Russell Arben Fox, the cultural sentinel who first informed YWB about the new kiddie book promoting the virtues of plastic surgery, weighs in on the relative demerits of that volume, versus a kid's book normalizing pot smoking. Russell doesn't like either book, but says he finds the pro-pot kiddie book stupid and earnest; the pro-plastic surgery book, now that's a real scandal. Read all about it.

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...these books are selling an illusion: the one, that responsible parents break the law and teach their children about it...
In the perfect unambiguous morally clear lack of relativism universe that is.
...and not just because the "before" mother, as drawn, is more likely to make real women snort "Ha! You think *you've* got problems, bimbo?" than to sympathize with her.
Well put, Erin. The art of the book simply drips with the same sort of maddening, false, and hopefully mostly unconscious assumptions about women's appearances which its target audience know doubt already swims in: this mother, who wants to look "prettier," is already a Barbie-propotions beauty, with requisite bare midriff. Simply ridiculous.
[T]he marijuana book is clearly fiction....[whereas] the few pages of the plastic Mommy book available to look at online don't ring so immediately false.
Good observation. I've no doubt that there's some small set of parents in upscale corners of the nation who really do act in ways similar to that portrayed in the first book, but overall I agree: with all its stock characters (the marijuana farmer, the wise doctor, the hip black troublemakers, etc.), it tells a story that is more obviously stylized and fictional than the other, whose earnestness is all the more troubling simply because it doesn't have to stretch for a patina of "normality"--the project of rebuilding the self is simply taken at face value, the only possible downside being a child who might misunderstand all those bandages.
Plastic surgery, on the other hand, isn't something you have to worry about people hanging about on street corners trying to sell to your kids. At least not yet.
True--but there are advertisments on the street corners selling images and expectations which plastic surgeons (and fashion designers, etc.) enourage young women to embrace, with consequences that I, at least, suspect may well be worse that those offered by the pot dealer. At any rate, I'd rather live in a place where I can keep my daughters mostly free of both.
Marijuana's not completely harmless, it is still illegal, and giving children the idea that some illegal drugs are fine for grown-ups seems to be a pretty dangerous message...
Why not? The most well-adjusted-towards-alcohol kids seem to be the ones that understand that alcohol is for adults, and when they are old enough they can choose to drink or not, but right now that's not an option for them.
I fail to see why that message wouldn't work with pot too.
There are plenty of things that are allowed for adults and not for children until a certain age. Parents can either pretend those things don't exist or are horrible horrible options, or they can have rational discussions about how some choices, as decided in general by society and agreed with by them, need to wait until a little later.
Saying 'You can't ever smoke pot' would seem to be a very good way to, tada, have a teenager smoke pot. Whereas explaining that there can be serious consequences and that it's not an option for now, but if they really want to risk it when they are adults they can, seems a bit saner. I mean, factually speaking, parents can't ban someone from smoking pot when they're 30, so it seems a bit absurd for them to not admit that.
...especially when combined with the message they'll be getting in school and elsewhere that clearly contradicts this.
The message they get at school WRT drugs is clearly not working. At all.
"Marijuana's not completely harmless."
Though much less harmless than say, alcohol or cigarettes.
Boobs all around is the way I see it. :D
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