In Memory of Maria -- and Millions More (by Eugene Cho)
I don’t want to assume that readers automatically know who Steven Curtis Chapman is, but if you’ve been surfing the Web recently, it’s very likely you may have seen the name. Chapman is one of the most visible and influential figures of the Christian music genre. As of 2007, he has sold more than 10 million albums, has nine gold and platinum albums, and won five Grammy awards.
Chapman and his wife, Mary Beth, have six children – three biological and three adopted young girls from China. On Wednesday, May 21, the Chapman family received the worst of news. In what was meant to be a celebratory week for the Chapman family, their youngest daughter – 5-year-old Maria Sue Chapman – was killed in a tragic car accident.
“Just hours before, this close-knit family was celebrating the engagement of the oldest daughter, Emily Chapman, and [was] just hours away from a graduation party marking Caleb Chapman’s completion of high school. Now, they are preparing to bury a child who blew out five candles on a birthday cake less than 10 days ago ..." said Jim Houser, Chapman's manager.
As a parent of three myself, my heart absolutely aches and mourns for Steven and Mary Beth and their entire family. What makes this story more gut-wrenching was that their daughter was accidentally struck and killed in their driveway by an SUV driven by their younger teenage son. Tragic.
I’ve been surprised at how Maria Sue’s death has impacted so many. I figured a handful of Christian news sources would cover the story, but it’s been very widespread and still remains one of the top items on search engines. The last time I checked, 18,301 well wishes, blessings, condolences, and prayers were left on a tribute blog titled, “In Memory of Maria.” Perhaps it speaks to the many ways Chapman has ministered to so many people through his music. Or perhaps it speaks to how Steven and Mary Beth have demonstrated the beauty of the gospel through their lives – not just through his music but their advocacy for adoption through Shaohannah's Hope, “a charity organization which offers grants to qualifying families to help defray the cost of adopting, at home and abroad,” along with numerous other expressions of justice and compassion.
No parent ever wants to be in the news because of a tragedy, but nevertheless, it is good that so many have been drawn to the Chapman family story and the loss of their child. While we lift them in prayer and celebrate Maria’s life and the hope that is found in the gospel of Christ, let’s not stop there.
Be mindful of the millions -- especially children -- whose lives are as precious in the eyes of God. As a result of Cyclone Nargis in Myanmar and an idiotic military junta government, at least 80,000 have perished with about 56,000 still missing. About 2 to 3 million people are homeless. Relief groups estimate that at least one-third of the perished are children. Do not forget them.
Be mindful of millions impacted by the earthquake in Sichuan, China, where, as of this morning, these were the “statistics:" 67,183 confirmed dead, 361,722 injured, 20,790 missing, and approximately 5 million people homeless. About 5,000 children have been orphaned. Do not forget them.
According to UNICEF, 27,000 to 30,000 children die each day due to the complexities of global poverty. It is true that last year UNICEF reported worldwide child deaths at a record low: 9.7 million per year. For the first time in modern history, the number of children dying before age 5 fell below 10 million per year. But that’s still 9.7 million children.
Let that sink in … deep. And do not forget them.
I grieve, mourn, and hope with the Chapman family. I’ve found myself randomly crying for their family -- even while I am convicted of the great hope of the gospel of Christ. But it’s also my hope that the outpouring of care and compassion for the loss of their child also compels each of us to be more HUMAN. By this, I am simply suggesting that we live as God intended -- to care not only for ourselves [our kind, our nations, our families, and our children] but for the many -- locally and globally -- that need the compassion and kindness of fellow humans.
Let’s not just be in love with the idea of compassion and justice. Let’s do our part to change the world.
Eugene Cho, a second generation Korean-American, is the founder and lead pastor of Quest Church in Seattle, Washington, and the executive director of Q Cafe, an innovative nonprofit neighborhood café in the city with only a handful of cafés. You can stalk him at his blog at: eugenecho.wordpress.com.









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I too have wept and have felt such a deep sadness for this family in this tragedy. I agree.... the depth of feeling so many have expressed must be directly related to the depth with which Steven and his family have touched us over the years.
I have given in Maria's honor to Shaohannah's Hope, and I hope, as you do, that many others are driven to give as freely and generously in these days, in honor of Maria and the Chapmans, as Steven and his family have given so freely and generously of their lives.
Posted by: Cecelia | May 28, 2008 4:00 PM
Such a tragedy, I can only hope their son will be able to forgive himself for this accident.
Posted by: aaron | May 28, 2008 4:42 PM
Thanks for this. A beautiful piece reminding us that each child's life is beautiful and worth fighting and mourning for.
Posted by: Pamela | May 28, 2008 6:14 PM
It is so sad when children suffer and die. They are so precious, all of them.
How can we live with such disparity in the world.
Posted by: MaryEllen | May 28, 2008 6:37 PM
Thank you for mentioning this tragedy especially here at this blog. Those of us in the Evangelical community that place CCM as an important part of our Christian life, know how wonderful Steven Curtis Chapman is as a brother in Christ and as a role model and as a music leader. Our hearts were shattered at the news about Maria Sue. Our hearts are with the family.
Posted by: Donny | May 28, 2008 9:47 PM
An amazing szory...
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Posted by: live_life | May 29, 2008 12:30 PM
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