Crunchy Con

Nazi mama fights back

Saturday July 12, 2008

Categories: Family
In Canada, the state has taken away the children of a white supremacist mother after authorities found neo-Nazi material in their house. That's chilling, and as loathsome as Nazi Mama no doubt is, I hope she prevails. If the state...
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Grumpy Old Man
July 12, 2008 10:21 AM

Canada, of all places, is getting positively chilling. Big Brother's watching you, eh?

Anna
July 12, 2008 10:41 AM

They took the kids after the mother (or father) drew a swastika on the kid's arm with indelible ink.

I don't know. If wrote words like "nigger" or "kike" or drew horrible pictures on my child to make them my own political billboard, which probably puts them at risk of harm, maybe my parenting skills do need to be investigated. Even if it doesn't go as far as taking them away completely.

Anna
July 12, 2008 10:42 AM

Oh, I forgot to add that she sent the child to school like that, too.

RJohnson
July 12, 2008 10:59 AM

"Child and Family Services workers were alerted after the second swastika incident at school, the CBC reported."

The SECOND incident? Interesting. It may be that their concern is more with the behavior of the mother towards her kids than her beliefs. After all, if I sent my kid to school twice with permanent marker on her arm, I would be silly not to expect some questions.

But I think that the taking of the kids was rather a stretch. Behavior is one thing, and permanent marker on the arm of a kid (two incidents) deserves an investigation but not withdrawl from the home. Taking kids simply based on the beliefs of the parents is wrong, even if those beliefs are repugnant.

Given some of the rhetoric coming from the more conservative religious groups in this country, I it's not surprising that children are taken from the homes of Pagans, homosexuals, or other people who do not fit the "normal" standard as defined by these folks.

www.witchvox.com/vn/vn_detail/dt_gno.html?&id=15321

www.rslevinson.com/gaylesissues/features/collect/newsnotes/blbottoms.htm

Sadly, Rod, the disease that is infesting Canada appears to have roots here in the good old USA.

J
July 12, 2008 11:30 AM

Actually, I'm sure lots of conservatives would still be 100% fine with kids being taken away from their gay parents.

It's only now that they've realized the tide has turned and it could happen to them that they've decided this might be a poor precedent to set (in Canada, anyway).

Rod Dreher
July 12, 2008 11:37 AM

Wow, it took five comments for someone to take the story of Canadian authorities removing the children of a neo-Nazi mother from their home for someone to turn it around to a complaint about conservative Christians. There's got to be a name for this sort of thing. It's a variation of Manning's Corollary

Charles Cosimano
July 12, 2008 12:12 PM

This issue is obviously marking the child. And it is Canada, let us not forget that.

Elizabeth Anne
July 12, 2008 12:28 PM

Actually, in this case, Rod, you kinda set it up. You said "What's next? Taking the kids of pagans?" To which someone responded, "Heh, already happened here."

Elizabeth Anne
July 12, 2008 12:49 PM

Er, sorry, missed comment number 6, thought you were talking about 5.

Irenaeus
July 12, 2008 1:06 PM

I dunno, Rod, it's less about conservative Christians and more about Every Thing Comes Down to Gay. Perhaps someone less tired than I can coin a clever phrase..."Pink Narcissism"? I'm out.

MH
July 12, 2008 1:32 PM

Also, in post 5 J said conservatives and no religion was mentioned. But I agree it is kind of a non-sequitur given the basic premise of your post.

Reader John
July 12, 2008 1:37 PM

"Gay parents"? I apparently missed something in biology class.

Seriously, I know nobody who supports removing a child from the home of a biological parent just because they now identify as gay.

There's a lot of custody, adoption and artificial insemination issues (assisted reproductive technologies, if you prefer) that are beyond the scope of Rod's opener, so I'll not go there.

Francis Beckwith
July 12, 2008 1:40 PM

"Actually, I'm sure lots of conservatives would still be 100% fine with kids being taken away from their gay parents."

But two men or two women can't have a baby without the cooperation of at least one member of the couple having intercourse with, or using the germ cell of, an opposite-sex partner. In other words, in order for a same-sex couple to graft a child onto its relationship one of the two must employ his or her genitilia in a fashion consistent with its natural telos. Thus, it is ironic that a wedded love (in the case of a male couple) in which an instrument of life is placed in the recepticle of waste must cease for a time so that the former, the instrument of life, may fulfill its proper function with one outside that wedded love. Unlike infertile couples who overtly seek to heal what is damaged, same-sex couples must claim that their desire for children is legitimate while their love that needs no healing remains permanently, and by its nature, infertile.

So, how can one have "gay parents"? You can have parents who are gay, but the paternity itself cannot by its nature be gay.

Karen Brown
July 12, 2008 1:42 PM

So, you see NO valid comparison, Rod, between children being taken from Nazi parents, and children in this country who have been taken from gay parents, from atheist parents and from pagan parents?

Karen Brown
July 12, 2008 1:44 PM

Oh, and a couple of problems.

This isn't about history, these things are happening right here and now, and its about denouncing BOTH sets of occurrences. Not saying you can't complain, only that it wasn't complained about until it might be your group that is getting the same treatment.

Anna
July 12, 2008 2:13 PM

"But two men or two women can't have a baby without the cooperation of at least one member of the couple having intercourse with, or using the germ cell of, an opposite-sex partner."

Well, I'm enlightened.

"In other words, in order for a same-sex couple to graft a child onto its relationship one of the two must employ his or her genitilia in a fashion consistent with its natural telos."

Graft? Nice.

"Thus, it is ironic that a wedded love (in the case of a male couple) in which an instrument of life is placed in the recepticle of waste must cease for a time so that the former, the instrument of life, may fulfill its proper function with one outside that wedded love."

I don't think you know what irony actually is, but I'll leave that alone for now.

I find your focus on genitals somewhat odd, and your assumptions about the sex lives of gay men even stranger. Let's not forget that a penis is a passage way for waste as well (the rectum is not a "recepticle"), and so is the vagina during menstruation. This weird pure vs. impure comparison you've tried to set up rings false.

You know, the bridge of my nose wasn't designed to hold up my glasses. But it does a pretty good job. My nose is supposed to be an exit, not an entrance, but guess where I spray my allergy meds? I'm guess I'm not much concerned about the telos of varying parts of my body.

"Unlike infertile couples who overtly seek to heal what is damaged, same-sex couples must claim that their desire for children is legitimate while their love that needs no healing remains permanently, and by its nature, infertile."

I'm straight and I've adopted two children. My inability to physically bear children and the desire to raise them anyway isn't "legitimate" or "illegitimate", it just is. The pain of not being to have children is terrible, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone, nor would I claim my pain is greater because I'm straight. My husband could have had his own children. He isn't, by his nature, infertile like I am. Does he suffer more than I do?

In any case, the desire for children isn't straight and it isn't gay. It's nearly universal in adult human beings.

Anna
July 12, 2008 2:19 PM

"Gay parents? I apparently missed something in biology class."

Maybe it's just my experience as a (straight) adoptive mother talking, but I think that your parents are the people who raise and care for you. Woe to the person who tries to tell me I'm not really my kid's mom. Parent isn't just a noun, it's also a verb.

Joseph
July 12, 2008 2:49 PM

So I would imagine you vigorously oppose a court removing children from gay parents, correct?

Karen Brown
July 12, 2008 3:52 PM

And I noticed that gay parents were latched onto, but nobody mentioned that atheist and pagan parents in this country have lost custody as well.

http://www.daylightatheism.org/2006/03/theocracy-watch-ii.html

Parents have lost custody solely on the basis that 'they will not take their children to church', etc.

That is in THIS country.

This happens to advantage your particular group over another, Rod. So, what do you think of that sort of ruling?

Its a corollary, alright, in the initial meaning of the word. A statement that readily follows another proven statement.

Rod Dreher
July 12, 2008 3:53 PM

So I would imagine you vigorously oppose a court removing children from gay parents, correct?

If the sole reason for the removal of the children from the gay household is the homosexuality of the parents, then yes, of course I would oppose that. The parent-child bond is sacred, and the state that wishes to sunder it should be forced to clear a rather high bar. Let's say, for the sake of argument, that I believed a child is being raised badly by virtue of being in a gay home, or a Marxist home, or a Rastafarian home. But to separate a child from his parents because of the beliefs or (non-violent, non-abusive, non-criminal) practices or beliefs of his parents is a worse evil by far.

Karen Brown
July 12, 2008 4:02 PM

So, unlike certain recent statements by the Catholic hierarchy, you don't consider being raised by a gay parent as being inherently abusive?

Rich
July 12, 2008 8:49 PM

This is pretty outrageous, but at least it's in Canada. And it's just one mom. It's not like they swooped in and took every single child from an entire community, then lied repeatedly about the case for weeks on end. That would be really outrageous. But that couldn't happen here.

Marian Neudel
July 12, 2008 9:11 PM

I once represented a woman who lost custody of her daughter by reason of being a very active member of the Revolutionary Communist Party. Yes, it's true she spent a lot of time at meetings and rallies. But I find it hard to believe that, if she had devoted equal levels of time and energy, to, say, the Ladies' Altar Guild, the result would have been the same.

Francis Beckwith
July 13, 2008 12:46 AM

I absolutely agree with Rod. The parent-child bond is sacred, and I too, for that reason, would oppose the state taking children out of the custody of a parent simply because the parent is a homosexual.

I would argue, however, that the same natural law that instructs us in the sacredness of the parent-child bond is the same one that teaches us that marriage is a unique institution for the merging of difference--male and female--for the purpose of uniting families and generations. For that reason, my defense of the gay parent entails a denial of same-sex marriage. How ironic is that?

In my case, I can trace my roots back to both England and Italy. Families and marriages, and the generations that tie them together, transcend states, governments, and political parties. So, when our fellow citizens request, indeed demand, that the state eradicate that understanding by equating the only family that nature knows with a state-constructed one, the state is saying that there are no real mothers and fathers and no children that actually belong to them. In other words, whatever you have, the state gives you and defines it as such. Leviathian triumphs.

And this is why I believe that a homosexual parent should not be separated from the child he or she dearly loves.

Anonymous
July 13, 2008 1:06 AM

"I would argue, however, that the same natural law that instructs us in the sacredness of the parent-child bond is the same one that teaches us that marriage is a unique institution for the merging of difference--male and female--for the purpose of uniting families and generations. For that reason, my defense of the gay parent entails a denial of same-sex marriage. How ironic is that?"

Thereby punishing and putting at risk the children you wish to protect by denying their families financial and legal rights. Yes, it is ironic.

Robert
July 14, 2008 12:49 AM

Having waded through the whole newstory, I think Rod took off on a tangent.

It's one thing to support the right of parents to hold and teach beliefs many people find odious. It's another if those parents seek to cause disturbance in a public school:

"Four months ago, her daughter drew a swastika on her arm and went to school, where her teacher scrubbed it off. The mother helped her daughter draw it on her arm again, an act she regrets.

"It was one of the stupidest things I've done in my life but it's no reason to take my kids," the mother told CBC News."

So it wasn't all about beliefs. It was at least partly about disrupting class.

But as other posters have noted, there's plenty to put the Canadian authorities in a bad light. For instance,

"Another man Gerald Hannon who writes for Canada's national newspaper the Globe and Mail is a teacher at Ryerson, (a University in Canada) and regularly teaches his beliefs about pedophilia with his students. The CJC and the B'nai Brith have remained silent over this teacher who compares child-sex rings to children's hockey. Hannon said: 'I could never understand before how children's hockey differed from organized child-sex rings. Both involved children and adults. Both involved danger. Both involve pleasure. Yet we approve of children's hockey but deplore child-sex rings.'"

Obviously, Canada hasn't arrived at high level of fairness and balance we've achieved in the public schools in the US.

Marian Neudel
July 14, 2008 11:58 AM

"So, when our fellow citizens request, indeed demand, that the state eradicate that understanding by equating the only family that nature knows with a state-constructed one, the state is saying that there are no real mothers and fathers and no children that actually belong to them."

Not quite sure which "state-constructed" family this poster is INTENDING to talk about, but factually, doesn't it have to be the "one man-one woman" construct which is law in all 50 states, regardless of the wishes of the other real live people who wish their relationships to have the same protections?

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