Rod Dreher is an editorial columnist for the Dallas Morning News, and author of "Crunchy Cons" (Crown Forum), a nonfiction book about conservatives, most of them religious, whose faith and political convictions sometimes put them at odds with mainstream conservatives. The views expressed in this blog are his own.
(1) Fr. Dwight Longenecker had a recent post in which he basically says he's glad to be gone from that neopagan island.
(2) I'm beginning to wonder if dhimmitude wouldn't be such a bad option. I suspect under Islamic rule we'd have to put up with a lot less cultural BS. Sometimes in the past I've thought similar things in jest and cynicism, but this morning I'm wondering if I'm not serious.
(3) The past week or so has been nothing but bad news on the culture front: gay "marriage" here, chimeras there, etc etc. I'm beginning to really lose hope. It's gonna take something like a worldwide cataclysm to be able to begin over.
(4) And finally, a question: given the serious damage and injustice governments can commit, is it really time to withdraw, time for a fast from politics? Or should we remain involved but perhaps less sanguine about our prospects and more cynical towards those politicians who claim to be concerned with our concerns?
Just to clarify, I in no way gloat or take any satisfaction at what's happening to Britain. In fact, I grieve it. It is the mother country, culturally speaking, for all English-speaking peoples. And besides, aside from the creeping Islamization, what's happening in the UK is happening here too, though to a different degree.
FRom my Protestant prospective, everything is going exactly as predicted. Not a cheery thought. And what is even scarier ia: the guy with all the answers is the one we have to be afraid of.
Thanks Rod. I saw this story last night (linked from a popular internet headline site) and almost puked. This entire bill -- from the legalization of man-beast hybrids to the sidelining of fathers -- indeed represents all that you have described.
We must fight like hell and be DAMNED WELL CERTAIN this nonsense does not happen here. This fight must take place on every front.
I don't know about the 'hybrid' business. But last I checked, our national laws didn't have a requirement to have either a father or male role model present to be able to use a fertility clinic.
Specific clinics may choose to, there may be individual states that have made a law to that effect, but.. we didn't have the law in the first place. So, 'that nonsense' is, technically, already here now.
Of course, the type of person (financial status, etc) going to deliberately get pregnant, potential father involved or not, is likely in a different place and position than the one who is either made that way by either chance (death, etc) or the other party's choice (dumped either with or without marriage, before or after the child is born). So, might be comparing apples and oranges by comparing general fatherless family statistics with that of people using fertility clinics.
The following is taken from The Big Payoff: Educational Attainment and Synthetic Estimates of Work-Life Earnings. You can find the report online at the Census Bureau's web site by googling the paper title.
"for full-time, year-round workers, the 40-year synthetic earnings estimates are about $1.0 million (in 1999 dollars) for high school dropouts, while completing high school would increase earnings by another quarter-million dollars (to $1.2 million). People who attended some college (but did not earn a degree) might expect work-life earnings of about $1.5 million, and slightly more for people with associates degrees ($1.6 million). Over a work-life, individuals who have a bachelor’s degree would earn on average $2.1 million — about one third more than workers who did not finish college, and nearly twice as much as workers with only a high school diploma. A master’s degree holder tops a bachelor’s degree holder at $2.5 million. Doctoral ($3.4 million) and professional degree holders ($4.4 million)do even better."
It's, obviously, important that children have parents to care for them. I think that it's best when children have two parents of the opposite sex to care for them because they get a male and female role model. It's best when the male and female role models have good parenting skills and don't have some sort of a problem that interferes with being a good role model. For instance, a male who treats the female(mother) poorly or in a chauvinistic manner might not be the best role model. A mother with a substance abuse problem might not be the best role model. I'm sure that we can all think of many examples of kids who have parents that appear to the outside world as being traditional parents because one is male and the other female, and inside we all groan because of what the kids are learning to model from their very traditional looking parents.
So life's not always optimal. Sometimes children don't get what I might consider to be the very best. Do I cry that the sky is falling when I see a heterosexual couple with poor parenting skills raising a child? Do I try to intervene and take the children away from two parents because I think that the parents aren't great role models? Only if I see children being physically or emotionally abused. The very great majority of the time, I just shake my head and sigh because heterosexual couples have the right in this country to produce children and be poor role models.
Why shouldn't homosexuals have that same right? Has it been shown that 2 parents of the same sex can't raise a child in a loving home and be good role models to a child? Can they really do any worse than MOST of the heterosexuals out there who are parents?
The sky isn't falling.
Irenaeus writes:
" ... given the serious damage and injustice governments can commit, is it really time to withdraw, time for a fast from politics? Or should we remain involved but perhaps less sanguine about our prospects and more cynical towards those politicians who claim to be concerned with our concerns?"
Irenaeus,
It's a great question you ask. I appreciate -- and often share --- your mood. However, what choice do we have but not to engage? Much good is obtained by our continuing to draw attention to these problems and making good arguments for our positions. Why do I say this?
For one thing, we're on the right side of these arguments. Unquestionably :-)
Secondly, we must trust in the inherent common sense of people. So we carefully listen to the "signs of the times," sharpen our arguments, and engage in "creative orthodoxy." What could be more fun :-) ? And we draw people towards our position. Not everyone will be persuaded, but enough to make a difference. Especially among the young.
Finally, all these developments will inevitably result in social collapse. We know that already. My question: will orthodox believers be in place and prepared to "pick up the pieces" after the collapse? Years ago, I read a biography of Konrad Adenauer, the first prime minister of a post-war Germany. Adenauer was a committed Christian who spent many of the war years incarcerated by the Nazis. He endured (as did many other Germanss, including an awkward teenager named Joseph Ratzinger, who aspired to be a priest). Inevitably, the Nazis collapsed. People like Adenauer and Ratzinger and others emerged from the ruins and "picked up the pieces."
As for dealing with the politicians, I recommend one of the more interesting essays written by the historian (and former magazine journalist) Garry Wills which he wrote in the 1960s entitled, I recall, "The Convenient State." It was included in the famous anthology of American conservative political thought edited by William Buckley in the 1970s. What I recall from the essay was Wills' notion that politicians were "political brokers" who were useful for their ability to create shifting coalitions that could garner 50%+ majorities and advance the agendas of the different parties to these coalitions.
Wills' attitude towards politicians was entirely dispassionate. He believed they served a useful function but were not to be the objects either of our devotion or of our hatred. They are not political messiahs either to be praised on Palm Sunday or crucified on Good Friday. In other words, we "work" with political leaders to achieve our ends but not expect too much of them.
And how did David Cameron leader of the Tory (Conservative and Unionist Party) vote?
Look around, and you see the rise of this type of thing everywhere. In my office, two of my single female colleagues have chosen to have kids without having a man (or even a woman partner). One sent out birth announcements that said "Kathy announces the birth of her children Jimmy and Suzie." There is absolutely no indication of who the sperm donor (I can't use the word father) might be. What I wonder is this: when Jimmy and Suzie reach the age when they ask who their daddy is, what will mommy tell them?
Technological possibility is driving morality in this country. Childbirth has become the ultimate shopping experience.
For those who would rather live under Islamic rule than in a society that tolerates this type of freedom, please, please, move to Saudi Arabia tomorrow to test that belief.
Rod had said, or implied, in a recent essay that Western secular culture is based on Enlightenment thinking and that this type of thought might not be compatible with Christianity. Well, if Enlightenment thought is leading us to fatherless children and gay marriage, then it's clear to me that such a culture is doomed. Perhaps we should applaud cultural self-destructiveness from the courts as it will hasten the demise of secular society and perhaps lead to a rejection of such in favor of a Christian culture.
As Rod said (he was referring to gay marriage, but I think the same applies to this situation as well), the court decisions are very logical and based on the thought processes of our social system, so when those very logical decisions lead to cultural sickness or death, well people will have to reject some of the axioms on which our secular society is based. It isn't the logic that's the problem, it's the axioms. I think Rod really hit the nail on the head with that essay about Enlightenment thought leading us to rational conclusions via the courts that we might not like.
For those who would rather live under Islamic rule than in a society that tolerates this type of freedom, please, please, move to Saudi Arabia tomorrow to test that belief.
Yeah! Love it or leave it!
Umm.. if that was offered to them out of the blue, it might be appropriate.
When they say they'd almost rather LIVE in such a society than ours, then they were the ones who are not loving, and considering leaving.
The other party is just saying they are welcome to do so.
Yeah! Love it or leave it!
Why should conservatives be asked to leave? We are not the one's eroding the foundations of this great civilization. It is those who don't know the difference between freedom and license that do that.
PS - I think what the posters above are pointing out is, like with Rome, a more vital, even if less advanced civilization, will probably come along in our moment of weakness... The main idea being, we will not need to go anywhere to discover the joys of "dhimmitude" if we are so blasted stupid we can't even figure out what a family is, or for that matter that we are limited and finite creatures. It will come to us! Anyway, that is what is happening in Britain if you read the statements of the Archbishop of Cant. and Bishop Nazir-Ali (who happens to be a Muslim convert from Pakistan.)
They're not being TOLD to leave. They just keep saying that 'maybe it'd be better to live in '(insert Islamic theocracy here) 'than here'.
THEY keep saying they might leave.
The Bible is clearly against male homosexuality, which would matter to me if I believed in the Bible. Also, although I am not sure I accept them, there are at least secular cases to be made against it (eg. promiscuity, and various objections to anal sex). However, can anyone, anywhere, show me a moral case against lesbianism?
As for the issues that have been voted on in the UK parliament, they were as follows:
1. Hybrid embryos to be allowed to be used. These are animal eggs containing small amounts of human DNA. On balance, I guess I'm against this for slippery-slope reasons, although I'm not sure I'd feel like that if my family members needed urgent medical research.
2. Women can get AI without a male partner. As someone pointed out, this is already legal in the USA. I'm not sure that all that data about the bad effects of single parenthood are relevant to someone, probably fairly prosperous, who delibarately takes this option. What exactly is the objection to lesbians having children?
3. The decision was made, by a narrow margin, not to reduce the abortion cut-off from 24 weeks. Now, being pro-life, I think this was the wrong decision. However, the US limit is 26 weeks, so the criticism of the UK is not all that appropriate here. The UK has one of the latest limits in western Europe (I think only Holland is later).
Also, please, feel free to move to Saudi Arabia.
"can anyone, anywhere, show me a moral case against lesbianism"
Read up on the Catholic Church's teaching on natural law. If you know what sex is for, you use it for that purpose. It has an end proper to it, and lesbianism does not aim at, and indeed frustrates this purpose.
What exactly is the objection to lesbians having children?
It's not normal. It's not traditional. Throughout the ages, the norm has been for a male and female to marry, have babies, buy a pet, and live happily ever after. The father goes to work and brings home the bread. The mother cares for the children and fries the bread up in the pan. It's normal. Boys look at their father and learn how to be a real man. Girls look at their mother and learn how to be a real woman. They each look at the opposite sex role model and decide they want to marry a real man/woman just like mom and dad. It's the natural order of things.
Lesbians don't belong anywhere in this beautiful picture. They have no place. They need to accept that they are misfits and get back into the closet where they belong so that the boys and girls don't need to see this abnormal crap.
How can you even ask that question? Where have you been?
Karen: 'hybrid' business is not going on here. You can't get much $$$ to experiment on human embryos on this side of the pond... Though lots of people are pushing for stem cell research and cloning b/c their life is more important that the unborn child's...(we knew that, see Roe v. Wade.)
"Our national laws didn't have a requirement to have either a father or male role model present to be able to use a fertility clinic."
- No, but that is different from enshrining this into law as a right.
"Comparing general fatherless family statistics with that of people using fertility clinics."
But what gives us the right to experiment on the next generation like that? What about the kids intentionally deprived of a father? Who cares??? We'll just medicate them.
I have a co-worker who did this, and now she wants to complain about how difficult it is to be a single mom!!! Some people in this country are selfish and irresponsible... But that doesn't mean we should enable them.
The issue is: Is it a right to have a child? Is it a right to kill one when inconvenient. A child is neither a right, or an inconvenience. A child is a person, made in the image of God, and deserving of love and respect. It really is pretty simple.
Posted by: Irenaeus | May 21, 2008 8:42 AM
Don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out. I'm glad that the Christofascist types are starting to recognize that their religious beliefs resemble Wahabism with some minor theological quibbles. I've been saying it for years.
Eleazer Williams
This item is, of course, welcome news to that species of feminist which believes that all the world's problems result from an overabundance of testosterone.
For those who say Gay Parents are at least as good as Hetero's... Read the story of Dawn Stefanowicz.
http://www.virtueonline.org/portal/modules/news/article.php?storyid=4839
Bob: "Yeah! Love it or leave it."
IIRC the phrase from my generation was "Fix it or F--- it!"
Watsy, The sky isn't falling.
Irenaeus, I'm beginning to really lose hope. It's gonna take something like a worldwide cataclysm to be able to begin over...is it really time to withdraw...?
The two views, presented side by side. Nothing could be clearer.
As for myself, I grabbed the Irenaeus Bus about ten years ago, and never looked back. I'm constantly flabergasted how cultural conservatives can remain so blasé. The frog getting boiled alive in the pot comes to mind.
Often it's generational. Those of us raised in the cultural wastelands often have a different view of the sky, methinks.
As cultural conservatives become less and less relevant to actual decision making, this sort of thing is to be expected.
Rombald, I agree with you that things in some ways as bad in the US. It all comes from the same cultural idea.
As for the "love it or leave it," what an obnoxious point of view. Often when you love a country, your love requires you to be critical. Dissent, as the left often reminds us, is patriotic.
Please: I just glanced at the website you suggested. It is about children brought up my male homosexuals, and "exposed to nude beaches, "gay cruising" sites and sexually transmitted diseases". It doesn't really seem all that relevant to lesbian parenting, which is the point of discussion here.
"It doesn't really seem all that relevant to lesbian parenting, which is the point of discussion here."
I was responding to Watsy who made no such distinction. But I do think the site is rel. to the discussion. Certainly more so than a debate over whether your fellow citizens should move to Saudi Arabia.
Actually, it isn't 'enshrined into law'. They removed an existing law, making their system now like ours, which has no such law.
If they made a law specifically forbidding any law or practice that would lead to preventing those who didn't meet that law's requirments from getting fertility treatments, then we'd have something that was enshrined into law.
And they aren't 'experimenting' with children. They are having and raising them. Same as everyone else. If they were to deliberately engage in certain setups with the intent to observe the children to see how they respond in comparison with other setups, THAT would be an 'experiment'.
Whose natural law should we follow, the Catholic's, Orthodoxy, Pentecostal, LDS, Scientology? If people are turning away from natural law, I think it is because they are fed up with organized religion. Organized religion had its turn at running things, now people want to try something else. Maybe it will be the end of the civilization we know. But something else will spring up.
Well, might want to address that to the fellow citizens, who were the ones that were considering it.
Karen,
"might want to address that to the fellow citizens"
It's not addressed to anyone in particular. Thanks.
"If they were to deliberately engage in certain setups with the intent to observe the children to see how they respond in comparison with other setups, THAT would be an 'experiment'. "
Isn't that what supporters are proposing when they say we should be able to prove that it is harmful before it could be banned? How do you propose we do that??? Or is that not really an argument, just a debate point?
"Whose natural law should we follow? "
Natural law is natural law is natural law. Nothing to do with religion. It has to do with what man can know by nature according to reason. The problem is, we are abandoning reason... Saying things like "I don't know what a family is" when it is immediately apparent. "When is a person a person - as opposed to a bunch of inconvenient stuff that can be discarded." And on and on...
No, saying 'prove it is harmful' is NOT the same thing as conducting an experiment.
I stand there and I'm eating a fish sandwich. You say. 'You should stop doing that, it is bad for you!'
I say 'What are you talking about? I'm fine. Where's your proof that its harmful?'
Am I conducting an experiment by standing there, eating my fish sandwich?
Now, YOU may need to be conducting some experiments to come up with the proof. But, then again, you're the one (in that case) making the claim.
Natural law enforces itself. If something is 'against natural law', it isn't possible to do, outside of SUPERnatural intervention.
Therefore, if it is possible, its not against 'natural law'.
One doesn't 'break' the law of gravity, after all.
Bill, What I wonder is this: when Jimmy and Suzie reach the age when they ask who their daddy is, what will mommy tell them?
You never got an answer, Bill, so let me start my auto-reply machine and see what it spits out...
1) How evil and judgemental it is to even suggest MY kids might even desire such a thing! My body, my choice!
2) Any desire MY kids might have for a dad is obviously a social construct, foisted on our culture by evil conservatives.
3) Any problem they might have here comes from all those judgemental, sexist kids on the playground raised by Christians. Why won't they just all move to Saudi?
4) Haven't you read study [fill in the blank] that justifies my lifestyle?
5) "Hetro" parents [sorry, I can't even write this redundancy with a straight face!] are just as bad, or even worse! I once saw this "hetro" couple [fill in the blank with some twisted whatever].
Or, mdavid, what if they say something like "Well, as you know both your mommy's are homosexual, we're lesbians. We're not attracted to men sexually, although we like them just fine in any other way. So we did what many heterosexual couples did, we used a sperm bank, where men donated to help couples who were otherwise unable to conceive a child, for various reasons.
So we don't exactly know who your father was, biologically. (Or maybe they do, and could tell the children.) Whoever he was, we're grateful for his contribution in making you happen. But we've loved you, and done our best to raise you and give you all that we could. If you feel that you've missed out by not having a father living with you, we're sorry. We still think our family was very worthwhile, as are many heterosexual families that lack fathers, for various reasons.
But if you'd like to seek that person out if you can, and get to know them, we're very supportive of that. How can we help? We love you.
What if they did that, mdavid, which is frankly what I suspect about 85% of people would do in that circumstance, instead of the mean-spirited rants that you put forward.
Please!,
You found an article about a homosexual couple who abuses the kids, and you want to use that as a case to keep ALL homosexuals from raising children? Please! I'm not going to begin to follow that line of reasoning by googling child abuse. You and I both know that I'd find so many unfortunate cases of children born to irresponsible heterosexual married couples. Forget google. Andrea Yates? Remember her? Quite traditional in a sort of Christian, homeschooling, traditional lifestyle sort of way. I'd take Fred and Dave or Cindy and Susan over those two any day.(OK, M_David. Why can't you read that with a straight face? Maybe because it's kind of goofy to take an example here or there and generalize it to a population of caring and loving people?)
I agree with Rod. Let's stop telling people if they don't like it to head to Saudi Arabia. That's childish and obnoxious.
Sometimes I do think that the sky is falling, but not because single women want to be mothers. And not because a handful(statistically, it is a handful)of men love men or women love women. I think it's falling when I look around me and see people hating each other, killing each other, and treating each other with such venom. But then I go out into the real world and someone smiles at me and tells me to have a nice day. I read about someone trying to save a pitt bull puppy, and I get a case of the warm fuzzies and feel confident that our everlasting God who loves all of us unconditionally can't be killed and the love of God will prevail and keep that sky from hitting the ground.
More important that having a father:
a. Proper nutrition as an infant and child
b. Sufficient sleep as an infant, child and teen
c. Adequate human capital in the home (viz. http://www.willwilkinson.net/flybottle/2008/05/18/the-politics-of-human-capital/ )
d. Physical safety
(Actually, (c) comprises many things, probably including (a), (b) and (d).)
None of those factors is in any way worse in households where the child or children are the result of fertility treatments provided to (i) single straight women or (ii) lesbians compared to traditional heterosexual two-parent households. If anything, they're better.
Statistically, impoverished fatherless households -- where the fatherlessness, the youth of the single mothers, the larger number of children/woman, etc. are due to a dysfunctional culture, are entirely a different story; count me among those who thinks their existence is a dire problem.
As for single women and lesbians who use fertility clinics, though, for me to believe someone really cares about human beings, he would have to care most about maximally improving those four factors in heterosexual two-parent households before he permitted himself to spend time searching for other factors to despair over.
Let's assume for a moment that mommy gives Jimmy and Suzie the answer JPL suggests. The problem still will be this: deep in the kid's heart will be a staggering thought that will fester there for the rest of the kid's life. "I have no dad." Sorry, but a guy who donates sperm for the turkey baster is no father (not in any meaningful sense of the term).
And yes, this problem also exists when hetero couples decide to use sperm donated from someone else.
God save the kids born in such situations.
Not to burst your bubble JPL, but "the mean-spirited rants" Mdavid put forward are simply the arguments liberals use to justify their decisions on these matters, especially over against conservatives. But I'm glad you recognize these arguments are "mean spirited." As you illustrate, however, Mdavid might also add:
6) Any criticism conservatives offer is mean spirited! Those hateful conservatives! All of our criticism, however, just points out how they are ignorant and have embraced some obsolete "myth." It's not mean at all.
Anyway, carry on...
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In much of Europe, reproductive technology like this is highly regulated which is why this is even an issue in the UK. The U.S., by contrast, is the Wild West when it comes to this kind of technology because of the market-driven nature of health care.
I have to disagree with rr. I think that homosexual couples or single mothers would approach the subject more like JPL. The focus would be on the love within their family and between current parents/parent and child then on a hatred of conservatives. Really, I don't see conservatives entering that particular conversation.
If the person did feel that they were missing out by not having a father figure, I think that homosexual couples or single mothers should let the kids share those feelings. It's, certainly, something that all homosexual couples or single mothers should think about.
My two nephews lost their mother(death) when they were very young. Sometimes it concerns me that our family never really gave them the opportunity to talk about what that was like for them or what not having a mother was like for them. I guess we couldn't change it, so we hoped that Grandma primarily filling that role was enough.
Why should conservatives be asked to leave? We are not the one's eroding the foundations of this great civilization. It is those who don't know the difference between freedom and license that do that.
I don't know whether to laugh or cry at that. Of course you're not eroding the foundations, you've already crushed it with the sheer dead weight of your sanctimonious inertia.
I just had to say something about an earlier comment regarding role models. It is not the role model which a child really needs, although a role model can be helpful. Ideally a child needs the experience of living in a loving, permanent, dependent relationship with both a man and a woman, preferably their mother and father. It is this experience of dependence and trust on both the parent who you share a gender with AND (probably even more important) with the parent who is "the other" due to gender which allows a child to be able to grow up capable of bridging the divide between genders in a healthy way. Of course heterosexual couples can betray their child's need`for trusting dependence. However, same sex parenting removes even the possibility of this essential formative experience.
rr, the "mean-spirited rants" are poorly-worded caricatures of liberal arguments, presented in the worst possible light. And although I grant that there certainly are liberals who might well say such things, if said in those ways they wouldn't be overly wise.
I still believe that 85% of people, liberal or conservative, would attempt a more compassionate, understanding approach, along the lines I presented.
And, for the record, I was adopted, and never told about it until I was an early teen and discovered the truth for myself. I was quite angry. My parents presented the facts with all the compassion they had, and encouraged me to find my father. I did so, and things have worked out well for all concerned.
No one old enough to understand biology things that they have no father. As to not having a father figure in the house, many people lack that, on all sides of the sexual equation, for all sorts of reasons.
It's imperfect, just like the world. Christians don't decide that since the husband is imperfect, let's not have kids. Poor people don't decide that since their socio-economic status is imperfect for raising children, let's just forego it. No family is perfect. Why should gays be any different?
And by the way, rr...it really is self-defeating to sarcastically and mockingly claim that liberals accuse conservatives of being sarcastic and mocking.
the sheer dead weight of your sanctimonious inertia.
Quelle coincidence! That's the title of my long out of print solo album of lamentational madrigals for lute and Casio keyboard!
I smiled as I scanned the topics summed by the heads in the "Recent Posts" box forming the current scroll here at DefCon:
* ...Death of Man
* ...educational powderkeg
* Demographic winter (aka Death of Man)...
* Peak oil...
* ...the Church is Falling
* ...child murder witness
* ...brain tumor
* ...Death of Marriage
* Roman Empire: et tu, US?
Relief came at last when I spied this item tucked discreetly second from last:
* Humor briefs [NTB confused with my Pinocchio-fly'd shorts]
Then it occurred to me that those who bitch the most about this blog are the same faithful, shoulder to the wheel in posting most often in the comments, and at Encyclopædia length [mea gulpa, in a former life] - kind of like my dad, screaming two octaves above his normal range at Chris Matthews on Hardball for interrupting guests, before yelling "Coming, Dear" when Mater announces dinner, the better to load his plate during the commercial break...
Watching Rod the Tabloid Heart-on-Sleeve Fifth Horseman of A Couple Lips attempt to pull off the Mirror Scene from Duck Soup with his altar He-go the Recovering-Neocon Agrarian-Aristocrat-Aesthete-wannabe is dramedy of the highest order; no one will accuse him, to the extent he makes the daily headlines his lodestar, of being a stoic, let alone an avatar of my pet environmental obsession, Global Chilling...As a commenter on another thread summed it, It's entertaining, and it's free.
However, same sex parenting removes even the possibility of this essential formative experience.
Posted by: me | May 21, 2008 2:08 PM
Are you suggesting that if a child does not undergo this formative experience then it is better for it never to be born?
"the sheer dead weight of your sanctimonious inertia.
Quelle coincidence! That's the title of my long out of print solo album of lamentational madrigals for lute and Casio keyboard!"
Ok Rod, now that was funny. I nearly blew Coke on the keyboard.
Ideally a child needs the experience of living in a loving, permanent, dependent relationship with both a man and a woman, preferably their mother and father. It is this experience of dependence and trust on both the parent who you share a gender with AND (probably even more important) with the parent who is "the other" due to gender which allows a child to be able to grow up capable of bridging the divide between genders in a healthy way.
I agree that's best. It's optimal. It can't be beat. I know that my children would not do as well without me or my husband. They need us both and knowing that our relationship is stable makes them more secure. My girls learn about men from their father, and my son learns about women from me(scary thought). They learn about relationships from watching my husband and I interact. Sometimes they learn good lessons and sometimes they learn lessons that aren't so great. Really, I can't disagree with that.
But......once again, I have to agree with JPL. We permit people to make decisions all of the time that aren't the very best for everyone involved. We permit couples with children to divorce for just about any reason. Dad wants a new girlfriend instead of a new car? Kiss that stability goodbye. It seems to me that by telling homosexuals that they can't have kids because it's not optimal seems to be selectively picking on certain people.
I don't know how typical the comments on the Daily Telegraph website are of British expats as a whole. Most of the ones I know are like me, and moved overseas in order to marry someone they met online. Or their job moved them. The world is shrinking, and not everyone who moves to another country does so because they think their homeland is going to hell in a handbasket.
More important than having a father:
a. Proper nutrition as an infant and child
b. Sufficient sleep as an infant, child and teen
c. Adequate human capital in the home (viz. the post currently viewable at will wilkinson dot com, entitled "The Politics of Human Capital")
d. Physical safety
(Actually, (c) comprises many things, probably including (a), (b) and (d).)
None of those factors is in any way worse in households where the child or children are the result of fertility treatments provided to (i) single straight women or (ii) lesbians compared to traditional heterosexual two-parent households. If anything, they're better.
Statistically, impoverished fatherless households -- where the fatherlessness, the youth of the single mothers, the larger number of children/woman, etc. are due to a dysfunctional culture, are entirely a different story; count me among those who thinks their existence is a dire problem.
As for single women and lesbians who use fertility clinics, though, for me to believe someone really cares about human beings, he would have to care most about maximally improving those four factors in heterosexual two-parent households before he permitted himself to spend time searching for other factors to despair over.
Dissent, as the left often reminds us, is patriotic.
You'll recall I wasn't the one suggesting that dissenters move to Saudi Arabia.
Karen - "Therefore, if it is possible, its not against 'natural law'."
You don't understand what natural law is.
Whatsy - What you have failed to understand is that while any parent can abuse a child, the relationships you propose are by nature abusive.
JPL
I don't see much difference in fertility treatments either way. Both are based on the idea the a child is a right and a product. However, at least the child will have the good of a proper family, so, objectively speaking, while both are wrong, one is better.
And as far as single parent households, it does make a difference when you have planned to exclude a father. The situation is objectively different. I don't know that it would change the outcome for the child, but I would guess that it does. Bad things happen. That doesn't mean we should go out and do bad things. People die. That doesn't justify murder... See the difference?
Karen,
"saying 'prove it is harmful' is NOT the same thing as conducting an experiment."
Saying, you can't prove it is harmful, so we will try it and see what happens IS conducting an experiment. How is it different (please be specific.)
Again, Please!, they were doing it because they were already doing it, before anyone said it was harmful.
It is identical to my eating that fish sandwich. Is continuing to eat it an experiment because someone said, "Hey, that's bad for you!" without providing any basis for the statement?
Geez, if that is the case, with the plethora of actual reports, research, magazine articles, well meaning advice and old wives tales centering around child rearing, EVERY child is an experiment.
Bob,
"you've already crushed it with the sheer dead weight of your sanctimonious inertia."
You're funny... Anyway, could you flesh that out for me.
JPL - Sorry I think some of my comments above should have been directed to Watsy.
And for JPL, I'm talking about scientific laws about the physical world.
Now, if you're talking about that ethical/religious theory proposed initially by Aquinas, well, most of our legal system isn't based upon the theory, and it is hardly a legally binding argument.
Rod on sanctimonious inertia: Quelle coincidence! That's the title of my long out of print solo album of lamentational madrigals for lute and Casio keyboard!
One of these days, I bet I could whip up a line like this. Just once. If I'm lucky. Monkeys and keyboards and all that.
Until then: I live to hate Rod Dreher. All me wee feeble mind is bent on it.
JPL - "No one old enough to understand biology things that they have no father."
Just wait. This too will change. (c.f., cloning.)
Karen - "because they were already doing it, before anyone said it was harmful."
I doubt it. And I doubt it was done with out knowledge that it was novel. But I think it is possible for someone to unwittingly experiment. Don't you? Seems like the prior knowledge of the actor is a bit limiting to this discussion. B/c this is not s'thing that only impacts the individual, it has societal implications. Those arguing for these arrangemetns are asking the society to undertake an experiment.
As for all things in child rearing being experimental, the things you note are done with the good of the child in mind. This, clearly, is not. That is the big difference.
"You found an article about a homosexual couple who abuses the kids, and you want to use that as a case to keep ALL homosexuals from raising children? "
Not really. It is not about a single couple that abused kids. (Anyway there are plenty of other tales that could be told about the exp. of adopted gay parents - and the unwillingness to question the parents b/c of the fear of being labeled a bigot. I could find that article too if you like.) It is about an Adult Child of a Homosexual Couple that found the relationship to be inherently abusive, and she is acting out of concern for others similarly situated. you would think that all you "empiricists" and social engineers would want to review the evidence.
Do you think cruising, substance abuse, etc. are unusual in this population? Think this is a rare case?
For those who say lesbians are a diff't matter and this is gay men... do you think anyone would propose discriminating against gay men and only allowing females to procure children in this way. (admitedly, not EXACTLY the same way... but you get the point.)
"most of our legal system isn't based upon the theory, and it is hardly a legally binding argument."
We est. earlier that this is all the outworking of long accepted, "enlightened" princ.... These are, of course, now enshrined in law... That's not the question. We are not asking WHETHER it is legal. We are asking SHOULD it be. Different question altogether.
[QUOTE]Karen - "because they were already doing it, before anyone said it was harmful."
I doubt it.[/QUOTE]
Umm.. you can doubt all you want. Women have been raising children without men as long as there have been women, children, and men. And men have been doing so as well. Even before voluntary versions, war, famine, death, and abandonment have insured it.
Before any studies were done, before anyone knew HOW to do scientific studies, children have been raised dozens of different ways.
[QUOTE]And I doubt it was done with out knowledge that it was novel.[/QUOTE]
That's the point. It isn't all that novel. The technology is new, but that's about it.
[QUOTE]But I think it is possible for someone to unwittingly experiment. Don't you?[/QUOTE]
Nope. That one goes against the very definition of an experiment. An experiment isn't 'doing something new'. Most experiments are about things that have been happening for ages. When they did the experiment to determine if maggots came from rotting meat, meat had been rotting for forever. Maggots had been observed on rotted meat for, well, forever. There was not one novel thing about the situation.
What made it an experiment was the deliberate attempt to establish controls and observe the results, often with some sort of hypothesis in mind.
An experiment is nothing, if not deliberate.
[QUOTE]Seems like the prior knowledge of the actor is a bit limiting to this discussion. B/c this is not s'thing that only impacts the individual, it has societal implications. Those arguing for these arrangemetns are asking the society to undertake an experiment.[/QUOTE]
Again, this is not an 'experiment'. This is people, living their lives. And people do that dozens of different ways every single day. And are you proposing that parents have to ask society's permission on how to raise their children? (Not a very conservative notion, there...)
Again, this mostly arises from a very odd misunderstanding of what an experiment is.
Let's try the definition, just to get a handle on it.
"1. a test, trial, or tentative procedure; an act or operation for the purpose of discovering something unknown or of testing a principle, supposition."
It is done with purpose. It is a deliberate process. Something being unknown doesn't make it an experiment. Something being new doesn't make it an experiment.
[QUOTE]As for all things in child rearing being experimental, the things you note are done with the good of the child in mind. This, clearly, is not. That is the big difference.[/QUOTE]
That is your opinion. I won't say yours alone, since I know it is of others on this board and in society. But since you added 'in mind', I can say it is erroneous. Whether or not you think the 'good of the child' will result, you can NOT know what the prospective parents have 'in mind'.
[QUOTE]Karen - "because they were already doing it, before anyone said it was harmful."
I doubt it.[/QUOTE]
Umm.. you can doubt all you want. Women have been raising children without men as long as there have been women, children, and men. And men have been doing so as well. Even before voluntary versions, war, famine, death, and abandonment have insured it.
Before any studies were done, before anyone knew HOW to do scientific studies, children have been raised dozens of different ways.
[QUOTE]And I doubt it was done with out knowledge that it was novel.[/QUOTE]
That's the point. It isn't all that novel. The technology is new, but that's about it.
[QUOTE]But I think it is possible for someone to unwittingly experiment. Don't you?[/QUOTE]
Nope. That one goes against the very definition of an experiment. An experiment isn't 'doing something new'. Most experiments are about things that have been happening for ages. When they did the experiment to determine if maggots came from rotting meat, meat had been rotting for forever. Maggots had been observed on rotted meat for, well, forever. There was not one novel thing about the situation.
What made it an experiment was the deliberate attempt to establish controls and observe the results, often with some sort of hypothesis in mind.
An experiment is nothing, if not deliberate.
[QUOTE]Seems like the prior knowledge of the actor is a bit limiting to this discussion. B/c this is not s'thing that only impacts the individual, it has societal implications. Those arguing for these arrangemetns are asking the society to undertake an experiment.[/QUOTE]
Again, this is not an 'experiment'. This is people, living their lives. And people do that dozens of different ways every single day. And are you proposing that parents have to ask society's permission on how to raise their children? (Not a very conservative notion, there...)
Again, this mostly arises from a very odd misunderstanding of what an experiment is.
Let's try the definition, just to get a handle on it.
"1. a test, trial, or tentative procedure; an act or operation for the purpose of discovering something unknown or of testing a principle, supposition."
It is done with purpose. It is a deliberate process. Something being unknown doesn't make it an experiment. Something being new doesn't make it an experiment.
[QUOTE]As for all things in child rearing being experimental, the things you note are done with the good of the child in mind. This, clearly, is not. That is the big difference.[/QUOTE]
That is your opinion. I won't say yours alone, since I know it is of others on this board and in society. But since you added 'in mind', I can say it is erroneous. Whether or not you think the 'good of the child' will result, you can NOT know what the prospective parents have 'in mind'.
And oops, can you remove the extra one? (Went blank and refreshed.)
watsy, I agree that going after gay people while giving only lip service to stopping heterosexual behavior such as cheating on a spouse, easy divorce, single parenthood, etc. is wrong. My concern is that once we get to the point of accepting gay marriage as a right it will be that much harder, if not impossible for us recover any sort of societal expectation and norm of responsible heterosexual behavior. It's not that preventing gay marriage is holding back the flood; it's just that gay marriage would be the thing which demonstrates once and for all that the dam is irrevocably broken and beyond repair.
"Women have been raising children without men as long as there have been women, children, and men."
-- That's not really what is being discussed. No one is saying CPS should round up all the kids in single family homes... I sure didn't. Why is it that the single parent thing gets thrown up all the time in this discussion? Why can't we stay on the topic at hand? This is about lesbian women wanting to use IVF to (dare I say it) produce children with no involvment of a father.
"Again, this mostly arises from a very odd misunderstanding of what an experiment is." (it is not an odd understanding. it is a broader one. just a different use of the term I suppose... Sort of like natural law...)
Using your definition: how is this not " a test, trial, or tentative procedure; an act or operation for the purpose of discovering something unknown or of testing a principle, supposition." The supposition tested being that same-sex couples are equivalent to others.
"Something being unknown doesn't make it an experiment." Really? Your definition says "discovering something unknown." I think you're wrong on that. Can we only experiment when we know the outcome? Don't really see the point. At any rate, I'm not sure where you're driving, but I can assure you I am familiar with the scientific method ... (I know, I'm so medieval otherwise, right?)Experiments are designed to test hypotheses. I don't see that it matters if it is relating to something novel, or not.
"Whether or not you think the 'good of the child' will result, you can NOT know what the prospective parents have 'in mind'."
The parents may think this is in the best interests of the child-to-be. They are clearly wrong, but that doesn't get to the intention, I agree ... But I wonder if this is really what is driving this...
Karen,
You said:
"Actually, it isn't 'enshrined into law'. They removed an existing law, making their system now like ours, which has no such law.
If they made a law specifically forbidding any law or practice that would lead to preventing those who didn't meet that law's requirments from getting fertility treatments, then we'd have something that was enshrined into law. "
The bill states:
"Treatment provided to woman who agrees that second woman to be parent
If no man is treated, by virtue of section 35 as the father of the child and no woman is treated by virtue of section 42 as a parent of the child, but—
(a) the embryo or the sperm and eggs were placed in W or she was
artificially inseminated, in the course of treatment services provided in the United Kingdom by a person to whom a licence applies,
(b) at the time when the embryo or the sperm and eggs were placed in W,
or W was artificially inseminated, the agreed female parenthood
conditions (as set out in section 44) were met in relation to another
woman, in relation to treatment provided to W under that licence, and
(c) the other woman remained alive at that time,then, subject to section 45(2) to (4), the other woman is to be treated as a parent
of the child."
Sounds pretty enshrined to me...
But we DO have people deliberately choosing to have kids in substandard environments, the "murder" of your analogy. If you decide to have kids without sufficient income to give them the benefits of fine education, great nutrition, etc. you're certainly choosing to have them in less-than-perfect conditions. Straights do this all the time, anyway. And deliberately! People choose to have kids when they're too young for the responsibility. Or so old that the chance of genetic defect in the egg is significant. Or when they themselves had terrible relations with their own parents, and have little in the way of child-rearing knowledge or role-models, or all sorts of other problems.
As to fertility treatments making kids into products or rights, that seems far to expansive a commentary in one way, and obvious in the other. People do have a right to have children, covered under the right to privacy, at least in this country. So the second piece is true.
As for the first, I think you're just nitpicking. If I insert semen into your womb (being both imprecise and a little personal, sorry), the child's valid. If I mix the semen with an egg outside the womb, and insert it with a device, it's a product? If I just "hit and miss" until we get lucky, the child is valid? If I use instruments to determine the lucky time, and chemicals to improve my odds, now it's a product?
I don't see that logic. But that point aside, having a child is certainly a right. If not, then China's one-child policy is clearly valid. They are doing nothing more than saying that you have no right to more than one child, which is more compassionate than your argument, if you're claiming you have no "right" to have children at all.
"can anyone, anywhere, show me a moral case against lesbianism"
Read up on the Catholic Church's teaching on natural law. If you know what sex is for, you use it for that purpose. It has an end proper to it, and lesbianism does not aim at, and indeed frustrates this purpose.
The Bible has nothing to say about lesbianism, which is an embarrassment for the Biblicist crowd.
Happily, they've syncretized Ancient World Nature deity paganism constructs of Divine Order Of Nature and Natural Laws into the belief system. From which they can derive an argument.
Even the NT interpretations are problematic about the extent of disapproval of male homosexuality. The the key Greek term in the Pauline "Clobber Passages", 'arsenokoitai', is a word much more ambiguous in meaning than the orthodox let on. It's not a word found anywhere in the copious erotic Greek literature of the period. There are other, much more conventional, Greek words of the time that clearly mean "homosexual", but Paul doesn't use them. 'Arsenokoitai' seems more plausibly along the lines of 'male prostitutes' and/or 'male seducers of men' than the blanket term "homosexual" (which first used in the late 1800s, did not exist as a word when the KJV was written, Grigory).
The problem with the Ancient World pagan Natural Law notion was that the deities required human help to prevent, i.e. kill, that which violated it, aka the 'unnatural'. In fact, the Gods severely punished human beings who did not enforce their Laws. So animals and people with grotesque birth defects were killed. Presumable infants of the wrong kinds of parentage were also let die. Homosexuality and mental illnesses led to killing of those who manifested them. The category of things we now call 'grotesque' or 'unnatural' they "knew" to be intolerable and necessary to destroy.
"Women have been raising children without men as long as there have been women, children, and men."
-- That's not really what is being discussed. No one is saying CPS should round up all the kids in single family homes... I sure didn't. Why is it that the single parent thing gets thrown up all the time in this discussion? Why can't we stay on the topic at hand? This is about lesbian women wanting to use IVF to (dare I say it) produce children with no involvment of a father.
Because the law in question involved single mothers as well. It didn't single out lesbian women or lesbian couples. So, it IS part of the topic.
"Again, this mostly arises from a very odd misunderstanding of what an experiment is." (it is not an odd understanding. it is a broader one. just a different use of the term I suppose... Sort of like natural law...)"
No, not a 'broader' definition. It is directly in conflict with the definition. The whole POINT of an experiment is deliberate observation and control. To know the purpose of the experiment, to set up the conditions to meet the purpose, and to observe to see if the conditions are met, and the purpose is achieved.
None of this can happen 'by accident'.
"Using your definition: how is this not " a test, trial, or tentative procedure; an act or operation for the purpose of discovering something unknown or of testing a principle, supposition." The supposition tested being that same-sex couples are equivalent to others."
It can only be tested if it is being set up, controlled and observed. Most things experiments test occur on their own, outside of the experiment. What makes it an experiment IS the control and observation.
Which is, again, not accidental.
"Something being unknown doesn't make it an experiment." Really? Your definition says "discovering something unknown." I think you're wrong on that. Can we only experiment when we know the outcome? Don't really see the point. At any rate, I'm not sure where you're driving, but I can assure you I am familiar with the scientific method ... (I know, I'm so medieval otherwise, right?)Experiments are designed to test hypotheses. I don't see that it matters if it is relating to something novel, or not."
That is ONE of the reasons for an experiment. Being a reason to experiment does not make anything that is novel an 'experiment'. But I assume it matters if it is relating to something novel or not since the very novelty of the situation was what made it an experiment. Which is what I was refuting.
"Whether or not you think the 'good of the child' will result, you can NOT know what the prospective parents have 'in mind'."
The parents may think this is in the best interests of the child-to-be. They are clearly wrong, but that doesn't get to the intention, I agree ... But I wonder if this is really what is driving this..."
Umm... addressing your points? Or you mean the activity?
Uhh... liking kids and wanting to raise one? I mean, why would YOU want a kid? I would guess that many of those very same reasons are what is 'driving' their desire to have children too.
If I insert semen into your womb - I'd like to see you try that!
As for the equiv. between being poor or otherwise in a bad situation - that should be taken into account. Prudent people would not choose to do this. However, it is not a moral evil I think, simply imprudent.
Is a trust fund more valuable than a father? I don't see the equivalency here. But perhaps this is more of the same. A father is a good that has value, but can be exchanged for another good of equal or lesser value???
I'm not saying parents don't have rights vis a vis their children. But children are NOT rights! Nor are they products (no matter how they come about.) Children are people (no matter how small) and if we would just treat them that way, things would work out just fine.
So, the State can control your ability to procreate?
(You do realize that this argument would apply to States you don't like, or trust, as well as ones you do.)
Note, I didn't say right to treat your child any way you please, but to actually reproduce.
I can't wait until muslims turn the UK into the Islamic Republic of Great Britain. Then maybe we will see some semblance of moral order from that godforsaken socialist dystopia.
The Bible has nothing to say about lesbianism, which is an embarrassment for the Biblicist crowd.
- I'm not a fundamentalist. But I don't think it is all that difficult for Fundies either. If you need extra-biblical evidence, consult the unbroken teaching tradition of the Church.
The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language: Fourth Edition. 2000.
experiment
SYLLABICATION: ex·per·i·ment
PRONUNCIATION: k-spr-mnt
NOUN: 1a. A test under controlled conditions that is made to demonstrate a known truth, examine the validity of a hypothesis, or determine the efficacy of something previously untried. b. The process of conducting such a test; experimentation. 2. An innovative act or procedure: “Democracy is only an experiment in government” (William Ralph Inge). 3. The result of experimentation: “We are not [nature's] only experiment” (R. Buckminster Fuller).
INTRANSITIVE VERB: Inflected forms: ex·per·i·ment·ed, ex·per·i·ment·ing, ex·per·i·ments
(-mnt)1. To conduct an experiment. 2. To try something new, especially in order to gain experience: experiment with new methods of teaching.
ETYMOLOGY: Middle English, from Old French, from Latin expermentum, from experr, to try. See per-3 in Appendix I.
OTHER FORMS: ex·peri·menter —NOUN
So, you were using the pop culture version of 'experiment'. By that measure, ANYTHING new is an 'experiment'. Regardless of what people had 'in mind'.
Children raised in houses with televisions was an 'experiment'. Children raised any way different from the way you saw it done is an 'experiment'.
As I stated, you go too far from the formal definition, every version of child rearing is an experiment, because every child is a new, unique individual, as is every single parent, and no two people do it exactly alike.
Not terribly different from getting knocked up from a one night stand really, or all the kids women get pregnant with trying to anchor a male in a relationship.
Results are the same, methods vary.
Heck, the test tube kids may fair better, takes a lot of cash for invitro.
Exactly. Frankly, at least it was deliberate, the mother wants the child, and likely is fairly financially secure compared to other, less planned single parent families.
If this posts twice, sorry! I was just pointing out that lesbianism gets mentioned in Romans 1:26.
I'm not a fundamentalist. But I don't think it is all that difficult for Fundies either. If you need extra-biblical evidence, consult the unbroken teaching tradition of the Church.
Which leads back to much more in the way of Ancient World pagan belief systems, ideologies, and concepts than you are willing to admit.
Paris Hilton wanted her chihuahua, too. Nice to think that now that's gone because it was too smelly she can trade up to a baby without any trouble on her part. Bet she gets Nicole Richey to have it for her too. Or maybe a contest. Some adoring male fan could be the donor and some 16 year-old wanna be could be the womb donor. Maybe Donald Trump could make a game show out of it. Gives you the warm fuzzies, don't it?
" can't wait until muslims turn the UK into the Islamic Republic of Great Britain. Then maybe we will see some semblance of moral order from that godforsaken socialist dystopia." - Grigori
So you would actually prefer the moral order that's demonstrated throughout the Muslim world today, to that of democratic England? Iraq, Sudan, Palestine, Afghanistan...all havens of peace and moral purity? The compassionate love of the Iranian government, the fair justice system found in Saudi Arabia...all of these seem to you better than the admittedly imperfect, pluralistic democracy present in the UK?
I'm sorry that you clearly seem to prefer to controlled, iron-fist of tyranny to the problematic but invigorating struggle for democracy.
"I'm sorry that you clearly seem to prefer to controlled, iron-fist of tyranny to the problematic but invigorating struggle for democracy."
I'm sorry that you seem to prefer the soft tyranny of an individualism-fetishizing amoral Brave New World than to have the economic and governmental spheres be subservient, in even the slightest amount, to culture and religious ethics.
I suppose there's nowhere in the middle you might be willing to meet, eh Grig?
"I suppose there's nowhere in the middle you might be willing to meet, eh Grig?"
You were the one that first implied an either/or dichotomy, not me. All I desire is that nations be held to some kind of ethical, moral standard. Democracies are only as moral as the people who inhabit them, which is partly why I am dissatisfied by representational government.
Hmmm...nations must be held to some ethical, moral standard. Democracies are only as moral as the people who inhabit them, so you are dissatisfied.
So the people who live in the country shouldn't determine its morality. So then, who should?
God's appointed leaders? Who are they? That idea hasn't exactly played out well in history, which is WHY we have representational democracies.
So you actually think that the Religious Police, such as Iran has, are a GOOD idea? You think that a theocracy, above the will of the people, again such as Iran has, is a good idea.
So are you saying that you would like a Christian version of Iranian theocracy? I'm mean, really, that's what it sure sounds like.
Jillian, The Bible has nothing to say about lesbianism, which is an embarrassment for the Biblicist crowd.
The "Bibicist crowd"? Sheese. Any fool who has even skimmed the bible knows you are wrong. One quick example that is hard even for liberals to twist is Romans 1:26-27; the following translation is a pretty good word-for-word reading of the Greek (NASB):
For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.
If you know any Greek, here are the major scripts (Textus Receptus, Byzantine, Alexandrian, and even the Hort and Westcott): greeknewtestament.com/B45C001.htm. There is no way to translate it otherwise.
Even the NT interpretations are problematic about the extent of disapproval of male homosexuality. The the key Greek term in the Pauline "Clobber Passages", 'arsenokoitai', is a word much more ambiguous in meaning
Again, this is simply not true. But even if it were, there are no "ambiquous" Greek terms in Romans 1:26. Any honest person with an IQ over room temperature can see that this passage is crystal clear on the sin of homosexuality, both male and female.
Heck, so you don't believe Christian teaching. Fine. It's a free country. Just leave the poor bible alone!
"So are you saying that you would like a Christian version of Iranian theocracy? I'm mean, really, that's what it sure sounds like."
Absolutely. I want a nation that takes care of its poor and doesn't leave their fate up to the vagaries of the free market. I want a nation that doesn't murder the innocent unborn and a nation that doesn't execute the guilty. A nation that thinks of the job security of its citizens first and the profits of multinational corporations second. A nation that recognizes the sacrament of marriage as between a man and a woman. A nation that realizes the importance of religion in the public square and a nation that refuses to give scientists free reign to alter human life and destroy embryos in the name of progress, funded all the while by taxpaying citizens.
Doesn't sound so bad to me.
Well, ok, that's honest at least, and I can respect it, although I think you really need to know more about Iran. Try "Reading Lolita in Tehran", for example, or any number of other books written by Iranian expats. As for not executing the guilty, I can't imaging what you mean. Iran absolutely has the death penalty, and uses it regularly, including the execution of homosexuals. Iran allows polygamy. Iran is busily working on a nuclear weapon. Iran wants to wipe Israel off the planet. None of those things you described really fit Iran.
Or, maybe you just meant you'd want THIS county to be that way, and you see the Iranian style theocracy the way to do it, but without their exact laws. That would make more sense, and if so, I get it.
I guess we have plenty of common ground then, sir. I too believe we should take care of the poor. I too am opposed to the death penalty, and am very iffy about abortion, particularly late-trimester cases or when used as birth control. I too think job security should be more important than profit for multi-nationals. And I too think science needs to be controlled, although I'd imagine we have some differences in the exact limits of that control.
Still, we're damn close. I just don't think an imposed theocracy is the best way to make that happen. But given that, in point of fact, I don't know how to make that happen, I can appreciate your idea, and the fact that you're honest about it.
Truthfully, this is a good example of what I mean. Although we clearly have differences, we're not that far apart on many, many fundamental issues. We'd agree on many things, and if we can just find ways to negotiate the other pieces in good faith, we could move our nation ahead.
Thanks!
"Or, maybe you just meant you'd want THIS county to be that way, and you see the Iranian style theocracy the way to do it, but without their exact laws. That would make more sense, and if so, I get it."
Yes. I was not implying that the example of what a Christian theocracy might look like which I gave above corresponded to the current government of Iran. I might also add that the ideal Christian theocracy is small in territory and pacifist with exceptions for purposes of national defense, and would outlaw usury - which is not as impractical as it sounds. Muslims have already devised a system of banking which allows for the Islamic prohibitions on usury and the selling of pork.
JPL
"So, the State can control your ability to procreate? "
The state already regulates to some extent the use of one's natural reprod. capabilities. There is case law in this country. Forced sterilizations and court orders, etc.
That requires a pretty high bar, of course. What we are talking about is a persons ability to contract with a lab to create a baby quite outside of the natural ability to do so. Seems like a lower threshold could be argued in this instance. As for privacy, this is hardly a private affair in any normal sense.
Karen - Not sure why we need to cont. a discussion about what the meaning of "is" is. Of course there are many ways to use the word. Not sure why a hyper tech. one is the only one you approve of. I already admitted to a rather loose usage above. What does this add to the disc? All I am saying is this is embarking on an untested path, and may have (and from my POV will have) harmful consequences. As we disc. above, many things qualify under this definition. NO matter. I am pointing out that this one is not likely undertaken with the same end in view.
I too would approve of a system that got rid of usury, which has proven to be the curse the Bible claims it would be. A return to the Jubilee Year concept would be fine as well. I understand, however, that the Muslim banking system has really found loopholes, allowing them the gain of usury while just calling it be a different name.
But once again, we're in substantial agreement.
As to State control over procreation, you clearly have more faith in the State than I do. :)
I just read Romans 1:26 in Greek on my Logos Software. In saying that the Females are changing the natural to the para psusin, it seems to me that the text could be saying that the Females had unnatural sex with Men. In any case, the text is euphemistic at best. I can see how one can say that the text deals with Lesbianism and Homosexuality, but I could also construct another reading from the Greek. I could be wrong, but I don't see the text as clearly as others. However, if that is how your tradition understands the text, I can understand that and I respect that. I used the Nestle-Aland Greek New Testament, 27th Ed., with McReynolds English Interlinear, and then used my software to look up each word in my various dictionaries.
pretty much anytime you see the word "Fornication" in the KJV it is trans. from porneia. This would include lesbianism, adultery, incest, bestiality, homosexuality, etc.
I'm saying that I would guess someone going to that level of effort (effort not needed by those of us who can simply get pregnant unwanted, and/or by accident, no matter how we feel after the fact) to have a child shouldn't automatically have aspersions cast on their motives and goals in doing so.
Whether or not you think this is a good idea, I do NOT think anyone is INTENDING harm. As far as it being some kind of 'experiment' because it is different or new, we have decades of open experiences with gays raising kids. And far more than that for single parents.
Hardly all that novel at this point. Remember, this is ENGLAND who changed the law allowing it.
Its been legal in our country for a long time.
People who suggested a move to Saudi Arabia were condemned, but then Grigory said he would like to see the UK under Sharia law.
Anyway, this is all only anecdotal, but I have seen children brought up in some highly undesirable family environments. For example:
1. Teenage single mothers who are desperate for a male partner, however feckless, unfaithful, violent and criminal, and are incapable of presenting their children with any sort of stability. At best, the children drop out of school and repeat the cycle. At worst ...
2. The type of old-fashioned, often Christian, family where the husband comes home from the mill and punches the wife if his meal is not on the table, and sends the kids to bid with the belt.
3. Upper-middle-class consumerist families, where both parents have well-paid jobs but hardly see their kids, who are sent to private school and showered with material goods, but hardly ever get to play outside, and see the au pair more than their parents.
4. Muslim families, without exception.
The few lesbians I know strike me as being reasonably decent and down-to-earth people who may well make good parents (nothing's certain, of course). I do know several women who deliberately had children when unmarried, and they seem to have made a reasonable job of it - I think it's something to do with being mature, caring, and strong-willed. Perhaps it would have been marginally preferable had their conception been aided by AI rather than alcohol?
Anyway, where, exactly, is this ideal, heterosexual marriage? How many posters here have found it, honestly? Well done if you have, of course, but I guess it's as much by luck as management. On the face of it, my situation is the crunchy heterosexual ideal (first marriage, biological children, mutually faithful, stay-at-home mum and semi-stay-at-home dad, reasonably prosperous, kids walk to school across the fields, etc.), but we're both pretty unhappy, and it's difficult to avoid that rubbing off on the children. My own upbringing was much worse.
This is already the case in the U.S. healthcare system in many subtle ways. For instance, I was shocked in 2001 when my first daughter was born there were many papers to sign before we could all leave the hospital, not a single one of them even had a line for a "father's signature", only the mother.
"Man is dying, and we are killing him in the name of our own pleasure and will to power." Epitaph of the modern world?
This conversation can only be compared to old folks sitting around talking about kids today. It's silly.
The reason it's silly is because what we're seeing is evolution at work and enterpreting the process as failure insted of accepting it as transition with a positive result.
Back in the day, middle last century even, the rules were still pretty much based upon man rules. Man rules evolve around force. The biggest and most dominant personalities ruled everything from the work place to the home. It was unfair because the advantages were genetic and not earned.
What we're dealing with now is the imposition of women rules into the mix. Women rules are different because they're based upon compromise and concurrence. This isn't a bad thing necessarily, but again, it isn't fair because the advantages can be genetic over earned.
The problem is both sets of rules have their place and are effective in that place but neither is efficient at replacing the combination of the two.
I work construction. One of the cold hard facts about construction work is women can't do it. Another cold hard fact about construction is men raised by women can't do it either.
The reason for this is simple. Man rules have a clause about the tough get going when the going gets tough. Man rules demand that you don't buckle down or ask for help until all other options are proven futile.
Women rules don't have this clause. What they have is a clause about the person best equiped for the job doing the job. So when the going gets tough you find someone tough and assign them the job. The rule is you only result to bucking down and doing it yourself when all other options have proven futile.
We as a species will survive this conflict of the rules of conduct. What we will end up with will have the best of both systems. It's just that we haven't arrived there yet.
Porneia comes from a verb meaning to sell. It later came to mean prostitution and was also associated with idolatry. It can mean many things, and can only be argued in context. At least that's my understanding. I will someday do more research.
If this posts twice, sorry! I was just pointing out that lesbianism gets mentioned in Romans 1:26.
If you know any Greek, here are the major scripts (Textus Receptus, Byzantine, Alexandrian, and even the Hort and Westcott): greeknewtestament.com/B45C001.htm. There is no way to translate it otherwise.
Well, except for the small detail that it talks about orgiastic (mis)behavior by heterosexuals rather than lesbianism or homosexuality per se.
"Even the NT interpretations are problematic about the extent of disapproval of male homosexuality. The the key Greek term in the Pauline "Clobber Passages", 'arsenokoitai', is a word much more ambiguous in meaning"
Again, this is simply not true. But even if it were, there are no "ambiguous" Greek terms in Romans 1:26. Any honest person with an IQ over room temperature can see that this passage is crystal clear on the sin of homosexuality, both male and female.
It's a very well trodden topic. Just because you buy into an ideological claim doesn't mean I have to.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bible_and_homosexuality
Worse in quality, but more quantity-
http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bibl.htm#menu
http://www.religioustolerance.org/homarsen.htm
Heck, so you don't believe Christian teaching. Fine. It's a free country. Just leave the poor Bible alone!
My suspicion keeps on increasing that I hold the Bible in higher regard than you do. I see it as a spiritual guidebook, not the primary text of a sacred materialism.
" if you're talking about that ethical/religious theory proposed initially by Aquinas, well, most of our legal system isn't based upon the theory, and it is hardly a legally binding argument. "
Karen,
Aquinas did not propose natural law. He elucidated it. At any rate, the question was to make a MORAL argument, not LEGAL. However, please refer to this section of the Const...
"We hold these truths to be self-evident..."
That is, "this is based on natural law."
It doesn't say, "we think it is a good idea if..."
Natural rights are derived from natural law. Never have understood how people who reject any argument from natural law, and want to talk about fundamental rights. If these "rights" to procreation at any cost, "marriage" for two men, etc. are really rights, where are they derived from? If it is the consent of the governed (not natural rights, but positive rights) then there should be a statute, or a const. provision to support it. Ala due process, habeus corpus, etc. Not a handful of judges. That is not our system of government. And if these judges were finding (creating) rights that we didn't like, we would argue against it???
I'm convinced that we have become a society of sophists. Will argue anything if it means we can do what we want... Who cares about truth, consistency, or anything else. And who really cares if we are wrong??? If natural law fits my purpose in one context I will use it... Not in another, I will argue against it... And I trust that no one will notice either way b/c they are not listening... thinking about what they saw on The Office last night anyway.
Well, except for the small detail that it talks about orgiastic (mis)behavior by heterosexuals rather than lesbianism or homosexuality per se.
-- But just because we think it is nec. to make such a distinction, doesn't mean the author did. I think it is more likely that sinful behavior is sinful, no matter if you call yourself "gay" or whatever.
-- Why do we argue for context only when it suits our purpose? ("this was for a particular audience, in a particular time and place") And for literalism ("it doesn't say 'queers' so it must not apply) when it suits our purpose?
Please supply some evidence that the early Church supported orgiastic misbehavior by homosexuals. Otherwise, I think it is a pretty thin argument.
Not sure how that happened. The last post was mine, not Jillian's...
It can mean many things, and can only be argued in context.
-- But the auth. translations do not translate it this way. The Scripture is the Church's book. She is responsible for its faithful presentation, and it is to be interpreted from within the Church, and in union with Her. If you don't believe the Church, what difference does it make what the Scripture says?
"Which leads back to much more in the way of Ancient World pagan belief systems, ideologies, and concepts than you are willing to admit."
Jillian,
Could you flesh this out for us?
"...every version of child rearing is an experiment, because every child is a new, unique individual, as is every single parent, and no two people do it exactly alike."
Well, I see now what your basic philosophical commitments are. But I don't think that the fact that "every child is a new, unique individual" leads inexoribly to the conclusion that there is no such thing as a "family." And, I disagree that enshrining homosexual parenting into law without regard to the needs of the children is done in the best interest of the children. You can argue, and most people do, that the self-actualization of the LGBT's demands it... but it doesn't follow that the children's needs are in any way entering into the equation. But don't let that stand in your way... The normalization of homosexualism is far more important than providing for the needs of children that become in effect the symbols of victory for the cause.
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