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Sunday August 2, 2009

Creativity in Counseling

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Iris Germanica (sepia)

Following is a description of some of the ways I use creativity in working with counseling clients. Perhaps some of you will find them useful. If you have experience of working with creativity in a counseling context, I'd love to hear of your experiences, either via e-mail or as a comment to this post.

More anon,
David

Writing Techniques

Memoirs of Addiction and Recovery (working with addicts, writing, and the Hero's Journey)

I often find that addicts are creative and sensitive people who grew up in the wrong place. Addiction is often a way of coping for them, one that leads, generally, to further trauma. Art, had they grown up in a different environment, might have been a way they had instead chosen to deal with their more sensitive take on the world.

I can help bring them back to the art and the energy that has been sidetracked into addiction: to redirect this energy into something that feeds rather than depletes them, heals rather than retraumatizes. A future they might not have had opens up because they learn to re-channel this energy. I see them as people who were, or could have been, on a creative or spiritual path who got diverted because of trauma, and I see addiction as the "spell" that held them there. I help them get back on their main path through letting them experience highs from being creative instead of from addictive, self-destructive behaviors.

One way I combine creativity and addiction is in writing groups I call "Memoirs of Addiction and Recovery." I create a temporary writing community that helps addicts feel accompanied on their recovery and broadens their ability to overcome discouragement and shame and to recover their true selves. I also sometimes work with clients individually, using writing in a similar way. The framework I often use is Joseph Campbell's monomyth of the Hero's Journey, which not only rescues from shame the dark period of the clients' lives, but gives them a path to go forward on where they will eventually obtain a true boon to themselves, others, or both.

Wounded Child/Inner Healer two-hands writing technique

Imagine yourself walking in a familiar place. In the distance you see someone walking toward you. When the person gets closer, you see it's a child. When still closer, you see that it is your younger self. Imagine that this child is feeling a confusing or disturbing feeling that you, yourself, are feeling. Notice how old the child is, how the child looks and acts. Imagine, as well, that you are feeling at your most compassionate and empathic. With your dominant hand, write what you would say to this child. With your non-dominant hand, imagining yourself to be this child, feeling what is bothering him or her, respond. Continue to go back and forth between dominant and non-dominant hands until you come to some resolution.

Visualization techniques

The Miracle Question (from Solution-Focused Therapy)

I have blogged about this before, but it is so helpful it seems worth repeating here.

After letting clients complain about their problems in their lives, I ask them to imagine this:

After our session, you go off and do whatever you do with the rest of the day. Tonight, you fall asleep. And while you're snoozing, a strange thing happens. The strange thing is that... a miracle occurs! The miracle is a very special one, tailored just to you. The miracle is that all your problems are solved and all your concerns are gone. Poof! But the thing is, the miracle happened while you were asleep, so you don't know anything about it. When you wake up tomorrow, you are solidly in the world of the miracle, but initially you are unaware that it has occurred. So the initial question is: Tomorrow morning, when you wake up and as you step through the day, what do you notice -- in yourself, in your surroundings, in other people -- that eventually gets you scratching your head, thinking, "Something's different about today. A miracle must have happened!"

Asking yourself this question is akin to the call to adventure on the hero's journey. It will take you into new territory, and there you will encounter struggles you might not otherwise have had to endure. But it is also the first step to finding your personal boon, and to making your miracle your reality.

The "Miracle Question" is based on the principle that we do have the answers, and it's a way to envision, while awake but in a kind of self-induced light trance, what life will be like, in great detail, when all our problems are solved. Some questions to ask yourself, after asking the Miracle Question:

- How do I feel when I open my eyes the next morning, the first morning of my miracle life?
- Am I in the same bedroom? The same house? With the same people?
- What's different as I get ready for the day?
- What's different as I walk through it, hour by hour?
- What do other people in my life notice about me that's different?
- What do I notice about them?

From the answers to these questions, which eventually give you the "Totto, we're not in Kansas anymore" feeling, a vision of life with all the problems solved is built. Then it's just a matter of working toward that "miracle," one doable step at a time.

Breaking the Trauma Re-enactment Triangle

Imagine three parts of yourself: the injured child (victim of abuse), the abuser, and a non-protecting bystander. Re-enact the trauma re-enactment triangle of abuser, victim, non-protecting bystander. Now, imagine a true protector who intervenes on your behalf, defending you against the internalized abuser. Work through this re-enactment, calling on whatever forces are needed to render the abuser harmless and the injured child self safe.

Psychodrama techniques

Sometimes I work with client to develop a "character" that is able to do or be or feel something that the client, in his or her everyday life, cannot. I work with the client to create the background, the voice, the mannerisms, the style of dress. We may even do a therapy session or part of a session with the client acting as that character. The goal is for the client to be that character in his or her life, allowing the client to do what, inside, he or she actually wants to do.

Splitting Ambivalence (a variation of Gestalt)

With a client ambivalent about something, I will often effectively divide the client into two parts (or more) and have the client move around the room, from chair to chair, speaking as first one part then the other. We treat this as a debate and it continues until all sides have fully had their say. Then, we imagine another part of has been watching this debate. That part reflects on the points each side has made, then sees if it can help the "others" come to a resolution that satisfies all sides.

Splitting Ambivalence (a variation of Focusing)

Here, the client divides into two parts, each of which has two halves -- one half that wants something for the client, the other half that doesn't want the client to have to experience something. We use Focusing to work each half of each part, until they come to a potential resolution.


Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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Thursday May 7, 2009

Categories: Art, Creativity, Nature

Bonsai II, U.S. National Arboretum

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Japanese White Pine, U.S. National Arboretum

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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Saturday May 2, 2009

Categories: Art, Creativity, Nature

Bonsai I, U.S. National Arboretum

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American Beech Bonsai, U.S. National Arboretum

I seem to be moving away from writing and more toward imaging, and toward imaging beyond the flower mandala series. So I'm posting occasional images from my other nature series. This is the first of a sequence of images of Bonsai trees. I'd be very interested in hearing from people who raise and maintain these trees. Some of the examples at the U.S. National Arboretum, which I visited last month as many of these trees were just blooming, were hundreds of years old. My own personal attempt at keeping a Bonsai tree going lasted only about a year, so I'm impressed!

Here's a link to a site that gives what appears to be a good, brief history of bonsai trees:

History of Bonsai

Best,
David

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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Saturday April 11, 2009

Categories: Art, Creativity, Sea, Sky, Time

Skyscape: 30,000' 08

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30,000' 08

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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© 2009, David J. Bookbinder
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Tuesday April 7, 2009

30,000' - Finding a Visual Voice

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30,000' 04

On a recent trip to Santa Fe, NM, I visited Georgia O'Keefe's home near Abiquiú and was struck by the landscape she painted for much of her life. It was a place she knew was "home" as soon as she arrived. Although she has been an influence in my flower mandala work, I had seen neither her paintings of this area nor the area itself.

After I returned to the Boston area, I looked over the images I'd captured and was attracted to those I'd taken out the window of the plane as we flew between Denver and Albuquerque, particularly by the soft tones reminiscent of O'Keefe's New Mexican landscape. I have long been envious of photographers who go on exotic image-gathering trips and have admired their skill and vision, but on this trip I found that Georgia O'Keefe's vision had influenced me in ways I could not have known until I reached New Mexico, and that I shared her sense of wonder at the Earth and, in my own way, her means of capturing it.

Though I would still like to travel to the far reaches of the globe, and though I would like to continue to refine my skills, I'm more aware now than I have ever been that I, too, have something to say about our world and have a particular way my eyes, mind, and hands convey it.

O'Keefe turns out to have been my mentor in more than the obvious flower-image way. Who, I wonder, is yours?

More anon,
David

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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© 2009, David J. Bookbinder

Tuesday February 17, 2009

Film: "healing image"

A little over a year ago, roughly coinciding with the 15th anniversary of my near-death experience, my good friend Larry "Doc" Pruyne completed a short film about me. It tells the story of my flower mandala images, my work as...

Saturday February 7, 2009

Guest Blog Entry: Flower Essence Mandalas

Flower Essence Mandala: Turkscap-Pansy-Dianthus Flower Essence Mandalas By Mary Kraemer I use edible flowers to create by hand a mini-cosmos for healing with the medicinal and spiritual qualities of the flowers and as a mediation tool. I invite you...

Thursday January 8, 2009

Learning to Fly

Spoon Chrysanthemum I've become relatively inactive in Beliefnet this past few months, absorbed in the other aspects of my life, but I'd like to start the New Year with a report on my personal progress on working toward the...

Saturday November 22, 2008

Flower Mandala: Water Lily X

Water Lily X Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request the 15 Flower Mandalas screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Sunday November 16, 2008

Flower Mandalas: Simplicity in Complexity

Dying Amaryllis I Dying Amaryllis III Dying Amaryllis VI Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request the 15 Flower Mandalas screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Sunday September 7, 2008

Flower Mandala: Protection

Pink Peony I On life's journey, faith is nourishment, virtuous deeds are a shelter, wisdom is the light by day and right mindfulness is the protection by night. If a man lives a pure life, nothing can destroy him....

Tuesday August 12, 2008

Categories: Art, Creativity

Call for Submissions to a Literary Zine

I've recently joined the staff, as photo editor, of a new zine called Zingology and would like to invite you to submit to it. Here's the call for submissions to the next issue. Please pass this call on to...

Friday August 8, 2008

Flower Mandala: Doronicum Orientale

Doronicum Orientale I Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request a flower mandala screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Sunday August 3, 2008

Living in the Right Side of the Brain

Dying Pansy I Neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor had an opportunity few of us would wish for: a massive stroke. What she learned from it about the right and left brains seems relevant to all of us, and I'm passing...

Wednesday July 23, 2008

Flower Mandala: Dying Amaryllis VII

Dying Amaryllis VII Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request a flower mandala screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Thursday July 17, 2008

Flower Mandala: Beach Rose II

Beach Rose II Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request a flower mandala screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Sunday June 29, 2008

'Cultivating Creativity' Group Revisited

'Cultivating Creativity' Group logo Below are reports from two members of the 'Cultivating Creativity' group documenting their experiences as "miracle partners" in the group, and beyond. Chrysalis's story The cultivating creativity group came along for me a couple of...

Thursday June 19, 2008

Flower Mandala: Opening

Pink Dahlia I Opening: n. The act or an instance of becoming open or being made to open. An open space serving as a passage or gap. A breach or aperture. A clearing in the woods. The first part...

Sunday May 25, 2008

Categories: Art, Creativity, Guest

T.K. Pippin: The Work of Art

The Work of Art by T.K. Pippin To look at something as though we had never seen it before requires great courage. -Henri Matisse As a studio artist, poet and songwriter, I receive inspiration not only from the world...

Sunday March 16, 2008

Cultivating Creativity -- New Group Announcement!

Beach Rose III I've created a new group designed to foster creativity in your lives and I'm inviting you to join, and to ask you to invite anyone you know who may be interested in enhancing the creative parts...

Tuesday March 4, 2008

Artistic Processes Wanted: A Call to Artists

Crocus II Several members of the Art, Healing, and Transformation group have expressed interest in the artistic process, as described by the artists themselves. So, this is a call to all you artists of all persuasions out there (you...

Wednesday February 27, 2008

The 'Meaning' of Fifteen Flower Mandalas

Fifteen Flower Mandalas I'd like to take this space to thank those of you who have downloaded my free Fifteen Flower Mandalas screensaver, and particularly those who have written back. The responses so far have been interesting. Until now,...

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Welcome to the Flower Mandalas blog!

I am a psychotherapist, photographer, digital artist, and writer living near Boston, Massachusetts. As a therapist, I work primarily with artists, children and families, and people with addictive behaviors. Like Carl Jung, one of the fathers of modern psychology, I believe art can be a pathway to the essential Self and foster personal and global transformation.

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- David
David J. Bookbinder, LMHC

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