The closed shame-honor circle
David Pryce-Jones' book "The Closed Circle" is an enlightening study of the social and psychological attitudes of the Arab world, and in part an attempt to understand why the Arab nations are so dismal at dealing with modernity and ruling...
What would Mr. Pryce-Jones make of Japan, which is also very much of a honor/shame based society, and which doesn't display many, if any, of the dysfunctions that he lists for the Arabs? It seems to me that the difference is the ability to be self-critical, societies that where criticism is accepted, or even welcomed, do better than ones where it is not, and it is possible to be both shame/honor based and be self-critical. How the culture views the relationship between honesty and honor is also important. Is lying considered dishonorable, or more dishonorable than just about anything one might lie about?
To openly admit shortcomings in front of two strangers -- two women! -- was unthinkable.
If it's true that adulthood in much of America is high school with income, then adulthood in much of the Middle East is kindergarten without rules.
These are cogent cultural points, Rod.
Middle Eastern culture is deeply traditional and is today much as it has been for thousands of years. It never suffered a "dark ages" and so never benefitted from the Enlightenment. Like most traditional cultures, it has adopted many of the trappings of modern life without embracing the Modernism that sprouted them.
By contrast Israeli culture is an interesting hybrid. It contains the very traditional (that is very much like Arab culture) that pre-dates the founding of the modern state, and the very modern (socialist, marxist, secularist) that was the hallmark of the founders of the modern state. These exist in tension, which is why Israeli politics confound both enemies and allies alike. What Israel is not is a modern Euro-descendant society as one finds in the United States or Australia.
And we view these cultures though post-Modern lenses. Even the most "traditional" of us view their age-old ways of being as "corrupt."
The question of how to bring a pre-Enlightenment cultures into a post-Modern age is pressing upon the west, and not just Arab culture but traditional African and Asian culture as well. The conflict between Modernism and traditionalism is currently finding expression as a conflict between Islam and the West, but it will play out on many fronts in the years to come.
Interesting question, Larry. Japan does have those tendencies, though not to the extent of the Arab world. Of course, in WWII Japan underwent a complete and utter humiliation (at least in their eyes) and subjugation that the Arabs have never experienced. Perhaps by breaking their will militarily, we made it possible for the Japanese to transcend the limits of that honor/shame system. I hope I'm wrong, though, because the prospect of imposing that type of defeat on the Arab world as a whole is terrifying, both morally and otherwise.
The conflict between Modernism and traditionalism is currently finding expression as a conflict between Islam and the West
Chris, you can chalk up a goodly part of that showdown to envy. Islamists loathe our decadence, sure, and rightly so in some ways. But they also foam at the mouth over the prosperity of the "Satanic" West vis a vis the failure of their own civilization to thrive. The discrepancy flies in the face of their belief that Islamic society is superior in every way to all other systems. Their failure begs the theological question "Where is Allah?" as well as the pragmatic question "What might we be doing badly that we could take steps to correct?"
Of course, as Rod's post above points out, this is a culture incapable of asking introspective questions like those of itself. For individuals caught in its web, it's more honorable to kill, or at least physically threaten, the successful infidel than to ask what you might learn from him.
Islamist culture: kindergarten without rules ... except the ones made up by the bullies.
It would be awesome if there was an Arab fundamentalist journalist writing an armchair-psychology article about the pathologies of Western culture, and how these things make Westerners shallow, selfish, materialistic, godless in spite of external religion, and scrupulously pacifistic in their personal lives even while sending armies to wreak death and havoc around the world. This journalist could go on to speculate about what it will take to redeem Western society, and whether or not a complete and utter military defeat is necessary to accomplish that redemption.
Of course, if such an article were to be written, David Pryce-Jones could sue the writer for plagiarism.
Hmm:
So the Israelis are now combining the western attributes that exist in their society with what can be seen as an "Arab" sensibility; that they must respond to provocations with overwhelming force for fear of being seen as "weak." Since the Israeli military is actually effective--as compared to the primitive rockets used by Hamas--the results are wholly disproportionate.
Joel, I think that was Osama's critique of American culture...and why he still believes that Al Queda will be victorious.
Tom, on this front the Israelis view the world much as the Arabs do, which does explain why they always seem to overreact. For that matter, the reason the Palestinians never miss the opportunity to miss an opportunity is because they feel that they're getting the short end of any agreement Israel isn't screaming about, and Israel feels the same way about any agreement that the Palestinians aren't screaming about.
Try mediating a negotiation where party A's agreement to party B's demands are seen by party B as being taken to the cleaners by party A. Good grief!
Re: Of course, in WWII Japan underwent a complete and utter humiliation (at least in their eyes) and subjugation that the Arabs have never experienced.
For about the last 1000 years the Arab world was repeatedly conquered and ruled by outsiders-- various tribes of Turks, Berbers in the west, the Mongols, the Crusaders, finally the French and British.
I am surprised to see you reading SWJ, one of my favorite blogs. Lots of good stuff there. I posted on Lt. Berman's article quite a while ago. I am not sure if shame/honor societies are necessarily less viable. You are dealing with an area of the world that was taken apart and arbitrarily put back together by Europeans with little regard for many years of tradition and religious affiliations. Oil money corrupted things and these areas were used for proxy wars during the Cold War. The CIA engineered the overthrow of some of these countries. War has been going almost non stop for years there. Just ask your brother-in-law what the toil of war is like.
Pryce-jones may be right about some of this, but he needs to examine the phenomenon in Asian cultures also. It is a big puzzle and this seems like just one smallpiece.
Steve
Some of this pop psychology (Pryce-Jones and the odious Patai's "The Arab Mind") led directly to scandals like Abu Ghuraib and Guantanamo. Good luck with that.
And it seems to me that we could use a bit more focus on shame and honor in our own country for that matter. Interesting on how that would have played out on Wall Street, for example.
The Japan analogy isn't all that great here but makes for an interesting comparison. Japan is indeed an "honor-shame" culture but also one that can, and has, gone through great periods of borrowing, both technologically and culturally, from others: during the Nara period (from Tang China), or the Meiji restoration (after the forced opening of Japan by the US going from shoguns and samurai to a modern, industrial power in a few decades) and again after WWII, for a few examples.
Japan has shown a willingness to learn from outside groups and adapt to the world at large, something that I believe is lacking in Arab culture as a whole.
Dubai anyone? I think the bigger issue is the involvement of religion with state function. Corruption is a bigger issue. Constant war is another.
Steve
Re Japan's culture of honor-shame:
In Japan, part of this culture is taking responsability for failures and/or screw-ups. That is why company directors and government officials metaphorically (occasionally literally) "fall on their swords," when overtaken by scandal or failure.
While not advocating the more extreme aspects of this culture (see hara-kiri), the idea of government and/or corporate officials actually taking responsability for their actions or omissions by resigning is one that seems increasingly rare in US society, and perhaps should be encouraged.
Good morning, Rod, and welcome to the patriarchy!
sooner the honor of the elite than the dignity of the people Yes . . . hello, RC Church! Better that your children should continue to be raped than that "scandal" should ensue by exposing the villainy of priests and bishops. Hello to all those who felt it was morally wrong to expose, say, the marital failings of John McCain--because he was a war hero! His honor must be preserved. Hello to those who were indignant that a son, say Frank Schaeffer, should openly discuss the failings of his parents, leaders in the right-wing Christian community. Or a daughter, say Honor Moore, should discuss the actions of her father, a bishop. Religious leaders and parents should never be criticized--their honor must be preserved at all costs.
I disagree with Your Name at 9:20, only because I think he/she has confused "taking responsibility" with "assigning blame." The point of determining responsibility is to determine where and how things went wrong, so they can be fixed. In a shame culture (like our own) this is transformed to a process of assigning blame to a scapegoat, so that individual can be shamed and punished on behalf of the system, which then continues unchanged. Because most failures are system failures on some level and cannot be assigned to one individual. Read about quality management.
Yes, our culture is certainly less shame/honor based than many other cultures in the world. But the changes that have enabled us to move away from that base are the very changes decried by conservatives. Puzzling! And this method of blaming all problems on some other BAD culture--say, the Palestinians--and urging that they be punished, thus avoiding all consideration of our own part in the problem, is just another iteration of the shame/honor cycle.
Not sure the anthropologists have it right. I think "shame" is a result of what happens to a person, rather than what that person does. Which is why rape is such a devastating experience, while adultery and fornication are just fun and games, even in cultures that frown on them. Shame is what happens when people lose their sense of agency.
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