I consider Dietrich Bonhoeffer's Life TogetherBonhoeffer combines profound insight into the psychology of how humans interact along with a constant holding of all things in the light of Scripture. One of his themes is selfish, emotional love vs. genuine spiritual love. The first excites itself out of what it can get while the second is rooted in our relationship to one another in Christ -- it takes the relationship as it is to be in Christ and demands no more and expects no less.
Love is measured by its attributes: What do our relationships produce? Do they lead to truth, to freedom, and to fruits? What do you think of his ideas of the dangers of retreats?
But these are his best words on the subject:
"Emotional love lives by uncontrolled and uncontrollable dark desires; spiritual love lives in the clear light of service ordered by the truth. Self-centered love results in human enslavement, bondage, rigidity; spiritual love creates the freedom of Christians under the Word. Emotional love breeds artificial hothouse flowers; spiritual love creates the fruits that grow healthily under God's open sky, according to God's good pleasure in the rain and storm and sunshine" (44).

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"Nothing is easier than to stimulate the euphoria of community in a few days of life together [a retreat, a conference]; and nothing is more fatal to the healthy, sober, everyday life in community of Christians" (47"
I agree because retreats don't require ongoing relationship with other christians, by which we learn what it is to love one another because there is the possibility of being close/intimate. There is opportunity in ongoing relationships to rub up against things about another person that bug us and learn to love them within that. Plus the added benefit of repeated contact with their love for one's self, being able to share that love.
Scot, do you know if there is a version of LT auf Deutsch available somewhere?
Dana
Dana, I have that German edition and it is a beautiful binding. On the bottom of the Amazon page, go to the German page. Type in name and title and the publisher is Christian Kaiser Verlag, Dietrich Bonhoeffer Werke Bande 5 in 1987. I've read my German one twice.
Thanks.
D.
The English translation I read was pretty clunky in places. Time for a new one?
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