Today's Dallas Morning News has a front-page feature about Hank Stuever and his Christmas book "Tinsel," which I've been writing about some on this blog. The book is a non-fiction account of how the booming Dallas suburb of Frisco experiences Christmas. Excerpt from the piece:
Stuever is unwaveringly protective of his characters and even the city itself.
"If I really wanted to make fun, I wouldn't have spent so much time here," he said.
He rented a Frisco room for seven months in 2006 and then came back 12 times in the next two years, as the economy started to wither and Frisco saw its first foreclosures.
"I thought this would be more a survey book about how Christmas was manufactured," he said. "The people changed me."
Instead, it became a glimpse into American life, a quirky historical document for the day when books like these are footnotes of a past era.
Texans frame their annual bluebonnet pictures so the Applebee's and freeways don't make it into the shot, he said. "I came to put Applebee's back into the frame."
That's a great line, but I don't think the people of Frisco will appreciate the book. Jeff Trykoski, one of the main characters in the book, doesn't come off entirely great, but thinks the book was fair. He told the News: "It's going to make some people locally think. He's an outsider who spent time on the inside. But he didn't say anything that wasn't true." If you check out the comments thread on the News' story, people are already saying that Stuever is a liberal elitist.
Hank chose Frisco because he sees it as emblematic of contemporary America; as he has said, he wanted to do a book about what Christmas is like in a society that has for some time been so wealthy most people never had to delay gratification. I think it's an important book, the melancholy of which goes down awfully easy because of Stuever's shimmering prose, and sense of fun. But, as I write in my DMN column today, it is a melancholy book, at least to someone with my religious and cultural convictions. Excerpt from my column:
The Christmas pageant Stuever observes at a Frisco megachurch promising "a state-of-the-art multimedia worship experience" epitomizes his point. In the onstage finale, the church gathered Victorian townspeople, kids dressed like presents, the Holy Family and a bloodied adult Jesus carrying his cross, all singing their hearts out in a holiday extravaganza that screams, "More! More! More!" ...
Tinsel made me wonder about the social role Christianity plays in North Texas. As a believer, one of the aspects of life here I cherish the most is how much piety is a part of life. But the Tinsel Christmas occurs in a consumer culture that has effectively hollowed out the Christian religion, yet still craves ritual transcendence.
Tinsel is too much fun to be a scolding, book-length "Keep Christ in Christmas" lecture, which doesn't interest its irreligious author anyway. But the book is haunted by the ghosts of Christmases past, when wants were simpler, and folks found it easier to cherish each other, and the Christ child, because nobody expected life to be a state-of-the-art multimedia worship experience.
It's good to feast joyfully at Christmas. But if you never fast, if you don't know the meaning of enough, feasting can't help being disordered and gross. When our wealth makes every day a holiday, how do you find the humility, stillness and gratitude required to live Christmas in the proper spirit? Odd, but one of the most modest but meaningful Christmases I ever spent was in secular Holland, far from the U.S. Christmas-industrial complex.
I think "Tinsel" tells us something true and useful about the way we live today. As I was reading it, though, I often realized that I couldn't have written it in a million years. First, I'm too judgmental, and my inability to refrain from criticizing would have gotten in the way of my ability to tell the story of "Tinsel." A number of people will simply not believe that Stuever likes the people he profiles in "Tinsel," but I think they're wrong. The error people make is assuming that if you like somebody, you are obliged not to see their flaws, and not to tell unflattering truths. I never got the feeling while reading "Tinsel" that Stuever held himself up as superior to the people he profiled. In fact, there are moments in which it seems he envies them, in a way, their ability to give in to the experience.
On the other hand, I'm seeing it as a professional journalist interested in telling the story straight, warts and all. The real people who invited Stuever into their lives surely must have thought that he would see them as they see themselves; nobody who thought a journalist would write a book in which they come off poorly would let the journalist cross the threshold of their house. (Interestingly, Tammie Parnell, the character with whom Stuever spent the most time, comes off by far the worst in the book, and no longer speaks to him not true says Hank, in the comments below.) Full disclosure: when "Crunchy Cons" came out, I let Stuever into my house to profile me and my family for the Washington Post; though he did not write the story I would have hoped -- how could he have done? his job was to tell the truth as he saw it, which means he had to reflect what he saw through his own sensibilities -- he was a fun dinner gues, and as a writer was fair and truthful (though there was a throwaway line he put into the story that had significant personal repercussions for me). Point is, I knew as a journalist that there was always the possibility that the journalist was going to betray our trust -- not because he's a bad guy, but because he's a journalist, and a good one.
I refer, of course, to the journalist Janet Malcolm's famous dictum holding that "Every journalist who is not too stupid or too full of himself to notice what is going on knows that what he does is morally indefensible." What she means is that journalists seduce people into telling them their stories, and then, if the story requires it, the journalists betray their subjects by telling the Story in a way that sells out the interests of their subject. Mind you, the particular instance she was writing about when she said that is massively different from the "Tinsel" case. But the point, I think, is the same, and it's an unavoidable part of being a writer who would be a journalist and not a publicist in disguise.
People often say to me that I should write a book about my hometown. Can't do it, won't do it. It's not that I have any big secrets to protect, at least not that I'm aware of, but that I know from the get-go that I would not have the courage to write truthful things that would hurt people I know and love, or even just know and like. I'm not willing to write a book that's flattering but untrue, but I'm not willing to tell truths (if I found them, and I know that I would) that would hurt people I don't want to hurt, and who would probably trust me enough to tell me things that they wouldn't tell a stranger. In fact, I can think of ne time in my professional life in which I did not report something shocking that one of my interview subjects said, something that would have put her in a terrible light, but something that she didn't realize was appalling. She was a woman I knew, and I was writing a story about a battle between Good and Evil in my hometown. The woman's remark revealed that there were a lot of moral complications going on in this story. But I made the judgment that if I reported her innocent but damning remark, it would likely destroy the chances that the Good Guys would prevail, because people would focus on her tossaway line, and forget the real battle. She was trying to do good, and didn't mean to offend; the thing is, she wouldn't have made that remark to someone who didn't know her. I felt it would betray her confidence in me to report the full truth, and it would aid and abet people who deserved to lose. So I deliberately left her remark out of my published account. If I had been a reporter from the outside, I would have reported it without hesitation because it was an important part of telling the whole truth. But I didn't want to hurt her. I am ashamed that I didn't tell the whole truth, but I don't regret having made that choice at the time. I resolved, though, never to get myself into a professional situation in which I felt compromised as a journalist by my personal sympathies.
We need journalists who are willing and able to be traitors. Nobody wants to accept that -- and I can't say that I blame them -- but it's true.
Anyway, "Tinsel" is a wonderful book, and I hope you buy it.