Mallika Chopra: March 2009 Archives

According to news reports that came in last week, the Dalai Lama was denied a visa from the South Africa government to attend a peace conference in Johannesburg that would have been attended by five other Nobel Peace prize winners.

Officials believed that banning the Dalai Lama would keep the focus of the conference on the upcoming 2010 World Cup Soccer Tournament and away from messy politics. They probably did not anticipate Archbishop Desmond Tutu and former president F. W. de Klerk dropping out of the conference in protest of the Dalai Lama's dismissal.

Even members of the South African government, such as Health Minister Barbara Hogan, is angered by the decision and believes the South African government owes an apology to all its citizens.

Why would a country that freed itself from an apartheid government deny entry to a spiritual leader who speaks on behalf of 5.4 million Tibetans being oppressed by the Chinese government?

Herein lies the double standard of foreign policy. Though South Africa may have a history of championing human rights and democracy, this nation also depends heavily on Chinese markets for buying its rich natural resources.

Perhaps no person can sum it up better than Archbishop Desmond Tutu, who himself has been jailed and had his passport revoked from his own government for his opposition to apartheid in the 1980's. He called the government's decision "disgraceful" for "shamelessly succumbing to Chinese pressure."

The peace conference has been completely cancelled by the resulting outcry.

In a graceful response that underscores his peaceful nature, the Dalai Lama responded that he does not want to ""cause any embarrassment or inconvenience," and that ironically, the visa refusal has helped further publicize the Tibetan cause.

Mallika Chopra blogs regularly at Intent.com

This weekend I bought a pair of designer jeans - normally $250 - for $25. And, I can't say I am happy about it.
I had been eyeing the jeans for a while, but couldn't justify the expense. $250 just didn't seem right for a pair of jeans...
So, when they were $25, I quickly grabbed them.
From a rack with dozens of jeans, all $25.
From a store that is going out of business.
From a salesperson who was chatting with her fellow worker while I tried on the jeans about dropping her health insurance now that she won't have a job.
Who was thinking about moving back home with her parents.
From a chic avenue where its seems every week a new store is shutting down.
Today, we saw a beautiful house on the market for a great price. A fire sale to avoid a foreclosure. Looks like the people have been living there for years. Its a beautiful home, somewhere where kids probably have great memories. From the photos in the house and the decorated rooms, kids who are still in elementary or junior high school.
I could not think of buying that house. Bad karma. Too much guilt ...
So as the economy suffers, what do we do with all this emotional baggage. Take the deal and feel good about. Do our part by putting money back into the system, and avoid the guilt, the stories, the people?
What, pray tell, do I do with my new pair of expensive designer jeans?
 

Mallika Chopra blogs regularly at Intent.com