Astyk: Michael Jackson mourning b.s.
Boy, Sharon really hits a home run with this intelligent jeremiad against the cult of public celebrity mourning that has overtaken our country. Think about it: three weeks ago Michael Jackson was a washed-up celebrity weirdo, a plastic-surgery addict, probably...
At the risk of getting all meta, it seems to me that blog posts about Jackson's death and reaction of some of the public to the events following have become molds into which the authors fit their narrative about 'how things are today'.
And is it really the case that Ms. Astyk is not permitted to grieve over the things she really cares about?
Of course it isn't really the case. No one will prevent her from doing so. Mourn away most extravagantly if you like.
"You watch: In two years or less, Michael Jackson will be as forgotten as Princess Diana is today"
That's right, the radio stations and all the folks at home will throw away all his recordings like they have hers.
And three weeks ago, hundreds of thousands of fans had tickets to see him perform; good or bad, his tour would have been a big story.
"I will cede the fact that for people who like that sort of thing, this is the sort of thing that they will like." :D
Our values are skewed.
This kind of public adulation and sorrow should be reserved for great inventors, great scientists, great thinkers and philosophers, etc.
Instead, we waste it on great pop stars.
It says a lot about us and very little about Michael Jackson.
Michael who?
"Public celebrity mourning" is little more than an exercise in the perpetration of consumer fraud (and a not-too-sophisticated one at that).
The Jackson family---which is coming across as more like a Mafia "family" than a real Human family in the way it is exploiting this--is trying to make money off this; Al Sharpton is trying to make money (or at least publicity) off of this, and even certain members of Congress are trying to profit from this. The terms that apply here are two: "unseemly" and "frivolous".
The solution remains the same: ignore it. Do not waste so much as a penny on this creature, or on his works. Mr. Jackson was a well-paid member of the menial classes who lived and died in a rather tawdry fashion. He created nothing of lasting value. A waitress or gas-station attendant creates more value, in the course of their working lives, or even of a single working day, than this poor degenerate ever did. Long-term, he certainly will not have the long-term impact of someone possessed of more solid attainments. I agree with Mr. Dreher's assessment; in two years, the CDs of his music will grace remainder bins all over the country, and it will be "Michael Who ?"
Leave the mourning over his life to those who actually knew him. The rest of us have better things to do.
Your servant,
Lord Karth
probably a pederast
In a prior thread, you said you were "moved" by Jackson's daughter's words. It dawns on you, I hope, that her words defending her father and expressing her love for him are, at least in part, a reaction to statements like yours.
Shame on you.
Michael Jackson was undeniably one of the greatest live performers ever to take a stage. But this whole "King of Pop" moniker -- what nonsense. First, if I recall correctly, he was given that title by ... himself. Second, name one piece of genuinely great pop songcraft to come from the pen of Michael Jackson. "Beat It"? "Billie Jean"? "Don't Stop Till You Get Enough"? Please.
For a time Michael Jackson may well have been the world's best male pop dancer. When he was young his remarkable voice could carry a melody with the best of them. But what songs show his writing talent to be on par with the likes of Lennon & McCartney, Bob Dylan, Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye, Brian Wilson, Jagger-Richards, Bruce Springsteen, Van Morrison, James Brown, Elvis Costello, Chuck Berry, Elton John-Bernie Taupin, Sly Stone and on and on and on. As a performer he equaled or bettered all those hitmakers. But as a songwriter he couldn't hold a candle to any of them, or to dozens of others I could tick off in about five minutes. King of Pop my a$$.
Which is a long way of saying: I agree with Rod. Three years from now the public's memory of Michael Jackson will be dim and fading fast. And rightly so.
Not that I won't be praying for the repose of his exquisitely sensitive soul, mind you. Just that this man does not deserve to go down as a role model or a martyr or a holy soul worthy of the kind of undying devotion we've seen pledged ad nauseum these three weeks. He was sick and this is sickening.
An easy and simple test for sanity: if you see Al Sharpton heading towards and event, head in the opposite direction.
Rather than celebrity culture, isn't the cause/problem/issue exhibitionism? People want to publicly mourn, or celebrate, or complain or what have you. It doesn't matter if its relevent to their life, its preferable if it is irrelevent even.
It wasn't long ago you didn't see little shrines along the road where people were killed in accidents like you do today. People didn't show up to leave stuffed animals in front of missing strangers homes while the TV reports capture it Live at 6 & 10. We did not need relatives testifying at sentencing for us to know they missed the murder victim, or just complaining to Madoff about their lost cash. Heck, peope even blog/network/tweet how irritating all this exhibitionism can be now. Wait, forget that last one.
I am not sure what it is, but we as a culture want to participate in things it wasn't normal to participate in before.
Forgotten like Diana? You are not paying attention. Diana still has a large, loud, devoted following and still gets plenty of cable time. I have searched the billboard archives to verify, but I am pretty sure Elvis has not had a hit in some time but is still frequently and fondly remembered. Jackson will join those ranks. It has nothing to do with deserving. Is is just the weirdness of fame.
There are upsides to the severe market fragmentation that has taken place over the past 20 yeras. One of those upsides is that I can entirely ignore spectacles like the Michael Jackson saga. I don't think I'm alone in that. As the saying goes, "Nothing popular is really popular anymore."
No doubt, tens of millions of people really are interested in the various Jackson news, and that may justify the schlock media's focus on it in terms of pursuing market share. But in a country of 300 million people that isn't all that much. Hyper-coverage of a subject no longer indicates a deeply felt, widespread interest among the public.
In the case, I strongly suspect MOST people aren't following this nonsense too closely, absolutely "mourning" in any way, and aren't pretending to do so.
Very well put, John E.
I'm afraid the "bull**it" in this piece isn't limited to criticizing the overly dramatic mourning of a sad, crazy celebrity. Where does Sharon get off making a ridiculous statement like, "We are not permitted to grieve extravagantly or get maudlin over the fact that we pass on less to our children in every generation, or that we have a much less secure future than we once did"? Is there some anti-grieving statute I am not aware of? Why would you grieve for these fallacies anyway? Every generation benefits from advancements in medicine and technology that prolong lives and decrease human suffering, and the future is no less secure than it has always been. There have never been guarantees in life--the quality of it or how long you live it. Get real. Perhaps Sharon would like to rant on a bit more about poor, changing Planet Earth. After all, everybody knows that the last ice age was caused by the dinosaurs refusing to drive hybrid cars or switch to fluorescent light bulbs.
The media certainly blows things out of proportion, and the general public idolizes many people who do not deserve significant recognition, but it does a disservice to entertainers to say they are trivial. I dare say millions of people around the world received more joy from Michael Jackson's records and videos than they ever did from Sharon's lost frogs. While Michael Jackson will never again get the airplay that he did in the 1980s, it is a safe bet that his earlier Jackson 5 recordings will live on, as do Frank Sinatra's and John Lennon's, and countless other artists who endeared themselves to the world.
It is a bit amusing to see bloggers who loudly cluck warnings on Peak Oil! Economic Armageddon! and Catastrophic Global Flooding! now lecturing others about the over-the-top coverage of Michael Jackson.
Rick:
Your comment fails in one important respect. Peak oil, economic difficulties or global-warming/flooding issues are, at least, serious issues that can be intelligently debated on their merits. The prospect of Peak Oil affects everyone who uses energy. Economic armageddon can affect everyone who uses/produces goods or services. Global warming/flooding affects, conceivably everyone who lives on this planet.
Michael Jackson, in comparison to these subjects, is fluff and less than fluff. Dust in the wind, if even that much.
Your servant,
Lord Karth
This is one weird phrase: "...or that we have a much less secure future than we once did."
What the???
Troy, roadside and other little shrines and memorials are extremely common in culturally Catholic places outside of the United States; I'm not sure what this example is supposed to prove. Although I've seen some nutty conservatives rant about roadside shrines because they're something that "illegal immigrants" (by which they mean Mexicans) put up, are in bad taste, etc. Exhibitionist? I dunno. But I know it always makes me sad when I see empty Protestant cemetaries with no visitors, no flowers, no balloons or trinkets or makeshift shrines at the grave left by loved ones for their departed, like I see when I visit my Dad's grave.
Of course, no one has ever accused us Catholics of having impeccable taste, or of being undemonstrative (unless they're Irish). ;) For good taste and dignity I guess you'd want an Anglo-Catholic. ;)
As far as Michael Jackson goes, it's a bit over the top, but, for the Jackson family (or at least, Michael and his brothers and sisters), this is the only kind of life they've ever really known. One lived in front of crowds and fans. I can't imagine why anyone was expecting anything less. And none of us knows what his private life was really like, we don't *know* that he was a pedophile: he *was* acquitted. And even if he was, we really should try to remember that he was someone's beloved son, brother, and to those beautiful children, their beloved "best Daddy in the world".
Spoken like a true Christian. After all didn't Christ say "judge and condemn others, so that it makes you look good in comparison?" Why is Rod paying so much attention to the death of a "washed-up celebrity weirdo'? Couldn't he spend his time more productively uncovering all the white hate-crime going on in those damn Yankee states?
Lord Karth,
Yes, a Global Flood would certainly have global repercussions.
So would a severe drought of oil — or cheap replacements.
But neither will happen, in our lifetimes or many to come.
They are fantasies, indulged by those with a certain psychological profile -- and propagated by more cynical folks who can profit by selling doom.
There is also a large element of fantasy (and again, profit!) in "the myth of Michael Jackson" that is being propagated right now.
But at least the Michael Jackson myth is more rooted in reality than the Peak Oil! or Global Flooding! myths.
Whatever else can be said about Jackson, it is simply a fact he is known to more people than few other figures in history — and that he leaves behind an enormous body of music and video from a 40 year career, that hundreds of millions of people, if not billions, have seen and heard.
Regardless of any judgment of merit, his death is truly an event on these grounds alone.
"We are, of course, not permitted to mourn dramatically for things actually worth grieving over..."
"of course, not permitted" That's the best you've got? Grieve all you want to. Who's stopping you, really? I think it's been made abundantly clear that Rod and the knowmocons are superior to Michael Jackson and his fans in the shallow end of the pool. Move on, will ya?
Bob
This Gail Collins op-ed is a good skewering of Congress and particular Rep. Sheila Jackson Lee (who's usually in need of a good skewering).
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/09/opinion/09collins.html?_r=1&ref=opinion
Rod, methinks you doth protest too much.
You call yourself a Christian and loving father. But for me at least, it seems highly inappropriate for you to defame the memory of the recently deceased. Especially someone like Michael Jackson, who was certainly a troubled figure, but did bring joy to many people's lives and appealed to their better natures. Does it really make any difference whether he did it for a few years or decades?
Go on Rod and look in your crystal ball, and tell us how long Michael Jackson's fame will last. Fame is ephemeral. But art is not. Unlike Princess Diana, Michael Jackson appealed to a broad swath of humanity, from Africa to Asia and the Americas. Needless to say, Michael Jackson was no Mozart or Beethoven. But somehow, he could touch the most global of audiences. That's a true gift. And you can't say that for Sinatra or Elvis.
One more thing: saying someone is "probably" a pedophile or this or that is at worst libelous, at bare minimum, sloppy. Unless you have some proof to share with us, leave your petty accusations to yourself. In this country, you're innocent until proven guilty.
"of course, not permitted" That's the best you've got? Grieve all you want to. Who's stopping you, really?
I agree, but I think what's happening here is a common fallacy: mistaking what's on TV for reality. When Sharon Astyk says we're not permitted to grieve extravagantly, what she seems to mean is that we're not permitted to decide what will get covered extravagantly on television. I'm reminded of the character in the old "Bloom County" comic strip who would wake up his dad in the middle of the night screaming the latest tabloid celebrity gossip as if it really was urgent news -- as if the troubles in some movie-star couple's marriage, for instance, were genuinely an emergency for the rest of us. The joke was that the kid couldn't distinguish between what the media told him to care about and what was really important. Unfortunately a lot of "culture critics" can't either.
Fortunately, though, there's a fairly simple cure for this syndrome: Turn off the TV once in a while. I myself have watched almost no coverage of Michael Jackson's death or funeral, and as a result I don't feel my emotions have been manipulated or "channeled" at all.
Like Sharon's post a lot, and will link to it, but I'm puzzled by the comparison to Princess Di.
Who has forgotten Princess Di? Anybody?
The point is not that we as a society will forget Princess Di or Michael Jackson, because that's not going to happen. Even if their lives weren't memorable, their spectacular deaths will assure their lasting fame.
The point is, as Sharon said, that instead of taking a moment to think about our narrowing future prospects, the loss of natural beauty and life around us, and numerous other tragedies in which we as a people are deeply are enmeshed, we make a spectacle of mourning for pop phenomena who do nothing but distract us from our problems.
Our lives are increasingly surreal; even our sadness is becoming plasticized.
How did America get so sick and strange that a space-alien like Michael Jackson gets JFK-style coverage and praises upon his demise? People should look away in embarassment; instead, they watched it all on live TV.
Eric K, thanks for that link!
I think I disagree.
The music will last, along with the videos and the dancing. The pop influence, in other words.
And the questions will last, because the Jackson empire is all about rumors and scandal and mild forms of shock. I think his grasp on the tabs will be similar to Elvis and the other neo-aliens.
Michael
July 9, 2009 4:52 PM
How did America get so sick and strange that a space-alien like Michael Jackson gets JFK-style coverage and praises upon his demise?
Well, to be fair, this isn't a new thing - Rudolph Valentino had a pretty strange personal life and outrageous funeral back in the 1920's.
Mr. Dreher - Will you PLEASE shut up about Michael Jackson!! Why on earth is a so-called "crunchy con" so OBSESSED with attacking Michael Jackson??
Mike-in-Brooklyn
July 9, 2009 5:32 PM
Mr. Dreher - Will you PLEASE shut up about Michael Jackson!! Why on earth is a so-called "crunchy con" so OBSESSED with attacking Michael Jackson??
Why is crunchy con so obsessed with anything? think about it.
The point is, as Sharon said, that instead of taking a moment to think about our narrowing future prospects, the loss of natural beauty and life around us, and numerous other tragedies in which we as a people are deeply are enmeshed, we make a spectacle of mourning for pop phenomena who do nothing but distract us from our problems.
Again, "we" do not do this. The producers and assignment editors who decide what goes on TV do this. The only way it's "our" doing is if we forget how to separate ourselves and our own lives from what we see in the media.
"...or that we have a much less secure future than we once did."
Gee, if our future is not "secure" now, then it wasn't secure in the past. It's the same future.
I don't know, I seriously don't watch TV except when at I'm at my grandmother's house, and all she uses the TV for is the for the broadcast for the blind (they read the newspaper on public TV in the morning) and then TCM and crime shows at night.
I saw a few pictures of the ceremony on newspaper front covers and news websites. There was some mention of it on NPR, but not much.
So I'm not really sure what all the hoopla is about. Turn off the TV, or turn it to TCM or something.
When TV went digital, I lost TV. (I refuse to pay for it. Considering the content, you have to be kidding.)
I don't miss it.
I wish I could remember the exact source, but I cherish a line from a science fiction piece (not sure if it was a book or video) in which a character looks back on our time and describes it as "a psychotic era in which actors and sports figures were mistaken for people of importance".
I didn't feel that news sites like the New York Times, the Guardian, or the LA Times were particularly disproportionate in the space they devoted to Michael Jackson (don't watch TV news, so I can't comment on that). Twitter and Facebook, of course, got overwhelmed with MJ traffic, but, really, other than the fact that #iranelection dropped off the top ten trending topics for a day or so, I don't see the problem, there; it seems to me entirely fitting that the top pop singer and dancer of his generation, when he dies way too soon, should have a big impact on Twitter and Facebook.
As for the cult of celebrity, I don't think that music and dancing, even popular music and dancing, are unimportant or frivolous things, and they matter as much to me as being a foodie does to you. Art in all its forms is part of what makes life worth living. What's problematic, in the cult of celebrity, is the assumption that we actually know the people who entertain us so well - in all its forms, from excessive hero worship, to excessive gossip about unproven rumors, to, in the worst cases, stalking.
The funeral itself was actually more restrained than, from what I've read, Rudolph Valentino's was. Of course, in that case, too, untimely death is part of the mix.
At the risk of sounding like the most shallow person in the world, there's a sense in which I actually am sadder about Michael Jackson's death than about the recent deaths of two people in my Quaker meeting that I actually know personally. But the only reason for that would be that the two people in my church lived good, long, full lives, and left behind grown children, grandchildren, and members of their faith community who all cared about them, and I can think of many worse fates than to live and die as they did.
Princess Di and Mother Teresa died on the same day. As we all know, the press attention was overwhelmingly devoted to coverage of Princess Di.
It’s not my intent to pass judgment on Princess Di whose limited charitable efforts may have helped someone and whose life, as a media-ravished royal, was probably pretty miserable.
But, as thomas tucker said, we need to mourn the great ones. Mother Teresa was such a great one. She gave up her own comforts to help the poor of India die with a modicum of comfort. She sacrificed herself so that those unloved on earth could know the love of God. Of course, the last thing she would have wanted would be publicity after her death.
It is we who needed to know about this great one and mourn her collectively.fnq
Please disregard the "fnq" after my post. I was struggling with the horribly difficult "text" and had my cursor in the wrong place.
Just for the record, Blessed Teresa actually died five days later than Diana, although it was the day before Diana's funeral.
Which reminds me of another point - even Diana, who died in a foreign country and also required police investigation, was buried within a week. Why is Jackson still above ground?
I disagree with the comment at the original post that claimed every generation has an icon who has a spectacle televised funeral and mentioned Monroe, Presley, and Lennon. I actually don't believe any of those three had spectacle funerals of this type, although certainly many funs went nuts on their own time.
"fans," not "funs," of course.
Who in the world are we to judge anyone. If people want to praise him now that he is dead so be it. The boy admitted that he lied because his father made him do it. You people just seek out the negative.
As they were saying, Michael set the bar for a lot of people. He made history in music as well as his charitable works. It was well worth it to me.
Again, WHO ARE YOU TOO JUDGE?
I am reminded of this quote from C.S. Lewis:
"Monarchy can easily be debunked, but watch the faces, mark well the debunkers. These are the men whose taproot in Eden has been cut: whom no rumour of the polyphony, the dance, can reach---men to whom pebbles laid in a row are more beautiful than an arch. Yet even if they desire mere equality they cannot reach it. Where men are forbidden to honour a king they honour millionaires, athletes or film stars instead: even famous prostitutes or gangsters. For spiritual nature, like bodily nature, will be served; deny it food and it will gobble poison."
http://www.angelfire.com/in3/theodore/opinion/articles/coulombe/monfaq.html
I would also apply the above quote to the veneration of the Saints. I believe it was Alice von Hildebrand who noted that if you asked someone in the Middle Ages who one of their heroes was they would have named a Saint. In the 19th century it would have probably been a scientist or maybe an industrialist. In our age it is usually someone who has attained a great deal of fame and wealth (regardless of their talents--and I do think Michael Jackson was very talented).
Instead of comparing Michael Jackson's death to Princess Di, how about the recent death of Steve McNair? He died under shady circumstances, yet here in Nashville, we're talking about his football career and his family. In fact, it's pretty strange--my mother will tell me how she pities Michael Jackson's children one moment and then the next tell me about how she cried during McNair's memorial and all the good things he did.
As for what Michael Jackson was three weeks ago, is Sharon unaware that he was about to start a new tour? There are people in England with tickets for a show of his they'll never see.
Anyways, I didn't follow his career. His death shocked me, but it made me feel for my friend who would listen to his music at work. I wasn't affected by his death, and because of that have decided not to watch the memorial or anything else about him. I find great use in my TV's power button.
Still haven't participated in the Michael Jackson worship. Don't plan to.
Re: I would also apply the above quote to the veneration of the Saints.
I think it works better there. Anti-monarchial politics is respectably ancient, common among both the Greeks and Romans. The notion that all of us Americans (except maybe Florence King who claimed to be a monarchist, though it was never clear when the lady was joking) have had our tap roots to Eden cut is a bit over the top.
Indeed, a certain amount of anti-monarchist politics can be found in the Bible itself. Nothing against Princess Di, and she was probably of better character than some (not all) entertainers, but I'm having trouble seeing how honoring royalty is intrinsically better than honoring talented athletes or singers or actors.
Honoring saints is another matter.
Michele said:
"Still haven't participated in the Michael Jackson worship. Don't plan to."
You just did.
An example of anti-monarchism in the Bible: http://www.newadvent.org/bible/1sa008.htm. (Of course, you can also find a more monarchist-friendly line of Biblical thought in David as ideal king.)
I also think that, of all the manifestations of celebrity culture, mourning, even extravagant mourning, of prematurely dead celebrities (even very flawed prematurely dead celebrities) is far from the most deserving of criticism. If anything, the mourning of the famous and prematurely dead is a salutary reminder of our own mortality.
I come out of lurking to point out that there are plenty of people who do mourn these things publicly - and, more than that, who actually work to improve the situation. They're called activists. Plenty of people are focused on those things, and if more people would pay more attention to them and support their work to whatever level they're able to (financially, letter to the editor, participating in demonstrations, etc.), things would be very different.
Re: I think it works better there. Anti-monarchial politics is respectably ancient, common among both the Greeks and Romans. The notion that all of us Americans (except maybe Florence King who claimed to be a monarchist, though it was never clear when the lady was joking) have had our tap roots to Eden cut is a bit over the top.
Oddly enough I've heard similar remarks about the benefits of monarchy from my priest back home (Anglo-Catholic). The theory is that there is an innate need in the human soul for things like veneration, loyalty, obedience, submission, recognition of glory and honor, and other virtues associated with traditional monarchies, and that if we aren't able to experience these things in connexion with monarchs then we will transfer them to less deserving people like charismatic politicians (Napoleon, Fidel Castro, JFK) or to celebrities.
There's something to the argument, no doubt, and I think it's a strong criticism not necessarily of republicanism, but specifically of _liberal_ republicanism. But ultimately monarchy is still a terrible idea, because history has shown that heredity is a p*ss-poor way of selecting your leaders. At least a general, a scientist, a saint or (presumably) an artist got there by merit, instead of by an accident of birth.
Hi Lynn Gazis-Sax, haven't seen you on here before!
Who gives a sh** one way or the other?
Maybe some of this was/is guilt. The guy did a lot of philantrhrophic work and is even in the Guiness Book of World Records for his charitable contributions. He also wrote and sang some pretty spiritual songs. There was little media coverage on that but there was plenty on "allegations" that did not lead to a conviction. At one point, this gentle soul was so famous and adored but since he was a mere mortal he was unable to handle it all. Could anyone? He turned to drugs and found a multitude of enablers. I am angry that his addictions were so deep rooted that he rebuffed all offers of help and that the world was denied his talent, his children no longer have a father and his family/friends have lost him. Most of all, I am mad because this religious man did not find his comfort from God instead of drugs and world opinion.
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