An ancient Biblical tradition, a midrash, relates that the Canaanites wrote marriage contracts between man and man and woman and woman, and that this was one reason the land "vomited" them up in favor of the Israelites who took their place. The historicity of this isn't the point. It's the moral that matters, having to do with the social impact of being libertarian about marriage combinations
Today
Rod Dreher,
Andrew Sullivan, and
John Derbyshire are contemplating the question of whether there is a secular case against same-sex marriage. Is there?
Well, there would have to be. God doesn't rule arbitrarily. He has in mind the aim to encourage human flourishing, and He knows better even than Andrew Sullivan does. That doesn't mean His reasons are always entirely scrutable. That may be why the exact nature of a religion-free case against state-sanctioned gay marriage sometimes seems a bit hazy. Nevertheless, I'll give you my three thoughts about how human interest is served by resisting attempts to remake matrimony.
First, the institution of marriage is very ancient, and that by itself tells us something. A profound wisdom accumulates over the millennia, as generations discover the kind of institutions best suited for human beings. For thousands of years and across a multitude of cultures, people have agreed that marriage means the union of man with woman. This consensus is enshrined in religious beliefs, revered by Jews, Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, and Hindus alike. You can think of these beliefs as God-given, but you don't have to. You also can think of them as human discoveries.

When the
New York Times derided
this book for
children -- as possibly giving comfort to religion! -- I wanted to buy it right away but of course it was already out of print. So the King County public library system was my best alternative. It's a very clever yet simple allegory by William Steig, the author of
Shrek, contrasting a Darwinian and an intelligent design perspective. A yellow wooden doll and a pink wooden doll debate where they came from, with the yellow doll voicing fatuous opinions straight out of Darwin about how it all came to pass by accident. In the end, a man, their designer, comes along and scoops them both up.
Finally, my turn in the library queue came. After I got home from work with the book, our 7-year-old, Ezra, read it in a few minutes. "Pink seems smarter than Yellow," he commented. After I had read the brief and charming little book aloud to him, Naomi (age 6) and Hannah (age 3), Naomi said "Again!"
It was a bit over Hannah's head but then again, the subject also seems to exceed the grasp of the New York Times science reporting staff.
An outfit called the Presidential Prayer Team is praying that President Obama should effectively lead the fight to
combat swine flu.
Meanwhile, my father went into the hospital this morning for relatively minor surgery -- though at his age, no surgery is truly minor. I prayed that it should go smoothly and successfully.
The other evening after prayer services at our synagogue, the rabbi announced that the brother of a former synagogue president had been involved in a serious bicycling accident and was paralyzed. The rabbi led us in a prayer,
Psalm 20, for his healing. "That's what a congregation does," the rabbi commented.
In situations like these, can prayer really help heal? Assuming, of course, that the person who's ill doesn't know he is being prayed for -- which, otherwise, could contribute to a placebo effect. Interestingly, research in recent years has given contradictory answers about the power of prayer.
How fascinating -- the underreported revelation of
modern evolutionary, genetic, and DNA science -- that physical, material causes are not enough to explain the history of life's evolution and development -- was understood by the rabbis more than a millennium ago. Rabbi Bahya ibn Paquda in
Duties of the Heart:
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