This is a tragic situation, no matter how you look at it (hat tip: Creative Minority Report):
A Spanish woman who deceived a U.S. fertility clinic about her age and become the oldest woman to give birth has died at 69, leaving behind 2-year-old twins, newspapers reported Wednesday.
Maria del Carmen Bousada gave birth in December 2006 after telling a clinic in Los Angeles that she was 55, the facility's maximum age for single women receiving in-vitro fertilization. Guinness World Records said the 66-year-old was the oldest on record to give birth and the case ignited fierce debate over how much responsibility fertility clinics have over their patients.
Bousada told an interviewer at the time that the Pacific Fertility Center did not ask her for identification, and maintained that because her mother had died at 101, she stood a good chance of living long enough to raise her children. [...]There was no word on who would raise the twins. Bousada had once said she would look for a younger man to help her raise them.
A few things need to be made clear: first, as a Catholic I believe that all use of IVF is immoral. It is a grave moral evil whether a 26-year-old or a 66-year-old is using this means to manufacture a child or children. It is wrong whether a married couple or a single person decides to use it.
That said, it should go without saying that the children manufactured in this way are wholly innocent of the evil of their parent or parents in choosing IVF. Just as a child conceived in rape is wholly innocent of the crime and sin of her father, so are these twin boys innocent of the evil of IVF and of their mother's extremely imprudent choice to undergo this procedure at 66. Their tragic loss of their mother is to be deplored, and they, their mother, and any other family are in my prayers.
However, because the children are innocent does not mean that we can't or shouldn't condemn IVF as being a threat to the intrinsic dignity of the human person. Children deserve to be conceived in the context of the marital embrace of their loving parents, and to be raised by them. Granted, a married mother who is much younger than 66 when her child is born is not guaranteed that she will live to see her child grow up, but that doesn't mean that nature, which usually permits a woman to be fertile for a certain time period and no longer, should be ignored altogether, subverted, and overruled by those who would objectify children and manufacture them "to order," so to speak.
As we continue to de-couple the notions of marriage and parenthood, and of natural conception and parenthood, we're going to see a lot more situations like this one, I'm afraid. And so long as we see the creation of a child as a "right" which has nothing to do with marriage or natural, biological parenthood, we're going to keep losing any grounds on which to object to such things.

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