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Is Frank Lombard's religion relevant?

Friday July 3, 2009

Terry Mattingly has some pointed questions for the media in its coverage of the Frank Lombard child molestation scandal. Excerpt: The sins and alleged crimes of one gay parent say as much about the motivations and beliefs of those who...
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tmatt
July 3, 2009 12:12 PM

Note: I said the church had scrubbed MOST signs of his existence from the website, because they left him on the vestry but added (inactive). It appears that other information about him on the website vanished.

See this conservative Anglican post on all of that:

http://www.standfirminfaith.com/index.php/site/article/23600/

Geoff G.
July 3, 2009 12:49 PM

I'd say that religion is relevant to the extent that it motivated the crime. And if that Episcopal church and its ministers were doing anything at all to encourage or even to enable this molestation (e.g. if they were aware of it and were merely passively encouraging Lombard to stop) then Lombard's religion is indeed relevant, in the same way that Catholic bishops who were aware of abuse and did little or nothing to prevent and expose it are also accessories to that crime.

On the other hand, if the church wasn't aware of the abuse and wasn't preaching in such a way that a reasonable person might think that they condoned abuse then I don't see how this crime reflects on the church any more than it reflects on Lombard's employer, Duke University.

Child sexual abuse is, alas, far more common than this one incident. In a different thread, I've linked to other cases where straight (or nominally straight) youth pastors in a variety of denominations have used their position to abuse teenagers and in some cases children younger than that. The usual response is to immediately remove the pastor from their position and to cooperate with the police in their investigation, which is as it should be.

One well known attribute that most pedophiles and ephebophiles have in common is that they will deliberately seek out positions of trust and authority within their community, preferably one with access to children (this is precisely why the position of youth pastor is so attractive to them—ready access to youth, a good justification for being around youngsters, and the authority that goes with the responsibility).

It looks like Lombard was doing something similar. No doubt his active position in his church helped him immensely with the adoption process.

Why is it different with abortion-related murders? Well, some of the more fringe religious groups within the pro-life movement will, while perhaps deprecating violence, paint abortion providers as evil, persistent sinners, hated by God (we even saw a bit of that here in the wake of the Tiller murder). Of course they don't advocate violence. But there is a mixed message there.

The correct analogy would be if the church Lombard belonged to had said "Sex with minors is absolutely wrong, but just look at how attractive and sensual and desirable those young bodies are. It's a shame that you can't have sex with those children. But you can't touch them! That would be morally wrong."

Franklin Jennings
July 3, 2009 1:34 PM

Sad to see Geoff endorses vigilante justice.

Fortunately, the Catholic majority of the pro-life movement, at least, does not, and so find arguments like his head-scratchingly ignorant.

Fred
July 3, 2009 2:07 PM

"The sins and alleged crimes of one gay parent say as much about the motivations and beliefs of those who advocate legal adoptions by gays and lesbians as, well, the sins and crimes of one anti-abortion activist who shoots an abortionist say something valid about the motivations and beliefs of people in the mainstream pro-life movement. In other words -- next to nothing."

I have to disagree. It does offer up the opportunity to explore these issues especially since of late several cases of molestation by open homosexuals have hit the news and it is fair game to explore as the media explored the Catholic churches role in tacit approve and enabling of homosexuals in its midst. Also it is fair game to explore if an abortion clinic shooting is related to the tactic approval of Pro-Life groups as it has repeatedly in the media and been found largely without merit.

The media on the other hand only lifts up open homosexuals and religion when it serves their world view where as it totally ignores countless studies over the past 50 years showing connections between molestation and the homosexual lifestyle. Frank Lombard's reading list on Amazon provides an excellent example of the tacit if not open tolerance of the idolization of underage boys and promotion of even the most radical extremes of sexuality. Not all gay men molest but a very large number of them have been molested and the research shows that will out a doubt that men who are abused sexually or otherwise are at a much greater risk of acting out. It is also fair to explore whether the adoption services are allowing homosexuals and single individuals in general to adopt children to the detriment of two parent heterosexual married families. The fact that conservatives and churches will not use opportunities like this to make points and raise red flags just leaves Christianity and conservatives to a grave disadvantage. The media pouched with glee on the Duke case involving the Lacrosse players they were filled with mock outrage but now that little boys are involved and an AIDs policy researcher and his partner who is involved in clinical drug trails at Duke no one wants to talk about it. Most of the media don't even dare admit he is a homosexual even the media in the UK is not that dense.

Let a christian communal community kick reporters out and barricade the street and this would be news. Finally the Church and some students have come forward and that is a good thing but who do you think will illustrate not only the double standard but talk about these issues if we do not make it an issue? Is it fair that an entirely one sided view of homosexuality is presented on tv and through the news. Gay Exorcism gets nearly a week of coverage in which no one was hurt on the Drudge report but a Gay rape of a little African American boy gets one? There was also a case earlier this year where Jason Sheppard was killed during an attempt at gay rape. I know personally of one case where a boy molested by a gay man since the age of 10 is spending time in jail because he snapped and killed him.

So go ahead an cover for the media and make the gay activists jobs easier but the tacit approval of molestation and predation is still there and it will eventually become even more difficult to say anything about it as people who do not dare look behind the closet curtain or even ask the questions about the overt obscenity and lewd acts in "Gay pride" parades. No the press doesn't cover those either.
That's a hate crime or soon will be.

Your Name
July 3, 2009 2:09 PM

It is ironic that just a couple of weeks before it came out that a liberal "Christian" organization was exposed as the source of the largest donation to the Anglican Communion to continue the "listening process" which is widely seen by conservatives as a ruse to talk, talk, talk while the liberals establish more "facts on the ground."

And one of the leaders of this liberal organization, a so called expert in Christian sexual ethics who is quoted as saying that Jesus didn't have any problems with pedophilia:

"There seems to be nothing inherently harmful or damaging in sexual acts alone, but rather harmfulness and damage must be interpreted within the context of the way each particular behavior is seen in each culture and in terms of its long-range effects on the individual."

and:

"There is a story in the gospels of Matthew (8:5-13) and Luke (7:1-10) that most certainly illustrates pederasty as not having a negative value in Jesus's thought... Since pederastic relationships were so common and accepted in the ancient world of Jesus, it is likely that, as the story indicates, Jesus himself had no problem with the practice of pederasty."

see: http://www.standfirminfaith.com/index.php/site/article/23332

Davis
July 3, 2009 2:13 PM

The fact that he's active in the church is an interesting detail that seems a reasonable thing to add to a story.

Beyond that, it's only so much concern trolling by the anti-Episcopal right, it seems.

Geoff G.
July 3, 2009 2:41 PM

Franklin Jennings said:

Sad to see Geoff endorses vigilante justice.

That was not my intent at all. I probably expressed myself poorly. If you could be a bit more specific about where what I said could be construed as endorsing vigilante justice, I will immediately clarify and amend my statements.

Jenny
July 3, 2009 2:42 PM

Given the fact that the openly gay Episcopal bishop from New Hampshire, Gene Robinson has advocated to children in his diocese that they should share their "sexual gifts with others", and the fact that neither Robinson nor any of the openly and activist gay priests, bishops and activists in the Episcopal church have spoken out against NAMBLA or the newly formed lesbian version of NAMBLA, "Butterfly Kisses", how they've been involved in productions of the Vagina Monologues, which includes a lesbian rationalizes her molestation of a 13 year old girl. How they've refused to speak out against these criminal acts, or the glbtq activist organizations demanding that the age of consent laws be over turned, yeah, i'd say it's especially relevant.

Brett R.
July 3, 2009 2:57 PM

Geoff, no need to apologize. You expressed yourself well and do not need to take responsibility for others' lack of careful reading. I'm glad you got your cogent argument in before this thread (predictably) began to degenerate to discussions of Lombard's Amazon wishlist and references to NAMBLA.

Jon
July 3, 2009 3:56 PM

Re: The media on the other hand only lifts up open homosexuals and religion when it serves their world view where as it totally ignores countless studies over the

Maybe, and yet more recently we had scads of stories (too many to count) where it was the Catholic Clerical lifestyle linked the abuse of children. Thern there's the unhappy fact that the White People's Lifestyle is deeply linked to prejudice and discrimination against Blacks even to the point of violence. And (to hear some feminists tell it at least) the Straight Male lifestyle is inseparably linked to brutality and even rape against women. Not to mention the human lifesyle is linked to the destruction of the natural environment.
The broad tar brush can smear a canvas of any size.

tmatt
July 3, 2009 4:10 PM

So, would the "devout" reference be relevant in media reports on the same crime by a conservative, an evangelical, a "devout" Catholic?

RJohnson
July 3, 2009 4:29 PM

"The media on the other hand only lifts up open homosexuals and religion when it serves their world view where as it totally ignores countless studies over the past 50 years showing connections between molestation and the homosexual lifestyle."

Fair enough. Shall we start taking a look at the number of child abuse cases coming out of Protestant churches, or churches in general, and see what kind of connection there is between child abuse and the Christian lifestyle?

In all of the child abuse cases that have come to light in the past 10 years from various churches, it is accurate to say that a good number were committed by homosexual men against young boys. It is also accurate to say that a good number were committed by lesbian women against young girls. And is is also accurate to say that an even greater number were committed by heterosexual pastors against youth of the opposite sex.

But through all of that it is quite accurate to say that all of these church abuse cases were committed by men and women who were living a Christian lifestyle.

What is it about the Christian lifestyle that promotes such activity?

RJohnson
July 3, 2009 4:44 PM

Not that it will matter to those who have decided that their position is "the right one", but here is a summary from UC Davis that talks about the issue of the likelihood of homosexual men to abuse children.

psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html

From the article:
"Conclusion

The empirical research does not show that gay or bisexual men are any more likely than heterosexual men to molest children. This is not to argue that homosexual and bisexual men never molest children. But there is no scientific basis for asserting that they are more likely than heterosexual men to do so. And, as explained above, many child molesters cannot be characterized as having an adult sexual orientation at all; they are fixated on children."

Again, there are those who are confident that their position must be the only right one. Facts will never sway them. However, for those who are honestly looking to determine the truth regarding homosexuality and child abuse, the information is out there, readily available. All you need do is look for it.

the stupid Chris
July 3, 2009 5:20 PM

So, would the "devout" reference be relevant in media reports on the same crime by a conservative, an evangelical, a "devout" Catholic?

Anyone here remember Dennis Rader, aka "BTK"?

Cecelia
July 3, 2009 5:37 PM

It is not surprising that Lombard would turn out to be a respected member of a church - pedophiles seek to establish themselves as respectable people and put themselves in positions of authority.

I don't think that he is an episcopalian should reflect negatively on the church - unless they were aware and kept silent. It would seem they are appalled by their association with him - since they are erasing all traces of him as a church member.

I am very troubled by the comments attributed to Gene Robinson about children sharing their sexual gifts - do you have a source for this ?
Please share it.

robroy
July 3, 2009 5:46 PM

The amazing thing about the story is that is hasn't been a story. The Duke Lacrosse non-story was in the mainstream media focus for months. In contrast, here we have a homosexual Episcopalian, i.e. a MSM darling, and they are afraid to cover the story lest they be called "hateful" and "homophobic."

Davis
July 3, 2009 6:54 PM

The amazing thing about the story is that is hasn't been a story. The Duke Lacrosse non-story was in the mainstream media focus for months. In contrast, here we have a homosexual Episcopalian, i.e. a MSM darling, and they are afraid to cover the story lest they be called "hateful" and "homophobic."

Lots of stories don't get coverage. How much coverage has there been of the murders of Brisinia and Raul Flores, where anti-immigrant activists have been indicted? How much coverage was there of the Army recruiters in Little Rock. Sadly, child abuse and sexual abuse cases are becoming rather common place and are no longer "big news" no matter who the perpetrator is.

Winston
July 3, 2009 7:27 PM

Lombard's religion is completey relevant. He belongs to a sect which practices a type of milk toasted, super-premium sized cheap graced, do it your self, feel good, make it up, follow your bliss ki nd of radically, individualistic personal piety. With this world view, just about any behavior can be twisted into being permissable.

I mean, after all, who are we to judge? Jesus never said anything about pedastery did he? Pull the log out of your own eye and all that...

Troy
July 3, 2009 7:35 PM
http://www.standfirminfaith.com/media/robinson_sermon_scan.pdf

I agree with Geoff that his church is only relevent if it materially relates to the alleged crime.

Cecilia, Jenny's comments about Robinson look like the usual anti-gay tripe with a sliver of truth is being completely misrepresented. I had no knowlege of this previously but I've founded and added a link to the whole speech. I am assuming the copy is accurate.

Ten years before he was a Bishop he spoke at an AIDS event for a high school where, after mentioning abstinence as a positive and absolute way to avoid infection or pregnancy, he mentions *if* they are sexually active they should take steps to minimize their risk. It reads entirely proper within that context to me.

Your Name
July 3, 2009 7:48 PM

The Episcopal church has been almost (and appropriately) obsessively vigilant regarding the sexual exploitation of children and youth from almost the first time this came to the attention of the religious community 25 plus years ago. Most dioceses (territorial jurisdictions similar to states) have rigid requirements regarding clergy and those working with children/youths. It does not extend these requrements to laypeople and their families, and of course would not have the ability to do so. The Episcopal church was probably a little quicker than the RCs to do this, but most people in the faith community feel badly it took the courts and public opinion to make this happen.

Thomas R
July 3, 2009 8:08 PM

"Is Frank Lombard's religion relevant?"

TR: Probably not. Wanting it to be too relevant just justifies those who want to emphasize that a pedophile is Catholic or whatever. There's a kind of schaddenfreude in many of the posts on it. (I hope I spelled that German word correct or close enough)

Although if the rest of the vestry or whatever sheltered his behavior, or actively aided in it, then it's relevant.

Franklin Jennings
July 3, 2009 9:13 PM

Geoff,

Your underlying premise is that it is natural, understandable, that one takes the law into one's own hands against those one regards as extraordinarily evil. So when pro-lifers point out that Tiller's line of work is an abhorrent gig beneath the dignity of human beings, you view this as tacit endorsement of vigilante justice. If he's committing evil, he must be stopped.

Its a screwed up values system, one we reject. And so we scratch our heads at the logic you and Tiller's killer seem to share.

Hector
July 3, 2009 9:33 PM

Troy and Cecilia,

St. Paul's is a high school in NH- he was speaking with high school students, and in context talking about them being sexually active with other teenagers, or potentially in the future when they are older.

Personally I think that high school students should not be sexually active, and I'm ambivalent about condoms. If I were invited to give that talk I would stress abstinence and/or fidelity to one's partner more than Mr. Robnson does, and stress condoms rather less. But that said, it doesn't seem that Robinson's speech was anything shocking, or anything out of the ordinary in politically and socially liberal circles. I loathe Robinson for his arrogant and selfish actions in splitting the Anglican Communion, and I don't think he has any business being a bishop. That said, nothing in this speech was an endorsement of promiscuity or pederasty.

stefanie
July 4, 2009 8:37 AM

Of course it's relevant. Anything about the background of a felony child-abuse accusee is relevant.

Troy
July 4, 2009 10:30 AM

Hector, I don't disagree with you on discouraging teens to have sex. If we think think of Robinson's talk in the context of its time, when deaths from AIDS had tripled in 5 years, the infection rate looked like it would continue to spiral out of control and there were no effective treatments. I am sure he felt the morally correct thing to do was educate as much as possible how to prevent that, including condoms. I expect those who invited him expected as much.

I am not Epicopalian, so I have no dog in that hunt. Whenever someone mentions schism I think of a favorite line from Neal Stephenson's "Odalisque". Someone is asked if two Puritans were of the same sect, "No and yes. The Puritans are like Hindoos - impossibly various, and yet all of a type." Schism is as American as apple pie to me. Without it, we'd never have gotten our strong sense of religious freedom.

Rombald
July 5, 2009 4:25 AM

Relevance of religion: Only if there is clear evidence of some sort of enabling by Lombard's local church and/or some level of pro-paedophilia attitude by major factions of ECUSA. That looks unlikely, although I might be wrong.

Relevance of homosexuality: This is more complicated. I consider that the rape of a 5-year-old boy is such an off-the-wall crime that it is not really linked to typical homosexuality. However, whereas sexual attration to very young children is a straightforward perversion, sexual attraction to young teenagers is biologically normal, albeit morally unacceptable for a range of sociopsychological reasons. I, a fairly normal heterosexual, am attracted to 14-year-old girls (I do not act on that attraction), and I expect gays are the same with respect to boys. I therefore object to gays adopting boys, because they are either teenagers or future teenagers. For similar reasons, I object to single heterosexual males adopting girls - best not to "tenter le diable".

Bias in attention: I suspect that the most important take-home point about the Catholic sex scandals is that one should scrutinise those with whom one agrees as carefully as those with whom one disagrees. There was a case in England recently of a gay couple who had been sort of poster cases for fostering, but had sexually abused numerous boys, and the authorities, in a very liberal borough, had ignored numerous warnings.

Anita Del Re
July 6, 2009 2:34 AM

Indeed, we can find horrible crimes committed against children, by folks who will fall into one or more groups. Interesting is a commenter's assertion that single (heterosexual) men shouldn't adopt girls. It's all rather silly isn't it, to try to limit or define appropriate guidelines, when evil-bent blood parents do whatever their hearts desire to their children?

There truly is only one recourse: to acknowledge that the assertions and guidelines of God are the best we have to guide life on earth. As much as I empathize with those who struggle with a sexual attraction to the same sex (and only when it's a supposed love issue), I must abide by our Creator's premise that homosexual desire is not only wrong, but immoral. That sex is sacred. For when we toss out those two assertions, we wrestle with God's right to define His Truth. Those who do not struggle with their attraction to the same sex are in denial - not only denial of God, but of their own soul. And one must deny God before one denies their very soul.

We don't have the right to have sex with whomever we want whenever we want. And there are those who want to ensure that we do by capitalizing on the godlessness of those who head our courts. Freedom is beautiful when it acknowledges its own boundaries.

Kyle Lombard
July 16, 2009 8:25 PM

Thats my dad.

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