Flirting with Faith

Flirting with Faith

Lest My Spiritually Interested Friends and I Begin to Take Ourselves Too Seriously…

posted by Joan Ball | 6:11pm Saturday October 24, 2009

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kenneth

posted October 24, 2009 at 6:42 pm


This is more spot-on than any sophisticated theological analysis or demographic tools I have ever seen or heard of!



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Joan Ball

posted October 24, 2009 at 6:45 pm


kenneth: Right? Gotta love the bacon…



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andrea

posted October 24, 2009 at 10:10 pm


Joan I LOVE this! Typical of me though, depending on the day or my mood I’m either a Wiccan, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu, Mormon or Christian. (I’m only a Mormon on the days I get laid :-) , never underestimate the magic of Victoria’s Secrets!)



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credis

posted October 25, 2009 at 11:37 am


we can’t talk about religion without talking about excess. this doesn’t mean that everyone who is religious is a fantatic. but it does mean that religious beliefs are very important to those who hold them, even if they do not make sense. indeed, people will sometimes sacrifice their lives and the lives of other people for them; their relationship to their gods can be the most important thing in their lives. by definition these supernatural forces must be more powerful than the people who believe in them. they are often perceived as both ominiscient and omnipotent.
those who do not believe in supernatural beings are struck by two things; first, that these deities seem to be, by definition, excessive – excessively punitive, excessively loving, excessively demanding, and excessively in need of people’s devotion. and second, that religious believers, even moderate ones, seem to have excessive confidence in their gods, and are excessively eager to please them.
the more extreme skeptics of religion, often in rather patronizing ways, find the whole thing rather irrational. but where do the skeptics get their knowledge of what is irrational from? how does anyone know what too much belief is? it is the hope of modern liberals that we can all talk about the things that matter most to us without losing our tempers or killing people. do we believe this too much?
what mattered most to most people, until very recently, was their relationship with their gods, and gods, traditionally, have been to die for; one of the things people have been able to do, in the name of religion, is sacrifice their lives and the lives of others.
what people use their religious beliefs to do – what they do in the name of their religions – might make us wonder not simply what should we believe, but what kind of thing is a belief? clearly a belief can be something that permits you to kill people. our religious beliefs may be the tools we use to manage – to legitimate and contain – the excesses of our nature. so from a psychoanalytic point of view we don’t only have to say, as freud said, that religion is for people who are frightened of growing up. we can say, though, that we have delegated to a figure called god all the excesses, including addictions and nasty habits, we find most troubling in ourselves, which broadly speaking are our excessive love for ourselves. god in this view carries the part of ourselves that asks too much of us, that is endlessly demanding, that wants us to be better than we are.
being excessive in words or actions, in inflammatory rhetoric or violent actions, is a form of communication. what the religious fanatic knows is just how contagious excess can be. excessive words and actions are haunting, they make one’s presence felt; they make people excessive in their responses. priests, nietzsche wrote, have shown almost inexhaustible ingenuity in exploring the implications of this one question: how is an excess of emotion to be attained? if you can make people excessively emotional you can manipulate them, and one of the best ways of making them excessively emotional is to do something excessive to them. suicide bombers don’t convert people, but they make the existence of their religion unforgettable, undismissible.
there is another possibility, the one that i want to end on because it seems to me potentially the most interesting, though perhaps the most daunting. this is that the religious fanatic is someone for whom something about themselves and their lives is too much; and because not knowing what that is is so disturbing they need to locate it as soon as possible. because the state of frustration cannot be borne – because it is literally unbearable, as long-term personal and political injustice always is – it requires an extreme solution.
in this account irrational behavior shows us how obscure we are to ourselves or how we obscure ourselves; how our frustrations, odd as this may seem, are excessively difficult to locate, to formulate. wherever and whenever we are excessive in our lives it is the sign of an as yet unknown deprivation. our excesses are the best clue we have to our own poverty, and our best way of concealing it from ourselves.



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Joan Ball

posted October 26, 2009 at 12:40 am


Credis: This is a rich and insightful comment – one that I would love to recast as a guest post if you are game. Let me know…



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Edward T. Babinski

posted November 4, 2009 at 1:03 pm


Proving once again that for many people different religions are just different holidays with different ethnic food and feasts. “I feel guilty, Let’s eat!”
But of course if people REALLY had no doubts about their religions and believed in such biblical verses as “he who does not believe is damned already” (John 3), or “he who believes not shall be damned” (Mark 16, late addition to last chapter by CHRISTIANS), or “all whose names were not written in the book of life were CAST INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE” (rev.), If you REALLY had no doubts about such teachings in your religious book, I bet you wouldn’t be all jokey-wokey, nicely-wisely, you’d be out cursing Pharisees, and warning people to pluck out their eyes rather than wind up in hell with both of them, you’d be warning people to “fear him who can cast both body and soul into hell.” But no, let’s just blog about moderate Christian sentiments and not worry too much about the eternal damnation of our unbelieving neighbors. I mean, whatcha gonna do?
“I feel a little guilty today on this religious holiday, let’s eat!”



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tisane

posted November 10, 2009 at 6:59 am


Hello
This is good chart and I like it.I like this blog very much.It gives me so much knowledge.Thank you very much for sharing this chart with us.You have done a good job.



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