Added later: I'm at the Chestunut Hill Coffee Company outside Philadelphia; best Latte I've ever had in my life. As we age, so I'm told, we don't need as much sleep -- or, with a darker twist, as we age we may not sleep as well. What do you do when you can't get to sleep at night?
Before I reveal what I do, let me urge you to purchase and use -- when you can't sleep -- Phyllis Tickle's brand-new The Night Offices. A brief on fixed-hour prayer. The hours of prayer are roughly midnight, 6am, 9am, noon, 3pm, 6pm, 9pm. This does not mean a full hour of prayer, but the time at which one stops what one is doing, turns to God with hosts of Christians around the world, and sets a set prayer -- usually some Psalms, the Lord's Prayer, and some other fixed prayers. (Some had eight, not seven, hours -- adding one at 3am or so.)
I've gone on record to tell my story -- and you can read about it in Praying with the Church. And I'm fixed when it comes to morning and evening prayers -- early in the morning and after dinner. But the Church also has prayers for other times: midnight (10:30-1:30am), night watch (1:30-4:30am), and dawn (4:30-7:30am).
So, here's a "fix" for nights when you can't sleep. If it is late at night, pray the Midnight Prayers, or in the middle of the night pray the night watch or the dawn prayers. When you awake, instead of listening to radio or watching TV, why not open up The Night Offices and pray with Christians around the globe?
Now I know this book was not designed for insomniacs or for those with sleep disorders, but for the regular wakening in order to pray in a disciplined manner. Still, for those of us who have no intent of awaking at midnight, or 3am, or 4:30, in order to observe an hour of prayer, but who find themselves awake unintentionally, I'm persuaded this can be a good "fix" for those times.
Now, I don't have trouble sleeping very often; I hit the sack about 11pm and sleep until ... well about 4am or so and then fitfully until about 5:30am or so. Then we're up and ready to go. Sometimes, though, I drink too much coffee or take a nap too long that keeps me awake at night. From now on, The Night Offices will sit next to my seat on the sofa and I'll turn to spend some time in prayer with the Christians in my time zone who are up saying their prayers -- many of them monastics. They may notice my presence; maybe not. But, I'll notice theirs as we chant a psalm or two and remind ourselves of our place in this world: before God, in prayer.

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Typically, I will write in my journal, pray or read. Sometimes I will read a book. Sometimes Scripture. I have learned to watch what I am reading. I try not to read something that will only make it more difficult to go back to sleep.
I will pick up this volume by P. Tickle.
When I cannot sleep I get up and make myself a pot of caffienated coffee, thumb my nose at sleeplessness and instead, revel in it. Sometimes I get my best praying, reading and writing done at 4am. My body ususally is quite happy to make up for lost sleep time the next night, and I sleep soundly.
Michael, on your comment #18...great stuff there. I am an INFJ and when I read your comments ...that really made sense!! If I am kept awake because of "life" it is because I have a ton of feelings rumbling around-- and forcing myself to think through it all carefully is what seems to help me (and this is difficult for me). I never thought of that in terms of personality type. I need to get a hold of this book you reference - sounds interesting!
Thanks Susan. It is one of the most helpful books I have read on formation but beware; it was written by an INTJ like me. :)
Mulholland really gave me some great insights about personal health but one of the things I like about the book is his emphasis. Spiritual formation is not just about us. He gives a one sentence definition that has four parts, which he investigates:
"The process...
of being conformed...
to the image of Christ...
for the sake of others."
That fourth segment is key to him. Our formation isn't just a "Jesus and me" thing. It is about being formed for mission. But that begins with us being heatlhy.
Wow! I really like that definition Michael! I looked up the author on Amazon and there is another book of his that looks good too, about scripture and transformation. As I work on my thesis, I'll be looking for books on spiritual formation and the words (and more specifically,lyrics) we use.
"...another book..."
Yes. "Shaped by the Word: The Power of Scritpure in Spiritual Formation." He has a short 5 page Appendix about the Myers-Briggs Inventory and formation in this book as well. It is another great book. I read this sometime ago and was not able to really process it like I wanted to. I have it on my reread list.
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