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Top 10 Inspiring TV Fathers

Tuesday June 10, 2008

Categories: Television
Some TV dads are just buffoons, and others are sterling examples of exactly what not to do, but throughout the years, TV has idealized, even immortalized, the qualities of fatherhood. Just in time for Father's Day, I have put together...
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Ray
June 11, 2008 8:19 PM

I liked Bill Cosby in that role, and I actually think he has done more for actual race-relations in the U.S. than MLK or probably anyone else!
Now, I think you also could have inserted "Andy Taylor" into the list.

Ray
June 11, 2008 8:21 PM

Charles Ingalls was definitely a great father-figure!!!

Sharon Cruse
June 12, 2008 10:11 AM

What about Robert Young in "Father Knows Best". Before your time?

John O. Dalke
June 12, 2008 10:32 AM

Leaving off Andy Taylor makes your list meaningless.

mounu riddell
June 12, 2008 11:16 AM

Leaving off John and Grandpa Walton is unforgivable..........there were never two more inspiring fathers on TV!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Honora
June 12, 2008 11:21 AM

I totally agree that any list like this has to have Andy Taylor. The conversations between him and Opie are primers to this day in how to parent. Remember the one where Opie killed the bird? And talk about admitting mistakes: the one where Andy insists no one can play ball and an instrument and give both adequate attention is one of the all-time classic episodes in TV history. Opie's coach comes to talk to him - an African-American man, groundbreaking itself for a show set in rural North Carolina and in the mid-late '60's - and after failing to convince Andy with words, sat down at the piano to demonstrate how a person could be both an accomplished pianist and a ball-player. It was fabulous, and done with minimal dialogue.

I'd also put in a plug for James Avery as Philip Banks in the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. It wasn't constant - there was plenty of sit-com boilerplate here - but there were more than a few episodes where Uncle Phil showed hidden sides of himself to deal with what life threw his way in the form of his nephew. Of course, he's also a master of the throw-away comic aside. And he's such a great actor he could infuse even routine dialogue with layers of meaning.

But how can everyone have forgotten Ward Cleaver?! He was such a great dad - he modeled a kind of fatherhood unheard of in its time. He would get testy, even angry, and sometimes chew Beaver out over his idiot escapades. But he would always be honest, and apologize if he was wrong, and talk about his feelings - who did THAT then? - and make sure that Beaver knew, no matter what he had done or failed to do, that even when he made a wrong choice or did a bad thing (yes, we still said "bad" then) he was still his son and he loved him very much. Hugh Belmont was such a decent man and such a good actor, these scenes always shone with sincerity, patience, decency and love. He was a good man and a great TV dad.

All those new shows with their trendy pseudo-sensitive dialogue and earnest expressions can't touch Ward Cleaver and Andy Taylor. They were, and still are, the gold standard.

Paul W
June 12, 2008 12:19 PM

There have been many exclusions from your list

1. Ward Cleaver (Leave it to Beaver )
2. Mike Brady (The Brady Bunch )
3. Andy Taylor (The Andy Griffith Show )
4. James Evans (Good Times )
5. Danny Williams (Make Room For Daddy )
6. Rob Petrie (The Dick van Dyke Show )

Nell Minow
June 12, 2008 1:16 PM

Making lists like this is fun and debating them is even more fun. I love all the fathers on all your lists, especially Andy Griffith. Don't forget Tom Bosley on "Happy Days." He always had just the right words of wisdom and support. I loved the late Sydney Pollack as Will's father on "Will and Grace." Fred Sanford (Redd Foxx) and Archie Bunker (Carrol O'Connor) had their moments! So did Jerry Stiller as George's father on "Seinfeld." And I loved seeing a glimpse of one of the all-time best TV dads, Bill Bixby in "The Courtship of Eddie's Father" in the new "Incredible Hulk" movie (a nod to Bixby's role in the Hulk TV show).

donna w. in ga.
June 12, 2008 2:59 PM

although he wasn't their actual father, uncle bill on
family affair was one of my favorites

windyblue
June 13, 2008 1:51 PM

John Walton was good, he really instilled values, and morals into his childern. Andy Taylor, being a single father is not easy, and he always had time for Opie, the best scene I loved was the opening part where the two of them were going off to go fishing. What a wonderful father and son thing to do.

And Heathcliff Huxtable, he was great he taught his childern that School and college are very important, and one needs a high school diploma and should not drop out of school, and his childern learned responsiblity.


burnette
June 13, 2008 7:40 PM

Father Knows Best
Classic fatherhood at it's best. This was formulated at a time when ideas of parenting were taking on a change from the parents of the early 30's and before who were who were dominating and overbearing to their children. This role of parents allowing their children to have
independant ideas and able to express their ideas. Robert Young was kind, sincere, a good shoulder to cry on, and very distinguished.

Linda
June 14, 2008 10:51 AM

You watch waaaaaaay too much TV!

jestrfyl
June 14, 2008 6:33 PM

Where is Tool Man TIm? He may not have had the right answers but he hung in there and kept trying. He is both representative of what can go wrong as well as a model for good parenting, which is more struggling with ambiguity than having all the answers.

will washburn
June 15, 2008 10:38 AM

What about tim allen on home improvement tv show,I know he is a little self centered but over all I think his charter is a good father.

Allsion
June 15, 2008 1:03 PM

How about Ward Cleaver?? He was a pretty cool dad...

delight
June 15, 2008 9:46 PM

I think also the dad on "Medium" tv show is a cool dad and a cool husband !!
I always loved the "Father Knows Best" dad !!

The "Eight Is Enough" dad was cool also !!

Ward Cleaver, and Bill Cosby, and the "My three Sons" show dad !!1
I Used to watch a series."Life With Father" which was really funny !!
The father would come home and call out to his wife, "Vinny, I'm home "!!!
The accent was on the word-I'm-so it was really funny.
there were 2 little sons ..
The family had to be very proper..
The setting was in the 20's or 30's or .........

lizzie tanners
June 16, 2008 3:17 AM

How 'bout Maxwell Sheffield. Liked his British humor towards his kids.

iorek
June 16, 2008 1:53 PM

What about Father Knows Best????

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December 16, 2008 3:23 AM
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