something to do with Dr. Who's syncroclastic infidibulum!
Derek Copold
March 11, 2008 4:20 PM
Oh, no doubt, but as Jung saw, there are coincidences, and there are *meaningful* coincidences.
No offense, Rod, but that's semantic nonsense. A coincidence, by definition, cannot be meaningful. Either something "just happened" or it was planned. There's no in-between; i.e., no mean, unless you yourself make it one.
A friend who reads this blog just e-mailed to say that one night he had a bad dream in which the vice president shot somebody. The next day came the news that Vice President Cheney had been in a hunting accident in Texas, and had accidentally shot somebody. That's not a coincidence; that's a meaningful coincidence.
Not shocking. Cheney is portrayed as a vicious SOB. He likes to play into the image. So your friend dreamed of him capping someone. He could have just as likely dreamed of Cheney beating someone to death with a bat. It just turned out that the next day it happened similarly to what had been dreamed, so the link was reinforced in your friend's mind. I'm sure he, like all of us, dreamed of a gozillion other things lacking real-world correspondents, so they've been forgotten.
But Jung believed that when you had a couple of these meaningful coincidences, which he called synchronicities, occurring close to each other that you should pay attention to your dreams, because they are about to disclose something meaningful to you.
If Jung had said you can use them as inspirations or intuitions for understanding the world, I wouldn't disagree. If he's saying this is some evidence of the supernatural, well, he's full of it--which I understand was often the case.
Franklin Evans
March 11, 2008 4:24 PM
Some comments, with the usual caveat that they are opinions based on scholarly sources, not academic study...
Your subconscious absorbs approximately 80% of the total "signal" your senses receive at any moment. It can change somewhat based on conscious control (interestingly, a person meditating is often processing more than the 20% on the conscious side). Most of that 80% involves things you just don't need to react to or even be aware of consciously, but may still have some importance. See also the discipline of non-verbal communication, which formed the basis of the "body language" fad/fetish/craze.
Dreaming is in large part the dumping of garbage from your subconscious. Delirium and hallucination experienced at a certain point during sleep deprivation is the mind's attempt to do the dumping without the safety of being asleep.
Dreams are often chaotic simply because there is no rhyme or reason during the dumping, and diverse items will be lumped together in the dreams. Some people report the ability to impose structure and control over dreaming. Others (myself included) dream as if conditions match those when we are awake; for example, if in my dream I am not wearing my glasses, my vision in the dream is just as blurry as it is in my waking.
Having had numerous experiences of "prophetic" dreams of trivial or mundane things, I've spent many years getting anecdotal corroboration of this phenomenon... meaning it seems to me to be fairly common. Sometimes, I wake up knowing I will experience what I just dreamt. Mostly, it comes to me as an intense moment of deja vu that I immediately remember as having dreamt it.
Personally, ascribing spiritual significance to this phenomenon is at best a distraction, and at worst a source of fear where I have found nothing to justify such fear. It is poorly explained, but I have yet to hear of a bona fide experience that caused anyone spiritual harm (other than the fear reactions of others).
Mark Shea
March 11, 2008 5:09 PM
Reminds me of my favorite Woody Allen Nostradamus prophecy: "In the New World, there will be a place called 'California' and a man named Joseph Cotton will live there."
Spooky!
Roland de Chanson
March 11, 2008 5:11 PM
Masha: And i started to think: It's all Roman, everything is like in Rome here. It is Rome! Rome. And woke up repeating that.
It is not surprising that you felt that so much of St. Peterburg reminded you of Rome. Peter the Great hired Italian architects to build his "Window on the West" in a Renaissance style; it was a deliberate attempt to "europeanize" Russia and make a break with the medieval past.
Not uncoincidentally, Voltaire and the Empress Catherine the Great were avid correspondents. He was the source of many of her Enlightenment ideas, ideas she ceased to foster when the excesses of the French Revolution caused her consternation.
Catherine purchased the library of Voltaire after his death; I would like one day to see it.
Scott Lahti
March 11, 2008 5:28 PM
Time to call in that most eminent of *eminences grises* among pre-1945 Tory anarchists, Albert Jay Nock, from, of course, The Memoirs of a Superfluous Man, a book "too good to be true" in the words of one critic, to which will nod in accord all for whom the book has proved the transforming where-have-you-been-all-my-life companion of a lifetime:
"My father told me of a strange incident in his mother's life
which made such an impression on him that he remembered it
clearly, although he was no more than five or six years old
when it happened. While he was playing in the garden with
two of his sisters a very large grey bird appeared, circled
slowly two or three times overhead, and settled on one of the
window-sills in my grandmother's bedroom. My grandmother
came to the door at once, apparently in great distress, and said,
"Come in the house, children; your grandfather is dead." Some
weeks later (those being the days of sailing-ships) she got a
letter telling her that her father had indeed died in his home
in Staffordshire at precisely that hour. His illness was short, and
his death wholly unlooked-for; he was supposed to be in the
best of health. If my grandmother ever gave any account of
her sensations at the moment, my father did not know of it;
no doubt she did, but he was unlikely to have heard anything
about it, since such matters were not much discussed in the
hearing of children. The odd thing is that my grandmother
would be the last person whom one would associate with any
metapsychical or superpsychical or extrapsychical (or whatever
the right word may be) experience. She was preeminently
placid and wholesome of mind, abounding in the unimaginative
good sense so typically English of the Midlands, and one would
say quite insensitive to impressions originating at all outside
the commonplace."
mises.org/books/nockmemoirs.pdf
p. 10
Sheilagh
March 11, 2008 6:34 PM
In answer to your question Rod. Yes, Constantly! All my life.
Not so much specific words but senses, dreams, etc. Sometimes for small trivial things but also for turning points, deaths, decisions. But it's all completely random. I can't really 'make' it go off.
At one point the sense was happening so often that I started telling people and asking them to remember. So that when the events did happen people would believe me.
I've learned to take the small seemingly insignificant moments as a sign that I'm going in the right direction.
fdr
March 11, 2008 6:44 PM
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Richard, I seem to remember a Brady Bunch episode to that effect once.... ;)
jaybird
March 11, 2008 8:03 PM
Dreaming is in large part the dumping of garbage from your subconscious. Delirium and hallucination experienced at a certain point during sleep deprivation is the mind's attempt to do the dumping without the safety of being asleep.Dreams are often chaotic simply because there is no rhyme or reason during the dumping, and diverse items will be lumped together in the dreams...
The best analogy I've heard is that dreaming is basically your brain running a de-fragmetation routine - basically doing system-maintenance of a sort while we sleep: sorting all the sensations and thoughts we have while awake into long-term memory and such. That probably sounds hopelessly reductionist and materialistic to people like Rod, but there you have it.
jaybird
March 11, 2008 8:10 PM
I also note that several people on this thread - including Rod - have made a point to note the apparent "randomness" of this supposed phenomenon. I humbly suggest that therein lies the answer to this "mystery" - they're entirely random coincidences, and have no intrinsic meaning other than what one decides to ascribe to them.
How's that for reductionist and materialistic?
Scott Lahti
March 11, 2008 8:20 PM
Crikey! I was just thinking precisely of the whole "de-fragmentation" analogy when reading this thread a few hours ago...great minds think alike - and so do we: to quote a catchphrase of a friend's and mine, as we take turns playing Boswell to each other's Johnson...
Miss Mary
March 11, 2008 8:23 PM
I'm so glad you asked!
My night hours overflow with dreams.... it's like going to a double feature at the movies every night, or curling up with a book of short stories. My dreams are always vivid, creative and complex. It's as if my dreams transport me to a parallel universe for the night. The kooky thing is that when my dreams pull from the "real" events and people of my daily life, they usually reflect an OPPOSITE plot of my "real", waking hours --- so my parallel universe is also my "bizarro world". If in my daily reality, my dreams work things out to be a "success", then in my dreams they'll be a "failure". If I dream about someone who loves me, in the dream they hate me. I also will find myself laughing when I should be crying - and visa versa. I often wake myself up laughing or crying at the oddest things.
I don't know what all this could possibly mean, and after decades of dreaming like this I've given up trying to figure it out. During my waking hours I live a reasonably stable, healthy, and happy life, in a reasonably stable, happy and healthy family - so I guess my dreams really don't "mean" anything.... (like my husband often likes to remind me).
Miss Mary
Andrea
March 11, 2008 8:59 PM
Yes. This has been happening to me since childhood. It will be about nothing much, but the dream will take place in real life. Just a few times have I been warned with a dream. The warnings made me more aware and I was able to manage what might have been unmanageable.
Sheilagh
March 11, 2008 11:12 PM
I completely agree that *Most* of the time dreams are defragmenters.
But rarely, every so often, a different type of dream does take place. And those are the type I'm talking about.
But I wasn't just talking dreams. I'm jumping from the completely rational to what we at my Church call 'The Life in the Spirit'. There are actual Gifts of the Holy Spirit - like Word of Knowledge that fall in line with some of the occurrences mentioned above.
Sometimes I've known someone is about to die. I guess this is common among some nurses. They recognize signs, etc. But with no real medical training, I'm not sure I can attribute it to that. And it's not as if I want to know. I see someone in passing. And Just a really strong thought comes my way.
I can ignore it but it's there. I think as a Christian I do believe there are metaphysical realities that we have yet to or may never grasp til we get to heaven. And to me There's no denying the power of the Holy Spirit. I've seen people truly miraculously healed through prayer. As yet to be proven doesn't make something that's true, less true.
The one thing that stood out to me in these posts was someone mentioning Rod's words were also the words of someone as they were denouncing Christianity. Was that right/accurate?
If so, I'd just throw in the standard caution from the NT to test all spirits. That those from God can say "Jesus Christ is Lord". All others should be rebuked. There's a reason why God's Spirit is called the *Holy* Spirit. It's because there are others. Nothing at all to be afraid of, God's won the victory. But since this blog is a fairly powerful witness to the Gospel. It's always good to be wide awake to understanding these teachings and recognize the whole concept of spiritual warfare. And to test. God's Blessings. and.
pax christi
Laurie T. Jemison
March 12, 2008 12:52 AM
For me, these experiences helped me come to understand that there is something beyond me at work in my world. It doesn't matter how trivial and seemingly unimportant the message is because it is the message itself that is the message (if you can understand that, my hats are off to you :) Sometimes I think I'm getting schooled about my life when I sleep. I just happen to recall the last sentence of the school day when I wake up.
ScurvyOaks
March 12, 2008 12:02 PM
The way I remember the meaning of ecraser is the wonderfully Gallic term for roadkill, "ecrase' dans la rue." Dream Cafe used to have an elaborate version of a patty melt listed on its menu by that name . . .
Alicia
March 12, 2008 1:27 PM
Not trivial - I once dreamed that one of my family's two Siamese cats was still alive - he had disappeared shortly before the family moved from Pennsylvania to Maryland.
About a year after we moved, we got a call from someone in our former town, who had discovered that her elderly relative had been feeding the cat, who was living in a city park about two miles from his former home. She couldn't see well enough to read the name on the tag. Her younger relative tracked us down, and my brothers drove to PA and brought the cat home, hardly the worse for living outside for a year.
This cat lived to be more than 20.
Salamander
March 12, 2008 2:07 PM
Another weird dream phenomenon I used to have when I was younger was having dreams that I was not in. I mean, I *was* in the dream, but I was not myself.
I remember dreaming that I was an old Irish man walking home at sunset, past the pub. Another time I was a Portuguese sailor in what appeared to be the 1700's, and we were sailing through the South Pacific in search of a place called the "Sandwich Islands". Later I found out that was the name Captain Cook had given what are now the Hawaiian Islands. My other 18th-century dream was that I was a young woman who found my husband out in the fields, apparently murdered. I can still remember the overwhelming grief and loss of that dream. Another time I was a young Scandinavian or German girl; I was braiding my long blonde hair and putting it up in a hairstyle of long braids wrapped around my head, in a whitewashed room with an oval mirror. There was another one involving being at a formal party of some sort in Philadelphia on a cold, clear winter night.
Most of these dreams occurred from ages nine or ten until fourteen or so, then they pretty much stopped. Yet I can still recall them as clearly and vividly as if I just woke up from them.
I don't believe in reincarnation or anything, but it was rather weird to have so many dreams like that. My husband says it is evidence that I was a nerdy weird kid ;) Has anyone else had dreams in which they were someone totally different than themselves?
Alicia
March 12, 2008 3:53 PM
I have those dreams a lot, Salamander. Oftentimes, I find I or somebody in my dream is a combination of several people. When I read Freud's "Interpretation of Dreams" I discovered the idea of condensation - that dreams condense several related ideas (or in the case of people, character traits) together. Fascinating stuff, and I highly recommend the book. Freud is actually a good writer, so it's not a difficult book to get into.
Grossed out, but the ESP thing is workin' hot!
March 12, 2008 4:03 PM
Three weeks ago or so, I had gotten up a little earlier than usual and went to the kitchen to start breakfast.
I started with coffee, but as I reached for the coffeepot a really odd thought occurred to me: "There's a cockroach in the coffee-maker." And the thought was just as plain as could be -- any more clear and I would've actually heard the words out loud.
And so I gingerly opened the lid, and sure enough a little light-brown cockroach was right there, plain as could be. (I know, I know -- Ewww, squared.)
Now there was no way I could have seen the cockroach without opening the lid. And the cockroach was very small and completely silent. And, I'm definitely NOT in the habit of seeing cockroaches in my coffeemaker.
But there he was, and I am absolutely positive that there was something freaky going on with my consciousness.
Marfyzia
March 14, 2008 9:35 PM
that if all other trades resembled it, there would soon be no carried them from his workhouse to his shop, he must have valued
Marfyzia
March 14, 2008 9:36 PM
that if all other trades resembled it, there would soon be no carried them from his workhouse to his shop, he must have valued
Your Name
May 2, 2009 12:19 AM
I have often had dreams of places that were ordinary and easily forgotten. In some cases it wasn't until years later that I would find myself in what appeared to be the same exact location that I had dreamed of years earlier. It's odd, because when I have these dreams they seem to be of absolutely no consequence and I have no idea if they mean anything at all. But when I have found myself in these places that I have dreamt of, it is startling to me how vividly I recall the dream in the first place.
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I do something similar, Rod, but I don't think it's time related. I fly. Not very far, mind you, just short distances, like across the kitchen. Do you do that as well? What does this phenomenon, if real, suggest about the nature of space-time?
Trivial eh? How about coughing up all those combinations of numbers that won't win the lotto...
Rod, do you know that this phrase is usually considered to be Voltaire's rejection of Christianity (or at least the Church as he knew it in France)? That may be how you became familiar with it. I can't account for the coincidence though.
I think someone used Voltaire's entire phrase in your comboxes here yesterday, or at least someplace I read comments, because I looked it up yesterday myself. You saw it and your subconscious retained it to dream about.
The only blogs I read comments on yesterday were yours and Volokh. MAYBE the phrase was in the NYTimes, but it was definitely around yesterday, because it's in my babelfish history.
This sort of thing happens outside of dreams to me pretty frequently, and I think to most people. You encounter a word or something that you've never heard of before, and within a day you run across it again. Sort of thing you don't really draw any conclusion from, but is just odd. I posted something about this phenomenon on my blog a while back, saying more or less "hmmm....". Some discussion ensued, ending in "hmmm....".
In high school (in the early nineties) I had a recurring dream of standing in front of my parents house, everything covered in gray dust, and I was the only person left in the neighborhood. I was an anxiety-fileld child, so nuclear war, I wondered? It didn't make sense until I returned to my parents' neighborhood--in New Orleans--in October 2005. I was the only person around for blocks, maybe miles, and everything was still covered in dried gray mud and marsh grass from the storm. Other similar coincidences have occurred as well, but that's the most memorable. If only I could use this power for good!
Rod, this kind of thing happens to me all the time - same trival nonsense. I think it probably just comes with having a somewhat intuitive personality, and being a writer you're picking up things out of the ether. Carl Jung referred to it as synchronicity, and while it can't be dismissed as mere coincidence, I don't find it as spooky as I used to. It's the same on a more profound level when two writers are working simultaneously on the same (besides a few minor details) novel or screenplay without knowing it. Ask any Hollywood ink-stained wretch; it happens so often they take it for granted. My favorite example happened when I used to intern in a TV newsroom in college. I'd had a dream occur several times about an AP dateline: COZUMEL (AP) - "Man Lost at Sea" - It was just like that, word for word. So this went on for about two weeks, and then one morning I logged on to AP wire, and there was a story with pretty much that dateline and topic, about a man who'd fallen off a jet ski and survived out in the Gulf of Mexico just off Cozumel for several days. Anyway, he survived, but my dream didn't do the poor sap any good.
On the topic of your question about dreams and time, you might look at J. W. Dunne's Am Experiment with Time. I've read only some of it so far and am not endorsing its conclusions, but for what it's worth, it is a book that quite interested C. S. Lewis and J. R. R. Tolkien. For documentation of their interest, see the memoir collection We Remember C. S. Lewis (ed. David Graham) and Verlyn Flieger's study of Tolkien, A Question of Time. I believe Dunne is mentioned in Lewis's That Hideous Strength, where the character Jane Studdock has "psychic" dreams.
This happens frequently to me. Been happening ever since childhood. And it is almost always some sort of trivial thing, like I'll dream I'm slicing onions while talking to someone, and then a day or two later I find myself having the exact conversation with that person while slicing onions...
It seems to be a fairly useless form of what my grandma called "second
Sight."
The only non-trivial times I've had a flash of the Sight both had to do with deaths. When my dad told me he had been diagnosed with cancer, I immediately knew he'd be dead in two years, which turned out to be right. Then a few years later, a friend of my in-laws was diagnosed with cancer. He had been fretting a good deal about Y2K (this was early in 1999) and the imminent collapse of civilization. I remember as soon as he told me he had a very treatable form of cancer, I *knew* he would die before Dec. 31, 1999. And he did, he passed away in early December.
I sure hope I'm not able to foretell my own death, as I would just as soon not know!
Well, the only thing like this that happens to me is that ever since I was a little girl (I'm 54 now!), from time to time I have a recurring dream that a tornado is bearing down on my house and I am trying to get my family into the basement and things are going so slow while the tornado bears down on us. When I was younger, it was me and my parents and sisters in the dream, now it's husband and kids, and always the house I am living in at the time. I live in Virginia and tornadoes are pretty rare here. I attribute this dream to 2 things: even though tornadoes are rare here, we did have one when I was in 6th grade and I was on the school bus at the time and it got so black we couldn't see and the bus had to stop because of the wind. Then we found a tree blocking the road, when we got home found that tornado had ripped part of porch roof off and knocked down chimney. Also, when I was a kid, The Wizard of Oz was on the TV every freaking spring and I watched it at least a dozen times.
My husband, however, had occasionaly had precognitive dreams. He dreamed about someone shooting Reagan 2 months before it happened and about the space shuttle Challenger blowing up. This scared the crap out of him and he asked God to take this "gift" away and he hasn't had anymore precognitive dreams, not lately anyway.
This is all very interesting to me. I should mention that my mother seems to have the same thing happen to her. She and I both tend to have ... well, I wouldn't call it a "gift," exactly, but at least more of an openness to this sort of thing. Totally unsought, I hasten to say; it's just that we tend to dream things, or be more intuitive to spiritual stuff. I don't know why.
This post seems familiar for some reason: http://blog.beliefnet.com/crunchycon/2007/08/bad-dream.html
I wrote you at the time about Dunne's book; see here for a summary: http://thinkingculture.blogspot.com/2004/11/experiment-with-time-by-jw-dunne.html
Rod: I had a vague recollection that the phrase has historical or literary reference.
So you had seen it before somewhere, by your own admission (possibly even in these comboxes yesterday, as someone pointed out above). So you happen to dream it, and then you see it somewhere the next morning. That seems more like a run-of-the-mill co-incidence, than a premonition about the future.
Then again, maybe there's more to it:
"A lot o' people don't realize what's really going on. They view life as a bunch o' unconnected incidents 'n things. They don't realize that there's this, like, lattice o' coincidence that lays on top o' everything. Give you an example; show you what I mean: suppose you're thinkin' about a plate o' shrimp. Suddenly someone'll say, like, plate, or shrimp, or plate o' shrimp out of the blue, no explanation. No point in lookin' for one, either. It's all part of a cosmic unconsciousness."
- Miller from Repo Man again:
Quotes from the many C.S. Lewis books that cite Dunne: http://www.discovery.org/scripts/viewDB/index.php?command=view&id=1042
I have this feeling that I was here before...only this computer and desk were not here, neither were these walls....and there was sand as far as the eye could see....
BTW,
I'll have a song in my head for no known reason, then I'll go and start my car, and there it is playing on the radio.
Mine was even more trivial, but just as odd. I woke up with an image of an apple, ham and cheese sandwich in my head. I had never heard of such a thing and thought I had perhaps invented something new. Later that day, we went to a restaurant for lunch to celebrate a coworker leaving our company.
On the menu, there was a "Vermont Sandwich," which was *gasp* an apple, ham, and cheese sandwich. Even weirder was that our departing coworker was from Vermont. I actually ordered something else, though.
fdr: Years and years ago I read that the radio phenomenon is not altogether uncommon, and can sometimes be attributed to any metal you might have in your head (dental work, for example) acting as a receiver. Maybe that's actually urban legend, but it was something I read in a "Amazing Things You Never Knew!" kind of book.
Richard
OK, here's something weird. I've been having trouble sleeping these past few nights, with non-specific anxiety dreams keeping me awake. My mother and I both have what I suppose is a very mild sort of "gift" for being open to the numinous. Completely unsought, I should say; it's just that we both manage to intuit things, and "know" things spiritually, and on rare occasions have experiences I can only call mystical. Nothing really dramatic; it's just something we've noticed.
After that odd synchronicity this morning, I thought to call my mom to see if she'd had any weird dreams. When I got her on the phone this morning, she blurted out that she'd had a terrible nightmare last night, that involved me being in a city, and in danger. She couldn't remember details, but she said it was so anxiety-producing it woke her up, and the dream continued when she went back to sleep. She said it ended with me being okay, but the dream really rattled her.
Ugh.
Our older daughter used to have such experiences. She'd be somewhere and/or doing something, and realize that she had "seen" it before. Now, maybe it was a brain trick, but it happened enough times over the years that it really freaked her out, and she prayed that it would stop, and as far as I know, it did.
I should ask her about it.
When I got her on the phone this morning, she blurted out that she'd had a terrible nightmare last night, that involved me being in a city, and in danger. She couldn't remember details, but she said it was so anxiety-producing it woke her up, and the dream continued when she went back to sleep. She said it ended with me being okay, but the dream really rattled her.
I assume she's aware you lived in New York about 7 years ago, right...?
Mon Dieu! If you are channeling M. Arouet, you will have to rename this site unbeliefnet.com!
But seriously, among the lovable old deist's oeuvre is the play Mahomet, ou le Fanatisme. Of course today this would be sacrilegious to the Peaceful Religionists and the politically dhimmified, while écrasez l'infâme (crush the infamous thing) would be applauded in the most stentorian tones. He was a precursor of so-called "intelligent design":
L’univers m’embarrasse, et je ne puis songer
Que cette horloge existe et n’ait point d’horloger.
But he would never have propounded that philosophical postulate as science.
He declared shortly his death: "Je meurs en adorant Dieu, en aimant mes amis, en ne haïssant pas mes ennemis, en détestant la superstition (I die worshiping God, loving my friends, not hating my enemies, detesting superstition."
A Jeffersonian avant la lettre.
Oops - forgot the translation of the verse:
The universe confounds me and I can't imagine
that this clockworks exists and has no clockmaker.
Since college over a quarter-century ago, I've been struck when checking the time on my digital watches by their registering 59 seconds flipping to the 00 of the next minute, far more than the 1/60 proportion dictated by the law of averages - closer to 60-80+ percent of the time; often I'd wait a few seconds after the time-check urge hit just to further randomise things, and there was good ol' 59 seconds waiting for me like a wagging dog by the school bus...
Perhaps because over the years my reading usually finds itself with TV or radio background, I've had hundreds of episodes of seeing an uncommon word or proper name in print, at the very second an announcer, fictional character, or interview subject used it on a broadcast or cablecast...
In my high school (Wilton, CT) senior year, 1979-1980, Mrs. Martin had our Shakespeare class memorise for individual teacher's-lounge recital Hamlet's immortal "To be, or not to be" soliloquy, all thirty-some lines. I have over the almost three decades since recited it hundreds of times for fun, and so should not have been startled when, in wayward channel-flipping during the overnight just passed, I landed on the Turner Classic Movies showing of Larry Olivier's 1948 Hamlet: two seconds or so of silence preceded, you guessed it, "To be, or not..."
And the flying dreams mentioned above by Ted are with me proverbial - I've had the pleasure over the decades of everything from (being a bit-food-obsessed) simple foot-high swoops down a grocery aisle, to make-my-body-lighter-or-heavier fine-tuned ascensions outdoors that
ended up saving me drives or plane fares from, say, Virginia to Michigan. Lately, my turns toward the airborne-nocturnal have even turned self-referential as though serialised: "I *know* now that all those *earlier* flying episodes were just me dreaming - but this time it really *is* happening in real life! Wait till Mom sees me!"
Not the same thing, but I was at a meeting in the early 1990s in which the late Karla Turner spoke (at City Place).
She was a former UNT English professor who had experienced alien abduction (or whatever the phenomenon is), and had become somewhat of an authority and/or known researcher on the subject.
At this meeting, she or someone during the Q&A session mentioned or asked something about the digital clock flashing "11:11" and/or regularly waking up at "11:11." When the person said this, several of the people in the audience (who I assume were also "abductees") became visibly shaken, because they all had experienced it. It was totally unplanned and very eerie to me.
"The universe confounds me and I can't imagine
that this clockworks exists and has no clockmaker."
That puts me in mind of Dawkins' "Blind Watchmaker". Interestingly, I came across the expression "Mecanique Aveugle" in one of the other philosphes, earlier than Voltaire - Diderot, if I remember rightly. RD's just not that original!
I've had them since childhood, too. Like Rod, nothing massively important, just mundane stuff. Or really weird. When I was a kid, there was a lady who worked the sign in desk at the YMCA, handing out towels and stuff, and I had a dream about her one night in which she said, "I like my mustard on the bottom slice." Several years later, I got to work during their clean-up week in August and when we broke for lunch one day, I walked into the break room to hear this very lady tell a co-worker, "I like my mustard on the bottom slice." What It All Meant was beyond me, to say the least.
In fact, it happens to me with some frequency, and has since childhood.
This is how psychics build credibility. You remember the hits, but forget the misses.
What you have are coincidences. They stand out because of their unusualness. You haven't made a note of waking up with other things in your head and then having them disappear down your memory hole. I'd wager that they are far greater in number than the hits.
I believe I've read that one of (perhaps "the") purpose of dreaming is sorting and storing information. In the process of sorting our brains compare memories for significance - potentially resulting in strange dreams. It is likely that our brains contain enough information to predict a high probability for some near-future event, but that our conscious minds haven't thought of it. This might be especially the case for trivial things, which we tend to not waste awake time on.
What you have are coincidences. They stand out because of their unusualness. You haven't made a note of waking up with other things in your head and then having them disappear down your memory hole. I'd wager that they are far greater in number than the hits.
Oh, no doubt, but as Jung saw, there are coincidences, and there are *meaningful* coincidences. A friend who reads this blog just e-mailed to say that one night he had a bad dream in which the vice president shot somebody. The next day came the news that Vice President Cheney had been in a hunting accident in Texas, and had accidentally shot somebody. That's not a coincidence; that's a meaningful coincidence.
The whole "Ecrasez l'infame" dream is an example of a coincidence that seems meaningful -- because it was so completely random (I had only minutes earlier left a dream in which that phrase lingered in my mind -- yet also meaningless, because there is no apparent meaning to the phrase occurring in my life. At least none I can see. But Jung believed that when you had a couple of these meaningful coincidences, which he called synchronicities, occurring close to each other that you should pay attention to your dreams, because they are about to disclose something meaningful to you.
I've taken that advice once, and indeed the dreams around that time were profoundly meaningful, and changed the way I saw my life.
Marty, your husband's experiences sound similar to mine, only mine involved the Columbia, not the Challenger. Like your husband, I prayed for mine to go away, and they have, for the most part.
As for the weird dream thing, I think most people have experienced something like that, though I'm not sure if these experiences are truly paranormal or merely some demonstration of the brain's capacity for action which we don't yet understand. For instance, the dream of a person we haven't seen in a while right before we run into them--how do we know that our minds aren't aware on some level that this person is someone we generally see at intervals of greater than 365 days and less than, say, 500 days? So somewhere after the 365 day mark our subconscious mind triggers dreams about that person which increase both in frequency and in our ability to remember the dream until we actually do run into the person--at which point our dreams seem quite mystical to us.
The oddest, and funniest, experience I ever had involved a piano I bought in high school--I only played by ear, then, and wanted to teach myself some basics of reading music (which never got very far, unfortunately). Before I'd really begun practicing, I dreamed one night that I got out of bed, went down to the piano, and played the melody to "Yesterday" perfectly. In the morning when I woke up, I was curious enough to try it, and sure enough when I put my hands on the keys and pressed them in the same order I'd dreamed them, the melody was "Yesterday," a song I didn't know and didn't even like.
What was even weirder was years later when a radio announcer said, "Coming up next--this "Beatles" song was written when its composer dreamed the whole melody one night, and got up and wrote the song the next day!" Sure enough, it was "Yesterday." Which only proves that our subconscious minds are fond of mediocre music, alas. :)
Yes, I've had this happen on and off from childhood. Sometimes I've dreamed of entire conversations...at the time with people I didn't yet know, but later realized I was living the conversation from the dream.
But, like you, it's never ever been anything important, sometimes very mundane. The first time it happened that I remember was as a child I dreamed of a trip to Six Flags (back then there was only one). The dream was so vivid I even remembered the smell of the park when I woke up. Now, I'd never even been to an amusement park, and when I finally went a year or so later, I was shocked by the first smell that hit me at the gate. It was the smell of the wood of the roller coaster. It was the same smell from my dream. Freaky at the time, but pretty unimportant in the scheme of things.
It seems to happen much less often now that I've got a 4 year old and a two-month old. I wonder why...heh, heh.
Ted, flying in dream means that person is growing, it happens usually to young people, i used to fly very often when i was young. (also on short distance)
About coinsidences. The most recent which i can remeber was a dream about St. Petersburg. This city has been special to me untill very recent times, to such degree that just anyone's talking about it made me nervous and jealous. I often saw it in dreams, (most often before my first and last visit there), dreams were usally fantastic, with strange buildings and strange people, once i even saw there my late granddad living in a halfruined wooden barn by railways. Granddad looked happy as he always was and treated me with a cup of cocoa.
This winter i saw Petersburg again after a long break. Me and unknown girl in long skirt were driving in roofless jeep along tidy streets, sometimes old fashioned trams passed by, i thought the scenery was like Moscow in 30ies or 50ies as i imagine it, the weather was like in early June, the girl near me was very young, sophisticated and intelligent as i always imagined citizens St. Petrsburg. She had a task to show me something. I felt near her like a moronic kid, was embarrased to say someting. We passed by streets very fast, in some yards were big red flowers of unknown sort and i said: It's February! In Moscow at this time is usually snow. Even if there is no snow flowers don't blossom anyway. She was silent for some time and then graciously repiled: it's St. Petersburg, you see...
We arrived to Dvortsovaya Square, on one side was Hermitage 3 times bigger than in reality, on the opposite was Isaakiy Cathedral painted light blue, narrower taller than real and generally looking not like itself. The girl crossed herself and prepared to enter, i thought if i cross myself and bow like everyone that girl would never guess that i'm not christened, then i thought that it doesn't interest her, but i crossed myself, then passing threshold i stumbled and thought: what for i decided to pretend? I decided to stay at the square to wait untill she comes out, and meanwhile studied the square - on the top of Hermitage were bronze statues size of a house each, and on the tops of drainpipes were hanging bunches of icicles which were also of enormous size and looked rather sinister, but beautiful. And i started to think: It's all Roman, everything is like in Rome here. It is Rome! Rome. And woke up repeating that.
The following day i had a boring minute and googled in the net some old articles of one writer, and in the one i found there was a description of his trip to St. Peterburg! You couldn't have guessed by title. In that article he said that some places of St.Petrburg reminded him Rome. And i thought what a surprise to read it today :)
Perhaps this has something to do with Dr. Who's syncroclastic infidibulum!
Oh, no doubt, but as Jung saw, there are coincidences, and there are *meaningful* coincidences.
No offense, Rod, but that's semantic nonsense. A coincidence, by definition, cannot be meaningful. Either something "just happened" or it was planned. There's no in-between; i.e., no mean, unless you yourself make it one.
A friend who reads this blog just e-mailed to say that one night he had a bad dream in which the vice president shot somebody. The next day came the news that Vice President Cheney had been in a hunting accident in Texas, and had accidentally shot somebody. That's not a coincidence; that's a meaningful coincidence.
Not shocking. Cheney is portrayed as a vicious SOB. He likes to play into the image. So your friend dreamed of him capping someone. He could have just as likely dreamed of Cheney beating someone to death with a bat. It just turned out that the next day it happened similarly to what had been dreamed, so the link was reinforced in your friend's mind. I'm sure he, like all of us, dreamed of a gozillion other things lacking real-world correspondents, so they've been forgotten.
But Jung believed that when you had a couple of these meaningful coincidences, which he called synchronicities, occurring close to each other that you should pay attention to your dreams, because they are about to disclose something meaningful to you.
If Jung had said you can use them as inspirations or intuitions for understanding the world, I wouldn't disagree. If he's saying this is some evidence of the supernatural, well, he's full of it--which I understand was often the case.
Some comments, with the usual caveat that they are opinions based on scholarly sources, not academic study...
Your subconscious absorbs approximately 80% of the total "signal" your senses receive at any moment. It can change somewhat based on conscious control (interestingly, a person meditating is often processing more than the 20% on the conscious side). Most of that 80% involves things you just don't need to react to or even be aware of consciously, but may still have some importance. See also the discipline of non-verbal communication, which formed the basis of the "body language" fad/fetish/craze.
Dreaming is in large part the dumping of garbage from your subconscious. Delirium and hallucination experienced at a certain point during sleep deprivation is the mind's attempt to do the dumping without the safety of being asleep.
Dreams are often chaotic simply because there is no rhyme or reason during the dumping, and diverse items will be lumped together in the dreams. Some people report the ability to impose structure and control over dreaming. Others (myself included) dream as if conditions match those when we are awake; for example, if in my dream I am not wearing my glasses, my vision in the dream is just as blurry as it is in my waking.
Having had numerous experiences of "prophetic" dreams of trivial or mundane things, I've spent many years getting anecdotal corroboration of this phenomenon... meaning it seems to me to be fairly common. Sometimes, I wake up knowing I will experience what I just dreamt. Mostly, it comes to me as an intense moment of deja vu that I immediately remember as having dreamt it.
Personally, ascribing spiritual significance to this phenomenon is at best a distraction, and at worst a source of fear where I have found nothing to justify such fear. It is poorly explained, but I have yet to hear of a bona fide experience that caused anyone spiritual harm (other than the fear reactions of others).
Reminds me of my favorite Woody Allen Nostradamus prophecy: "In the New World, there will be a place called 'California' and a man named Joseph Cotton will live there."
Spooky!
Masha: And i started to think: It's all Roman, everything is like in Rome here. It is Rome! Rome. And woke up repeating that.
It is not surprising that you felt that so much of St. Peterburg reminded you of Rome. Peter the Great hired Italian architects to build his "Window on the West" in a Renaissance style; it was a deliberate attempt to "europeanize" Russia and make a break with the medieval past.
Not uncoincidentally, Voltaire and the Empress Catherine the Great were avid correspondents. He was the source of many of her Enlightenment ideas, ideas she ceased to foster when the excesses of the French Revolution caused her consternation.
Catherine purchased the library of Voltaire after his death; I would like one day to see it.
Time to call in that most eminent of *eminences grises* among pre-1945 Tory anarchists, Albert Jay Nock, from, of course, The Memoirs of a Superfluous Man, a book "too good to be true" in the words of one critic, to which will nod in accord all for whom the book has proved the transforming where-have-you-been-all-my-life companion of a lifetime:
"My father told me of a strange incident in his mother's life
which made such an impression on him that he remembered it
clearly, although he was no more than five or six years old
when it happened. While he was playing in the garden with
two of his sisters a very large grey bird appeared, circled
slowly two or three times overhead, and settled on one of the
window-sills in my grandmother's bedroom. My grandmother
came to the door at once, apparently in great distress, and said,
"Come in the house, children; your grandfather is dead." Some
weeks later (those being the days of sailing-ships) she got a
letter telling her that her father had indeed died in his home
in Staffordshire at precisely that hour. His illness was short, and
his death wholly unlooked-for; he was supposed to be in the
best of health. If my grandmother ever gave any account of
her sensations at the moment, my father did not know of it;
no doubt she did, but he was unlikely to have heard anything
about it, since such matters were not much discussed in the
hearing of children. The odd thing is that my grandmother
would be the last person whom one would associate with any
metapsychical or superpsychical or extrapsychical (or whatever
the right word may be) experience. She was preeminently
placid and wholesome of mind, abounding in the unimaginative
good sense so typically English of the Midlands, and one would
say quite insensitive to impressions originating at all outside
the commonplace."
mises.org/books/nockmemoirs.pdf
p. 10
In answer to your question Rod. Yes, Constantly! All my life.
Not so much specific words but senses, dreams, etc. Sometimes for small trivial things but also for turning points, deaths, decisions. But it's all completely random. I can't really 'make' it go off.
At one point the sense was happening so often that I started telling people and asking them to remember. So that when the events did happen people would believe me.
I've learned to take the small seemingly insignificant moments as a sign that I'm going in the right direction.
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Richard, I seem to remember a Brady Bunch episode to that effect once.... ;)
Dreaming is in large part the dumping of garbage from your subconscious. Delirium and hallucination experienced at a certain point during sleep deprivation is the mind's attempt to do the dumping without the safety of being asleep.Dreams are often chaotic simply because there is no rhyme or reason during the dumping, and diverse items will be lumped together in the dreams...
The best analogy I've heard is that dreaming is basically your brain running a de-fragmetation routine - basically doing system-maintenance of a sort while we sleep: sorting all the sensations and thoughts we have while awake into long-term memory and such. That probably sounds hopelessly reductionist and materialistic to people like Rod, but there you have it.
I also note that several people on this thread - including Rod - have made a point to note the apparent "randomness" of this supposed phenomenon. I humbly suggest that therein lies the answer to this "mystery" - they're entirely random coincidences, and have no intrinsic meaning other than what one decides to ascribe to them.
How's that for reductionist and materialistic?
Crikey! I was just thinking precisely of the whole "de-fragmentation" analogy when reading this thread a few hours ago...great minds think alike - and so do we: to quote a catchphrase of a friend's and mine, as we take turns playing Boswell to each other's Johnson...
I'm so glad you asked!
My night hours overflow with dreams.... it's like going to a double feature at the movies every night, or curling up with a book of short stories. My dreams are always vivid, creative and complex. It's as if my dreams transport me to a parallel universe for the night. The kooky thing is that when my dreams pull from the "real" events and people of my daily life, they usually reflect an OPPOSITE plot of my "real", waking hours --- so my parallel universe is also my "bizarro world". If in my daily reality, my dreams work things out to be a "success", then in my dreams they'll be a "failure". If I dream about someone who loves me, in the dream they hate me. I also will find myself laughing when I should be crying - and visa versa. I often wake myself up laughing or crying at the oddest things.
I don't know what all this could possibly mean, and after decades of dreaming like this I've given up trying to figure it out. During my waking hours I live a reasonably stable, healthy, and happy life, in a reasonably stable, happy and healthy family - so I guess my dreams really don't "mean" anything.... (like my husband often likes to remind me).
Miss Mary
Yes. This has been happening to me since childhood. It will be about nothing much, but the dream will take place in real life. Just a few times have I been warned with a dream. The warnings made me more aware and I was able to manage what might have been unmanageable.
I completely agree that *Most* of the time dreams are defragmenters.
But rarely, every so often, a different type of dream does take place. And those are the type I'm talking about.
But I wasn't just talking dreams. I'm jumping from the completely rational to what we at my Church call 'The Life in the Spirit'. There are actual Gifts of the Holy Spirit - like Word of Knowledge that fall in line with some of the occurrences mentioned above.
Sometimes I've known someone is about to die. I guess this is common among some nurses. They recognize signs, etc. But with no real medical training, I'm not sure I can attribute it to that. And it's not as if I want to know. I see someone in passing. And Just a really strong thought comes my way.
I can ignore it but it's there. I think as a Christian I do believe there are metaphysical realities that we have yet to or may never grasp til we get to heaven. And to me There's no denying the power of the Holy Spirit. I've seen people truly miraculously healed through prayer. As yet to be proven doesn't make something that's true, less true.
The one thing that stood out to me in these posts was someone mentioning Rod's words were also the words of someone as they were denouncing Christianity. Was that right/accurate?
If so, I'd just throw in the standard caution from the NT to test all spirits. That those from God can say "Jesus Christ is Lord". All others should be rebuked. There's a reason why God's Spirit is called the *Holy* Spirit. It's because there are others. Nothing at all to be afraid of, God's won the victory. But since this blog is a fairly powerful witness to the Gospel. It's always good to be wide awake to understanding these teachings and recognize the whole concept of spiritual warfare. And to test. God's Blessings. and.
pax christi
For me, these experiences helped me come to understand that there is something beyond me at work in my world. It doesn't matter how trivial and seemingly unimportant the message is because it is the message itself that is the message (if you can understand that, my hats are off to you :) Sometimes I think I'm getting schooled about my life when I sleep. I just happen to recall the last sentence of the school day when I wake up.
The way I remember the meaning of ecraser is the wonderfully Gallic term for roadkill, "ecrase' dans la rue." Dream Cafe used to have an elaborate version of a patty melt listed on its menu by that name . . .
Not trivial - I once dreamed that one of my family's two Siamese cats was still alive - he had disappeared shortly before the family moved from Pennsylvania to Maryland.
About a year after we moved, we got a call from someone in our former town, who had discovered that her elderly relative had been feeding the cat, who was living in a city park about two miles from his former home. She couldn't see well enough to read the name on the tag. Her younger relative tracked us down, and my brothers drove to PA and brought the cat home, hardly the worse for living outside for a year.
This cat lived to be more than 20.
Another weird dream phenomenon I used to have when I was younger was having dreams that I was not in. I mean, I *was* in the dream, but I was not myself.
I remember dreaming that I was an old Irish man walking home at sunset, past the pub. Another time I was a Portuguese sailor in what appeared to be the 1700's, and we were sailing through the South Pacific in search of a place called the "Sandwich Islands". Later I found out that was the name Captain Cook had given what are now the Hawaiian Islands. My other 18th-century dream was that I was a young woman who found my husband out in the fields, apparently murdered. I can still remember the overwhelming grief and loss of that dream. Another time I was a young Scandinavian or German girl; I was braiding my long blonde hair and putting it up in a hairstyle of long braids wrapped around my head, in a whitewashed room with an oval mirror. There was another one involving being at a formal party of some sort in Philadelphia on a cold, clear winter night.
Most of these dreams occurred from ages nine or ten until fourteen or so, then they pretty much stopped. Yet I can still recall them as clearly and vividly as if I just woke up from them.
I don't believe in reincarnation or anything, but it was rather weird to have so many dreams like that. My husband says it is evidence that I was a nerdy weird kid ;) Has anyone else had dreams in which they were someone totally different than themselves?
I have those dreams a lot, Salamander. Oftentimes, I find I or somebody in my dream is a combination of several people. When I read Freud's "Interpretation of Dreams" I discovered the idea of condensation - that dreams condense several related ideas (or in the case of people, character traits) together. Fascinating stuff, and I highly recommend the book. Freud is actually a good writer, so it's not a difficult book to get into.
Three weeks ago or so, I had gotten up a little earlier than usual and went to the kitchen to start breakfast.
I started with coffee, but as I reached for the coffeepot a really odd thought occurred to me: "There's a cockroach in the coffee-maker." And the thought was just as plain as could be -- any more clear and I would've actually heard the words out loud.
And so I gingerly opened the lid, and sure enough a little light-brown cockroach was right there, plain as could be. (I know, I know -- Ewww, squared.)
Now there was no way I could have seen the cockroach without opening the lid. And the cockroach was very small and completely silent. And, I'm definitely NOT in the habit of seeing cockroaches in my coffeemaker.
But there he was, and I am absolutely positive that there was something freaky going on with my consciousness.
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I have often had dreams of places that were ordinary and easily forgotten. In some cases it wasn't until years later that I would find myself in what appeared to be the same exact location that I had dreamed of years earlier. It's odd, because when I have these dreams they seem to be of absolutely no consequence and I have no idea if they mean anything at all. But when I have found myself in these places that I have dreamt of, it is startling to me how vividly I recall the dream in the first place.
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