As almost everyone suspected, the stars of the TLC hit reality show "Jon & Kate Plus 8," Jon and Kate Gosselin, have publically announced they are separating on a special episode of their show that aired tonight. Although they never said the "d" word, at the very end of the episode it was annouced that today paperwork was filed to disolve the couple's 10 year marriage.
Earlier today, People.com reported that divorce papers were filed at the Bucks County Courthouse in Doylestown, Penn., Monday afternoon.
As viewers may remember, in a recent episode this season Kate said, "Parents of multiples have triple the divorce rate. We were thinking that we'd beat that. But I dont know if I can say that anymore."
Throughout tonight's "special" episide, both Jon and Kate--interviewed separately as has been the norm this season--seemed upset and nervous talking about their deteriorating marriage, each emphasizing that they did not "hate" the other and that they've been having problems for months. However, Jon did seem to be excited about what the future holds.
"I was too passive. Now I stand on my own two feet--and I'm proud of myself," said Jon. "I don't hate Kate, but I have to do what's best for me and my kids. Them first." He later said, "I'm excited and hurt at the same time. I have a new chapter of my life. I'm only 32-years-old."
Kate seemed a bit more worried about life without Jon, though feels they would have had problems regardless of whether they had done the show. (Though that made me wonder why they decided to renew their wedding vows in Hawaii just last year. Publicity stunt, I guess).
"Goals are different now," said Kate. "I'm tired of smiling on the outside and crying on the inside. I don't really want to be alone. I don't want to do this on my own." Though Kate is emphatic that she will.
Kate is also worried her children will think her and Jon have failed as parents, and they are just a statistic.
It was definitely heart-breaking to see Jon and Kate talk about going their separate ways, but while they both are in agreement that everything is "for the kids" they each have completely different views on how they want to live their lives. Kate loves the limelight, while Jon would prefer to have the cameras turned off---or at least pointed away from him. I can't help but think that had Kate listened for a minute to Jon's concerns, that their marriage could have been saved.
What do you think?
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I suspect he got out of child support by allowing the show to go on. You would think at the very least, they would rename the show.
Poor kids. It's hard enough to go through a divorce in private. These kids have to go through the breakup of their family on national television.
This family has had enough exposure. It's time to pull the plug on the Gosselins.
And to anyone who wants the show to go on so that they can watch this train wreck, shame on you.
GOD is the final producer of this show
What we or anyone else print in word will be nothing in the end. They (jon and kate)will answer to GOD. He alone will have "the words"
The most we can do as "the public" is pray for this family.
Especailly for the parent that is left dealing with the children on a daily basis.
One "spanking" doth not a bad parent make
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Um, I suspect God had very little to do with this disgusting piece of pseudo-Christian trash.
It's more on the level of conservative Christian, mega-Church hypocrisy.
And what, if you don't mind my asking is your reference on spanking? Did Jon admit to enjoying being spanked? Hmm, I guess I missed that.
The sponsors should just pull the show. Enough already. Now we need to watch Jon & Kate separately, raising the "8"? I don't think so. Only watched a couple of the shows in it's 5(?) year run anyhow. Perhaps the kids have a chance of being normal if the camera's are finally pulled!
I enjoy watching the Jon & Kate Plus 8 Show and I’m so proud for both of their achievements. Whatever the circumstances are, when they joined together in matrimony they have promised to each other to be there not only in the good times but in the bad times as well. But now than ever personal differences must be put away especially for the well being of their children.
But this might only be a test or challenge from god for the both of you. I’m hopeful Jon realizes what he has – which is a great family – I wish I had. And to Kate I sympathize and understanding of what you would have to go through without Jon. When I first started watching the show I’ve always thought of Kate as a beautiful woman inside and out. Like I said earlier, I’m hopeful Jon come to its senses… and to Kate; I wouldn’t mind being part of such a beautiful family. With that said I’m hopeful for the both of you to find the means to put away your differences.
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