Dr. Norris Chumley Satisfied Life

Is God There?

Sunday November 15, 2009

Q: I wonder that God doesn't have enough to do without hearing about my weight problem. So many crises, so much death and turmoil in the world, so many real problems to deal with. How can I possibly ask for help for something I have done to myself?

A: First of all, I could never for a second presume to speak for God. But I also would never set my own limits on what is important to God or diminish the awesome gift of my life to say or think that I am not important enough (as a child of God) to ask Him for help. I agree with you - I caused my overweight problems. I own them, and acknowledge I "did it to myself." It was an innocent self-abuse, though. I couldn't stop myself from overeating and being sedentary. I honestly didn't have the power to help myself.

Most importantly, the biggest mistake I made was to rely on something material for my sense of self, and satisfaction. I cheated myself by believing that food was my safety and salvation from the pain of living. Put it in one way - I worshipped food as a graven, false image, instead of God. I put desserts and second-helpings in the way of my connection to my Creator. Isn't that a real problem? It sure was to me. I was near death; I was in a major crisis. I was dying. I was eating and smoking myself to death. I was committing slow suicide.

Was I not important to God? Did He not want to save a life, and bring one lost soul to His side? God did save me. I did ask for help in desperation, and got infinite grace and peace in abundance. Was I wrong to do it? I leave that to God to decide. But now I sure want to honor the gift of life I have been given - I do it by helping others, and continuing to look to God for everything in my life. And God continues to help me, and others, in amazing graceful generosity - no matter how big or small the problem - God is here, right now and ready. Just ask.

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Comments
Louita Clothier
November 16, 2009 11:59 AM

God is infinite -- both in largeness beyond our comprehension (the immensity of space) and in smallness beyond our comprehension (tiny wildflowers or the structure of atoms). So why can't one manifestation of infinity be God's capacity to love and care each one of us? Of course God is interested in our care for the amazing body he has given to us because it has so much to do with achieving the potential created in us.

mmelli
November 16, 2009 2:34 PM

I KNOW that I know that no problem is too big or too small for God to handle, or for Him to care about. So why can't I seem to accept it for myself? I have plenty of faith in Him, but none in myself. It seems I'm inadvertantly saying He made a mistake with me, but that's NOT what I mean. *I* am the one who messed up His creation, not Him. Any advice on how to see myself as He sees me?

Wendi
November 17, 2009 10:37 AM

God is awesome and all things possible with Him.

Lisa
November 17, 2009 2:44 PM

I believe he is willing to help us if we sincerely want the help. My problem is that I have asked him so many times, and then gone back to my old habits. I can't expect him to keep helping me if I don't really want to change. So at this point, I have stopped asking him.

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About Dr. Norris Chumley Satisfied Life

Dr. Norris J. Chumley is a doctor of theology and the arts, and has lost 160 pounds and maintained it over 16 years with God's help. The author/host of "The Joy of Weight Loss: a Spiritual Guide to Easy Fitness," and many TV programs and DVD's, including "Spiritual Guide to Weight Loss" and "30 Days to Spiritual Well Being," Dr. Norris also does private consultations, leads workshops and lectures nationally. He has been a featured Beliefnet daily columnist and contributing editor for many years.


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