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Fighting the gay blacklist

Tuesday November 25, 2008

Categories: Homosexuality
John Diaz, a San Francisco newspaper columnist who supports same-sex marriage speaks out against the gay blacklisters. Excerpt: A supporter of Proposition 8, fed up with what he believed was the gay community's and "liberal media's" refusal to accept the...
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panthera
November 25, 2008 9:16 AM

Rod,
I firmly denounce such attacks. Yes, I boycott businesses which discriminate against me, I buy apple not Dell, Cadillac not Ford...

But personal attacks are out of bounds.

This is my last post for awhile. As wonderful as this opportunity to dialog is, there is too much hate, aggression and just plain bad reasoning in these threads to make it worth while.

Best of luck, thank you for letting me participate. I may rejoin at a later point, just, for now - enough is enough.

Kevin V.
November 25, 2008 9:21 AM

Unfortunately there's nothing particularly wrong with using boycotts, complaining to companies, &c. Everyone is free to not buy from or otherwise do business with any company, everyone is free to complain to someone's employer, every employer is free to hire and fire as they see fit or do we want to advocate the opposite on each of those points?
We on the right do it or encourage boycotts and public action campaigns all the time. That is free speech, so it's more than a little hypocritical to complain about it when it's done to us.
No doubt Christians who defend marriage will be persecuted now and in the future, welcome to the cross.

John
November 25, 2008 9:34 AM

Before panicking about the gay peril to churches, compare numbers of the different situations. In the case you cite, one letter writer was swarmed by perhaps dozens of gay activists. But in this country there are, what, 100 million Christians, and hundreds of thousands of different churches; and perhaps a few tens of thousands of activistic gays who are anti-church. By sheer numbers, I really don't see a threat to churches as a group. If you see a threat, please put forward a numerical scenario by which all 200,000 churches are swarmed.

John M.
November 25, 2008 9:35 AM

So when you forced a gay priest out of his position, that was alright, but this is wrong?

Yeah, Rod. You poor religious conservatives are just SO powerless.

Daniel
November 25, 2008 9:41 AM

People have rights stripped away through a ballot measure largely funded by churches, and it is the churches that are threatened? This is the price of the culture war, Rod, the one you cheer on with "lock and load" rhetoric. You declare war on people's rights, and there is going to be a backlash.

Do you expect supporters of SSM just to calmly accept that their rights have been stripped away from them? Would you expect believers to sit quietly and politely if a voter referendum stripped away religious liberty? Would you be wringing your hands over boycotts and sharp rhetoric if it was religious liberties that had been voted down by the voters?

This is the culture war you've wanted and worked for. It's too late to worry about casualties.

Max Schadenfreude
November 25, 2008 9:55 AM

"I firmly denounce such attacks. Yes, I boycott businesses which discriminate against me, I buy apple not Dell..."

I've never owned a Mac, but in the future I will never buy anything but. Not because of politics or any sort of boycott. But because I HATE every PC I've ever owned.

Just saying.

John E. - Agn Stoic
November 25, 2008 9:58 AM

Boycotts are an accepted part of the American tradition of political and social activism.

Your Name
November 25, 2008 10:06 AM

Every single thing you posted that was done has BEEN done, very frequently, by those on the Right against businesses and people doing things that they disapprove of. You, yourself, in the very same post say you are boycoting a company too.

If not buying a company's products is 'retribution', I commit that quite often, since usually, by buying a product from one place means I didn't buy it from a dozen others.

Either boycotts are a legal and ethical action, or they are not.

The status doesn't change because you disagree with the reason behind the boycott.

Oh, and btw, I have family who was really blacklisted, during the McCarthy trials. This isn't anything close.

If this is a blacklist, then those who are boycotting Disney, or Dell, or.. insert Conservative Christian boycott here, are blacklisting.

lesbian
November 25, 2008 10:13 AM

gay!

Tom
November 25, 2008 10:14 AM

To those who supported Proposition 8: If you can't stand the heat, stay home. If Propostion 8 had failed and businesses and individuals had given millions of dollars to defeat Prop 8, you would see death threats against those individuals and boycotts by the American Family Association and others against those businesses. That's they way politics is done in this country, for good or bad. So for those who supported Prop 8, stop your whining. You got what you wanted.

Robert
November 25, 2008 10:25 AM

"Observe and learn, people. You stand up for traditional marriage, or even for the right to speak your mind on this issue, and they'll come after you and try to ruin you. This is not a game."

Really? Who's come after you, Rod?

Or does the gay community in Dallas view you as inconsequential?

That small businessperson in California sought a public forum to poke a stick in gay people's eyes, and gay people responded. If he didn't want a public response, he should not have spreading his opinions in public forums. The response he received is fair. Totally counterproductive, unloving, un-Christian (like they care), and stupid, but fair.

The free speech you seem to advocate, Rod, is inconsequential speech. The Constitution doesn't protect you from consequences. It gives you the right to speech.

DavidTC
November 25, 2008 10:33 AM

Again, this is only a 'blacklist' in the right's fevered opinion. This is a boycott, which isn't the same thing at all. Blacklists, by definition, require multiple businesses sharing a single list of people they will not do business with. A business that people won't do business with isn't a 'list' at all, much less a 'blacklist'.

And considering that the right has, for the past two decades, been boycotting every gay-supportive business in sight...

...and considering they've not only has repeatedly sunk to the level of the personal, not by 'random comment writers', but by national spokespeople (Graeme Frost, anyone?)...

...I say, about damn time people started fighting back.

Blake
November 25, 2008 10:35 AM

"It doesn't bode well for the free-speech process.:"

Another supposed intelligent writer who displays complete ignorance of free speech in the context of the Constitution (or really for any other context). Although, I don't condone the disclosure of personal, private information, the concept of free speech does not in any way protect the speaker from being criticized for making such speech. In fact, the act of boycotting is an example of exercising such a right as free speech.

Zaccheus Treed
November 25, 2008 10:50 AM

What we have in America is less a culture war than a constitutional war. And if we could just straighten out the latter, we'd go a long way toward diffusing the former.

I didn't say that. William McGurn did. I second his un-emotion:

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB122757137423754669.html

Zaccheus Treed
November 25, 2008 10:52 AM

What we have in America is less a culture war than a constitutional war. And if we could just straighten out the latter, we'd go a long way toward diffusing the former.

I didn't say that. William McGurn did. I second his un-emotion:

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB122757137423754669.html

Cannoneo
November 25, 2008 10:53 AM

Oh don't be such a drama queen.

rombald
November 25, 2008 10:58 AM

As I commented last week, individuals (but not public bodies) should be free to discriminate, as they wish, against any behaviours that they consider objectionable. Discrimination should only be illegal when it is on the basis of race, ancestry, sex, age, disability, or some other unalterable characteristic. "Discrimination" includes refusing employment, and refusing to buy or sell products or services. "Behaviour" includes sexual behaviour, speech, religious practice, dress, etc. Therefore, unless the protesters in this case actually commit violence or physical damage, I would defend their right to their action, as I would defend the right of a hotelier to refuse a room to a gay couple or to someone wearing a crucifix.

Adam
November 25, 2008 11:01 AM

A lot of free speech talk in this thread seems to be getting ahead of itself or indeed of what I suspect is Rod's point. I don't think Rod is so muddle-headed as to think that there is a _solution_ to this activity. What would a solution look like? Legislation? What is the activity that the legislation would be trying to prevent? Is that prevention compatible with the U.S. Constitution or our own ideas of a free society?

I'm sure Rod knows the answers to these questions, so knock off the free speech talk. Rod doesn't have to like the boycott of pro Prop. 8 businesses and more than Prop. 8 opponents have to like pro Prop. 8 businesses.

For what it's worth, I think this is indeed blowback to the very idea of a "culture war" -- and it is undeniably the case that the religious right seems to take a zero-sum position with respect to the gay community.

Instead of finding ways to feel embattled, I'd like to see Rod, or other Christians who oppose the advance of what they call "the gay agenda" outline in positive terms the society they hope to inhabit, and talk about how and whether that society is compatible with the U.S. Constitution.

Rod? What's your point B, and how do you propose to get there?

John E. - Agn Stoic
November 25, 2008 11:53 AM

Not too long ago, Rod was a "Lock and Load" kinda guy.

Well, how does he feel about that now?

Your Name
November 25, 2008 11:55 AM

The Sunday before the election I attended church. The church I attend supported Prop 8. In his final prayer at the end of the meeting, the minister said, "Help us to accept the results of the election and to love those who took a position contrary to ours."
Representatives from the two sides were featured on a local TV station on election night when the results were still in question, and both were asked how they would proceed after the election. The prop 8 supporter said that they would accept the results and move on. The no representative did not answer the question. I am certain the the uncivil and uncalled for behavior of the no side would not have been exhibited had the results gone the other way. THIS WAS A LEGITIMATE POLITICAL ISSUE WITH LEGITIMATE REASONS TO VOTE FOR EITHER SIDE. Changing the sexual make-up of marriage partners is not a trivial issue and it should NOT be determined by courts. The repercussions of such a change need much more examination and honest discussion than the heat of an election allowed. Voters legitimately rejected the courts meddling in such matters. Those who condemn hateful behavior from the no side are to be commended, but those of you who condone it and practice it--Shame on you. I might just add that I am grateful these comments are anonymous.

Todd
November 25, 2008 11:57 AM

The gays are coming! The gays are coming!

strech
November 25, 2008 11:58 AM

Treed:

I assume you oppose Loving vs Virginia then.

Interracial marriage and gay marriage are not the same thing in some ways; however, the role of the courts overruling popular opinion is a match. Polls weren't as numerous (or, likely, as accurate) back then, but in 1958 - a decade after California's 1948 ruling that interracial marriage bans were unconstitutional - the practice had 4% support nationally. 4%. (See Gallup). It got all the way up to 20% the year it overruled nationally, and the first poll to get a plurality of support was 1991.

One of the key points of a constitutional system is to keep certain populist impulses in check and protect the rights of minorities, therefore overruling the "will of the people". Whether or not the CA, CT, and MA were legally correct or not, they were not the illegitimate stupidities asserted so often by the right. The courts are not to blame, and the term "activist judges" has become a parody of itself, meaning nothing more than "Waaah! They ruled in a way I don't like!" (Which is disappointing, as having lived in NJ I can say there are actual activist judges using the definition the right pretends it uses).

I find the boycott of business simply because they have high-profile employees who donated to Prop 8 absurd, despite my opposition to the law. And the idiotic intimidation, though probably overblown (it always is, on all sides) is disturbing.

Also, the author you quote is throwing around "free speech" far too loosely, which seems endemic in our culture.

Zaccheus Treed
November 25, 2008 12:39 PM

One of the key points of a constitutional system is to keep certain populist impulses in check

Such as, for example, the populist impulse to assume one's generation to be the wisest, best, most compassionate and most highly evolved generation in the history of humankind? All past civilizations in the annals (pun unintended) of human history in every nook and cranny of the globe: "They just didn't know any better. We do."

Now there's a populist impulse the body politic would do well to keep in check. Constitutionally.

celticdragon
November 25, 2008 2:01 PM

I agree with pantherra.

This is hysterical silliness generating page views, but no real substance. I have noticed a disturbing trend in deleting posts that are critical of the author here under the guise of "troll" control. I have little faith that Rod is truly interested in dialog in this forum, and would rather have a "woe to the persecuted Christians" echo chamber. It's his blog, so whatever floats his boat.

I can get the same thing at Townhall.com without the censorship, however.

Zaccheus Treed
November 25, 2008 4:20 PM

This is kind of cool.

http://sciencenow.sciencemag.org/cgi/content/full/2008/1117/2

Jillian
November 25, 2008 4:44 PM

What we have in America is less a culture war than a constitutional war. And if we could just straighten out the latter, we'd go a long way toward diffusing the former. I didn't say that. William McGurn did. I second his un-emotion:

Hmm, that article basically tells social conservatives to give up their theory of a Divine Order. And it tells social liberals that laws and governance don't have to conform to the Equal Protection, Due Process, and Immunities and Privileges clauses of Section 1 of the 14th Amendment. Neither of those two things exist in the author's universe, which operates on a fantasy of benign majoritarianism being a sufficient substitute for justice.

And it's sheer coincidence that an opinion writer for the WSJ would suggest pure pragmatism at a point where the Right and social conservatives have lost the political center on all Culture War issues save one, which is seemingly also slipping away.

Richard
November 25, 2008 8:33 PM

The Christian right has been using boycotts for years, to admittedly little effect. Why when the other side uses the identical tactic is it suddenly an assault on free speech. Boycotts ARE free speech.

To quote another blogger: People have a right to speak up and say what they want or donate to a cause, but with that right comes the responsibility to live up to the consequences of their actions.

Your Name
November 26, 2008 2:11 AM

Richard - I think there is a difference between boycotting a large corporation like McDonald's or Ford Motors for policies that are harmful to society .vs. targetting for intimidation an individual citizen for voicing his opinion.

There is absolutely no reason society needs gay "marriage". If gays want to form lasting relationships they are already free to do so. And they are free to name those relationships something other than "marriage", since homosexual duos simply lack the gender diversity to meet that word's definition. Until gays and their apologists present a coherent reason why the rest of us should change the way we define marriage, they should calm themselves and be thankful they live in a Christian, not a Muslim, country.

Daniel
November 26, 2008 8:13 AM

"Until gays and their apologists present a coherent reason why the rest of us should change the way we define marriage, they should calm themselves and be thankful they live in a Christian, not a Muslim, country."

Talk about your Hobson's choice.

Karen Brown
November 26, 2008 10:37 AM

Big or small, there's no obligation for anyone to do business with, well, anyone. You have no constitutional right to customers.

And if you think that the Religious Right has only boycotted large corporations, or has NOT posted information, the personal and family information of someone in a business or who holds a position that they find unacceptable, you'd be wrong. Those boycotts are only the ones that receive the most press.

The only 'intimidating' this post has noted is that they won't be doing business with the man (did he REALLY expect them to after that? That passes naive and verges on questioning intelligence..) and noting to others who do why they aren't.

Which is.. all not only perfectly legal, but all has been done (and quite a bit more) by conservative protestors. Ironically, one of the major triggers for such actions by conservatives is advocating for, or showing acceptance of gay rights.

Your Name
November 26, 2008 3:37 PM

Todd
No, the gays are not coming because I did not post my contact information.

Your Name
November 27, 2008 12:54 PM

There is absolutely no reason society needs gay "marriage".

Elaborate, please, on society's "need" for heterosexual "marriages" like Britney Spears's 55 hour "committment", or Darva Conger & Rick Rockwell's TV game show prize "marriage", or any one of Mickey Rooney's eight "marriages", or Prince Charles & Camilla Parker Bowles Windsor's (shurely non-procreational "marriage". We wait with bated breath for a cogent explanation of how we "need" such "marriages".

"If gays want to form lasting relationships they are already free to do so."

Might white of ya, Massa. Trouble is, we already do form such relationships. Now what's missing is equal government recognition of them as marriages (since that is what they are). It's called the equal protections clause of the Constitution.

"And they are free to name those relationships something other than "marriage"

No need for any special institutions or special rights. Equal rights will do just fine, thanks. My marriage is perfectly legal. Why would I (or why should I) call it anything other than what it is?

"since homosexual duos simply lack the gender diversity to meet that word's definition."

Is "gender diversity" anything like the "racial purity" that used to be required? Just askin'.

"Until gays and their apologists present a coherent reason why the rest of us should change the way we define marriage, they should calm themselves and be thankful they live in a Christian, not a Muslim, country."

The "coherent reason" you seek is called the equal protections clause of the Constitution. Sorry you don't seem to know of it.

Oh, and P.S. since when is America a "Christian nation"? I rememberr something called freedom of religion that used to be part and parcel of America's promise to the world. When did you dismantle that?

Frank
November 27, 2008 2:22 PM

The Christian right has listed the names and addresses of doctors who perform abortion so that they could be _murdered_. Certainly, the Christian right has no moral high ground in the way that it deals with dissent.

Your Name
December 1, 2008 8:50 AM

Here is the problem, speaking against Gay Marriage is not a 'Religious Right' issue.

Voters who voted for Democrtat candidate Barack Obama also voted AGAINST Gay Marriage.

The incoming President does not accept Gay Marriage any more than the prior Presidents.

Further, to say civil rights have been violated is a fallacy since homosexuals are not banned from marriage, in fact, homosexuals have married since the dawn of this system even born children, divorced only to marry again.

Frank
December 1, 2008 1:35 PM

To the simpleton who posts as "Your Name,"

Barack Obama is on record as opposing Proposition 8 because it is divisive, and he's also on record as intending to repeal DOMA.

As for your argument that gays already can get married, it's not in the best interest of heterosexuals to be married to homosexuals and vice versa. Such marriages are mockeries. Saying that gays have a right to marriage, heterosexual marriage, is like saying Saudi Arabia has religious freedom because anyone can attend the mosque of his choice.

As for the general complaint about religious discrimination, the Supreme Court of California rightly decided that, while religious people commonly assert that homosexuality is a choice, religion is undeniably a choice and, therefore, sexual orientation is at least the same standard of civil rights protection as religion is.

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