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Saturday October 24, 2009

Rat Stuck In NYC Sidewalk Creates Quite A Moral Kerfuffle

I was reading Gothamist this morning and saw what was, simultaneously, the saddest and most hilarious little 'human' interest piece posted last night: a rat got stuck in a crack in a New York City sidewalk and a reader snapped a photo. (I'd post the pic here but I don't have the rights - you'll have to go check it out on their site.) Suffice it to say the animal was trapped with its top half poking out of a crack in the pavement in what was both a horrifying and strangely... cute fashion. Anyhoo... what interested me was this:

Wednesday October 7, 2009

My People, the People of Wal-Mart

A few weeks ago, Hillary wrote about the website, peopleofwalmart. At the time I refrained from commenting because, well, I felt bad. I grew up in small towns around Missouri where Wal-Mart was the primary source of...everything. And while the people of Wal-Mart were fair enough fodder for my friends and I, I didn't want the coastal elite mocking "my people", such as they were.

That's how I imagined the website's audience; sheltered east coast jerks who thought the heartland was a group of throwaway flyover states (forget the fact that even my Midwestern friends assured me that the website was enjoyable and ridiculous).

Last night changed my mind. I'm currently in Missouri visiting my family, and took a quick jaunt with my mom to, you guessed it, Wal-Mart. As we waited in the checkout line, I started thinking about the website, mentally shaking my head at those who would so cruelly mock the poor, the obese and the fashionably ridiculous. Then, I casually glanced to the right, and did a double-take when I saw a man covered in dirt and mud. Top to bottom.

Saturday September 26, 2009

Here's To "Justice!" Harvard Moral Philosophy Class To Appear On PBS!

Fascinating news! I just read that PBS will air a series based on an edited version of a wildly popular Harvard philosophy class on ethics and morality. The class, called "Justice: What's the Right Thing to Do?" is the brainchild of Professor Michael Sandel, who has taught thousands of students over the years. Subjects like affirmative action, social justice, same-sex marriage, religion, and much, much more are frankly discussed -- and the ambiguities that arise from the debates are both unnerving and wondrous. 

I'm so excited! Will you tune in? Would you like us to keep you updated on the class?

Here's a preview: 


I haven't figured out the PBS schedule yet (check your local listings), but each week a new episode airs on the professor's own website, so you can watch it -- and interact with other participants in a number of interesting ways -- by clicking here.

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Thursday September 17, 2009

Annie Le's Murder: A Case Of Workplace Violence?

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As lab tech Raymond Clark III appeared in a New Haven court today to be charged with the murder of 24-year-old Annie Le, killed by "traumatic asphyxiation" just days before she was to be married and found stuffed in a wall of the Yale lab where she was a graduate student, the AP is reporting:

New Haven Police Chief James Lewis said Le's death was a case of workplace violence. "It is important to note that this is not about urban crime, university crime, domestic crime but an issue of workplace violence, which is becoming a growing concern around the country," Lewis said, adding he wasn't ruling out additional charges.

Also according to the AP, Yale's president issued a statement to the Yale community saying: 

"This incident could have happened in any city, in any university, or in any workplace. It says more about the dark side of the human soul than it does about the extent of security measures."

This is a terrible story, and what makes it doubly frightening to me is this notion of "coworkers gone wild" or gone "postal," as we used to say, before that became too un-PC.

Wednesday September 16, 2009

Whose Life Would You Save?

I think I need to take a mental break from the race question, truly frightening schoolyard violence, health care reform, civility and the handful of other topics America is getting itself enraged over this week. So, let's play a game. 

Most of us have played different versions of the who-would-you-save game. You know it, "If you're in a sinking ship and you can either save yourself and your husband/wife from drowning OR you can save everyone else on the boat...but they're all strangers. Who would you save?" 

I was laughed out of the room when I recently posed this dilemma to my friends, because I insisted I would choose the strangers. After all, said I, my husband and I could die together and with a clean conscience - who wants to live with the deaths of hundreds of strangers on their shoulders? Not I, I maintain (ed). 

"Pu-leeaaase," scoffed my pals (all somewhat cynical males, I submit). "You would save yourself and your husband and you know it." 

No way! Sure, dying is bad, something to be avoided at all costs, but I really, really don't want to live with the knowledge that I could have saved a boatload of people, even if that meant my husband and I get 10,000 years of marital bliss. Perhaps that's not so much ethical as selfish - then again, isn't most ethical behavior based on the premise of selfishness? We do unto others because we want them to do unto us. That's not bad, it just is. 

So, tell me, am I full of it, as my friends so kindly say? Who would you save? Yourself and a loved one, or a boatload of strangers?

Tuesday September 15, 2009

Kanye West, Serena Williams, Joe "You lie" Wilson: A Trifecta of Public Figure Tantrums

Paddy and I thought we'd toss in our two cents on the whole civility debate. After all, we'd hardly be an "Everyday Ethics" blog if we didn't have an opinion on everyday cultural behavior trends. So here goes. Hillary:...

Monday August 17, 2009

Categories: Moral Ethics

Moral Monday: "Joshua's Heart" Is In The Right Place!

As Moral Monday rolls around again, I just had to share this story, which comes by way of the Miami Herald. An 8-year-old boy named Joshua Williams has, along with his family, created a foundation to feed the homeless...

Monday August 3, 2009

How NOT To Behave At A Funeral: Ryan O'Neal Hits On Daughter Tatum At Farrah Fawcett's Grave

Sometimes a headline says it all. Or at least enough of it to make you mildly ill. Apparently, Ryan O'Neal freely admits to having accidentally propositioned his own offspring, estranged daughter Tatum O'Neal, during Farrah Fawcett's funeral. Yuck. So much...

Wednesday July 29, 2009

What-If Wednesday: How Far Out Of Your Way Would You Go To Do A Good Deed?

We're rolling out another new feature here at Everyday Ethics... "What-If Wednesdays." You know the game; you've probably played it with your friends a time or two, asking questions like, "What if you had to choose -- Brad Pitt or George...

Monday July 27, 2009

New Feature! Moral Monday: A Tip of My Ethical Hat to Folks Fighting the Good Fight

I get tired of always ragging on people for ethical faux pas. Sometimes I want to focus on what folks are doing right. So today I'm inaugurating a new feature: "Moral Monday." From now on, on Mondays (whenever possible)...

Saturday July 25, 2009

Being Mean To Telemarketers: Unethical Or Understandable?

I was just on my way out the door, rushed for time as usual, when the phone rang. Caller ID said, "000-000-0000." I had a pretty good idea who it'd be (in a general sense) but I was expecting...

Saturday July 11, 2009

No Funding for Zoo? OK, Let's Euthanize Some Zebras!

A Boston orphanage may shut down due to lack of funding, and officials estimate 20% of the children will not be placed in new homes and could be euthanized.Shocking? Yep. True? Well, no. However, substitute "orphanage" for "zoo" and "children"...

Thursday July 9, 2009

Gal Throws "Abortion Party" to Pay For Abortion, Guy Blogs About It

People keep sending me the oddest ethical issues. Like this one, which came by way of a pal living in Prague. She stumbled across a blog post written by a guy who had been invited to--get this--an abortion party....

Monday July 6, 2009

My Gut is Treating Michael Jackson Unethically

I scared myself a bit today - while I've always prided myself for being independent enough to see past the ol' Republican/Democrat divide, I've never actually experienced a time in which my gut (as opposed to my head) agreed...

Monday July 6, 2009

Racism in the Workplace: What Do You Do When a Coworker Makes Off-Color Remarks?

Recently, I put out a call amongst my acquaintance for their everyday ethical dilemmas. A friend brought me a great one--What do you do when someone at work is a racist?The gist of her email (which she asked me not...

Thursday July 2, 2009

Morality: Does It Come From the Heart or the Head?

I came across an interesting argument today by way of a friend, who sent me a link to an article in Fast Company magazine. I thought I'd share it because it asks an important question: are we ethical for logical...

Monday June 15, 2009

How Sacred Is the U.S. Mail... When It's Your Husband's?

Here's my quandary.  It's been a long day.  I'm tired and grumpy.  My husband, who usually brings the mail upstairs, is home sick so I'm the one swinging by our building's mailboxes on the way back from work.  This in...

Friday June 5, 2009

When Does Bad Etiquette Become Immorality? On the Subway, of Course.

I'm pleased to announce that Part II of our Underground Ethics "Subway Series" comes to you from our very first guest blogger: Beliefnet's own Entertainment Editor, Dena Ross. I asked Dena to write a post for us because, well, Dena has...

Tuesday June 2, 2009

JD Salinger CATCHER IN THE RYE Sequel--Whether He Likes It Or Not?

Word is spreading that reclusive author JD Salinger, author of the seminal book "The Catcher in the Rye," filed suit in U.S. Federal Court in Manhattan yesterday over an anonymous author's unauthorized so-called 'sequel.' The writer, going by the name...

Monday June 1, 2009

Underground Ethics: A Subway Series. Part I: How the Emergency Gate Shames Me

Welcome to Part I of our exciting new series, Underground Ethics. As the name implies, we'll be talking about things that take place far below the day-lit realm, things dark and ugly, seamy and salacious, perhaps unholy. Yes, that's...

Monday May 18, 2009

Keeping the Tags On That Dress--Just In Case

My brother's wedding is right around the corner, and what do you know, I'm a bridesmaid. Luckily, my fantastic sister-in-law-to-be chose a great dress for her bridesmaids (thank you!), which is very wearable and wasn't too expensive either. Just another...

Thursday May 14, 2009

Oprah Apologizes to Memoirist Frey. Too Little, Too Late?

I can't believe Oprah Winfrey has apologized to author James Frey after the way she skewered him on her 2006 show for fictionalizing parts of his bestselling memoir. But that's what Vanity Fair is reporting has happened, at least according...

Wednesday May 13, 2009

The Acupuncture Appointment From Hell--And How I Weaseled Out of Another.

Today I took the coward's way out. Two days ago, I had an appointment with an acupuncturist--someone I hadn't been to before. I'd been suffering from migraines, and was told the treatment might be a good holistic alternative to some heavy-duty...

Thursday May 7, 2009

Manners or Me First? A Tale of Ethics and the Native New Yorker

By way of introduction, I'd like to share a little about myself. (I'd promise not to do it again, but I undoubtedly will.) I was raised by a family who assumed I'd always instinctively understand the difference between right...

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This blog is all about ethics. It's also about us--ordinary people facing ordinary situations. It's about asking ourselves the hard questions: What responsibility do we bear in our interactions (and yes, confrontations) with the people we meet? How do we best respond to those around us in a way that leaves us feeling good about ourselves and confident our behavior has done no harm? Have we helped or hurt our fellows in these moments? It's our belief that by asking some big questions (and some little ones too) we can grow as humans. We're glad you're along for the ride!

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