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posted by vreiss

birdseating.jpgWhen I hear people toss off expressions like “there are many ways to skin a cat” or “kill two birds with one stone,” I cringe deeply, instantly picturing a poor wounded kitty or a pair of violently felled birds. Though I feel weird getting upset about a stupid cliché, for me it’s like being forced to watch a gory movie scene without warning.

Years ago my friend Renée helped me out with this when she offered a lovely, animal-friendly alternative for accomplishing two things in one stroke: “Feeding two birds with one seed.” As in, “Let’s walk to the store. That way we can get your book and I can get my exercise–we’ll feed two birds with one seed.” So much nicer to imagine two birds sharing a little snack, yes?

Do you have any similarly loathed expressions–and happy alternatives?

 

 [Image from: www.duncraft.com

 



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Holly

posted March 16, 2009 at 6:05 pm


Hey, blog sis – the first one that comes to mind for the poor skinned kitty is “there’s more than one way to eat a Reeses.” Is that wrong? :-)



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Barbara

posted March 18, 2009 at 12:16 pm


When something nice happens to a friend….. I often say
“I’m Pink with envy meaning I’m tickled pink for them, and a admitting it was something I wish I was doing…………



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Lily

posted March 19, 2009 at 12:29 am


Thanks for this “shot in the arm”… “Awareness” would perhaps be a better word to use rather than a visual of a gun shot.



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Fritz aka Yonko

posted March 26, 2009 at 12:48 pm


Joe and all, a couple points of light I see in “my significant dimness”. Like the song says, “Words are like weapons they wound sometimes”. The worst part is how we wound ourselves and others thoughtlessly. We even limit our selves with our own self talk. One of the biggest examples I know of is “I can’t”. I believe we should all replace that with “I haven’t as of yet”. That at least promotes the possibility you may sometime do it, not the thought you are incapable of doing it. Similarly think others, “haven’t as of yet”, it allows the possibility that they may someday. The other biggie is vulgarity. If you use it in speech, you can bet the ranch, you use it in your own self talk and sometimes address your self with it. How uplifting is that?! Think of all the words you say to yourself each day. Think of all the times you berated your self for some “failure”. That may be bad enough; but, when add vulgarity to the mix you are also degrading yourself. As Joe says, words have the power we give them, so recognizing that I expect we all should use the positive ones as much as possible or at least try to eliminate the negative ones unless they are truly required, thank you, love fritz.



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