The current issue of The Advocate, a neighborhood magazine here in Dallas, tells the story of Joseph and Priscilla Deng (see page 51 on the PDF). They are a young Sudanese refugee couple who found refuge in Dallas. They met...
What an incredible story! It needs to be taken up and published by a national magazine like Reader's Digest or something. The sheer honesty of Joseph I think would put a lot of people to shame. I will keep this family in my prayers. Rod, maybe someone from your paper can do a follow-up story on this family.
BTW, for anyone linking to the PDF file, please note: Even though the article is on page 51 of the magazine it is actually on the 26th or so page of the PDF file. Each page of the PDF file contains two pages of the magazine.
Nate W
April 3, 2008 12:51 AM
This is a bit off topic, but is Central Market as impressive as the website makes it seem? I'm moving to Dallas in the fall to study at SMU, and as the food lover that I am, I'm always on the lookout for great places to get groceries. We've got an excellent farmer's market/world market here in Atlanta (that also hires a large number of immigrants) that I dread leaving, but knowing that there are great options in Dallas might make the transition a bit easier.
maria
April 3, 2008 5:48 AM
Quite natural behaviour for an honest man. He found it in the shop, not on the street, owner of the bag might remeber where he left it and return for it. Is the fact that the man was black and poor presupposed that he 100% should have stolen it? Call me naive, i don't believe that honesty depends much on the level of income.
maria
April 3, 2008 5:55 AM
A propos, some people describe taking family to USA as something easy as going for a walk, demanding only some cash for the ticket, and nothing else. It is interesting how they manage to get visas for their poor relatives? One russian woman who is married to the USA citizen complained that her poor father is denied visa, he can't come to see her even as tourist (he has small income, and obviously it is presupposed that he will not want to return home), generally people with official income lower than a certain level are not allowed to enter USA as tourists, and some people are denied visas just without any explanation. Grown-ups can get employment invitations, but i wonder how pensioneres and little children get to them? Maybe relatives of employees from different countries are approached in different ways.
Rod Dreher
April 3, 2008 7:07 AM
Nate: This is a bit off topic, but is Central Market as impressive as the website makes it seem? I'm moving to Dallas in the fall to study at SMU, and as the food lover that I am, I'm always on the lookout for great places to get groceries.
Yeah, it really is that great -- and it's about a minute's drive from SMU. When we were moving to Dallas from NYC, I was broken-hearted about leaving New York, and Julie softened the blow by renting us a house not far from CM.
Rod Dreher
April 3, 2008 7:12 AM
Quite natural behaviour for an honest man. He found it in the shop, not on the street, owner of the bag might remeber where he left it and return for it. Is the fact that the man was black and poor presupposed that he 100% should have stolen it?
Of course not. The money was not found in the shop, but in a cart in the parking lot -- that's not clear from the story, I see. But I shop at this store, so I understand from that knowledge that the job Joseph had in those days was to retrieve shopping carts left in the parking lot. Anyway, the amazing thing about this was that any man, whatever his color, who was desperate for money to bring his wife and daughter into America from a refugee camp, would be tempted to take that money. I hope that I would have had the honesty to have done what Joseph did, but to find that kind of money sitting on the street, basically, and to be in such need -- well, I don't know what I would have done.
Peterk
April 3, 2008 11:16 AM
Central Market is more than just "a grocery store" it is an experience. Every time I visit Dallas I make sure to make at least one trip to CM. If you're a real foodie you'll love the store. Wish we had one here in Richmond Virginia
Brooke
April 5, 2008 4:51 PM
Oh goodness ... is someone really turning this into a race question? The only mention of race is where the gentleman was from in order to show his need. When in need ... there is a different kind of temptation. He could have reasoned with himself and said that God was providing for him in this way ... many people would have thought that. Rather, he had the high moral integrity to see through need and justification and do what was right ... no matter who he was or where he was from. But the truth is ... so many people use need of any kind (financial, emotional ...) to cloud their decisionmaking and justify wrong behavior. Applaud the young man and don't turn something that was never about race into a race question ... for any reason.
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What an incredible story! It needs to be taken up and published by a national magazine like Reader's Digest or something. The sheer honesty of Joseph I think would put a lot of people to shame. I will keep this family in my prayers. Rod, maybe someone from your paper can do a follow-up story on this family.
BTW, for anyone linking to the PDF file, please note: Even though the article is on page 51 of the magazine it is actually on the 26th or so page of the PDF file. Each page of the PDF file contains two pages of the magazine.
This is a bit off topic, but is Central Market as impressive as the website makes it seem? I'm moving to Dallas in the fall to study at SMU, and as the food lover that I am, I'm always on the lookout for great places to get groceries. We've got an excellent farmer's market/world market here in Atlanta (that also hires a large number of immigrants) that I dread leaving, but knowing that there are great options in Dallas might make the transition a bit easier.
Quite natural behaviour for an honest man. He found it in the shop, not on the street, owner of the bag might remeber where he left it and return for it. Is the fact that the man was black and poor presupposed that he 100% should have stolen it? Call me naive, i don't believe that honesty depends much on the level of income.
A propos, some people describe taking family to USA as something easy as going for a walk, demanding only some cash for the ticket, and nothing else. It is interesting how they manage to get visas for their poor relatives? One russian woman who is married to the USA citizen complained that her poor father is denied visa, he can't come to see her even as tourist (he has small income, and obviously it is presupposed that he will not want to return home), generally people with official income lower than a certain level are not allowed to enter USA as tourists, and some people are denied visas just without any explanation. Grown-ups can get employment invitations, but i wonder how pensioneres and little children get to them? Maybe relatives of employees from different countries are approached in different ways.
Nate: This is a bit off topic, but is Central Market as impressive as the website makes it seem? I'm moving to Dallas in the fall to study at SMU, and as the food lover that I am, I'm always on the lookout for great places to get groceries.
Yeah, it really is that great -- and it's about a minute's drive from SMU. When we were moving to Dallas from NYC, I was broken-hearted about leaving New York, and Julie softened the blow by renting us a house not far from CM.
Quite natural behaviour for an honest man. He found it in the shop, not on the street, owner of the bag might remeber where he left it and return for it. Is the fact that the man was black and poor presupposed that he 100% should have stolen it?
Of course not. The money was not found in the shop, but in a cart in the parking lot -- that's not clear from the story, I see. But I shop at this store, so I understand from that knowledge that the job Joseph had in those days was to retrieve shopping carts left in the parking lot. Anyway, the amazing thing about this was that any man, whatever his color, who was desperate for money to bring his wife and daughter into America from a refugee camp, would be tempted to take that money. I hope that I would have had the honesty to have done what Joseph did, but to find that kind of money sitting on the street, basically, and to be in such need -- well, I don't know what I would have done.
Central Market is more than just "a grocery store" it is an experience. Every time I visit Dallas I make sure to make at least one trip to CM. If you're a real foodie you'll love the store. Wish we had one here in Richmond Virginia
Oh goodness ... is someone really turning this into a race question? The only mention of race is where the gentleman was from in order to show his need. When in need ... there is a different kind of temptation. He could have reasoned with himself and said that God was providing for him in this way ... many people would have thought that. Rather, he had the high moral integrity to see through need and justification and do what was right ... no matter who he was or where he was from. But the truth is ... so many people use need of any kind (financial, emotional ...) to cloud their decisionmaking and justify wrong behavior. Applaud the young man and don't turn something that was never about race into a race question ... for any reason.
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