Crunchy Con

How sexual harrassment corrupts an office

Wednesday October 28, 2009

Categories: Law

Nell Scovell, one of the few women ever to work as a writer on David Letterman's show, tells how it was. Excerpt:

Without naming names or digging up decades-old dirt, let's address the pertinent questions. Did Dave hit on me? No. Did he pay me enough extra attention that it was noted by another writer? Yes. Was I aware of rumors that Dave was having sexual relationships with female staffers? Yes. Was I aware that other high-level male employees were having sexual relationships with female staffers? Yes. Did these female staffers have access to information and wield power disproportionate to their job titles? Yes. Did that create a hostile work environment? Yes. Did I believe these female staffers were benefiting professionally from their personal relationships? Yes. Did that make me feel demeaned? Completely. Did I say anything at the time? Sadly, no.

Here's what I did: I walked away from my dream job. The show picked up my option after 13 weeks; then, about two months later, while looking for a nicer apartment, I realized I didn't want to commit to a yearlong lease. I'd seen enough to know that I was not going to thrive professionally in that workplace. And although there were various reasons for that, sexual politics did play a major part.

It's unfair to other women, obviously, and it can also be unfair to men working on the same professional level as the women. It corrupts the office culture. As much as I chafe against political correctness, I have to say that it's a very good thing, on balance, that this sort of thing is generally not tolerated in offices anymore, at least at responsible companies (that would not include Worldwide Pants, obviously).

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Rod Dreher
October 28, 2009 5:28 PM

Guys, take it outside. If you want to correspond with each other, send me your e-mails (rdreher - at - dallasnews.com), and I'll put you in touch with each other. But don't make the rest of us watch you guys fight.

stupid Chris, I don't get your point. We do have laws governing personal interactions. Most laws do that. My point was that sexual harrassment law makes the kind of insane thing that happened to JerryS -- his complimenting a female co-worker, then finding himself hauled up on sexual harrassment charges -- more likely now. That's a tragedy that needs to be acknowledged, even if we think that on balance things are better now in the workplace.

MBunge
October 28, 2009 5:55 PM

I apologize for engaging in this sort of troll war stuff at your place, Rod. I can get a little too confrontational sometimes.

Mike

Crustacean
October 28, 2009 8:46 PM

MBunge,

I'm wasn't saying I'm an engima

I was saying that it's an enigma to me who you think I am, since I don't recognize myself in your responses to "me."

Anyway, that's my last word for the nonce.

Rod,

Sorry. Consider this kid, at least, off your lawn for the nonce.

the stupid Chris
October 28, 2009 11:39 PM

My point was that sexual harrassment law makes the kind of insane thing that happened to JerryS -- his complimenting a female co-worker, then finding himself hauled up on sexual harrassment charges -- more likely now.

In my experience the stories like JerryS's are the exception, not the rule, and they tend to occur when there are no clear policies and procedures in place.

My larger point is that no law is perfect, and we can find anecdotes for nearly any law of how and when they were applied unfairly.

Clarity and consistency is the issue, not political correctness or enforcement. If you find yourself walking on eggshells it is because you don't have clarity or consistency of the boundaries of acceptable behavior. JerryS was not the victim of political correctness, he was the victim of bad management practices.

Bad management hides behind so many masks, but is responsible for more mayhem than nearly anything else.

tisane
November 3, 2009 7:45 AM
http://www.vitabits.fr/the

Quit working. An office? Third party sexual harassment? What is worth this thing? A bunch of money? You belong somewhere else. How about married, decorating the interior, tending the garden, collecting duck eggs. Sticking it to the man!

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Rod Dreher is an editorial columnist for the Dallas Morning News, and author of "Crunchy Cons" (Crown Forum), a nonfiction book about conservatives, most of them religious, whose faith and political convictions sometimes put them at odds with mainstream conservatives. The views expressed in this blog are his own.

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