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Sunday August 2, 2009

Creativity in Counseling

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Iris Germanica (sepia)

Following is a description of some of the ways I use creativity in working with counseling clients. Perhaps some of you will find them useful. If you have experience of working with creativity in a counseling context, I'd love to hear of your experiences, either via e-mail or as a comment to this post.

More anon,
David

Writing Techniques

Memoirs of Addiction and Recovery (working with addicts, writing, and the Hero's Journey)

I often find that addicts are creative and sensitive people who grew up in the wrong place. Addiction is often a way of coping for them, one that leads, generally, to further trauma. Art, had they grown up in a different environment, might have been a way they had instead chosen to deal with their more sensitive take on the world.

I can help bring them back to the art and the energy that has been sidetracked into addiction: to redirect this energy into something that feeds rather than depletes them, heals rather than retraumatizes. A future they might not have had opens up because they learn to re-channel this energy. I see them as people who were, or could have been, on a creative or spiritual path who got diverted because of trauma, and I see addiction as the "spell" that held them there. I help them get back on their main path through letting them experience highs from being creative instead of from addictive, self-destructive behaviors.

One way I combine creativity and addiction is in writing groups I call "Memoirs of Addiction and Recovery." I create a temporary writing community that helps addicts feel accompanied on their recovery and broadens their ability to overcome discouragement and shame and to recover their true selves. I also sometimes work with clients individually, using writing in a similar way. The framework I often use is Joseph Campbell's monomyth of the Hero's Journey, which not only rescues from shame the dark period of the clients' lives, but gives them a path to go forward on where they will eventually obtain a true boon to themselves, others, or both.

Wounded Child/Inner Healer two-hands writing technique

Imagine yourself walking in a familiar place. In the distance you see someone walking toward you. When the person gets closer, you see it's a child. When still closer, you see that it is your younger self. Imagine that this child is feeling a confusing or disturbing feeling that you, yourself, are feeling. Notice how old the child is, how the child looks and acts. Imagine, as well, that you are feeling at your most compassionate and empathic. With your dominant hand, write what you would say to this child. With your non-dominant hand, imagining yourself to be this child, feeling what is bothering him or her, respond. Continue to go back and forth between dominant and non-dominant hands until you come to some resolution.

Visualization techniques

The Miracle Question (from Solution-Focused Therapy)

I have blogged about this before, but it is so helpful it seems worth repeating here.

After letting clients complain about their problems in their lives, I ask them to imagine this:

After our session, you go off and do whatever you do with the rest of the day. Tonight, you fall asleep. And while you're snoozing, a strange thing happens. The strange thing is that... a miracle occurs! The miracle is a very special one, tailored just to you. The miracle is that all your problems are solved and all your concerns are gone. Poof! But the thing is, the miracle happened while you were asleep, so you don't know anything about it. When you wake up tomorrow, you are solidly in the world of the miracle, but initially you are unaware that it has occurred. So the initial question is: Tomorrow morning, when you wake up and as you step through the day, what do you notice -- in yourself, in your surroundings, in other people -- that eventually gets you scratching your head, thinking, "Something's different about today. A miracle must have happened!"

Asking yourself this question is akin to the call to adventure on the hero's journey. It will take you into new territory, and there you will encounter struggles you might not otherwise have had to endure. But it is also the first step to finding your personal boon, and to making your miracle your reality.

The "Miracle Question" is based on the principle that we do have the answers, and it's a way to envision, while awake but in a kind of self-induced light trance, what life will be like, in great detail, when all our problems are solved. Some questions to ask yourself, after asking the Miracle Question:

- How do I feel when I open my eyes the next morning, the first morning of my miracle life?
- Am I in the same bedroom? The same house? With the same people?
- What's different as I get ready for the day?
- What's different as I walk through it, hour by hour?
- What do other people in my life notice about me that's different?
- What do I notice about them?

From the answers to these questions, which eventually give you the "Totto, we're not in Kansas anymore" feeling, a vision of life with all the problems solved is built. Then it's just a matter of working toward that "miracle," one doable step at a time.

Breaking the Trauma Re-enactment Triangle

Imagine three parts of yourself: the injured child (victim of abuse), the abuser, and a non-protecting bystander. Re-enact the trauma re-enactment triangle of abuser, victim, non-protecting bystander. Now, imagine a true protector who intervenes on your behalf, defending you against the internalized abuser. Work through this re-enactment, calling on whatever forces are needed to render the abuser harmless and the injured child self safe.

Psychodrama techniques

Sometimes I work with client to develop a "character" that is able to do or be or feel something that the client, in his or her everyday life, cannot. I work with the client to create the background, the voice, the mannerisms, the style of dress. We may even do a therapy session or part of a session with the client acting as that character. The goal is for the client to be that character in his or her life, allowing the client to do what, inside, he or she actually wants to do.

Splitting Ambivalence (a variation of Gestalt)

With a client ambivalent about something, I will often effectively divide the client into two parts (or more) and have the client move around the room, from chair to chair, speaking as first one part then the other. We treat this as a debate and it continues until all sides have fully had their say. Then, we imagine another part of has been watching this debate. That part reflects on the points each side has made, then sees if it can help the "others" come to a resolution that satisfies all sides.

Splitting Ambivalence (a variation of Focusing)

Here, the client divides into two parts, each of which has two halves -- one half that wants something for the client, the other half that doesn't want the client to have to experience something. We use Focusing to work each half of each part, until they come to a potential resolution.


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Sunday June 7, 2009

Categories: Art, Nature, Transformation

Stone Wall III

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Stone Wall III

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Saturday June 6, 2009

Stone Wall II

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Stone Wall II

I've been reflecting on what draws me to these images of stone walls. Recently, I suffered a Posterior Vitreous Detachment (PVD), during which the gelatinous part of the eye separates from the retina. In most cases, this happens with almost no symptoms, and in a few others it tears the retina. In my case, it left numerous large strands and blobs of fibrous material clinging to the retina, and many small particles circulating in my eye. As far as I've been able to determine, there is no effective treatment for this issue. A few doctors use lasers to break them up, but the results appear to be mixed, and I have other risk factors in my eyes that may make this option unworkable anyway. So I must learn to live with this and, in time, to see more with my inner eye.

The notion of seeing with my inner eye has reawakened a question I have had since childhood, which is on the nature of "aliveness" of seemingly inanimate objects, such as rocks, which form the base on which we live, and from which soil is created, and which undergoes amazing metamorphoses over the eons, but which we tend to think of as inert. If, on the other hand, the entire Universe is alive, then so must be stones. What, I wonder, is their consciousness like?

More anon,
David

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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Friday June 5, 2009

Stone Mandala I

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Stone Mandala I

Before I happened on my first flower mandala, I experimented with "mandala-izing" images of stones and the sky. I still rotate these images as my desktop wallpaper, and today this one, which I had not looked at for several years, popped up, and I realized it still had a kind of magic for me. I hope it does for you, as well.

More anon,
David

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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Tuesday April 7, 2009

30,000' - Finding a Visual Voice

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30,000' 04

On a recent trip to Santa Fe, NM, I visited Georgia O'Keefe's home near Abiquiú and was struck by the landscape she painted for much of her life. It was a place she knew was "home" as soon as she arrived. Although she has been an influence in my flower mandala work, I had seen neither her paintings of this area nor the area itself.

After I returned to the Boston area, I looked over the images I'd captured and was attracted to those I'd taken out the window of the plane as we flew between Denver and Albuquerque, particularly by the soft tones reminiscent of O'Keefe's New Mexican landscape. I have long been envious of photographers who go on exotic image-gathering trips and have admired their skill and vision, but on this trip I found that Georgia O'Keefe's vision had influenced me in ways I could not have known until I reached New Mexico, and that I shared her sense of wonder at the Earth and, in my own way, her means of capturing it.

Though I would still like to travel to the far reaches of the globe, and though I would like to continue to refine my skills, I'm more aware now than I have ever been that I, too, have something to say about our world and have a particular way my eyes, mind, and hands convey it.

O'Keefe turns out to have been my mentor in more than the obvious flower-image way. Who, I wonder, is yours?

More anon,
David

Discussion:
Art, Healing, and Transformation group
Flower Mandalas Project group
Cultivating Creativity group

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Tuesday February 17, 2009

Film: "healing image"

A little over a year ago, roughly coinciding with the 15th anniversary of my near-death experience, my good friend Larry "Doc" Pruyne completed a short film about me. It tells the story of my flower mandala images, my work as...

Tuesday February 10, 2009

Categories: Art, Guest, Mandalas, Transformation

Guest Blog Entry: The Dynamic Mandala

Sunset Swirl mandala, by David J. Bookbinder The Dynamic Mandala By Rolf Sattler A mandala can be a door to the infinite because its center usually represents the source of all existence. However, a mandala is also limited because...

Saturday February 7, 2009

Guest Blog Entry: Flower Essence Mandalas

Flower Essence Mandala: Turkscap-Pansy-Dianthus Flower Essence Mandalas By Mary Kraemer I use edible flowers to create by hand a mini-cosmos for healing with the medicinal and spiritual qualities of the flowers and as a mediation tool. I invite you...

Thursday January 8, 2009

Learning to Fly

Spoon Chrysanthemum I've become relatively inactive in Beliefnet this past few months, absorbed in the other aspects of my life, but I'd like to start the New Year with a report on my personal progress on working toward the...

Saturday November 22, 2008

Flower Mandala: Water Lily X

Water Lily X Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request the 15 Flower Mandalas screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Sunday November 16, 2008

Flower Mandalas: Simplicity in Complexity

Dying Amaryllis I Dying Amaryllis III Dying Amaryllis VI Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group Cultivating Creativity group Request the 15 Flower Mandalas screensaver: Fifteen Flower Mandalas © 2008, David J. Bookbinder...

Saturday November 8, 2008

Spiritual Questing, Near-Death Experiences, and the Global Village

Sun Wheel I mandala In some ways my experience of the heart of Beliefnet has been tangential. Focused mainly on art and healing, I have paid less than full attention to the remarkable phenomonen of Beliefnet itself and it's...

Thursday September 18, 2008

Flower Mandalas: Yellow Rose (and garbage)

Yellow Rose I Defiled or immaculate. Dirty or pure. These are concepts we form in our mind. A beautiful rose we have just cut and placed in our vase is pure. It smells so good, so fresh. A garbage...

Sunday August 3, 2008

Living in the Right Side of the Brain

Dying Pansy I Neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor had an opportunity few of us would wish for: a massive stroke. What she learned from it about the right and left brains seems relevant to all of us, and I'm passing...

Sunday June 29, 2008

'Cultivating Creativity' Group Revisited

'Cultivating Creativity' Group logo Below are reports from two members of the 'Cultivating Creativity' group documenting their experiences as "miracle partners" in the group, and beyond. Chrysalis's story The cultivating creativity group came along for me a couple of...

Tuesday May 13, 2008

How Movies Saved My Life

Red Daylily My first movie was The Wizard of Oz. I was three years old, we came late to the theater, and we sat in the front row, all the way to the left. I had never seen moving...

Sunday May 4, 2008

Flower Mandala: Celebration

Sunflower 'Moulin Rouge' You have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour. Now you must go back and tell the people that this is the Hour. And there are things to be considered: Where are you...

Monday April 7, 2008

Art & the Art of Managing Pain: Billy Bob Beamer

Art & the Art of Managing Pain by Billy Bob Beamer Much of this article first appeared in FMOnline I graduated from college in the early 70s, having completed a degree in sociology, with a focus in the sociology...

Friday April 4, 2008

Another Train

Another Train... Recently, the song "Another Train," by British balladeer Pete Morton, has been going through my head repeatedly, particularly the chorus: "There's another train, there always is. Maybe the next one is yours, step up and climb aboard......

Tuesday March 25, 2008

Painting Mandalas: Ofira Oriel

Mandalas by Ofira Oriel Ofira Oriel is an Israeli artist and teacher. She is a graduate of Hadassah College in Jerusalem and of the Ramat Hasharon Seminary for Teachers of Art. She also has a degree in Education for...

Friday March 14, 2008

Shades of Gray: Addendum

Rhododendron 'Ponticum Roseum II' Click here to pop up the original full-color image An Addendum to 'Black and White Thinking' in Shades of Gray By 'shades of gray,' in my previous post, I'm thinking like a black-and-white photographer, whose...

Sunday March 9, 2008

'Black and White Thinking' in Shades of Gray

Pink Hibiscus II (sepia) Click here to pop up the original Pink Hibiscus II I've been experimenting with applying old photographic techniques to new, digitally created images and am curious to know how they compare, from your points of...

Wednesday February 27, 2008

The 'Meaning' of Fifteen Flower Mandalas

Fifteen Flower Mandalas I'd like to take this space to thank those of you who have downloaded my free Fifteen Flower Mandalas screensaver, and particularly those who have written back. The responses so far have been interesting. Until now,...

Monday February 18, 2008

Fifteen Flower Mandalas: A Re-Birthday Screensaver

Fifteen Flower Mandalas Fifteen years ago this Thursday, I nearly bled to death in an Albany, NY, hospital. During that event, I had a near-death experience which set me on my current spiritual and artistic path. In commemoration of...

Thursday February 14, 2008

Flower Mandala: Orange Zinnia I valentine

Orange Zinnia I Happy Valentine's Day to all my readers, and thanks for helping build a community around art, healing, and transformation. More anon, - David Discussion: Art, Healing, and Transformation group Flower Mandalas Project group © 2008, David...

Friday February 8, 2008

Categories: Art, Transformation

What's Your Personal Flywheel?

Marigold V flower mandala The Wikipedia defines a flywheel as "a rotating disc used as a storage device for kinetic energy." Flywheels are primarily used to maintain steady movement when the power that rotates them fluctuates, as in a...

Wednesday February 6, 2008

On Spirituality, Literature and Healing: Tom Neufer Emswiler

Stained Glass, Toronto, Ontario (Click here for a "mandalaized" view) Tom Neufer Emswiler is a retired United Methodist minister who has been teaching courses in literature and spirituality. He speaks, here, of his background as a minister and his...

Monday February 4, 2008

It's Already There

Dark to Light Suns (view larger image) This post is not so much about art and healing/transformation, though art has played its part, but about the transformative power of the spiritual imagination. About a year ago, I was stricken...

Wednesday January 30, 2008

Call for Healing/Transformative/Spiritual Art

Illustration from William Blake's The Book of Job, "When the morning stars sang together..." This is a call, to you from me, for art (in the broadest sense of the term -- visual, literary, popular, 3-D, multimedia, musical, performing,...

Monday January 28, 2008

Categories: Art, Transformation

Cultivating Your Creative Self #1: An Invitation to Boldness

Bud Howard Gardner describes the early years of our childhoods as the Golden Age of Creativity. He observes that a five to seven year old child "sings while drawing, dances while singing, tells stories while playing." Some of us...

Sunday January 27, 2008

Pink Fall Rose I and Cynthia Lee

Pink Fall Rose I Rose Wearing Ragged Rose wearing ragged round the edges, your petals dingy, brown mottled and pocked, do not grieve your lost beauty and perfection for truly your sullied shell your outer ring of decay and...

Friday January 18, 2008

Sacred Geometry and the Mandala: Marjorie Kaye

The following is another in a series of guest articles by artists on their work with art in a healing or transformative context. Lightship Marjorie Kaye is an artist residing in Cambridge, Massachusetts who graduated from Syracuse University in 1979...

Sunday January 13, 2008

Soul Mandalas

This is another in a series of articles by guest authors or artists. D. Kristen Herrington is an artist, writer, and Reiki master/teacher from Round Rock, Texas. Here, she tells the story of her Soul Mandalas. Kristen Herrington's Soul mandala...

Friday January 11, 2008

Iris Germanica I (and another invitation)

Above is the Iris Germanica I flower mandala (which I'd love to have your comments on, either here or in the Flower Mandalas Project group). Here is the invitation: Although the Beliefnet.com home page calls me an "expert," I'm...

Tuesday January 8, 2008

Categories: Art, Healing, Transformation

A Few Words from a Documentary Photographer: Ernest Morin

This is the second in a series of posts by guest authors/artists. Ernest Morin started making photographs in 1978. He takes black-and-white pictures with a wide variety of film cameras and is among the best portrait and documentary photographers I...

Saturday December 29, 2007

Categories: Art, Healing, Transformation

How "The Matrix" Changed My Life

Do not try to bend the spoon; that's impossible. Instead only try to realize the truth: There is no spoon. Then you'll see that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself. - The Matrix One...

Saturday December 22, 2007

Mandalas and Sacred Geometry: A Conversation with Vandorn Hinnant

This is an announcement of the first of what I hope will be a series of online discussions/interviews with people involved in art and transformation. Vandorn Hinnant is a visual artist currently living in Greensboro, North Carolina. His artwork...

Sunday December 16, 2007

Flower Mandalas, Time Travel, and Self-Healing

You yourself, as much as anyone in the entire universe, deserve your love and affections. - Buddha I am large, I contain multitudes. - Walt Whitman My work with mandalas has been, in itself, helpful in activating an inner...

Tuesday December 11, 2007

Self-Transformation and the Hero's Journey

What does not change is the will to change. - Charles Olson Joseph Campbell's book The Hero With a Thousand Faces describes the archetypal hero's journey. In it, Campbell distills the wisdom of a collection of myths, folktales, and...

Saturday December 8, 2007

Flower Mandalas: Self-Communion

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. -Carl Jung I began the Flower Mandalas project in the midst of a long illness. Initially it was a...

Sunday December 2, 2007

Flower Mandalas: My story

I am a psychotherapist, photographer/digital artist, and writer. I was born in Buffalo, New York, in 1951. I started photographing in high school where, as yearbook editor, I took most of the candid and "art" pictures. After college, I...

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Welcome to the Flower Mandalas blog!

I am a psychotherapist, photographer, digital artist, and writer living near Boston, Massachusetts. As a therapist, I work primarily with artists, children and families, and people with addictive behaviors. Like Carl Jung, one of the fathers of modern psychology, I believe art can be a pathway to the essential Self and foster personal and global transformation.

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- David
David J. Bookbinder, LMHC

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