Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Law of Attraction in Action: Accepting the Bad with the Good

This is post 185 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

Do you believe that in life you have to take the good with the bad? Many people do. Not me anymore! But I used to believe that life was a series of good and bad times and we just had to roll with the bad stuff so we could enjoy the good. Everyone around me believed the same thing. You took the good with the bad. And for me, life had lots of bad, interspersed with good.

Now I know better! While I can’t say that nothing bad ever happens to me, I get a lot more good these days, now that I understand how the Law of Attraction works. If you accept that good comes with bad, then good will come with bad. It’s that simple. Your thoughts determine your reality. When you expect to have bad along with the good you get, the bad comes.

When you keep your vibration focused on good, you minimize the bad stuff you get.

Yes, things won’t always be perfect. That’s just how life is. If you let something negative get to you and your vibration reflects it, things you don’t want can slip in. But you have the power to limit and control the bad by controlling your vibration as much as possible. Learn how to make lemonade when you get hit with a lemon. It might rain on a day you planned to do things outdoors but instead of letting disappointment spoil your day, find something great to do indoors. Accept that everything happens for a reason.

The most important thing is to not sink down. When you make lemonade—by finding the good in the unexpected or negatives—you keep life sweet.

The Law of Attraction responds to your vibration. Keep thoughts of bad things out of yours as much as possible. The ratio of good to bad is in YOUR control. Control what thoughts you allow to get into your vibration. While life can sometimes gets me down, my ups are what I try to base my vibration on. That tempers the downs and helps them pass quickly. If you only allow positives to drive your vibration, you’ll keep the good coming to you!

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE
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Elise Renee Gingerich

posted April 24, 2012 at 3:34 pm


There Is This Guy I Hooked Up With Back In Early 2007, And Now I Think He’s Come Back Around, Again! To This Town Of Lawrence Kansas, Again! Wanting To Hook Up, Again! With Me, Since That Early 2007 Night, Back In Early 2007, Again! And I Don’t Want Him Back, Ever! I Never Ever Want Him To Come Back Around, Never Ever Again! If Never Ever Before! I Am Not Interested In Him, At This Point In My Life, I Am So Not Interested In Some Guy Like Him, SORRY!!!!! (I Am So Sorry, To This Doofus From Early 2007, I Am Just Not Interested In You Dumb Doofus Butt, SORRY!!!!) And Now He’s Just Floated On Back Into The Town Of Lawrence Kansas Again! Expecting Me To Hook Up And Hump Him, Again! (Well, I Had Just About Enough Of Hooking Up And Humping The Original Time Around, So Please Don’t Expect Nothing, Doofus!!!!) You Selfish man….(You Are A Selfish man If You Can Even Call Yourself A man!!!!) You Are Selfish, And I Don’t Want Selfish….



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Daylle Deanna Schwartz

posted April 25, 2012 at 9:32 am


Good for you Elise. Stay strong!



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Shontel Luvs LAW OF ATTRACTION

posted April 27, 2012 at 9:11 pm


Since I started deliberately creating with the Law of Attraction, I’ve been experience more good than bad. I don’t even consider it to be bad anymore, because I know that I have the power to change all circumstances. LOA has change my life for the better.



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Daylle Deanna Schwartz

posted April 27, 2012 at 10:30 pm


Good for you!



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Elise Renee Gingerich

posted April 30, 2012 at 10:00 pm


Oh, Well, Thank You Deanna! ;) And That’s All I Really Have To Say About That! :)



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Daylle Deanna Schwartz

posted May 1, 2012 at 11:29 am


You’re very welcome Elise!



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